His EXPOSED MESSAGES will destroy their MARRIAGE 😯 | Ep. 2

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  • OnePath Network presents Episode 2 of the College Diaries "Red Flag Romance".
    In this episode we cover the struggle of young people getting to know one another for marriage and the clear red flags they need to be wary of in a potential spouse.
    We also capture the important questions to ask when getting to know someone, and how to identify your values and boundaries before venturing into marriage.
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  • @OnePathNetwork
    @OnePathNetwork  ปีที่แล้ว +136

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    • @rubiyanti2800
      @rubiyanti2800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      عليكم سالم وراح مطوله وبركاته 😊
      🤲 Ameen

    • @TWStimes
      @TWStimes ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mashallah, well done again!

    • @MSRproduction2066
      @MSRproduction2066 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Co education is Haram...

    • @zk4654
      @zk4654 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is the purpose of this video

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@zk4654 watch it, it tells you. It says marry someone because of their religion and character.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    Behind the skit and light humour - there is an important message for BOTH brothers and sisters. Be careful who you marry and be very mindful of their religion AND character.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y ปีที่แล้ว

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @aminam9594
      @aminam9594 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SubhannAllah you are rught. It us still very very common in our families that the parents do the research for the child and they dont do such deep research. I experienced ot with 4 of my ssitwrs where none of them ended up marrying men who had good characters because parents assum life will be fine after marriage and all

    • @onlyforallah6179
      @onlyforallah6179 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@aminam9594 Absolutely 😢
      This is the main problem these days
      And how to know the deep character and relationship with Allah in a man or women these days as most of them live astray

    • @KILLER.KNIGHT
      @KILLER.KNIGHT 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@onlyforallah6179Back in the day, people used to use their 5 senses on the other party before making a decision.

  • @ANabiha
    @ANabiha ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I could listen to the woman who acted as the mum for ages and ages
    Such a soft and comforting soul

    • @abukitten
      @abukitten ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I knoooooowwwwwww right. I was just sitting here whilst watching that part like, subhanallah, she is so lovely, Allahumma baarik lahaa!

    • @PoeticAmmunition.
      @PoeticAmmunition. ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She wasn't acting🙃 she is a sheikha and teacher also a psychologist

    • @msruag
      @msruag ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i love how she isn't like a lot of muslim moms who just blame everything on women 😭i'm a man and the way women are treated during a "muslim" marriage is just so wrong, it's so misogynistic

    • @rafiaasif6099
      @rafiaasif6099 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PoeticAmmunition.does she have any online platform???

    • @noneofyourbusiness8296
      @noneofyourbusiness8296 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She literally taught me Islamic studies in school mashallah 😊

  • @brotheraskedverygoodquesti845
    @brotheraskedverygoodquesti845 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    Dont end these after ramadan!!!! Keep making this series!!!! May Allah reward you

  • @AM_-wg1hj
    @AM_-wg1hj ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Remember brothers and sisters that engagement is not nikkah and can be canceled anytime. So if you see any red flags on your potential spouse, don't be afraid to cancel everything.

    • @AM_-wg1hj
      @AM_-wg1hj ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mianatwood The mother was saying is this the man you wanna marry ?
      I don't think that's the kind of question that's asked after nikah is already done.
      And where was she talking to him in the video ?

    • @tokkigifs
      @tokkigifs ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mianatwood the diff in this context is people don’t do nikkah on engagement

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mianatwood they're not - they're just engaged. yes it's not proper to have no walis present but that's how a lot of people in the west operate.

    • @noorasmahidris1721
      @noorasmahidris1721 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@AM_-wg1hj she not already nikah..

  • @Al-dk2id
    @Al-dk2id ปีที่แล้ว +107

    The person I was engaged to used to pray salaah, not drink nor smoke. However, he was very controlling and used to abuse me mentally, emotionally and physically. 😢 I prayed and begged Allah to help me get out of it alive and in one piece. Alhamdulilah, it's been 7months and Allah has blessed me with peace of mind and happiness.

