Totally unrelated to the video but I was out getting ice cream last night (special treat for finally getting a diagnosis of POTS😂) and they had a "chunky chunky Hippo" flavor in honor of the baby hippo at the Cincinnati zoo! All I could think about was Harlow😂
I have a yellow lab that sleeps in strange positions as well. I'm glad you can have PT at home. Harlow is so sweet. Judd looks so tired. I bet being so organized has helped a great deal. Aww it was so nice seeing the three of you on the floor. You don't owe anybody an explanation why three of you do what you do. I am just glad you have included us on your journey.
Your vlogs definitely aren't boring! The fact that you're showing your real life rather than doing things just for the videos to entertain people is what makes your vlogs so interesting. Among other things of course ;) I also want to say that I think your mother is awesome! I love that she drove your dad to his appointment even though they are divorced, it's incredibly kind of her. And it's great to see how she helps you so much whenever she's in town.
Before you destroy your nutrition cubby, put a teflon baking sheet liner underneath it to make it easier to slide in and out. Found this at Target.com: www.target.com/s/teflon+baking+sheet+liner
Just got my wisdom teeth out this morning and when they were putting on my EKG leads I lifted up my shirt for the last one and they were like how did you know? I've had so many medical procedures I know what's going on and don't even get nervous anymore lol
Fiona M ive had that too! I grew up watching medical shows so when i went to get my teeth pulled out i have to talk to a ansethiologist and was acting like i was 7, me thinking "bruh i already know this" 😂😂
Love the cuddle party and being able to glimpse into you're life. You're always incredibly informative and inspirational. Harlow's intelligence fascinates me, and Judd just brings the goof factor to your videos. Congrats to your dad's good appointment.
I just have to say thank you Jaquie and Judd for letting us into your crazy lives. I know it can't be easy to show the life you live behind closed doors especially dealing with so many chronic illnesses but it just goes to show that we all have something to fight for and to live for! Thank you again!!
I just watched one of your videos for the first time and I feel so privileged as a person of good health I have been taking life for granted the past couple months and been feeling sorry for myself. Your story is making me realize how easy I have it and what I can do that some people can't , I am now going to change my perspective on every day to day activity I do . Thank you for showing me how much my eyes have been closed to people that have different lifestyles than myself. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Jaquie i have a physical disability not a chronic illness but i can relate to some of what you go through and it gives me relief when you say things like you werent able to do a lot in a day but you are not punishing yourself for it. Its sometimes what able bodied people do not understand and i thank you for sending the message that its okay not to feel like you have to do a whole bunch of stuff when you dont feel good. I wish both you Judd and Harlow the very best and i love watching your videos as they seem to calm me down. Your kindness and optimism show through even in the hardest of times and it gives me so much inspiration. Thank you, just, thank you xxx.
0:46 I've been woken up by my mom like this probably 5 different times. I've woken up with my feet on my pillows probably 20 times, and when I had a little bed that was close to the floor I woke up on the floor often 😂😂😂😂
You guys are adorable. I may not be someone with a chronic illness or disability, but I am a person who wants to know more and help as much as possible and I LOVE your channel. Most of the info I know about service dogs, I learned from you. And I'm hoping one day I can put my new knowledge of service dogs and laws concerning them to use and maybe help someone who's struggling or in a situation.
Oh so about orthotics, on Qvc.com they sell a brand called vionic and theyre orthotic shoes. They have flip flops and such. I'm pretty sure orthotic inserts are expensive so maybe take a look at the shoes first? Hope this helps!
hey jaquie! i had surgery on monday and i've been feeling kinda crumby due to my mobility being limited (my surgery was near my left knee) so i've been using a wheelchair to get around with high pain. i've been watching your videos with my mom and we've been having a blast :))
Hello Jaquie, Judd and Harlow. First thing, you have never had a boring video. All are interesting or informative and I truly watch every day. I love your family, including your mum and dad. It is great to see divorced people acting normal and helping each other regardless of their circumstances. It is sad to say it is unusual but we can see the type of people they are by the fantastic job they did raising you. You deserve to have parents such as these.
