The Realities of Living in Thailand as a Foreigner

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  • Curious about what it's really like to live in Thailand as a foreigner? In this video, we'll give you a glimpse into the ups and downs of expat life in this fascinating country. From cultural differences to everyday challenges, we'll cover what you need to know before making the move. So whether you're considering a move to Thailand or just curious about life abroad, don't miss this informative video.
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  • @stevebone88
    @stevebone88 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Bad driving. Extreme humidity and heat. Flooding. Treated like a forigner. Well, I've lived in Florida for 40+ years, so I should be ok.

    • @Taz-bz6mt
      @Taz-bz6mt 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @normanpearson8753
      @normanpearson8753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hihihihi

    • @charlesbasso7115
      @charlesbasso7115 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, keep your criminality, your junk foods, your common people total lack of Eductation, keep your repressive police, your corrupted politicians...... stay in Florida. More room for us here

    • @mischievousgamer8747
      @mischievousgamer8747 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🤣 you are well prepared!

  • @drdellaman
    @drdellaman 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I have lived in Thailand for six years. When I go visit relatives in California I can't wait to get to Thailand.

  • @Onraitravels
    @Onraitravels 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    All valid points that I have heard many times, both in watching you tube videos and living in 5+ years.
    Here are my observations for what they are worth
    A. There is a visa service in every major city in Thailand. You can pay to get your retirement visa and so the whole criticism about visa is moot. You have the money you can get a long term visa.
    B. The smoke is a real issue in the north. They burn sugarcane and rice fields and it miserable. That said, if you live near Sacramento, CA you will experience the same issue. Thousands of rice field that need to be burned near the state capitol. Last I googled it Sacramento ranked near the top of world’s worst air quality during the burn season.
    C. Motorcycles are inherently more dangerous and most people ride motorcycles in Thailand. It stands to reason there are going to be more accidents. Is the traffic worse here than other places. That depends on what you are comparing it to. Bali has the worst traffic of any country I traveled to.
    D. Is it safe? That question comes up a lot. An short anecdote might be amusing. I met my girlfriend on the main beach street in Patong, Phuket. We are 1 block from the Bangla (bar district), arguably not the best neighborhood. We go across the street to eat Indian food and she leaves her suitcase in the middle of the sidewalk. We have dinner, cross the street, pick up the suitcase and go home. Where else in the world would you feel assured that your bag was going to be there when you got back.
    E. People are poor, barely have enough to eat but you rarely see homelessness. On the other hand, homelessness has reached disastrous proportions in CA.
    F. Safety- you either believe that laws and police are going to protect or you take responsibility for your own safety. Sure it cuts both ways. You don’t depend on a crosswalk to protect you in Thailand while crossing the street, but it is your life and your responsibility to protect it. That means you have a heightened sense of the dangers around you in Thailand. I don’t think that is necessarily a bad thing. In my experience, people become complacent when they think a law is going to protect them.
    G. That you are always perceived as a foreigner. That is the same anywhere. When my family moved to another city in CA., we were still outsiders after living there 25 years.
    The video has many valid points, but it has to be put into context of other countries and cultures.

    • @thereelahmsast8524
      @thereelahmsast8524 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Loved this. Well said.

    • @ctb1977
      @ctb1977 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree with all of these. Regarding visas, this comes with being a foreigner in any country. I'm from the UK and my Asian friends living in the UK have to pay a lot more, and go through a lot more BS than we do here in Thailand.
      Another thing about safety. A lot of us are here to get away from our nanny states. I like the fact I'm responsible for my own safety.
      The only point I agree with in this video is the pollution and the dual pricing in National parks. Those things suck, but balancing the pros and cons I'm very happy here, and live an incredible quality of life in Thailand compared to UK

  • @darryl.c7972
    @darryl.c7972 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Left CA after 30 years 1987-2017. Been married to my Thai wife for 14 years, live here now for six years in Chiang Mai and have a ten fold life compared to San Diego! Everything you said is spot on, altho my retirement visa I do yearly is never a problem and I do my 90 day report online..No desire to ever return to U.S.

    • @dimitar297
      @dimitar297 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My wife I discovered after getting married was born a boy and even though she does not have a large penis I feel she should have told me.

    • @sat_lok_
      @sat_lok_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wish I could do the same. How much money do you need to live comfortably?

    • @ksingh06
      @ksingh06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@dimitar297 damn, you did not discover this before marriage?

    • @BigTimTravels
      @BigTimTravels หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm in my mid 20s and planning to visit Thailand with my father. been looking at condos also. I'm thinking about buying a nice little spot there in the future. But wanna visit for a month before I spend 40k on a condo

    • @monteblazilla7776
      @monteblazilla7776 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dimitar297wtf 😳

  • @glennfletcher9699
    @glennfletcher9699 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I lived in Thailand for 32 years. I read, write, and speak good Thai. I have lived in Indonesia since 2014. I prefer Indonesia.

    • @lynnbrooks2430
      @lynnbrooks2430 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      May I ask where in Indonesia you live?

