Did you know any people in these countries you travelled to solo? Am planning for a trip with my friends but its possible that they may not want to go at the last moment, I wouldn't want that to stop me but then I am worried about being alone in a foreign country
@@debrax1907 No,I knew no one in these countries. Actually I lied. I know lots of people in the UK but I did not connect with them when I went. Solo trips in my opinion are the best way to find out what you like and how far you can go. Engaging in conversations with other people on those trips who you might later find out are also on solo trips. Please don't let your friends hold you back. You will enjoy yourself so much. Be open but cautious. Ask people in those countries for safe places to hang out, the more you will not feel the need to travel with friends.
Dont forget to carry a tripod if you have one. Don't be shy to set it up and take your own pictures. People will secretly admire your confidence. Some will even come up to you to tell you😂
SHOWING UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!! That's my take home. Most of us think self love is just the pedicure and facials. It's putting in the work to improve yourself. Not just the enjoyment folks. It is sacrificing for the better you. Eating well, exercise, acquiring a new skill, investing in yourself!!!!!!
Right now taking myself to me is to love me as i am taking a break from monthly saloon fake nails , growing my own hair and nails , letting my skin breathe from make up shower , just taking care my business being a leader not a boss , staying away from netflix and toxic shows , praying , fasting staying away from sin , being the woman God created to be.
For me before anything else self love starts on the inside. The outside can be anything and you still don't love yourself because the inside work is flowed. Validating yourself stands out for me. The day you get on a journey of not seeking validation from the external world is the day that journey truly begins. Also for me it's doing things that work FOR ME whether other people agree with them or not as long as I am not hurting anyone.
In addition to claires description, self love is foregoing sugardaddies offers and budgeting within yo means. That s where its at! DISPLINE WE FOREGO FOR TEMPORARY COMFORT
Its so wild how i can relate to everything we finally got to kinda figure it out. Thank heavens the doing the work for your dreams, the bliss from self accountability, eliminate people pleasing, independence, spirituality, figuring out money, being uncomfortable, shout out to being single and not having to pay anyones school fees trying to be a saint - we basically all have to carry our heavy loads, waking up early is like a magic gift, the quiteness is a dream, we are learning to be - you all are everything thank you
i like the glowing, thank you so much for lifting our souls, especially our ugandan community or society we need lots of lessons concerning self development and self esteem
Yeah Claire, as well I have that, like I feel so cheated if I don’t learn or read something better in a day . So sometimes I scroll the internet mostly google because am not a social media to learn something new or comforting to take me through the day.
I love & enjoy selfcare. I started scheduling selfcare at the beginning of this year. For me, selfcare is intentionally putting myself first & spending time with myself to work on myself. Yes, I go to spas, dinners, solo trips but I also work on bettering my spiritual life and physique. But as you mentioned, it's a continuous journey. I'm really enjoying the process. This was a fantastic episode. Well done ladies 👏🏾👏🏾
Hey guys I think also self love is making peace with who you are and not who people say you are. It's abit hard in our Africa and Uganda mostly. Everyone will tell you who to become but I think knowing that you know who you are and what you want gives so much peace. 😊
6:08 Yes. Self love, Dating yourself is owning you before they own you. It is self awareness and self acceptance. It is enjoying the journey of self improvement. Eg if you are not at your desired weight, you should still be happy and dress that body in the cute dresses. You don't wait to lose weight to feel good. It is knowing that they are not better than me. I am not better than them. We all belong. Each person is unique. We are diverse. And hence beauty is diverse!
Great episode and conversation as always. If I were in Ug, I would definitely attend the live show with you all and Murugi. Her voice, your voice is such a breathe of fresh air in the Kenyan/Ug Space.
I dated myself when I was single I took myself to Cuba, Ireland, UK, US on solo trips. I took my self to spas and restaurants.
Did you know any people in these countries you travelled to solo? Am planning for a trip with my friends but its possible that they may not want to go at the last moment, I wouldn't want that to stop me but then I am worried about being alone in a foreign country
@@debrax1907 No,I knew no one in these countries. Actually I lied. I know lots of people in the UK but I did not connect with them when I went. Solo trips in my opinion are the best way to find out what you like and how far you can go. Engaging in conversations with other people on those trips who you might later find out are also on solo trips. Please don't let your friends hold you back. You will enjoy yourself so much. Be open but cautious. Ask people in those countries for safe places to hang out, the more you will not feel the need to travel with friends.