So nice your parents are good to each other! Mine are divorced and as much as my mom tries to be civil it's hard because my dad is a drama queen and always looking to stir things up. Wish they were as good together as your parents, so nice they can put aside their differences for their lovely daughter :)
Having a high pain day today and love watching your vlogs! Having chronic illnesses are new to me and I feel down and that my body is failing me but watching your videos make me feel optimistic about my new adventure!
Also if anyone is looking for a cute pill case port and polish makes an awesome one! Not great for people like Jaquie who take a ton but I only take 7 in the morning and 8 at night so I ordered one for AM and one for PM 😊
Love ur vlogs. Love seeing your nice family. Ur vlogs are never boring. It shows how u have a chronic illness yet u enjoy ur normal life. Some people have chronic illness but get really depressed in life, but your amazing!! Ur husband is amazing. Hippo makes up laugh. Judd treats u really well and is calm on these occasion. Keep up the good work.
I don't know if you are aware but the sticky left on your skin from adhesive can be removed with any kind of oil, olive or coconut is kind to skin as well, I used to try to scrub it off with soap causing irritation.
Harlow's toy in the video that she's chewing is Nylabone brand. My dogs have the same one. A good brand with sturdy toys made for chewing and safe to eat if it so happens that your dog bites a chunk out of it.
Velocitize Gaming - Where are you from? :) I live Western USA and see her videos in the morning when I wake up. I love seeing people come together from all over to watch a video.
I love you guys so much 😭♥️ I'm a diabetic but I really struggle with taking care of it 😕 hopefully I can get better ♥️ but I love watching your videos ❤️
Hi Jaquie , I love your videos of COURSE we. are normal people I ALSO have physical problems Ias I was born with Spina Bifida / Hydrocephalus IBS and " possibly Fybromyalga , Harlow sounds just like me she loves her Sleep X
Hi Jaquie, Now that the feeding tube is more stable how is it working for you? Would love to hear an update. Thanks and congratulations on your marriage! 🤗
Hey i love all your videos I watch you every single day!!!! I am a new recent subscriber!!!! How long does it take for Harlow to learn all the tricks that she does??
Great channel and dog! I was wondering if you have ever tried medical marijuana or cbd oil to help with your disease. I had chrons and it was getting worst with the doctors medication. They helped with pain though. But when I tried medical marijuana, yoga, and diet change I was able to complete reverse my symptoms and am able to do things I could not have imagined a few years ago. Sorry if you have already answered this I am new to your channel. Cool bandana for harlow hope you feel better!
Hey Jaquie! I remember you saying that your port tube (?) gets tngled it your feeding tube, so couldnt you possibly use one of those griplock things to keep your port tube in place when its not in use (unless its too short,, it probably is)
When Judd goes on patrol will he take his wedding ring off my father likes to take his of so that he does not let anyone he is dealing with know he has someone he cares about at home
I'm sure as heck not normal . :) i'm OK with that! I have a question for you and it's a really important one . I don't know if you've mentioned it in the videos before or not but I was really curious about your walker . How do you feel a benefit to you with postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome ? It's going to take my insurance company a while to give me a wheelchair and I need something as my bodies just not gonna work much longer without support and I was looking into a walker as it's only 100 and something dollars . I could possibly afford that so I was wondering how it benefited you .
Have you ever mentioned how much money you're able to make from producing so many youtube videos? Totally understandable if it's something you want to keep private. I just hope that it's a good amount since you deserve it for all your hard work and the positive impact you're making! 👍
motley sun Huh, I could've sworn she's said before that she hasn't earned that much from it. Skipping ads before 30 seconds have elapsed or before the end of the ad, whichever comes first, doesn't give the TH-cam channel income. And my understanding is that one would need a ton of views to pull any sort of substantial income from videos. I defer to Jaquie of course, if she replies 😄
Have you ever had your vitamin d levels checked? I know you live in a hot climate, but how often do you go outside. Sometimes symptoms are worse if lacking vitamin d. It's a really cheap test and couldn't hurt to check :).
With all of the police shootings do you not worry about putting information about Your husband on the Internet? My husband is in law-enforcement and we would never show him on camera, it's highly advised where he works to keep a very low profile. My husband doesn't even go into a store in his uniform and he always wears a T-shirt over his uniform shirt. Recently there was information about a gang that is specifically targeting police officers in Florida. Please be careful. Someone could very easily figure out where you live based off of all of the information that you have given about where you live and what he does. I would think his employer would be concerned over how public his life is.
