'Forgiveness'
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ต.ค. 2024
- please share your experience on forgiveness and letting go of negative harbored feelings against others!! i love to hear about it and allow for my perspective to shift too.. I read most of your comments even if i am unable to respond :-)
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Sometimes there are weak people who make mistakes or want to try something new. it's burden worth bearing. What you miss is that there are people worth forgiving and people who shouldn't be forgiven. The mistakes of someone who has decided for themselves that they want to be a better person is a burden that is as light as a pumice stone on water. Someone who exploits forgiveness by not having any genuine interest in improving sinks like lead and drags everyone down with them. They might say they want to do better but never will put in the effort to do so. It's an abomination.
@@RobertAdamant I agree with this 1000%. My video was specifically regarding people who have no remorse or desire to change. I will have to make another video on this sometime!
@@junnipres I don't want to ruin it by giving my perspective already but I wrote a book a month ago outlining the content of the collective unconscious based on archetypal stories in the same way Carl Jung did and it's surreal how with your videos you're talking as if you already read every chapter of it. Maybe I'm connecting dots that aren't there but still excited to hear what you'll come up with next!
You're right. People who have been hurt often go on to hurting other people. It takes a very special person to break generational cycles of hurt
Their own mindset is their own punishment holy fuxk what a good quote
YOU'RE GROWING LETS GO!!!!!
I started being addicted your videos, they really contain a valuable experience and lessons, it's gold, i'm looking forward for more videos, it would be nice if you makr a video about break up... Anyway take it easy om yourself your not looking fine
@@Motivationrdx5 I appreciate your comment and thank you!! I’ll make a video on breakups eventually for ya :-]
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lol I was the person who commented on it a week ago. Your advice/mindset that you explained in your reply has already helped a ton. Sometimes it is just best to let go of it all and understand that you're a better person because of what happpened.
people are finally realizing what it actually takes to live a good life, I myself was tricked by my own ignorance, and remember not to blame people unless you want to think less of yourself, and good luck
I used to nurture hate against people that slipped from my life, and until I had realized that carrying all that weight was what made me so tired of everything in my day life just sucked. You are really spot on neutrality, you do not need to hold a grudge as much you don't need to accept it.
Sometimes the best way foward is not to go back, hope you all a great day or evening! Take good care.
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I love how this channel is booming!
Normal is different for everyone you seem like open minded intelligent person glad i found you're channel
Im so overjoyed to hear my favourite vagabond quote in one of your videos.
Forgiveness is an act of love and freedom.
Forgiving someone means you give more value to their condition as a person than to their act. It also frees you from the negative influence from that act.
Also a very important thing is being able to forgive ourselves. A mistake is something that we can learn about if we embrace change and compassion.
You and three finger drag and profound pondering are my fav creators/vlogers idk what to call it but like thx a lot for existing
Energetically, holding a grudge or hate for someone is quite heavy. So I release that, forgive them, and ask the Lord to forgive them, myself, and watch over them.
I believe free will does not exist ( I think it is an incoherent concept) and that means there is no rational ground for holding on to hate, it is understandable psychologically why we react in that way sometimes. people just happen to be who they are and accepting that is deeply freeing. Of cource we can try to change eachother and reason with eachother, but at the end of the day things just are how they are.
I remember hearing or reading one time that anger and lashing out and hate is just a lack of intelligence, its someone who literally just doesn't have the brain power to rationalize the complicated situation they're in. I thought that made soo much sense i don't even know if its true but it makes maneuvering through situations much easier knowing that. sometimes you just have to apologize and agree with someone who is seething with anger and hate even if you're in the right and just get out of there later.
"I believe free will does not exist"
Understandable, you are free to believe that.
See what I did there? 🤣
Random video recommended by the tube. Just what one needed to hear.
Hey I watch you almost everyday love what you’re doing btw feels like you’re doing exactly what I’ve been doing in my mind for so long but I think you’re super cool keep it up fr 🏘️👩🏫
thank you :) i'm glad you like my videos!!