    • @glennfletcher9699
      @glennfletcher9699 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I live in place that is not well known. Balikpapan.@@lynnbrooks2430

  • @vcom2327
    @vcom2327 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I lived in Thailand for 9 years with my Thai wife.
    I finally left because of the visa nonsense. I had to jump through hoops every year, no guarantee I would get a new visa, despite being married to a Thai.
    During the pandemic, the government said Thais could return from abroad. They forgot to include foreign spouses. As a result I was separated from my wife for 5 months, as were more than 5000 other spouses. Woooo.
    Driving is very dangerous, Thailand has the highest traffic fatality rate in the world.
    Yes, there is a higher foreigner price. I lived in Koh Lanta where it was extreme. Foreigners were charged double for virtually everything. From street food, to car repairs to rent to hospital visits to government documents. Scary.
    I left Chiang Mai after 1 year due to the pollution problem. Chiang Mai has an extremely high rate of lung disease.
    Government corruption is rampant. From the lowly civil servant demanding a bribe to stamp my simple document, to the government minor official demanding a bribe to issue my marriage license, to my immigration man demanding a bribe to complete my visa, to the majority of the upper levels of government.
    Very tiresome environment to live in.
    Almost every household appliance you buy in Thailand will self destruct within 6 months to 1 year. Planned obsolescence in the extreme.
    And yes, you will always be a foreigner in Thailand. No matter how hard you try to bridge the culture gap.
    Excellent report.

    • @zacharyfair6738
      @zacharyfair6738 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      all the surrounding countries want to move to thialand. So they have to be strict. The northern tribe people are 2-3 generations deep and no citizen ship

    • @ductritran8637
      @ductritran8637 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plus taxi and Tuktuk so untrustworthy rip off dishonest . I can ignore hustlers on the street but hotels where family stay are full of prostitutes , they allowed guest to bring prostitutes to theirs room with extra charge even 4 stars hotel where we stay , not an environment for family with kid . Thai still a country of sex tourism that is fact , bars , massage shop , street hookers everywhere all over tourist areas.

    • @michaelparker4262
      @michaelparker4262 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is no visa issue.Ive had one for 20 years there are no hurdles to jump through just follow the requirements.Once in a blue moon hurricanes in America are you serious there have been dozens in the last few months.Cant watch any more total BS

    • @philippeschilliger6636
      @philippeschilliger6636 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I fully agree with your comment. I also had to face corruption for my mariage visa and every year for its renewal I feel like betting on my life. In my country which is France after 7 years a foreigner can get the French citizenship. In Thailand no matter if I am married to a Thaï woman, if I have children with her, If I have been living for 30 years in Thailand, if I employ thai people to make a business run I will always considered as a " farang".
      That's why I don't really invest time and energy in learning Thaï. I am " disposable" and I know it. I live in Thailand but a part of me is not present...

  • @bonneville1972
    @bonneville1972 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    We live cross the border in laos and often drive over to thailand for a dose of modernity. Compared to Laos, I find the driving in Thailand refreshingly good - people use lanes, use indicators, don’t tailgate at 100kph, and mostly aren’t so drunk they can’t stand up. Try driving in Vientiane for a week and you will feel a lot better about driving in Chiang Mai!

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow 😯

    • @JohnDuffy-bq8wg
      @JohnDuffy-bq8wg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How does Laos compare with Thailand for costs ie rental of condo or villa, food transport, I'm looking to retire from UK for a decade or so, then coming back to UK if I make it to 65 /70 years or so, thanks for any info

    • @paulgallagher2937
      @paulgallagher2937 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I find it very hard to believe that any country has more drunk drivers than Thailand. Do the cars in Laos have built in beer tappers in the dashboard?

  • @stevemorrisanamericaninasia
    @stevemorrisanamericaninasia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    The Thai Elite visa (I have 20 years visa) only goes for $25k USD. Divide that my 20 years and the fee is minimal. Each Immigration update is managed by third party at no additional expense. Airport fast-track, limo service (to/from), discounts on many items like golf, all included. Bank account opened - with no minimum balance required.
    For the money - Thai Elite visa is a great deal.
    Regarding safety - compare anywhere in Thailand to Chicago, NY Shitty, Lost Angels, etc ... Think about it!

    • @sfm9
      @sfm9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Full Ack, I applied at 5th August. New prices will come on 1st Oct it will be 5 times higher for the 20y. Old prices (1 Mio BHT) only if you apply until 15th Sept.

    • @marinlaomana7225
      @marinlaomana7225 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What about the income tax? No one mention about the income tax in Thailand. How do you handle it?

    • @stevemorrisanamericaninasia
      @stevemorrisanamericaninasia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marinlaomana7225 TBD. Tax on money arriving into Thailand is the present issue with "details" yet to be determined...

    • @marinlaomana7225
      @marinlaomana7225 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stevemorrisanamericaninasia Thanks. I’m planning to retire in Thailand and the new tax system gave me a pause. Not sure if I have to pay twice when I’m already paid it in the US.

