What you put out into the universe, you'll get in return. He'll feel that pain someway somehow, sooner or later. Don't stress it. karma comes. The key is to not wish bad energy on them & still focus on yourself.
@@jasariyan I needed this. He did me wrong in so many ways but he still won't say if he's married or with someone. When we were together I would ask the same but he gave me no answer. He was seeing her 5 months before I called quits. Grown-boy. I think it's all sexual with him plus he wanted someone younger so he would feel excited. I guess I was such a homebody with him but he wanted more. He's 67 I'm 65, 10 years together.
Right!!! I found out he was talking to another girl and I confront him and he had the nerve to break up with me cause hes a coward. Girl I acted a DAMN FOOL!! From putting my hands on him to bleaching clothes and I really do regret because I don’t act like that. But I was not gonna let him walk away like it’s nothing. I’m learning now that silence is power and I wish I would’ve went about it different
I do not have children and my soul tie was harddddd to break so I can not imagine HOW difficult it is for those of you who have children! You got this ladies, be strong and KEEP listening to this video over and over....
I’m so glad we didn’t have children either. I can see him popping up pretending to see “the kids”! I would’ve been forced to see that fool! Thank God!!
I had to move across state... it was super inconvenient being a single mom, fresh out of college, was lonely, had no friends, no job, etc. but he kept calling occasionally and saying we should be “friends”, but it was obvious he was trying to keep me on the side while he explored other options. But I praise God cause I met my husband in my new town and have been happily married 12 years.
What you will do eventually, you should do immediately. The two hardest things to say in life are hello for the first time and GOODBYE for the last. At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
To break a soul tie, stop all communication and things that remind you of them. Definitely stop talking about them. However, be gentle with yourself, it takes time. Forgive yourself and the person, it's a great help. Pray and really seek God's word! Have faith & believe that it can be broken when you pray. Just keep moving forward, brighter days are ahead. Just my opinion, I'm not a Dr. That was my process so I could gain peace and mental clarity.
Thank you for the last sentence . As I’m reading you comment I’m saying “lord ive done all that and it’s been 8 months and i still have the dreams” but you’re right. TIME. 💗
@@MELISSASANTELL honestly the same.... And maybe readjust how you meet up to co-parent. But just know that you'll always be linked, but you can definitely get over the person and find love again
Accept God’s veto in beginning so you won’t be hurt in the end. God sees down the road, over the hill and around the corner.. It will be challenging but you will be thankful and grateful in the long run.
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you right I did it ... after I did that prayer it didn't take me two days to forgot his first and last name.I felt the disconnection right after I did that prayer ... But this is the prayer that need to be done with faith.
Yes!!!!! I found one to break generational curses off my family line! When I did, blessings came pouring in! It's like God gave us back things in which was held up since generations ago!! Ong
Trust me everyone it will get to a point when you will let go and you will be happy even knowing he/she has moved on with someone else. Thank god I had let him go before he did me.
Im in that situation im trying to move on my ex tried to commit suicide i am emotionally drained i feel like I am at fault iv been crying daily i dont know what to do
This is why i respect ppl more who arent friends with their ex's . Those ppl are realistic . The rest off you act like those same emotions and desires wont be in your head when you see them ..
THANK YOU! Ex had an ex he was with for two years and was friends with her still while dating me (even defended the friendship as if it didn’t look morally funny). Fast forward.. they’re still friends and we’re no longer together.
Breaking a soul tie that I had... it was thee hardest work I had to do emotionally for myself but U have to want it and you have to fall into the darkest to find the light! I pray whoever is trying to do this work that you keep at it even when it seems like you might go over the edge know that you are stronger than you think
@Latrice R im sorry to say but I believe that what u say is true. Im in a soul tie with this man he broke it off with me. However it seems to me that i haven't broken off from him. I have had many other relationships but never like this one. I dream about him and I see him vividly in my dreams. I hurt still thinking about him. I love him still. But he doesn't want anything to do with me. After 3 years I've known him. I didnt get closure from our break up. So I feel stuck.
@@msdecemberloveangel8236 sorry hun. I have the same struggle so I listen to Tony Gaskin and get up early to pray my heart out to God. We will be ok. God wants us to prosper and be in good health. Stay strong
I changed my job and phone number than I blocked him on Social Media, I know my worth❤️ I’m worthy to be loved correctly 👸🏾 Thank You I needed that message🤞🏾
Did you give the explanation or did you just block him? I’m asking cause I was thinking if it was wrong if I just block? I just blocked and moved on especially cause I know he was playing games.
Be blessed. My exhusband left me going on 2 years now. Recently he came back trying to be best friends saying he missed my personality and blah blah blah. Asked if we could go out and have lunch sometimes but made sure to mention that it was just a friends thing not dating. We have 2 kids together so I'm always willing to have a conversation about what we can do to make life for them easier. However, he became butt hurt when I shut that down real quick and he became angry and began bashing my parenting skills. I felt bad after declining him of the friendship and lunch meetings however once he Showed his true colors I realized I made the right choice. Thank you for putting out this content because it has allowed me to heal from this soul tie that I've had with this man for so long. I remember when I first started watching your videos 2 yrs ago and it has helped me so much in my healing process. Once I realized I was living and enjoying life with out that man I began to fall in love with me all over again and found my own identity. I'm definitely a satisfied subscriber and I recommend your channel to all my friends Thank you for what you do!
Lesley Jones thank you for this message, I just want my own life again. For 4 years life has been all about him and us. It’s been scary & sometimes exciting to think I have to make a new life. I still think about him all the time. I try to stay busy but we have a child together and I get in my feelings still when there’s communication. I have faith and know I will heal and be happy again without him.
I love God. And I understand his work. But I feel we must hold onto some anger and resentments to break away from those people who don't allow us to do God's work.
I changed numbers, blocked family and so-called friends, got off social media and moved many miles away. Willing to pay the price for peace. Getting rid of soul-tie with the devil,
I did the same...changed my number and moved 300 miles away. Been no contact for 6 months. I'm still healing, but I'm not in a unhealthy relationship anymore
I completely agree Tony. So many people spend years looking in the rearview mirror of life, chasing a feeling. When I'm done with someone, its over... forever. It will never be the same anyway. Be blessed.
You don't get to break up with me and still have access to me. No, that's not how any of this works. Seriously let a woman break up with a guy and say lets be friends etc. Do you really think the average guy with selfesteem pride and ego will actually let a woman come and go Into his life the same way that a lot of women allow men too?? Smh
omg yes ! HE broke things off with ME . did me the absolute dirtiest ... came back and lied to me about something big , didn’t even apologize or nothing but wanted to be friends on top of that wanting to flirt and inquire if i met anybody yet . like u said , u don’t get to end things with me then expect me to be ok with everything u put me thru then all of that just to end up friends . doing that would be disrespecting tf out of myself on top of that disrespect i already had from him smh
@@laddieluna sounds like my ex....He tried too...not because he wants me, misses me and regrets...no... because he wanted his ego boosted by seeing me still being weak for him....💔 sure I was and partly still am weak for him ..I really loved him and he really just wasn't into me at all..just used me as a placeholder and grocery subsidy.
@@AmericanDreamer yea ... see ? no . im so glad we are starting to take our power back and realize who we are as women . we HAVE to stop allowing people like that to manipulate us and make us feel as though we're only worthy of crumbs or "friendship" disguised as "i don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have u either"
@@dulcehernandez9601 toxic relationships are the hardest to get out of. The cycle of love bombing, good times, putting down, arguments, control, jealous and sex is a hell of a ride. Its addicting. Always trying to go back to the good times is what keeps us stuck. Its not uncommon, what it is... is sad because when you're in it...you can't see the big picture
What? You can’t be serious? Your soul is tied w/them forever? Omg, I did not know that! This is powerful! Wow, I feel like if every women knew this, they might or should think twice before engaging in the activity. Thank you for this 👏🏽😇🙏🏽✨
I was told that I can decide what part of me that ex may keep.And with learning more and more about GOD every day I have decided that the ex can keep believing in JESUS CHRIST .PRAISE GOD THAT IS A PART OF ME AND ALWAYS WILL BE. I AM GLAD GOD SAVED ME FROM THAT SITUATIONSHIP. I SURVIVED THANK YOU JESUS
Removing those mutual friends and family members are hard when you have developed a bond with them BUT this is for YOU! Real friends or family will understand this without getting offended
This is the truth. His mom and family loved me. So when they call, it was hard for me to ask them to stop because I didn't have any problems with them. I would talk to them and be right back at square one all over again every time. Him and I didn't even break on bad terms, but I love him too much and had to cut contact.
@@anointedstilettos Yes!!!! Then if the mom really likes you, she start begging you to give them another chance etc! That was hard because as you stated, we get stuck back to square one. I had tla respectful conversation with his mom and she understood eventually. Most mom knows when their son had a good thing but she is also a woman so she understands what it means to be fed up!
