Christian Dating, Traditional Men & Future of Relationships with Dee-1

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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated  หลายเดือนก่อน

    👉DATING CARDS: hi.hardlyinitiated.com/datingcards

  • @hubertreediii9306
    @hubertreediii9306 ปีที่แล้ว +916

    I’m not more pro black than I am pro God. The realest statement!!!! Much respect to Dee-1 !!!!

    • @politicsreligionshow
      @politicsreligionshow ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Facts. That echos my worldview and one of a couple reasons the Black delegation don’t want me at the cookout. 😂

    • @thejazzylife1180
      @thejazzylife1180 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@politicsreligionshow I’m not invited either because I have the same mindset! 😂

    • @jnm-eh6qt
      @jnm-eh6qt ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@politicsreligionshowditto. I recently had this conversation with a friend who ironically has an M.Div. Even she couldn't fathom the idea of being a Christian first. She looked at me like having a biblical worldview is a foreign concept!

    • @mrslemard
      @mrslemard ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what I felt, too.

    • @angievillegas6294
      @angievillegas6294 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

  • @Christian80806
    @Christian80806 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    So glad Christian men are finally getting time on secular podcasts & influencing others 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Journey2sanctification
      @Journey2sanctification ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Alpha_apex
      @Alpha_apex 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Even though i know this is going to come off as an attack, just know its not. But i want to say it direct.....are you also under the comments of the women podcasts selling their bodies and souls requesting for better female representation? Because the women love to come to male sections telling men they need more men like this. But i rarely see women holding other women accountable for the disgusting behavior they are displaying today.

    • @monicaallmond2606
      @monicaallmond2606 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amen!

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    "I'm looking at Black women and don't see trauma, but I see my Mama. And that's a Black Queen right there."~Dee1. Thank you for paying tribute to Black women when many in society have shown so much harsh talk and harm. Blessings to you Dee1 for your integrity and honesty in this interview.

  • @melodieb19
    @melodieb19 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    When you have no relationship with God, not only do you lack accountability, but it causes you to become lawless!!!! We need a part 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7 with D1!!!!

    • @monaedawson4523
      @monaedawson4523 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I completely agree whole heartedly 💞🙏🏾

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ❤ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!!🥰

    • @debraafriday
      @debraafriday ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This young man is the truth. He needs to go viral over and over. This is the message that will save our community…if people are willing to listen.

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen 🙏

  • @Saywatnah
    @Saywatnah ปีที่แล้ว +566

    Lately everybody that's been on here is a Christian. I love it!! More positive role models!!!

    • @gracious2gf
      @gracious2gf ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Agreed! I'm here for it. I'm becoming a big fan of Hardly Initiated 🙏🏾

    • @noelanderson7204
      @noelanderson7204 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Yes!!!!! Come on for the believers!!! So many people think we “boring” BUT look how the Lord is using them all to impart knowledge and wisdom! All while still allowing everyone to be themselves and still be honest about the Word and how you can apply it practically. I’m so happy!!!

    • @shondasingletary6584
      @shondasingletary6584 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Right I’m definitely here for it ❤❤❤

    • @travis_km
      @travis_km ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That part…… i hope it opens people’s eyes to see Jesus for Him and not for what people say. For anyone who sees this, pease look into who Jesus is and not continue to go off of hear say. God is Good. 🤲🏾

    • @meenameena-dd2zy
      @meenameena-dd2zy ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I noticed that too ( no complaints, I love it).

  • @neiketajohnson1350
    @neiketajohnson1350 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Key phrases:
    1. How broken are we as a people…
    2. It’s a sin problem not a skin problem.

    • @memp9786
      @memp9786 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @peachheart08
      @peachheart08 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely the biggest problem. I felt that.

  • @kevobuilds
    @kevobuilds ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Dee-1 keeps it so real. Not pressuring anyone to think a certain way.. just a super solid, well thought out dude. This was a dope convo.

  • @BriMyselfandGod
    @BriMyselfandGod ปีที่แล้ว +191

    As a young Black Christian woman this interview convicted me to always put glorifying God first even if it goes against the culture, which has been hard for me. Also spoke to some relational issues relevant to me. Thank you Dee 1 for dropping wisdom!