    • @stevemorrisanamericaninasia
      @stevemorrisanamericaninasia 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@marinlaomana7225 We await details on funds wired and/or deposited into Thai bank account. Earned income is not the issue as Thai and US have tax treaty so earned income not double taxed. The new tax levy is on all funds coming into Thai and deposited - like retirement funds to live off of, etc ...
      If you open or deposit money into a Thai bank account and are US citizen then it gets reported to US tax authority. You then trigger Thai tax.

  • @garywayell7211
    @garywayell7211 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Been all over Thailand dont think its to bad on the roads,you need to go to India thats absolutely crazy driving to the extreme,

    • @IQD1million
      @IQD1million หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, crazy, but it still flows. Crazy how that is. Cross the road at your own risk 😂

  • @daidavies6210
    @daidavies6210 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ex Pats Don’t own the property or the land its built on, When you buy a Property you actually only own 40% of it and your not allowed to own the land just like in the Philippines… You have to have a Thai Wife or Business to own a Property , But you will Never own the land .. So don’t buy Property Rent It …

    • @rogergr5019
      @rogergr5019 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      49% to be precise

  • @gaeldesmontagnesnoires1711
    @gaeldesmontagnesnoires1711 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Most impressive about this video is to witness an american that has shed his aggressivity .. Makes me wonder if I can shed mine because of the genuinely Kind people of Thailand

  • @keepitreal1547
    @keepitreal1547 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is an excellent take on things in the land of smiles.
    Very helpful to many, thank you.

  • @pvasir
    @pvasir 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I lived in USA for 42 years and I am still a foreigner since I am originally from India. Even living in Thailand I am a still considered as a foreigner. Oh well. Live amd let live.

  • @Yorker1998
    @Yorker1998 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've had fantasies about living there. I think the food alone is reason enough to just visit there. I think the hot weather would drive me crazy though.

    • @angelofechter5666
      @angelofechter5666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      u get used to it. i lived there for a year and later i was wearing long black sweat pants and long black tshirts hahah, no issue. but when it was heat season i guess i didnt do that:D there were periods of the year where all of the backpackers stayed around air conditioners it was impossible to do anything outside

    • @Volkbrecht
      @Volkbrecht 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@angelofechter5666 You never get used to humid. Living in a somewhat hot region myself, the only real difference is that people are not immediately put off by seing someone with sweat stains on their clothes. But while you can indeed adapt to heat as such, once it gets humid it just feels all round disgusting wearing clothes and moving around outside.

    • @paulgallagher2937
      @paulgallagher2937 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I never really liked the Thai food. Much of it was so crazy spicy it would actually make me sick to eat it. And then the cheaper restaurants and street food was of highly questionable quality, safety and origin. Lots of good restaurants there, but the every day food is sketchy to say the least.

  • @Retirementbliss
    @Retirementbliss ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As always great job with the videos. Inspired me to create my checklist for the move next year.

  • @ErikBlair
    @ErikBlair ปีที่แล้ว +30

    It's great to hear how moving to Thailand has personally made you happier. Coming from your perspective that's meaningful to me because I find myself agreeing with your take on a lot of the "issues" of living there. I like your style and appreciate your videos. Thank you!

  • @kleerogers
    @kleerogers ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the biggest issue is Chiang Mai is the smoke, for many months a year it is a dangerous place to live, very bad for your health, this is the reason I would never live in Chiang Mai. Sad really, SE Asia has a huge problem with crop burning, it needs to be resolved through countries cooperating and working out a solution, it is getting worse

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SE Asia is completely ignorant on environmental issues, and crop burning should be banned or trade restrictions imposed. They need to be taught about mulching and composting. Very lazy, ignorant farmers …

  • @Kevin60611
    @Kevin60611 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thankyou so much. I am at the point of making a life decision to move from Canada to Thailand. Was there in Dec/Jan. not for everyone, but I loved the vibe, the people, just the way of life. I think always being a foreigner, is the same as in any country, people moving to North America will always feel a bit of a feeling of , not prejudice, but not a local.
    Anyway, some very good points.

  • @7rucus11
    @7rucus11 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I lived in Thailand for ten years. In 2014 I moved back to the USA. My wife(Thai) and two daughters (Thai) and I will be moving back to Thailand next summer full time. To each his own.

  • @brendonoehme8707
    @brendonoehme8707 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was an awesome vlog. Thanks heaps. Regards
    Brendon

  • @MikeR2111
    @MikeR2111 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your videos thanks for making these!

  • @jamaicanjjason
    @jamaicanjjason ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing

  • @scottDchicago
    @scottDchicago 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Insightful information provided in an honest manner! Great episode.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @MrLee-kh5tg
    @MrLee-kh5tg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks! Great information!!!

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @patrickglennon7058
    @patrickglennon7058 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very down to earth and realistic information

  • @gregski806
    @gregski806 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great information.

