Since embracing Islam, I’ve had countless questions, and your videos have been instrumental in my learning journey. I’m looking forward to more of your educational material as I continue to learn at my own pace. Looking forward for part 3 brother
I must say, the sheikhs have done an incredible job by outlining the medical precautions. I loved it and am eagerly anticipating part 3, hoping it will be uploaded soon.
I appreciate this as a revert muslim woman of a fe years now. I also happen to be a nurse and Naturopath and teach people about a lot on the topics you discuss. You leave me with a lot of questions regarding variables not mentioned or brought forth in this discussion, including considerations of those who revert to Islam but bring with them their past such as some STI’s (Not STD’s anymore), that they may ahve had no control over - this comes across as if they are to never be in an intimate relationship because of that - but there are many meds now that can keep it controlled and they can avoid sharing it with their partner or their future children! I am likely to rewatch this and I hope can get these questions answered as I as a nurse and Naturopth get asked a lot about - like the IUD - people love it - but it doesn’t stop conception! It prevents implantation - and that is a reason many people choose NOT to use it! Thank you for speaking on these touchy areas. MashaAllah!
Absolutely nailed it, in a simple, informative and respectful manner! I, and many others have learned so much from part one and part two. As Mufti MENK stated, there are many grey areas that needed to be clarified. Eagerly awaiting Part Three!
Jazakum Allah kheir for speaking abt such an important subject that needs to be addressed a lot. Maybe in the next part you could discuss in detail the word "رفث" in the Quran and also address the emotional need related to sex. Fiqh is beneficial of course but instead of hearing what is haram and makrouh etc would be good to hear abt what is advised, encouraged and what is sunnah from our Prophet.
A thought just occurred to me about how challenging must be for them to create these sessions and episodes, and as you said in the video May Allah bless you all Aameen TabarakAllah brothers in Islam
salaams, i am a medical student. shukran for discussing such an important topic. i just want to point out something that the sheikh mentioned at 7:30 about picking up STD's from toilet seats. this is a common misconception but it is actually not true. these viruses only travel through sexual/oral intercourse with an infected person and not simply by touching people or sharing public toilets. there are however other infections that do spread in this manner, but general hygiene is enough to counter those. alhamdulillah our scholars have come a long way and it is important to keep learning (and to speak about such matters with muslim brothers and sisters in the medical field) in order to avoid sounding ignorant and also to avoid accidentally spreading misinformation to the public via your platform, since most people are not well-educated in these matters. once again shukran for your efforts and may Allah preserve you all and increase you in knowledge as well.
JazakAllah khyair to the sheikhs who have taken time out fo their busy schedules to create a video addressing important topics that are often overlooked and rarely discussed. Your efforts in brining these issues to light are greatly appreciated
Have been waiting for part 2 and it didnt disappoint most of us. Good knowledge and insight we got today. May Allah accept it from you. About part 3, highly recommend it since people have more and more questions.
Asalamualikum wa rahmatulah wa barakatu jazakum lahu khair it was a very interesting episode. Please if you can throw more light on the use of contraceptive to prevent conception. Jazakum lahu khair
Ma Sha Allah Tabarek Allah I’m so glad that these brothers are discussing this at great lengths. We still live in ignorance, majority of us simply don’t know about etiquettes and mannerism of the Deen with regards to intimacy. We live in a black hole of the filth of pornography and haram sexual relationships. We need to get real and be real as Muslims. Marriage is very important part of our Deen. Intimacy is halal in a relationship between husband and wife. Take this as a learning curve into improving communication and intimacy between husband and wife, thus preserving this sacred relationship and bond. May Allah swt bless us and give us Taufik and hidiya in the Deen and mannerisms.