    • @Lily.0623
      @Lily.0623 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly! sometimes they are fake Muslims, they look like they pray and care, but their character is not what a Muslim does or says.

    • @serenemaisam2393
      @serenemaisam2393 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alhamdulilah

    • @noormuzamil9850
      @noormuzamil9850 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why you do it

  • @user-pn6sk9vb6n
    @user-pn6sk9vb6n ปีที่แล้ว +62

    As a male, even I was like leave that waste man. People like that do exist, the only thing they can offer is wealth don't get trapped in to that, it's sad because parents are to blame aswell, they get smitten with the guys wealth but don't care if he prays or not. Obviously if the brother has both, fair play definitely go for it, but deen and character is definitely important for your future kids, for the respect of your parents, people will laugh at you finding someone like that, especially when the signs were there for you to see, in society it's unfortunate women are labelled expired goods when they have to come back to there parents house, let's hope people choose the right one because I've made a mistake myself marrying someone in the past, but alhamdullilah I'm married again with 2 kids, so there are decent people out there.

    • @husseinarasan9897
      @husseinarasan9897 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you now taken as the second wife pls I'm just curious don't take it personally sister coz some men nowadays they take divorcees as second

    • @user-pn6sk9vb6n
      @user-pn6sk9vb6n ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@husseinarasan9897 I'm a brother lol.

    • @arliyan1931
      @arliyan1931 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Alhamdulillah

  • @Dr.IrtazaRehman
    @Dr.IrtazaRehman ปีที่แล้ว +45

    If any girl is listening please don't marry a person like Bilal in this episode, if he is hanging up on her before marriage and resisting his sins, then how he is going to treat her after marriage! Don't wait for some miracle or hope that he will change for you. Find out the negotiable things, but if something is unacceptable for you before marriage, then you better pull yourself out.

    • @susu130390
      @susu130390 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If I was the sister in this video I wouldn’t need to do ishiqhara I would’ve ended it as soon as he hung up the call because if he’s like that before marriage then it wouldn’t been chaotic after marriage!

  • @FearlessVXI
    @FearlessVXI ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The vast majority of divorces are a result of one of the spouses neglecting the other's opinions and belittling them. Make sure you marry someone who has good religion and good character so that way they take you seriously and never belittle your thoughts and concerns.

  • @asmausabiu5632
    @asmausabiu5632 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    The skit was so tastefully done being quite realistic,touching serious every day matters that end up shaping our lives.Masha Allah!may we all learn from this,amin.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y ปีที่แล้ว

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

    • @m3ga975
      @m3ga975 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vaastafraja5685 It can go both ways we know that your are too busy nitpicking the example that your not getting the message.

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@vaastafraja5685 SubhanAllah. And where your relationships with those women halal? I'll assume the best and that it was halal relationship with the purpose of marrying them

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@komo5278 Yes, they were Halal relationships with the intent to get married.

  • @hanshah_
    @hanshah_ ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Appreciate aunties advice, think we all needed to hear this 😭 Jazak’Allah Khair x

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She done really well in communicating an important message to young women 🤲🏼

    • @khabibnurmagomedov3486
      @khabibnurmagomedov3486 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@OnePathNetwork also young men

    • @M.A.K47
      @M.A.K47 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mianatwood You mean, towards the fembot audience?

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mianatwood erm please elaborate?

  • @sheezakhalid656
    @sheezakhalid656 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Loved being a part of this project! May Allah accept our efforts. Ameen.

    • @abukitten
      @abukitten ปีที่แล้ว +2

      May Allah SWT bless you. These videos really remind me of the "If I Should speak" trilogy by Umm Zakiyyah!