@@kizzyrock His mom was super cool and she understood how I felt, but that is her son and she was going to keep calling as long as he asked her. I couldn't and wouldn't disrespect her so I changed my number.
Similar situation it is so hard to disconnect but I’m 5 months strong 💪🏽 but the hard part is the Sisters Stay across the street ughhh & The Aunti and the Father recently passed and he’s buried around the Block from me I feel trapped & Deciding to Relocate & this house I’m living in happen to be my Grandma 👵🏽 house ugh 😑 What do I do I try to ignore them but the Mother lives across the Street also I say hey 👋🏽 & go on in the house 🗣🤦🏽♀️HELP I BE disturb Everyday when I get off of WORK
Yes!!!!!!!! It's almost like an addiction! As long as you stay away from it, you have control of the strong hold but like an addict, if you put yourself back in the environment or THINK you can try it again before you know it, it comes back FULL force and the stronghold has tooken over you again!!! You are the truth Tony!!!
@heynowhey He has a course on his sight called "soul-ties". He talks about how to break it with your child's father on that course. It is still difficult, but if you follow what he says, it definitely makes it easier. My husband and I have 5 children, and I followed what he said. I'm thankful for that course.
And for him and other people that are involved i realize my whole everything needs to be on private, cse the more they know its like u still entangled🤕so the less they know, the freer i feel its finna be
Congrats to you!!! I've been on a merry go round of ending it, blocking, then unblocking as not to behave immaturely. I had it wrong! He no longer even took me seriously... I digress. Now, its almost life or death. Everytime I opened up thinking i was strong and leveled u, I'd relapse losing even MORE each time. Rinse. Repeat. Plainly put Im looking forward to not even counting the weeks months years of no contact.
I swear when I was on my phone my finger slipped and pressed watch.. I knew it was God leading me to watch your video because I was just talking to an old friend I had no business talking to AFTER the Lord removed them from my life. This morning I was asking God, I said Lord help me not to backslide into old habits and going back to toxic people I do not want to hinder my blessings.. and then your video came.## Be Blessed
I’m ready to break this soul tie and forgive the man who shattered my heart so I can move on to someone who is smart enough to see my value. Be blessed ✨💕
You speak my truth. I wish I had "truly listened" instead of denying this truth for three years. Oy! I feel so stupid. Luckily, I have thirty or so days of these videos keeping me from reaching out and coaching me to "always be blocking"!
You have to want change for yourself tho, like more than anything, sorry I can’t accept nothing but the best, so after while alla that stress has to eliminated
Pray for me. I been struggling with breaking a 21 year soul-Tie, I left and walked away for the third time, a month ago . I'm currently, feeling numb, at this point. Praying that God, heals my heart an, gives, me the strength to unfriend, and block, their phone number and social media.
@@kodeone9939 I will Bless the Lord at all times, his mighty praise shall continually be in my mouth. Every knee shall bow, and every tongue shall confess that Jesus the mighty King is Lord!
I changed my number back in June after having my previous number for 4 years. I’m great at dropping people like a bad habit. I was feeling a way after changing my number though. I knew I had to because they would continuously call me from “NO CALLER ID.” I cut off toxic relationships, toxic family members and friends. So yes anyone can get cut off. I moved and feel better. Y’all better listen to tony. I’ll no longer block my blessings. Be blessed. 🙏🏾
ebonie shenece Same. I was still getting voice mails, and messages on all apps plus unknown numbers. Anybody that needs my new number is going to have to find me. If I didn’t send you the new one (as far as friends and family) you wasn’t using the old one.
Listen, you gotta be a SAVAGE about break these things. You have to WANT to break a soul Tie. People just full of it and dont want to do the work. All these "what ifs" mannn...we have to listen and want change. Be blessed!
I couldn't agree more babe, we really have to want on all levels. When you get weak - get stronger. By any means necessary, it has to be done. I have to put in the work, I have to stop falling like this. savage is key!
Man I died laughing when he said, move to a different location, change your number, change your job, Ect, bc that’s the truth on all levels, I just got my life back from this sermon fr, thank you Tony, this was real good, I had to watch this vid 3 times , it was just that good to me.
You are exactly right! I left a man because he was narcissistic and very unemotional detached to women as well as ungrateful.This was me a year ago. It took for me to begin blocking on Social Media...then not answering text and phone calls after falling back a few times. I eventually changed my number and even MOVED out the area. It sounds crazy but it was all for the right reasons. I still think of him...but its just that...a thought.. Im much stronger now and I've grown as a woman since then. I feel good about the decisions I've made in order for me to be complete and happy. Within 2 months after me leaving he moved a lady and her kids in with him. Lol good luckbto the both of them. I have my own job (a nurse) my own car and my own home no loss on my end.Thank You Mr. Gaskins...God Bless
Be blessed, I'm breaking my soul to with my ex wife, she is the mother of our 3 beautiful children. I left a good relationship of a year with a good woman and had 2 years of toxic headaches trying to work back to work things out. I realized I got my katana and learned that I allowed myself to be at this point. After getting kicked out the house the last time and being humiliated for the last time, I said God take the wheel. I'm free from trying to reconcile what was Lost and though I loved her I can't save what can't be. Thanks for your video. Now I'm rebuilding myself and I know my testimony can help more than just myself but those who can relate. I'm subbed stay blessed brother
@@mickieiverson4403 it’s going great 😊 thanks for asking. The Queen I’m currently involved with has been amazing this past year and a half! We currently just take things one day at a time and allow our frequencies to vibrate high so our children can have better examples in their lives.
Jesus said, “ if your right hand offend you or cause you to stumble/sin cut it OFF!” Not literally cutting off the hand, literally cutting off the very thing that has potential to hinder you causing you to go to through or to hell! 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve had a few soul ties, but the last one was the hardest to break and leave behind. My expectations were SO high, they were TOO high! And when God instructed me to separate from him, I had a chance to think over our relationship and exam just how toxic we were! I went through all the grieving phases, but I stayed in anger the longest and I think I went back to it a few times! I was soooo mad at him, but time taught me that I was actually mad at myself for getting involved with him in the first place! The field was covered in RED FLAGS and I justified them because of his title: Pastor. The last time we spoke was his birthday, October 31 and he said something that I hadn’t heard him ever say before. He said, when you go and come back it disrupts my spirit and I can’t take it anymore. Mind you, at one point I would try to break up with him every chance I got, but he wouldn’t let me. (Toxic, I know! But I knew he wasn’t the one and I wrestle with it.) Anyways, those words hit home... hearing that from a man somehow shook me to my core. I’m so used to us women voicing our hurt, to actually hear a man admit you are hurting me... as a child of God, I had to face facts, this wasn’t godly! After a few days of still trying to reason with him and within myself and seeing that he hadn’t changed in a year of being separated, I walked away. Relationships are serious business y’all, we really have to be whole before we get involved with someone else. It’s dangerous if you don’t! But no one tells you that if you’re not looking for answers! Thank God for Tony and others who are spreading knowledge!
When they show you..you know the rest. Just recently had this experience, glad God showed me how controlling, domineering and angry he was, IN MY OWN HOME! Boy, ✌out!
Cut them ties ppl want you stuck and not doing better without them. It’s crazy the tactics people will go but look out for you what’s ahead is better than what’s behind you .
Be blessed. After 2 yrs of no communication with my ex (changed my number) I broke down and contacted him looking for closure cause I couldn't get him out of mind. I felt We needed to have a conversation. We managed to talk for 2 months then his true colors came out. He never changed. Now I have to work on getting over him forever.
Be blessed! Finally broke my soul tie last month. Some days I want to pick up the phone and call, but then I remember why I cut him off in the first place. Thank you for your insight, Tony!
I am trying to break a soul tied . It was not a real Orion ship he was a player and it was toxic! I kept coming back to him now i realized that I am valuable, beautiful and intelligent. Deserve love. He had sex with me in his car all the time like we were 16! Or I was a prostitude! He would never kiss me not even during sex would not take me anywhere. I realized my time it’s valuable. He would never called me by my name always Baby ! We don’t have friends in common! I miss him and i have to stop myself from texting!!
Elizabeth Toeroek mamas I know it’s hard. I too have similar understandings. They’re beautiful right, they have a swag and charisma but if it was right for us-that imaginary scenario we had when we were younger than you would not be feeling this way. A relationship should not be hard but come naturally. Yes in the beginning I cried more than jt told home girl to cry him a river. But at a point practice self love, work on your goals. They have to find their value and when they do they have to recognize yours. Set your standards. I did a sexual/aura cleanse(can find TH-cam videos on it) and I promise you, you will feel a change. Make a gratitude journal, make a vision board, elevate yourself. Tell yourself your the bombdiggity. They will try to come back and I’m not the type to end on bad terms despite what they have done so I am currently debating on meeting with them but all I can say is what you want is attainable. It’s just the way your mind is set. It is bigger than them.