I feel aaaahh so honoured that you saw that sick crazy fangirling rn
The main reason you forgive someone is because it takes a huge burden off your shoulders. Something that isn't worth carrying around with you. So you forgive to redeem yourself.
To really want the best for somebody else, you have to be not one step ahead, but at least two, so you can take into account the change that takes places during their lifetime, not just what you experienced.
thanks !!
Forgiveness is a very hard thing to master because it's often hinged on emotional subjects. As a Native American I had to forgive my parents, who had to forgive the people who mistreated them growing up, and so on and so on. I wrote a poem about it, if you're interested:
Wax of mood, reason's wane,
is our fabric not the same?
What sad song; what refrain,
was not then; is not again?
Very touching poem! A lot of layers in few words! Beautiful!
@@Thymeseedvoice Thank you!😄
Unless there's a genuine reason to not forgive in the sense that you use said issue to fuel your future motivations of self pursuit or to tackle the issue that continues compounding, then yes it's better to just observe it, learn from it and move forward, whilst being mindful that the person may not be aware of their actions due to their issues/limitations.
Let go. Focus the energy on your own life, and future. Put your all into what you want instead of wasting it on people who probably aren't worth wasting time on.
What fucking chad uploads videos about complex subjects for 2 weeks straight
Congrats on uploading your first video on a reasonable hour!
Usually when you upload these, it's like 3AM in my contry, now you uploaded one at like 11PM, that's progress!! 🥳🥳
About the rest of the video, since you recommended one or two songs that related to your topic, i keep doing that on my mind, today's song may be "BAGGAGE" from Rare Americans.
About my input..
Yeah, i've been there about no time ago, and whenever i felt like i had these "inner discussions" with this fake, automatically made person that was trying to mirror who i despised by then, and i'd just say to myself "¿What's the point, though?", it's not like it would help me in anything, or it had any use, it was something that i did because of a reflex, because maybe i had something to tell that person that i used to love so damn much, or because i wanted to finally say to their face how horrible was what they done to me, because i knew they wen't fully concious about it, and i wanted a lot to help them... But i wasn't able to keep sacrificing my own mental health to help someone like that, i just couln't keep getting into that toxic friendship. So i just said "yeah, whatever" when i felt like internally i was saying something to them, ir they were saying something to me.
In the end, they were thoughts, my mind was just doing that because i needed to say some things, and i resolved it by ignoring these thoughts, and talking about this with other loved ones.
If i say it now, just like this, sounds incredibly easy, but lord it isn't.
Just keep going, work on yourself and don't let those thoughts get to you. That's the best i can say about this.
Actually made my day better was sad from no upload
Trying to not get burnt out by making myself post every single day now😅. I’d rather post quality than copious amounts of quantity
@@junnipres thank you for that no worries take your time. This comment really makes my day…you already know though, parasocial relationships and shit
I like your quote about being "always changing, always moving forward", it reminds me of 1001 Nights "The truth lies not in one dream, but in many" and sometimes the same can go for nightmares😥 but I try to always stay optimistic and wish the same for others💔❤🩹❤❤❤❤
i forgive you
Honestly I found forgiveness to be more healing for me than the person sometimes. Around a year ago I was in a messy relationship with someone and we didn't know what we were doing. It was hard for me to know how to feel about the whole thing as there were alot of things she did that hurt me as well as things I did that hurt her. Our relationship has been torn ever since and It's still a challenge to think about that experience but learning to forgive her in my heart even when she didn't apologize for her behavior has been something that has helped me move on alot.
oh lil homie knows vagabond, huh? Yeah right? You think we dont know the feds are closing in? Anyways I wish i'd realized this sooner before i'd let the sadness anger and depression consume me in my early twenties, that forgiveness ultimately cures you of the "status ailments" or "debuffs" or trauma. a part of me thinks that i had to figure it out and develop into who i am now, then the other wishes i'd have let it go. Would i still be the same person? Couldnt i have turned out worse had i 'forgiven' to such a degree as to let everything continue, and become my father's little obedient slave, wrapping even more people into a failing family dynamic? Either way you should feel proud of yourself for this deep realization of the nature of forgiveness at such a young age instead of becoming cool and edgy and getting into designer drugs at milady raves.
