LEXI ALLEN Married The Wrong Man Out of Loneliness | How Do You Deal With Loneliness? | EP. 814

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  • @praizeyah
    @praizeyah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +751

    Lexi is NUTS! She's not supposed to be this funny talking about grief!😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tech2impact2wealth
      @tech2impact2wealth 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Like for real 😂😂😂😂 JOY RAIDATES OFF OF HER ❤❤❤

    • @giiemm2633
      @giiemm2633 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im crying tears laughing

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I had to pause the video because I just can't

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      #MikesPlace

    • @sonyawimpye4464
      @sonyawimpye4464 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HILARIOUS!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Why??!!!!🤣🤣🤣.

  • @melbarton2966
    @melbarton2966 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +333

    I know exactly what she's talking about. I married for the first-time at 52 years old. Divorced 6 months later due to physical & emotional abuse. I didn't even like him... real talk. Loneliness & desperation leads to disaster. 4 years later, I am healed & happy, truly blessed as a single...Serving God.

    • @lynorasholistic-healing8317
      @lynorasholistic-healing8317 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm glad for you! -- from California ❤

    • @arelbywrites
      @arelbywrites 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for this!❤🙏🏾

    • @mz.keesha577
      @mz.keesha577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @melbarton2966 I get it, I married a friend of 13yrs at 36, experienced abuse physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially…divorced and now in a custody battle but God has healed me and I facilitate classes for women who experienced the same. I pray that someday you’ll tell your story of how you made it through and out…blessing

    • @TFunds24
      @TFunds24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mz.keesha577 🙏🙏

    • @sheambitious29lachelle17
      @sheambitious29lachelle17 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is ABSOLUTELY TRUTH!

  • @marlenmorrow
    @marlenmorrow 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +509

    She healed. The ungodly spirits were attracted to her brokenness , now she's healed, and they're scared to approach.

    • @marvinandjosh1
      @marvinandjosh1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Exactly. This

    • @melodybenites1861
      @melodybenites1861 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      THAT’S RIGHT! There are still some broken people out there that are lusting over Lexi’s physical attributes. They are not mentally and spiritually mature. They must have some intellectual depth to manage a good relationship with her.

    • @shannangha3063
      @shannangha3063 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You right, when y’all step out it should be together.. she has an amazing voice maybe she could sing the female version of your song.. glad your healed queen and praying a good man finds you

    • @BEAUTIFUL1908
      @BEAUTIFUL1908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Precisely

    • @terrencesmith6329
      @terrencesmith6329 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This a real one …. Def something to know about life and Love

  • @sarahjackson1897
    @sarahjackson1897 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    There is nothing more lonely than being with someone who isn't in love with you. Men and women please let the Lord orchestrate the relationship He has for you when He knows you are ready. ❤ 🙏

  • @meenameena-dd2zy
    @meenameena-dd2zy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +393

    Lexi is literally a one woman party.......She is so entertaining. She is truly God's precious jewel to humanity. May her latter be greater than her former. IJN Amen

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      A one woman party. Wow. ❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏🏾

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haggai 2:9 one of my favorites✨

    • @papaadwoa569
      @papaadwoa569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Truest statement she carried this thing in her own and he cracking up

    • @papaadwoa569
      @papaadwoa569 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lexitelevisionlex we love you your longevity speaks for u❤️❤️❤️❤️ I laughed so hard

  • @aprilmurdock36
    @aprilmurdock36 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    The DMs slowed down bc she's HEALED. The abundance in calls/DMs is the attraction to the brokenness.

  • @georgenep1082
    @georgenep1082 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +790

    Loneliness allowed me to go back to a person that disrespected me on so many occasions expecting different results.

    • @beneiseoleinmheart5614
      @beneiseoleinmheart5614 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      You are worthy of love. Don't accept less.