May Allah bless the three of you dear shyukh. Questions are all very relevant and answers very beneficial Such a sensitive topic explained in such light and beneficial way TabakAllah
Dear Sheiks,I'm a Muslim woman and I must say that I really enjoyed your program ,certain topics make me smile,I learned a few things or two,I like how u were bold and open with certain subjects,we need lessons like this ,especially for the younger generations.im looking forward for the next lecture,keep up the good work ,good job,😂❤
Yess you were interrupting him alot. It was irritating me as well. But masha Allah it's s9 great of you mentioning it to mufti menk and apologising for it.
Please continue producing this educational contents, as a Muslim woman, I like to learn more about my Deen and try to be the best wife that I could possibly be. And yes, if we are going to talk about our our right as wives, we must know what our responsibilities are as wives. May Allah bless you.
Thank you for providing a clear overview of the do’s and don’ts in marriage. After many years, I feel enlightened and grateful that it’s not too late to understand these important aspects. Alhamdulillah, your insights have made everything much clearer for me.
Alhamdulillah, this video provides clearer insights and addresses crucial areas that needed attention. I am very pleased as it is extremely helpful for married couples. We often find ourselves confused about boundaries, but now I have a much clearer understanding of them.
Consuming this content is all well &’good. But the key challenge for couples having these issues, is how to actually approach the topic their spouses and make it somewhat of a mutual beneficial outcome for both, rather it causing more stress on the relationship
Thank you so much for the knowledge sharing. Learned a lot, and reconsidered some of my beliefs on certain things. Specially the oral one. Jazak ALLAH Khair. 🤲❤️
I get a feeling that the sheikhs are very uncomfortable talking about these things but they are doing for it for the sake of Allah. May Allah reward them, protect them and honour them. Aameen
25:08 maximum period is four months not 6 months For those who swear not to have sexual relations with their wives is a waiting time of four months, but if they return [to normal relations] - then indeed, Allāh is Forgiving and Merciful. [Theme of Quran 2:226]
You are right. I understood as four months, as he said, one month for journey going and one month for journey coming back in those days. In total 6 months. Thats what i understood. and thanks for clarifying it.
😅 so much respect to the Sheikhs but these unplugged topics so need to be discussed as future is very disturbing. May Allah protect us from the cursed Shaytan.
It seems that our Sheikh has been slow to upload new videos, often taking a year between uploads. I was just joking about the pace Nonetheless, I appreciate how sheikh wael mufti menk and DR has contributed to reshaping and building our characters. Islam provides clear guidance on many aspects of life.
Sheikh is surrogacy is permissible in Islam because i have witnessed it and it's getting common Muslim couples here in US please shed some light on it .......
I don’t understand why he said contraception in order to delay conception was not discussed although 3minutes before they said an IUD or the pill is permissible.
I think I heard you says that the reversible contraceptive are permissible. I was wondering what the rulings are regarding permanent contraceptive. For instance, a woman who always has completed pregnancies and ended up having 4 c- sessions and she was advised to stop having babies. The doctors say it is because she scars badly after each operation and so the doctors have to fix some of her internal organs before they can get to the baby and do more fixing after removing the baby. Please talk about this in your next episode inshallah. May Allah bless you and your loved ones.
I am married for 1 and half year and have 8 months old baby myhusband doesn't have any physical relationship with me we had just for the first month of life he is porn addict he says he has left it but I am nit sure in thus case what should I do plz guide me and my parents are forcing me today inthis marriage while I want fivorce
The thing with oral s*x for people who don't know, is that it's way more pleasurable for the woman than penetration, which is the most pleasurable thing for a man. Some women don't even feel pleasure in penetration. That's why the husband should at least consider it if they want to please their wife and vice versa. ☺ Thank you for this episode!
Spot on. It's one of the reasons why I as a girl am scared to marry a super conservative, or highly religious man because I know there's a good chance he won't do anything except penetration. It's like as soon as men become super on the deen they won't even discuss something like oral play because it's automatically haram to them 😬
That's why I'm scared to marry a super religious or extremely conservative brother because there's a good chance the bedroom is going to suck, pun not intended. Lot of guys in this category are going to be extremely vanilla and even bringing up oral play is a nono cause they'll automatically say it's unnatural, haram etc
@@Cherries2249No absolutely not if he follows the sunnah he will know what to do. Make sure the guy knows the deen, not just a dude with a beard and prays.
