Dealing with Difficult Life Situations - Q&A With Nouman Ali Khan
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- When dealing with difficult situations, people often experience a lot of stress and sadness. How can one cope with these moments, even while knowing that Allah has the best plan for you?
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What is your perspective on this subject? Share your thoughts with us.
Personally, when things don't go as I planned or wanted them to turn out, I allow myself to feel all the things I need to feel. Just don't get stuck in the emotions, talk them out with your Lord. Stick on your prayers, recite Quran, make dua and as Nouman is mentioning in the end, keep moving forward. Take som kind of action that is improving your state of well being. For me it is usually making someone else feel good/good deeds, or completing a promise I've made to myself.
May Allah grant all of you Jannah
Adding to what NAK said- whatever difficult life situations we go through..we learn from it and grow on and became a better person to appear before Allah.. every difficult situation is leading you to Allah..this life is a love story between you and Allah...know it and you will accept everything going on in your life...if difficult situation is leading you to Allah..it is a test and not punishment..have tawakkul
Alhamdulillah what you said is veryyy true....if we don't turn towards Allah in difficulty we will end up in depression.... connect to Quran and you will get the power through which we can fight any situation.
It's just a delusion that the other person has got it all right and easy...I have personally struggled with this delusion for a long time...now I'm trying to break off this way of thinking in myself.
May Allah guide us all in setting our priorities right. Ameen
I think if one has the option allowed by allah to get out of the trouble ,one is facing, they should go for that. But there are circumstances where one has no other option than to submit oneself to the situation ,at that time, we should be positive and keep asking allah swt for his rehma . And indeed this life is short and whatever hardships we face we will get the reward for that inshallah. One more thing we should study the life stories of prophets, how much problems they have faced,.by that we can get some strength to face the problems
Plss whoever reading this make dua for me that i become very pretty,matured,smart,fearless,and also get good communication skills,and a big fam in future with a good and pious husband
Aamiin... 🤲
Inn shaa Allah Taalah 🤲🏻 a simple tip that helped me to accomplish my wishes:
1- Daily Salaat ul Hajaat after Isha, and make dua about whatever your heart desires.
2- Astaghfaar 100 times Daily.
Do it for 40 days, if that's too much, do it for a week and see the results yourself inn shaa Allah 💚
Aamiin
Pure soul amin..inşallah for all of us
Aameen
I can feel the struggles She's going through in her voice. May Allah help her.
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Amin
I hope she gets what she wanted soon inshallah
Ameen
M also suffering from alike pain n like she said U do believe that it's from Allah n he will provide relief but still m too restless and having sleepless nights for last 5 months,don't know how to be patient and strengthen my eeman
AMIIN AMIIN AMIIN
My father passed away on 30 th dec 2023. Please pray for him, may Allah grant him jannah
Ameen!
🤲
May Allah forgive him,have mercy on him,and grant him jannatul firdaus.
Amiin ya rabi
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un,
May Allah forgive your father shortcomings and grant him jannat ul firdous,
My father also passaway on 10th may 2023 please pray for him,
May Allah accept our duas 🤲
I'm also reminded of the following verse 64:11: "No disaster occurs except by Allah’s leave. And whoever believes in Allah-He guides his heart. For Allah is All-Knowing of everything."
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Life Lesson❕
Life is a journey, yet we forget to treat it like one. Do not carry the anxiety for the future because it is in the Hands of Allah.
Carry one thing: how to please Allah. Because if you please Him, He pleases you, fulfils you and enriches you 🤍
May Allah bless whoever is reading this, protect you, grant you strength and forever guide you with His light throughout this journey. May you find Him at every corner, every pit-stop, and may His words be a source of comfort and guidance for you when you need them most 🤍
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Amin
Amin
Amine 🙏🏾
Ameen🤲🏻🤍
I swear I wanted something has been waiting for it 6/7 months and prayed for it in tahhajud every day but I did not get when I heard the news that I got rejected I cried at stop cried like a baby but the very first words that came out of my mind was I know Allah you have better plan I know whatever you do you do out of your perfection forget me I'm just human being I can't control my emotions but I know that you know the best for me and after one month when it was unexpected I got it something even better what I could not even imagine ❤️
May Allah ease my pains too because am in my most difficult situation 😭😭💔
@nayeeshavlog3667 May Allah (swt) ease your situation and gramt more than that which you could have imagined.