  • @kagubirumeddy-tm7kl
    @kagubirumeddy-tm7kl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hello sir ,first I'm appreciative for the tremendous work that you do about updating the world on the useful things they have to do when opting for Thailand

  • @jean-charlesdesjardins6344
    @jean-charlesdesjardins6344 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great tips! Thank you for your insight 👍👍

  • @IndigoChiangmaiRealEstate
    @IndigoChiangmaiRealEstate ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice video, Tony. Glad you still like living here despite the "realities"... but I guess there are ups and downs in every place!

  • @leeandersen9298
    @leeandersen9298 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WONDERFUL REVIEW! BEST OF ALL - LEE

  • @gwitproductions5505
    @gwitproductions5505 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great content bro 🌍

  • @halojumper5105
    @halojumper5105 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very cool good description indeed!

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it! 🇹🇭😊

  • @mauimixer6040
    @mauimixer6040 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such an honest video!

  • @TheDane824
    @TheDane824 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been binge watching many of your videos. Subscribed and 'like'.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awesome! Thank you!

  • @frankf8134
    @frankf8134 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video !

  • @chipbuttytime3396
    @chipbuttytime3396 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the template for no nonsense informative videos, thank you

  • @dmystify1381
    @dmystify1381 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ...rock solid advice.

  • @ht7832
    @ht7832 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very goid info ,enjoyed your video

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @coryriley2294
    @coryriley2294 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally a truthful video thank you

  • @jeff5001
    @jeff5001 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points, all of them.

  • @oneinchpunched3661
    @oneinchpunched3661 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello. I’ve been watching about ten of your videos lately and just subscribed. Not commenting on anything in particular but just want to say that your content is great and I really enjoy the calm pace of your videos and speech. A lot of the times I work and can’t see the video but you are doing a great job of being direct but very personal. Keep up what you are doing. 👍

  • @gwitproductions5505
    @gwitproductions5505 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great visa content 🌍

  • @johnsealy831
    @johnsealy831 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I've lived in Chiang Mai for 18 years now. An aspect of the "non confrontational Yes" that is humorous (until it happens to you!), regards asking for directions. If you ask a local where something is located, and they've never heard of it, they'll just tell you they don't know; but, if you ask them where something is located that they feel they should know - such as a famous temple, for instance - they may feel that not knowing would cause them to "lose face". So, they may pretend to know where it is, and confidently give you directions - probably figuring, in part, that they'll never see you again! I'm also surprised that no one has pointed out, there may be tax advantages for Americans who retire to Thailand, because of a tax treaty between the US and Thailand. It mostly applies to long time permanent residents who have certain types of income: large pensions, or tax deferred assets, such as a 401(k), annuity, or an IRA, for instance.

  • @genegunnin2654
    @genegunnin2654 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very well done.

  • @boranbkk4270
    @boranbkk4270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’ve lived here for 25 years. The visa process is a bit irritating but very easy to manage. Visa agents exist.

  • @colezg2947
    @colezg2947 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good video 😊 I'm in the exploring stage in Thailand. Have a 6 month visa. I'm really enjoying it so far definitely different from New Zealand 😅

  • @kevinreily2529
    @kevinreily2529 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Once a year I go to Chaeng Wattana, with the required documents, and get my Retirement Visa. Thailand would be overrun with foreigners if they made it any easier. In Malaysia they give you a 5 year visa. If they did that in Thailand it would be decimated, because every unhappy man living in the West would flock to Siam. No place is perfect, but Thailand is a good place to be for people who appreciate it.

    • @willsmith39
      @willsmith39 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I see no reason to believe that at all. As you point out it hasn't caused issues in Malaysia which by many objective measures is a better place to retire than Thailand anyway.
      As I understand it even if you pay up for the Elite visa you are still forced to do this 90 day reporting thing which is nuts.
      I had looked at retiring in Thailand but the visa hassle is a major turn off for me.
      So it'll be Malaysia most likely if I decide to actually leave HK where I got pernanent residency after 7 years so don't have to go through any immigration hurdles and haven't for 25 years now.

    • @sfm9
      @sfm9 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The 90 day online reporting for Thai Elite members is mandantory only if you stay there more than 90 days. Thailand has a concept which people they like to be there - Europe gave up long time ago.@@willsmith39

  • @mariec6206
    @mariec6206 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New subscriber. Thanks for your insight.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awesome, thank you for watching & subscribing! 🇹🇭☺️

  • @indiandaeng
    @indiandaeng ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With he heat up north now at 36-39C and heat index of 108F, it takes determination to stay during the hot months.

  • @j.t.5876
    @j.t.5876 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said man.

  • @ianpatrick23
    @ianpatrick23 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is one of the best videos I’ve seen about expat life in Thailand

  • @DrJohnPollard
    @DrJohnPollard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like this direct straight-shooting type of review. There's a lot of "blue sky" content out there as well.

  • @dlhanson51
    @dlhanson51 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The answer for a long term visa with few issues is the long term residence visa for wealthy pensioners. A 10 year visa (have to prove you still meet income and insurance requirements at 5 years) that has no 90 day reporting requirement.