    • @wonderwoman122
      @wonderwoman122 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same girl same

    • @brandonplays702
      @brandonplays702 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same

    • @daichelbutler
      @daichelbutler 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @nathifablanchfield8925
      @nathifablanchfield8925 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Same thing happened to me BUT GOD! Turned my mess into a blessing and I’m free from that toxic relationship and bondage. I now pray for his salvation 🙏🏾. Praying you are healed or healing yourself ❤️🙏🏾

  • @gwendolynlewis5655
    @gwendolynlewis5655 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Being in relationships with men that I never wanted to be with because of loneliness is definitely a REAL PLACE 💯

  • @j.rogers1911
    @j.rogers1911 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +552

    I want to add light to her experience..If she counts the time they were just friends, God gave her more than 5 years with him. She was his wife for 5 years but she had years and years of friendship with him, which I'm sure added to the devastation. Anndd God likely graced her specifically with the love she had for him to be the one who cared for him in his time of illness.
    Losing a friend is death in itself, so I'm sure it felt like she lost twice. Her memories of him are still so current. She loved him deeply. It's beautiful and sad at the time.

    • @pasquale5485
      @pasquale5485 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Aww Love that? So true❤❤❤

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This is sooooo true.

    • @FarrahParis
      @FarrahParis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      YEEEESSSSSSSS!😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @poeticchar9067
      @poeticchar9067 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Beautifully stated!❤❤❤

    • @carolynanderson1779
      @carolynanderson1779 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree. ❤

  • @adriecol47
    @adriecol47 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    Loneliness can make you make some really bad decisions. I know as a 48 yr old woman. Sometimes you have to stand in that loneliness and endure.

    • @shanrikahairston
      @shanrikahairston 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes ma’am

    • @Cuooer
      @Cuooer 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Enduring………

  • @quichequiche4274
    @quichequiche4274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +275

    After my dad ascended. I didn't know I had checked out either. I thought I was handling things well, too. Until I saw a quick glimpse of myself in a mirror in Target. I heard myself thinking, "Ooo, she's tow up. She looks familiar, tho." And then I realized it was me. The cry I cried!

    • @eunicenwanehiudo3866
      @eunicenwanehiudo3866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That must have been a tough time❤. So sorry for your loss❤❤❤

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@eunicenwanehiudo3866Thank you!!!!! It was so bad. Thank GOD for deliverance. ❤

    • @mickeyyoung472
      @mickeyyoung472 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      😢😢sis ,strength is OTW. I know how you were feeling, because I'm still finding my strength after losing my BF(My Daddy,) 12/21/23. Yeah it was a big time shakeup , and denial at its BEST, cuz I'm a Daddy's girl.. I'M Still trying to look past my grief, cuz my Daddy would want me to be GREAT. I love you sis, and I know victory is OTW❤❤

    • @valenciacaroline3068
      @valenciacaroline3068 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Going through this. Lost my bestie/father last month. Worst pain I've ever felt and this process sucks. 😪

    • @mickeyyoung472
      @mickeyyoung472 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @valenciacaroline3068 sooo sorry 4 ur loss

  • @_cmillie
    @_cmillie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    It’s my worst nightmare to find the love of my life and then lose him. My heart goes out to her. ❤️

    • @latashagarvin2158
      @latashagarvin2158 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This right here! I've been single for 24 years finally have love been going for 7 months. Had 2 surgeries already and never had one, before. Had a set back , and is currently having surgery now. So it scares me, but trusting God to bring him through it I he'll be ok. I don't want to lose him since it's been too long since having love in my life that I never thought I would have. ❤

  • @recoverrenewrestore1
    @recoverrenewrestore1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +314

    “Thick, nasty prayer warrior!!” I am hollering!! Great interview. 💛

    • @visualmovements
      @visualmovements 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Msbabe10
      @Msbabe10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @dollyjanvier
      @dollyjanvier 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @godivabaker6622
      @godivabaker6622 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The funniest part 😂😂😂

    • @delle3955
      @delle3955 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      HI-larious!!!😂😂😂

  • @wendysarinana
    @wendysarinana 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    She definitely doesn’t look like what she’s been through! I can’t help but notice that the people who have been through a lot are also the funniest! They turn pain into laughter 😂

    • @hillaryconsultingservices
      @hillaryconsultingservices 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love her humor and personality.

    • @tonyaharris6593
      @tonyaharris6593 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God does that. It's a beautiful feeling

    • @queenriri9393
      @queenriri9393 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She's 56 and looks 15 years younger than that. She's beautiful.

