So far, out of at least 3 narcissists I've known, they've all said, " I want unconditional love," and they were all cheaters asking to be loved unconditionally.
They want you to be their mother, then detach like they should have in a healthy manner with their birth mom. I dealt with this exact topic for many years and noticed that since your mind correlates to your stomach I suffered from intestinal issues. Once I discarded the narc I healed within a matter of weeks!
"Trying to use logic with someone who is completely illogical lacks logic." To my fellow narcissistic behavior awareness students. Please go back and listen to Quinn's video yesterday. Then, listen to this video again. Both these videos go hand in hand. The fact that the narcissist is disrespecting you on purpose and everything they do is calculated, then just like Quinn said, using logic is pointless. Arguing, pleading, and begging for being heard is a joke to them. All you're doing is allowing them to drain you of your energy or conditioning you to tolerate the disrespect while dismissing your right to being treated like a human being and not trash. 🎯
This is absolutely correct. This used to happen to me all the time. The more frustrated I became in our debates the more he seemed to delight. This shit is real... get away and get away as fast as you can. If you don't see a way out... you have to MAKE a way out!!! Your life depends on it
I was with one particular narc for 14 years. And in that time my credit went down the drain along with my mental health and every day organization. Our living space was always a mess and I was always tierd beyond belief. We have been separated for 6 years and it's taken me all six years to get my life back on track in all these areas. Please be safe out there folks and be careful who you allow into your personal energy fields
They think there right on everything. he said your not listening to me .I said your not listening to me .he then said good by .I said good by . discarded because I didn't agree with him . that's what he meant by I'm not listening to him .I'm glad I'm discarded and out of his life .no contact now
Mr. Holiday sir, you have been a helpful staple in my life for almost 10 years now. Thank you soooo much. God bless you and the great work you do. You've freed a whole bunch of suffering people, including me.😊🙏♥️😊
We’re having a family intervention tomorrow with my 3 adult sons 2 are narcissist 1 is disrespectful 🤦🏽♀️I feel this is a waste of time but I’m going to attend I guess I have to sit there while they tell me how they don’t like how they were disciplined as children, again. 🤦🏽♀️ making excuses to why they feel they can talk to me they way they do.. I’m not looking forward to this
I wish you the best of luck with that. If it is not well received please don’t stress. Move on and know you tried and get closer to God. Narcs will love for you to be hurt and dwell on the situation. Children, family, friend or not… it is what it is 💕
Your nice...I wouldn't even attend. They get no attention or energy from me. And I don't care how it looks to others. May the peace of good be with you on that day.
Really enjoy your content. Can you touch on…or again, when you can feel their toxic energy, even though you’re no longer around them? Make longer videos, please!!😊
this is why when you feel your losing focus you have to go no contact distance your self , i do 2- 3 months is i have to, it breaks the narcs momentum. and gets you back on track and reficused. esocaly if your just a after thought to the narc, ie only important in thoer pressence. this one targeting me as been doing this for so long they got the patience of a saint. supply is endless, im just another option. the trick is to make the narc become irrelevant in every way.
Thank you Quinn, your videos have helped me a lot, I am able to emotionally disengage now, you save many people who are dealing with narcissists. God bless🙏
This is exactly the last 12 years with my ex smh almost word for word… Scrambling trying to fix it, fix me, wondering what in the world is going on, exhausting myself trying to figure it out… that is until I figured it out… Bong!!!!!!
Smh I don’t miss those days! Endless arguments with no solutions only to leave you more confused and drained. Simply to break you down
Drained and …… beat ….. DOOOOOWN!
you hear me?!?
that's it
Finding yourself apologising and it wasn't your fault.
Don't waste you're time on them I don't fight for friendships or relationships if it's not running easy or mostly easy it's no go for me
Weaponized Incompetence…
It's a waste of time and they enjoy the madness .
So far, out of at least 3 narcissists I've known, they've all said, " I want unconditional love," and they were all cheaters asking to be loved unconditionally.
My brother is like that. A hardcore cheater but have his girl prove to him daily her love😮💨
lolll
He couldn’t keep up with me .. I was too strong for him and caught on to his bs. That’s y he discarded me. He did me a favor.
This was me…when he thought I was gonna fold like previous supplies I didn’t. I would leave him stumped he couldn’t respond to my responses.
@@Wavyfeels😂😂😂. Hilarious! I get right with em. Ha! Then strategize and Disengage.
They want you to be their mother, then detach like they should have in a healthy manner with their birth mom. I dealt with this exact topic for many years and noticed that since your mind correlates to your stomach I suffered from intestinal issues. Once I discarded the narc I healed within a matter of weeks!
oh yea, narc abuse leads to IBS easily. Still healing here
@@FindYourFree As long as you stay no contact you will heal successfully. Hope that helps ease your mind/stomach.
Facts, I just don’t understand these arguments out of nowhere.. and there so petty.
It’s Negative energy to bring you down.