  • @keithd1219
    @keithd1219 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Riding a scooter in Thailand....constantly scooters driving the wrong way on one way streets...constantly and they don't yield to you driving the correct way. Making turns, don't leave any space....I had a scooter fly by me on my left just a millisecond prior to me turning ..I had my signal on and was slowing to turn...they are very aggressive and thats minus any alcohol influence.
    If a car flashes its lights at you, they aren't telling you to go ahead, they're saying "get out of my way or ill run you over!"

    • @stephenhalloway6633
      @stephenhalloway6633 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I've spent many years in Asia from the 70s on,walk when you can,in hot weather get everything done by 11am,beware of slippery tiles!,hone your intuition, learn the language, drink in moderation and give Cambodia a go!!

  • @lisas44
    @lisas44 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for letting us know some things to be aware of. This is about my third Thailand video today and the people who say they love it they can’t really explain why. Maybe you could put a video out kind of explaining the things you like about Thailand

  • @islandbreeze2102
    @islandbreeze2102 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Wow you’re really courageous and I command you for telling it like it is!! Bravo 👏👏👏Nearly no one on TH-cam dares to tell the truth and list the cons to any destination in fear of backlash. All they’re willing to expose are the positive aspects and how wonderful and perfect a destination is. If you’re an adult we all know that there’s no perfect place on this planet. You giving us the true facts both positive and negative is equivalent to us reading a contract before signing it. We can examine the terms and decide for ourselves if the advantages outweigh the disadvantages or vice and versa. Thank you so so much! Keep up the excellent work. Love your channel.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you very much for the kind words!

  • @richardwashington8219
    @richardwashington8219 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you very much, we really appreciate it!!! 😊🇹🇭

  • @michaelwright5976
    @michaelwright5976 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I agree with you 100% everything you said.

  • @randyh.6928
    @randyh.6928 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've visited CM four times but always in November, which as you say is one of the best months weather-wise. I am coming for six weeks starting in June, so I will get to experience the heat you are talking about! Please clear up the smokey skies for me, 555. Hopefully Songkran will wash it away.

  • @suresureYT
    @suresureYT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lived there for 7 years. It was and still is the best experience of my life and I always miss it. Once you get comfortable with all these things mentioned it’s the best place to live and will give you a fulfilling life. On the clothing theme, I had to buy work shirts for the office but the sleeves were always way too short so I spent the whole time rolling the cuffs back to disguise it!

    • @BigTimTravels
      @BigTimTravels หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm in my mid 20s lol I kinda wanna go buy a little condo for a few months and just escape for 60 days

    • @BigTimTravels
      @BigTimTravels หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm gonna take advantage of the yes factory. I'll be like my shady uncle that wants more but it super nice

  • @francishailes60
    @francishailes60 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great to hear Ur honesty and straight forward observations and advice mate about living in thailand

  • @lightbox1974
    @lightbox1974 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree

  • @wanhawkins3513
    @wanhawkins3513 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Honest comments..
    You are too kind, all true
    and more..

  • @2kkto2
    @2kkto2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dual pricing: In USA a local county golf course has 2 prices, one for locals.. a State university is much more expensive for people out of state... the dual pricing is there, it just doesn't look exactly the same... ok, I can go on abt other points too, imagine being a Thai wanting to live in USA? What we have to do is cheap and easy in comparison.. I use an agent but for many years did my own visa - and yes, I speak Thai and have lived many years in a village and I am well accepted and assimilated... but you get back what you give out... BUT yes yes yes to your conclusion... the people and culture and language are fun and wonderful and I would never want to live elsewhere...

  • @firstnamelastname-im5iz
    @firstnamelastname-im5iz ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am retired and will be moving to Thailand within 45 days to live in a village near Nang Rong where my fiancée has a home. I have spent a lot of time there during the past 6 years I've been visiting and enjoy the rural life. I've learned that everything you said is very true. It will be a breath of fresh air for me too...except during the smoky season.😅

    • @indiandaeng
      @indiandaeng ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your biggest hurdle will be opening a bank account in Thailand necessary for a long term visa. Get a registered marriage certificate first, a few banks may allow you to open an escrow account to use for the 400,000 baht minimum for a marriage visa with the certificate.

    • @Jersey2WorldTravels
      @Jersey2WorldTravels ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Good luck on your move. Just don't get married too quickly. There is a big difference between visiting and spending time for years....and living with someone full time. I did the same thing and my ex changed once we were living together full time and married. People warned me and I thought they were crazy. Nope. They were right that I should've taken my time. If you stay in her home country then you have a better chance. Protect your finances also. Some women/their family can milk you dry without you even realizing it.

    • @mauimixer6040
      @mauimixer6040 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Consider taking a 2 month vacation somewhere south (away from the smoke,phuhket?)?

    • @jackdoe3889
      @jackdoe3889 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@indiandaeng Common misconception which the Thai immigration happily passes around. By law the money does NOT need to be in a Thai bank.