  • @OnePathNetwork
    @OnePathNetwork  ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Salaam☺
    What was your take home message from the episode? Comment below 👇🏼

    • @__-hm9ol
      @__-hm9ol ปีที่แล้ว +11

      if you're willing to marry make sure to ask and look first for Deen and character, and if you find that there is a problem on one of these both things don't pray for your partner to change and get better after marriage cuz he'll be worst. may Allah grant us with the rightoues partners and protect us from men like bilal🤲

    • @Smoothie642
      @Smoothie642 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wa salam
      =>Good marriage advices
      => Men with even a bit of traditional understanding of men and women roles are kinda toxic and not pious internally 😅

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​​@@Smoothie642you got it wrong bro, the point is not having traditional women men roles, but their akhlaq and islam and correct understanding of the views of Ahlul sunnah

    • @آمنة-ب4ت
      @آمنة-ب4ت ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "What we should find in a person who we are willing to marry"

    • @yara.no98
      @yara.no98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ask Allah swt for guidence in any matter, have tawakkul and educate ourself more so we have a clear and open mindset

  • @themiddlepath5723
    @themiddlepath5723 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Solutions
    1. Have the correct intention
    2. Do not do anything without seeking council (mashwara) from TRUSTED and Knowledgeable people.
    3. Make dua

  • @DestinyToParadise
    @DestinyToParadise ปีที่แล้ว +61

    💯✨ “Our Lord! Bless us with ˹pious˺ spouses and offspring who will be the joy of our hearts, and make us models for the righteous.”Surah Al-Furqan - 74👆💯✨

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y ปีที่แล้ว

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

  • @YAR_original
    @YAR_original ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This is the ONLY online series that I've been following from the beginning and plan to stay with till the end. JazakAllahu Khairan for making this informative and high quality mini-series, as it may help my high school self kind of understand what college may look like :))

    • @ASD-ss2lq
      @ASD-ss2lq ปีที่แล้ว

      It is indeed of high quality but does not align with islamic values rather watching it will be sinful. No lowering of gaze, improperly covered ladies plus promotes free mixing. A scholarly consultation would have avoided such haraam.

    • @YAR_original
      @YAR_original ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ASD-ss2lq This series is meant to combat problems with lowering of gaze and free mixing. Also, what makes you think these hijabi women are not properly covered? And how would you know without looking at them yourself? This episode is meant for Muslim sisters, so you shouldn't be looking at them anyway lol

  • @najwaelmalki7861
    @najwaelmalki7861 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow, it's truly amazing how the mother explained it so well and that we didn't have to see the final decision of the girl so we can focus more on the lesson taught here and maybe the man will improve himself, only Allah knows.
    Thank you again for your hardwork and May Allah bless you and us all insha'Allah.🤲🌻

  • @neko7981
    @neko7981 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    huge respect for the dude who volunteered to take the L

  • @starcherry6814
    @starcherry6814 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She's got a good friend ma sha Allah
    I want this for every young woman

  • @ayahaltalhouni9272
    @ayahaltalhouni9272 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Of course it's Bilal 😅 Mashallah great video as always. Thank you for educating the youth in the west, where we probably aren't even getting lessons like this everyday.

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Please pray for Bilal 🤲🏼😅

    • @Bilal_is_joking
      @Bilal_is_joking ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My name is Bilal

    • @CuckooBirdie
      @CuckooBirdie ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I knew from the first episode we would be seeing more of Bilal!

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y ปีที่แล้ว

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

  • @hussainmohammad7992
    @hussainmohammad7992 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Like the message this channel is trying to spread but the conversations between fiancé’s before Nikah I.e messaging and calling each other is haram unless a mahram is present as 3rd party. May Allah guide us!

  • @sameer_hossain
    @sameer_hossain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    the girl that is getting engaged is sooooooooo beautiful Allahumma Baariq!

  • @sssppp1773
    @sssppp1773 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Bilal was clearly the villain in the skit, but in real life friends may not always be the best people to get advice from. Turn to Allah SWT first through istikhara..