Alhamdulillah, I just realized its true. "In every difficulty, there is ease" whenever I'm in very difficult situation and depressed and in pain, I ask Allah for his guidance, to easy my pain at night and in the very next day I become happy again, most of the time my loved ones will visit me and somehow do random stuff and unexpected things to make me happy again. Alhamdulillah
I am always very fearfull because of my father and his family. I've never been able to stand for my mother because of that fear. I feel like I've failed as my mother's daughter. For many reasons I suffer from depression. I even struggle to read salah.
Whoever reads my comment, please make dua for me that May Allah give a halal job within this year, so that I can look after my mother's needs. And May Allah get me married to a good hearted and kind man, who would always support me and stand for me because my father never did that for me. And pray for me that May Allah cure my depression and give ease to my heart.
Ameeen! In sha Allah you will be given the best things. May Allah bless you and your mother and remove any hardship🤲 a big hug for you from one sister to another
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Amin
Salam for you and me both my sister.May Allah grant a way out for 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻💯💝❤️ both of us Ameen
Ameen 🤲🏻 🤲🏻 🤲🏻 ❤For every Muslim suffering,may Allah grant us ease and peace within ourselves.Alhamdulillah Allah is Merciful Al Rahman Al Raheem 💯💝🤲🏻🤲🏻❤️Ameen.
Wallahi he is the only person, who I think ,understands things from every aspect and make us all understand that in a very good way
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I am a student and my age is 23. I think that this dunya is a test for everyone, and everyone can give this exam in different ways. I think that who connects to Allah at this stage, then Allah ease this problem for him and spiritually strengthen too.
Please make Dua for my uncle who just passed away on the blessed day of Friday
....sabr is incredibly hard, feel like I'm facing a brick wall, but also know, no problem is big for Allah
This video is really a sign of Allah for me and i really needed this rihht now so badly ya Rab shukar Alhamdulillah may Allah bless this man with his endless blessings and ease all our difficulties and get us out of the messes we are in Ameen ya Rab ul Alameen
Amin yareb, abşir
Ameen
Allahumma Ameen that's actually what I was thinking subhanallah make Allah make it easy for us all
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The Earth is a testing place, not a resting place (Paradise).
“There were people who were way greater people than us and they got traumatized in life too” - this line is gonna help me a lot as I'm passing through some of the most difficult times of my life!
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By virtue that I have bumped into this video, I know God is directly talking to me through it. My visa will come to me inshaAllah.
َ'' What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹
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I learnt that the prophets (peace be upon them) and sahabahs had a much bigger and tougher trials than me, yet they still hold onto their faith. Now I feel my trial is still easy, as compared to them. It makes me think that, if they can survive those tests, then I can do too. Jzkk ustadz and team ❤
Moments of devastation is when our faiths are really tested. Are you going to turn to Allah completely or associate partners with Him or turn to Shaitan. We have to look for reasons to remain grateful in this moments by looking at people worse than us and examples from Qur’an and Sunnah. Also learning to appreciate Allah before calamity is a great idea and anticipating how Allah may test you before those test happen is a good idea. May Allah protect us from the trials and life and death. I hope this lessons from my experience helps someone insha Allah 🙏🏽
These Days I'm trying to remind myself this ;
Allah swt gave me this difficulty not because He does not love me, but because He loves me very much. It takes a while to understand this, but once I did, I found true relief. I hope you find it too.
Superb Nouman Bhai.... I was with my tears today... But have faith there is Allah who always love us all... There is an ease with trouble.
JazakAllah khair
Your video is the reminder for me. ❤ May Allah bless you. Aameen
My marriage is delaying i'm depressed by that and I'm getting old may Allah make it easy for me please pray for me 🥺❤️🩹
Hi Zahourya,
Assallamualaikum, you need to be patient, keep making continuous Du’a to Allah SWT Insha’Allah when it is destined for you, you will get married, I got married, although I went through a separation within five months therefore for me considering marriage again concerns me as marriage is about having committment, trust and loyalty in the person whosoever you are to marry, for me these three aspects have to be present in a marriage/relationship
Allah humma barik
May Allah bless you with abundant happiness, sister.❤
Assalamu alaikum dear.. I pray for you that you will get a right person ❤️
I am having a difficult time right now in my life and I come cross this video and made me calm little, please pray for me and my family 🙏
Aamiin
May Allah protect you and guide you. Allah humma barik
In my own experience, the matter was less about what was happening and more about not wanting to hurt no matter what happened. Part of my growth was learning to sit down and allow myself to feel the pain for what it was and give that pain an honest opportunity to be felt. Certainly I didn't go looking for pain, but I felt guided to know that however much it hurt, I was going to come out the other side....and maybe even be a better person for it. The single greatest blessing was learning that I could survive Hurt even when it might feel overwhelming. FWIW.