Oral sex is kinda nasty and even i have some thoughts they will immediately go away. Like a woman private part is filled with bacteria, and throat cancer. The man should use his left hand
@Dont-worry1618 he may not know what to do because men who are super religious like that don't learn this stuff because they think it's inappropriate. They stay away from everything that could cause them desire so they never learn anything except his thing goes inside her thing, that's it. I want my husband to be conservative but not in the bedroom, but unfortunately a lot of them are
The concept of oral intercourse existed before the Holy Quran was given to us, even before the Holy Bible as well. It was just not present in most traditions/areas of the world(or at least not documented), including the Middle East/arabian peninsula. The evidence for this is greek pottery that shows oral intercourse being performed.
Do we get our guidance from Greek pottery? The Sheikh was referring that these ideas didn't exist in the books of Islamic history or throughout the Seerah or the Hadiths etc.
@ShWaelIbrahim Yes, I understand that, I was simply noting out that humans did do such acts for clarification. By no means do I mean to weaken the fact as I know that we are discussing Islamic history. Jazakallah khair.
forgive me, but would you like to delve a little deeper into the subject of someone with homosexual feelings? of course the act is haram, but how exactly should that person deal with his situation. because they basically have no other option. heterosexual people can satiate their lust
The oral sex argument that it is haram or disliked because the mouth is used to recite Quran is so weak. Refute this: Spouses can use their own hands to pleasure the other one (Do your research if you think I’m mistaken). How can the same hands that hold Quran, give charity and make dua be used for such things? Why is one thing halal but not the other? On what basis? Think again.
With the recent 6ual scandal of that American Imam Wissam Sherif, I feel like posting a video like this now and with three imams talking about this stuff is suuuuch an insensitive timing and such a bad taste!! This is mind blowing.
I appreciated your video, Sheikh, for its transparency and clear discussion of the issues. Can a husband and wife watch good romantic movies together?😬🫥
I think you need part 3, 4, and 5. It’s about time these subjects are openly being discussed. It is very needed.
Not really. They are like opening pandora box. Most people of sexually active age, through simple Google search can get these answers questions.
@@jibran6906not the same when watching and listening to the 3 men. Why do you relate this to opening pandoras box?
@@jibran6906 eh, a Google search will give 19289 contradictory answers. These 3 actually explain the different views on things and why
@@jibran6906,please sit down. If Google is your source of information, why are you here?
It is talked about too much sometimes tbh, u don’t need to listen. U can just read about it
Oftentimes i said this generation is very luck and they have the mentors and sheikhs like you May Allah reward you all for your service Aameen
Waited so long for the episode two yet BarakAllahu feek brother very helpful
Since embracing Islam, I’ve had countless questions, and your videos have been instrumental in my learning journey. I’m looking forward to more of your educational material as I continue to learn at my own pace. Looking forward for part 3 brother
I must say, the sheikhs have done an incredible job by outlining the medical precautions. I loved it and am eagerly anticipating part 3, hoping it will be uploaded soon.
I appreciate this as a revert muslim woman of a fe years now. I also happen to be a nurse and Naturopath and teach people about a lot on the topics you discuss. You leave me with a lot of questions regarding variables not mentioned or brought forth in this discussion, including considerations of those who revert to Islam but bring with them their past such as some STI’s (Not STD’s anymore), that they may ahve had no control over - this comes across as if they are to never be in an intimate relationship because of that - but there are many meds now that can keep it controlled and they can avoid sharing it with their partner or their future children! I am likely to rewatch this and I hope can get these questions answered as I as a nurse and Naturopth get asked a lot about - like the IUD - people love it - but it doesn’t stop conception! It prevents implantation - and that is a reason many people choose NOT to use it! Thank you for speaking on these touchy areas. MashaAllah!
