Living with OCD
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 พ.ค. 2023
- So here's what it's like for me living with OCD at the moment. It was unexpectedly difficult to film. Don't forget to make yourself a priority and visit betterhelp.com/roseandrosie to get 10% off your first month ❤️ and thank you BetterHelp for sponsoring this video 🥰
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Fun fact: I was pulled through by the power of my fringe 😏
Did you know that the sound of birds actually makes your brain think you’re safe because birds only chirp when there aren’t predators around? 🥰 you can actually listen to birds when you’re anxious because it is known to help people calm down sometimes.
Good thing I’m Australian and wake up to the entire population of magpies every morning
So helpful , thank you
What a great day to be a frog! Much love to all frogs who are struggling. Thanks Rose for being vulnerable
Love you!!!!!!! xxx
As an autistic who’s struggled a lot with intrusive thoughts I absolutely loved this video! And we’ve got cow parsley in Sweden as well, but here it’s called hundkäx which translates to dog biscuits!
I love this fact!
as someone who was diagnosed with pure-o ocd only this year after suffering in silence for years, thank you for doing this video rose. I keep having rough days with intrusive thoughts on and off and this has helped me feel less alone
This was brave
This was empowering
This was why so many of us have been here for so long
Cutie xxx
It’s hard to “shut it down” and chill isn’t it? I understand! Praying for you
I have OCD as well, and you’re so right that it can be hard to recognize sometimes. It’ll just hit me midway through whatever cycling I’m doing that it’s the OCD like an ah-ha moment. Even with the self-awareness, it can still be really hard to stop the cycling. Love you, Rose! ❤
I really appreciate you sharing. Like you said it made me feel less alone being someone with OCD and the daily things and struggles I face. I’ve watched you for years now and I’ve known of your ocd and it’s just another topic you have helped me with accepting.🥰
Rose, this is a fantastic thing you've done here, to open up about your OCD like this is so very brave and a huge benefit to so many people. You should be proud of yourself as we are of you for doing this. BIG LOVES
A great video, thank you for sharing Rose
Proud of you for sharing about this ❤🐸
I haven’t watched your videos in a while and I used to watch them everyday when I was a baby gay figuring things out and now I’m struggling with severe contamination ocd and it feels so comforting I can revisit your videos and feel like I’m not alone once again ❤
One of the reasons I have always watched and supported you is that you are so real and so honest and have such a beautiful soul. Its a brave thing to open up like this Rose, and remember you are not alone. Sending love as always. X
Happy Memorial Day, Rose!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇬🇧💜💜💜💜💜💜🎇👍.
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us, rose. It honestly helps so much knowing there’s someone else out there with a brain like mine❤
thank you so much for this, as someone who has had ocd for most their life it means the world to me to hear you talk about it
Thanks for sharing Rose. Great live stream earlier from the garden. 🐸💚
After my Grandma died I blamed/still do blame myself for it but tried to suck it up and live with OCD. After seeing you be so honest in so many videos and discuss how therapy has helped you I have just started CBT
Hugs and prayers for the whole family.❤❤❤❤❤
Wow Rose, so brave! And yes so good you have Rosie to be your partner/lover! You will survive, the good ones always do! 🫶👍🙏👏
Thank you so much for shedding light on this disorder! I was diagnosed with anxiety and OCD when I was 24 and the more you educate yourself about it, the better! I Can totally relate to having to make the bed! I can’t move on with my day if the bed isn’t made and I can’t get into an unmade bed. My bed quilt has vertical stripes and I have to line up a stripe with the edge of the bed or it’s not done right! All the little things you have to do are endearing quirks, that’s what I tell my self. Much love! ❤❤❤
This is so interesting thank you for making this video and talking so eloquently about it. I knew you had OCD but I always imagined it was something you get therapy for and then effectively live without, so it’s really enlightening to see how it still affects you or has changed over time. Thank you for being so open, I volunteer at an OCD charity and one of the biggest things people face is shame and people who misunderstand it so this video is invaluable :)
Rose, you have nothing to be ashamed of. Thank you for this vulnerable video ❤️
I relate so much to having a very specific way of making the bed, IT HAS TO BE PARALLEL otherwise it's deeply unsettling
thank you for making me feel normal. i released a breath I didn't know I was holding. I was diagnosed with OCD 6 years ago and i. feel. seen
thank you! this is such a good video!