  • @brianabeck3023
    @brianabeck3023 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Lexi please turn this into a stage play??? I see folks laughing crying and HEALING!! COME ON SIS!! ❤

    • @latoryastringer6508
      @latoryastringer6508 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This👏 the👏 One👏 Sis...👏
      An entire Word...........

  • @Chattingwithsam
    @Chattingwithsam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    I spent my 50th birthday in Montego Bay last year and I loved it! And I did it by myself!

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That's nice to hear you encourage me in my 30 thirtees right now I'll also visit a beach ....in December here in Kenya

    • @lytonyarice1556
      @lytonyarice1556 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I just came back from Montego Bay for the 1st time at 53 yo and it was awesome!!!! I ziplined for the first time I horse back road for the first time I had a massage on the beach at sunrise 🤗 I hope U had an amazing time as well 💛 good for U life is short let’s get to living intentionally 💛

  • @stephaniemelendez5733
    @stephaniemelendez5733 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    She's a whole trip. I love it

  • @Deeamos
    @Deeamos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    “Come out the grave.” My God. That gave me chills. Thank you, Lord for your true servants you’ve given the ability to speak to your people.

    • @ninastar5285
      @ninastar5285 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yes... that word hit the core. God is good

  • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
    @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    Fascinating video, Let's stop taking relationship and family for granted. I have battled depression since my wife left me. I have tried all I can to make her see that I love her with everything I am made of but she has insisted on leaving. This has made me so empty, and I do not know what to do. I can barely function properly at work. I am frustrated and miserable. I really miss her.

    • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
      @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I'm keen on meeting the counsellor you're talking about. What steps should I take?

    • @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic
      @MikeA.Humphries-bx6ic 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you for this information. I have just looked her up on Google. impressive.

    • @tonyasims3150
      @tonyasims3150 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    • @aweforu
      @aweforu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🙏

    • @shervettalyle511
      @shervettalyle511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God Bless You and I’m sorry for your pain

  • @ellechance2344
    @ellechance2344 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    WOOOO DOGGY!!! Abba AINT playin wit me!!! Just this morning I wept acknowledging my sadness and loneliness to Him. He then graciously revealed that it was a cover for the grain of unbelief that kept sprouting in my heart. BUT GOD!!! I confessed! LORD, I believe. HELP MY UNBELIEF!

  • @phatgrl903ify
    @phatgrl903ify 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I've recently lost my husband to cancer, and this really hit home...I'm going thru this right now, LORD give me strength.

  • @RoyalMasterpiece
    @RoyalMasterpiece 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

    When you are lonely and broken, you will settle for not God’s best. Heal yourself with God. Speaking from experience.

    • @kishacarney4467
      @kishacarney4467 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Don’t I know!

    • @RoyalMasterpiece
      @RoyalMasterpiece 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kishacarney4467
      Me, too! ❤

  • @soothingmotivations
    @soothingmotivations 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Lexi is the best friend in my head that I didn't know I needed. Great conversation among believers!

  • @SharNNews
    @SharNNews 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    He should interview reesa tesa. Prime example of what loneliness and desperation can do.

    • @thea7418
      @thea7418 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Who is that?

    • @TM-se5jf
      @TM-se5jf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      We know herstory already 😂

    • @gmyers8577
      @gmyers8577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yesss!!!!

    • @nie_theduchesq
      @nie_theduchesq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I would LOVE to see that! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @broco6608
      @broco6608 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I hope he doesn't. The Reesa Tesa YT videos are enough.

  • @azpersonal
    @azpersonal 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    When she spoke about loneliness. I experienced that and the mistakes I made became the biggest regret of my life. Even though I am married to an amazing guy, I still cry sometimes when I think of the people I allowed into my life in the past because I was lonely and angry at God

    • @TianaThompson90s
      @TianaThompson90s 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Forgive yourself my love 💓

  • @kitadenise2800
    @kitadenise2800 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

    “Loneliness can show up in ALL forms”, 🤯listennnn! I’m just sitting here thinking over life and my lonely periods!

