So refreshing to hear you talk about weddings in this way 🙏As someone who also doesn't have the most "harmonious" family dynamic it felt very validating to hear someone else say that out loud!❤Thank you for another great vlog! xx
Thankyou darling! It’s so funny to think isn’t it but must be so true for so many people that a wedding day could be our worst nightmare 🙈🙈Hope you’re well my hun always appreciate you Xx
Hey! Me and my husband had the same feelings. We decided to have the registry and dinner with family. So simple. We then went off to Mauritius and put a deposit down on our first home! 15 years to together and 7 years married now with two crazy boys! I feel your exhaustion! 😅
My view exactly! Never thought it was worth spending lots of money on. Got married in a register office, then took 5O guests to my fave restaurant. Back then (1999) all in was £2000, (excluding outfits and photos) So yes save your money you’ll still have a fabulous day 🎉
I love that you are doing you for your wedding and not “conforming to the norm”. Your twos happiness is what is most important on the day. Side note I think you looked gorgeous in that first dress ❤
Hey Mary 🤗 Happy New Year! I enjoyed watching you trying on dresses but I am glad that confirmed what you do and don’t want for your day. Definitely do what you want to do for you and not any external pressures. Little Elli is 2 🥺 and in his own bed 🥺 oh bless him. Always lovely to watch one of your vlogs, take care ♥️ xxx
My husband and I got married in Lewes registry office on a summers day with only our family. It was perfect, for us. Then we had everyone back to our house and had a garden party. Whatever you end up doing I hope it is perfect for you guys ❤
Congrats on your engagement! deffo prefer the idea of registry office and throw money at a holiday/honeymoon. were the same/similar age, i been watching you for like 10 years now. I feel a lil long in the tooth for a ‘big day’ now would love to spend the money in soooo many other ways
I love a big wedding for other people of they wanna have it. My sister and her husband got married with just the immediate family around and me and my partner don’t have any plans of ever even getting married. There are so many ways of being committed to each other and everyone can make the choice that’s right for them. ☺️
I am with you on the wedding dresses and ceremonies. It can be so expensive for one day. Who wants to end up end debt over a big wedding? But if you want to, you can look at some thrift shops for the fun of it.
Elope! Me and the husband went on a round the world trip and got married at San Francisco City Hall. Just the two of us and the photographer. Admittedly my son wasn't born, but sure you could factor the boys into plans.
Your teeth look beautiful, I am so happy that you reached a point financially where you could get the treatment you wanted to give you that confidence. Gives me hope for myself. Love the way you are going about your wedding.
Happy New Year! I got engaged in Sept last year and i feel exactly the same, and i'm 28! My partner does really want the day but i'm not fussed and I'm defo not gonna spend loads on a dress i can't wear again lol seems insane to me that that's the norm! Anyway you looked beaut regardless, i might have the 'experience' like you and then get something high street to save money in that area at least :) Love to you! ❤
We got married on the winter solstice at York house in Twickenham (they do great deals in winter time) we then went to the Bingham in Richmond for dinner , we only invited 4 people . Rented a stunning barn on air b&b for our mini moon Best decision ❤ best day (ps I only spent £100 on my dress )
I get you. My partner and i are getting married in June. 5k all in😅 We were both married previously and done the 24k wedding huge honeymoon etc and i am over that. This time we are going so so simple and I love it❤. You looked lovely in those dresses mind you😊
Love this. So authentic and real. I’ve always appreciated how special occasions do not have to be over the top ❤️🙏🏽
Thankyou! X
So refreshing to hear you talk about weddings in this way 🙏As someone who also doesn't have the most "harmonious" family dynamic it felt very validating to hear someone else say that out loud!❤Thank you for another great vlog! xx
Thankyou darling! It’s so funny to think isn’t it but must be so true for so many people that a wedding day could be our worst nightmare 🙈🙈Hope you’re well my hun always appreciate you Xx
I just adore your vlogs - your vulnerability, your honesty, your humor - you’re pure awesome! Thanks for sharing a bit of your life with us 💓
Completely agree with your thoughts on a wedding day, you do you!! ❤
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Hey! Me and my husband had the same feelings. We decided to have the registry and dinner with family. So simple. We then went off to Mauritius and put a deposit down on our first home! 15 years to together and 7 years married now with two crazy boys! I feel your exhaustion! 😅
refreshing vlog as always Mary
My view exactly! Never thought it was worth spending lots of money on. Got married in a register office, then took 5O guests to my fave restaurant. Back then (1999) all in was £2000, (excluding outfits and photos) So yes save your money you’ll still have a fabulous day 🎉
I love that you are doing you for your wedding and not “conforming to the norm”. Your twos happiness is what is most important on the day. Side note I think you looked gorgeous in that first dress ❤
Thankyou!!Xx
It's so nice to see other vloggers my age
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Wow, I love a lot of dresses!
