Sorry to hear you are going through depression. I'm glad that you watched and seeking inspiration to keep going. There's more inspiration and information on my channel if you need it. Keep on keeping on. X
I am so happy to know that the parents here in comments atleast know that their children is undergoing depression which most parents doesn't even consider as an issue.,most probably quoting the facts like,"There is nothing to be worried in this age","we have passed ur age". & etc..Kudos to the parents in the comment section.Your children can sure overcome their depression if u lend your ears to them,coz more than advice or solutions,they need people to hear their inner screamings which are mostly ignored....
Beautifully said. Thank you for your truly supportive comment. 💖 On reading your comment thoroughly, you are right, there are many parents (and older family members) that will make comments such as "There is nothing to be worried in this age" or "we have passed your age". Those are the 'sticky plaster comments' that will not promote emotional healing. There has to be more emphasis on listening, not just to the words, but to the whole spoken and non-spoken language that puts the message there loud and clear "I'm depressed!" That's why I want to spread the word about understanding emotions and using mentoring to help. Thank you for watching. ;-)
I can fully appreciate that sentiment, and it felt like I really was fighting him on day's when my son was facing his darkest demons. Keep being there. It's his journey, and no one can travel it for him, but you can be there beside him all the way, helping shine a torch for every step.
I cried when I read your words...u r ready 2 fight Satan 2 help your son 😢...yes I have been fighting him 2 through the process and its very slow and very difficult because he is sooo angry and hard 2 get through 2 😢 my hearts breaking and at times I don't know if I'm helping him or not..so the journey continues 😢
@maria elhassan Yes it really feels that way at times, but love and determination always wins. Be gentle on yourself. My son said it was his journey to make, but me being there every day was like shining a torch so he could take a step. Some days he knew he couldn't move forward but that light helped him plan a step the next day. Keep being the light that you are. ✨️
I am 23 and I have Autistic spectrum, anxiety and depression. I often think my parents affect my levels of anxiety and the amount of pressure they put on me. I don't think they are fully to blame and there are multiple factors. Though funnily, my psychotherapy I am currently attending is about building my self-esteem so I am stronger and more resilient to cope with what is thrown my way, as opposed to just not doing anything, because I think that my parents are to blame for my anxiety and I am innocent. By doing this however, I have no control of my happiness, wellbeing and my future which does nothing for my depression. I think sometimes we have to look after ourselves by choosing the outcome that will support our well-being long term, as opposed to just satisfying the demands of our ego at the moment.
Hi Rebecca, I'm so happy to hear that you are reaching a new level of awareness - that your emotional control when left to the care of others, does not resolve your own emotions. Learning from others however has a massive impact when they are not controlling their emotions. Having that support outside the house is crucial when you have so many challenges, and well done for sticking with it. I can sense you will see some amazing changes in yourself from here on.
I have been depressed since I was 13. Now I am 33. This is scary, I realized it a few days ago. Nothing can give me those years back. I have no libido, feel very little happiness. I wish I knew it before that I am ill. For a very long time i thought I was just strange.
Hi Natalia, I am sorry you have gone so long without help but you are still young and have hope. Look at your surroundings, your diet, your past, and start to recognise the things you can change. Get support, and try not to focus on years lost, but on the years ahead. As for being strange, start noting down the reasons you feel strange and reflect on them. You may find answers. I was mid 50’s when I did this and realised I have ADHD. I haven't lost or gained anything except a better understanding of myself. I hope you get that feeling too, in good time. Be patient and kind with your self.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this, so I can use these techniques with my son. I haven’t and will not give up on him. Let’s stop the Stigma of Mental Challenges.
Sorry to hear you have depression. I suffer it too at times, especially this year. Being around other people can give a sense of happiness that goes again when you're on your own. If you're still feeling depressed around other people, have you reached out for help? There are lots of reasons for depression when it gets that difficult. A professional can help you unpick the jumble of reasons and find a way to rebuild your wellbeing.
I'm sorry to hear you are all having issues with your teenagers, and hope you find the patience you need, and make the connection they need to guide them through.