@@elizabethtoeroek891 going to similar things. however i block him and he gets false number and calls me or comes str8 to my house. i just stop blocking him and told my self if i didnt event you sucker ur be out there...knocking till your knockles bleed
Just recently moved two states away from mine...he hasn't changed, He's a ladies man and is addicted to the attention no matter how much we love each other or even for our friendship for that matter...he wants to visit with my stepson but after this video it's confirmed it can.not happen...ty for this!
Be blessed! Someone in my life always makes fun of me for blocking people out of my life because I am constantly fighting for my purity. Blocking my exes have been the best decision I’ve made for my life and future. By the grace of God, Ive been going strong for more than 5 years now.
I will listen and listen and listen and listen, as I am dealing with this right now..... i thought blocking was petty but now i understand...... i blocked him, he can keep it moving, but loooooorrrrrrrd the pain of moving onnnnnnn..... it will get better i believe. kept on rewinding the video hahahahaaaaa this truth is so real and so deep
This kept popping up in my recommendations and i finally decided to click on it, super glad I did! Very powerful message, especially coming from a man. Thank you for this!!
Be Blessed! I watched this about two years ago and it never really sunk in until now. Two years of continuing to “figure it out because no relationship is easy.” Just for me to be back here. Don’t need or want anymore signs, I’m ready to move on with my life. Thank you Tony!
Thank you for saying it’s not petty to block someone when it’s over. So many people have their wires crossed like it’s about “winning”. It’s the sensible thing to do actually and completely necessary to heal.
BE BLESSED!! ❤️ I came crying and breaking down and literally just dying of thirst for this information, I am so desperate to break this trauma bond and soul-tie (basically an obsession) from my narcissistic ex. You’re a blessing Tony, thank you so mulch! 😢 Please pray for me.
You are a God send! Keep doing the Lord's work. I have been dealing with a soul tie for years that I just couldn't break. After getting saved, I was on TH-cam looking for some positive music and positive words, there you appeared. I had never heard of Tony Gaskins. I believe it was divine intervention that led me to you. I am stronger, I know my value and I work on myself everyday. May God bless you and your family, please continue to educate us, the bible says "my people parish because of lack of knowledge."
Be Blessed~! Broke Soul Tie chain w/Father of my 2 Beautiful children and an X! The incredible thing about breaking a Soul Tie... your Soul comes back to yourself 💕 Thank you TG.. you help me become a Real Queen 👸🏾
It’s been six days since I put him out. I’m about to block him on everything right now!!!!!! Thank you so much for this message. Be blessed by the Most High 🙏🏽
Said my last ‘goodbye’ to my ex not too long ago. The process was tough, but luckily didn’t last as long as I thought it would. Even when you can’t stand the person in the pit of your core, or touch them with a 30 mile pole… soul ties are the hardest to overcome. Didn’t have kids with him luckily and the relationship was rather short for me, but during, that emotional soul tie had me running back after all the cheating and accusations. I’m not privy to blocking because I always end up unblocking… but my “Ignore” game has developed tremendously, and now he gets to watch my glow up (without him) vicariously through social media 😌 Be blessed
Currently going through this abd can’t stop thinking about him alll the time, his on my mind and yes whenever I think about our intimacy I craved him and gave me chills cuz I would miss everything about him but yeah sure is active online probably talking to someone.😩😩💔💔💔 but i know from heart that I need to not hear or see him!!!
@@ingridrevolorio1800 Honestly, it was very difficult to let go. And i wouldn’t expect it to be easy for anyone. I had moments when i thought of us and the good times we shared, but the bad would overpower the thought, leaving me questioning why i even wasted that time fighting for us. Fighting myself, him and his mistakes, my family’s justified ridicule. It just became too much, and I knew I didn’t deserve the headache it caused. You’ll come to a place where you will be more important than “y’all” and it’ll be easier to get over it and him. It’s been almost 2 years since my breakup, almost a year since I last spoke to my ex (who still Reaches out via social media), and I’m still happily single by preference, but it feels like it’s only been 4/5 months since us. You’ll have those moments too, but just give it time and make yourself unavailable to temptations to go back… you’ll be okay 😌💜
Thank you so much for the message. I absolutely needed this. I'm been struggling so much and crying since he left and moved in with another woman this week. I'm in disbelief. You messages made me see thing from a different view.
I know exactly what you're talking about because I feel free, I breathe better when I don't see him but the moment I do, I'm back in the trenches. That sucks especially when you know someone is not right for you.
@@BeingMyoshi Honey is was hardddddddd for me because I'm one of those people who don't like change to begin with. Then I started thinking about how people in my past ( who number I no longer had) would never have a way to contact me again . Then I realized that God was removing old people from old seasons in order to replace them with new people. I an so glad I was obedient because it has been life changing. 😇
Me too but I didn’t change my number, I blocked, and I jumped up and moved . I’ve been in my place for 19 years and he knew that . So I had several thousand dollars saved, so first and last month wasn’t no problem. I just bought a house . I don’t follow him social media nor his friends and family. I feel so good now my energy has sky rocket 🚀. I also prayed to God !! God has help me a lot in this healing process. Along with friends , my co worker , tells me all the time don’t settle remember that. Wait wait wait , and that’s what I’m doing.
@@kizzyrock you are so right! This soul tie I'm breaking through is so hard but the number change will help. Blocking didnt work he'd spoof as my family numbers and my job...I had exes I havent talked to in years text out the blue. I'm like whos this lol
Be Blessed. As a man, I admit I was part to blame for the breakdown of the relationship by being distant. However, the way I was treated during the breakup showed me I need to snap that soultie to stop her torturing me. So I can learn my lessons, grow as a man and truly move on to the person I’m meant to spend my life with. ❤️ Thank you for this video.
I needed this tonight trying to leave this unhealthy relationship behind that has cost me everything I want my life back I want to be happy again and for my family please pray for me
I also think the “looking in rearview mirror “ boils down to a simple feeling of failure. That was me. Nobody wants to feel like a failure in a relationship especially if you have given 110% and in this case the man has barely given anything. It’s about being selfless.
I'm learning and trying to stay away. We were in a situationship for almost two years. He moved back home(2hrs away) and I went to visit him. It's been almost two months since I've physically seen him. We rarely even speak anymore. I've had to realize that I'm not his choice and honestly that's been hard. I'm trying to just stay away for good because loving him hurts. It doesn't help that he was what filled a void due to my divorce.
Be Blessed*** I Needed This Video and These Comments! Spreading Peace, Love, And Light To All Of You Beautiful Souls Stay Positive and Always Put "YOU" First.
be blessed. when he came back after a year, i should have known he was just coming back to me to practice treating the next one that he actually wants right. now he telling me to go find someone who wants to be stuck to me all the time bc he doesn't, who makes the money i make (which is way less than him), who don't have kids, and has a normal job. He just asked me today, what can i do for him that he can't do for himself. He asked why i never have money (i never told him i don't, or do for that matter). he says we don't work. So, why did he come back in my messages a year after cheating on me with my coworker? Because, what he thought he had in the bag with her, he didn't. He needs to go look again, but have me there to lick his wounds. I nurtured and loved him for somebody else. Being a wife to not even a boyfriend. This is what happens when you are with someone who God did not send for you, whether male or female. You sacrifice your love, for people who only use it to their advantage. You end up trying to fix someone, who only breaks you. You end up with someone the enemy has blessed you with and a soul tie that keeps you shackled. When you look back you say, "what was my love used for?" "what was my sex used for?" "what was my presence and care used for?" "used for" and "valued for" are two separate things. That new person will be valued for everything you taught that person, but that person will never be enough for them, and come running back again. Think on this, when they come back. Stop the cycle before it starts. You stay with them for the sake of not breaking your own heart; you stay on the bike instead of getting scraped up. Let it fall. You'll get back up. God said, "I'm moving them to bless you with better; will you let me elevate you from this?" Nothing was lost there, everything was stolen, and you will be given 100 fold. Turn that loose. That was not the real deal. God has the real deal. This fake prepared you for it. so, thank them for the lessons, and forgive them for misusing your love, and forgive yourself for trying to change them and accepting it. Forgive yourself for sacrificing yourself at someone's disposal. Now, celebrate yourself for the new beginning and the new start with the new knowledge. Congratulate yourself that your next relationship will be everything it needs to be, because you were strong enough to let go of everything that a relationship is not supposed to be. Don't waste anymore hope on the dead one, but you only look forward to the one coming that is so divine. Spring cleaning is tough, but old clothes, shoes, etc just have to go. If it takes from you, donate it. let her or him have it. Spring cleaning is hard, when it's internal bc our safety and security system teaches us to latch on, fear of the unknown without all you've ever known. Ask God to clear your heart, mind, soul, and your chakras from this person; clear them from your ora. When you think of them, stop and meditate, listen to a spiritual song, or simply speak "I release this energy to you Lord; give me strength." Crying is releasing and healing. I know your mind is made up about this person, but their mind is made up too. They are going to seek temporary fullfillment with this person. Is it okay for them to go a different direction, if it means you being fullfilled indefinitely? Go to where all of your blessings can be added unto you, and stop leaving the portal open for the enemy to tempt you to sacrifice yourself again. No contact, no open airways. Let the dead bury the dead. No point of re-entry. They will always chase what they found in you, in someone else.
