What's Considered Fat For Japanese Girls? | ASIAN BOSS
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note that being skinny doesn't necessarily mean being healthy
YES,but WHEN you are fat you allways are unhealthy.
That also goes for chubby or fat people. The real healthy body is the fit type.
Also most Asians are skinny or skinny fat, so it's pretty normal.
The "fit" type of body is NOT what a fit body looks like.Its just the most unachievable size for most people so weight loss and work out companies use it to make money because people will always have to keep coming back. If you think about times in history where there has been food shortages the people with supposedly "fit" bodies would have died first because they would have so little fat reserves,thats also part of the reason so few people have that body type. Its called natural selection.
(sorry i just get really mad with the fitness industry no offence to u personally)
Okay? But it’s better than obesity isn’t it?
I did not see even one person that could be considered even slightly fat on this video
IKR! I'm chubbier in the stomach than those girls... :(
The last one was, but not massively fat. The others are out of their fucking minds.
Many asians gain fat in their cheeks, I don't think you can evaluate whether she's "fat" when she is wearing a coat.
triky5384 tje last one, but in a cute way
I saw a couple that were not fat per se but kind of "chubby". Like if they lost 5 to 10 kg they'd look fantastic. The other girls looked about average size for Japan, probably 45 to 55 kg depending on height. I'm 162cm and 53kg but I want to lose weight too. I don't wanna be 45kg or less like most of the girls are saying, but I think 47-48kg would be perfect for me.
I like how the Japanese girls actually said “westerners have different bone structure, taller,” etc. they’re not ignorant they’re aware of how their standards are and don’t judge others necessarily.
AmandaG182 yeah no, it’s not that us Americans are built differently... we’re just fat.
Edit: alright, I’m sorry y’all didn’t notice this is a joke. I’m sorry. I guess it wasn’t that good of one, jeez. I know that we are built differently. I can see how this could be perceived as ignorant or insensitive. I apologize.
Melody Meloetta remember that Americans are not the only westerners
Melody Meloetta yeah no Melody actually Asians have smaller frames naturally. Not every American is fat or thin etc. she’s stating the facts about her ethnicity nice try tho
There's no difference in bone structure. Larger people are heavy by a proportionate amount. There's no world in which a 5' tall woman should weigh 83 pounds.
Slickfoot that... that was clearly a joke
The thing is that they're literally not fat in the slightest.
maybe by your standards ... not in Asia those
yeah then you come to the states and everyone is like 5'9 and morbidly obese
I wouldn’t have classified any of the women in the video as even “chubby” some of them were “thin” some were “normal weight” but non chubby, never mind fat or obese. I wish they could be allowed to feel healthy, they’re genuinely not overweight
They look normal and healthy
@@abdullahbinjahed6900im asian and they are not, they are just with normal body weight
"I skips my meals"
"I cut off my food"
There's a difference between a *diet* and *starvation* 😔
well its calorie restriction and fasting not really starvation. Starvation would be when organs and stuff are being broken down in the body for fuel rather than fat
Umm, skipping one meal does not translate into "starvation".
@@user-xx7pg3vw9k skipping meals is still bad. It can cause stomach problems (My brother's gf and my cousin had Ulcer because of skipping meals)
@@blue_cameron It's fine if they take small meal for a diet, but skippings meals is bad for the health. It can lead to Ulcer, My cousin skipped meals and she became sick of that.
You can eat 10kg of vegetables everyday and you'll still lose weight, that's why vegetables are the best diet, you can eat it until you explode and you'll still be skinny af
the last girl is so sad, she’s beautiful and you can her weight is hurting her confidence.
inneedofbeans it’s not her weight that is hurting her confidence, it’s people.. poor girl
inneedofbeans
Doesn’t change the fact that her weight is unhealthy.
@@bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 how do you know she is unhealthy? you know her personally?
Doris m
Being overweight is unhealthy. It causes knee issues, among others. Obesity is the second leading cause of cancer.
@@bfbvouabeorbvoaervure963 but she is not that overweight that she would have health problems i think
"Where did you get your ideas of body weight?"
Multiple people: Models.
Me: Height weight charts.
Faxxx
Bruhhhhh
Sameee
Exactly, lol
Yaa BMI
Same
"But short people that are chubby just look fat"
Girl I feel you😭😭
Same here, I'm 5' 3" and every extra pound makes me look huge! Trying hard to get to my goal weight.
@@charlottesmom good luck!
not everyone
I try to explain this to people all the time. I keep saying I wish I was taller because I'm definitely chubby but it makes me look more chonky. Not to mention, I have huge boobs so it makes me look so top heavy. T.T
Exactly! I’m 5’0 tall and I KNOW for a fact that if I were taller, my legs would be thinner. My weight at 5’0 makes my legs look fat, but if were 5’7 or something, my legs would be thin. I hate being short.
Japanese women: *speaks about body images*
everyone in this comment section: about to fight everyone who made the last girl feel bad
U seem skinny
@@bltnbros122 she looks fine to me
its sad to see people bodyshame ppl for being “fat” or “too skinny”. its gross. “you should eat more/less” “do you have an ed?” its almost like we’re not allowed to be ourselves anymore.
@@bellejpg you should see bodybuilders stories also... ''hey bro u should stop a bit, u r getting too huge'' ''do you even lift bro?''...
BLTNBROS YES skhdjsbdbd the gym i go to its all guys who try to impress people on the leg press w only 200 lmao. theyre the same people that have trouble going up the stairs because of all of the heart problems
“Sometimes, I feel like they are judging me... That’s when I feel hurt.” 😞
😭😭😭
She was on the verge of tears... you catch it right at the end. 😢
Well it’s their own fault for not staying healthy
@@randomname7546 She doesn't look unhealthy at all though.
Random Name you’re the problem
when almost no person feels comfortable in their skin, we have failed as a society.
we've failed society a couple of millennia ago
I mean feeling comfortable being 500 pounds is a death sentence.
@@DomainAspect that’s true, I think that the person who wrote this comment meant that even people who are pretty thin still see themselves as fat though.
its not societys fault lol its yours
When that girl said 83 lbs I was like 🙀.
This is sad. I'm gonna eat my Kit Kat, go for a run, and be happy.
That’s the spirit!