  • @Duncandisorderly9111
    @Duncandisorderly9111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I retired Thailand years ago take the good with the bad as you do even in your own country I live in the North the smoke doesn't affect me one bit having said that maybe I'll drop dead tomorrow 😅

  • @jamesankiewicz3141
    @jamesankiewicz3141 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good video amigo

  • @saddq1
    @saddq1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice vid man. I live in Saudi Arabia now and insha Allah I will move to Yala City this year.
    My wife is Malay Muslim but has Thai passport and wants me to come live in Islamic Yala. I know some other Arabs there who work as Dawah teachers.
    Keep making your videos. I enjoy them

  • @DominanteMegaLit
    @DominanteMegaLit ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings to The Narrow Gate Team and to all the Beautiful and Virtuous Thai and Asian Peoples!
    Actually I can give a proper explanation and a detour on point 5 of your very informative and priceless video:
    There are two types of thinking: one is personal, and the other is collective thinking.
    In the West, also in my country in Europe (with the slowest home-sale bureaucracy not only in Europe), where we are so individualistic and sometimes sharp and jumpy, and are kind of the opposite to the Asian people in ways of community and family thinking, which are very important - In Europe we talk with people about our personal business on the street, but for an example we don't talk about values or money even with our friends. I hope you catch my comparison.
    I think that the Thai Brothers and Sisters, a Virtuous Buddhist Nation, got it absolutely right and their way is a good way. Just as the Japanese people, as a matter of fact.
    The collective thinking is beneficial and very important!!!
    A little joke on the matter ofcourse: You, should agree more, Tony! 🙏🙏🙏😆😆😁
    Thank you for the video, you are the best!

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you very much for the kind words! 🙂

  • @srgba244
    @srgba244 ปีที่แล้ว

    True! 👍

  • @andrewhanson5942
    @andrewhanson5942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks guy. You talked me out of it.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad I could help

  • @peterbekker8051
    @peterbekker8051 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    About visa: If you are working and/or under 50 years old, the Visa process, such as 'Non-O' can be very annoying, even when your purpose is 'taking care of Thai wife'. However, those elder 50Y living here after retirement can get the easy retirement visa (cost 1,900 Baht); you'll get it the same day. All you need is one formula, an actual picture, some few PP copies, an actual bank statement (same day!) confirming that for several months you're always been above 400,000 Baht (10K €) when married or the double, when unmarried. If this little money is an issue, stay at home. Not asked for this kind of visa, but strongly recommended: a sufficient health insurance! The 90-day extension can be easily made online; no cost. Good luck.

  • @imflyingoverclouds
    @imflyingoverclouds ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Let's be honest. Digital nomads are individual colonists, nothing more. It is so normal to restrict foreign residency in a country. It is necessary to protect common people.

    • @LifeWithRilla
      @LifeWithRilla 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmfao, found a liberal spewing this bs. Stop and learn to cope.

    • @RealSerie26
      @RealSerie26 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What exactly are you protecting? What is the threat?

  • @tahnaiyarussell
    @tahnaiyarussell 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm concerned about the driving too. My friends brother died in Thailand, he was on a moped and got into an accident.

  • @peterreston6478
    @peterreston6478 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Probably the best presentation on Thailand I have seen. This guy obviously knows what he is talking about. None of the best place to retire BS so common on the web. The smoky season is a big problem and effectively rules out retirement for seniors.

  • @mcm95403
    @mcm95403 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting about the accidents. Over my 10 trips there I've spent a total of almost a year and don't recall ever seeing an accident.

  • @sonyjamia3051
    @sonyjamia3051 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I am glad that you pointed out negatives of living in Thailand. Which are all true.

  • @GiGiDollTV
    @GiGiDollTV 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If you want to live in Asia for a year or more I suggest spending three months in Thailand then Vietnam, Philippines, Indonesia, etc. It's a lot easier to get a triple entry tourist visa for three months than trying to stay longer. Just visit some other ASEAN destinations for variety.

  • @fluffy5534
    @fluffy5534 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    great video. Thank you. Question: does Amazon deliver to Thailand?

  • @jodyweikal7596
    @jodyweikal7596 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Tony..DAMN. You hit another one out of the park with this video. I totally agree. Leaving next week after being here for 1 month. Got my retirement visa. Going home to sell and returning end 2023/beginning 2024. Already looking forward to my new life. I love here in CM. BUT, I will rely exclusively on public type of transport. Don’t want to be a statistic. Again, thanks again.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏

    • @thomasjohnrobinson4658
      @thomasjohnrobinson4658 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      When you get here rent don't buy,and if a girl wants you to build a house in her village on land you don't have to buy DONT.

    • @mykalhenry
      @mykalhenry 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@thomasjohnrobinson4658 I seen this go bad with friends, strangers. Consider any investment GONE. And if you get a return well you hit a bit of a lottery.

    • @MonkeyHero
      @MonkeyHero 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mykalhenrymay i ask more on why you say any investments are to be considered gone? I thought foreigners were doing better for themselves lately with buying houses out there.

