The story of finding a sugar daddy on craigslist

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  • @liahatz
    @liahatz  4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Just texted my dad telling him not to watch my latest video

    • @b4isleep1
      @b4isleep1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Which of course he will do.

    • @docmarmalade5224
      @docmarmalade5224 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Eeeek, will your dad do as you ask?

    • @AngelaGWillis
      @AngelaGWillis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wouldn't hide this from your Dad. I am a parent to three children. In my opinion, I think that this video shows intelligence and the ability to choose what you are most comfortable with, to find your own way, to admit your mistakes (or near close calls), and dare I say, the morals you have been taught. If you were my daughter and I saw this, I would be proud of the choices you have made and the person you have grown into.

    • @tiamo543
      @tiamo543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      now he is going to for sure

    • @Charlierose214
      @Charlierose214 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      ahahaha

  • @ErinLynnS
    @ErinLynnS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I'd be afraid of being murdered, honestly. The craigslist killer will forever be in my mind. Meeting my now husband through an online dating app made me uneasy enough.

  • @cyndiopfar6932
    @cyndiopfar6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so so glad you chickened out. My mom used to work at the rape crisis center when I was young. She used to take my sister and I with her to these classes she used to do where she would show movies of situations and how they can turn out wrong and what you should do. When you were talking about this, everything in my head was screaming NOOOOO! Again, glad you didn't do it.

  • @joannebaker4925
    @joannebaker4925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lia, it just show how smart you are. Situations like that could get young women into trouble. Thank goodness you made a different decision. With age comes experience,wisdom and perspective.

  • @KateS1980
    @KateS1980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes! Just came from the new Joel & Lia vid...Fridays are far more fab with back-to-back Lia xx

  • @christineallocca7307
    @christineallocca7307 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So glad you changed your mind. Love your singing at the end of each video. ❤❤❤

  • @peggyford3801
    @peggyford3801 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Omg 😳 I think that’s how girls disappear,never to be seen again. Thank God you didn’t do it!!!
    Young girls... DON’T DO THAT!!!

  • @dimitrispsarias5840
    @dimitrispsarias5840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Honest and funny story !! Nice that you wanted it back then, nicer that you thought of it twice and even better that you have evolved since then ! :)

  • @donniebrooks21
    @donniebrooks21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so personable and would have done well at it. You can talk to anyone and they would have loved you if it only been out to eat , going to a pub or to the cinema. On the other hand, it would have been so scary and you never know what the person's real intentions are. Thanks for sharing!!

  • @dodiecanova854
    @dodiecanova854 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went to college in Palm Beach Florida - lot of old money there. One of my friends was a companion to an elderly lady. Turns out it was THE MRS KRAFT (the condiment tycoon). She literally just wanted his friendship. He took her to the mall, carried her bags, etc,,, she like to try and do things on her own and she’d ask Brady to wait for her. She’d go shop and then try to find her way back to him she usually ended up lost and had to call him so he could find her. So cute!

  • @michaelmullard4292
    @michaelmullard4292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hilarious story! What occupation would a person list on a credit application if they were a sugar baby? “Kept woman/man??” I’d like to see that!

  • @ScarletteSun
    @ScarletteSun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I'm actually a really conservative woman but.... when I was like 23 I was in a hard place in my life and I went on a sugar daddy site and had some interested but the "terms" were weird to me and I slapped myself right back to my morals. I'm so glad I never did it. Not trying to shame women who do this, it just isn't me.

  • @stephanieparido3790
    @stephanieparido3790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have had Dm's about being a Sugarbaby too the funny part is I am 51

  • @pibgorn
    @pibgorn 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Enjoyed the anecdote & the music at the end is perfect.

  • @megan9009
    @megan9009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    When you put your mouth over Joel's I lost it 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bethwerve282
    @bethwerve282 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lia, I would totally buy your Christmas album!!