I have a question. I have problems with sounds and stuff. I bought a pair of headphones, with a 21 rating. They were working at first. But now, even with the headphones on, I'm still prone to meltdowns. What can make my situation better?
Hey jaquie! I've been having a REALLY hard time with GP and I was wondering how you find the strength to get up out of bed in the morning? I have not eaten in 4 days and I'm really struggling to do simple things like get out of bed and washing my face and brushing my teeth
About normal, when several people are together, is it the average normalness or the sum of the individual normalnesses? And I guess if you're going to shoot tired, it's best to do it at the range, right? :)
You do know that having a medical dog allows you to write off the vet care and I believe the feeding of Harlow and all the medical equipment she wears is a write off on taxes. Her crate, leashes, licenses, etc and whatever you need to have her help you should be a write off. You can find all this if you look online about tax write off with service dogs. I know you are great with the commputer. I just thought I would share that information since you spend a lot of money out of pocket it seems. Toys count too because they are apart of her training, teaching, etc. I believe if she needs to be board and care that that is also a write off. I believe the rules are for Federal Taxes, I don't know if that is State. You probably know all this, but if you didn't I thought I would mention it. All the goodies you have purchased from Etsy for you port, feeding tube, medical backpacks are also a medical write off. I get RX's from doc in advance if I have to order anything medical. I can't reach my toes to do a pedicure since I am fused and have prescriptions for pedicures so they can be tax deductible for medical reasons. Vitamins, eye saline, all the stuff you use that you don't get from your medical group that delivers stuff to you counts for a write off. I thought I saw a nutritional drink, Insure that you purchased in a video is a write off for you as well. Like I said, I always get an RX just to have on hand in case I am audited by the tax folks. As you know when you have a chronic illness there are alot of expenses that are not reimbursable, but if you can write off some items that is a win. (if there is a win with chronic illnesses).
Totally unrelated to the video but I was out getting ice cream last night (special treat for finally getting a diagnosis of POTS😂) and they had a "chunky chunky Hippo" flavor in honor of the baby hippo at the Cincinnati zoo! All I could think about was Harlow😂
Lucy Rogers 😂😂😂 my niece plays hungry hungry hippos and that's all I ever think about is Harlow.
Anna Howley i used to pplay that as a kid, loved that game
I have a yellow lab that sleeps in strange positions as well. I'm glad you can have PT at home. Harlow is so sweet. Judd looks so tired. I bet being so organized has helped a great deal. Aww it was so nice seeing the three of you on the floor. You don't owe anybody an explanation why three of you do what you do. I am just glad you have included us on your journey.
Yeah, I'm normal too.
*Yells at the birds*
Your vlogs definitely aren't boring! The fact that you're showing your real life rather than doing things just for the videos to entertain people is what makes your vlogs so interesting. Among other things of course ;)
I also want to say that I think your mother is awesome! I love that she drove your dad to his appointment even though they are divorced, it's incredibly kind of her. And it's great to see how she helps you so much whenever she's in town.
your videos are NEVER BORING
who else noticed that at about 2:49, it looked like Harlow was raising her eyebrows. lol. so cute!
Before you destroy your nutrition cubby, put a teflon baking sheet liner underneath it to make it easier to slide in and out. Found this at Target.com:
www.target.com/s/teflon+baking+sheet+liner
Just got my wisdom teeth out this morning and when they were putting on my EKG leads I lifted up my shirt for the last one and they were like how did you know? I've had so many medical procedures I know what's going on and don't even get nervous anymore lol
Fiona M ive had that too! I grew up watching medical shows so when i went to get my teeth pulled out i have to talk to a ansethiologist and was acting like i was 7, me thinking "bruh i already know this" 😂😂
I enjoy watching Harlow bring you your blanket :) .....Judd must be so exhausted!....hope he gets some good rest!
Love the cuddle party and being able to glimpse into you're life. You're always incredibly informative and inspirational. Harlow's intelligence fascinates me, and Judd just brings the goof factor to your videos. Congrats to your dad's good appointment.
I just have to say thank you Jaquie and Judd for letting us into your crazy lives. I know it can't be easy to show the life you live behind closed doors especially dealing with so many chronic illnesses but it just goes to show that we all have something to fight for and to live for! Thank you again!!