Yes!! You do you 👏🏻
I'm eating as I'm watching this 😅
I’m gonna eat Kit Kat without running 😊😊
@@user-qm6hk1zj7f That works too! :)
Huh. It's so interesting that they don't judge westerners by the same standard at all, saying that they look proportionate...but they have such a strict standard for themselves and fellow Japanese people.
they dont say what they mean usually so u can guess . also in an other video they were talking like westerns are big and thats is one of te reasons japanese do not sit down next to them on trains for example lol :D
It's the same in all south Asian and east Asian countries. Beauty standards are really really strict and especially so for girls.
They are being polite.
@@Angell_Lee really? Most of japanese men i saw on the internet said they prefer western women because they have bigger feminine features, such as breasts or hips.
They dont want to experience 10830°F of freedom again is why
If they think they're fat I'm literally a fucking elephant.....
Quick correction* I am an absolute obese foreigner LOL and I'm still more body positive than those girls..
NarraSae hmHMM gUURRL me is like 62 kg and 1,64 height I'm a mammoet
Shit, I'm 6'3" (190.5cm) and 225 lbs (102kg). People already make comments about how tall I am here, but I can't imagine it in Japan. I'd be an entire foot taller (or more) than most of the population. I can't imagine that at all.
Ugrena I'm 14 and 5'8 I feel like I'd be so awkward 😂😢
is the air fresher up there?
the last girl, it looked like she was almost tearing up. its so sad :(
she is beautiful and has beautiful skin.
0:32 even her friends were all "girl wtf"
I mean she's like 4'9 - 4'10 with probably the smallest bone structure known to man. sub 90 doesnt sound too crazy.
@@cowhandzhou just check her BMI. It's dangerously underweight
@@itotallyagreewithyou6586 So up until before quarantine I was like that so I was underweight the entire time? I gained about 15 during quarantine so is that better?
@@cowhandzhou I am 150 cm 45-46 kg and I am healthy maybe she is different but 38 kg is a very little amount
@@cowhandzhou 38kg is the same weight as a girl entering middle school. even if she’s short that’s still too thin.
the last girl was really cute and beautiful and that she begins to cry its so heartbreaking ..
@@ahabgaddis7277 so what? Better then starving yourself
@Illiterati not true, cause she literally said she wasnt fat in the past...
@@ahabgaddis7277 She's freakin cute and plus she's not fat Japanese girls are skinny but with round faces sometimes they have a chubby face and skinny body or she could be thick but even if she is she's gorgeous af.
@@bltnbros122 yeah but we mean the kind of fat that affects your health. yes she does have more fat than the people around her but it doesn't look like she's physically affected in anyway. in other words she's still healthy.
Illiterati yeah.. tbh she didn’t look fat to me at all.. compared to the land whales we see in the west.
this video slowly made me put down my big mac
hahahaha
dedd
*watches the video*
*but still shoves the big Mac down my throat*
Thanks for mentioning your big Mac. Now I want a burger 🙄
nah i would still eat the big mac just feel a bit shitter for doing so cus im like 45 kg GODDAMN IM 75kg
I'm ready to fight anyone who has made these girls feel bad about their body
Same I’ll join ya
The Hangure did good luck
I'm coming too ya
Wait for me🤺
Too bad u wont have a chance with them
Bro everyone of these girls is a small or tiny in America
that’s the saddest part… everyone in america is morbidly obese
@@pinkpills are sure about EVERY ONE??????
@@mkhodadadi7714 Pretty much. Overweight and obese people are normal here.
@@mkhodadadi7714 75 percent of US adults are obese…
@A_29 I’m talking about statistics. America has one of the highest obesity rates. Was not referring to children.
The slightly chubby girl in the last minute was honestly the cutest of them all.
And I find it crazy that all the slim girls thought they were fat.
She's like a cute teddy bear.
She’s the only down to earth one
I wouldn't say she was the cutest of them all(I have my favorite), but she was definitely cute and really insightful which made her more attractive.
It’s just because they have rounder faces. When they look in the mirror they’ll see the roundness and feel like they’re fatter than they are.
I get that way sometimes so that’s what I’m speaking on :( So I mean don’t think it’s fact what I’m saying lol
She was not slightly chubby. She was really chubby and definitely no where near being the cutest. Just admit it, you have a fat fetish.
Imagine how hard it is to be on a diet in Japan.. Their food is fucking amazing
Imagine how easy it would be to bulk
Would be hard to bulk, Japanese food is expensive and comes in small portions haha
Their food does tend to be a lot healthier than western food, though.
Their food is practically a diet for foreigners😂I went there for 3 weeks with my school and did homestays plus travelled and ate a TON of food cos c'mon need to try everything and when I came back home I had lost 1.5kg xD it was bliss! Their food is a lot lighter and easier to digest even if you eat heaps of it!
imagine live in korea
when the last woman appeared on screen the first time i gasped bc of how beautiful she is and i’m not even kidding.
someone really needs to tell her instead of judging her i find her so freaking pretty ngl !
Which one?
Stop lying
@@cainmate911 stfu
@@corpmobb4134 Well, thats your business i dont really care.
@@cainmate911 Same with your comment about the last girl.
Also just fyi, even if a Japanese girl felt thin, she'd have to still say she felt fat, because otherwise she would be seen as conceited. In Japan, you're expected to follow the majority opinion.
Japan social standards are so strict, there’s literally jokes about how Anime is an escape from their rigid and strict culture.
Ex: hair in schools and jobs are SO strict like you can only have black hair and you often need to have a birth certificate provided to prove your hair is naturally a different color.
Hence the meme that anime has a bunch of wild colored hair characters
Yeah its herd morality to the extreme.
@@Yahhkult really? That's crazy!
It seems so nasty to judge that last girl. She seems really hurt by people she thought were her friends.
Asian culture/family tends to be harsher. My mom and sisters tell me I’m fat almost every time i see them. It doesn’t bother me that much anymore since I’m older. It just gets annoying at times. As long as I’m healthy my weight doesn’t bother me.
@@crazychic210 you're absolutely beautiful don't listen to them💜💚
The last girl was about to cry :(
I think they edited it to let her keep her dignity. I'm certain she was gonna cry. Really sad though as she was beautiful as she was.
I know, right. She was by far the most attractive one, too.
