I’m working on being more present for my kids. As a mom who works from home, I sometimes struggle with mentally leaving work when I step away from my computer. I find myself being snappy with the people who are excited to see me when I “leave work”. And that’s not fair. I don’t make excuses for my actions and make sure I apologize when I fall short. I’m doing better :) Wishing everyone a successful 2025! Shoutout to all the mommas! We’re superheroes and don’t ever forget it! ❤
It's amazing you're aware bc i def caught myself doing these things as well!! It's very easy to do when our home base is also our workplace. sending you love 🤍🤍✨
I will forever be grateful for you posting here and there. Now a days we don’t have time to be getting attached to anything lol… go and do as you please! And sprinkle love here and there!! I am here for the PEACEFUL LIFE. Love you girl!!! Blessings always! That’s why they say we are not destined to do just one thing.. Flourish boo boo! I give you your flowers for even going this far!!!!! 🙏🏼❤️🤍😍
Aja maybe you can do the party planning stuff in person for now, but also utilize your internet presence to do party consulting. Have people pay for planning calls if they’re far away, and you send them a rendering of how you envision their space and physically mail them the decor that you make on the cricket etc….decor that you find. Tell them how to set it up and then just charge one fee for it all. We love you over here sis❤
I watch all your videos til the end I may not comment all the time but I am so happy to see you choosing you. Mentally I am doing okay I am just coming to terms that I am about to be a empty nester at 36 because my son is starting college in 2 weeks 😢I know he's going to be fine its just a new chapter. 2024 has definitely kicked my butt as well but it's the journey of life I am just grateful for my improving health and my son is healthy so that's all that matters. ❤❤❤
Aja just think of this analogy when it comes to us: imagine you & your subscribers work in a physical place together. personally when i check on sundays & dont see a vid from you. it kinda just feels like you didnt come to work/school that day lol. hope that helps.
I get that completely! I use to definitely think that but also use to literally abuse myself mentally which i didn't think was fair to me lol. So i am trying to find a balance of not burning myself out, enjoying some moments off camera but showing up for yall as well! 🤍
Idk if you’ll see this, but keep posting. Even if it’s when you can or when u feel like it. Your content is so relatable and I appreciate you sharing your highs and lows ❤ been watching you since 2019!
Hey girl hey 🩷 I love your vlogs been a supporter since your pregnancy videos about Harp 🩷 girl I have those two songs on repeat all the time as well and Rod Wave 25🤣🤣. I absolutely agree with putting yourself first and loving those who appreciate and love on you i’ve been in my own bubble lately as well just working on my future 🙏🏾 but yeah loved this life update !
Hi Aja! It’s been a minute but I’m proud of you for putting you first. Also, if and when you get a chance, is it possible to tell me the products you use for skincare? Your face is flawless and thriving ❤️
I love your down to earth attitude and approachable material. We don’t feel like odd peasants watching something beyond our reach or undeserving subjects lol 😅
You can do multiple things! 15:24 I’m applying for medical to be a Sonographer, long road, at the same time I never wanna leave TH-cam bc I LOVE editing!! Your late 20s early 30s are for rebranding forreal
Love the chit chat! I’m here for the growth and the journey. Sorry I missed you in NYC lol. Between you and Allyiah here in NYC, I will eventually catch up with y’all.
Girlll do you! I wouldn’t give a damn lmao. I love your videos but take care of yourself first! I feel like overworking and not being present elsewhere will make you feel some type of way too. I’m the same way as far as making ppl happy. Being overly nice is my thing too and I tell myself that I need to slow down on that. I’m on the same journey of taking care of myself but it’s really hard. I tell myself to atleast do my nails and I haven’t even started that yet lol. I am also trying to prioritize family again too. I broke away and stayed in a box on an island by myself. Which is my favorite thing to do lol. Like thanksgiving?? I was like heyyyy (so awkwardly) to the biggest crowd and everyone started dying laughing lmao. It was so awkward for me but my daughter had a blast and I loved that for her. Anyways, it’s always me and my girl so I’m trying to get out of the habit of staying alone and go to my family’s house more. At least she can grow up with others and not just me cus she’s a social butterfly
25:22 if it gets banned we stickin to TH-cam. I’m not getting on IG or Facebook again, it felt so icky everytime i went back on it. TH-cam and Pinterest for now
I’m working on being more present for my kids. As a mom who works from home, I sometimes struggle with mentally leaving work when I step away from my computer. I find myself being snappy with the people who are excited to see me when I “leave work”. And that’s not fair. I don’t make excuses for my actions and make sure I apologize when I fall short. I’m doing better :) Wishing everyone a successful 2025! Shoutout to all the mommas! We’re superheroes and don’t ever forget it! ❤
It's amazing you're aware bc i def caught myself doing these things as well!! It's very easy to do when our home base is also our workplace. sending you love 🤍🤍✨
I will forever be grateful for you posting here and there. Now a days we don’t have time to be getting attached to anything lol… go and do as you please! And sprinkle love here and there!! I am here for the PEACEFUL LIFE. Love you girl!!! Blessings always! That’s why they say we are not destined to do just one thing.. Flourish boo boo! I give you your flowers for even going this far!!!!! 🙏🏼❤️🤍😍
Aja maybe you can do the party planning stuff in person for now, but also utilize your internet presence to do party consulting. Have people pay for planning calls if they’re far away, and you send them a rendering of how you envision their space and physically mail them the decor that you make on the cricket etc….decor that you find. Tell them how to set it up and then just charge one fee for it all.