I’ve watched your videos for 8 years, roughly since around the time I was diagnosed with OCD. You were probably one of the first people I looked to when I was diagnosed that helped me feel normal. Honestly just having an example of someone like you means so much. That being said you’re your own person and don’t need to worry about anything other than your own journey with OCD. Whether you struggle or not, bright days are always ahead and there’s always something to laugh at ❤️
Ironically that’s how I found them as well, In 2016 searching for videos on OCD because my daughter was just diagnosed. I hope you are doing well with your journey
@@traumaducks thanks ❤️❤️ I hope your daughter is doing well too!
I’ve also got ocd so it feels great to see someone who also has ocd. It feels good to know I’m not alone.
Ah, something small like a decongested nose matters. I struggle with health anxiety and a stuffy nose often triggers me and sends me into panic ("I can't breathe").
In other words. Thank you for sharing, Rose. You're going to ace this journey. Babysteps 🙏.
Love to all three of you 🐸
I love this so much Rose!! My girlfriend is autistic and we are in the process of getting help. However it takes long to get the help that is needed if you are an autistic women. Thankyou for sharing this part of your life!! You are doing amazing at accepting your own ways and integrating them into the family life, which is a great example to us❤❤
Awesome video it helps people with it and also without it. Rosie did one that was very interesting and informative too when you lived in Wotton on Stone.
Love you Rose!!! ❤
Love you more! xxxxx
😂😂you never let me sit down🤣🤣it’s not Parallel on the plate🤣🤣🤣❤u two❣️
I loved this video
take care Rose!!!!
What a good video. Thanks because i suffer from OCD. So thank you an amazing person
I love you so much, Rose. You deserve all the good things in the world. You're a hard-working and loving person. Your family is very lucky to have you. ♥️😍
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Very wubs, thank you for sharing!! ❤
Genuinely love Rose and Rosie. They seem to be genuinely kind and lovely people who care about their frogs and each other. Thank you Rose and Rosie for making the internet a happy place to be. Long May it continue ❤
This is golden content!
very brave of you talk about this one step to healthy life.
I swear by Exposure Response Prevention Therapy, it changed my life and made my OCD possible to manage
We want another one!!! More quirks please ❤
Last year, at the age of 35, intrusive thoughts ruined my life. Out of nowhere they came to me and I didn't understand what was going on. It was so painful and scary as hell. I couldn't sleep, I lost my appetite, couldn't focus as the thoughts wouldn't end, lost like 12 pounds. It felt like I was on a bad trip and it wasn't stopping. I've only had one bad trip from pot so it felt similar, only this lasted months, almost a year. Through researching online I found out it's called intrusive thoughts. I still don't know what triggered it, I just remember I had one horrible intrusive thought and it freaked me out and from then on all other thoughts happened. I even went to the doctor cuz it was so odd. We did a hormone test and found my DHEA levels were super high. So my hormones were jacked. At this point in my life I don't have them as bad. Now that I know what they are and I've been through hell and back, I know those moments will pass so I don't let it try to scare me anymore. It's hard though. I'm not sure I want to admit I have OCD as I never had this my entire life, it just popped up out of nowhere. Some part of me thinks it was either me getting covid or the vaccine itself. I used have such rosy, innocent, rainbow thoughts - I miss my old self. In talking with my parents about intrusive thoughts they mentioned probably everyone has them, they have them, they just know how to let it go. 🤷🏼♀ I think it's great you're talking about it. When I was researching it, not many people talked about it which made me sad. I feel like recently it's becoming more known though. I understand why it can be difficult to talk about though because the thoughts can be so devastating.