    • @KKBlessed85
      @KKBlessed85 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I feel the same way. I was like I know who put this video on for me because it just came up. Be Blessed 🙏🏿

    • @Joshua-re3xw
      @Joshua-re3xw ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why would u even want or think to put the culture before God anyway? Nothing should come before him!

    • @MLynn33
      @MLynn33 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is so awesome. I love this for you🙌🏽😊 God is so proud of you🤗 . It’s MORE than WORTH IT to live your life in this way-YOU WON’T REGRET THIS DECISION!🙌🏽🙌🏽 God bless you 🤗

    • @BriMyselfandGod
      @BriMyselfandGod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KKBlessed85🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @BriMyselfandGod
      @BriMyselfandGod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Joshua-re3xw everyone’s struggle is different and I’m not inclined to explain mine to you. if you don’t yet it just keep scrolling.

  • @myabaskin6622
    @myabaskin6622 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My husband always says I'm a Christian before I'm black! ❤

  • @joyceparker5626
    @joyceparker5626 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    This has been such a heartwarming discussion. Dee-1 is all that. I’m 61 and it’s so refreshing to listen to this young Christian brother. I wish we could clone him.

    • @sherrynelson365
      @sherrynelson365 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes amen

    • @latoinarobicheaux9566
      @latoinarobicheaux9566 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree it's awesome to hear a young black man speak on true relationship.

    • @reddbirdd_
      @reddbirdd_ ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I don’t wish we could clone him, I want him for myself 😅

    • @YieldtoYahweh
      @YieldtoYahweh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What a beautiful interview Dee-1 was spot on and the q & a was on point! Thank God! Came on my 33rd b day, what a surprise:)

    • @wanitawilliams5666
      @wanitawilliams5666 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love this platform! Real tuff, but much needed conversation so many woman,has laid down their value and worth,or don’t know it. And it’s sad! I love love when men speak real and truth it’s a different voice when they speak and when they take their rightful place as men it save lives ❤keep up the good platforms and work black men this was great good 👍🏾

  • @_COLETTE
    @_COLETTE ปีที่แล้ว +84

    As a Christian Black woman I approve this message. Well said brother. Keep doing the work 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @biggmonie
    @biggmonie ปีที่แล้ว +125

    "I'm not looking at a black woman looking at trauma, I'm looking at black woman seeing my mama, seeing a queen!" BARS.

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big bar! It will sell naturally when he said it.

    • @bigyella3666
      @bigyella3666 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nicolejroby
    @nicolejroby ปีที่แล้ว +120

    A FINE black man with a BRAIN!! Y’all just got a new subscriber. I LOVED this conversation. I have so much hope that beautiful black Christian men with brilliant brains still exist ♥️ thank you LORD 🙌🏾

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂. I know. I all in with this Fine Black Man with A brain 🧠😂

  • @19Hollisterchick90
    @19Hollisterchick90 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I first saw him on the Dear Future Wifey podcast and instantly felt like this is a genuine, beautiful person. He is a very well rounded individual and I really like you guy’s guest selection.

    • @kendrawinchester3704
      @kendrawinchester3704 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That were I first saw him too, he is a humble spirit and trying to do good things in this world.

    • @2Faboosh
      @2Faboosh ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That is where I first saw him too. I tried to find the video again, but couldn’t remember this intelligent young man’s name. Will definitely start listening to his music now.

    • @19Hollisterchick90
      @19Hollisterchick90 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@2Faboosh He makes pretty good music. I remember when I was a kid and Christian rap was corny lol. He has bars.

    • @2Faboosh
      @2Faboosh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@19Hollisterchick90 OMG I just subscribed and he is great. Love his messages. I saw his Paw Paw video over a year ago and didn’t know who he was. I just rewatched after subbing and just now realizing it was him.

    • @candacejimenez3149
      @candacejimenez3149 ปีที่แล้ว

      U single though ??? Lol crazy 💗

  • @LisaBrown-ys6ke
    @LisaBrown-ys6ke ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Very great conversation. I’m a 58 year old woman who has been married for 35 years and I applaud you two for your work!