We love you over here sis❤
Family always comes first ❤
Girl I be watching your videos till the end😂🫶🏽
Yessss we love chit chats w/ Aja
I watch all your videos til the end I may not comment all the time but I am so happy to see you choosing you. Mentally I am doing okay I am just coming to terms that I am about to be a empty nester at 36 because my son is starting college in 2 weeks 😢I know he's going to be fine its just a new chapter. 2024 has definitely kicked my butt as well but it's the journey of life I am just grateful for my improving health and my son is healthy so that's all that matters. ❤❤❤
Aja just think of this analogy when it comes to us: imagine you & your subscribers work in a physical place together. personally when i check on sundays & dont see a vid from you. it kinda just feels like you didnt come to work/school that day lol. hope that helps.
I get that completely! I use to definitely think that but also use to literally abuse myself mentally which i didn't think was fair to me lol. So i am trying to find a balance of not burning myself out, enjoying some moments off camera but showing up for yall as well! 🤍
Live yo life boo! We love you 😘🥰
Idk if you’ll see this, but keep posting. Even if it’s when you can or when u feel like it. Your content is so relatable and I appreciate you sharing your highs and lows ❤ been watching you since 2019!
Hey girl hey 🩷 I love your vlogs been a supporter since your pregnancy videos about Harp 🩷 girl I have those two songs on repeat all the time as well and Rod Wave 25🤣🤣.
I absolutely agree with putting yourself first and loving those who appreciate and love on you i’ve been in my own bubble lately as well just working on my future 🙏🏾 but yeah loved this life update !
Hey Asia thanks for always being open with us subscribers because you don't have too.
Hi Aja!
It’s been a minute but I’m proud of you for putting you first. Also, if and when you get a chance, is it possible to tell me the products you use for skincare? Your face is flawless and thriving ❤️
I love your down to earth attitude and approachable material. We don’t feel like odd peasants watching something beyond our reach or undeserving subjects lol 😅
You can do multiple things! 15:24 I’m applying for medical to be a Sonographer, long road, at the same time I never wanna leave TH-cam bc I LOVE editing!! Your late 20s early 30s are for rebranding forreal
Love the chit chat! I’m here for the growth and the journey. Sorry I missed you in NYC lol. Between you and Allyiah here in NYC, I will eventually catch up with y’all.
You look great!! Lemme grab a snack and watch this ❤
like this set up !!!
I’m cracking up…”Am I supposed to ask myself questions” 😂😂
Hey Aja…love your vlogs. Can you do a home tour?
12:48 FELT! I had been doing so much. Personal Bible study helped ALOT, not to sound cliche
Does the pay cut not give u anxiety I’ve always wondered when content creators that don’t have another source of income how do they cope
Hey Aja, where did you get your bed frame (headboard)
from ??? plzzz
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❤understandable
What did you do to get rid of the dark spot or where did you go. Ugh I’m struggling. Some advice pls
Party planning can travel with you and be virtually done as well
Girlll do you! I wouldn’t give a damn lmao. I love your videos but take care of yourself first! I feel like overworking and not being present elsewhere will make you feel some type of way too.
I’m the same way as far as making ppl happy. Being overly nice is my thing too and I tell myself that I need to slow down on that. I’m on the same journey of taking care of myself but it’s really hard. I tell myself to atleast do my nails and I haven’t even started that yet lol. I am also trying to prioritize family again too. I broke away and stayed in a box on an island by myself. Which is my favorite thing to do lol. Like thanksgiving?? I was like heyyyy (so awkwardly) to the biggest crowd and everyone started dying laughing lmao. It was so awkward for me but my daughter had a blast and I loved that for her. Anyways, it’s always me and my girl so I’m trying to get out of the habit of staying alone and go to my family’s house more. At least she can grow up with others and not just me cus she’s a social butterfly
I love the alo sweater what color is that?
she is wearing color “Gravel”
“&& my coat, everyone always love my got damn coat” 😂😂😂
Chile i been posting this coat for 2 years im TIDE 😭😂
@ you’re so funny I watch every video you post 😂😂
Am I gonna need tissues for this 😢
25:22 if it gets banned we stickin to TH-cam. I’m not getting on IG or Facebook again, it felt so icky everytime i went back on it. TH-cam and Pinterest for now
I agree!
Heyyy Aja! Love your vlogs! Can you tell me if you had Invisilign or braces. Trying to decide which to get haha. Thanks!
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Def been working on my mental..2024 kicked my asss😢
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20:14 I lost my uncle this year too 🥺 i’m so sorry. May he Rise in Paradise so you can see him again, Revelation 21:4 🤍
Have you already watched Outlander?
Yessss omfg i was an outlander Stan!!!i have fo watch the newest season
Theres literally nuffin new in stores lol
🥹💕
I thought I was the only one who thought that there’s something about Philly that makes me not want to dress well!
I think it's a mix of everything gets burnt out here and when you do get dressed people don't get it lol so baby Philly gonna get these sweats ok
I wanna kno ya expectations of ya man
lol I don’t like Kendrick’s music either ! Def not my vibe but Luther is everything 😂
He ate Luther so baddddd lmao
“G Damn “ it’s uncomfortable to keeping hearing blasphemy sprinkled in so many times.
TikTok will never get band. It makes too much money!
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