I just watched one of your videos for the first time and I feel so privileged as a person of good health I have been taking life for granted the past couple months and been feeling sorry for myself. Your story is making me realize how easy I have it and what I can do that some people can't , I am now going to change my perspective on every day to day activity I do . Thank you for showing me how much my eyes have been closed to people that have different lifestyles than myself. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Jaquie i have a physical disability not a chronic illness but i can relate to some of what you go through and it gives me relief when you say things like you werent able to do a lot in a day but you are not punishing yourself for it. Its sometimes what able bodied people do not understand and i thank you for sending the message that its okay not to feel like you have to do a whole bunch of stuff when you dont feel good. I wish both you Judd and Harlow the very best and i love watching your videos as they seem to calm me down. Your kindness and optimism show through even in the hardest of times and it gives me so much inspiration. Thank you, just, thank you xxx.
0:46 I've been woken up by my mom like this probably 5 different times. I've woken up with my feet on my pillows probably 20 times, and when I had a little bed that was close to the floor I woke up on the floor often 😂😂😂😂
You guys are adorable. I may not be someone with a chronic illness or disability, but I am a person who wants to know more and help as much as possible and I LOVE your channel. Most of the info I know about service dogs, I learned from you. And I'm hoping one day I can put my new knowledge of service dogs and laws concerning them to use and maybe help someone who's struggling or in a situation.
Oh so about orthotics, on Qvc.com they sell a brand called vionic and theyre orthotic shoes. They have flip flops and such. I'm pretty sure orthotic inserts are expensive so maybe take a look at the shoes first? Hope this helps!
hey jaquie! i had surgery on monday and i've been feeling kinda crumby due to my mobility being limited (my surgery was near my left knee) so i've been using a wheelchair to get around with high pain. i've been watching your videos with my mom and we've been having a blast :))
Hello Jaquie, Judd and Harlow. First thing, you have never had a boring video. All are interesting or informative and I truly watch every day. I love your family, including your mum and dad. It is great to see divorced people acting normal and helping each other regardless of their circumstances. It is sad to say it is unusual but we can see the type of people they are by the fantastic job they did raising you. You deserve to have parents such as these.
So nice your parents are good to each other! Mine are divorced and as much as my mom tries to be civil it's hard because my dad is a drama queen and always looking to stir things up. Wish they were as good together as your parents, so nice they can put aside their differences for their lovely daughter :)
Having a high pain day today and love watching your vlogs! Having chronic illnesses are new to me and I feel down and that my body is failing me but watching your videos make me feel optimistic about my new adventure!
Jessica Braunscheidel stay strong girl!!
Also if anyone is looking for a cute pill case port and polish makes an awesome one! Not great for people like Jaquie who take a ton but I only take 7 in the morning and 8 at night so I ordered one for AM and one for PM 😊
Today was a rough day with my disorders.. But a Chronically Jaquie video always turns the day around!
Glad you are doing PT. I am in PT as well. My PT does a lot of massage techniques it helps
I kick stuff down the stairs too! I used to be very athletic so that is my sport and entertainment! 😂😂
I am N.O.R.M.A.L too...
Napping
Or
Regularly eating
Macaroni
And
Loving it
Lol me!!!
Love ur vlogs. Love seeing your nice family. Ur vlogs are never boring. It shows how u have a chronic illness yet u enjoy ur normal life. Some people have chronic illness but get really depressed in life, but your amazing!! Ur husband is amazing. Hippo makes up laugh. Judd treats u really well and is calm on these occasion. Keep up the good work.
Would love to learn more about Judd job and a "Day in his life" if ever possible !! Love watching both of you
I don't have an chronically illnesses but I love these vlogs sm they make me so happy :)
Ummm hello? That is my life. Lazing around the house is lit! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I don't know if you are aware but the sticky left on your skin from adhesive can be removed with any kind of oil, olive or coconut is kind to skin as well, I used to try to scrub it off with soap causing irritation.
Harlow's toy in the video that she's chewing is Nylabone brand. My dogs have the same one. A good brand with sturdy toys made for chewing and safe to eat if it so happens that your dog bites a chunk out of it.
Hey jaq I just wanted to let you know that you are so inspiring to me as someone who is new to chronic illness
I'm such a klutz that when you started kicking the stuff down the stairs all I could think was "Don't fall" cus I totally would have...