  • @coneydownst
    @coneydownst 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This was the BEST hour 1/2 I’ve spent alone on a weekday in a long time. It was entertaining, inspirational, encouraging and on point!!! Thank you both!!

  • @saashaj7649
    @saashaj7649 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    "Everybody love her but you."
    Preach, Lexi!!!

    • @CultureKingdomKids
      @CultureKingdomKids 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Ooooohhhh that stung a bit! Ouch !

  • @ms.j.2961
    @ms.j.2961 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    We are going to need a Part 2 interview with Lexi. Plus, we need to see who she vetted as a potential Future Wifey for you. 🙂

  • @Callmeharlowe
    @Callmeharlowe 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +170

    I’ve been following Lexi for a decade and remember her posting videos of herself on the beach when she broke her engagement! I remember when she started her weight loss journey! I can’t believe she’s in her 50s looking amazing and STILL killing it! Hearing her story never gets old! I love her transparency and sense of humor 😂😂

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Wow. Thank you so much. ❤

    • @Nhamp-ig7qj
      @Nhamp-ig7qj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lexitelevisionwe love you Lexi your the realest in Gospel.

    • @MsBeeBee1031
      @MsBeeBee1031 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm sitting here shook like.... 'She Fifty SIX". She motivated me to get serious bout my health I know that! LOL

    • @PrettyGirlDtheNP
      @PrettyGirlDtheNP 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yesss, I remember this too! Bawdyyy

    • @KamikazeSP06
      @KamikazeSP06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely amazing.

  • @mzsuzdle
    @mzsuzdle 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It doesn't get rid of itself. You gotta kick it out. WORD RIGHT THERE

  • @saashaj7649
    @saashaj7649 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    "He said some stuff and cussed and left... in a truck that I bought."
    The scream I screampt! 😂😂😂
    I just love her!

    • @MsBeeBee1031
      @MsBeeBee1031 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I am in TEARS do you hear me?!!?

    • @EmpressQueenB
      @EmpressQueenB 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hahhahhahahahhahahahaha

    • @Amodernelder
      @Amodernelder 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

  • @lognemot1377
    @lognemot1377 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love Lexi's transparency and candor.

  • @sheswhoiam
    @sheswhoiam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Ms. Lexi, that self-forgiveness part is real. I'm still having those moments where I tell myself "it wasn't your fault, you did the best with the information you had"

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's so hard..sometimes I be so mad at myself 😢

    • @sheswhoiam
      @sheswhoiam 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@nickylnr especially when you recall the length of time you gave to the relationship.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sheswhoiam yes...and I totally understand what she means when she said you entire a relationship when you were not yourself because that is exactly what happened to me

  • @Ladyofvirtue247
    @Ladyofvirtue247 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Baaaaaabbbbay! She ain't lying...who wants a "Light Skinned Hug???" 😂😂😂😂 I felt that!

  • @therichauntie
    @therichauntie 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    Loneliness will have you in places and spaces that you definitely wouldn't normally be in.

  • @MissShay-2024
    @MissShay-2024 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Now I’m not trying to hook Laterras up but him and Lex would be AMAZING together. I love their chemistry. I hope they make a love connection!

  • @CassandraChaPaul
    @CassandraChaPaul 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    We exist! Nasty,Thick, Prophetic Prayer Warriors! Married 28yrs! 🙌🏾

    • @murandayvonne
      @murandayvonne 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesssss

    • @4himnly14
      @4himnly14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment… 😂😂

    • @KamikazeSP06
      @KamikazeSP06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      GLORAYYYYYYY

    • @ronibenoit
      @ronibenoit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤ Yes we do

    • @TtooMuchCashh
      @TtooMuchCashh 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @tonyaw8345
    @tonyaw8345 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my goodness! I laughed and cried through this. One of the best, most thought provoking, transparent interviews I've seen in a long time. Lexi, thank you for this!

  • @monicasoyombo3360
    @monicasoyombo3360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    “The hug need to make sense!” I’m with you sis!💪🏾🤣🤣

  • @mariadonald9762
    @mariadonald9762 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I don't usually be out here commenting on YT but LEXI IS SOOOO HILARIOUS 😂😂😂 I'm hollering and disturbing the quiet of my office 😂😂 10000/10 interview!