There is who we were because of what we knew.
Then there’s how our actions effect the world in an objective sense that we can learn in an objective sense by speaking as a collective.
Hurt is hurt, stop means stop and I’m sorry only means something when it translates to diffrent actions.
Lines can be blurred but when it comes to interpersonal connection it always comes back to the same thing.
Open communication, an honest desire to be our best and consistency.
Those are the keys to being happy when we’re around others.
It can be hard to love ourselves when we’ve been taught somone else can’t love us regardless of the reason.
But we don’t need anything other than a path to move forward and self acceptance to live a fulfilling life.
“Every tool to self fulfillment lives within you.” no matter who reads I belive that’s true.
The hard part is belief.
But I belive in you! Who ever is reading this random nonsense of mine lol
this is def something ive had to think about in the past year with the loss of my dad, its been a rollercoaster of emotions lol. sometimes its hard to understand that most people arent inherently "bad" people but have a choice in what path to take, unfortunately my dad kinda went down the indulgence of his ego and addictions, etc. it really makes me wonder what caused the mental patterns in his childhood, early adulthood, etc. that made him who he ultimately embodied ya know?
I like the chain of logic you follow, but it seems like some people could consider anger and hate as bad things; if you are in harmony with those "negative emotions", you can exist comfortably, while keeping the people who deserve some punishment in a "special place", not in your mind, but trapped in your jaws. As a 41 year old guy (about to be 42 near the end of this month), I can tell you that one can be amazed, at how life presents us with the opportunities to get even with those people, and stop them for good (I'll leave that to everyone's interpretation), so that they are unnable to wrong us or others.
I think social 3ngin33ring is to blame. It is important to hate and love, you don't need to get rid of those emotions, you just need to channel things in a constructive or destructive way, as needed. I see too much angst from people, that have no idea what to do with their love and their hate, or how to use them in the best way possible. That is the most important point. How will you use your love? How will you use your hate? Love and hate are actually two sides of the same coin, and that coin is pretty valuable to me; I wouldn't have life any other way.
As a side note, I would recommend reading or watching Goblin Slayer; now that is a good fictional representation, of how to take advantage of your hate, to the point that even others benefit from it.
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In my scenario I’ve taken the red pill, I can never forgive my parents for they pushed me into the stereotyped position of constant suffering which I will endure for the rest of my life.
A whole entire relationship based on a fettish between a white man and an asian woman; anybody with common sense would know that this isn’t stable.
So yes my mother went crazy and abused my dad because she wanted power and money - which is a common thing to do for asian mothers in the west.
And yes, my father put all of this racist hatred in my head towards others because that’s how HE was raised. But I wasn’t aware of the fact that I was asian. Even in childhood he’d shout racist slurs at me.
How do you think I should forgive somebody knowing that I can hear words I can actually understand now? Like mutt or half breed?
You can’t. Because my parents did this to me. And all I have besides from hating my parents is hating myself.
If you continue to hate yourself then your parents still have power over you. To be happier with yourself would be the ultimate middle finger to your parents, and it'd make you feel better.
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do you think you should forgive someone to their face, or just forgive them in your mind and just move on? personally I think forgiving someone who is toxic to their face just brings them back into your life and from my own personal experience they just continue to be toxic.
Whatever you want, but “forgiving” someone doesn’t mean letting them reenter your life after treating it badly. Personally for me, I have a tendency to do it in my own mind, I don’t tell the other person and typically just quickly cut contact. I wish I’d included in the video but you can forgive and not forget :] (meaning not letting people back in your life after what they did bc you know what kind of person they are)
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