Have you guys ever thought about movie to a one story place? I would think going up and down the stairs would be exausting.
moving*. lol
your blogs are the last things I watch at night before I go to bed at night. Love from Australia ❤️
I'm just like "Yeah I'm normal too" and then I remember we have a turkey invading our backyard.
You my friends are NEVER boring!!! I love your videos...all of them! :-)
Wow I'm so early! Love your channel Jaquie!!! 💕🐶💕
I am having a bad pain day and I really look forward to these vlogs.
I stay up all night then i watch ur videos nd then i go to bed 💖
Velocitize Gaming - Where are you from? :) I live Western USA and see her videos in the morning when I wake up. I love seeing people come together from all over to watch a video.
Southeast (more east than south) USA for me, and I watch around night 👍🏻
I love you guys so much 😭♥️ I'm a diabetic but I really struggle with taking care of it 😕 hopefully I can get better ♥️ but I love watching your videos ❤️
I love all of you 😍 ❤️
Hi Jaquie , I love your videos of COURSE we. are normal people I ALSO have physical problems Ias I was born with Spina Bifida / Hydrocephalus IBS and " possibly Fybromyalga , Harlow sounds just like me she loves her Sleep X
The i button, the thing that you put videos for us to reference is to your left.
Harlow is like ok mom nap time lol. love her bandanna
Too bad you didn't have a good day yesterday, but I hope you feel better today!
I love your opening sequence.
Love the vids!
Gracie Hume |-/
Hi Jaquie,
Now that the feeding tube is more stable how is it working for you? Would love to hear an update. Thanks and congratulations on your marriage! 🤗
Hey i love all your videos I watch you every single day!!!! I am a new recent subscriber!!!! How long does it take for Harlow to learn all the tricks that she does??
Lo Pan ok thanks!!
Great channel and dog! I was wondering if you have ever tried medical marijuana or cbd oil to help with your disease. I had chrons and it was getting worst with the doctors medication. They helped with pain though. But when I tried medical marijuana, yoga, and diet change I was able to complete reverse my symptoms and am able to do things I could not have imagined a few years ago. Sorry if you have already answered this I am new to your channel. Cool bandana for harlow hope you feel better!
Don't worry Jaquie, I'm not normal either!
Hey Jaquie! I remember you saying that your port tube (?) gets tngled it your feeding tube, so couldnt you possibly use one of those griplock things to keep your port tube in place when its not in use (unless its too short,, it probably is)
When Judd goes on patrol will he take his wedding ring off my father likes to take his of so that he does not let anyone he is dealing with know he has someone he cares about at home
Anamaria P he has one in some kind of silicone material. So that it doesn't get in the way during his job :)
love the videos, and the information you provide
I love them!!😝💗
I just realized you look good in glasses jaquie😘
At work always ready to watch your vlogs!(on lunch of course lol)
Poor Judd is so red, ouch!
I'm sure as heck not normal . :) i'm OK with that! I have a question for you and it's a really important one . I don't know if you've mentioned it in the videos before or not but I was really curious about your walker . How do you feel a benefit to you with postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome ? It's going to take my insurance company a while to give me a wheelchair and I need something as my bodies just not gonna work much longer without support and I was looking into a walker as it's only 100 and something dollars . I could possibly afford that so I was wondering how it benefited you .
Have you ever mentioned how much money you're able to make from producing so many youtube videos? Totally understandable if it's something you want to keep private. I just hope that it's a good amount since you deserve it for all your hard work and the positive impact you're making! 👍
motley sun legally TH-cam doesn't let her talk about it
Oh really? I've seen a few youtubers give descriptions of their incomes, but maybe they were breaking the rules! Good to know.
motley sun I doubt you'd get rich on TH-cam alone...you'd need to have sponsors etc I think
Definitely not! I just hope that she makes a little something, since it's well deserved. :)
motley sun Huh, I could've sworn she's said before that she hasn't earned that much from it. Skipping ads before 30 seconds have elapsed or before the end of the ad, whichever comes first, doesn't give the TH-cam channel income. And my understanding is that one would need a ton of views to pull any sort of substantial income from videos. I defer to Jaquie of course, if she replies 😄
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear about your father.