  • @patricewilliams2998
    @patricewilliams2998 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    That casual dating description you gave is what I've explained to my kids as "falling in love," it's not good at all because there are no intentions and you're living through how you feel from moment to moment. Love has to be very intentional.

  • @casanova7489
    @casanova7489 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Loved this discussion! When the KeKe Palmer thing was discussed and her boyfriend's actions were passive-aggressive, it was described as "real feminine". I think it's important that we stop claiming negative actions/traits over womanhood. As a woman, being passive-aggressive is not a part of my feminity. Nor should it be apart of any woman's feminity. Words have meaning.

    • @ctmckin
      @ctmckin ปีที่แล้ว +4

      👏🏽👏🏽

    • @Journey2sanctification
      @Journey2sanctification ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾this is part of why some men are afraid to be transparent. I dislike all of the things, even how they have to eat certain things a certain way. Our culture needs an entire face lift spiritually! I stand with you on this!!!!

    • @drea0795
      @drea0795 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly!! 👏🏾👏🏾 It’s childish/immature, NOT feminine. Thank you for that correction. 🙏🏾

    • @Himawariyoung
      @Himawariyoung 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I hear you but feminine does not equal woman and vice verse. Femininity is a dominant characteristic of a woman in most cases but she will also express masculinity. It is feminine to be passive aggressive. It is masculine to be overtly aggressive. Either way, it wouldn’t be a good trait for a woman to be aggressive in either form.

    • @zerospecs2331
      @zerospecs2331 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I really love how you articulated this so well, because I agree. The moment he said it was feminine- my face: 🤨🧐🤨. And if anything, it felt like a backhanded insult towards the boyfriend, similar to “You throw like a girl”- which is then, still an insult towards women in turn. He could have said it was passive aggressive- and left it at that. Like you said, passive-aggressive is not something I embrace in my behavior, character, or energy. And I didn’t like how he classified it as that.

  • @selah_j_19
    @selah_j_19 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How can Anyone Not like Dee-1... ? He's Prolific Period . Much Love Great Show Guys 🎓

  • @legacyfamily1793
    @legacyfamily1793 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Great interview. I’m a Christian who’s been divorced and currently engaged. My outlook on marriage and purpose is so different now. Dee1 articulated my faith and even addressed my concerns. Loved this!!

    • @dreya9667
      @dreya9667 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This gives me hope. Previously divorced and hoping for better things

  • @myytcommentaccount6574
    @myytcommentaccount6574 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    It’s not a skin problem, it’s a sin problem! 🙌🏽🙌🏽. Boy, this whole interview was SO GOOD!!

    • @Ginger_Spicy_Candor
      @Ginger_Spicy_Candor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      an entire song from christian rapper Lacy B actually talked about this being a sin problem, great song if you can find it

  • @BodhiDivine
    @BodhiDivine 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dee-1. (1st time hearing of him) is the direction we need to go as far as our consciousness as a culture. Just imagined if half our men had this consciousness. We’d truly be unstoppable.

  • @mickiig6271
    @mickiig6271 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    He has to be one of the best guest and speaker I have ever seen on this platform. I had never heard of him but now im streaming all of his music. Also, I see tremendous growth in Ryan and Tysean. I am more confident now to tell others about this podcast because of the substance I see and thr depth of the conversations. Keep up the great work gentlemen.

    • @meenameena-dd2zy
      @meenameena-dd2zy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ME TOOOOOOOOOO!

    • @anitraalexander617
      @anitraalexander617 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree with you 100% on this one!!! 💯🎯

    • @susandodson1234
      @susandodson1234 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Um they still not ready lol 😂

    • @desirehunter9163
      @desirehunter9163 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@susandodson1234 LOL! Definitely not yet!😂 Buuuttt...I definitely see their growth and maturity in this last year.

    • @desirehunter9163
      @desirehunter9163 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The lighter one- not sure of his name (with the thick beard) is definitely a thinker and I can see how the conversations cause him to do deep reflection. Hats off to both of these young Men! When they do finally marry and settle down they are going to be WONDERFUL husband's and fathers.