Today is the first day I’ve ever watched your video for the past months I’ve been doing these things..I told my ex (my daughters father (shes 9 months) that I didn’t wanna see him anymore and for months my oldest child has been the middle person taking the baby outside doing whatever it takes for me not to see him yesterday he made me feel crazy for not seeing him how mean I am how hurtful I am so today when he came to bring her some things I let him in my home…. Boy I wish I didn’t all these feelings that I thought were gone came rushing back and I hurt all over again … later today he told me he’s moved on and is in love so that hurt intensified… so now I’m back 5 steps. After watching this I feel validated for what I had been doing and texted him my boundaries I have to get the old me back and this is the only way .. thanks for the conformation that I had been doing things right all along
Only been intimate with him two times, TWO times!!!! & I already feel like that has been enough!!!! I thought I would be doing it for “fun”, but nope. As I’m getting older & been through a couple of soul ties i have FINALLY realized that’s not healthy for me. Know your worth ladies & gentlemen. Learn to love yourself first. Everything & everyone will come into your life when needed. Let’s start learning from our mistakes.
@@trendarowe6560 me too. My son cries almost all the time telling me he misses his dad and why he doesn't love him anymore. 10yrs of nothing, I pray I never look back. I just hurt for my children
And see that's exactly what I am going through right now I am married to the man who acts like he has a soul tied with the woman he was previously married to and has a daughter bot but the daughter is 22 years old and he doesn't know how to tell her anything about responsibilities in life but has the nerve to try to turn around and tell my adult children about what they are not doing because of what he said hit child doing like showing love but she only shows love when she wants something and let her mother tell her things to cause a problem in our relationship and every time when there's a problem he runs over there to them and she let him in and they try to turn around and make me feel like I'm a woman who's trying to take advantage of my husband and I tried to show them in my place as his wife to stop disrespecting me I told my husband that you do not show any boundaries and that's the reason why we are going through what we are going through now I have a soul tie I guess if that's what you call it with this man but he doesn't feel the same for me even though we don't have children together but he doesn't look at the things that he done and feel like anything he had did was wrong and to be honest I really am just sick of it because this man is too damn old 41 and he's 54 and his ex-wife is 63 years old
Be blessed. Guys create that distance, they really will keep u on 'standby' til they is ready. Trust me. Your worth more than that. Your worth that when someone sees you, they really see you. U know wot I'm saying. Tc
I believe soul ties are a hidden form of self sabotaging behavior, codependency. Working hard on self love value and worth is the key 🔑 to healing from these programs that have had us brainwashed. Get that root cleaned up and take your power back... God bless TG😇
It’s so messed up smh. It’s so unfair how they get to move on with somebody and you’re left with the heartache and the torture.
What you put out into the universe, you'll get in return. He'll feel that pain someway somehow, sooner or later. Don't stress it. karma comes. The key is to not wish bad energy on them & still focus on yourself.
@@jasariyan Do you think he’ll come back to me ? I have the same situation .
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I needed this. He did me wrong in so many ways but he still won't say if he's married or with someone. When we were together I would ask the same but he gave me no answer. He was seeing her 5 months before I called quits. Grown-boy.
I think it's all sexual with him plus he wanted someone younger so he would feel excited. I guess I was such a homebody with him but he wanted more.
He's 67 I'm 65, 10 years together.
we are all going through this together, you are not alone💘.
Right!!! I found out he was talking to another girl and I confront him and he had the nerve to break up with me cause hes a coward. Girl I acted a DAMN FOOL!! From putting my hands on him to bleaching clothes and I really do regret because I don’t act like that. But I was not gonna let him walk away like it’s nothing. I’m learning now that silence is power and I wish I would’ve went about it different
Creating distance is the best thing. It hurts to separate yourself from that person but its the first step in healing. Be blessed.
Maiya Jones absolutely
Amen!
So so true!
It hurts so much that it even makes me think about suicide. How Stupid of me.------wasting time , wasting my energy, wasting my life.
@@ser1144 i feel you. ❤️
I do not have children and my soul tie was harddddd to break so I can not imagine HOW difficult it is for those of you who have children! You got this ladies, be strong and KEEP listening to this video over and over....
@@naturalhairnskincare 😇🙌
RealTalkWithKizzyRock thank you love. Single mama for two years 😫 all the signs are clearly playing as I look back.
I’m so glad we didn’t have children either. I can see him popping up pretending to see “the kids”! I would’ve been forced to see that fool! Thank God!!
@@haquino You are strong and equipped!!! You got this girl!!!!! Let God leave and you follow 😇
@@gorgeousmone6151 Yessssss girl. Lol!!! I heard that's what they do. Using the kids as an excuse. Smh
I had to move across state... it was super inconvenient being a single mom, fresh out of college, was lonely, had no friends, no job, etc. but he kept calling occasionally and saying we should be “friends”, but it was obvious he was trying to keep me on the side while he explored other options. But I praise God cause I met my husband in my new town and have been happily married 12 years.
Amen
that’s amazing ! i’m proud of you and wish u so much peace and harmony towards your new journey
Yes I moved out if town
Awesome.
Thank you for sharing that
What you will do eventually, you should do immediately. The two hardest things to say in life are hello for the first time and GOODBYE for the last. At some point, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
So true.
well said
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Tom Smith That’s powerful right there thank you for the wisdom! 🙏🏾💪🏾💪🏾
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BLOCK/ AND KEEP BLOCKED. When you gave him a chance and chances but take you for granted. It' s time to let him GO! HIS LOSS!
Yes✂️💯
It's hard when u have a child w that person
10000000
Thank you!
To break a soul tie, stop all communication and things that remind you of them. Definitely stop talking about them. However, be gentle with yourself, it takes time. Forgive yourself and the person, it's a great help. Pray and really seek God's word! Have faith & believe that it can be broken when you pray. Just keep moving forward, brighter days are ahead. Just my opinion, I'm not a Dr. That was my process so I could gain peace and mental clarity.
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Thank you for the last sentence . As I’m reading you comment I’m saying “lord ive done all that and it’s been 8 months and i still have the dreams” but you’re right. TIME. 💗
What happens when we have a child together? That process is more complicated
@@BreeziDeezi yes girl, time.. Be patient with yourself.
@@MELISSASANTELL honestly the same.... And maybe readjust how you meet up to co-parent. But just know that you'll always be linked, but you can definitely get over the person and find love again
Accept God’s veto in beginning so you won’t be hurt in the end. God sees down the road, over the hill and around the corner.. It will be challenging but you will be thankful and grateful in the long run.
So true
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AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
True story
Be blessed
I’m going through this right now. I’ve been crying all day and asking God to take the pain away.
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Same sis 😩
How are you know?
Me too 9 yrs now he moved into a womens home. We have kids. So much i invested. I cry constantly
@@PrettyDeeDavis Thanks for asking. I still have my moments, but I’m in a much better space now.
Blocked him while watching this. Thank you Be blessed.
I did the same thing..this fool not about to keep stringing me along until you find another woman. F*** that!
Me too
Block=Peace I’ve never been better! 🙏🏼
LOL!!!!
Same
There are also prayers you can specifically pray to break soul ties.
Yes, praying is a big part, but I forgot to mention it thinking that's an automatic. Thanks for watching #BlessedFam
you right I did it ... after I did that prayer it didn't take me two days to forgot his first and last name.I felt the disconnection right after I did that prayer ... But this is the prayer that need to be done with faith.
I am a witness to this. They can be broken and I personally had to break many.
Yes!!!!! I found one to break generational curses off my family line! When I did, blessings came pouring in! It's like God gave us back things in which was held up since generations ago!! Ong
I had to do it from a relationship I had years ago. He had such a strong impact on my life. Not necessarily negative either.
Trust me everyone it will get to a point when you will let go and you will be happy even knowing he/she has moved on with someone else. Thank god I had let him go before he did me.
Im praying for this day.
How do I know if I should be letting go or trying to make it work?
@@BrotherMalMusic if that person makes you more happy, than not.