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Alhamdulillah that Allah gave such a knowledgeable person like you to this ummah in such hard times. May Allah protect you from worldly fitnah
My mother passed away 5 days ago and I can barely sit for 10mins without crying.
Please pray for my mother’s wellness in the bazakh & hereafter.
Al -Fatihah
I'm really in the same shoes with her right now... it is His help this video show up.
Alhamdulillah ❤
Same
@@aribakhan9214I don’t believe in God it’s all delusions. The reality is your tailbone like monkeys 🙈
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Alhamdulillah
In the very beginning of the quran Allah said “Indeed, I know what you do not know.”, yes, it is very hard to contain your own emotions in moments of pain and sadness, but if sth is not going according your plans, then truly Allah wants sth better for you or maybe protects you from worse. In short, force positive outlook to your thoughts and train that whenever you feel like that negative sprial is coming up. Acknowledge your feelings and try to accept that you are only a human being that can only do much. New possibilities usually come up when some time has passed and the best we can do is being patient and trust Allah in that manner.
After a while you will see the blessings in disguise. Never forget that Allah only wants good for you. In the end he knows best.
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Mostly people don't have much of a problem with the issue itself but it is what people will say and they expect something of us and we are not upto their expectations .. if the thread of being controlled by people's minds is cut off .. then Allahs words are the best healer the universe can have.
"...that whatever trial Allah has picked for me, whatever loss Allah has picked for me, whatever experience Allah has picked for me is something I'm supposed to learn from, learn and grow. That's it." This is very true. There has been times in my life where I experienced such a dark period and when I self reflected, Allah was saving me in advance. I just couldn't see it yet. No matter how painful something is, there are hard lessons that need to be learned so we can grow and do better next time. It's hard to accept sometimes, but the growth is so raw. It's comforting knowing that Allah wants what's only best for us. So it's always a win win situation. Easier said than done, but it's doable.❤
Reading and understanding when being tested for sabr is really different you are going through it. the last 2 verse of surah Bakarah it really has a good meaning
From a. Very young age we were told obey your parents
Every thing they want we have given them a paid off home, food bills clothing endless cars ride meds taken care off everything
In return we get cursed at religion used as blackmail all because of This entitled life They’ve lived.
Always complaining yelling never good enough
It’s exhausting expensive and unjust unfair how we are being treated siblings as breaking ties all because of this entitlement lifestyle
Please make duaa for Allah to bless me with my own safe home asap
I’m literally suffocating
May Allah make grant you beautiful patience brother/sister ❤
I learnt alot from this video , bcz im going through some thing and i want to move forward , plz anyone see my comment plz pray for me ❤always stay happy & blessed sir u and all❤
I have been repenting since 9 years and do good deeds and have taqwa Alhamdullilah ,but still i don't know where am heading in life like am struggling thru financial crises but inner self am content and sometimes am hopeless from life, am stuck in a loop. My heart says have sabr, but sometimes i emotionally drained.
I know how it feels. May allah Heal your heart. And remove the pain❤ may allah Reward you Abundantly . Aameeen.
@@heenatabassum4659 Same to you. JazakAllahu khairon 😊
I totally agree with him. Our job is to do as much as possible from our side and leave the outcome to Allah SWT.
I feel like everyone has more sabr than me. Please pray for my heart n my mother's health.
may Allah bless uh nd give your mom good health..Ameen
thank you very much, in morning i am going to have an exams, but due to some behavior of my ppl at home is making me hurt and upset... now after watching your clip, at least I could be able to bring an optimistic site of this situation that I am going through.... please viewers pray for me.... it's a humble request
The difficulty or ease is a prerequisite for what's about to come in your life. Believe it or not, it's there to prepare you for future events, so leverage it! Use it to strengthen your iman!
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I don't know if i'm the only one that felt the pain in her voice
May Allah ease all our affairs
Thank you, Nouman. may Allah bless you 😊 ❤
This video comes around the right time I needed. Thank you ☺️ Keep up the good work, sir.
