I so understand! Married to a man..five children..helped and supported him in every way. Not One thank you..I Love you..nothing. After 32 years He divorced me..left me homeless and married his fancy woman with money. Iam Healing but my love for him..GONE 😊❤
I share the same marriage situation as Toni did. My husband of 30 years never said “I love you” as well. He was dying and never told anyone up until his final days only to his best friend. He never shared his personal life ever. His family life as a child and teen he internalized had to be horrific. He knew HIPA regulations so his doctor could not advise me of his terminal condition. I worked all our married life and he was self employed. He never felt obligated to provide a decent living. Thank heavens no children. A friend told me he stated to him on one occasion, “do you know how good you have it.” That said it all to me.
OH my goodness, Toni, I was watching old interviews with you both, and the love in Captain's eyes when he looked at you, when you were talking, was so touching!! He loved you, but some people have such horrific childhoods and go through stuff that they can't share and are taught, or had it beaten into them, to not express. But his love and respect for you, was in his eyes!!
@@sondragramse1770 Okay, just googled such ... "He wore sunglasses most of the time to hide his eyes. When he was a child, other children made fun of his very large eyeballs. He was eventually diagnosed with “megalophthalmus” (which means large eyes) that may be associated with cataracts and glaucoma."
I understand being emotionally damaged due to childhood trauma, but then why get married? It seems cruel to me. Someone once said "The cruelest thing a man can do, is to awaken the love in a woman, when you have no intention of loving her back." So deep!
Some men don’t say, “I love you.“ Some men show you and it could be by being married for 40 years, mowing the grass, making sure the oil is changed in your car, making sure you have groceries and all the things you need…
I think she seriously misunderstood him. I'm not going to suggest he didn't have some kind of mental illness, but the fact that he couldn't communicate doesn't suggest to me that he was without feeling. Was he wrong? Surely. Even he said so. Idk if we know that he was autistic, but I have a hard time, often, saying things I feel deeply. I am just fortunate that my loved ones are a little more understanding, or telepathic, or something, about what is going on inside me.
It’s IMPOSSIBLE TO BE TRULY ONE WITHOUT THE LORD JESUS CHRIST!! ONLY HE GIVES GRACE AND ETERNAL LIFE. HE CAME TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS AND TOOK THE WRATH OF GOD IN OUR PLACE. HE ROSE FROM THE DEAD CONQUERED DEATH AND THE GRAVE. THE GOSPEL IS OUR ONLY HOPE. I HAVE NEVER HEARD HER EVER CONFESS HER NEED OF FORGIVENESS OR THAT SHE IS A SINNER.
@@dimitriberozny3729not really sure what you mean by that. I am talking about the Gospel. I liked them both growing up. I had all their albums. I was sad to hear when they divorced. I read her book and she never talked about the Lord Jesus Christ. We including myself are all sinners and born with a sinful nature. There’s nothing good in the flesh. We must be born again and given the Righteousness of Jesus Christ since He paid and reconciled us to God. Our sins have separated us from the Godhead. If we die in our sins the Bible and the Lord Jesus Christ who is God says we will spend eternity in the Lake of Fire. The Gospel is Good News. The Bible teaches that there is NONE RIGHTEOUS NOT ONE and ALL FALL SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD. So yes I need and believe the Gospel. He died for ALL PEOPLE. It is a FREE GIFT. It is by GRACE THROUGH FAITH THAT YOU HAVE BEEN SAVED NOT OF WORKS LEST ANYONE SHOULD BOAST. There’s nothing good in any of us. Only the Godhead is 100% good,righteous,and holy. Only God defines what is good or evil not me. My Authority is the Lord Jesus Christ and the KJV Bible which is His words not mine. I can only go by what she has said out of her own mouth. I’ve never personally sat down with either of them. Jesus Christ has changed my life and He lives His life through me. There are 9 fruit of the Spirit. If you have never read the KJV Bible or heard the Gospel now is your chance. I was saved at 8 years old. Jesus Christ said that He is the Way,Truth,and Life. No one comes to the Father but by Him. Have a good day.
Toni is amazing and just beautiful in all ways❤
I met them on a plane to Las Vegas. He wasn't too thrilled, but she was gracious
I so understand! Married to a man..five children..helped and supported him in every way. Not One thank you..I Love you..nothing. After 32 years He divorced me..left me homeless and married his fancy woman with money. Iam Healing but my love for him..GONE 😊❤
WOW! I remember hearing their songs when I was a child. Too bad that Darryl never loved Toni.
I share the same marriage situation as Toni did. My husband of 30 years never said “I love you” as well. He was dying and never told anyone up until his final days only to his best friend. He never shared his personal life ever. His family life as a child and teen he internalized had to be horrific. He knew HIPA regulations so his doctor could not advise me of his terminal condition. I worked all our married life and he was self employed. He never felt obligated to provide a decent living. Thank heavens no children. A friend told me he stated to him on one occasion, “do you know how good you have it.” That said it all to me.