    • @thomasjohnrobinson4658
      @thomasjohnrobinson4658 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MonkeyHero you read things like people are doing well on investments BUT find one except an agent of some sort who takes money in advance and has someone in a bank and immigration who will do short cuts for you at an undesclosed price which only the agent knows.I know people in Thailand that have property for sale and can't even get a viewing.

  • @orawanjan3442
    @orawanjan3442 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    dear mr gate, if the temperature and dust are your allergy then please search for europe & america destination. but if you like low cost of living then you need to build a house with huge waterfall sponge stones with moss fern trees phillodendron monstera fill up your garden with slant to shelter your waterfall from the sun.

  • @monkichiii9999
    @monkichiii9999 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am a first generation immigrant to the US. Some of the (cultural) challenges mentioned here are exactly what me and parents had to go through. IMHO, it's not Thailand. It's just difference in culture.

  • @joeshmooo5327
    @joeshmooo5327 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I grew up in a resort town, they to had different prices for residents versus vacationers

  • @martypoll
    @martypoll 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    The only real visa problem in Thailand is the lack of long term visas for single people under 50 years old. Otherwise the visa system is a little complex but offers a variety of options. Every country has visa requirements and procedures.
    Traffic is crazy here simply because there are a lot more motorbikes than westerners are used to. 75% of accidents are motorbike accidents.
    Thailand has tropical weather but note that we don’t get cyclones so overall the weather isn’t that bad. And in case you’ve missed it there are weather challenges all over the world these days.
    There is dual pricing but the higher price is probably less than in parks & attractions in your home country. I just saw a video showing the entry fee to Cape Canaveral, FL to be $75. 😮 On the flip side I find it nice that entry fees for locals are low enough for poorer families to enjoy these sites.
    The non confrontational culture is a blessing compared to western culture. Saving face is a big deal but it is one of many cultural differences in a foreign country and, hey, isn’t culture part of the reason you are here?
    Yes you are correct - safety comes last. I used to be an engineer at a US National laboratory. I know safety.
    Clothes - no matter what your size you are 1-2 sizes larger in Thailand.
    I’m fine with being a foreigner in Thailand. Sometimes that results in extra deference.
    I agree, Thailand is awesome 🌴

    • @davidomalley926
      @davidomalley926 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree with all above. All good "problems".

    • @asterisk911
      @asterisk911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I just bought a 20-year Thailand Elite membership and called it a day.

    • @martypoll
      @martypoll 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@asterisk911 Which was a great choice for people under 50 until they just announced the new rates. I’ve got a 10 year pensioner Long Term Residency visa.

    • @Harki146
      @Harki146 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@martypoll wow just saw the new rates! off the charts!

    • @bladerunner.1984
      @bladerunner.1984 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not true - you can buy Thai Elite, it's only $30000 for 5 years. If you work for Google or Airbnb, and make >$80K a year, you can get 10 years.
      For comparison, the average residence by investment in Asia will cost anywhere between $300K - $500K.
      So it's not that Thailand doesn't offer long term visas, it's just they are not for backpackers.
      But it's all the same in asia - they don't care where you from, they only care how much cash you can bring on the table.
      Disappointed? Well Asia isn't the same as it was few decades ago, when an average white dude from the "first world" can get anything he wants for a few dollars and a bowl of rice.

  • @petyopetrov2048
    @petyopetrov2048 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for the nice video .I was in Thailand and drove from Pattaya to Roi Et to Ayutthaya to other placed .I was so so nice .The problem is that when i came back to working , my mind still stuck in magic Thailand .And i will come back .....

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I know that feeling

  • @limitlesspotential9599
    @limitlesspotential9599 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    02:00 I’m from NYC and living in Turkey. They drive insane here brother.
    Thanks for the video btw.

    • @TheNarrowGate
      @TheNarrowGate  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for watching!

  • @TheBearStudios
    @TheBearStudios 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The 90 day Report is easy.
    Can do this online after the first 90 day report which MUST be done in person. Perfectly reasonable in my mind.
    After that the annual renewal of the Retirement VISA is just a formality.
    We only need to look at the immigration MESS in USA , UK Europe and Scandinavian nations to see why Thailand is quite keen to have a bit more control. But nothing is perfect, in any nation.

  • @MrEye4get
    @MrEye4get 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Frequent changes with VISA requirements are indeed a challenge, especially when it comes to a long-term planning. The older I get, the more I worry Thailand will make things (VISAs) too difficult to remain in the country. Rumored requirements for health insurance worrisome.

    • @Anomaly66666
      @Anomaly66666 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wtf are they doing this now?

    • @martypoll
      @martypoll 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Anomaly66666No they are not. One comment at a news conference that has fed the imagination of fragile expats for a couple of weeks now.