Thanks a million for this video it had an absolutely incredible timing!
May it be given ease and smoothness for all of us.
I pray Allah continue to grant you beneficial knowledge.
Aamin
I needed to hear this. I appreciate your knowledge and wisdom.
its first thing on my feed and i needed this reminder the most-🙌🏻
Alhamdulillah, This is what I needed to hear right now, tomorrow ,the day after tomorrow........ Sometimes we get really soaked by life's problem that we tend to forget that life is really meant to be like this .
JazakAllah Ustadh!! Ma sha'Allah. Allah SWT has given us such a remarkable teacher of great wisdom .
Thank you Yaa Shaykh!
you are absolutely right . there always is ease and toughness in everyone's life but the thing in the end we all have to move forward.
Very beautiful response Ustadh ❤ Masha Allah! Jazak Allahu Khairan Ustadh 🎉
SubhanAllah I really needed to hear this reminder. May Allah swt bless u immensely Sheikh and the whole team Whoever is involved to make this...Aameen ya Rabbul Alameen.
I love the way you explain things... Keeping it light and relaxed. Huge JazakAllah!!!! May Allah shower the best of his blessimgs upon you.
Masha’Allah! Thank you, sir! I will have to save this and revisit it as therapy
May Allah bless and protect all people in the world
You are truly the greatest speaker who touches our hearts ❤thanks for bowing there for us 🙏
JazakAllah khairan may Allah swt blessed all muslim ummha❤
Needed that this morning. Alhamdullilah
thank you ustadh 🤲you make me feel so much better it's very convincing what you said May Allah bless you
Great question! ♡ May Allah Taala guide us all and establish gratitude and contentment in our hearts.... Allahuma amin
i think i really needed to hear this. thanks syeikh. I failed my semester, not because lack of efforts, i worked days and nights for it. its really innalillahi wainna ilahirajiun.
Thank u brother
This lecture absolutely change my life 🙂😊
Thanks for sharing the Allah's words.
I love Noman Ali khan for the shake of Allah.
May Allah make me learn more and more good things from him❤️
Your words heals my soul.... JazakAllah khair... May Allah bless you.. ❤
I was so much in need of this😭
Whoever reading this please make dua for me that Allah ease my situation and help me a way out if it ❤
Ameen
Very happy because there are already subtitles in Ustadz's video.
جَزَاكُمُ اللهُ خَيْرًا كَثِيْرًا 🤎
Alhamdulillah.. Jazak Allahu Khair..
You're simply amazing Sir ❤
Simply beautiful!
Thanks for sharing this video. It give us a lot of motivation to face our problems.
May Allah ease all our difficulties and hardship!
Jazakallah ❤
You said it so aptly!Looking at the grand sceme of Allah subhana wa t'ala is the key!N the belief that "verily after every difficulty there is ease n after every difficulty there is ease" keeps us going!Alhamdulillah!JazakAllah khairan for all your dedication n hard work in His path!Aamiin ya Robb!🤲
Well explained..Masha allah ❤
May Allah make it easy for all of us specially for our Palestinian brothers and sisters
May Allah grant us ease ❤
He’s so right. We cannot control other people, cannot control their hearts. Can only manage our own hearts. But we can ask الله سبحانه و تعالى to help us with a qalbun salim. Everyone has trials.
Jazakallahu Khair😊❤✨🌸🙌
Been in a difficult situations for many times, and yes at first it's so hard, and I always questioned like why it should be like this. But with the time goes by, I always ended up with realizing that all the situations happened just for our best. Allah plans are never wrong, so now I always believe that whatever happens to me is just for my best, Thank to Allah.
Thank you for the beautiful reminder:)
Jazakallahu Khayran for sharing!!!
I don't change.my.heard..iluish❤❤ Allah is great innallahhu maasapeeren...❤
Alhumdullilah your clips help me a lot and believe in Allah almighty
SubhanAllah thank you for the amazing knowledge
Ma Sha Allah ❤
Beautiful djazak'Allah ghairan kathiran
😢you are a gem!
Allah Guides. I was thinking and then I came across this.
Sabr actually means never to give up trying, never to loose hope
Thank you for this ..sigh. ❤❤❤
SUBHANALLAH 🥺❤
....duas for whole team.. always awesome work ❤❤❤
great work ...Jazaka Allah
Too soothing
Much needed for me❤
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Salaam to our Prophet Peace be upon Him and His Family