Absolutely nailed it, in a simple, informative and respectful manner! I, and many others have learned so much from part one and part two. As Mufti MENK stated, there are many grey areas that needed to be clarified. Eagerly awaiting Part Three!
Alhamdulillah they did not interrupt him in this video and we were able to hear of his knowledge and experiences.
Jazakum Allah kheir for speaking abt such an important subject that needs to be addressed a lot. Maybe in the next part you could discuss in detail the word "رفث" in the Quran and also address the emotional need related to sex. Fiqh is beneficial of course but instead of hearing what is haram and makrouh etc would be good to hear abt what is advised, encouraged and what is sunnah from our Prophet.
Hope it has part 3. Subhanallah. 🙌
A thought just occurred to me about how challenging must be for them to create these sessions and episodes, and as you said in the video May Allah bless you all Aameen TabarakAllah brothers in Islam
JazakAllah Khair for the part two, sheikh.
salaams, i am a medical student. shukran for discussing such an important topic. i just want to point out something that the sheikh mentioned at 7:30 about picking up STD's from toilet seats. this is a common misconception but it is actually not true. these viruses only travel through sexual/oral intercourse with an infected person and not simply by touching people or sharing public toilets. there are however other infections that do spread in this manner, but general hygiene is enough to counter those.
alhamdulillah our scholars have come a long way and it is important to keep learning (and to speak about such matters with muslim brothers and sisters in the medical field) in order to avoid sounding ignorant and also to avoid accidentally spreading misinformation to the public via your platform, since most people are not well-educated in these matters.
once again shukran for your efforts and may Allah preserve you all and increase you in knowledge as well.
I will pass this comment to Dr. Salah to verify Insh a Allah. Being a non doctor myself, I have nothing to say about this ;)
JazakAllah khyair to the sheikhs who have taken time out fo their busy schedules to create a video addressing important topics that are often overlooked and rarely discussed. Your efforts in brining these issues to light are greatly appreciated
Have been waiting for part 2 and it didnt disappoint most of us. Good knowledge and insight we got today. May Allah accept it from you.
About part 3, highly recommend it since people have more and more questions.
Asalamualikum wa rahmatulah wa barakatu jazakum lahu khair it was a very interesting episode. Please if you can throw more light on the use of contraceptive to prevent conception. Jazakum lahu khair
Ma Sha Allah Tabarek Allah I’m so glad that these brothers are discussing this at great lengths. We still live in ignorance, majority of us simply don’t know about etiquettes and mannerism of the Deen with regards to intimacy. We live in a black hole of the filth of pornography and haram sexual relationships. We need to get real and be real as Muslims. Marriage is very important part of our Deen. Intimacy is halal in a relationship between husband and wife. Take this as a learning curve into improving communication and intimacy between husband and wife, thus preserving this sacred relationship and bond. May Allah swt bless us and give us Taufik and hidiya in the Deen and mannerisms.
Ameen
May Allah bless the three of you dear shyukh. Questions are all very relevant and answers very beneficial Such a sensitive topic explained in such light and beneficial way TabakAllah
Dear Sheiks,I'm a Muslim woman and I must say that I really enjoyed your program ,certain topics make me smile,I learned a few things or two,I like how u were bold and open with certain subjects,we need lessons like this ,especially for the younger generations.im looking forward for the next lecture,keep up the good work ,good job,😂❤
Thank you! 🤝👍Waiting for part 3 🤲
Please make part 3,4,5,6 etc. The community needs more education on this topic.
Yess you were interrupting him alot. It was irritating me as well. But masha Allah it's s9 great of you mentioning it to mufti menk and apologising for it.