@@frogswule Yes, I was seeing a therapist at the time. I'm not sure he was much of help. I kept telling him that I'm pretty sure it's intrusive thoughts, but he never would agree or felt my thoughts were an issue. I'm much better now. They come every so often now, but once I acknowledge it, and keep moving or busy they fade. I haven't read her book yet, I'll look into it. thanks
I have ocd and mine is mostly symmetry. But I also have ADHD so I'm constantly at war with myself over messiness. Ive mostly beaten my ocd but I still have a few "rituals" I HAVE to do daily. I touch walls. Both hands at the door frame. The shoes have to be paired for me as well but the right one must be a liiiittle bit more forward. I can mask most of my rituals, but around the people in my life I don't have to.
I just want to say thank you. I had no idea about pure o and the second you mentioned it i googled it and now im sitting here crying with relief becauae this is what i have and i never knew. I thought i was just some freak. Im not sure im ready to get this properly diagnosed becauae i don't want to talk about it but at least it's a relief to now know what it is.
The making of the bed! My wife and I get up at different times so the bed stays unmade all day. But literally right before we go to bed, we make it and immediately pull the covers back and get into bed. I don’t remember how it started, but we’ve been doing this for like decade. 😀
I adore you guys
Thanks for sharing this Rose ❤ I really think it helps to bring awareness and break the stigma around mental health xx
Thank you, Izzy ❤️
Your cow parsley? Around here, we call that Queen Anne's Lace. :) Hi from Wisconsin!
Thank you so much for making this video Rose! It is so important to share our experiences because it does make it seem like you are not alone, love you guys :)
I need to know what cow parsley smells like now!
Thanks for sharing your experiences!
I honestly think that's the biggest takeaway from this video hahahaha
Rose, making your bed is actually a thing- a good one! There is a book called Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life and Maybe the World written by a Navy Seal. The book has sold over 1.5 million copies. Doing it gets you set for the day, increases productivity and making good habits etc., so good job! I should also add that I get that it’s not a good thing if it’s a problem- but from my perspective- being a total slob who doesn’t make her bed- it would be a good thing for me.
ANNA I LOVE THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i have intrusive thoughts as well as checking ocd! it’s good to know that i’m not alone. thank you for sharing this rose sending all my love 🫶🏽
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OMG!!! Rosie is very good patient with Rose's OCD because she loves her so much no matter what. I know Rosie is very good at food shopping and putting food away in the kitchen cupboards after shopping. I hope Rosie has not missed out on Rose's favourite food. LOL, 😂It is equally between Rose and Rosie. Rose looks so gorgeous with her new fringe and ponytail. I love to watch all the Rose and Rosie's vlogs. Rose is crazy, laughs and is very clever. ❤👍🐸✌
I had no idea there were different forms of ocd - thank you for bringing awareness to it!
Here's me, not making my bed in the morning after reading an article years ago on mattress mites (one of my many allergies). Mites like warmth, so I pull back the blanket and sheets to air out the bed. The thought of mites in my bed, creeps me out. 😳
Nice weather n nice vlog🏡
Thank you for pointing out that when OCD causes cleaning compulsions it’s a response to anxiety about germs! Not wanting organization in general! I have long Covid and have literally caused flare ups and ER trips because I’m disabled but the fear of germs after I got sick has me wanting to scrub EVERYTHING. The clutter drives me NUTS cause stuff could be hiding in all that clutter. Stuff meaning germs. My OCD compulsions had such a huge shift after I got sick. I wasn’t expecting it.
Stay up for this video and it’s totally worth it! Rose you are really brave to share how you suffer from OCD and make more ppl to learn about it~ it’s such an awesome film, so don’t care about any hater’s conceited judgement anymore, you are the best!
Luv you so much and so lucky for me to know such a courageous woman 🥰
Well done for making this video, Rose, I know you don't find it easy to show these vulnerable parts of yourself, but this will have helped so many people and I hope you can one day look back at this and see how far you've come. It's amazing really how OCD is one umbrella that manifests in so many different ways. I'm a messy person but have lots of intrusive thoughts and things need to be in certain patterns, even if it's a thought in my head. Keep being wonderful you and keep up the fringe game. X
Thank you, Spoonie!