  • @sumayyap6822
    @sumayyap6822 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For such a short clip, I learnt a lot (and got some beneficial reminders too) - jzk

  • @salamatumansaray2998
    @salamatumansaray2998 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ladies let look out for red flags in a Relationship

  • @JarelAhmed
    @JarelAhmed ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I actually love this series man😭 I'd be sad when this ends bro.

  • @saadshoaib901
    @saadshoaib901 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Alhamdulillah
    Gone are the times for books and lectures
    Our youth and young ones need this
    May Allah accept everything

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@mianatwoodwe still need videos like this to attract the youth

  • @Sanjimyman
    @Sanjimyman 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, I just wanted to say that I’m the kid that was behind the recording with the blonde hair and it took me a while but I found this video! This was so great to watch and hope to watch more!

  • @__-hm9ol
    @__-hm9ol ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I really appreciate this episode especially the aunt's advice fortunately I watched this before marrying 😅.Jazakom Allah khayr May Allah bless your efforts on educating and reminding people about the real meaning of marriage 👏

    • @chief4923
      @chief4923 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      May Allah bless your marriage with every khayr
      Amiin 💕

    • @__-hm9ol
      @__-hm9ol ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chief4923 thank u ameen may Allah bless yours too

  • @samandaromonov6307
    @samandaromonov6307 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love how she said " What if my boundry is too high" not just this in this modern age there are so little part of people questions themselves I mean it is true in there like about having boundries but also thinking about like what if I am making mistake what would I do if i am her or his shoes?

  • @asimshani
    @asimshani ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Spot on! MashAllah, very balanced way to address a sensitive matter. JazakAllah for creating and sharing such amazing and much-needed content!

    • @vaastafraja5685
      @vaastafraja5685 ปีที่แล้ว

      No it's not. The guy is put on the spot because it suits your narative. When ever i have been with a women. She was the one liking and talking to other guys. Realitiy is different.

  • @sameer_hossain
    @sameer_hossain 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    girl, he literally hung up on you! that in of itself is a HUGE RED FLAG!!!!!!

  • @sidra4618
    @sidra4618 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We as parents and children need such content so much!

  • @subikishayeri
    @subikishayeri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video is perfect
    Wedding is not about dress and diamond ring
    Its about peace

  • @RenderingUser
    @RenderingUser ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Chemical storage thing got a prequel lmao

  • @Ayla40902
    @Ayla40902 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is right everything will make sense you will thank Allah for opening your eyes i have seen my friend going through same and she did find not only peace but she finds it so filthy to even think he was his fiance how Allah Alhamdullilah saved her

  • @Turnpainhopegain
    @Turnpainhopegain ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It may sounds simple but I 'm pretty sure its informative and useful for people thinking of marriage and their parents as well. Jazak Allah Khair

  • @hyderabadiurdu
    @hyderabadiurdu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I get the feeling that this series is leaning towards feminism and away from traditional islam.

  • @Dr.Afiya_Ghori
    @Dr.Afiya_Ghori ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Nowadays marriage seems scary 🥺

    • @Bilal_0078
      @Bilal_0078 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      If we follow the sunnah and trust in Allah and focus on fixing our relationship with Allah SWT he will manage all of our Affairs im married Alhamdulillah and I thank Allah everyday for such a wife May Allah SWT grant you a spouse who will be the coolness in your eyes Ameen

    • @mohsinsheikh1961
      @mohsinsheikh1961 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, we men and women cross our boundaries , are not forgiving and neither we are raheem

    • @mohsinsheikh1961
      @mohsinsheikh1961 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, we men and women cross our boundaries , are not forgiving and neither we are raheem

    • @abd-el-latifdin3095
      @abd-el-latifdin3095 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Less than haram relationship

    • @peace_Palestine20
      @peace_Palestine20 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree but marriage I believe is a huge leap of faith may help us Allah thoes who are seeking to get married and thoes who are already married for indeed it is a very heavy contract.