  • @ElleS572
    @ElleS572 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad you're here to tell the story!!! 🥰💞

  • @jorgejefferson8251
    @jorgejefferson8251 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    And she ends this vlog by singing "Santa baby"......spot on

  • @emmef7970
    @emmef7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not sure where you come from but where I come from and the programs and articles I have watched, sugar daddy's and their young sugar babies are "usually" in more intimate relationship than just being "arm candy" whilst going out on the town and keeping each other company. If you are interested there are quite a few shows on you-tube, ABC Nightline on Sugar Daddies and Babies & 60 Minutes Australia - The Secret World of Sugar Babies. Both very good programs. It tells the same story about the industry as most of the others. Not that there can't be exceptions in these relationships but it seems to be the norm, that there is a physical relationship. Thankfully, Lia listened to her intuition that was telling her it was not a good position to put herself in.

  • @lorainescheuring32
    @lorainescheuring32 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love today's story. Thanks for sharing.

  • @sandramccusker5520
    @sandramccusker5520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Straightforward in your head turns messy in the real world. I’m glad you didn’t go through with it but I get being broke and desperate. Live and learn, that’s how it goes.

  • @debraclarkbrown3264
    @debraclarkbrown3264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lia! That was a very open, honest and interesting spill showing your growth and maturity into this modern lady persona you wear so charmingly. I'm more a fan tonight than ever before.
    PS your complexion is beautiful. I'm interested to know about your skin care routine.
    ❤️ An older modern woman.

  • @amandajones661
    @amandajones661 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Don't feel bad about your parents helping if they can. As long as it's not a lifetime thing and you don't take advantage of your parents it's okay. 💙💙💙

  • @Gr8man4sex
    @Gr8man4sex 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think a lot of people enter into those things with a lot of misconceptions which could end badly. You would definitely need to establish some ground rules.

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just watched a dating safety video the other day. Going to a stranger's private house is a high risk move. It is so easy for the man to suddenly get physically violent behind closed doors. Another point is that it's usually just a short walk from the living room to the bedroom. It is theoretically possible for the man to overpower the female, drag her to the bedroom and then sexually assault her on his bed. I have heard of people renting the company of others as a "loneliness prevention" move. One way they can do this is by hiring someone from an escort service. However, escort services have a very slimy, nasty reputation in the US. Some people think that an escort always ends up naked giving favors to the other person in the end.
    It's sad when you have to pay someone to pretend to be your friend.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In some Asian countries it's normal to pay someone to be your friend or even to act like your family member 😂😂. They also have a rent a friend website that I believe is for more than one country but it does emcompass the US

  • @maryannlyons5695
    @maryannlyons5695 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok that was a great story! Maybe not funny then but def funny now. One to tell the grandkids someday 😆

  • @folkmusicvideo
    @folkmusicvideo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Lia, you ought to think about getting a ukulele. It will help you to play guitar, the fingerings are the same, uke is like the guitar with a capo on the 5th fret. Plus it's very easy to pickup and just start strumming, so people tend to practice more. For $100 bucks you can get a very playable uke these days. Enjoying your work ! Glad your health is back !

    • @liahatz
      @liahatz  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have a really nice one! It’s at my dads house, I might bring it back to Chichester because I miss it! Thanks for the reminder x

  • @1stAmbientGrl
    @1stAmbientGrl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, Lia! That was very risky. And Craigslist, of all places! Yeeek! I'm so glad you didn't go through with it!

  • @bigalthetank
    @bigalthetank 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    now I'm curious how many people tip you a coffe just from this video LOL
    love your singing at the end!

  • @robertschwartz4810
    @robertschwartz4810 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men who would accompany older ladies to the theater or other events used to be called "walkers". I did know a young woman who told me she "dates for a living", but I noticed that although she lived at a good address, her apartment was rented and so was her furniture. Her furs were inexpensive and so was her jewelry. If the "daddy" left then she'd be left with nothing but wasted time.

  • @tiamo543
    @tiamo543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i also would have chickened out, i think there is always that expectation of more that i just couldnt do. :) lol though that you were emailing back and forth

  • @TrajennyJensen
    @TrajennyJensen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this story lol

  • @karenpinson759
    @karenpinson759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh, Dearheart, I am so, so glad you changed your mind. Going to some strange man's house could have put you in so much danger. I shudder to think about it. You are too lovely and maybe a bit too naive to think that these men would just want a friend, but more along the line of "friend with benefits." Don't consider it as "chickening out," but more along the lines of "smartening up."

    • @emmef7970
      @emmef7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very, very true. Their are plenty of shows on you tube from the U.S. and Australia about the reality of the sugar daddy & sugar baby relationship. Lia certainly dodged an uncomfortable situation at the very least. Thankfully!