We got married in a registry office and went with a few friends to the oxo tower for dinner. Best day xxx
This sounds ideal!
Hey Mary 🤗 Happy New Year! I enjoyed watching you trying on dresses but I am glad that confirmed what you do and don’t want for your day. Definitely do what you want to do for you and not any external pressures. Little Elli is 2 🥺 and in his own bed 🥺 oh bless him. Always lovely to watch one of your vlogs, take care ♥️ xxx
Thankyou darling! Ellie’s so grown up now I can’t believe it! Always appreciate reading your lovely comments X
Your teeth!!! ❤ So beautiful!🎉
My husband and I got married in Lewes registry office on a summers day with only our family. It was perfect, for us. Then we had everyone back to our house and had a garden party. Whatever you end up doing I hope it is perfect for you guys ❤
That sounds perfect X
I am so glad to see you Mary! I thought of you and the family just yesterday!🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou! Appreciate this Xx
You look amazing in some dresses!
But I'm with you, didn't have a dress or big (our medium lol) wedding. Don't regret it. 😊
Totally agree with your wedding thoughts and none of them seemed like you. I have Tucking In Sophie is a great cook. Love your teeth xx
Thankyou darling! X
Mary girl!!
Happy New Year! Missed seeing you on my timeline ❤
Thankyou! X
Congrats on your engagement!
deffo prefer the idea of registry office and throw money at a holiday/honeymoon.
were the same/similar age, i been watching you for like 10 years now.
I feel a lil long in the tooth for a ‘big day’ now
would love to spend the money in soooo many other ways
Absolutely this! And Thankyou, appreciate you! X
I love a big wedding for other people of they wanna have it. My sister and her husband got married with just the immediate family around and me and my partner don’t have any plans of ever even getting married. There are so many ways of being committed to each other and everyone can make the choice that’s right for them. ☺️
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Same feelings about kids at home 😅😢both mine were so sick 😞😢
I am with you on the wedding dresses and ceremonies. It can be so expensive for one day. Who wants to end up end debt over a big wedding? But if you want to, you can look at some thrift shops for the fun of it.
Absolutely! X
Elope! Me and the husband went on a round the world trip and got married at San Francisco City Hall. Just the two of us and the photographer. Admittedly my son wasn't born, but sure you could factor the boys into plans.
I’d love to elope! It wouldn’t be an option right with the boys but maybe for a vow renewal 😂❤
Your teeth look beautiful, I am so happy that you reached a point financially where you could get the treatment you wanted to give you that confidence. Gives me hope for myself.
Love the way you are going about your wedding.
Thankyou! It’s a huge investment but absolutely worth it Xx
Happy New Year! I got engaged in Sept last year and i feel exactly the same, and i'm 28! My partner does really want the day but i'm not fussed and I'm defo not gonna spend loads on a dress i can't wear again lol seems insane to me that that's the norm! Anyway you looked beaut regardless, i might have the 'experience' like you and then get something high street to save money in that area at least :) Love to you! ❤
Thankyou darling and congratulations!! Hope you can come to a compromise as it’s so important to both be able to enjoy it Xx
Adore your vlogs!
Thankyou! X
I’m like you hun, I just wanna be married, idc about the wedding. Btw those cook books covers 👌👌👌 xxx
Yes! Can’t beat a good cookbook cover X
Love to see your vlogs ❤
Thankyou! X
We got married on the winter solstice at York house in Twickenham (they do great deals in winter time) we then went to the Bingham in Richmond for dinner , we only invited 4 people . Rented a stunning barn on air b&b for our mini moon
Best decision ❤ best day (ps I only spent £100 on my dress )
This sounds perfect! X
Love this for you! X
Love this for us X
I get you. My partner and i are getting married in June. 5k all in😅 We were both married previously and done the 24k wedding huge honeymoon etc and i am over that. This time we are going so so simple and I love it❤. You looked lovely in those dresses mind you😊
Thankyou! X
Mary, Whistles do bridal wear (a little bit Cos-esk?) This could work for you? You’ll look gorgeous in whatever you wear though xxxxx
Oh yes! I always forget about whistles will have to have a look-Thankyou! Xx
I came to say the same! They do gorgeous dresses x
Your teeth look amazing, so pleased for you 😍🥰
Thankyou darling! I’m so pleased with them X
Noi wedding it's too stressful my wedding I regret I should of just gotten married and a nic dinner
It can just snowball into something very stressful I know I just don’t have the energy ha
Your teeth look amazing! How long have you been on Invisalign?
Thankyou! Pretty much just under a year, I had them fitted on 3rd Jan 2024 and finished 11th December 2024 X
Gurl go for a white suit and nice shoes !
Very into this X
I could see you in a white jumpsuit for your wedding?x
Love this X