  • @JRenee-se5yd
    @JRenee-se5yd ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Dee-1 spoke 100% truth when he said men need to be sure that they marry women that admires, looks up to him and respects him because she needs to be confident in his leadership.💪🏽💙💪🏽

  • @apriljones1329
    @apriljones1329 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "Just give ya life to God, man... STOP PLAYING!!" I felt that.

  • @JaiClaire880
    @JaiClaire880 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    This is my favorite interview on here. ❤ I can listen to Dee-1 teach all day.

    • @HardlyInitiated
      @HardlyInitiated  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thanks for listening. We appreciate you

    • @antJaxStar
      @antJaxStar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I Shared This and am bout to tag ALL MY 5,OOO followers!
      We ALL NEED This Knowledge from this Young King👑❤

  • @KKitaM
    @KKitaM ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I LOVE how EVERYTHING Dee-1 addressed was ALWAYS directed back to God and His Word! ❤

  • @amandaharris6089
    @amandaharris6089 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Thank you for this discussion because this is what I've been saying for years. I have been single for 10 years and am a woman of God. I've been say8ng for years that to submit to an ungodly man would be me turning away from Jesus and I can't. I will sit here and wait on the Lord ❤❤ God bless you Dee!

    • @davenapayne7276
      @davenapayne7276 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @tanakahbirry9389
      @tanakahbirry9389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hallelujah to that!!

    • @chanellaellis2477
      @chanellaellis2477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤This has been my story too. But while I wait I worship. God is too faithful for one night of pleasure.

  • @karengeorge9600
    @karengeorge9600 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I like this guy....They are actually listening to him. He makes God and the Bible come to life for young men/women.

  • @ikeyangel
    @ikeyangel ปีที่แล้ว +25

    This man is definitely my kind🙌🏾🙏🏾 God made things so simple. The way he even broke the racism down! That’s how I see things now after strengthening my relationship with God🙏🏾 this is a wealthy conversation!

    • @ikeyangel
      @ikeyangel ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow I went through the same thing with the synergy and spirituality during a courting. Plenty of things in common however he wasn’t being led by Gods direction which made me feel completely unsafe🙏🏾 I’ve experienced so much spiritual warfare in relationships that at this point it’s a 50/50 chance I’m not willing to take🙌🏾🙏🏾 and after I stated that MUCH MORE was revealed. I was just thankful for discernment and a strong mind at that point 🙏🏾

  • @ambersanders3254
    @ambersanders3254 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This was a really good and why we must continue to have these critical convos in our communities. Us single, whole and healed Women of God greatly welcome and appreciate having more of these conversations ❤️🔥🙏🏾💯

  • @dustincurtis8626
    @dustincurtis8626 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Dee1 been on this...God really shining The Light through and on him in this season✝️ Blessup Deezy

  • @leanetta3673
    @leanetta3673 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Tysean and Ryan,I am so impressed with your honesty and allowing the world to watch, learn and engage with incredible men and women who teach, admonish and encourage us to do better, be better and move to ever higher ground. I'm over 60 and am blessed by you both, your podcast, your guests and the honor of seeing you two becoming greater men due to your choices in who and what you put forth! God is oh so fabulous.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @twonac5058
    @twonac5058 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    That family structure means so much!
    That’s what the black community is missing drastically!

    • @chosen2healbygod278
      @chosen2healbygod278 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely 💯 and let’s take it a step further and say “A godly family structure” (fearing God together in a respectful and healthy manner and not in a worldly type of fear). 💯

  • @zulenastaton3132
    @zulenastaton3132 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dee-1 was a speaker at the American School Counselor Association (ASCA) conference! I thank Dee-1 for his inspirational message of JOY, HEALING, and LOVE! Continue to have your ray of light shine and inspire others! Blessings!🙏🏾❤️☀️