  • @jaedebrereton3737
    @jaedebrereton3737 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😄 I saw when you posted about this on your IG story. I sent you a message, because I recently got a similar message myself. Joked that we were basically sugar sisters. Hahaha. By the way, totally using the Skillshare offer.

  • @deannaeakle8680
    @deannaeakle8680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m glad you didn’t go through with it! Who knows if they would have been trustworthy

  • @jumpingjeffflash9946
    @jumpingjeffflash9946 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I could listen to this accent all day.

  • @b4isleep1
    @b4isleep1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So based on your last comment in closing you now need a part time Coffee or Tea Daddy.

    • @liahatz
      @liahatz  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @jorgejefferson8251
    @jorgejefferson8251 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The late professional golfer Payne Stewart told an embarrassing story to his good friend, professional golfer Paul Azinger. At the end of the story Stewart stated what he thought the mistake he made was. Paul countered and told Stewart that the big mistake he made was actually telling the story to him, as Paul burst into laughter and mocked his good friend.

  • @sharonhuff8648
    @sharonhuff8648 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lia you have a Wonderful voice! I wish I could sing a quarter of the way you do.

  • @vanessargipson
    @vanessargipson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I have a friend who keeps tossing around the idea of selling feet pictures... there's a market for everything these days.

    • @liahatz
      @liahatz  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would so do that if I didn’t have size 6 wide feet looool

    • @peacelovelarkable
      @peacelovelarkable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have been doing it for a couple weeks now. Its actually pretty interesting

    • @mariarossi6719
      @mariarossi6719 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peacelovelarkable My feet are pretty decent. Where do I sign up?!

    • @peacelovelarkable
      @peacelovelarkable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mariarossi6719 I just made an Instagram and an only fans and posted "previews" and let them come to me! But you have to weed through a lot of scammers

    • @peacelovelarkable
      @peacelovelarkable 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mariarossi6719 use a million hashtags related to feet and NEVER send them money first to prove you are "real"

  • @kenfrank3782
    @kenfrank3782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If you just sang that Santa Baby song at the of this video -- it was REALLY good 🤙🏻

    • @liahatz
      @liahatz  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did! thanksss

  • @deborahgodley6980
    @deborahgodley6980 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lia, you crack me up! Of course you chickened out! It's not YOU!

  • @djehrenreich
    @djehrenreich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So glad you didn’t do that.... scary

  • @Novaximus
    @Novaximus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No matter what your income is everyone says the same thing...."If only I had twice as much as "insert income" I"m making now" It doesn't even matter if you're well off. People who make a salary of the national household income think..."man I'm struggling. If I could just make an extra 2k a month my life would be perfect" But when you reach that level those people still think the same thing. Because you've just bumped up your standard of living and life just demands more of you. And it feels like it's never enough. Yet people figure out how to survive at a poverty level.
    I make a little more than the national average household income as an American. (which is about 50 - 60k per year) So like 95% of Americans live off of this amount before deductions from your paycheck. But it's a hustle cause let me tell you....even though you're making the status quo it's STILL not enough to live like you'd think an average american house hold should look like. That is .... a 2,500 square foot house on a half acre property supporting a wife and 2 kids and a pet. Fully covered with enough to splurge on vacations and maybe an expensive hobby.
    The truth of the matter is you can really afford being a renter. That most of Americans are living in debt and spending above their means. Or they have alternative income you don't hear about like inheritance or maybe theyre renting part of the house out to a family member. Or some kind of side hustle. Then after 10 years or so of living it up they down size back to trailer in florida or something when they hit retirement and move back in with their adult kids and are completely broke lmao.
    Anyways I've rambled on enough. I just thought it was funny when you said .... 6:19

  • @cheryldemarco889
    @cheryldemarco889 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I think of Craigslist. I think of the Craigslist Killer. I'd be so scared of being raped & killed. Thank God you chose another path.

  • @alexsmith9617
    @alexsmith9617 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So your ad for skill share cuts in and I burst out laughing 😆...just what kind of skills are you sharing?

    • @alexsmith9617
      @alexsmith9617 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PS; I’m not lacking in naive, dumb moves. I’m impressed with your bravery and humor now.