Have you ever had your vitamin d levels checked? I know you live in a hot climate, but how often do you go outside. Sometimes symptoms are worse if lacking vitamin d. It's a really cheap test and couldn't hurt to check :).
With all of the police shootings do you not worry about putting information about Your husband on the Internet? My husband is in law-enforcement and we would never show him on camera, it's highly advised where he works to keep a very low profile. My husband doesn't even go into a store in his uniform and he always wears a T-shirt over his uniform shirt. Recently there was information about a gang that is specifically targeting police officers in Florida. Please be careful. Someone could very easily figure out where you live based off of all of the information that you have given about where you live and what he does.
I would think his employer would be concerned over how public his life is.
What is your opinion about fake service dogs? I would love to know the answer
We had to get a king size bed to accommodate our 2 Goldies :-).
You two are the cutest❤️😂
I have a question. I have problems with sounds and stuff. I bought a pair of headphones, with a 21 rating. They were working at first. But now, even with the headphones on, I'm still prone to meltdowns. What can make my situation better?
p.s.I love Harlows little waddle when she walks
you guys are so adorable!!!
Hey I was just wondering why your lips looked red? Btw I love your videos❤️
Hey jaquie! I've been having a REALLY hard time with GP and I was wondering how you find the strength to get up out of bed in the morning? I have not eaten in 4 days and I'm really struggling to do simple things like get out of bed and washing my face and brushing my teeth
About normal, when several people are together, is it the average normalness or the sum of the individual normalnesses?
And I guess if you're going to shoot tired, it's best to do it at the range, right? :)
What contacts do you use? Every one I've tried irritate my eyes so much and I figure if you use a specific type it might be safe for me...
Is the soylent green? Are you sure what it is made of?
You watch prison break !!! Yessssss gurllllll
Why don´t you start a service dog accessories line?
Jaq you inspire me
You do know that having a medical dog allows you to write off the vet care and I believe the feeding of Harlow and all the medical equipment she wears is a write off on taxes. Her crate, leashes, licenses, etc and whatever you need to have her help you should be a write off. You can find all this if you look online about tax write off with service dogs. I know you are great with the commputer. I just thought I would share that information since you spend a lot of money out of pocket it seems. Toys count too because they are apart of her training, teaching, etc. I believe if she needs to be board and care that that is also a write off. I believe the rules are for Federal Taxes, I don't know if that is State. You probably know all this, but if you didn't I thought I would mention it. All the goodies you have purchased from Etsy for you port, feeding tube, medical backpacks are also a medical write off. I get RX's from doc in advance if I have to order anything medical. I can't reach my toes to do a pedicure since I am fused and have prescriptions for pedicures so they can be tax deductible for medical reasons. Vitamins, eye saline, all the stuff you use that you don't get from your medical group that delivers stuff to you counts for a write off. I thought I saw a nutritional drink, Insure that you purchased in a video is a write off for you as well. Like I said, I always get an RX just to have on hand in case I am audited by the tax folks. As you know when you have a chronic illness there are alot of expenses that are not reimbursable, but if you can write off some items that is a win. (if there is a win with chronic illnesses).
Do you know when the updated Chronic Illness video will be out?
You three are adorable 😊
what if u make shirts so that can be ur merch
Applebees looked delicious!
I love your videos and I love you judd and hippo
Can you make a video about your feeding tube
It's funny how one day you can touch the grass. Then the next day it's killing you.
I love you just the way you are.
If this is this rud to ask I'm new to this shannel I know you have a lot of semtems but to you get tired of them?🤔😐😑😶😉
We're all normal in our own ways. I guess everyone loves sleep, including Harlow.
you guys are so stinking CUTE
My boyfriend kisses my ear all the time just to make me cringe and yell from how loud it is 😂
Where did you get the bandana
Do you have clear braces on?
Hi!!!!! I'm actually really early woohoo!!
Why do you guys call Harlow hippo??
She loves food and getting wet.
Hi
You should give Hippo soft chew bones as those hard ones really scrape the dentin off of their teeth.
Do a draw my life
Har in the bed is so cute!
I love you ❤️❤️💕💕💕 and I messaged you on instagram I hope you see it ❤️
Are you an only child, Jaquie?
Planner Beautiful yes she is