  • @shann8230
    @shann8230 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Today this podcast made me experience what I can only describe as a miracle/sign from God. My boyfriend and I started dating last November we've been together about 11 months but we have been doing long distance (UK to Canada) for the past 4ish months, obviously that comes with its challenges. We have been managing and I would say our relationship is in a good place, we were on the phone this morning and I was telling him about a journal entry I wrote on Feb 7 2023 titled 'trust in God' I read the entry to him because it was about how I felt a push to move to the UK from God which was scary given me and my boyfriend had just started dating, I wrote down that I was scared but I was going to 'live by faith'. I read the whole entry out to my boyfriend on the phone this morning, we had a convo about it and talked about how we are supposed to be together and then went about our days. I decide to turn on this podcast as I had seen Dee-1 on The Basement podcast and like his vibe and wanted to hear more, I had never listened to Hardly Initiated before. As I am listening to this podcast while I work, it gets to 29:00 and Tysean says or 'Shanice and Brandon' I drop everything I'm doing .... my name is Shanice and my boyfriend's name is Brandon, I can't help but think that was a sign from God I have been smiling ever since :) thankful for this podcast and for Dee-1 as a guest!!

    • @ladyzinada5341
      @ladyzinada5341 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      WOW!!! Confirmation. 😮

  • @allisoncole5886
    @allisoncole5886 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Dee1 just preached a whole sermon. I enjoyed this!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS
    @LIFEOFMARIAHANDBOSS ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This man is speaking straight facts. Need more of this please. Bring him back on the show

  • @teejay504
    @teejay504 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Dee-1 is 💯. This conversation is timely and necessary. God bless him and thank you for having him on your podcast. 🙏🏽⚜

  • @Francene113
    @Francene113 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have never heard of Dee-1, however I really like him. Sending blessings your way, Sir. 🙏🏼🙌🏼💖✨✨✨

  • @blaynemason
    @blaynemason ปีที่แล้ว +33

    This conversation was so confirming for me. Stay the course and God will navigate me to new spaces.

    • @sjg5994
      @sjg5994 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He will.

  • @CamilleEssick
    @CamilleEssick ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every time I hear him speak, I respect him more and more. Dee 1 is such a solid man and speaks from such a matured and healthy space. Love him. Please bring him back. 👑💕

  • @driven24djackson
    @driven24djackson ปีที่แล้ว +246

    Great deep convo. I like how the guys really opened up on what they really need to work on.

    • @SharmaineCook
      @SharmaineCook ปีที่แล้ว +8

      As a woman of the one and only TRUE LIVING God I absolutely love and enjoyed this! This gives me hope in godly men. Now, I wonder if there's any out there in my age range? Great job gentlemen, great job, and I will be sharing. High five to you all.

    • @driven24djackson
      @driven24djackson ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@SharmaineCook it's someone out there for everybody sista.. Let him find you

    • @patriciawimbush9762
      @patriciawimbush9762 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm In An Agreement "The Devil Can Bless You Too" That's The Answer I Was Searching For. 🙏 ❤️ 🙏.. Thank You!!!

  • @Journey2sanctification
    @Journey2sanctification ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Man, I love this!!!!! There's something about hearing it from a Godly man that hits different than hearing it from a woman. In my personal experience I grew up seeing the women and the women ONLY in my family study the Word, pray, go to church etc. It feels great seeing men worship and serve God openly, even better is seeing them share the gospel BOLDLY!!!!!

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “Righteousness and Ratchetness do not go together.
    I’m not more pro-black than I am pro-God. “
    YES !

    • @HardlyInitiated
      @HardlyInitiated  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We want you on next @breenylee

    • @876tisha
      @876tisha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesss she must come on asap

  • @meenameena-dd2zy
    @meenameena-dd2zy ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This episode was another hit run. I never knew about Dee-1 until today. But now I am totally I'm love with his brilliant mind/ unapologetic walk with God/his rap flow/ his lyrical content/ his ability to grind/and he's not bad on the eyes either. DEE-1 you just got your self a new fan. God bless you always.

  • @donnascott1654
    @donnascott1654 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I work in healthcare and see a lot of them come in. They lived their young lives running up and down with many women and then they got older, they are alone. Sometimes ended up married to someone who didn’t love them and they regret when it’s too late.

  • @jas8471
    @jas8471 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love listening to people who help me elevate my spirituality.