There's always a good time to start learning something new. I could have done with all this knowledge 10 years earlier but what mattered was, I chose a point to start learning and it helped. You can too. Change can be good when you make the right changes. 🧡
Who said he didn't need an assessment? Why was that accepted? ASD can cause depression. It is a common co-morbidity. A suicidal eight year old is dx'd with ASD?? What was the treatment? None of this makes any sense. I feel for Matt and his mom.
Hi, I’m a 13 year old girl and I struggle with depression and self harm to say the least, I am so glad there are supportive parents out there!watching this stuff and being generally supportive, I really applaud you for that. Ask her to talk, if she feels uncomfortable maybe hug her and have a coffee or tea and relax, let her know you are there for her and are listening, best thing you can do is listen and not speak. I’d you don’t know what to say after that then don’t say anything,say you are there and you two will get through it together. I know I would love supportive parents like you and just realise she values your opinion and validation of her. If she comes out to you, I beg you please don’t shut her out, it takes so much to come out and she would have gone through a lot. Take time with her, don’t call her crazy or rush her to a counsellor, she might want you close to her to get her through it or might want to be alone. She is not seeking attention or being lazy. Bless you, stay strong I hope you daughter is okay and I hope you and her get through it together
thanks for putting in the effort and doing all this for your child, that means a lot to not just him but also others that are finding that some parnets actually care.
I am 16 and come from a financially successful family. i speak for myself but i think i feel less pain in general than a lot of young people do and for that i am very thankful to my responsible parents. i feel that a lot of problems and misery in this world will be avoided if the less fortunate in life do not have kids at all.
Thank you for watching. A lot of pain an misery with teenage depression also comes from rich families. Often in the form of neglect emotionally, through lack of challenge and purpose because everything is provided, and even abuse for many. Depression is not just for the poor. I hope your fortune continues and that you can help others in life find the same luck. Remember when you find your career path, that your success will likely come from helping others with problems they cannot solve themselves. This all falls under emotional awareness - a skill that can put you ahead in life regardless of depression. ;-)
At the moment my son is shutying down the world, he doesn t want to pray or meet his psychologist. At the moment, I am clueleas on how to teach him what you hav told me
Thank you for commenting. I haven't heard back how it went for this lady but certainly hope she returns and finds the answers she seeks. They don't deserve to live with that pain emotionally.
@@queenpearl1979 bless you, it's so difficult but never give up. Be there for her every day. She needs to realise this is her journey but she's not alone. Maybe even talk about this video with her, draw the diagram and let her talk about her emotions. If it clicks in any way with her, Google 'Brain Unchained' for more.
Bless you. I hope you're ok. We're not crying now, he's happy, has a good job, and has a family of his own, and everything worked out ok. Thank you for watching. x
2021 was the hardest, darkest time of my life. I was physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually BROKEN. But now I feel genuinely GRATEFUL and BLESSED that I had to go through that phase because GOD has graciously REVEALED Himself to me in miraculous ways. I am fortunate that He allowed me to know Him at a very young age, but this year is SPECIAL because of what WE (yes, GOD and me) have been through last year. He showed me how POWERFUL prayers truly are when I started to focus on WHO HE IS rather than who I am, on WHAT HE CAN DO rather than what I deserve. The experience was MAGICAL. He showed up BIG TIME and assured me that HE is indeed a LISTENING and RESPONDING GOD. Oh how my faith has skyrocketed as a result! Now more than ever, I have very bright HOPE for my future because I personally experienced how RELIABLE God is. And for that I will forever be grateful. GLORY BE TO GOD, MY EVER FAITHFUL FATHER. ♥️♥️♥️ To everyone who's struggling right now, please know that JESUS LOVES YOU. HE DIED FOR YOU. He wants to help you and give you peace. Please surrender your burdens to Him and allow Him to move in your life. "Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges My Name. He will call on Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him." (Psalm 91:14-15) Please hold on to this bible verse because WHATEVER GOD SAYS, HE FULFILLS. ✝️
How and whereto start helping him to do this practise that you said? He was diagnosed asperger whenhe was 7 years old, I guessI wasn t prepared for teenager years. However his psychologist said he has develop himself out of it, bug he experience d a lot of rejections and pain in social life