  • @ms.prissyp4332
    @ms.prissyp4332 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I didn’t know Lexi before this podcast… But Wow! I love this woman energy 😂 personality, sense of humor❤

  • @katherinekamaria
    @katherinekamaria 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I am not a widow, but when she said the Prophet said she laid down in the grave with her husband when he died--I just burst into tears. ❤️‍🩹

  • @kwilliams3866
    @kwilliams3866 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Anyone else watched this and said they seem like they'd be a match as a couple 🫣

    • @gabriellefarley496
      @gabriellefarley496 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I did. Lol I was looking for this comment 😂

  • @user-Mimi333
    @user-Mimi333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    😂😂😂😂😂 I LOVE LEXI!! She is The best. She Tells it like it is and is a master storyteller. She’s hilarious and brilliant. Her story is heartbreaking but her growth and healing is so inspiring. ❤🙏🏽

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow. Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @sincereone2388
    @sincereone2388 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I went to Dunamis with her. Lexi has always been Lexi! Love her realness! ❤

  • @EMMA1673
    @EMMA1673 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Lost it when she said “first ladyyyyyyy” 😂😂😂😂

    • @MamaJ-og2ui
      @MamaJ-og2ui 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And the camera stayed on him. I needed to see her say it!!! LOL

  • @chavala3140
    @chavala3140 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Letteras you have THE Best guests. I have enjoyed all of them. You never disappoint. Thank you for what you bring to this world❤

  • @gck_replayzz1029
    @gck_replayzz1029 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    I had climbed into the grave when my ex-husband / kids dad passed in 2021. I understand exactly what she is talking about the grief! It is truly a dark place! But God!

  • @brendakagendo589
    @brendakagendo589 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She has the ability to make someone laugh through the pain😂 I appreciate her

  • @prospering100
    @prospering100 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    I laughed and cried all same time, but before he stopped the camera, I paused the program to get out the grave, lost a daughter and husband.

    • @camilly4lyfe
      @camilly4lyfe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      God bless you!

    • @ogechukwuokpala9607
      @ogechukwuokpala9607 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Glad you were able to do that. God be with you ❤

  • @JuanettaSWhite
    @JuanettaSWhite 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love Lexi’s authenticity. As a widowed person, so much of what she shared resonated with my experiences, especially very early in my grief. Thank you for giving a voice to the young & widowed community. This blessed me & made me LOL!❤

  • @ladiesofiron
    @ladiesofiron 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    I found Lexi in March of 2016 on TH-cam, I watched episode after episode after episode nothing but LAUGHTER and healing❤ my children and I just happened to be watching the episode “The things black people say at funerals” we were laughing hysterically!!! IRONICALLY as we were laughing, my 1st husband of 30 years, the father of ALL 7 of my children was falling to his death in the same hour. The Lexi Show was the show that I didn’t KNOW we needed in that season. My LORD. I’m Loving this 💜💜💜

    • @dedra1204
      @dedra1204 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      P
      G m

  • @teaonasmalls9379
    @teaonasmalls9379 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So true! I picked a person who wore a mask and revealed themselves years later due to loneliness. God brought restoration ❤

  • @Passion84GodAlways
    @Passion84GodAlways 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    I am SO GLAD KevOnStage 🎬 introduced me to the AMAZINGNESS of Lexi Allen!!!
    I'm sure she's gonna have me laughing and crying and she's gon' sprinkle gems 💎 throughout the interview! 😁👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @AllThingsLoud_
      @AllThingsLoud_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      lol passion you on every channel I’m on

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AllThingsLoud_ - Let's start a Club for people with EXCEPTIONAL TASTE in TH-cam content! 😌😏😄😁

    • @KamikazeSP06
      @KamikazeSP06 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🙌🏽🔥🎬🎬🎬 hey sis

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AllThingsLoud_ - You have GREAT TASTE in content! 😌😏😄😆
      I hope you're doing well

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KamikazeSP06 Hey bro! 🙌🏾🔥🎬🙌🏾🔥🎬

  • @KiimKash
    @KiimKash 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This was such a great sit-down!