I thought the exact same thing. This is so sad, she's definitely very beautiful and sophisticated and looked/sounded very smart and educated. Overall, she's the most beautiful and interesting woman in this video.
boo hoo hoo
Saying that "she's the most beautiful, interesting girl in the video" doesn't help the damaging beauty standards that hang over the quality and worthingness of a fruitfil social life in East Asian countries, nor does it give this woman worth or value within herself. Instead of trying to distinguish and prop up her evaluation of her circumstance within womanhood and her reality as the only valid one, realize that (and act accordingly) there is something to push to have empathy for and evolve past in every person that speaks of the real violence inside and outside the construct of (specifically in this context: Eastern Asian) Womanhood. (Or im just high af and feeling ranty atm)
Meanwhile, I'm Indian American, 5'4", 100 pounds, and I want to weigh 115.
Being skinny is useless if you're not muscular. It's not about beauty, it's about being able to bring in all your groceries in one trip!
Exactly!
Yes!
Lel, being pretty means someone will carry your groceries and pay for it
By their standards and considering my weight, I think it would be lovely to roam around the streets of Tokyo looking like an elephant. Quite exotic no?
Yes it would be wonderful.
That one girl was trying to be so nice about it, calling us "big-boned" like nah, we fat. Don't sugar-coat that fact, we'll eat that, too 🍕🍔🍟
SueSheDraws maybe in America. :D Just kidding. But I'm small and thin and still weigh 55kg, which is like 10 kg more than their ideals. With 45 kg I'd look starved and get serious issues.
We do actually have a different body structure. Idk if it's the bone specifically or that we tend to carry more muscle mass as one girl said but the BMI ranges for Asian people are lower than for white people or black people, so they become overweight at a smaller weight than we do.
Lmaaao
I found that funny too. I liked when they said westerners have more muscle so the fat looks proportionate. I have very little built muscle and smallish bones. I'm skinny, but boy, could I be healthier!
“We”? I’m not fat pal
Girl: I’m 4’12” tall
Me: So you’re 5’
Girl: No, I’m 4’12”
Me: 🤨
well they said 152cm and we don’t use feet/inches to measure height... and the person writing subtitles might not be used to it either?
Well theres a thing called a METRIC SYSTEM.
Lol 4’12” is 5’ ... 12 inches in a foot
@Izzy Jordan Yeah so it's not 4'12" either is it?
4'12" and 5" is exactly the same height, and slightly more than 152cm.
my height is probably 151-152, and my weight would be 45-46kg, I'm 13 years old, is that normal?
0:47
-So you're like 5 ft tall?
-Nah man I'm 4'12.
Thankfully someone else noticed this!
I found you
Likes are at 69😏
I was like “🧐🧐🧐🧐”
健康的に痩せるって知識がないから
怖いんだよな。
食事抜いたりサプリ飲んだり
炭水化物抜いてダイエットしたり
それで拒食症になる人が多いからな。
もしダイエットするなら
病院に行って見てもらってから
健康的に痩せてほしいなって思う。
健康であればダイエットは
しなくていいと思う。
体重も大事だけど、今の若い子は筋肉量と骨量の方が気にした方がいいのでは？？
昼食抜いてる(おそらく拒食症)友人はいつも顔が真っ青で、生理が来ると必ず貧血起こして早退、欠席
足も手も握ったら骨折しちゃいそうなくらい細くてこっちが心配になる
今ホントに多いよ、こういう子…
足が小鹿並の細さ＋運動もできないとなると老後は骨粗鬆症確定だろうね
2:33 that dude with the Nike cap fell in love at first sight lol
I THOUGHT HE WAS SHOWNU 😂😂
Ship it
Frl 😂
Loool haha true, his face
Karen sameeeee
I feel sad for the girl at the end.
Because there are not fat?
The worst thing is that she doesn't look bad, in fact, I think she is the most pretty in the video.
@mae Yeah, I do realize that. I deleted my comment.
Shes pretty i did to she seemed pretty down about it
Imagine deliberately wanting to be considerably underweight, this is a completely sick way of thinking
太ってる人に目が行きがちなせいか、日本人は痩せているって思ったことないかも。
I knew what they would all say. I've had this discussion before. But this video still made me so sad...
Seage Speaks, how is it sad? Japanese are way healthier than say Americans who are 40% obese, because society constantly makes excuses for overweight people.
both are unhealty
Both beeing too fat and too thin is unhealthy
Compare that to the percentage of Japanese population that is underweight. Being underweight comes with so many health problems. Just because one is more aesthetically pleasing than the other is just an excuse to not deal with the problem.
i agree 100% but to answer your question it is because of their mental image of themselves when will they be happy even if they get to their ideal weight who knows if theyll be truly happy with themselves.
Health has left this room
THIS COMMENT WINS
Marcell Toing very true but related to this video, some girls said height with unhealthy weight proportions
coz of the comments section
Marcell Toing skinny is NOT healthy. That’s not a good thing. Being in shape is healthy and that can be big or thin, but not skinny.
Aaliyah Winrow just being chubby or fat is unhealthy but when your skinny you can be healthy or non healthy
4:53
この人栄養士さん？？w
喋り方がプロのそれなんだけど
わかるww
学校関係の人って感じの喋り方ww
laxatives and dietetics and diet pills yes 😔
周りから太ったとは言われないけど痩せたら痩せたねとか可愛くなったねって言われるのが嬉しくてダイエットしてるな...結局自分の為もあるけど周りによく見られたいから私は痩せたいんだろうな...
優しい人、真面目な人とかって他人からしか与えられない称号？だから、わたしは周りからの評価を気にすることは悪いことじゃないと思います。
た 他人からの評価に依存しすぎて、他人の言葉で自信を大きく失うようなことにならなければ周りによくみられることが自信に繋がるのならいいことです！（+にだけ繋がればokと言いたい）自分の中だけで自分を評価して自信につなげるのは難しい時もあります。自分は騙せないですから…
"Skinny" does not mean "healthy"
Helen N tell it Katya!