  • @dr.westwood
    @dr.westwood 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    One must maintain a certain standard of living after all.

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hello Lia

  • @seandesmond5560
    @seandesmond5560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad you didn't go through with it Lia and Joel and Lia channel took off to the point where you can make a living from TH-cam!!! 😊

  • @Brooksie603
    @Brooksie603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I would have been the same way. I was such a chicken when I was younger with that stuff. I would have been afraid of what else would be expected. What if he was a secret serial killer or something and that was how he got his victims. I have a vivid imagination for things that could go wrong. I think there's a lot of sugar babies in entertainment business. People don't want to commit and potentially lose all their money if they get married so they just pay for company. They can cut them loose when ever they want then right?

  • @rgmm8888
    @rgmm8888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's scary for all peeps!! 😳😳

  • @Christina_rs
    @Christina_rs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think you had a lucky escape by not going through with it.
    I watched an interview on Sean attwood's channel of a girl who was a sugar baby, it's not as innocent as you think. I think the girl's name was cali

  • @Novaximus
    @Novaximus 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    7:39 People who have nothing to hide....hide nothing.

  • @VickiCampbell-1216
    @VickiCampbell-1216 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lia, no worries Sweetie!! You would've made a nice companion for a wealthy man. No judgments at all. I think it's funny b/c I would've done the same thing! 😁😉💚🎄💚

  • @questionmark9819
    @questionmark9819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    so glad you didn't do it.....always trust your instinct!

  • @Carlaskirt
    @Carlaskirt 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do remember that background!

  • @FilmFloozy
    @FilmFloozy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The choice is between being a Sugar Baby or a Marzipan Madam.

  • @chrysopylaedesign
    @chrysopylaedesign 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Humm???......."LOOKED into having a Sugar Daddy"??? What does that mean.....exactly?

  • @LeoTheShortGuy
    @LeoTheShortGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fun and interesting. :)

    • @MsTrain69
      @MsTrain69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Leo, Joel and Lia are worried about you! They said they haven’t heard from you in months. It was mentioned in the last live. Hope you are ok. 🙂

    • @LeoTheShortGuy
      @LeoTheShortGuy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MsTrain69 I am boycotting them. Just kidding. Actually just off on other adventures. I am sure I will visit again. :).

    • @MsTrain69
      @MsTrain69 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LeoTheShortGuy thanks for letting me know. I’m glad you’re ok 👍

  • @Ninjamom4
    @Ninjamom4 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @DavidMoore-yd3ws
    @DavidMoore-yd3ws 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lia....For us Americans-what is a PUNNET of mushrooms in your previous recipe?????

    • @patrickchambers5999
      @patrickchambers5999 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Googling the term I found it to be a small square container used for irregular sizes fruits and vegetables and usually about 250 grams or about 8.8 ounces.

  • @tellemomma9780
    @tellemomma9780 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's lovely that you thought it was only dinner and dates! Lol! That would have been me at 24 also! Don't get me wrong there might be some nice men out there that just want companionship but I thing Viagra ruined that for alot of ladies! Lol! That was a cute story! And I have been with Joel and Lia since the background you mentioned but I changed my user name a few months ago!

  • @DennisDA
    @DennisDA 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Older women who go with younger men are called cougars.

  • @mohammedezzulddin9347
    @mohammedezzulddin9347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautifu

  • @joanneholliday6339
    @joanneholliday6339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well, now then that was an interesting video! Girl, thank god you didn’t follow thru on your thoughts to be someone’s Sugar Baby.

  • @hanssolo8795
    @hanssolo8795 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's fine.Your a pretty women like the movie so you qualify.Youll end up with tough fingertips if you keep playing.No shame all pride.

  • @christihohen
    @christihohen 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Funny story. Lol

  • @mohammedezzulddin9347
    @mohammedezzulddin9347 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow

  • @crinkle2649
    @crinkle2649 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok hilarious. But you didn't say what you said to the guy that messaged you this morning.

  • @kenfrank3782
    @kenfrank3782 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    U

  • @jorgejefferson8251
    @jorgejefferson8251 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You stayed off the pole, that's all that matters.

  • @mahamohammed3434
    @mahamohammed3434 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why get a job while you can easily be a sugar baby on *4 s d* website, and get paid for being a good girl.