UNFILTERED Q&A: The Reality of Long Distance Relationship, Loneliness, and Life after Graduation

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  • @nhanta
    @nhanta  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Big thanks to Christian and Tom for participating in this video and responding with some amazing answers ❤️ Timestamps for you to watch:
    0:00 meet Christian and Tom
    2:00 Long Distance Relationship
    8:26 Life Update with Christian
    13:10 British Museum + Dinner
    16:52 Life Update with Tom

    • @christiansuen
      @christiansuen 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you again for letting us crash at yours! Ahaha 🤣 see you next time!

  • @WE-qk8sd
    @WE-qk8sd 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Christian is very eloquent and intelligent...I could listen to him talk about anything

  • @stewartmillen7708
    @stewartmillen7708 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I was in a long-distance relationship with my Vietnamese bf for seven years, and we finally got married this year! ❤

    • @fruitykrueger
      @fruitykrueger 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations guys 🎉🎉 wish you both many more happy years to come

    • @stewartmillen7708
      @stewartmillen7708 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@fruitykrueger Thank you! I am so lucky to be with my Vietnamese spouse! And the family loves him!

  • @alainjoyal315
    @alainjoyal315 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Thank you for sharing this vlog! Danny and I (Alan) were in a long distance relationship for two years. I met Danny in Shenzhen, China (beside Hong Kong), where I lived 6 years. Because of COVID, I had to exit China and move back to Canada. Danny and I were living together 2 years already when I had to leave China. With Immigration, lawyers, and the Common Law, we’re were able to be reunited in Ottawa, Canada (after 2 years). We got married last years in fact.
    As your friends mentioned, you need to make it work. As mentioned also, the need of a routine while being long distance is crucial (just to talk every day, even if only say good night or good morning). Danny and I talked every day for 2 years through WeChat / WeChat videos. Danny went through the LD relationship two years, and I’m sure your friends can do it as well.
    Alan & Danny
    Ottawa, Canada

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Awww this is so sweet 🥹 congratulations!!!

  • @kenfraza
    @kenfraza 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Nhân, this was a GREAT video: your separate interviews with the guys and spending time in London. I only wish we could have seen more of their arrival at 4 AM!!! And you were a very gracious host in giving them your bed the first night. 🤗

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank youuu so much. I tried to do a combined Q&A and vlog ❤

    • @kenfraza
      @kenfraza 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nhanta Good job! Now, if you were just a bit….. TALLER! 🤣😂

  • @JAMoore-zz3ki
    @JAMoore-zz3ki 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm so happy to see Christian and Tom together again, even if it's just a brief visit. I like them so much as a couple. But I also understand about needing some time apart so you don't lose your sense of self.
    You are all doing so well, and believe it or not.....even us "adults" who are WELLLLL past our college era (our 20s) don't have everything figured out. I'm in my late 50s and I'm still working on that, lol.
    But as Tom said, you just have to keep moving forward and living your best lives. Enjoy your time together, Tom and Christian! ❤❤

    • @nhanta
      @nhanta  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing ❤️ it’s important to grow individual selves as a couple!

  • @daveg9474
    @daveg9474 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thanks Christian and Tom and well done for being so positive and supportive of each other. Being apart is tough but it sounds like you guys have a plan . I hope we get to see you together or at least hear via Nhan that you got to spend more time together, very soon.
    Nice one Nhan! You always come up with the goods!! Hugs. D xxx

  • @mishko5491
    @mishko5491 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    May God GROWS your LOVE no matter the distance

  • @matthewjay660
    @matthewjay660 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tom, Christian, and Binh are my favorite guests, Nhân. 🇺🇸🤝🇻🇳

  • @molekyuttv5121
    @molekyuttv5121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can attest to what Tom said, that at 20 you don't really know what you want to be. I'm now in my mid 30s and I just realized that I want to be in the legal profession, so I enrolled in law school in 2021, unfortunately, since I was working full-time , and due to conflicting schedules I ended up leaving law school after 1 full year. So, I think the Gap Year is a nice way to figure out what you want to be at an early stage.