  • @strawberryslush1424
    @strawberryslush1424 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is so emotional and motivational 😭😭😢

  • @YourLordIsOne
    @YourLordIsOne ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I advise against displaying that which is prohibited and would lead to sinful gazing

  • @Salahdiator
    @Salahdiator ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One Path it’s the 10 days of Mercy of RAMADAN I don’t think these kinda videos are appropriate for this Holy Month give us more substance relating to this Month so we can take advantage of it. You have another 11 to do as you wish. Jazakume Allah

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As much as this is better than the first in terms of theme and messages given, I do hope the next is some strong answers against the CURRENT, RELEVANT issue of rabid feminism that we're facing and not anything that caters to it.

  • @susu130390
    @susu130390 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    MashAllah this is a good video and I’m glad they pointed this out because this is exactly what is happening with social media. People are even married go online and do inappropriate things and this is why nowadays I find it hard to trust people because you don’t know what else they get up to. For those who are considering marrying someone I think it’s important to check their socials and if I was the girl in the video I would just end this engagement right there and then.

  • @infonet184
    @infonet184 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Riyad as-Salihin 278
    Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
    Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "The believers who show the most perfect Faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives".
    [At-Tirmidhi, who categorized it as Hadith Hasan Sahih].

  • @servantofthetruth8203
    @servantofthetruth8203 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please tell me I'm not the only one who burst out laughing when the sister showed the texts the brother sent her @ 1:02 😂😂😂. I know the concept or the message that's being presented isn't funny but maybe because i know it's only a skit i find it so funny..

  • @indihurung
    @indihurung ปีที่แล้ว

    MasyaAllah .. dari setiap episodenya mengandung banyak pelajaran. Bagaimana menyampaikan suatu ilmu yang di kemas secara ringan melalui series ini. Tabaraqallah ❤️

  • @dinaf.k5372
    @dinaf.k5372 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:38 I expect Bilal to be educated at least, but he couldn't even read the sign. What's the point of marrying a guy like that then? 😂😅

  • @Bu.T.F.I
    @Bu.T.F.I ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Subhanallah havent even finished but this is sooo good! Halal and educative form of entertainment! TV show who?

  • @urjiiabdulmalik
    @urjiiabdulmalik ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not the chemical storage room 🤣🤣🤣

  • @AbdulBaki61
    @AbdulBaki61 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We appreciate this work and loved it so far. Please make more of these. May Allah bless you. Selam from Germany

  • @aminaayad4928
    @aminaayad4928 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Perfectly done ❤ keep it up and jazakum Allah khayran guys!

  • @KA-hw4ec
    @KA-hw4ec ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jazakallahu for this great series! 👌🏽. If possible, please could you also do one for the men as well, with regards to when it comes to them looking for a wife and the most important things they should look for when searching

    • @KA-hw4ec
      @KA-hw4ec ปีที่แล้ว

      *Jazakallahu Khairan

    • @shairafaiza7261
      @shairafaiza7261 ปีที่แล้ว

      the same thing. good character and good religion.

  • @leilasitichairani4480
    @leilasitichairani4480 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This need to be viral

  • @TheKingsMindset
    @TheKingsMindset ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just read the book "Hard Times Create Strong Men", on what a real men is.

  • @marytheraspberry3145
    @marytheraspberry3145 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    From this episode and the past one, I 've noticed that you're subtly adressing the issue of
    1.feminist females
    2.males that think just because God gave them a "darajah" over women that means they can do whatever they want and that they will especially not recieve advice from a female or take into consideration anything that a female says, all while thinking that that's their God-given right.
    which are two common problems in the muslim community and in marriages.
    Well done adressing those two serious problems.

  • @malak3229
    @malak3229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MashaAllah this such an amazing episode...I am learning so much about religion & life & even practicing my English language 🙂💙جزاكم الله خيرا

  • @sajid279
    @sajid279 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There should be one video about girls too chatting on social media with non-mehram boys they met at school, college....becs they seek validation.