Helen N they know what is the healthy skinny
I don't like the use of the word "skinny". I use "thin". Thin IS healthy. When bones are showing, then no, that's no longer healthy. Living in the US, though, I don't feel like that we have to worry about people being too skinny. And to echo Rose France, I do feel like many in the US have lost track of what a healthy weight looks like.
no mo
Different culture, they don't eat burgers and fries daily, but they have things to replace the western junk food. They still fry a lot of their foods, drink a lot of alcohol, smoke, they have ramen, their sweet food is overly sweet, they have their "pan" (bread), etc.. It doesn't change the fact they eat a lot of seafood, vegetables and fruits, but they don't have a perfect diet either. Which is why they still get fat.
I think it's just an excuse for how pathetic they are it's denying the truth of the desire of being pretty I know everyone wants to be pretty but Japanese people or in general Asian people and their ideal weight are just over the top
And if all they have is a pretty shell then they should really go search for a life
the last girl with light brown hair looked seconds away from crying and it broke my heart
153cmで理想が38kgって普通に痩せすぎじゃない？基準がよく分からなくなってくる😂
漫画じゃあるまいし、そんな子あんまり居ないんじゃないかな？
そもそも居ても少し痩せすぎかもね、ちょっと心配になるかもw
痩せすぎだと思いますが、実際そのレベルの子も友達にいます😅身長がかなり高いので少し体重は増えますが同じような感じです、、
153センチならやばいくらい痩せすぎにはならない気がする。。
桐谷美玲は164センチでそのぐらいの体重だから痩せすぎだけど。
私毎日沢山食べてそれくらいですけど筋肉少ないのでそのくらいですし割とそのくらいならいる気します！
自分165で48なんですけど痩せ型に入りますか？
03:50 That reminded me of a conversation I had with my boyfriend, who is Japanese, a few months back. It was about me not doing enough against my acne. He said I should wash my pillow case every day and basically never touch anything sweet again. And, while I do that sometimes, there are also times when I enjoy eating a piece of chocolate and don't care so much about my skin. Anyway, he told me if I behaved like that, in the future he wouldn't tell me how how appearance is perceived in Japan. At first I was really hurt but I thought about it the following night and the next day I told him that I don't want to care about what other people think how I look. He didn't really know what to say. It seems to me this way of thinking had never occurred to him before. That's just how much this constant concern with what others think of you is engraved in some people.
Acne isn't related to sweets, it's more genetic but also can be psychological and sometimes linked at some food rich in vitamins b...
@@HimeLowii you're probably right. Personally, I feel that my acne always gets worse when I eat lots of sugary things but it might just be coincidence.
I still have so much to learn about skincare. Thanks for your explanation.
I don't consume sugar at all... Not even rice/bread/noodles (and I'm Asian!) but I have acne!! lol
@@tellercamille8080 That's interesting. What do you mainly eat then, if you don't mind me asking?
he should love you and appreciate you as you are and not try to change you because of how others think :(
Body attractiveness is all about proportion, not what your weight is.
Agree. Even with one having the "ideal weight", if your bone structure is not great, and symmetry is lacking, looking attractive would be hard to achieve. It's all about learning to accept yourself and making the most of what has been given to you.
So true
Edit: Mar R, your response is not showing up for me on here. So I will reply that telling people to shut up does not change their actual thoughts and behaviors. It's better for them to tell the truth, so that the reciever knows not to waste their time on that hateful person. And the non-plastic surgery option is to move to a more accepting place. Peace.
@@danex2206 Or it means get plastic surgery, until I - I mean people - stop having a fatty face with a huge nose. A fat belly with no boobs and an ugly square manly butt. Fat arms and thighs with no hips. I say this, b/c the girls in the video ALL think they are fat BECAUSE others mercilessly attacked them for being "fat". They probably only attracted abusive narcissists and no-boundary creeps too, because nobody nice or decent found then attractive. Mentally unstable men (handsome, average and ugly) tend to pick ugly women with low self esteem and no other options. Self-acceptance is willful ignorance.
hey junko
Junko!
It's so funny how all of them think they are fat when in Latino America you don't want to be skinny or fat you want to be kinda curvy
mia morales what I don’t get it? Your 4’11 and 108 pounds and called skinny?
I’m a 100 pounds and 5’1 and some people call me fat
But I have a friend from Puerto Rico and she calls me skinny and even though I’m from Latin America idk why a lady called me chubby
I like curves 😁😁😁
mia morales pfff that’s not too skinny at all, I’m 5’5 and 90 lbs
Honestly speaking i don't like both standards but Japan standard seems a little more realistic because you can lose weight and be skinny but having big boobs big butt and a small waist is kind of unrealistic or rare to find i think
stay happy yeah you can look like that, at least almost, just if you’re an hourglass, which is genetic bcs is ur bone structure, but in japan u just have to stay skinny which is not impossible
"Do you think you're fat?"
They all answered yes almost before he even finished the question. I feel like regardless of weight, women tend to just automatically answer this question with "yes." At least all the women I know.
This made my heart heavy for the women in japan.. theyre so beautiful and look to be in great shape, i cant even begin to imagine how people would call them fat
Can everybody here give a hug to the girl who's hurt by how people judge her ? And a butter croissant with chocolate milk to everybody in this country.
😂👍
Everybody holds everyone to a certain personal standard, we've all judged people silently.
Idk what country u are in but that sounds yum 😋 so yas please 😆
@Benazir Samoon lactose free alternative milk ofc 😁 no one is excluded!
@Benazir Samoon hm I'm not sure, ask @Victor Foxtrot they are the one handing it out 😁
"You might die." - I'm glad she said that! :D
Update!: In japan there have been “po-charri kisas” which translates as japanese slang for “chubby (girl) cafes” or cosplay restaurants. They embrace girls who are on the chubbier (NOT OBESE) or a bit over the restrictive standard weight. Ofc they don’t discriminate and thin girls can get hired [allegedly]. In a sense, it could be due to the fetishized image of women which is kinda... but at least they are being more accepting of different weights? Idk this is all alleged and I heard it from a secondary source so if you wanna look into it, look it up :). Slowly, the world is changing. (I hope)
I love this! I think, maybe not if it’s mainly fetish driven but, still... a step in the right direction? Hahaha, I think? Lol. I like the name chubby cafes at least
I searched this up and got results for liver cirrhosis
They also have school girl cafes, I don‘t think any of this is a good idea
これいつの映像だってくらい、化粧が昔っぽいというか濃いというかw
それ
3年前ってだけでこんなに流行りって変わるんですね笑
Wow I can’t imagine family members criticizing me for gaining weight.
