One Couple's Struggle for Balance: Kids or No Kids
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 ก.ย. 2024
- She was ready for kids, but he didn't want any. The discussions about kids put a big strain on their marriage. This is their story.
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***Story was read as submitted. Some minor grammatical wording changes were made.
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As a mental health professional i will say that manipulative parents are not able to "turn" someone into a child free person.
There are a lot people, who grew up to manipulative parents, to abusive, narcissistic parents and were even sexually assaulted by the family members, and they still want their own kids most of all and have them. So it's just a personal thing.
This confirms what I'd already suspected. Dreams and goals are good but it doesn't have to define if you can lead a fulfilling life, regardless if those goals are met. She decided even if she wanted kids she could be happy without them. She didn't resign herself to a miserable, childless life. She embraced what she already had and it brought her life joy.
I'm glad someone was able to "Choose happiness." Motivational stuff doesn't actually work for most people.
** This story was submitted by a subscriber who asked to remain anonymous. I appreciate their willingness to be vulnerable and share. Thank you! **
Let me know if you'd like see more personal childfree stories featured on the channel this year.
Email me your personal story: wifewithoutkids@gmail.com
Absolutely, Hannah! I'm even considering sharing my own 🙂
I'd love to hear more stories. I also might submit my own.
That was such a intriguing story, many more years to this couple.
I'm so glad he was willing to share his story with our community. It's interesting to hear how people go through the decision making process of being childfree.
@@WifeWithoutKids I remember meeting a couple who were together for 11 years before they found out the other one didn't want offspring. SMH.
How fake do you have to be to hide that you don't want to be a parent for 11 years
This video is right on time as last night I ran into an ex who left me because I don't want any offspring.
Me: did you get those kiddos?
My ex: Yes.
Me: I'm glad you're happy now.
My ex: "happy" lol.
Me: huh?
My ex: You do realize I haven't slept more than 5 hours a night over the past 9 years, right?
Me: Well, did you think parenthood would be easy?
My ex: Nah. But I did think that parenthood would earn me more respect in society. Although it's earned me *less* disrespect, it hasn't earned me *more* respect.
Me: Told ya.
My ex: Let's see who's happier at 65.
Me: See ya in 30 years, bucko (in my Jordan B Peterson voice)
Pfft. Ok pal hopefully by then it'll be worth it and you can finally be happy. Although, if you're not going to be happy until your kids are grown and out of your hair how does all the trouble contribute to your quality of life?
that ex sounds really awful though. Wow!
That was lovely. I genuinely feel that being childfree is a journey. I am on it too
Glad you enjoyed the story.
I absolutely loved this story! please do more like this. 🥰
Will do.
I choose not to have kids since my early childhood and my teenage yrs I don’t really feel being it’s gets me nightmares I’m autistic I do believe having kids is a bad idea I can’t not believe parents now these days not knowing there child what’s better for them and educating their child like it’s sad that’s why they don’t ask to be born of this crazy messed up world we living in they still what best for them because this world is dying they’re full of trash and nobody cares about our planet we living in I agree with you Hannah I learn my lesson thank you for educates people who choose not to have kids like are not growing up and kids couldn’t not communicate together it’s broken hearts 💔
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That was a great story. And a beautiful last sentence!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Amazing picks today of stories about child free folks......... again I just got home from shopping $$$$$$ at Dick's Sporting Goods store and the gym this morning!
I also want childfree life.but i am always scared of loosing my husband and being alone.what to do.please help me.
Hi Hannah, can you speak to more about people who choose not to have kids because of the mistakes their parents made? Is that a good thing or bad thing? Are there other components at play? This story in this video touched on the idea of not wanting kids because the man felt overlooked by his parents.
Thanks for this idea. That would be an interesting topic to look into.
Some people will just scream "Go to therapy" and assume it will actually work.
Wow, what a simple yet powerful story! I resonated 100% with what this gentleman was saying. There does not have to be major trauma for one's child-free reasons to have gravity.
If this was written by the subscriber as you narrated it, keep writing! If not, the end result you delivered is beautiful. I relate a lot to the manipulative mother and the pressure that comes out of nowhere. I appreciate this. Thanks
It was fully written by the subscriber. I think they did a great job as well. 😀
I can really relate a lot to this guy. Other than being younger I almost could have written this.
Interesting how some of our stories are so similar.
It would be great if you could talk or get information about
- why childfree people that are in a childfree relationship change their mind into having children (for example I've seen it happen in very sudden ways when one of them hit a certain goal in life or a certain age, or after a car accident, which for me personally doesn't make sense... so I'm curious about it.)
- and how the couple handled that, did they broke up, did they continue?
- how it is handled by a psychologist in a couple therapy? What can be expected from a couple therapy about this specific topic?
Thanks for your work and your channel Hanna. It really means a lot.
That would be an interesting topic to dive into. Thanks for the idea.
I read a reddit of a women who liked children but don't wanted, change his mind when know her partner, has a child and regret it, she arrive the conclusion was because confound the love to her partner with the desire of have a children, this happened to my with a pet that I adopt, I'm in love whit this pet an I had baby rabies, but I truly believe don't want children for many reasons
The story is great and thorough. Thanks!
Hello Hannah, how do we send you our story, anonymously?
You can send it me by email: wifewithoutkids@gmail.com. I will keep all personal information private if you want me to.