Man i needed this , soul ties will have you STUCK . Thank you for this
Frfr an my friend's suck the worse advice ever, need a accountability partner
@@cmarie4302 G
Im in that situation im trying to move on my ex tried to commit suicide i am emotionally drained i feel like I am at fault iv been crying daily i dont know what to do
Babe I swear I think my life was on standstill for 7-8 months cause I was fighting for the wrong type of situation, Thank God I’m out of that tho x
This is why i respect ppl more who arent friends with their ex's . Those ppl are realistic .
The rest off you act like those same emotions and desires wont be in your head when you see them ..
Thank you!!!!
It's a facade people know they can't be friends with an ex it's to just keep them around
That's me right there. I never do backsies.
That part....
THANK YOU! Ex had an ex he was with for two years and was friends with her still while dating me (even defended the friendship as if it didn’t look morally funny). Fast forward.. they’re still friends and we’re no longer together.
Breaking a soul tie that I had... it was thee hardest work I had to do emotionally for myself but U have to want it and you have to fall into the darkest to find the light! I pray whoever is trying to do this work that you keep at it even when it seems like you might go over the edge know that you are stronger than you think
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Especially as an empath
@Latrice R im sorry to say but I believe that what u say is true. Im in a soul tie with this man he broke it off with me. However it seems to me that i haven't broken off from him. I have had many other relationships but never like this one. I dream about him and I see him vividly in my dreams. I hurt still thinking about him. I love him still. But he doesn't want anything to do with me. After 3 years I've known him. I didnt get closure from our break up. So I feel stuck.
How is it going? What worked for you?
@@msdecemberloveangel8236 sorry hun. I have the same struggle so I listen to Tony Gaskin and get up early to pray my heart out to God. We will be ok. God wants us to prosper and be in good health. Stay strong
I changed my job and phone number than I blocked him on Social Media, I know my worth❤️ I’m worthy to be loved correctly 👸🏾 Thank You I needed that message🤞🏾
Yess girlaa 🥰
Did you give the explanation or did you just block him? I’m asking cause I was thinking if it was wrong if I just block? I just blocked and moved on especially cause I know he was playing games.
@@mzshanjanaye82 I just blocked him he already know he was wrong
Be blessed. My exhusband left me going on 2 years now. Recently he came back trying to be best friends saying he missed my personality and blah blah blah. Asked if we could go out and have lunch sometimes but made sure to mention that it was just a friends thing not dating. We have 2 kids together so I'm always willing to have a conversation about what we can do to make life for them easier. However, he became butt hurt when I shut that down real quick and he became angry and began bashing my parenting skills. I felt bad after declining him of the friendship and lunch meetings however once he Showed his true colors I realized I made the right choice. Thank you for putting out this content because it has allowed me to heal from this soul tie that I've had with this man for so long. I remember when I first started watching your videos 2 yrs ago and it has helped me so much in my healing process. Once I realized I was living and enjoying life with out that man I began to fall in love with me all over again and found my own identity. I'm definitely a satisfied subscriber and I recommend your channel to all my friends Thank you for what you do!
Lesley Jones thank you for this message, I just want my own life again. For 4 years life has been all about him and us. It’s been scary & sometimes exciting to think I have to make a new life. I still think about him all the time. I try to stay busy but we have a child together and I get in my feelings still when there’s communication. I have faith and know I will heal and be happy again without him.
Amen!
Update
People think I’m mean on don’t understand why I don’t befriend my exes. Once it’s done we are done, it takes time but there is definitely healing!
Right💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I always treated my relationships with my exes this way and been told I hold grudges. This is validation for me to continue doing what I do. 💯💯
💪🙏✨ yes !
I love God. And I understand his work. But I feel we must hold onto some anger and resentments to break away from those people who don't allow us to do God's work.
@@Dragonfly_magictarot it’s not anger or resentment. It’s knowing their spirit and that it doesn’t belong with yours!
I think we need a part 2 for the people that has already created that distance/separation but is still struggling mentally
I changed numbers, blocked family and so-called friends, got off social media and moved many miles away. Willing to pay the price for peace. Getting rid of soul-tie with the devil,
I did the same...changed my number and moved 300 miles away. Been no contact for 6 months. I'm still healing, but I'm not in a unhealthy relationship anymore
@@nathalia504 Very good. Blessings
I completely agree Tony. So many people spend years looking in the rearview mirror of life, chasing a feeling. When I'm done with someone, its over... forever. It will never be the same anyway. Be blessed.
that's true.
So true
Very true
You don't get to break up with me and still have access to me. No, that's not how any of this works. Seriously let a woman break up with a guy and say lets be friends etc. Do you really think the average guy with selfesteem pride and ego will actually let a woman come and go Into his life the same way that a lot of women allow men too?? Smh
Baby you are absolutely right. I was NEVER able to do that. I'm with you 100%. When its done, its done. And that's OK. Life goes on.
omg yes ! HE broke things off with ME . did me the absolute dirtiest ... came back and lied to me about something big , didn’t even apologize or nothing but wanted to be friends on top of that wanting to flirt and inquire if i met anybody yet . like u said , u don’t get to end things with me then expect me to be ok with everything u put me thru then all of that just to end up friends . doing that would be disrespecting tf out of myself on top of that disrespect i already had from him smh
Yup
@@laddieluna sounds like my ex....He tried too...not because he wants me, misses me and regrets...no... because he wanted his ego boosted by seeing me still being weak for him....💔 sure I was and partly still am weak for him ..I really loved him and he really just wasn't into me at all..just used me as a placeholder and grocery subsidy.
@@AmericanDreamer yea ... see ? no . im so glad we are starting to take our power back and realize who we are as women . we HAVE to stop allowing people like that to manipulate us and make us feel as though we're only worthy of crumbs or "friendship" disguised as "i don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have u either"
I had one soul tie and he was so diabolical and crazy! Soul ties are not easy relationships he was a narcissist🤲
Block them they are toxic!
I find it weird that most women on here have soul ties with narcissistic guys and toxic men
@@dulcehernandez9601 toxic relationships are the hardest to get out of. The cycle of love bombing, good times, putting down, arguments, control, jealous and sex is a hell of a ride. Its addicting. Always trying to go back to the good times is what keeps us stuck. Its not uncommon, what it is... is sad because when you're in it...you can't see the big picture
This!
What? You can’t be serious? Your soul is tied w/them forever? Omg, I did not know that! This is powerful! Wow, I feel like if every women knew this, they might or should think twice before engaging in the activity. Thank you for this 👏🏽😇🙏🏽✨
I was told that I can decide what part of me that ex may keep.And with learning more and more about GOD every day I have decided that the ex can keep believing in JESUS CHRIST .PRAISE GOD THAT IS A PART OF ME AND ALWAYS WILL BE. I AM GLAD GOD SAVED ME FROM THAT SITUATIONSHIP. I SURVIVED THANK YOU JESUS
Thank you Tony and your beautiful wife for teaching me the values that I was not taught when I was younger.Thank you both for helping me grow
@The Father’s Daughter I think so, because it's like,an embarrassment, every encounter,as if that person still know you
Brother T tell the truth it's needed today
Removing those mutual friends and family members are hard when you have developed a bond with them BUT this is for YOU! Real friends or family will understand this without getting offended
This is the truth. His mom and family loved me. So when they call, it was hard for me to ask them to stop because I didn't have any problems with them. I would talk to them and be right back at square one all over again every time. Him and I didn't even break on bad terms, but I love him too much and had to cut contact.
@@anointedstilettos Yes!!!! Then if the mom really likes you, she start begging you to give them another chance etc! That was hard because as you stated, we get stuck back to square one. I had tla respectful conversation with his mom and she understood eventually. Most mom knows when their son had a good thing but she is also a woman so she understands what it means to be fed up!
@@kizzyrock His mom was super cool and she understood how I felt, but that is her son and she was going to keep calling as long as he asked her. I couldn't and wouldn't disrespect her so I changed my number.
@@anointedstilettos Good for you doll!!!!😇😇
Similar situation it is so hard to disconnect but I’m 5 months strong 💪🏽 but the hard part is the Sisters Stay across the street ughhh & The Aunti and the Father recently passed and he’s buried around the Block from me I feel trapped & Deciding to Relocate & this house I’m living in happen to be my Grandma 👵🏽 house ugh 😑 What do I do I try to ignore them but the Mother lives across the Street also I say hey 👋🏽 & go on in the house 🗣🤦🏽♀️HELP I BE disturb Everyday when I get off of WORK
Yes!!!!!!!! It's almost like an addiction! As long as you stay away from it, you have control of the strong hold but like an addict, if you put yourself back in the environment or THINK you can try it again before you know it, it comes back FULL force and the stronghold has tooken over you again!!! You are the truth Tony!!!
Its is worse and harder to get away the next time around.