Due to bullying at school, plus having Asperger's made it difficult for him to make friends, plus other challenges that came with it, leaving him susceptible to depression. Sometimes there is no other reason than chemical imbalance, but usually there is something underlying. Everyone's depression is for different reasons, but the emotions still fall into these same patterns for everyone. Thank you for watching. :-)
I'm sorry that was difficult to follow. It's hard to explain hours worth of info in ten minutes. It's an intro to the concept of teaching emotions with a diagram. The book Brain Unchained is over 140 pages with exercises to work through. Some else told me they watched the talk about five times and learnt something new each time. It's OK to pause and process too. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
as a teen going through depression this really helped to motivate me somewhat
Sorry to hear you are going through depression. I'm glad that you watched and seeking inspiration to keep going. There's more inspiration and information on my channel if you need it. Keep on keeping on. X
@@kayreeve.author thank you! i'll make use of it when i have the time
I am so happy to know that the parents here in comments atleast know that their children is undergoing depression which most parents doesn't even consider as an issue.,most probably quoting the facts like,"There is nothing to be worried in this age","we have passed ur age". & etc..Kudos to the parents in the comment section.Your children can sure overcome their depression if u lend your ears to them,coz more than advice or solutions,they need people to hear their inner screamings which are mostly ignored....
Beautifully said. Thank you for your truly supportive comment. 💖 On reading your comment thoroughly, you are right, there are many parents (and older family members) that will make comments such as "There is nothing to be worried in this age" or "we have passed your age". Those are the 'sticky plaster comments' that will not promote emotional healing. There has to be more emphasis on listening, not just to the words, but to the whole spoken and non-spoken language that puts the message there loud and clear "I'm depressed!" That's why I want to spread the word about understanding emotions and using mentoring to help. Thank you for watching. ;-)
My 18 year old is struggling right now
and I’m willing to fight satan hand to hand just to see him smile. To feel. Anything. 😭😭😭
I can fully appreciate that sentiment, and it felt like I really was fighting him on day's when my son was facing his darkest demons. Keep being there. It's his journey, and no one can travel it for him, but you can be there beside him all the way, helping shine a torch for every step.
Same here with my 17 year old 😔
I cried when I read your words...u r ready 2 fight Satan 2 help your son 😢...yes I have been fighting him 2 through the process and its very slow and very difficult because he is sooo angry and hard 2 get through 2 😢 my hearts breaking and at times I don't know if I'm helping him or not..so the journey continues 😢
@maria elhassan Yes it really feels that way at times, but love and determination always wins. Be gentle on yourself. My son said it was his journey to make, but me being there every day was like shining a torch so he could take a step. Some days he knew he couldn't move forward but that light helped him plan a step the next day. Keep being the light that you are. ✨️
I am 23 and I have Autistic spectrum, anxiety and depression. I often think my parents affect my levels of anxiety and the amount of pressure they put on me. I don't think they are fully to blame and there are multiple factors. Though funnily, my psychotherapy I am currently attending is about building my self-esteem so I am stronger and more resilient to cope with what is thrown my way, as opposed to just not doing anything, because I think that my parents are to blame for my anxiety and I am innocent. By doing this however, I have no control of my happiness, wellbeing and my future which does nothing for my depression. I think sometimes we have to look after ourselves by choosing the outcome that will support our well-being long term, as opposed to just satisfying the demands of our ego at the moment.
Hi Rebecca, I'm so happy to hear that you are reaching a new level of awareness - that your emotional control when left to the care of others, does not resolve your own emotions. Learning from others however has a massive impact when they are not controlling their emotions. Having that support outside the house is crucial when you have so many challenges, and well done for sticking with it. I can sense you will see some amazing changes in yourself from here on.
I have been depressed since I was 13. Now I am 33. This is scary, I realized it a few days ago. Nothing can give me those years back. I have no libido, feel very little happiness. I wish I knew it before that I am ill. For a very long time i thought I was just strange.