    • @barnabyzelman
      @barnabyzelman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Anomaly66666 Thailand has always been an insular country, the only one never invaded and occupied by a foreign country. Thais are for Thais, simple as that. They want you to visit on holiday, spend all your money and then go home. They don't like you living there long term, hence they make long term visas a hassle, and having to report to immigration every 90 days is, I imagine, like visiting a probation officer.

  • @LabRat6619
    @LabRat6619 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thailand is awesome, you just have to mindful of the pitfalls.

  • @phedrob3735
    @phedrob3735 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I salute Thailand for keeping a constant check on foreign citizens entering and living in their country. I wish we did the same here in the UK

  • @amingaz
    @amingaz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    been retired here 17 years now and all what you have stated is correct . I just accept it and adjust .

  • @krisalasky6897
    @krisalasky6897 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hello, I love all your videos and information. I just wanted to add that I am from Australia and lived in the states for 15 years and guess what? I was always the foreigner. I was treated different and always reminded that I was an AUstralian. I hated the weather in the states so many months of cold. The weather here in OZ has no 4 seasons and can be unpreditable and crazy. We will be moving to Chiang Mai in Sept. We spent 8 weeks in the old city and I cooked and went shopping in the markets and the women helped me so much. They realized that I was making noodle soups and when I went to shop they had made a tray with all the ingredients I would need. How lovely were they. As for the clothes I had some made not because I am big but wanted a special kind of design and it was so cheap. Like $6.00 for a dress. So anytime you leave your own country there always will be differences. I know that you love it there and was just giving a heads up. hope to see you there.

    • @kevinreily2529
      @kevinreily2529 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are an Australian. In Thailand I will never be a local, so what. If I moved to Oz they would always say I was the American.

  • @stevenfennell7020
    @stevenfennell7020 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In my experience visas are usually arranged by the company the expat is working for. Very rarely an issue. Immigrant visas are a very different issue of course.

  • @Pureexhiliration
    @Pureexhiliration 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2:00 Traffic is not just an issue if you're driving, everytime I have been in Bangkok and had to cross the street, I have always felt like I was going to end up being roadkill

  • @Mike-du1dc
    @Mike-du1dc ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video & good for you for telling it like it really is not a rose colored versions like so many do. Yes it is great & we love it too. But as you said there are tough hurdles/conditions. You probably know this but....A really tough thing to accept is a Thai man can marry a falang woman & she will get Thai citizenship quickly & not need to jump any hurdles at all. Quite different than a Thai woman marrying a falang husband who will need to jump hurdles till the day he dies unless he succeeds in the rough selective road of Thai citizenship on his own

  • @LAOTHAIASEANINFINANCETRAVEL
    @LAOTHAIASEANINFINANCETRAVEL 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Treated as a foreigner, couldn’t agree more, during my trip to Thailand, I was treated as a 2nd class Thai citizen from isaan, in Thailand if your complexion is a little darker, you’re treated differently

    • @HeeJinAhn
      @HeeJinAhn 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You need to speak English to them instead of speaking Thai.

  • @Retirementbliss
    @Retirementbliss ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Having lived in HK for years and moving to CM next year. For clothes, especially underwear, the Japanese retailer Uniqlo is good if you are under 6 foot. For shirts I buy at one time and usually get Amazon Essentials. Polos run about US$10 per shirt. Buying at one time I can usually save on shipping. iHerb is great for online ordering hard to find cooking items like spices, honey, dried fruits, etc… There vitamins and supplements are far cheaper than I can buy in HK. A bottle of multivitamins in HK is about HK$400 and iHerb is $200 or less. Anyway, just some ideas and not selling for these companies. 😂

    • @tonyhickq
      @tonyhickq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why you need Vitamins if you live in Asia is funny, the place is full of fruits and vegetables.
      Just my 2 cents

    • @willsmith39
      @willsmith39 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tonyhickq We have fruits and vegetables in The West too 😂
      So the question is whether vitamin supplements in addition to good diet are necessary or helpful. In the main I'd say probably not, many are not very bioavailable in pill form so I tend not to bother but I think there is some evidence that vitamin E supplemention can be worthwhile as we get older.
      I'm in HK too, been here 31 years

  • @ramsoncole4605
    @ramsoncole4605 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You can get an Elite Thai visa for $ for up to 20 years and not have to go through this at all...comes with car service to and from the airport, VIP status at the airport (no lines), unlimited reentry...pretty good deal if you can afford it...it's not cheap.

  • @TheThaiLanguage
    @TheThaiLanguage ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The visa problem was a problem when I went there the first time in 1979... still a pain in the bottom today. I'd like to see this modernized, streamlined and ... I don't know.... just fixed.

    • @priortokaraew7569
      @priortokaraew7569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really? It was a problem back then?

    • @dennynisevic7848
      @dennynisevic7848 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1979 , whaaaat . So how old you are now, 157 , hahaaaa

  • @johnnielson4341
    @johnnielson4341 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:00 Safety comes last??? One time in Sattahip I passed a series of small shops. One guy was using a cutting torch to cut a large piece of metal. He was standing on the metal wearing flip flops, no eye protection and cutting the sheet down the middle between his legs!