@heynowhey He has a course on his sight called "soul-ties". He talks about how to break it with your child's father on that course. It is still difficult, but if you follow what he says, it definitely makes it easier. My husband and I have 5 children, and I followed what he said. I'm thankful for that course.
So true. He is a blessing. THBTG
This is so true!
So True! You have to let them go in order to heal!
Be blessed man... soul ties ain’t no joke 😭😭😭
Amen
Tell me, about it.
And for him and other people that are involved i realize my whole everything needs to be on private, cse the more they know its like u still entangled🤕so the less they know, the freer i feel its finna be
It really isn’t 🙁
How can you break a soul tie when you are next door it’s hard to forget about it… it’s impossible
YES. You will be dragged until HE finds what he is looking for. I can testify.
It happened to me.
It happened to me too and I was devastated. Once he was done with me he was done. It was like he woke up and decided no more.
Sadly..this very thing is happening to me right now. I'm so hurt m, but I've got to keep going😢
They never know what they want till 50 MAYBE
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Taken off time off my social media to break my soul tie because it is so strong
Proud
Are you over the person?
Thank you for the message Tony, I just cleared a year with no contact with an ex. Hard? Yes! Impossible? Nope!
Lauren Nicole 💪🏽❤️✨
Congrats to you!!! I've been on a merry go round of ending it, blocking, then unblocking as not to behave immaturely. I had it wrong!
He no longer even took me seriously... I digress.
Now, its almost life or death. Everytime I opened up thinking i was strong and leveled u, I'd relapse losing even MORE each time. Rinse. Repeat. Plainly put Im looking forward to not even counting the weeks months years of no contact.
Be blessed! I've gotten better breaking my soul ties. I ain't afraid to change my number and block.
Amazing! #BlessedFam
I swear when I was on my phone my finger slipped and pressed watch.. I knew it was God leading me to watch your video because I was just talking to an old friend I had no business talking to AFTER the Lord removed them from my life. This morning I was asking God, I said Lord help me not to backslide into old habits and going back to toxic people I do not want to hinder my blessings.. and then your video came.## Be Blessed
I’m ready to break this soul tie and forgive the man who shattered my heart so I can move on to someone who is smart enough to see my value. Be blessed ✨💕
I needed to hear this today. I look back and know this relationship should have ended before it began.. thank you so much! Be blessed!
You speak my truth. I wish I had "truly listened" instead of denying this truth for three years. Oy! I feel so stupid. Luckily, I have thirty or so days of these videos keeping me from reaching out and coaching me to "always be blocking"!
“It should have ended before it began.” THAT part!
I really think they can be broken through fasting and prayer. It’s hard work though.
You have to want change for yourself tho, like more than anything, sorry I can’t accept nothing but the best, so after while alla that stress has to eliminated
I’m so glad we didn’t have mutual friends and I never knew his family
Same girl SAME🙏🏽😅🤣
Your lucky
I met his family and friends. He met two of my closest friends, but not my family. I wasn't ready. Thank God because I dodged a bullet!!!!
Pray for me. I been struggling with breaking a 21 year soul-Tie, I left and walked away for the third time, a month ago . I'm currently, feeling numb, at this point. Praying that God, heals my heart an, gives, me the strength to unfriend, and block, their phone number and social media.
@@AndreiFantastic Thank you.
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Just do it if you keep thinking about doing it you won’t 🙏
You are worthy, I hope you are continuing to stand strong in faith ❤️❤️❤️
I'm trying to break a 33 year soul tie.
There is Power in the name of Jesus to Break Every Chain, Break Every Chain, Break Every Chain.🙏
Amen, I agree.
Yeshua is the name of christ
jesus is a idol (false education of the white god)
@@kodeone9939 I will Bless the Lord at all times, his mighty praise shall continually be in my mouth. Every knee shall bow, and every tongue shall confess that Jesus the mighty King is Lord!
Amen
@@carlatoppins8567 Amen!
I’m in the process of breaking a soul tie I feel is only affecting me, and now I have I have to listen to this everyday to keep getting through.
@Monk Mode We'll get through this
@@GrowingThroughMy30s I'm just dealing with it right now
I'm going through this now🤦🏿♀️I'm sick of it
Going through this right now🥺
Going through this too
I changed my number back in June after having my previous number for 4 years. I’m great at dropping people like a bad habit. I was feeling a way after changing my number though. I knew I had to because they would continuously call me from “NO CALLER ID.” I cut off toxic relationships, toxic family members and friends. So yes anyone can get cut off.
I moved and feel better. Y’all better listen to tony. I’ll no longer block my blessings.
Be blessed. 🙏🏾
ebonie shenece Same. I was still getting voice mails, and messages on all apps plus unknown numbers.
Anybody that needs my new number is going to have to find me. If I didn’t send you the new one (as far as friends and family) you wasn’t using the old one.
I prayed and prayed about the situation and one day I woke I just didn't care! As bad as my ex did me, to this day I dont feel any way about him.
Rhonda Ricks me to
Listen, you gotta be a SAVAGE about break these things. You have to WANT to break a soul Tie. People just full of it and dont want to do the work. All these "what ifs" mannn...we have to listen and want change. Be blessed!
I couldn't agree more babe, we really have to want on all levels. When you get weak - get stronger. By any means necessary, it has to be done. I have to put in the work, I have to stop falling like this. savage is key!
🙏 Amen
You speaking to a lot of people including me🙌🏾
Latrice R lol the funniest but realest comment
Right im trying... I just gotts put the middle man in it since my soul tie is my baby father it was to toxic
We reference sex so much that we tie it to everything!🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Emotional Soul-ties are just as HARD!!!!!
Facts!
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Very much so it’s actually worse
Amen
This is my current dilemma. Spiritual and intense emotional connections are just as hard.
I broke my soul tie by completely cutting them off. No intimacy, dates or nothing. Told them why. Also pray for strength because you will need it.
Man I died laughing when he said, move to a different location, change your number, change your job, Ect, bc that’s the truth on all levels, I just got my life back from this sermon fr, thank you Tony, this was real good, I had to watch this vid 3 times , it was just that good to me.
WOW !!!
You are exactly right! I left a man because he was narcissistic and very unemotional detached to women as well as ungrateful.This was me a year ago. It took for me to begin blocking on Social Media...then not answering text and phone calls after falling back a few times. I eventually changed my number and even MOVED out the area. It sounds crazy but it was all for the right reasons. I still think of him...but its just that...a thought.. Im much stronger now and I've grown as a woman since then. I feel good about the decisions I've made in order for me to be complete and happy. Within 2 months after me leaving he moved a lady and her kids in with him. Lol good luckbto the both of them. I have my own job (a nurse) my own car and my own home no loss on my end.Thank You Mr. Gaskins...God Bless
Very good job 👌 pray for me too
Be blessed! My son's father was my abuser and I went cold turkey no contact. Let me tell you I haven't felt this at peace in life for a while.
You went no contact even with a shared child? How were you able to go that?
Be blessed, I'm breaking my soul to with my ex wife, she is the mother of our 3 beautiful children. I left a good relationship of a year with a good woman and had 2 years of toxic headaches trying to work back to work things out. I realized I got my katana and learned that I allowed myself to be at this point. After getting kicked out the house the last time and being humiliated for the last time, I said God take the wheel. I'm free from trying to reconcile what was Lost and though I loved her I can't save what can't be. Thanks for your video. Now I'm rebuilding myself and I know my testimony can help more than just myself but those who can relate. I'm subbed stay blessed brother
Hows it going now? Meet anyone new yet ?
@@mickieiverson4403 it’s going great 😊 thanks for asking. The Queen I’m currently involved with has been amazing this past year and a half! We currently just take things one day at a time and allow our frequencies to vibrate high so our children can have better examples in their lives.
Jesus said, “ if your right hand offend you or cause you to stumble/sin cut it OFF!” Not literally cutting off the hand, literally cutting off the very thing that has potential to hinder you causing you to go to through or to hell! 🤷🏾♀️
I’ve had a few soul ties, but the last one was the hardest to break and leave behind. My expectations were SO high, they were TOO high! And when God instructed me to separate from him, I had a chance to think over our relationship and exam just how toxic we were! I went through all the grieving phases, but I stayed in anger the longest and I think I went back to it a few times! I was soooo mad at him, but time taught me that I was actually mad at myself for getting involved with him in the first place! The field was covered in RED FLAGS and I justified them because of his title: Pastor. The last time we spoke was his birthday, October 31 and he said something that I hadn’t heard him ever say before. He said, when you go and come back it disrupts my spirit and I can’t take it anymore. Mind you, at one point I would try to break up with him every chance I got, but he wouldn’t let me. (Toxic, I know! But I knew he wasn’t the one and I wrestle with it.) Anyways, those words hit home... hearing that from a man somehow shook me to my core. I’m so used to us women voicing our hurt, to actually hear a man admit you are hurting me... as a child of God, I had to face facts, this wasn’t godly! After a few days of still trying to reason with him and within myself and seeing that he hadn’t changed in a year of being separated, I walked away. Relationships are serious business y’all, we really have to be whole before we get involved with someone else. It’s dangerous if you don’t! But no one tells you that if you’re not looking for answers! Thank God for Tony and others who are spreading knowledge!