So sorry your marriage wasn't good some people don't know what they have
OH my goodness, Toni, I was watching old interviews with you both, and the love in Captain's eyes when he looked at you, when you were talking, was so touching!! He loved you, but some people have such horrific childhoods and go through stuff that they can't share and are taught, or had it beaten into them, to not express. But his love and respect for you, was in his eyes!!
Yeah, I don't think that's the whole truth. Looks to me like Darryl was not only an introvert, but may have been "undiagnosed' on the autism spectrum.
You know that very well could be.
Man, his irises were HUGE !!
I think he had an eye disease
@@sondragramse1770 Okay, just googled such ... "He wore sunglasses most of the time to hide his eyes. When he was a child, other children made fun of his very large eyeballs. He was eventually diagnosed with “megalophthalmus” (which means large eyes) that may be associated with cataracts and glaucoma."
He never looked happy to me. Some people are so emotionally damaged they can't feel. Unfortunately you love who you love..Toni deserved better.
I'm sure she thought her love would open him and save him. Dark and light. Dark wants to snuff out the light.
I understand being emotionally damaged due to childhood trauma, but then why get married? It seems cruel to me.
Someone once said "The cruelest thing a man can do, is to awaken the love in a woman, when you have no intention of loving her back."
So deep!
40 yrs & he Never said I Love You ?! That’s Cruel. 😢🤬🤯
Yes, but if he just couldn't then he was doing his best.
Some men don’t say, “I love you.“ Some men show you and it could be by being married for 40 years, mowing the grass, making sure the oil is changed in your car, making sure you have groceries and all the things you need…
Too bad he was emotionally unavailable and she could have done better.
Toni makes me proud to have an alto voice
Sooo sad. We really never know
Rest in peace 💙🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
I think she seriously misunderstood him. I'm not going to suggest he didn't have some kind of mental illness, but the fact that he couldn't communicate doesn't suggest to me that he was without feeling.
Was he wrong? Surely. Even he said so.
Idk if we know that he was autistic, but I have a hard time, often, saying things I feel deeply. I am just fortunate that my loved ones are a little more understanding, or telepathic, or something, about what is going on inside me.
I always thought his captain's hat looked ridiculous! Too much like Gilligan's Island!
Why didn’t she marry someone else and work with him professionally?
Oh well and I could relate to Captain and Tennille and I never loved my ex-husband ever 👎🏽
Why did you marry him?
The problem was tabloids always put people down who didn’t kiss up to them!! They got along very well!!
their marriage was a business deal-what do you expect
It’s IMPOSSIBLE TO BE TRULY ONE WITHOUT THE LORD JESUS CHRIST!! ONLY HE GIVES GRACE AND ETERNAL LIFE. HE CAME TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS AND TOOK THE WRATH OF GOD IN OUR PLACE. HE ROSE FROM THE DEAD CONQUERED DEATH AND THE GRAVE. THE GOSPEL IS OUR ONLY HOPE. I HAVE NEVER HEARD HER EVER CONFESS HER NEED OF FORGIVENESS OR THAT SHE IS A SINNER.
So are you,you hypocrite!!
@@dimitriberozny3729not really sure what you mean by that. I am talking about the Gospel. I liked them both growing up. I had all their albums. I was sad to hear when they divorced. I read her book and she never talked about the Lord Jesus Christ. We including myself are all sinners and born with a sinful nature. There’s nothing good in the flesh. We must be born again and given the Righteousness of Jesus Christ since He paid and reconciled us to God. Our sins have separated us from the Godhead. If we die in our sins the Bible and the Lord Jesus Christ who is God says we will spend eternity in the Lake of Fire. The Gospel is Good News. The Bible teaches that there is NONE RIGHTEOUS NOT ONE and ALL FALL SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD. So yes I need and believe the Gospel. He died for ALL PEOPLE. It is a FREE GIFT. It is by GRACE THROUGH FAITH THAT YOU HAVE BEEN SAVED NOT OF WORKS LEST ANYONE SHOULD BOAST. There’s nothing good in any of us. Only the Godhead is 100% good,righteous,and holy. Only God defines what is good or evil not me. My Authority is the Lord Jesus Christ and the KJV Bible which is His words not mine. I can only go by what she has said out of her own mouth. I’ve never personally sat down with either of them. Jesus Christ has changed my life and He lives His life through me. There are 9 fruit of the Spirit. If you have never read the KJV Bible or heard the Gospel now is your chance. I was saved at 8 years old. Jesus Christ said that He is the Way,Truth,and Life. No one comes to the Father but by Him. Have a good day.
@@dimitriberozny3729Why you saying hypocrite to the poster? Just sharing the Gospel. We know we are all sinners.
it takes 2 to tango. She was obviously attracted to an emotionally unavailable man.