  • @harvestmoon_autumnsky
    @harvestmoon_autumnsky 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I remember when you first introduced them to us, your viewers, and I was impressed at how grounded and mature they were. I never think LDR will work, almost ever. But I have absolute faith theirs will. I find it so interesting that some people don't know what they want to do with their career. I only went to college to get a degree for my job. I wish I could have just studied for fun. I've known what I was going to do since I was in high school, although I wish I had thought more about it before I committed to teaching.

  • @skyedancer3106
    @skyedancer3106 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hi Nhan, very nice to meet your friends. Great questions and great answers. I hope you keep us updated on them. Take care and stay safe till next time.
    ❤❤❤

  • @JD-qx3lb
    @JD-qx3lb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing this wonderful video, the fact of having a relationship in university and moving forward with it after graduation is amazing. Talking about how to navigate long term relationships and all the challenges that it brings is something most of us don’t have to worry about or understand. Although it seems you two have come to terms with it and developed a plan of action that will help navigate it. As described by the both of you communicating, taking time and effort to understand each other is critical. Congratulations on your graduation and success in getting a job which are both very special and exciting not to mention the difficulties in doing both. Nhan thank you for sharing this wonderful video with us, it’s very inspiring and educational to watch. ❤️🙋‍♂️🏳️‍🌈

  • @Geodtz
    @Geodtz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your best video yet!

  • @nicozika
    @nicozika หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video…. Love Christian and Tom

  • @binggay
    @binggay 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i graduated last month and im still unemployed thank you for this

  • @stacymuff964
    @stacymuff964 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Christian and Tom 🙂❤️❤️

  • @Audsugg
    @Audsugg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great video. Christian, so many UK consulting firms would take their arm off to have you. Don’t leave it for a year or two, life is short

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a great video. It’s a subject I know a lot about living in Wales and my partner lives in Bangkok. Communication, trust and honesty are three critical requirements to male a long distance relationship work ❤️

  • @Hokipoki4u
    @Hokipoki4u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this video. So nice getting to know C and T a bit better!

  • @PETE1769
    @PETE1769 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    great video boys

  • @Stewie0311
    @Stewie0311 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Christian is very different from what i assumed about him from watching his tiktok videos.he's so mature and intimidating tbh.i always liked them from their videos,but after listening them talk i love them even more❤️.

  • @evertonvale3773
    @evertonvale3773 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    É muito bom ver vocês juntos. Cada um cuidando da sua vida, mas mantendo elos de amizade, amor puro e verdadeiro.
    Parabéns pela sinceridade e maturidade.

  • @bldramaqueen12
    @bldramaqueen12 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i love the way nhân is a perfect host the way he offered his bed the way he reunited them togther i also love nhân laughter image tomchristain my favorite couple meeting my favorite content creator NHÂN ok who doesn't live nhân have a good day nhân lot's of love from🇨🇼 have a blessed week

  • @megaphoenix2001
    @megaphoenix2001 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i was in a LDR for 8.5yrs with a guy from singapore(im in uk) was really hard not being together and the physical part of the relationship we did meet sometimes but was really hard to say goodbye

  • @rossjam123
    @rossjam123 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That was so fun. Thanks.

  • @evertonvale3773
    @evertonvale3773 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like so much this video.
    Show us that is possible to keep a good relationship even physically distant.
    Nice to see you together ✨💎✨.

  • @bradandroysawesomelifebrad9209
    @bradandroysawesomelifebrad9209 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My husband and I hard one year of long distance. It was hard but we got through it. That was 20 years ago. ❤

  • @fmb828
    @fmb828 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good see you guys Nhan. Christian and Tom thank you for sharing your video I. Enjoyed watching it guys are always funny love and respect from Frank always ❤❤❤

  • @bobdodson8468
    @bobdodson8468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for the video Nhan❤

  • @marciallomodjr-qe7xb
    @marciallomodjr-qe7xb 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Sana,all" ❤ nhan crush from Philippines 🥰😊Christian is CUTE🥰Nhan is the most Cutie's 😍

  • @Vandyboygames
    @Vandyboygames 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Omg heyyyy!! I am so excited for this post!! 🫶🏽

  • @paulfrankiecool7166
    @paulfrankiecool7166 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you guys are so awesome,
    i do want to comment on the gap year after uni tho, please do mark, and I believe Tom said it, its all depend on the individuals, I am more toward their economic condition, as taking a gap year is not cheap at all (unless you have part time during gap year) It needs money *quite a lot I must say) to support the gap year :)
    it is an awesome experience to be able to have gap year!