  • @Mardark-e4s
    @Mardark-e4s ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great, can you now do a video how women can equally be a bad spouse for you or is this channel going to keep pretending only men are bad.

  • @IqraaFamilyProduction
    @IqraaFamilyProduction ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Masha Allah tabarakallah, we're first ❤💙😊

  • @skywa7183
    @skywa7183 ปีที่แล้ว

    The quality is so good, but I wish the messages were better and less watered down. Really. This cud make such impact.

  • @jonah3365
    @jonah3365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Aunty is so wise cute, such a noorful Aunty

  • @syedmuheed7753
    @syedmuheed7753 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The quality keeps getting better masha Allah

  • @farhatfatima181
    @farhatfatima181 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm dealing with same red flags. I'm making lots of duas may Allah guide me to make the best decision

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please seek help from a pious and wise person! Your family memebers might be biased, so I suggest a local sheikh

    • @farhatfatima181
      @farhatfatima181 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@komo5278 tbh I'm someone with islamic knowledge the other person is hafiz too but we still have red flags 😔 why I'm giving chance? Because Allah forgives and people do change. I hope he will not prove me wrong in future iA 🤲

    • @mynmeisname4825
      @mynmeisname4825 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@farhatfatima181 do istikharah

  • @muhammadaffan516
    @muhammadaffan516 ปีที่แล้ว

    One path acing the game Luke always! Alhumdolillah

  • @salimyasini3100
    @salimyasini3100 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Life's not fair hey. The right sister engages with the wrong brother.
    and the "nice" brother who was another option loses

    • @komo5278
      @komo5278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Reminds me of Prophet Lut and his wife, and Firoun and Asiya.
      Allah says in the Quran, the good women are for good men and good men are for good women. The bad women are for bad men and bad men are for bad women.
      But sadly, some righteous people are married to bad people as I mention above😥💔

    • @xillerrz7328
      @xillerrz7328 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@komo5278 Allah (SWT) knows what we do not know. Those marriages happened with a purpose. Fear Allah (SWT) and obey him.

  • @YaserShareefMohammed
    @YaserShareefMohammed ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May Allah reward you all for making these videos.

  • @AbdurRashidRaskin
    @AbdurRashidRaskin ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Assalamu alaikum. There is a young revert who reverted almost a year ago, that person is struggling heavily with life and iman. Still committing big sins, and mental health conditions is not in good position, That person needs hidaya & shefa.
    I learned from videos about ( It was video about making wasila while doing dua) asking somebody for dua who is a pious person. We can give wasila through Allah's 99 beautiful, or through our good deeds, or ask a pious person for dua.
    I humbly request you, in this blessed month of dua acceptance, will you please make dua for that person, pray for me too that my neq Dua's get answered and be my dua itself becomes the best for me and Allah give hidaya and heal that revert so that the person becomes a servant of Allah and serve Islam from now till last breathe please...😭Wallahi I don't have any bad intention. May Allah SWT also grant all your dua's and be them best for you.

  • @abuyeenate1682
    @abuyeenate1682 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Asalamu Alykum Warahamtullahi Wabarekatuh and Ramadan Mubarak. This is really a v.good video short interns of time but with a huge message for life. Most importantly will benefit the young and the restless and for those who are planning to get married. Please make more of such videos specially before Ramadan is over. May Allah help you and accept your deeds.