Hi Natalia, I am sorry you have gone so long without help but you are still young and have hope. Look at your surroundings, your diet, your past, and start to recognise the things you can change. Get support, and try not to focus on years lost, but on the years ahead. As for being strange, start noting down the reasons you feel strange and reflect on them. You may find answers. I was mid 50’s when I did this and realised I have ADHD. I haven't lost or gained anything except a better understanding of myself. I hope you get that feeling too, in good time. Be patient and kind with your self.
Thank you so much. I needed to hear this, so I can use these techniques with my son. I haven’t and will not give up on him. Let’s stop the Stigma of Mental Challenges.
I have depression and I always pretend to be happy 😔
Sorry to hear you have depression. I suffer it too at times, especially this year. Being around other people can give a sense of happiness that goes again when you're on your own. If you're still feeling depressed around other people, have you reached out for help? There are lots of reasons for depression when it gets that difficult. A professional can help you unpick the jumble of reasons and find a way to rebuild your wellbeing.
I do go to tharpy
Thank you for this video, I’m dealing with my 16 year old now
17 here
I have a 14 year old.
Me too Iam dealing with my daughter 17 years old
I'm sorry to hear you are all having issues with your teenagers, and hope you find the patience you need, and make the connection they need to guide them through.
😢
Wish this lady had more videos
Thank you, that's lovely to hear. 🤗
Me too
@@hanirei-chan1972 she’s on Facebook
She's fake
To think I have depression, I haven’t done anything this big my gosh
There's always a good time to start learning something new. I could have done with all this knowledge 10 years earlier but what mattered was, I chose a point to start learning and it helped. You can too. Change can be good when you make the right changes. 🧡
Wow.. I'm so glad i researched this.
Who said he didn't need an assessment? Why was that accepted? ASD can cause depression. It is a common co-morbidity. A suicidal eight year old is dx'd with ASD?? What was the treatment? None of this makes any sense. I feel for Matt and his mom.
I'm going through my daughters darkest days. How do I use these colours? Please do a class on this more indepth please
So sorry to hear this. Stay strong and nevergive up. You can search for Brain Unchained to find the book. 🧡
All of the best for you both stay strong
Same for me.
@@saniquecooper9434 sorry to hear that. Ot's the most hardest battle in my life. Stay strong Mumma
Hi, I’m a 13 year old girl and I struggle with depression and self harm to say the least, I am so glad there are supportive parents out there!watching this stuff and being generally supportive, I really applaud you for that. Ask her to talk, if she feels uncomfortable maybe hug her and have a coffee or tea and relax, let her know you are there for her and are listening, best thing you can do is listen and not speak. I’d you don’t know what to say after that then don’t say anything,say you are there and you two will get through it together. I know I would love supportive parents like you and just realise she values your opinion and validation of her. If she comes out to you, I beg you please don’t shut her out, it takes so much to come out and she would have gone through a lot. Take time with her, don’t call her crazy or rush her to a counsellor, she might want you close to her to get her through it or might want to be alone. She is not seeking attention or being lazy. Bless you, stay strong I hope you daughter is okay and I hope you and her get through it together
good talk but we need more examples and specifics, what is emotional teaching and how do we do it? specifics pls
Thank you
I wish there was a link to coach us on how to do this with our teen. Please let me know if there is.
The book is available - Brain Unchained on Amazon. Thank you so much for watching and commenting.
thanks for putting in the effort and doing all this for your child, that means a lot to not just him but also others that are finding that some parnets actually care.
I wish they explained more. Anyone know how I can get more information on this. I’m completely lost. Therapist are no help. I’m losing my child.
Seek the one that leaves the 99 and seeks the lost 1's ❤️
I am 16 and come from a financially successful family. i speak for myself but i think i feel less pain in general than a lot of young people do and for that i am very thankful to my responsible parents. i feel that a lot of problems and misery in this world will be avoided if the less fortunate in life do not have kids at all.