  • @tjack552
    @tjack552 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Care Take!!! Wow, this explains a lot for me at 38. I lost my dad at 12 and I had to help my mom be his caretaker while he was dying of cancer. It make sense now why I am attracted to those individuals that need care, but it is not reciprocated.

    • @zindukakids
      @zindukakids 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending flowers 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐🌹💐💐 kindly take heart I also lost my dad at a tender age but I'm standing strong in the grace of God with my beautiful daughter here ....always rejoice in the Lord

  • @SkyChante
    @SkyChante 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    HER ENERGY IS EVERYTHING🦋

  • @StephDGlenn
    @StephDGlenn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    This is the first time I ever wanted to have a session go on for 3 hours. This spoke to my very cells, forget my heart and soul, this is just what I needed for my life!

  • @PrettyandBlessed888
    @PrettyandBlessed888 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I needed this today! Loneliness allowed me to accept bad behaviors and still chase them because it felt “good” at the time. I just love her! She’s so relatable. Lexi is so funny it’s crazy 😂😂😂 I laughed this entire interview

  • @ClassicTater
    @ClassicTater 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    It's weird that you two were describing each other. I enjoyed this episode.

    • @nickylnr
      @nickylnr 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ha...I was saying the same thing ..like wait what if they date

    • @sescia
      @sescia 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So I wasn’t the only one thinking this!

    • @jesusisable7052
      @jesusisable7052 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      🎉agreed but I think she is too much for him and her past is too much for him

    • @carnishaemanuel1538
      @carnishaemanuel1538 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly, I'm like yall stop playing and go on a date :)

    • @shaylakelly3888
      @shaylakelly3888 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Literally 😂😂

  • @Gauchogirl1
    @Gauchogirl1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I just want to touch and agree with Lexi. Mind of Christ, body of Meg Thee Stallion 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @almathomas8325
    @almathomas8325 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thankful that pastor pulled her aside and prayed for her.

  • @mnorwo2
    @mnorwo2 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    🗣Mike's Place
    🗣Thick like cold grits
    🗣Don't hug me tender!!!
    The word though: Come out the Grave

  • @claire6ify
    @claire6ify 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So much anointing on this podcast! Nothing else has spoken so deeply to me like this in over a year!

  • @topekiagarnett2810
    @topekiagarnett2810 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    Lexi is hilarious! I was walking around Marshall’s crying laughing and didn’t care who saw me. 😂😂🤣🤣 Great episode! This one I’ll be watching again and again.

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @ninacarson1368
      @ninacarson1368 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am at work cracking up she preaching.

    • @TaheerahTaylor
      @TaheerahTaylor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is Crazyyyyy😂😂😂😂😂Slight cardiac arrest. She’s realistic…. the Lord made her just the way her crazy self is, Love it!!!!

  • @jenniferjackson4980
    @jenniferjackson4980 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Wow. I lost my baby girl, son, mother, grandmother all gone. I have layers of pain. My son was 24, and it has been 3 years now from fentanyl poisoning. Total devastation, and my husband has been using every thing we ever been through to create more drama between us. I see I am in the grave. I am in therapy, on meds., but I'm not sure how much good it is doing me. This is eye opening, the devil is definitely busy. He is seeking to devour our families.

    • @tbozt7544
      @tbozt7544 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      May God bless you and continue to keep you

    • @Mzhs_One
      @Mzhs_One 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      💐💚

  • @JesusisEnough37
    @JesusisEnough37 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    This is was me. This is confirmation. Im free. I really climb out the grave. I literally felt that crossover last week. I woke up. Thank you, Jesus. ❤

  • @kayla3807
    @kayla3807 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love her the rawness and honesty. I think a lot of people view Christian women as boring. Lexi personality reminds me of myself. A thick, funny praying warrior. Truly entertaining as well as speaking on healing.

  • @melanie_carmella
    @melanie_carmella 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    I'd rather be alone than married and miserable.

    • @prosperpetuity7987
      @prosperpetuity7987 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      💯💯💯 sho you’re right!!