I'm currently in process if breaking a soul tie.. So far so good. Im in constant prayer to God for strength to continue on this journey.
Going through this now and it’s definitely very hard. 😫
MONIQUE HILL me to
When they show you..you know the rest. Just recently had this experience, glad God showed me how controlling, domineering and angry he was, IN MY OWN HOME! Boy, ✌out!
Hopefully you've found some peace💫Going through this right now too.
How are you now🤔
How are you know??
"We done went down that road and rode the tires flat!! " 😭😂😂 Yeees kick it Tony!!! ❣️
Cut them ties ppl want you stuck and not doing better without them. It’s crazy the tactics people will go but look out for you what’s ahead is better than what’s behind you .
Be blessed. After 2 yrs of no communication with my ex (changed my number) I broke down and contacted him looking for closure cause I couldn't get him out of mind. I felt We needed to have a conversation. We managed to talk for 2 months then his true colors came out. He never changed. Now I have to work on getting over him forever.
Cookies and Pie you’ll get over him. It just takes time. A day to day process. Pray that you go through and win this battle 💯👍🙏
@@NeverIsNoOption thank you
Blessings to you Cookies and Pie, now looking back, would you still have contacted him for closure or would you remain silent?
Be blessed! Finally broke my soul tie last month. Some days I want to pick up the phone and call, but then I remember why I cut him off in the first place. Thank you for your insight, Tony!
CUT IT OFF AT THE ROOT.
I am trying to break a soul tied . It was not a real Orion ship he was a player and it was toxic! I kept coming back to him now i realized that I am valuable, beautiful and intelligent. Deserve love. He had sex with me in his car all the time like we were 16! Or I was a prostitude! He would never kiss me not even during sex would not take me anywhere. I realized my time it’s valuable. He would never called me by my name always Baby ! We don’t have friends in common! I miss him and i have to stop myself from texting!!
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Elizabeth Toeroek mamas I know it’s hard. I too have similar understandings. They’re beautiful right, they have a swag and charisma but if it was right for us-that imaginary scenario we had when we were younger than you would not be feeling this way. A relationship should not be hard but come naturally. Yes in the beginning I cried more than jt told home girl to cry him a river. But at a point practice self love, work on your goals. They have to find their value and when they do they have to recognize yours. Set your standards. I did a sexual/aura cleanse(can find TH-cam videos on it) and I promise you, you will feel a change. Make a gratitude journal, make a vision board, elevate yourself. Tell yourself your the bombdiggity. They will try to come back and I’m not the type to end on bad terms despite what they have done so I am currently debating on meeting with them but all I can say is what you want is attainable. It’s just the way your mind is set. It is bigger than them.
@@elizabethtoeroek891 going to similar things. however i block him and he gets false number and calls me or comes str8 to my house. i just stop blocking him and told my self if i didnt event you sucker ur be out there...knocking till your knockles bleed
Just recently moved two states away from mine...he hasn't changed, He's a ladies man and is addicted to the attention no matter how much we love each other or even for our friendship for that matter...he wants to visit with my stepson but after this video it's confirmed it can.not happen...ty for this!
Currently being strung along, but not anymore💯 Thank you!
Same here
Tracy Chapman said it best "a love delayed for days to come is as good as none".
Be blessed! Someone in my life always makes fun of me for blocking people out of my life because I am constantly fighting for my purity. Blocking my exes have been the best decision I’ve made for my life and future. By the grace of God, Ive been going strong for more than 5 years now.
I will listen and listen and listen and listen, as I am dealing with this right now..... i thought blocking was petty but now i understand...... i blocked him, he can keep it moving, but loooooorrrrrrrd the pain of moving onnnnnnn..... it will get better i believe. kept on rewinding the video hahahahaaaaa this truth is so real and so deep
Destined 4GREATNESS it’s hard but necessary!!!! You just wake up and realize you deserve better
I’ve had my number almost 20 years. I’m the director of the block ministry. Simple solution.
Same. The blocked list will do just fine
Lol! I must be the assistant director
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So happy I’m on the right track it’s time to let go and glow up 🌞
This kept popping up in my recommendations and i finally decided to click on it, super glad I did! Very powerful message, especially coming from a man. Thank you for this!!
I'M BLESSED. IT'S BEEN 6 YEARS
AND HAPPILY SINGLE.
Be Blessed! I watched this about two years ago and it never really sunk in until now. Two years of continuing to “figure it out because no relationship is easy.” Just for me to be back here. Don’t need or want anymore signs, I’m ready to move on with my life. Thank you Tony!
Thank you for saying it’s not petty to block someone when it’s over. So many people have their wires crossed like it’s about “winning”. It’s the sensible thing to do actually and completely necessary to heal.
BE BLESSED!! ❤️ I came crying and breaking down and literally just dying of thirst for this information, I am so desperate to break this trauma bond and soul-tie (basically an obsession) from my narcissistic ex. You’re a blessing Tony, thank you so mulch! 😢 Please pray for me.
I completely understand. I too have been with a narcissist. Narcissists are no joke. I’ll be praying for you. You’re stronger than you think.
You are a God send! Keep doing the Lord's work.
I have been dealing with a soul tie for years that I just couldn't break. After getting saved, I was on TH-cam looking for some positive music and positive words, there you appeared. I had never heard of Tony Gaskins. I believe it was divine intervention that led me to you. I am stronger, I know my value and I work on myself everyday. May God bless you and your family, please continue to educate us, the bible says "my people parish because of lack of knowledge."
Be Blessed~! Broke Soul Tie chain w/Father of my 2 Beautiful children and an X! The incredible thing about breaking a Soul Tie... your Soul comes back to yourself 💕 Thank you TG.. you help me become a Real Queen 👸🏾
Yep they may drop you like a bad habit but once that shit doesn't work they keep coming running back you block them focus on yourself
Be blessed 🙏🏾. I really wanna break my soul tie with my childs father.
@Rat Dusty If it's not God-ordained then there's no need for her to do so.
It’s been six days since I put him out. I’m about to block him on everything right now!!!!!! Thank you so much for this message. Be blessed by the Most High 🙏🏽
How are you holding up andndoing today?
Said my last ‘goodbye’ to my ex not too long ago. The process was tough, but luckily didn’t last as long as I thought it would. Even when you can’t stand the person in the pit of your core, or touch them with a 30 mile pole… soul ties are the hardest to overcome. Didn’t have kids with him luckily and the relationship was rather short for me, but during, that emotional soul tie had me running back after all the cheating and accusations. I’m not privy to blocking because I always end up unblocking… but my “Ignore” game has developed tremendously, and now he gets to watch my glow up (without him) vicariously through social media 😌 Be blessed
Currently going through this abd can’t stop thinking about him alll the time, his on my mind and yes whenever I think about our intimacy I craved him and gave me chills cuz I would miss everything about him but yeah sure is active online probably talking to someone.😩😩💔💔💔 but i know from heart that I need to not hear or see him!!!
@@ingridrevolorio1800 Honestly, it was very difficult to let go. And i wouldn’t expect it to be easy for anyone. I had moments when i thought of us and the good times we shared, but the bad would overpower the thought, leaving me questioning why i even wasted that time fighting for us. Fighting myself, him and his mistakes, my family’s justified ridicule. It just became too much, and I knew I didn’t deserve the headache it caused. You’ll come to a place where you will be more important than “y’all” and it’ll be easier to get over it and him. It’s been almost 2 years since my breakup, almost a year since I last spoke to my ex (who still
Reaches out via social media), and I’m still happily single by preference, but it feels like it’s only been 4/5 months since us. You’ll have those moments too, but just give it time and make yourself unavailable to temptations to go back… you’ll be okay 😌💜
Thank you so much for the message. I absolutely needed this. I'm been struggling so much and crying since he left and moved in with another woman this week. I'm in disbelief. You messages made me see thing from a different view.
I know exactly what you're talking about because I feel free, I breathe better when I don't see him but the moment I do, I'm back in the trenches. That sucks especially when you know someone is not right for you.
Lol! That was me, I had the same number for 15years and didn't want to change it but it was the BEST thing I ever done!!!!