Usually elder people would always say “omg you’re so skinny! Do you even eat anything?!”
And Im actually 65kg, which to the Japanese standards is not skinny *at all*
Xenia _ Asian culture, family members are the one criticizing you most, like every single days
Yeah, most of us are criticized by our own family for looking chubby.
Depends on height as well, if I was 65kg I’d be overweight
Sumayya Im 175cm
Xenia _ well that explains it, I’m 154cm😂
Sounds like they need better health education classes in schools to create awareness of healthy diets (ie. not starving yourself) and a happy self image
Fatty detected..Japan is constantly ranked among the top on PISA education ranking and also have one of the highest life expectancy but stay mad though
Woop din they may have excellent academic scores in math, literacy ect. However as a teacher I value life skills and healthy lifestyles as much as I do academics.
I'm 43.5 kilos btw ;)
Kellie p You just cannot take the word PRIDE out of Japanese.
They are more conservative than rest of the world.
Advance in technology but conservative in the way of living.
At least, that is my impression to the Japanese.
As a man, i just wonder how they can be so light.
Kellie p Oh.. btw they live in thr very efficient way. Limiting the Calories intake is the most efficient way ever (to lose the weight in short time, cannot wait until be bullied)
KevinMulia yes, I agree that in order to lose weight, calorie intake must be limited. However as I pointed out, their means of dieting (starving themselves) needs to be addressed
痩せたいって思うのは勝手だけど、それを他者に押し付けるのは違うと思う
いいじゃん痩せてても太ってても自分じゃないんだし
I’m learning Japanese rn and I’m so proud bc I could pick up on some words!
I can feel you.... Keep going. Most probably now you are very good at Japanese since a year had already passed 😊👍
“Westerners are taller” no some of foreigners are short and we still don’t believe that the ideal weight for us is 45!
Nono Malk no our mean height is higher than theirs
Ikr. I’m like 155cm guy and weight around 60 kg and always thought i was relatively average...
Voltort actually i’m pretty sure even asians are taller than for example i am....😅
Henkka Henrik yes I hate stereotypes as if all foreigners are white, there are many other races like Turks, Middle Easters, Africans... I don’t know why this Channel only represents foreigners as white!!
Voltort maybe your talking about white people.
Could you do the same video but with men?
Yes, that would be interesting. I have Japanese male friends and they also want to become skinny. In my country (France) they are already considered very skinny but they tell me they need to be skinnier in Japan because "that's what Japanese women like".
Raphanne wtf does the japananese male have to become a skelet to get laid.
wow that sucks
Hi Jack yeah I was wonder what men may say "-"
Hi Jack Japan is trash..👎👎 !!
38kgs is what I weighed when I was 11. This is very unhealthy.
166cm at 50kg so BMI 18.4, underweight
155cm at 42kg so BMI 17.5, even more underweight
153cm at 38kg so BMI 16.2, severely underweight
None of these are healthy.
japan is one of the healthiest countries still and overweight
@@tommybee8181 overweight and underweight are equally just as bad. saying that being underweight is being better than overweight is what is making everyone in this video want to lose weight. once again, low weight does not equal being healthier
I am 178 but I have to be 50
@@tommybee8181 it's not really one of the "healthiest" countries, that's very misleading. The life expectancy is generally long (Okinawa brings the average up hugely) but there are plenty of health issues in Japan - including rampant eating disorders and mental illness.
@@vanderbam2741 what you said is true for every single country in the world
I know this video is two years old now, but being skinny DOES NOT mean your healthy. I only weigh 89lb (very underweight for my age) and have several health problems, a lot of which stem from my weight. I've always been really underweight my whole life, and it really sucks. I have to take several pills a day just to have the vitamins I need to live. I also have to eat at certain times of day to keep from getting sick and needing to go to the hospital. You really don't want those problems..
exactly, i'm 157cm and i weight 42kg and it's hell for me. sometimes i feel dizzy just by getting out of bed.
tacy that’s probably anemia
I understand how you feel about your situation and I am 160 cm and only 45kg. I don't wanna get skinnier than that because I know it'll be unhealthy and I'm sorry you were in a very bad condition. I hope you will heal now it's been 3 months and honestly you are right. Being skinny DOES NOT equate to be beautiful. Just because someone is more skinnier than mother person, doesn't mean they are prettier or healthier than that person. Being very skinny can also lead to health problems like possible infertility, heart disease, cancer, osteoporosis when u get older, and anemia. What's more important is to be healthy and confident in yourself. That's true beauty.
Ikr I'm 169cm/42kg and it sucks, I have different medical conditions so it's hard to tell how much my underweight really affects my body, but I'm very weak
@@lumi3951 I hope you are doing okay.
no offense put, but the girl wants to be 38kg? that's the weight of my 9 year old sister. i hope countries like korea and japan get taught about how it's important to have a proper diet if you want to lose weight, not just starve yourself.
9 years old and 38 kg. 🙄
@@Noa...... Yeah..
@@Noa...... 83 pounds as a nine year old
i was 80 lbs at 9 years old but i was a chubby 9 year old
i was 32kg at 9 lol
Some people forget there's a difference between being skinny and being healthy
Thank you for the great interview. The girs really opened up about their society.
38 kg??!!! You atleast need to have the strength to protect yourself if someone tries to kidnap you....
Yeah like you need to have a strong body
i don't think normal weight protects you from being kidnapped...
@@morusalba6405 no, but to weigh so little probably means that you don't have a lot of muscle mass, considering muscle is heavy. Therefore, you can't really defend yourself from an attacker. its worth mentioning that starving yourself destroys muscle too, without proper nutrients you become _only_ fat and bone, which would be ideal in their culture.
@@Strawberrysodastar idk where you live and how kidnapping works there, but if someone tried to kidnap me here they 100% would have guns or something. you'd be better off just staying away from sketchy people/places and run away instead of defending yourself. muscle strength would be useful if you get into a fight with a drunk though.
@Cerulean Skigh SJAFKDSFJADJFSKJJFJFJ this made me laugh
This is so wrong, idk when were this trend started, that whenever i met someone from past and that person is right away commenting my appearance, like "oh you gained weight" or "oh you look slimmer". Please, at least you can ask "how are you" or anything to open the conversation 😟
I really don't get why people are so obsess with their own weight and also judge other people's weight.