Thank you for watching. A lot of pain an misery with teenage depression also comes from rich families. Often in the form of neglect emotionally, through lack of challenge and purpose because everything is provided, and even abuse for many. Depression is not just for the poor. I hope your fortune continues and that you can help others in life find the same luck. Remember when you find your career path, that your success will likely come from helping others with problems they cannot solve themselves. This all falls under emotional awareness - a skill that can put you ahead in life regardless of depression. ;-)
I’m depressed and have everything being poor or rich depression doesn’t have terms and conditions it can happen to anyone
At the moment my son is shutying down the world, he doesn t want to pray or meet his psychologist. At the moment, I am clueleas on how to teach him what you hav told me
Thank you for commenting. I haven't heard back how it went for this lady but certainly hope she returns and finds the answers she seeks. They don't deserve to live with that pain emotionally.
Same here with my 17 yr old… and it’s only getting worst 😢
@@queenpearl1979 bless you, it's so difficult but never give up. Be there for her every day. She needs to realise this is her journey but she's not alone. Maybe even talk about this video with her, draw the diagram and let her talk about her emotions. If it clicks in any way with her, Google 'Brain Unchained' for more.
QueenPearl I’m in the same situation 😩
Great talk….but where’s the follow up? How do you actually use this tool????
Thank you. Search for Brain Unchained, the book has the tools needed.
Amazing woman
I cried hard
Bless you. I hope you're ok. We're not crying now, he's happy, has a good job, and has a family of his own, and everything worked out ok. Thank you for watching. x
@@kayreeve.author The story you open up with us extremely heart wrenching. I’m glad that things are better for you and your family now.
Thank you 💛
Please tell me how I can start helping him while he ie now shutting the world out
The video is good but incomplete. How can someone use the colours ???
Hi, you can learn more by following my channel. Thank you for watching, and asking the question.
How to do that?
This is why the world is in urgent need of the real Yoga...not flexing, churning body.
Peace with Jesus ❤️
2021 was the hardest, darkest time of my life. I was physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually BROKEN. But now I feel genuinely GRATEFUL and BLESSED that I had to go through that phase because GOD has graciously REVEALED Himself to me in miraculous ways. I am fortunate that He allowed me to know Him at a very young age, but this year is SPECIAL because of what WE (yes, GOD and me) have been through last year. He showed me how POWERFUL prayers truly are when I started to focus on WHO HE IS rather than who I am, on WHAT HE CAN DO rather than what I deserve. The experience was MAGICAL. He showed up BIG TIME and assured me that HE is indeed a LISTENING and RESPONDING GOD. Oh how my faith has skyrocketed as a result! Now more than ever, I have very bright HOPE for my future because I personally experienced how RELIABLE God is. And for that I will forever be grateful. GLORY BE TO GOD, MY EVER FAITHFUL FATHER. ♥️♥️♥️
To everyone who's struggling right now, please know that JESUS LOVES YOU. HE DIED FOR YOU. He wants to help you and give you peace. Please surrender your burdens to Him and allow Him to move in your life.
"Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges My Name. He will call on Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him." (Psalm 91:14-15)
Please hold on to this bible verse because WHATEVER GOD SAYS, HE FULFILLS. ✝️
what a pathetic and lousy god u have
Praying for those that need the Lord Jesus’s comfort. Salvation is a free gift. God bless.
A 17 years old boy from China
I'm in depression since long
Tired of rejection:(
How and whereto start helping him to do this practise that you said? He was diagnosed asperger whenhe was 7 years old, I guessI wasn t prepared for teenager years. However his psychologist said he has develop himself out of it, bug he experience d a lot of rejections and pain in social life
Why was he depressed?
Due to bullying at school, plus having Asperger's made it difficult for him to make friends, plus other challenges that came with it, leaving him susceptible to depression. Sometimes there is no other reason than chemical imbalance, but usually there is something underlying. Everyone's depression is for different reasons, but the emotions still fall into these same patterns for everyone. Thank you for watching. :-)
Even abused kids in care.....? Nah didn't think so!!!
Who searched their mood and ended up here?
😞
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Not one bit of guidance or tools to use you lost me only thing I herd was dont give them quotes 😅
I'm sorry that was difficult to follow. It's hard to explain hours worth of info in ten minutes. It's an intro to the concept of teaching emotions with a diagram. The book Brain Unchained is over 140 pages with exercises to work through. Some else told me they watched the talk about five times and learnt something new each time. It's OK to pause and process too. I hope you find the answers you are looking for.
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