"Trying to use logic with someone who is completely illogical lacks logic."
To my fellow narcissistic behavior awareness students. Please go back and listen to Quinn's video yesterday. Then, listen to this video again. Both these videos go hand in hand.
The fact that the narcissist is disrespecting you on purpose and everything they do is calculated, then just like Quinn said, using logic is pointless. Arguing, pleading, and begging for being heard is a joke to them. All you're doing is allowing them to drain you of your energy or conditioning you to tolerate the disrespect while dismissing your right to being treated like a human being and not trash. 🎯
that's why they always reap what they sow. SMH
The Devil thought that he had me 😭😭
This is absolutely correct.
This used to happen to me all the time. The more frustrated I became in our debates the more he seemed to delight.
This shit is real... get away and get away as fast as you can.
If you don't see a way out... you have to MAKE a way out!!! Your life depends on it
They play dumb and I play dumb too. They make me sick. Waste of time and space.
Yep, everything is calculated by these evil people. They know damn well what they're doing and they enjoy it. Run for the hills!
I totally resonated with this Dr. Quinn. That mental evil demon had me trying to fix his life. He thought I was the mother he never had.
😂😂
He had 13 years of unconditional love with nothing in return. I was absolutely shattered before the discard. Emotional vampires.
I was with one particular narc for 14 years. And in that time my credit went down the drain along with my mental health and every day organization. Our living space was always a mess and I was always tierd beyond belief.
We have been separated for 6 years and it's taken me all six years to get my life back on track in all these areas.
Please be safe out there folks and be careful who you allow into your personal energy fields
At work they make it seem like you're so much more experienced and they dump their mistakes on you. And they're burning our whole team out.
They think there right on everything. he said your not listening to me .I said your not listening to me .he then said good by .I said good by . discarded because I didn't agree with him . that's what he meant by I'm not listening to him .I'm glad I'm discarded and out of his life .no contact now
Tire you down. Yes, I felt like I slept for a year after getting away and off that hamster wheel.
They're messy.
An petty 😮
Mr. Holiday sir, you have been a helpful staple in my life for almost 10 years now. Thank you soooo much. God bless you and the great work you do. You've freed a whole bunch of suffering people, including me.😊🙏♥️😊
We’re having a family intervention tomorrow with my 3 adult sons 2 are narcissist 1 is disrespectful 🤦🏽♀️I feel this is a waste of time but I’m going to attend I guess I have to sit there while they tell me how they don’t like how they were disciplined as children, again. 🤦🏽♀️ making excuses to why they feel they can talk to me they way they do.. I’m not looking forward to this
I wish you the best of luck with that. If it is not well received please don’t stress. Move on and know you tried and get closer to God. Narcs will love for you to be hurt and dwell on the situation. Children, family, friend or not… it is what it is 💕
I have a young adult daughter that is a narcissist and it’s very difficult.
Your nice...I wouldn't even attend. They get no attention or energy from me. And I don't care how it looks to others. May the peace of good be with you on that day.
Really enjoy your content. Can you touch on…or again, when you can feel their toxic energy, even though you’re no longer around them?
Make longer videos, please!!😊
So true. Mines use to pick with me for no reason. I never said no thing back. Then they would get mad and say I was ignoring them
this is why when you feel your losing focus you have to go no contact distance your self , i do 2- 3 months is i have to, it breaks the narcs momentum. and gets you back on track and reficused. esocaly if your just a after thought to the narc, ie only important in thoer pressence. this one targeting me as been doing this for so long they got the patience of a saint. supply is endless, im just another option. the trick is to make the narc become irrelevant in every way.
Thank you Quinn, your videos have helped me a lot, I am able to emotionally disengage now, you save many people who are dealing with narcissists. God bless🙏
He's great, eh? He helped me a lot - practically "cured" me.
This is exactly the last 12 years with my ex smh almost word for word… Scrambling trying to fix it, fix me, wondering what in the world is going on, exhausting myself trying to figure it out… that is until I figured it out… Bong!!!!!!
powerful analogies here. message: leave these nutcases alone..
Right on time....
Appreciate you Quinn. Your videos are the apple a day to keep the narc away. Fr. Your videos help me maintain my sanity❤
Naw, I'm staying in the shallow end of the water park 🤣 #Narcfree🚫
They can’t wait to attack you
I was on no contact after 4 months and I screwed up in a min. Well back to the drawing board.
Its all BATE I have no desire to fight with ANY demon
DSM IV Recommends brass knuckles to get narcissists to think about what they are doing 😅😅😅😅
Crazy Making 😂
AlwYs spot on. Thanks Quinn
🎉 thank you so much for TH-cam videos 🎉
Quinn your soooo right on with your knowledge and talks, thank you.❤
You Read My Mind On This Day !!!! Keep Em Coming !!!!!
Spot On 👍🏼
Please hoping to see shorts with your most powerful sentences.
What to do when they get violent and keeps escalating although we are no longer together😢
Thank U this is such a great topic!
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