  • @all4god116
    @all4god116 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is deep!!! I absolutely love how Dee thinks! I'm definitely rocking with Dee when it comes to dating. Intentional or not

  • @keoshastoolbox3797
    @keoshastoolbox3797 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    People like this is hard to come by. Especially to have in your life. It hurts that we have to look at podcasts from afar wishing and praying to have a man as such. When there should be plenty to go around. So many are deserving and hopeless at the same time. Thank you Gentlemen for this timeless wisdom. You are appreciated 💜

  • @monicaallmond2606
    @monicaallmond2606 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dee-1 speaking God's TRUTH! He is consistent, looking at old videos been "screaming" God's TRUTH for years. May God send you a beautiful, righteous wife to work beside you to spread God's Word!

  • @dericaj
    @dericaj ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Refreshing to see a man who genuinely lives by the Word. This was a blessing.

  • @Laurenmarie144
    @Laurenmarie144 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so proud of this young man of God!! Dee 1 set the record straight!! God and Jesus is his North Star!! Preach

  • @YoKinah
    @YoKinah ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Christian, single, black woman in my 30s here 🙋🏽‍♀️ I really appreciate you guys bringing this man on the podcast. I don’t agree with him on everything, but I really appreciate Mr. Dee-1’s lens. I appreciate what he’s brought to the convo! More convos like this and I might subscribe 😂 wishing you gentlemen the best 🙏🏽❤️

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same. I didn't listen to the whole thing but did they ever define a "traditional" man other than him being monogamous?
      Also, Dee's definition of "leading" in that he has to be "looked up to" is a bit immature. I'm at least a decade older than him so I've SEEN some things and life is LONG. When you're all up in each other's lives, you're going to see the less than honorable aspects of one another. You're going to see the weaknesses and you need to RESPECT one another. Respect is in spite of the other person's weakenesses.

  • @tanishahatchet7883
    @tanishahatchet7883 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I respect him so much! He’s in an industry surrounded by the ppl he talks about, standing on the word of God and are calling these ppl out! So attractive!! I love to see black men coming to God! 🙌🏾🔥🙏🏾

  • @scheherazadewherry1410
    @scheherazadewherry1410 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Our Christian Men are out here REPRESENTING❤❤❤❤Big Ups to Yall.... I totally love this....What Up D!!--Great words of wisdom....Keep going Hard✌✌💖

  • @daphenernorwood
    @daphenernorwood ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dee1 is spiritually mature and a voice the culture needs. This is one of the best shows. I really appreciate what you, @HardlyInitiated are doing. Love your content. May God bless and protect all of you.

  • @Lady88
    @Lady88 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please don’t wait too long to invite him back. The conversation was excellent we need more of this.

  • @MargaretFlack
    @MargaretFlack 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The fact that this man does not compromise is what I love about him. I get it.

  • @LowkeySwin
    @LowkeySwin ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dee1 a gem in our generation! One of the realest💯

  • @brittanythomas7217
    @brittanythomas7217 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I almost didn’t watch this. I’m so glad I did. This episode is the one

  • @bitznpieces330
    @bitznpieces330 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We need a series that never ends !! Spreading knowledge to Society!

  • @carolgeorge7896
    @carolgeorge7896 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A friend posted this video on a page that I am a part of. I have never heard of any of these guys but when I say, that this is one of the best podcasts that I've heard in a long time. I'm not even joking. I couldn't put my phone down. I was holding on to every word. Dee1 spoke so much truth. Also I love the NOLA accent😂

  • @theoracle888
    @theoracle888 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    It's a glorious thing to be able to witness young black men be transparent, authentically themselves in this season of their respective lives and so open about their thoughts, struggles, etc.
    Excellent dialogue 💓💓💓

  • @yolandafrederick9760
    @yolandafrederick9760 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When is Dee1 coming back. Wow, what a bright mind and love his reverance he has for God and unapologetic. I enjoyed this podcast very much. Thank you guys.❤

  • @angelaherrera9570
    @angelaherrera9570 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And THIS is why I love Dee-1!!!