Please continue producing this educational contents, as a Muslim woman, I like to learn more about my Deen and try to be the best wife that I could possibly be. And yes, if we are going to talk about our our right as wives, we must know what our responsibilities are as wives. May Allah bless you.
Thank you for providing a clear overview of the do’s and don’ts in marriage. After many years, I feel enlightened and grateful that it’s not too late to understand these important aspects. Alhamdulillah, your insights have made everything much clearer for me.
Part 3
Alhamdulillah, this video provides clearer insights and addresses crucial areas that needed attention. I am very pleased as it is extremely helpful for married couples. We often find ourselves confused about boundaries, but now I have a much clearer understanding of them.
Subhanallah, very helpful, very much needed information in today's Ummah...we need more of such information.
May Allah Azzawajal Blessed You
Subhan'Allah. Thank you for sharing these topics as it is something truly needed now, more than ever.
Thanks so much for this important topic, which is mostly seen as taboo.
From Liberia, thanks so much for coming to my country
JazakAllah Khair for the part two. may ALLAH (subahanhu ta'ala) forgive and protect us. amin
Very interesting, learned a lot.
Thank you so much, not easy subjects but our dear scholars smash it 👏😁
Can’t wait for Part 3 Insha Allah ❤
JazakAllah khyair May Allah fill our marriages with love and happiness Aameen
Consuming this content is all well &’good. But the key challenge for couples having these issues, is how to actually approach the topic their spouses and make it somewhat of a mutual beneficial outcome for both, rather it causing more stress on the relationship
Jazakallah khayra part 2,
Great video Sheikh, may Allah give you all Jannah. Ameen
I learned a lot from this video, thank you!
Thank you so much for the knowledge sharing. Learned a lot, and reconsidered some of my beliefs on certain things. Specially the oral one. Jazak ALLAH Khair. 🤲❤️
I get a feeling that the sheikhs are very uncomfortable talking about these things but they are doing for it for the sake of Allah. May Allah reward them, protect them and honour them. Aameen
Thank you so much for the information
I like Mufti Menks answer, “1 hour”
Bravo/jazakallah
Hats off to you blessed guys. You're making lives easy.
May Allah accept this khidmat.
Absolutely appreciated video ❤
Someone on this panel is itching to interrupt…. No name mentioned
Waiting for part 3
Make an online course! We will purchase it! 😊
JazakAllah khairan kaseer May Allah preserve our Shykhs upon goodness Aameen Ya Rabbul Bait'al Haram
25:08 maximum period is four months not 6 months
For those who swear not to have sexual relations with their wives is a waiting time of four months, but if they return [to normal relations] - then indeed, Allāh is Forgiving and Merciful.
[Theme of Quran 2:226]
You are right.
I understood as four months, as he said, one month for journey going and one month for journey coming back in those days. In total 6 months.
Thats what i understood. and thanks for clarifying it.
😅 so much respect to the Sheikhs but these unplugged topics so need to be discussed as future is very disturbing. May Allah protect us from the cursed Shaytan.
It seems that our Sheikh has been slow to upload new videos, often taking a year between uploads. I was just joking about the pace Nonetheless, I appreciate how sheikh wael mufti menk and DR has contributed to reshaping and building our characters. Islam provides clear guidance on many aspects of life.
Sheikh is surrogacy is permissible in Islam because i have witnessed it and it's getting common Muslim couples here in US please shed some light on it .......
I don’t understand why he said contraception in order to delay conception was not discussed although 3minutes before they said an IUD or the pill is permissible.
My brain is playing the vine boom effect over the boom in the beginning
Mufti Menk is funny at the end with the eye contact 😂😂😂
I think I heard you says that the reversible contraceptive are permissible. I was wondering what the rulings are regarding permanent contraceptive. For instance, a woman who always has completed pregnancies and ended up having 4 c- sessions and she was advised to stop having babies. The doctors say it is because she scars badly after each operation and so the doctors have to fix some of her internal organs before they can get to the baby and do more fixing after removing the baby. Please talk about this in your next episode inshallah. May Allah bless you and your loved ones.