    • @katyarnold-ji8sv
      @katyarnold-ji8sv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @melanie_carmella Amen!!!! Amen!!! 100% agree with your comment.

    • @my_set_apart_life
      @my_set_apart_life 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s infinitely better than being miserably married. Trust me!

  • @ellawashington8113
    @ellawashington8113 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love this lady! She is the friend you want around all the time. Blessings to you!

  • @Dr.saharaOmar
    @Dr.saharaOmar 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I hope we continue to recognize as a culture the power of mental health! Proud of her!!!

  • @tinasmith7238
    @tinasmith7238 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I knew Lexi first husband very well, we grew up living across the street from him and his parent The Rev and Mrs Diane Allen. When he was in the hospital during his last days and she is right now one could see him. We sat and talked to his parents and brother and we understand very well. He definitely was a wonderful guy.❤ R.I.P Michael Allen.

  • @aramintatruth1795
    @aramintatruth1795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Her entire explanation about why she decided to date her ex husband - was his “best friend” but got jealous when he was about to get serious about another woman - is the reason I don’t date men with so called best friends who are women.

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Nope. Don’t be afraid of that. We had a different story boo. Totally different

    • @norawilburne6188
      @norawilburne6188 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      But from her story, he was already on love with her. He probably went through the same mental gymnastics weighing whether it was worth risking the friendship. My daddy taught you should marry your friend. Too often relationship don't start that way.
      So I hear what you're saying.

    • @aramintatruth1795
      @aramintatruth1795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      My point is that a heterosexual man and woman who spend a significant time together bonding and experiencing each other will eventually develop romantic feelings for each other. They called each other friend but were falling in love. Hence the reason she interrupted his relationship with the other woman. I avoid these messy situations by not dating men with female best friends.

    • @evagoss855
      @evagoss855 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I thought I was the only one that felt that. I actually was in the same situation. But I end up ending a 20 something friendship to allow him to luv correctly because I knew we lived each other on another level.

    • @tru_kru_bahbee24
      @tru_kru_bahbee24 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly. No close opposite gender friends period.

  • @lakeshapenland2288
    @lakeshapenland2288 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can not believe I am just finding this podcast. Wow! Each episode I have watched has been amazing and inspiring. So much truth! So much realness! So much transparency and vulnerability! I absolutely love it here!

  • @ThePrayerAdvocate
    @ThePrayerAdvocate 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    This is my ALL TIME FAVORITE out of ALL of the shows. I luv me some Lexi. Her personality is in a lane all by herself. She keeps it REAL but you can tell she has a personal relationship with God. Her truth she shared brought tears to my eyes. I laughed out Loud throughout the entire show. She spoke what other Christians think. Thank you Lexi!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏽

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Wow. Thanks so much it means so much to me ❤

  • @theresakern1687
    @theresakern1687 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Loved every moment. And from one widow of 18 years to another...i feel/felt everything she spoke. God speed, sis

  • @Lhaynes1978
    @Lhaynes1978 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Loved this episode. I identified with a few things. The main one is the fact that I'm a widow too. I was beat down but month after my husband died I started therapy and grief support. I always say that if a widow/er wilds out after losing their spouse give grace because all you want is for the pain to go away.

  • @ledonnathompson-cheek9540
    @ledonnathompson-cheek9540 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Lexi is a REAL CHIC! I love people who keep it REAL and 💯? Period 😊

  • @siadams9241
    @siadams9241 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    All women listen up especially when a love one or anyone in your life transitions beware of wolves praying your vulnerability the Lord showed me that and till this day I am forever grateful to him for keeping me from falling 💕

  • @nialewis2017
    @nialewis2017 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love her transparency and authenticity

  • @cshell75
    @cshell75 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +132

    Laterras, can we start doing these as premiere’s so the LIT fam can chat while watching?

    • @QuesaDia05
      @QuesaDia05 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ooh good idea

    • @girlmeetskingdom
      @girlmeetskingdom 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I was just thinking this.

    • @sattasana7753
      @sattasana7753 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That would be nice

    • @itsSAmone
      @itsSAmone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That would be great!

    • @tylynn256
      @tylynn256 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great suggestion!