Im in the same boat now about changing my number
@@BeingMyoshi Honey is was hardddddddd for me because I'm one of those people who don't like change to begin with. Then I started thinking about how people in my past ( who number I no longer had) would never have a way to contact me again . Then I realized that God was removing old people from old seasons in order to replace them with new people. I an so glad I was obedient because it has been life changing. 😇
@@lealeahazel8093 Tony is a blessing isn't he!! Do it boo! Don't even think to long because you will change your mind😂😂
Me too but I didn’t change my number, I blocked, and I jumped up and moved . I’ve been in my place for 19 years and he knew that . So I had several thousand dollars saved, so first and last month wasn’t no problem. I just bought a house . I don’t follow him social media nor his friends and family. I feel so good now my energy has sky rocket 🚀. I also prayed to God !! God has help me a lot in this healing process. Along with friends , my co worker , tells me all the time don’t settle remember that. Wait wait wait , and that’s what I’m doing.
@@kizzyrock you are so right! This soul tie I'm breaking through is so hard but the number change will help. Blocking didnt work he'd spoof as my family numbers and my job...I had exes I havent talked to in years text out the blue. I'm like whos this lol
Be Blessed.
As a man, I admit I was part to blame for the breakdown of the relationship by being distant. However, the way I was treated during the breakup showed me I need to snap that soultie to stop her torturing me. So I can learn my lessons, grow as a man and truly move on to the person I’m meant to spend my life with. ❤️
Thank you for this video.
I needed this tonight trying to leave this unhealthy relationship behind that has cost me everything I want my life back I want to be happy again and for my family please pray for me
I also think the “looking in rearview mirror “ boils down to a simple feeling of failure. That was me. Nobody wants to feel like a failure in a relationship especially if you have given 110% and in this case the man has barely given anything. It’s about being selfless.
I'm learning and trying to stay away. We were in a situationship for almost two years. He moved back home(2hrs away) and I went to visit him. It's been almost two months since I've physically seen him. We rarely even speak anymore. I've had to realize that I'm not his choice and honestly that's been hard. I'm trying to just stay away for good because loving him hurts. It doesn't help that he was what filled a void due to my divorce.
Be Blessed*** I Needed This Video and These Comments! Spreading Peace, Love, And Light To All Of You Beautiful Souls Stay Positive and Always Put "YOU" First.
I’m watching this video in tears. For years this has been my dilemma with my child’s father. It’s THE HARDEST thing I’ve ever faced
Blocked never looking back. Be blessed 🙏🏼✨ thank you soooo much for this
Be Blessed!! Tonyyyyyyyyy you hit home today! I cut off all ties. I am so ready to move on with my life. Thanks brother you are heaven sent!
“You make him a sandwich... you doin’ the most.” 🤣🤣🤣
Christian Reyes 😂😂😂😂 the way he said it though 😭😭😭
I'm in this place now, and I appreciate you for your time
Lol. 😅
BE BLESSED.... it’s truly hard but something that has to be done . 😢
Be Blessed. Blocked the man I have a soul tie with yesterday and I feel so free!🙏🏾
"Keep u stuck in case they don't grow"... Super quote. My man thanks for the info.
In my opinion to add, prayer that God intervene. Be blessed
be blessed.
when he came back after a year, i should have known he was just coming back to me to practice treating the next one that he actually wants right. now he telling me to go find someone who wants to be stuck to me all the time bc he doesn't, who makes the money i make (which is way less than him), who don't have kids, and has a normal job. He just asked me today, what can i do for him that he can't do for himself. He asked why i never have money (i never told him i don't, or do for that matter). he says we don't work. So, why did he come back in my messages a year after cheating on me with my coworker? Because, what he thought he had in the bag with her, he didn't. He needs to go look again, but have me there to lick his wounds. I nurtured and loved him for somebody else. Being a wife to not even a boyfriend. This is what happens when you are with someone who God did not send for you, whether male or female. You sacrifice your love, for people who only use it to their advantage. You end up trying to fix someone, who only breaks you. You end up with someone the enemy has blessed you with and a soul tie that keeps you shackled. When you look back you say, "what was my love used for?" "what was my sex used for?" "what was my presence and care used for?" "used for" and "valued for" are two separate things. That new person will be valued for everything you taught that person, but that person will never be enough for them, and come running back again. Think on this, when they come back. Stop the cycle before it starts. You stay with them for the sake of not breaking your own heart; you stay on the bike instead of getting scraped up. Let it fall. You'll get back up. God said, "I'm moving them to bless you with better; will you let me elevate you from this?" Nothing was lost there, everything was stolen, and you will be given 100 fold. Turn that loose. That was not the real deal. God has the real deal. This fake prepared you for it. so, thank them for the lessons, and forgive them for misusing your love, and forgive yourself for trying to change them and accepting it. Forgive yourself for sacrificing yourself at someone's disposal. Now, celebrate yourself for the new beginning and the new start with the new knowledge. Congratulate yourself that your next relationship will be everything it needs to be, because you were strong enough to let go of everything that a relationship is not supposed to be. Don't waste anymore hope on the dead one, but you only look forward to the one coming that is so divine. Spring cleaning is tough, but old clothes, shoes, etc just have to go. If it takes from you, donate it. let her or him have it. Spring cleaning is hard, when it's internal bc our safety and security system teaches us to latch on, fear of the unknown without all you've ever known. Ask God to clear your heart, mind, soul, and your chakras from this person; clear them from your ora. When you think of them, stop and meditate, listen to a spiritual song, or simply speak "I release this energy to you Lord; give me strength." Crying is releasing and healing. I know your mind is made up about this person, but their mind is made up too. They are going to seek temporary fullfillment with this person. Is it okay for them to go a different direction, if it means you being fullfilled indefinitely? Go to where all of your blessings can be added unto you, and stop leaving the portal open for the enemy to tempt you to sacrifice yourself again. No contact, no open airways. Let the dead bury the dead. No point of re-entry. They will always chase what they found in you, in someone else.
@@dublingirl1691 💜🧡💛💚
That's keeping it real real Bro! You cannot break it and fix it, at the same time. What's done is done and you got to move along, to move on. Bless!
Today is the first day I’ve ever watched your video for the past months I’ve been doing these things..I told my ex (my daughters father (shes 9 months) that I didn’t wanna see him anymore and for months my oldest child has been the middle person taking the baby outside doing whatever it takes for me not to see him yesterday he made me feel crazy for not seeing him how mean I am how hurtful I am so today when he came to bring her some things I let him in my home…. Boy I wish I didn’t all these feelings that I thought were gone came rushing back and I hurt all over again … later today he told me he’s moved on and is in love so that hurt intensified… so now I’m back 5 steps. After watching this I feel validated for what I had been doing and texted him my boundaries I have to get the old me back and this is the only way .. thanks for the conformation that I had been doing things right all along
Only been intimate with him two times, TWO times!!!! & I already feel like that has been enough!!!! I thought I would be doing it for “fun”, but nope. As I’m getting older & been through a couple of soul ties i have FINALLY realized that’s not healthy for me. Know your worth ladies & gentlemen. Learn to love yourself first. Everything & everyone will come into your life when needed. Let’s start learning from our mistakes.
I have 2 children with him, it’s hard
But I’m gon be alright
I have two kids by this person he can careless about me or his kids
@@trendarowe6560 sameeeeee
@@trendarowe6560 me too. My son cries almost all the time telling me he misses his dad and why he doesn't love him anymore. 10yrs of nothing, I pray I never look back. I just hurt for my children
And see that's exactly what I am going through right now I am married to the man who acts like he has a soul tied with the woman he was previously married to and has a daughter bot but the daughter is 22 years old and he doesn't know how to tell her anything about responsibilities in life but has the nerve to try to turn around and tell my adult children about what they are not doing because of what he said hit child doing like showing love but she only shows love when she wants something and let her mother tell her things to cause a problem in our relationship and every time when there's a problem he runs over there to them and she let him in and they try to turn around and make me feel like I'm a woman who's trying to take advantage of my husband and I tried to show them in my place as his wife to stop disrespecting me I told my husband that you do not show any boundaries and that's the reason why we are going through what we are going through now I have a soul tie I guess if that's what you call it with this man but he doesn't feel the same for me even though we don't have children together but he doesn't look at the things that he done and feel like anything he had did was wrong and to be honest I really am just sick of it because this man is too damn old 41 and he's 54 and his ex-wife is 63 years old
Be blessed. Guys create that distance, they really will keep u on 'standby' til they is ready. Trust me. Your worth more than that. Your worth that when someone sees you, they really see you. U know wot I'm saying. Tc
I believe soul ties are a hidden form of self sabotaging behavior, codependency.
Working hard on self love value and worth is the key 🔑 to healing from these programs that have had us brainwashed.
Get that root cleaned up and take your power back...
God bless TG😇
You are so right
I am 3 years later, but BE BLESSED!
I highly recommend RC Blake’s videos on soul ties, specially when having emotional ties with a narcissist. God bless 🙏