Dont forget to carry a tripod if you have one. Don't be shy to set it up and take your own pictures. People will secretly admire your confidence. Some will even come up to you to tell you😂
@@Flourish_today ohh, thank you so much. You have no idea how much motivation this has given me!!
@@debrax1907 😉 you will do just fine!
SHOWING UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!! That's my take home. Most of us think self love is just the pedicure and facials. It's putting in the work to improve yourself. Not just the enjoyment folks. It is sacrificing for the better you. Eating well, exercise, acquiring a new skill, investing in yourself!!!!!!
I've been binging on your vlogs and I love Fiona's fashion sense.
Right now taking myself to me is to love me as i am taking a break from monthly saloon fake nails , growing my own hair and nails , letting my skin breathe from make up shower
, just taking care my business being a leader not a boss , staying away from netflix and toxic shows , praying , fasting staying away from sin , being the woman God created to be.
This is admirable,all the best
Hi @letters7, how did this go?
For me before anything else self love starts on the inside. The outside can be anything and you still don't love yourself because the inside work is flowed. Validating yourself stands out for me. The day you get on a journey of not seeking validation from the external world is the day that journey truly begins. Also for me it's doing things that work FOR ME whether other people agree with them or not as long as I am not hurting anyone.
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In addition to claires description, self love is foregoing sugardaddies offers and budgeting within yo means. That s where its at! DISPLINE WE FOREGO FOR TEMPORARY COMFORT
I absolutely enjoyed this conversation ladies. Self love is so important ❤️
A lot of love from US .I like the glow in you ladies.self love starts from self acceptance and giving my self grace
Its so wild how i can relate to everything we finally got to kinda figure it out. Thank heavens the doing the work for your dreams, the bliss from self accountability, eliminate people pleasing, independence, spirituality, figuring out money, being uncomfortable, shout out to being single and not having to pay anyones school fees trying to be a saint - we basically all have to carry our heavy loads, waking up early is like a magic gift, the quiteness is a dream, we are learning to be - you all are everything thank you
Thank u ladies.
To me , self love goes in hand with mental health
Prim, thank you for describing “dating yourself ", l totally agree.
Its being curious about yourself
I love you Prim...I feel like your self love is just through the roof🥰
I love this so much. My take home, being self reliant, and investing in myself
Thank you ladies for such a wonderful topic.I have learnt something about self love/self-care.
So glad this is your takeaway. Investing in you is always a good thing. ALWAYS❤️
Thanks u guys ur episodes have changed me. I love myself these days and it’s hard for someone to make me loose my self confidence. Thanks 🙏🏽 alot
This means so much to us. If our content can help even one person feel this, we are doing something right. Thank you much for sharing this ❤️
i like the glowing, thank you so much for lifting our souls, especially our ugandan community or society we need lots of lessons concerning self development and self esteem
You are so welcome and thank you for this affirming message. It means a lot to us
Yeah Claire, as well I have that, like I feel so cheated if I don’t learn or read something better in a day . So sometimes I scroll the internet mostly google because am not a social media to learn something new or comforting to take me through the day.
When prim waved at us after Claire mentioned the VW😂😂
thanks for the show guys.. self love for me now is self discipline and fighting procrastination.
I love & enjoy selfcare. I started scheduling selfcare at the beginning of this year. For me, selfcare is intentionally putting myself first & spending time with myself to work on myself. Yes, I go to spas, dinners, solo trips but I also work on bettering my spiritual life and physique. But as you mentioned, it's a continuous journey. I'm really enjoying the process. This was a fantastic episode. Well done ladies 👏🏾👏🏾
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Hey guys I think also self love is making peace with who you are and not who people say you are. It's abit hard in our Africa and Uganda mostly. Everyone will tell you who to become but I think knowing that you know who you are and what you want gives so much peace. 😊
Amen, sis. It can be difficult. Remember self love isn't rosy. It's supposed to be difficult sometimes so you can grow, evolve ❤️
6:08 Yes. Self love, Dating yourself is owning you before they own you. It is self awareness and self acceptance. It is enjoying the journey of self improvement. Eg if you are not at your desired weight, you should still be happy and dress that body in the cute dresses. You don't wait to lose weight to feel good. It is knowing that they are not better than me. I am not better than them. We all belong. Each person is unique. We are diverse. And hence beauty is diverse!