I just realized again I really have OCD after going through an immensely difficult time and the only relief was through picking behaviors. My scalp is in shambles. Gross, but thought I'd share. It's hard to tell it's OCD when it's such ingrained behavior. Thank you for making this video. It's good to know I'm not alone!
Rosie should do a whole separate video on how it impacts her as a partner as well!
I’ve been watching Rose and Rosie for years and I’m finding out now Rose won’t let Rosie sit down 😅🐸
"It's hard being so attractive." Tell me about it! 😂
I recently broke out of one of my longest standing compulsions and the amount of freedom I feel is insane. OCD is so minsunderstood so I'm so glad people like yourself are talking about it more!
Brave of you to share xx
And you look beautiful.
31 and just started my first therapy for ocd even though I knew I had it since puberty
Way to go. All the best for you.
I have OCD too! With intrusive thoughts, taboo theme. Pure O if you will. I work with spreading info about it here in Sweden
Thank you so much for this Rose ❤. I have friends in Canada who use Better Help and have nothing but great things to say about it.
Rose youre such a cute mom:)
Respectfully watching with my nose bunged up
my mum has cleaning ocd probably after I was born but I am autistic and hate/ can't clean so mum does it for her peace
Omg I can’t believe how many similarities we have.. thought I was a complete weirdo 🤦🏽♀️
U still slay tho rose x
Flopsie looks quite comfortable
I think I have had OCD all of my life but I didn’t really realize it until my 30’s when I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, how intrusive and bothersome these thoughts can be. Thanks so much for this video ❤️❤️❤️
We do have it in the United States. I call it Queen Ann's Lace because that's what my mom always called it. You can actually make jelly with it.
Gettin on with it then 💻
I have Pure O since I was 19, I so wish mine manifested as cleaning ocd
Rose : I'm gonna be 21 ....😬😬😂
There's cows parsley in Ireland and Scotland
I can’t help myself.
I went from having mild to moderate to life threatening ocd. All I can say is mold + heavy metals.
Functional. Medicine. Doctor.-> well versed in HM chelation and CIRS.
Particularly with pure ocd^
Can you explain your comment a bit more? I have OCD so want to understand a bit more, thanks
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Essentially don't accept that OCD is nebulous. That is doesn't have an underlying toxicity root.
I chuckled at the coffee pucks on the ground because i do that too😂
@@frogswule nope haha. I just don't know much about plants.
@@frogswule i stopped doing it because we dont have a compost pile😅
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i have ocd too !!
We have that kind of white plant in Germany too :D
Hello from California
6:48 I can’t stand stains on carpet!!
Good video
Who is that Ally Hills you are talking about?
Has she posted anything?
My ocd is like a 0-2, it was at a 10.
such a lovely beautiful girl
Making ur bed is great but is Rosie still in it
OCD and OCR are two similar
Ocd quirks
is Rosie pregnant? 🤞
How exhausting for her😵💫i wonder where it was all triggered from?
Well if anything breaks u a Lil of ice it will be Ziggy bc he is going to be look at me n Juno on things break things mess things u can't fix..
Is it obsessive compulsive disorder or obsessive compulsive personality disorder. I'm quite confused about the two.
OCD is characterized by the anxiety. Anxiety controls the behavior and fear of more anxiety. Also have intrusive thoughts and fear of embarrassment. While OCPD usually aren’t aware of their behaviors and their perfectionism stems from the need to be perfect and get stuck on details. OCD tries to fit in, not stand out and is controlled by anxiety vs OCPD who like to be in control sometimes demanding perfection from themselves and those around them. I hope that helps.
@@traumaducks Ah cheers. Although the behaviours can be similar like obsessive cleaning and controlled behaviour the root causes are different and the thought patterns and behaviour of the person overall and over time is very different.