    • @user-yt2mo8ze7y
      @user-yt2mo8ze7y ปีที่แล้ว

      For those searching for marriage _(and even those who are already married)_ , this is a dua for a righteous spouse and children from Surah Furqan (25:74):
      ‎رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
      Transliteration: Rab-ba-na hab la-na min az-waa-ji-na wa thur-ri-yaa-ti-na qur-ra-ta a’-yu-nin waj-’al-na lil mut-ta-qee-na imaa-ma.
      (Rabbana hab lana min azwaajina wa thuriyyatina qurrata a’yunin waj’alna lil muttaqeena imama).
      Translation: Our Lord! Grant unto us spouses and offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes, and give us (the grace) to lead the righteous.
      ___________
      Also, the following dua from the Quran led to Musa (A.S) getting a job and getting married:
      ‎رَبِّ إِنّى لِما أَنزَلتَ إِلَىَّ مِن خَيرٍ فَقيرٌ
      Transliteration: Rab-bee in-nee li-ma an-zal-ta ilay-ya min khay-rin fa-qeer.
      (Rabbee innee limaa anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqeer).
      Translation: “My Lord! Truly I am in (desperate) need of whatever good you (would) send down to me.”
      [Quran 28:24].
      _____
      Good advice: I think it was Mufti Menk who said if your potential spouse has deen (piety) and akhlaaq (good character) give them 1 point. If they have good looks, add a zero on the end so now they have 10 points! If they have a good job add another zero now they have 100 points! For every thing you like about them keep adding zeroes - a house , a car, nice smile, beautiful eyes etc. BUT if they don’t have deen and akhlaaq then *_take away the ONE_* and now what are you left with?
      ZeroOoOoOoOoOoOo!! 😂
      I thought this was great advice because all those “nice” things can be taken away any time, except for deen and akhlaaq.
      Final point: If you’re not praying tahajjud every night and making dua in your sujood, then you’re not serious about getting married.
      ___
      If you want to share these duas you can easily copy + paste this comment by going to my Just Paste It link below, and inshaAllah we can all have a share in the reward:
      justpaste.it/SearchingForSpouse

  • @Minatheowl394
    @Minatheowl394 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Was Bilal's ringtone the very beginning of Andrew Tate's theme song?😭

  • @dawahtothepeople1510
    @dawahtothepeople1510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting content. Hope to see more Insha Allah. The youth today prefer visuals and the arts, over reading. I think the script may seem leaning towards comforting sisters and those who say Islam is misogynistic. Men are imams of our families.

  • @sarabenkhaffou
    @sarabenkhaffou ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this series! Allahumma barik ❤

  • @ahteshamulhaque4447
    @ahteshamulhaque4447 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Please upload one video daily ❤
    And ofcourse this is the best series for youth 😊
    Keep it up
    #Keep youth motivating 🤗

    • @OnePathNetwork
      @OnePathNetwork  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      These productions are very resource intensive. We wish we could 🤲🏼 May Allah allow us to continue working and benefit more people.

    • @ahteshamulhaque4447
      @ahteshamulhaque4447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@OnePathNetwork Ameen 🤲🥰

  • @ashifhassan1148
    @ashifhassan1148 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This can also be vice versa especially in this age.

  • @PTaylor1087
    @PTaylor1087 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a beautiful lesson for men and women. May Allah guide us.

  • @naso603
    @naso603 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bilal characters is not well portrait but any way don't want to be negative vibe
    Well done for making this film

  • @Killuaslayer
    @Killuaslayer ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like to watch this series it has many lessons and I take many important live lessons form it mayAllah reward you ameen🤲

  • @ssslaa6953
    @ssslaa6953 ปีที่แล้ว

    جزاكم الله خيرا، لكن من فضلكم احذروا من قراءة الآيات القرآنية تحت خلفية موسيقية من باب احترام و توقير و تعظيم كلام الله عز وجل.

  • @SHADOWBANE369
    @SHADOWBANE369 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sorry to ask . In this series...
    The women are wearing hijab, is they are wearing according to Sunnah. ...
    Only they cover the head but

  • @islam.e
    @islam.e ปีที่แล้ว

    May Allah protect and guide us, May He forgive us for what we do and don't do and may He open our eyes and grant us hidayah.

  • @Ylon-CCC
    @Ylon-CCC ปีที่แล้ว +2

    compared to Bilal, we're angels. lmao

  • @_goc
    @_goc ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:04 May Allah forgive us.🥀
    3:09 All the wrong things bro
    5:00 The bare minimum sisters! Ask what Allah asks of us to ask for.
    5:34 Never too late even after marriage. It's too late when you get innocent children involved. So if you want to do right, do it before then. Even if kids are there, then hurry up and cut it off because the kids will suffer.