  • @rebeccahamm6522
    @rebeccahamm6522 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this! ❤

  • @comeonjeffgetthem3922
    @comeonjeffgetthem3922 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    14:23 TOM!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 (ps,, give back our moai)

  • @yohohohohooo996
    @yohohohohooo996 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    16:15 Chris : "Should we make a TH-cam channel?"
    A 100% awake me : "YES YES YES PLS SIR!"

  • @alexs.m5598
    @alexs.m5598 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    In November I make 2 years of long-distance relationship. It's hard but it's possible.

  • @Jackson-g4u
    @Jackson-g4u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    > this is very informative and reassuring video content Nhân - as i imagine so many of your subscribers (your age) will find value in the experience and advice given herein. also, you guys make every adventure into must-see content. luv you all. x Jackson in West Hollywood ~

  • @jandanielsson6791
    @jandanielsson6791 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😊 Greetings from Stockholm 🇸🇪

  • @carlosdroidphone497
    @carlosdroidphone497 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First 🎉🎉🎉

  • @ClaudiaGonzalez-dh9pw
    @ClaudiaGonzalez-dh9pw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mi niño hermoso ❤❤ muy bonitos amigos tienes 😊😊😊❤❤❤

  • @deathlyshadow1
    @deathlyshadow1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okey But why did i click this video so quickly when i saw it...

  • @dolmalhamo1123
    @dolmalhamo1123 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cutest pair tom christian ❤❤

  • @Traveltheme706
    @Traveltheme706 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great vid guys i couldnt imagine having a long distance relationship though the lonliness would get to me i guess the only upside is you can fart in bed and get away with it however🤣

  • @ronanmonte1370
    @ronanmonte1370 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Nhân ❤❤

  • @2PeopleLab
    @2PeopleLab 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    being happy 2gether now is already m0rE than alrite
    being 4ever may be unrealistic [most of the time] ..heheehh....

  • @chikabiche7192
    @chikabiche7192 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cuties ❤ 😊

  • @SincaPiem
    @SincaPiem 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @adrielgallardomarin
    @adrielgallardomarin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💖

  • @romeolau1621
    @romeolau1621 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can’t say what… he must be working for the MI6😂

  • @DanielHarry-od6ny
    @DanielHarry-od6ny 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Graduation not graduation

  • @tothichsjk
    @tothichsjk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so cuteeee

  • @fellizmendes5374
    @fellizmendes5374 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Cadê a legenda em português

  • @riperiba2723
    @riperiba2723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like Tom 👍🏻 👌 ♥️ 😋 ❤️ 😍

  • @BakaNeBaka
    @BakaNeBaka 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Say the three pleasing to the eye guys. Imagine if you weren't? How'd that turn out? Ha

  • @kennguyen4370
    @kennguyen4370 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Làm trương trình kết nối tình yêu khắp mọi nơi đi nhân

  • @CANARIGAY
    @CANARIGAY 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍😘

  • @danielhaidang5064
    @danielhaidang5064 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    sớm

  • @jgreen4006
    @jgreen4006 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like how Nhan is surrounding himself with other young professionals with life goals, does not giggle at every word, and act/think maturely. However, I wish he'd stop giggling at every sentence. I think it shows how insecure a person is when they do that. You are fun and intelligent the way you are now. Show more confidence and please stop that annoying giggling that you do. Thank you.

  • @geraldcastro3979
    @geraldcastro3979 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @floeyd.2405
    @floeyd.2405 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