Because weight is directly proportional to health.
Is it wrong for people to say "oh you quit smoking?"
Yes it is.
If you get too small you die, If you get too large you die.
Also it's completely possible to eat healthy and exercise and still be considered "fat" by some standards. I don't think people understand how much genetics has to do with weight, like i've always been pretty skinny even though i don't exercise at all (except bicycling to places when it's warm enough) and my diet isn't that healthy but nobody keeps bugging me about my weight or health every time we meet.
YouSillyClown you are totally right, I have a really slow metabolism while my sister have a quite fast one, we grew up having a really healthy Mediterranean diet, ... but she eats way more than me, still she is skinny while I'm a little bit overnight, but I will never go under diet, I need food to function, what I did was start going to the gym... and I kind like it now, I makes me feel less stressed 😁
Dave "Because weight is directly proportional to health."
I'm not sure about directly propotional, but yeah it's related for sure in some way.
But people who make comments about someones weight is not referring to the weight and health correlation.
They're referring to the weight in general. That's why there's people who don't like that comment.
"Is it wrong for people to say "oh you quit smoking?"
Weight is not the same thing as having quit smoking is.
Quitting smoking is almost always a positive thing and something people want to hear, it's something they're proud of.
But if you say: "oh you gained weight?", it's like you're smearing the obvious negative thing in their face.
I'm not saying it's not okay to say it, I'm saying it can be rude. I not sure what you really mean by "is it wrong", there's so much that not wrong, but not socially acceptable.
You can even say you think someone looks ugly as a fucking garbage can, is it wrong of me to say that if I really think so?
Clearly you can see why it's not always a nice to comment on someones weight.
5:48 *"they'd see the fat one as lacking self discipline and go with the thin person"*
I don't blame them. It makes sense.
Mexisio22 no it doesn't, because in this case overweight to them is over 50 kgs. Its scary how some people want to go even lower than 40.
@@acat6287 But relative to the target weight it is a big differnce. I wonder what the japanese men think fat it. I know here in the west that men and women do not agree on what fat is.
What if there is some health condition because of which the fat is fat and doesn't lose weight even after exercising?
@@SaiNithikaYakkali Only a small portion of people have those conditions which increase fat slightly. There is an extremely rare one which the person has little hope though but it is extremely rare. Certain medications like prednisolone can cause weight gain with chronic use but after the use you can lose weight. I went from 328 to 230 in 2 years so there are no excuses only solutions unless you are the unfortunate exeptions which a doctor can diagnose.
Thank you Asian boss for the amazing videos!
yo did anybody else notice the guy in the background at 0:57
he is looking good
Damn right! thanks for pointing him out. 😻
Lol yeah
Yeah
I kinda like those two at 0:30 cool vibes
@@zj7666 they look like idols...wow
This is so sad. I've struggled with eating disorders before and this is practically the same thing. Obsess over weight, set a goal, eat little amounts, binge (because I'm hungry from not eating enough...this is basically what starts a binge), throw it up, obsess more. With this whole "skinny" Japanese trend women are probably going to hate themselves all their life, and that's a really sad life.
Haikoo Honestly, yeah. I used to have eating disorders, as well and it’s not fun. I wouldn’t eat and it was hell. Constantly hungry, but chewed gum for flavor to make the hunger subside. I had no reason to lose weight, either. I’ve always been at the healthy weight. Recently, I’ve fallen back. Not exercising much, getting back into swimming, having to march for band on top of that, and only eating one meal per day. That’s my limit. I’m not allowed to eat more or I’ll gain more weight. I’m constantly tired, I get dizzy more than I used to, especially when playing my clarinet. And I know I shouldn’t. I know I’m perfectly fine. I’m healthy (maybe underweight, now), and I constantly get reassurance from my boyfriend. He knows when I fall back and when I’m happy with my weight (though, it’s obvious. He likes to put his hand on my stomach when he holds me and I’ll move it if I’m not happy with my weight), and he tries so hard to let me know I’m not fat. He tries to get me to eat more. I’m glad I’m with him, tbh. Without him, I’d be much worse.
Luckily, it doesn’t take much for me to be happy with my weight. I’d say about 100 pounds, which I believe is about ten or fifteen pounds underweight for my height. I’ve been trying to exercise more to build muscle. I know I should eat and shouldn’t feel bad, but I can’t help it.
Sorry for the long reply.
this if off topic but the Japanese language sounds so satisfying to hear
"If you were slimmer, you'd have more options for clothes" as a person who is 49kg I disagree strongly
same. i have a really small waist and most tops, crop tops, t-shirts ecc. don’t fit me. sometimes i’ve had to shop in the kid section because of it. it’s annoying.
Their in Japan, a lot of clothes are pretty small
38 kg thats my weight. And i am 14 years old. The doctor keeps on telling me to start gaining more weight
well, how fucking tall are you?
아나 ana I use to weigh 80 pounds when I was 13 and 4'11". Since I had my grow spurt, I have gained more than 50 pounds and around 5'10". I can still eat a damn elephant and not get fat thanks to my metabolism lol.
Nerf This!!! are u SERIOUS?
Soli Nino I am 4"7 or 139.7 cm tall
Well that's because you are short, right?? You have the BMI 20 and that's not skinny at all!!!
I'm Indonesian but I've dated Japanese before and everyone keep saying that I need to lose weight more. I'm considered to be normal in Indonesia (162cm, 47kg) but it seems like the "normal" Japanese weight for my height is 42. I'm totally fine with my body and not doing diet at all, but sometimes it annoyes me when they stop me to eat after 7pm or when I eat sweets.
Stay strong and happy don't let them get to you as long as your healthy :)
Megia Astrilistya that HAPPEN to me too, i stop those guys right away, i mean if we are already dating Is cuz You like me, now why force me to loose weight???
thats not healthy, those types of guys normally try to control You by your insecurities (i know IM talking about my case) but if You like a guy, would You TELL him "ok now You have to loose weight" "or now You have to dye your hair blonde" ... thats rude.