In other words if u abstain from doing it, it's fine if u don't, u are not wrong
PART 3, 4, 5 and Nth
This time, Dr. Muhammad is the most interrupted one.
I am not 18+
But married.
Can I ?
no, you're not below 18 and married💀go to school
you are married you're more concerned than those 18+ not married.
@@worldwidemoon22999He can be wdym
I have no idea but this vwry important in the future heheh
You all my favourite
I am married for 1 and half year and have 8 months old baby myhusband doesn't have any physical relationship with me we had just for the first month of life he is porn addict he says he has left it but I am nit sure in thus case what should I do plz guide me and my parents are forcing me today inthis marriage while I want fivorce
To stay in this marriage *
@@meehtkh6550then go speak to your parents and an imam
The thing with oral s*x for people who don't know, is that it's way more pleasurable for the woman than penetration, which is the most pleasurable thing for a man. Some women don't even feel pleasure in penetration. That's why the husband should at least consider it if they want to please their wife and vice versa. ☺ Thank you for this episode!
Spot on. It's one of the reasons why I as a girl am scared to marry a super conservative, or highly religious man because I know there's a good chance he won't do anything except penetration. It's like as soon as men become super on the deen they won't even discuss something like oral play because it's automatically haram to them 😬
That's why I'm scared to marry a super religious or extremely conservative brother because there's a good chance the bedroom is going to suck, pun not intended. Lot of guys in this category are going to be extremely vanilla and even bringing up oral play is a nono cause they'll automatically say it's unnatural, haram etc
@@Cherries2249No absolutely not if he follows the sunnah he will know what to do. Make sure the guy knows the deen, not just a dude with a beard and prays.
Oral sex is kinda nasty and even i have some thoughts they will immediately go away. Like a woman private part is filled with bacteria, and throat cancer. The man should use his left hand
@Dont-worry1618 he may not know what to do because men who are super religious like that don't learn this stuff because they think it's inappropriate. They stay away from everything that could cause them desire so they never learn anything except his thing goes inside her thing, that's it. I want my husband to be conservative but not in the bedroom, but unfortunately a lot of them are
The concept of oral intercourse existed before the Holy Quran was given to us, even before the Holy Bible as well. It was just not present in most traditions/areas of the world(or at least not documented), including the Middle East/arabian peninsula.
The evidence for this is greek pottery that shows oral intercourse being performed.
Do we get our guidance from Greek pottery? The Sheikh was referring that these ideas didn't exist in the books of Islamic history or throughout the Seerah or the Hadiths etc.
@ShWaelIbrahim
Yes, I understand that, I was simply noting out that humans did do such acts for clarification.
By no means do I mean to weaken the fact as I know that we are discussing Islamic history.
Jazakallah khair.
@ShWaelIbrahim so quick to judge
forgive me, but would you like to delve a little deeper into the subject of someone with homosexual feelings? of course the act is haram, but how exactly should that person deal with his situation. because they basically have no other option. heterosexual people can satiate their lust
The oral sex argument that it is haram or disliked because the mouth is used to recite Quran is so weak.
Refute this:
Spouses can use their own hands to pleasure the other one (Do your research if you think I’m mistaken). How can the same hands that hold Quran, give charity and make dua be used for such things?
Why is one thing halal but not the other? On what basis? Think again.
It is haram cause it causes throat cancer
That is not the usual argument. Read some of these fatwas and see for yourself.
With the recent 6ual scandal of that American Imam Wissam Sherif, I feel like posting a video like this now and with three imams talking about this stuff is suuuuch an insensitive timing and such a bad taste!! This is mind blowing.
Finally some real topic
I appreciated your video, Sheikh, for its transparency and clear discussion of the issues. Can a husband and wife watch good romantic movies together?😬🫥