  • @worshipwithmedaily
    @worshipwithmedaily 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All I see is Mikey! I’ve been following Lexi for years. Love her content, personality, relationship with son, makeup line…..all the things!

  • @shellytravels
    @shellytravels 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Wow! I’ve never heard Lexi’s testimony in depth. What a mighty God we serve!

  • @lisascott1038
    @lisascott1038 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This woman is so genuine and funny!!! I love it!!!

  • @brandonlovessports1866
    @brandonlovessports1866 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I know a married couple that happened to. The ex’s mother died and she went to “comfort” him and wound up back with him and left her husband. Lexi was 💯 FACTUAL on keeping boundaries

    • @dkgnew
      @dkgnew 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s deep!! 👀 and…I DO understand, almost happened to me!!!!!!

  • @GODSGIFTS76
    @GODSGIFTS76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    But let me thank you for helping me understand and better perspective of loneliness. And you are right, it doesn't matter if you are single, married, or widowed. The part you mentioned about looking at the clock, it gave me revelation and insight into myself and it put a name to what I have been feeling. Thank you!

  • @andreablassingame5415
    @andreablassingame5415 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Lexi!!!!! I'm crying!!!! "Mike's Place " though... chill!! lmbo

    • @tarannajackson3174
      @tarannajackson3174 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I loved when she keep saying that

  • @cj10109
    @cj10109 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lexi is hilarious 😂 hearing her talk about her late husband is so beautiful! I wish her the best 🫶🏾

  • @HandpickedOnPurpose
    @HandpickedOnPurpose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Where is the second like button! This lady is speaking real stuff!!

  • @michellemorris9181
    @michellemorris9181 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love her transparency about her life. Loneliness is no joke and yes you have to be totally healed to defeat it. Thank you so much for your honesty.🥰

  • @keishaheslop1536
    @keishaheslop1536 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Unspeakable things!! I crack up laughing at him, laughing at all his guests when they hit that funny bone!! Hysterical.

  • @AmberHoopengarner
    @AmberHoopengarner 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I so appreciated her realness and rawness, I have been separated almost 2yrs and the loneliness I felt was the worst I've ever felt it..I thank God he truly never left me.. and my counselor and therapist have been so instrumental in processing the grief the right way

  • @bribradley2736
    @bribradley2736 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I wish they would've talked about how they Lexi & Mike got married and expounded more on their relationship dynamic throughout their time together....Please have a part 2!

    • @ArinsSecret
      @ArinsSecret 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She was on Tim Ross podcast a few weeks ago, she went deeper on there

  • @tarshagreene4661
    @tarshagreene4661 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing. My late husband passed away 13 years ago due to heart issues. We had one Son together. He is 14 years old now. I can really relate to this video. I didn’t start dating until three years after my life husband passing and it been nothing but bad relationships people using me a shift. I listen to this message. I feel that the reason why I’ve been making a lot of mistakes in my dating life as well as my life is due to being in the grave. Thank you God Bless 🙏❤

  • @Britt-Neyyy
    @Britt-Neyyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    WOOH I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH!! I ALMOST MARRIED SOMEONE OUT OF LONELINESS….BUT GOD, MY GOD 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @ninacollins7088
    @ninacollins7088 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I never saw Lexi as funny but a story teller she IS !! And is HILARIOUS

  • @HelloJoyRenee
    @HelloJoyRenee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Lexiiiiiii, ma’am don’t ever change. I can’t stop laughing 😂❤😂

    • @lexitelevision
      @lexitelevision 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I couldn’t change if I tried ❤

    • @Kayla-qs8rh
      @Kayla-qs8rh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lexitelevisionyou are so beautiful inside and out. May God send you the love of your life in Jesus Name

  • @jw1392
    @jw1392 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Watched so many of Laterras' podcast trying to figure out why a partner can call you the love of his life and just not being able to commit. In all loving him relentless and just giving my all was just not enough. The danger is not just being lonly but trying to find ones identity back when someone else crushed it.Thanks for these podcasts.Letting go!

  • @paulinendirangu6174
    @paulinendirangu6174 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    She is a real talker. That's why they don't call her directly.... I love 😂❤❤😅😅