+AyAReI00 men and women are attracted to different things. Men would be unlikely to get mad at their girlfriend for lacking ambition, but would care about weight. Most women would be quite the opposite. Whether you like it or not, figure and shape is very important to physical beauty, and physical beauty is very important to men. To expect men to overcome their nature on what they find beautiful is equivalent to expect women to do the same. Most women have nesting behavior and are looking for a tall man who can provide resources and skills to raise children. Should we expect women not to prefer men who have an above average income? Should we tell women not to short shame men? What about women who are trying to CONTROL men by telling them they must have a job or a car? You might not think these are comparable, but that is because you are cherry picking and making excuses why expectations for one set of attractive qualities is acceptable and another is not. If you want your partner to value you, you should try to remain attractive in the ways that THEY find important, not what you find important. If you can't do that, than you are being selfish, and you are not concerned about how they feel, and that makes you the abusive person of the relationship.
Eli Nope i think that You are projecting yourself, i KNOW how world works, i know HOW much guys care about phisical appereance, and most of girls about guys income lol ... that doesnt mean that i can complain about it dude .... look woman can work and but ver stuff yet guys expect them to be pretty but if a girl want that "supposed" Rich guy to be handsome as well You Will call her delisuional xDD
hey sorry for my bad English
Eli Nope If I'm fat thats totally fine but I dont see myself to be overweight. I never be told to lose weight by Indonesian men, but Japanese men told me so, that's why I kind of disturbed first. Now it's totally fine, I never expect anything for my boyfriend and I'm trying my best to be attractive in a ways which make me confortable. after founding that Japanese and Indonesian standards of beauty(?) is different, I try to appriciate both but it's not easy, just for you to know. I hope you get my point.
I feel like asians go on diets more and western people workout more(just my opinion)
Dang. It’s so interesting to see how differently they look at things over there. Here, my parents encourage me to eat and get scared when I lose weight.
I'm asian, 152cm and weight 45kgs. People here said that I'm fat all the time. At first time I used to listen to all, calling me fat, until I cut ties severely with those kind of people. I do believe women are beautiful no matter what they look.If you have friends calling you fat, they are not your real friends because people should respect others no matter what they look. I choose to unfriend friends that called me fat immediately and now I'm happy. I 'm still 152 cm, 45 kgs and happy without people calling me fat and told me what to do with my body.
Well if you are really fat then there is nothing wrong if your friends just say it how it is, with not making of you and still be your friend. Of you are healthy and they call you fat they are really not good friends. Please keep balancing your thoughts.
My mom is Asian and it’s all she cares about. Money and how fat or skinny I am. She sent me a new jacket for Christmas and I told her I was wearing it in my new photo on FB. So she calls me later and is like “I saw your photo. Looks like you gained weight!!” Literally, that’s it. No “hi how are you?” No “the jacket looks nice” - just goes right in to inform me of the obvious. Seriously wtf. I don’t need this b to tell me I gained weight, I’m not blind! How stupid can you be to think that’s an acceptable form of socializing with someone? You might as well call someone and be like “wow you really look hideous in your new jacket!” Because that’s obviously what anyone who does this crap is really thinking. You don’t care how healthy someone is, you just want them to be pleasing to your eyes. My mom was fatter than me all my life and only drinking vinegar straight made her lose weight, yet she still had to tell me with disgust that I was fat. It is the most self-centered nonsense disguised as encouraging someone to be healthy. If people gave a crap how healthy others were they’d be equally chiding people for eating at McDonald’s, eating potato chips, eating donuts, eating pizza, etc. That’s NOT what people actually care about. They just want to hold you to beauty standards and use “health” as a supporting argument to do so. If I put out a plate of freshly cooked deep fried food at a party, I guarantee you that will be snatched up by every skinny person in the room within minutes without a concern for health. If I see a box of donuts I am usually the last one to touch it while all the skinny people go for it. There’s a reason “pizza party” is the go-to food gathering in America. You’ve never heard of a salad party or a fruit party. Also 99% of adults drink a poison called alcohol and pressure others to drink it with them, rather than chiding others for drinking it. My mom was a violent, abusive alcoholic for my entire childhood, and I have never drunk an ounce of alcohol in my life. Many people will tell you you’re fat but I am probably the only person who has ever told my mom she was an alcoholic!
And btw the reason I have gained weight is because of chronic hip pain for the past 10.5 months. I hung up the phone and declined further calls from my mom after that. Stop being so superficial and fake, people!
Im 1.58cm and 47kg im fat ?
Im 121cm and 44kgs im the fat one here peeps
I'm 155 cm, 18 years old and weighs 46 kg, I attend a check up in our school and our school doctor says that I'm underweight, so I need to gain weight, and these girls just said that 38-40+ kg is the ideal body lol do they even know how BMI works!?
I watched a lot of videos and I noticed that Asians look perfect when they go out ... Seriously the hair , makeup, & outfit .. Woah.... Not a lot of people dress like this daily in America
I think in the US/ west. There's a movement of removing the shame of everything. There're both pro and cons as the fear of feeling humiliated could be the drive for us to live healthier & work harder a lot of times.
well for japan, appearences mean alot. Apparently just showing up regular work attire in japan for work without all the extra stuff means you aren't prepared or whatever. In america its abit different, they get comfortable and usually don't have time for all that in the morning.
I thought i was the only one who notice that i like how they dress
When I go out with my japanese friends they are so stylish put make up, fake lashes, colored contact lenses, curled hair. lol and i just wear shirt and jeans.
People in the New England area tend to dress up more, even just going to the grocery store.
I remember when I went to Japan before a couple of years ago and went on a home stay with a Japanese family. It was during October time and the family had a Halloween party and the mother’s daughter invited her friends round. I remember one of the friends was just talking about whatever and then she suddenly turned to me and went “you’re so skinny!”. It was such a shock because she acted like it was a compliment. I was severely underweight then and dealing with an ED, so it just shows something :(
I appreciate the fact that when they were asked about whether they see westerners as “fat” they did not straight up say “yes!” because that’s how you respect varied cultures & societies in a polite and more appropriate way rather than being sarcastic or mean and fat shame other people
Even in African countries, whenever I see my relatives, the first thing they say is you've either gained or lost weight ;/
Its really sad it is like that 😔
Yup 😞 😔
Not only that, your own family just have to remind you everyday for that
same for fiji indian family, lived with a pinoy family too while renting and the sister always said i look like i lost weight because i was gaining and losing it
True I'm from Nambia
4' 12".... you mean 5' 0? LOL
Kevin Tran I don't get it.