  • @suzeteandre8346
    @suzeteandre8346 ปีที่แล้ว

    Masha ALLAH.
    Great job!
    May Allah reward you with the best. Ameen

  • @muhammad-naasiribrahimabdu3616
    @muhammad-naasiribrahimabdu3616 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Lost of words, Subhanallaah! 😢
    How I wish these lines of lessons can be written with waters of gold?!
    May Allāh bless One Path Network

  • @christianityexposed
    @christianityexposed ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Quran 11:114
    And be constant in praying at the beginning and the end for, verily, good deeds drive away evil deeds: this is a reminder to all who bear [God] in mind.
    .

  • @ghtr.
    @ghtr. ปีที่แล้ว

    Just Wow ما شاء الله 👏👏
    Keep going OnePath💚

  • @salmaahmed3867
    @salmaahmed3867 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was soooo beautiful plz make more😭💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • @stsmile4901
    @stsmile4901 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice series. Would love for it to continue. May Allah reward all of you for your work

  • @m.a1153
    @m.a1153 ปีที่แล้ว

    Asalaamualaikum wrb.
    Great video Ma'shala.
    It'll be good to make a version where sisters need to be checked before marrying before it's too late.

  • @ramtransportllc6818
    @ramtransportllc6818 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why didn't she just talk to her Wali? I'm confused?

  • @omismaeel2011
    @omismaeel2011 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashai Allah, very good lessons for all the Muslims.

  • @bareeq5969
    @bareeq5969 ปีที่แล้ว

    لتسكنوا اليها ❤ so you find peace

  • @sharpiefatah3657
    @sharpiefatah3657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey, one path Network, A Gambling Ad was shown before the Video!!!!

  • @مارية-ك8ن
    @مارية-ك8ن ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wish someone sat down with me like this before and bought me to reason. Hasbiallah

  • @sansamarwa
    @sansamarwa ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ma shaa Allah ❤️
    So educative and entertaining.

  • @reazul2005
    @reazul2005 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mashallah ❤️❤️❤️ well said Mother 😊💖

  • @mashoudmahmud9354
    @mashoudmahmud9354 ปีที่แล้ว

    Having relationship before marriage. I believe the pattern and the level of tawakul is low. May Allah guide us all Amin

  • @helojoeywala6622
    @helojoeywala6622 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice video, but personally i dont agree with casually chatting on the phone and stuff like this while you're engaged, you can call and put it on speaker and if the parent/wali is there no problems talk for as long as u want, but without the parents i dont agree with talking 1 on 1 like this.

  • @SaifAli96
    @SaifAli96 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Now I want a video with the character's genders switched. 😊

    • @ajam3086
      @ajam3086 ปีที่แล้ว

      why? it applies to both

    • @Mardark-e4s
      @Mardark-e4s ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sure it does but why show only one side? What message is this really sending to the young men and women, this only shows men in a bad light where is the balance? Women can equally be cruel and wicked yet these people are too afraid to show it.

    • @ajam3086
      @ajam3086 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mardark-e4s I don't see anywhere where she states "all men"? Maybe they will come out with a video for men, but why not as a man use this advice for reviewing men for your sisters and daughters?

    • @Mardark-e4s
      @Mardark-e4s ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @ajam3086 you didn't address the criticism at all, the question isn't all men the question is why didn't they show another scenario where the women was bad and the brother or father gave advice to the son to avoid such women, and that our Prophet SAW told us to prioritize women who are closer to Allah so they should choose a pious, feminine, caring and kind women. The young boys need advice too all women aren't angels

    • @SaifAli96
      @SaifAli96 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Mardark-e4s I couldn't have said it better than you.

  • @yara.no98
    @yara.no98 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg exact same thought some many girls have subhanallah, we should educate ourselve more