Its beyond physical... Self love is deep deep,to me its choosing me for me all throughout
Thanx ladies, I really loved this topic especially your minds about self love and am sure u touched many people's lives.
This has been so insightful and therapeutic ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️big thanks @ Unpopular opinion 💞
Prim that's a very nice way of describing self love ...building a house and that house is you....thanks
Great episode and conversation as always. If I were in Ug, I would definitely attend the live show with you all and Murugi. Her voice, your voice is such a breathe of fresh air in the Kenyan/Ug Space.
Thank you so much.
Being self reliant and investing in myself. I will work towards being more intentional on these. Thank you so much dears.
Definitely my favourite Vlog lately. Keep doing what you do ladies; I/ we love to see it
loving the topic.self love
Claire has such a contagious laugh 🤗the kind that comes from the heart
I have learned to say No. I no longer go with the flow. If anything doesn’t feel like for me I say No.
This is a lovely conversation ladies. I'll be re-playing/re-listening/re-watching this a lot. Thank you
i love the fact that the message is working on me i want to deliver such some day
Thank you ladies. Your videos make me appreciate my self even more ❤️❤️❤️ Much love
I am here watching this video the second time......You guys are addictive.....Thanks for the content.
I was watching this my mom and she said “these are beautiful women”😭
I love you lot💞
awww we love you and lover her too ❤️
This is one of the best episodes ever, thank you ladies. Keep up the amazing job God bless
" Compantimentalising" i hear you Prim on this ! if at all i have gotten the spelling right
i hope you guys make a podcast i really enjoy your channel.
You three all look amazing👌🏾, morover fearfully and wonderfully made by God❤❤❤
Thanks to you all Gals for this content. Stay blessed and May the lord give you more wisdom 🙏🏻
Love you Ladies❤️❤️Thank you🙏🏾
To me self love is knowing that I have the power to be the best I can be.
wowww watching this at 4am, This is magical , keep preaching people need this. Thanks
I love the jewellery, and you are all looking lovely.
I have loved this so much..thank you guys
Excited can’t wait for Murugi munyi😍😍😍 u should have invited her with Lydia😫💔
If the results of self love do not bring positive energy to the persons around you, then is it really self love? Thanks for the topic
This discussion was so timely for me 🥺 Thanks guys
I can't stop watching you guys,love love love all these topics.
Amazing conversation😊I will definitely try affirmations. Thank you Prim
Episode is timely for me. Thanks guys for the insights.
Ladies lots of love from Kenya.Please if I may,what foundations are you using? Its blended so well.
Super grateful for this episode….. thank you ladies
Setting clear boundaries is my form of self love.
Great conversation here. ❤️❤️
Thanks so much. You have saved me from committing suicide today.
Very good content. Am a big time fun. blessings
Yayyy. I was eagerly waiting 🥰
Well said Fiona self love is being kind to yourself
Thank you Guys
I love these intentional women❤❤
I love you babes.
Ladies your heaven 💖 sent
That comment on black inner thighs takes me out all the time. This is wholesome content.
Well done ladies…I have learnt a lot from this episode💙♥️💙
I like y'all guyz
Good stuff ladies ❤️
Best show ever
Really loved this thank you ladies ❤
I need to understand, Fiona, why that big microphone
Also Claire's outfit is caling my name
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Big microphone.....😀
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wandering too lol
If you notice. The other 2 ladies have the small mics attached to their blouses. Maybe they own only 2 of those for now.
Likes episode as opening song plays. ❤️🌸
😂 here for it!
I will be there
see you there ❤️
SELF LOVE is LOVING YOURSELF FIRST.
So timely
You girls are so beautiful 😍❤️
I really want to attend the Live event. Hopefully I make it.
We hope you do too ❤️
Self love❤️❤️💯💯💯
Damn! So early!!
love u so much
we love you too ❤️
I love you ladies 😍😍
I remember when I took my self out to feel better buuuuut I got out feel the same way. I thought it was self love
Try it more often..... you'll finally get used and wooowww you'll crave it😄
Love love this episode...thank you ladies ..what are your Instagram handles ?
First time here and am hooked
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