There's 12 inches in a foot
Jack Lee yea so it's 5'0
Beat me to it by a year lol
marian tt no it's 4'12
For someone who is quite skinny in an unhealthy way this sounds sad and odd to me. They don't deserve this! If they were as skinny as they wish that would be too much. Those numbers don't seem really healthy. Hope they take care of themselves and ignore other people.
I just want to give the last lady a hug because I want to let her know that she doesn't deserve to feel that way just because of other people's opinions. We may be different physically but the difference doesn't define where you stand (up or above others) and that means we're all equally beautiful in our own way. Our physical aspects are not that important, for what's vital is invisible to the naked eye.
Japanese women are so pretty. Not the women in dramas nor these ''cute'' girls. Just this normal human beings.
Betty Li , they are. And they do but just use proper make-up, which is so nice.
It's called tones of makeup and often surgery. Japan and Korea are huge for surgery
Jen Ni isn't it just korea?
@@Mel-hy2ce Korea is bigger for surgery, but Japan follows not far behind unfortunately
Jen Ni oh thx! i don't know why but i thought japan was not really into surgery
okay but that blonde overweight woman looks the most sophosticated and beautiful and i dont think her weight is denying it in any way
Lol what she is has Brown hair does that count as blond in burgerland?
kakibackup2 Koujo "burgerland" looks like it's time to move out of America
she's in no way overweight. plump at most.
Olka HentaiMaster she is not overweight omg she is fine. Overweight is a health term and is not casually used to describe everyone above 110 llbs lmao
C C nah man she fat. You delusional
Thank you for your videos.
This is so upsetting :(
The last girl was so beautiful too so it breaks my heart that she feels that way.
It's funny how you think of Japanese people as so healthy but in reality most young women are skipping meals and doing fad diets to strive for an underweight figure.
Her: "i wanna be 38kg at 5'0!"
Me and my 50 kg at 5'0: "hold my boba"
shinku ur skinny
Omfg imma exactly same as you we healthy cheers
@@pureroseangemuse7910 Sorry, but 50Kg at 5'0 isn't skinny. It's normal and not too unhealthy, but definitely not skinny. I weigh 51-52Kg at 5'7 as a male and not even I am skinny.
@@benreiners9451 um. idk who you’ve been talking to but that’s underweight for your height. so yeah you probably are very skinny especially as a male
@@benreiners9451 it’s a bmi of around 17.6 which, especially for a guy, is underweight. it’s good you gained weight and i don’t mean to attack you but saying that 51 kg for a 5’7 guy is “normal” just isn’t true.
0:27 her friend with the grey jacket in the middle💀💀💀 she even blinked like "wait wha-"
I wear a size 6/8 in American clothing and the first time I didn’t feel like I was obese was when I got to America for university, where body positivity was much more established. In my Asian home country I was constantly told how fat I’d gotten, scrutinised at every family meeting with aunts and uncles and cousins and grandparents talking about whether I’d lost or gained weight, my friends would be obsessed with being skinny and constantly compared themselves to girls on Instagram or asian celebrities who are literally dangerously underweight, and every time I glimpsed myself in the mirror walking next to my skinny cousins I’d feel like breaking down and crying. My love for food was something I battled with, and every time I’d eat something I would break down in tears afterward because I hated myself for “giving into my temptations”, and every time I failed to starve myself or skip a meal (this usually never worked past a day) I would feel like I was being lazy and failed. I never suffered from starvation nor successfully managed to diet, and that killed me inside. The asian mindset when it comes to food and weight is toxic, and is so deeply engrained in society it makes me disgusted to my core.
It's so terrible that the literal standard is near death. It's awful. I hope youre confident in yourself now bc you deserve it!!
Oh yeah. I'm in eastern Europe and if I gain so much as 1kg, absolutely every single family member individually will let me know. And they never do it tactfully, either. ("It's awful to look at you, my god you've let yourself go" is the most typical refrain.)
i feel bad for the last girl. She's so fucking beautiful and deserves better
she is average looking
Poor Japenese girls - I was living there for a few months and noticed most of them dont have any self-confidence. They are so focused on how others see them, that they have these very unhealthy beauty standarts.
Funny and ironically (though exactly how they stated in the video) they observed me as a 'model' - being 166 and almost 60 kg back then. It makes absolutely no sense🤷♀️
Better than over confident Western women
@@genericdeveloper3966 Oh yeah, definitely.
I suck toes for very long time 😂
Randall Gmail over confident is better than starving yourself
@@genericdeveloper3966 so are you saying that over confident women intimidate you ?
朝測った体重でその日のテンションが変わる
めっちゃわかります。
頑張って運動したのに翌朝何故か体重増えてた時の絶望感は生理始まったときと同じよね
🤔
I'm 149cm and I weigh around 41-42kg. My bmi's barely on the normal scale but I still have love handles etc. That's why i started working out not to lose weight but to basically convert my fat to muscle so I won't have to go underweight to get rid of the fat.
Omg. Everybody has a clear skin. 🙄
This comment come out of the blue...but you have a point😂
I was thinking the same thing .. they have clear skin + nice smile
Their makeup looks so damn natural
Well they’re adults and most adults don’t experience as much acne
My Name Is In Use I find that East Asian people (Japanese, Korean and Chinese people) have clearer skin than most other groups of people, they usually have a healthy diet and good skincare routines along with really natural looking makeup
I'm 153cm and when I had cancer I reached a rock bottom of 39kg...honestly wasn't a very cute look. I'm just fine with being 48 and healthy :3
I truly hope you're doing better now 💙
honestly, I'm 153cm and 47kg and I don't feel fat at all, that girl that wanted to be 38kg at a similar height is just mind blowing, I hope you're doing okay now ❤
Are you ok now ?? I hope so 🙏
I hope you're having a beautiful life💜💚
@@heyitsc8723 Yeah, I think it's a good measurements! and thank you
痩せたくても痩せられない人、太りたくても太れない人、誰かが誰かの理想を否定するのも、誰かの体型に言及するのも納得がいかない
陰でヒソヒソ言われなければありのままの自分の事を好きになていた人もいれば、好きな服を着こなしたいために自分を犠牲にして頑張る人もいる
太っているか痩せているか、正しいも間違いも無いと思う
どんな体型であっても尊厳が守られて欲しい