  • @cb17visionz
    @cb17visionz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this sooo much!!! this is where discernment is so important!

  • @SkkyyC
    @SkkyyC ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It’s been 10yrs now since I decided to work on my healing and then be intentional when I’m ready. I am still single and that is what I am. No casual nothing because my focus is on God. I thank God for also allowing me to get over this narrative that you have to have sex and going 10yrs without is a problem. People say “girl, you look sane and pretty but are not having sex, then you must be trying to control a man?” How that computes, I really don’t understand. I just wish people would stop mocking people that choose celibacy. We don’t say we’re better than others, we just don’t want to go thru the ungodly motion that most people already in it are not even happy or healed.

    • @CarrieFinley-g1m
      @CarrieFinley-g1m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This!!!! I want to be able to focus on a meaningful relationship, sex clouds judgment and can wait! I’m meeting men of the church that feel like I’m trying to control the relationship and that’s not the case. I just want a REAL relationship.

    • @sjg5994
      @sjg5994 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@user-ih6vg4rr9r Those men aren't really spiritually mature then.

    • @donnawashington5834
      @donnawashington5834 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Once one learns about energy. Who wants to become 1 with unhealed energy.
      It be like...keep that energy to yourself. N let me help u become 1 with God.

  • @Victoria-qk3mu
    @Victoria-qk3mu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome Interview
    This man has a powerful calling on his life
    Shalom Israel

  • @maureenfrancis1002
    @maureenfrancis1002 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    SO PROUD OF MY BLACK KINGS .
    NUFF RESPECT TO YOU ALL.
    GREAT PODCAST.⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @LesleeAnn
    @LesleeAnn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you guys for bringing this to attention 👏. Modesty is quickly phasing out and it’s heartbreaking. Ladies, be an example for your children and put God first.

  • @kimchikimchi1251
    @kimchikimchi1251 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was fantastic. Right up there with the Judge Lynn toler interview! Definitely bring this brother back!

  • @noelleboulton5313
    @noelleboulton5313 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Amazing, beautiful and smart black man. We need more out there like him to follow the North Star 🌟 ❤🙏

  • @Apollo-jy1jw
    @Apollo-jy1jw ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I love this podcast! You to brothers are an inspriration! What’s even more impressive is us as viewers and members watching both of you grow and learn in real time on each episode! It’s dope because as a member I feel like I’m learning and maturing right along with you both! This is only the beginning fellas! Y’all goin to the moon with this platform, and im here for the ride! Continued success and blessings to you both! 💪🏾🙏🏽

  • @Mari-Ama7
    @Mari-Ama7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Many times I've had to question "what is appropriate behavior?" So with seeing & hearing inappropriate behaviors im certain children are confused too. I could listen to Dee1 all day. Amen we have to counteract what the devil does and stop being lazy! I have to start thinking & serving the way Christ did!!!

  • @jailowe30
    @jailowe30 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This conversation was phenomenal!!!!
    This is why I keep coming back.
    I was not familiar with Dee-1 prior to seeing him on your platform. And I have to be 💯I wasn’t going to watch this one based on how he looks. I feel horrible saying it but y’all tell truths on your platform so I wanted to be honest and say I thought that perhaps the information he would be sharing would not be as valuable…… but boy was I wrong. Dee-1 just made a new fan. I loved what he had to say, and his perspective…..even if I don’t agree with everything he says….. I like the conversation being had so Thank You again for amazing content and introducing me to new teachers 💗.

  • @healthyinteractions9960
    @healthyinteractions9960 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally! A non-compromising believer of God. Bless you man of God 🎉

  • @tashimairving8118
    @tashimairving8118 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    More of this gentlemen!!! Men who truly represent Jesus not just lip service…The knowledge and spiritual WISDOM he just dropped I have not really seen yet on many podcasts through this hip hop black culture lens. I pray Gods covering over him as he does what he has been chosen to do and may more like minded men and women come forth to speak Jesus’s Biblical truth with an understanding that we are IN this world BUT we are NOT of this world. Great content❤️❤️❤️

  • @TheNakaylaJhane
    @TheNakaylaJhane 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Just now seeing this interview and it was absolutely 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nikkirowland
    @nikkirowland ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “The Bible does not make room for righteousness and ratchetednes”. Mic drop!!!! 🎤🎤🎤

  • @shawnlivers2757
    @shawnlivers2757 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I deeply appreciate this conversation. My prayer is that those who may benefit from hearing this find it.

