BULLYING:A lot to unpack| the cycle of trauma| hypocrisy | we can do better

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  • @runyireham4081
    @runyireham4081 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So I was kinda bullied too, the bully would seize my food not just my food some other students too, and make us sit and watch her eat our food, then she will make fun of whose food isn't sweet and how bad a cook the persons' mum is. I would always beg my mum not to give me food to go to school, just so that the bully would avoid me, but this just pissed off the bully more and she would shove, poke me and would just lash out.
    To break free, another classmate advised me to start behaving like a tomboy /agbero, and it worked like magic. When the bully saw madness omo, she avoided me. Since then, I have just stuck to being a tomboy😅😅😅.
    I later had a chat with this bully while I was in UNI but she didn't think what she did then was bullying, in her words she was playing with us😮, I remember another of my classmate, she was so scared of the bully that she would always cry at the school gate after her dad dropped her, and would be scared to go inside the school and even scared of break time the most.
    Point is many of these bullies do not even recognise how traumatising their actions are. Thus it's pertinent that schools carry on sufficient orientation from a young age, parents too should be observant, as much as you want to train a self defensive child you might be given them an opportunity to bully others, from a young age observe how your child plays with other kids, this can provide insight on what can be corrected or worked on. Well parenting isn't easy that's why we beg Jehovah to help us when our arms are weak.
    Nice one 🎉

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      PINNED 📌📍
      The last paragraph 💯
      But I'll want to add that, while you're raising a self defensive child, you let them know when it's necessary to show that skill not to bully others, but to protect. Before practical, there's theory.

  • @runyireham4081
    @runyireham4081 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Spot on 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @Asamimi20
    @Asamimi20 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So relatable

  • @Mimiartie
    @Mimiartie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well said babe...❤❤ .I watched that leed school saga and I was saying,I wished someone will bully me,let 'em mess around and find out...

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It can't be you or anyone close to you. Jehovah help the person 😂. Your appearance alone, not to talk of your voice would change the person's mind not to even try nonsense

  • @kingsonpictures
    @kingsonpictures 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My take home here is just her beautiful makeup 💄😂😂😂😂 I wish I could have a photoshoot with her already.

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😩🫠 you have to re-watch again 😂
      Thank you so much for the compliment. 🙏

  • @charcole_coker
    @charcole_coker 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I was very angry when I first saw the video because I was bullied in class and I felt like I was relieving my experience with her

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my! 😔 I can imagine!
      That's why we all need to do better to help the younger generation, because there are adult bullies still roaming

  • @NewtonBenjamin-vn2pi
    @NewtonBenjamin-vn2pi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's just too bad,

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Unfortunately 😕

  • @Teon_iyce
    @Teon_iyce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Slap wey we collect for FGC warri from senior students that year after them obtain our small chop money. Internet no hear that one o

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just unfortunate 😂 very traumatic experience. Unforgettable.
      If only Internet dey that time, our justice nor for be here 😂
      We thank God we're alive, that's why we're suppose to stop anyone doing such to this younger Gen.

  • @otitojuolumide
    @otitojuolumide 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Every person in this life has been bullied one way or the other

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Totally agree 💯

  • @Ewomaisaac
    @Ewomaisaac 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    First come and submit that dress then we can talk 😊,,,on a more serious note i think adults are even more bullies than kids especially when they get to top positions

    • @kevweLisa
      @kevweLisa  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Find your way to me and it's all yours 😂😆.
      And these adult bullies are raising kids, unfortunately. We see them everyday on the street, government parastatals, everywhere.