  • @jasalyncade5151
    @jasalyncade5151 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So much content in this episode.. Accountability, Transparency, depth, God, idolatry and self-reflection ❤❤ Grateful to have watched. DEE-1, I appreciate your authenticity!

  • @natashadehoyos5805
    @natashadehoyos5805 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Finally a Real Man speaking up! Bless you brother! And praise Jesus the king 👑 of Kings!!!! 🙌🏼🙏🏼❤️👑🔥🕊️

  • @chayilevents7979
    @chayilevents7979 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am so proud of this man, he is standing 10 toes down for the truth of the Gospel.👏👏

  • @chrissycollins6714
    @chrissycollins6714 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This conversation was EVERYTHIIIIING!!!!

  • @NickiDivine69
    @NickiDivine69 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent episode! NOTIFICATIONS ON 🔔 for the episode he demanding to be ON to dismantle the "spiritual" & "chakras" #WeLoveTheBlackManToo 👑

  • @LadySims23
    @LadySims23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    @36:00 the converstaion about the relationship between men and women in relations to standards. I love what was said, we just forgot to mention marriage. Husbands and wives, the conversation changes when we just living in sin. Sin is sin dont matter how we want to dress it up: the sancity of marriage is the standard Christ gave us. Not just shacking up.

  • @shanimaker6281
    @shanimaker6281 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    This is a beautiful conversation that isn’t talked about enough ❤Thank you for this ❤

  • @moyneal1065
    @moyneal1065 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I totally agree with everything D1 said. That’s exactly what I’ve been saying.

  • @hey2930
    @hey2930 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    God sent me a Godly man. I love this man so much that’s my baby. Getting married after 5 months yes we are one of those.

  • @kellymichelleofficial911
    @kellymichelleofficial911 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was the realest one I’ve heard so far. Awesome.

  • @mistycruz1402
    @mistycruz1402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    On the topic of preferences: I’m Latina. My ex husband is black. When I married my ex, my great aunt told me I was ruining my race, which made me so disappointed. The only preference I have for my daughter is that her husband loves Jesus more than anything. I don’t care if he’s Hispanic, Black, White, Asian, polka dotted or purple. Race wont mean anything when we make it home.

  • @Iamcrystalelizabeth
    @Iamcrystalelizabeth ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Kingdom is winning! A much-needed conversation

  • @jamesh8093
    @jamesh8093 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is the type of conviction one should have when talking about the most high. I appreciate this episode. To many nuggets drop here to list. God bless you brothers.

  • @RawNewsNoFluff
    @RawNewsNoFluff ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BEST INTERVIEW to date! I'm a huge fan of his mind. BROTHA!!! Come on!!!

  • @tbone7509
    @tbone7509 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    If I could put one million likes on this, I would. Excellent broadcast! I had never heard of Dee 1 until now. Who knew a liberated pharmacist named Bobby Price would lead me to subscribe to Hardly Initiated, and now Dee 1. The algorithm working today. Much respect to you all for bringing a little word, wisdom, brilliance and inspiration ✨️ ❤️

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GOD BLESS ALL YALL YOUNG MEN!!

  • @jalesiagarrison5251
    @jalesiagarrison5251 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He came to my church new prospect in Cincinnati Ohio he so inspiring , I love seeing him staying faithful to the Lord very amazing. Thank y'all for continuing bringing greatness on this show.

  • @karenbthompson2706
    @karenbthompson2706 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This young man reminds me of John the Baptist, forerunner of Christ in the Rap/Hip Hop community. Keep him covered in prayer. Anointed man of God embodying his calling🙏🏽🙌🏾❤️

  • @destaneeharris4791
    @destaneeharris4791 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was so good!! I wish more people would stop idealizing celebrities. Can’t be ratchet and righteous whewwww 😮‍💨