Just the other day I had two Mexican women offer me (a White man) a bottle of water and a ride to wherever I needed to go. No American woman (black, white, asian) have never offered me a ride to help me.I have no sympathy for what's coming for American women. I see why the Mexican men work so hard, because their women actually respect and love them.
In what way do you think Mexican men work hard? Is there a country on earth where no man works hard? The better the country's economy is, basically the less loving and respectful the women are.
You're wishing bad on American women because a few didn't give you a ride? Sir no disrespect but I'm not giving a random man OR woman a ride either. I don't trust people, so many are out here robbing and killing. I prefer to be safe.
I work in construction, and now I even see Hispanic women working on construction sites, quite a bit. I saw some doing electrical work on a construction site, I couldn't believe it. I NEVER see any other type of woman but Hispanic doing actual work on a construction site.
I am mexican and live in Mexico. Don't get it twisted. VVomen here as unsufferable as in United States of Marica. Same materialistic and superficial culture.
@@operoverlordI don't know about telling yourself that life is unfair, in a situation like that because it's basically like having a pity party, while simultaneously victimizing yourself, when you're not at all a victim. I mean, you're talking about material possessions.
@@gtagameplayvidzsometimes life is complicated. we all have different situations. some people can’t just do anything if they are limited in some way. some people can get out of difficult situations better than others where as others are stuck physically or mentally. life is really THAT tough for some people. especially homeless people.
You need to find your true self your best self. Ask God to find yourself and you will discover things very deep that you will never ever have thought about when it comes about your character and destiny. God will give you challenges in life and those challenges are made for you and tell you what your true self is
Jealous is anger exteriorised, semi unconscious. It is hostility directed outwardly but also partly inward, an unmet need or perceived injustice. It comes from a scarcity mentality. Others must lose for you to win. Why can't you be selfless and wish well upon others, and yourself? One judges oneself inadequate and seek attention to remediate that. It's envy of others good fortune. Take responsibility for your weaknesses and assert your needs, be grounded in reality. This is my best advice on jealousy.
Jealousy, as I have observed it, seems to be a reaction to the fear of losing, or not having access, to scarce resources or the achievement of goals. Definitely see this in older women who are searching for a mate and finding that they have to compete with younger women Maybe that's better characterized as "envy". But same is true when a wife or girlfriend becomes jealous of another woman who might be paying too much attention to the former's man. She's fearful that she'll might lose her security and comfort.
What we are missing and the way forward is brother and sisterhood. Comparison is the thief of joy. Jealousy is emotional disregulation. Looking forward to meeting you.
She more like a young lady with potential that not easy to find these days definitely a role model to the girls out here though with no direction in life
⭐Guy : Doctor, my Girlfriend is pregnant but we always use protection How is it possible? Doctor : Let me tell you a story: "There was once a Hunter who always carried a gun wherever he went. One day he took out his Umbrella instead of his Gun and went out. A Lion suddenly jumped in front of him. In order to scare the Lion, the Hunter used the Umbrella like a Gun, and shot the Lion, then it died! Guy : Nonsense! Someone else must have shot the Lion.. Doctor : Good! You understood the story. Next patient please.⭐
properly defined: jealousy is when you're worried someone is taking something from you (you already own it, and are afraid of losing it) ENVY: is when you want what someone else has (someone else owns it, and you want it)
Excellent points. Kudos for speaking the truth. However, how can women be not jealous of you if when you reach 40 and if you use no makeup, you'll still look way better than most of them even in their 20s! That's a conundrum, I guess. You will scare off all women and girlfriends of all men right off the bat as they can't compete with your looks at all 🙂
Its true that a lot of men try to look the same. As a man i see it often, and catch myself doing it too every now and then but there seems to be a different template for every 10 years of age groups. But then there's people that try everything to look 'different' which ultimately and ironically causes the same effect of looking the same as someone else trying to do that. I just try to dress simply and practically with some decent colours but at this point im thinking of learning to make my own tshirts because good Lord clothes quality is shit nowadays.
And now that I think of it it's more of a way of self-discipline and how One deals with this negative emotion so that one can overcome it even if you have strong feelings of jealousy for one person that person has their own flaws so I like to just think of it as nobody's perfect and we're all under God's 🚧 construction at different levels.
Your such an inteligent Woman I hope your worshiped in a good way and happy ! Your a great Role model for younger women and speak so much sense and truth Your parent s must be very proud too Have a Great Day Kiera !
I'm a dude and most of her points apply to me as well, I hope the young women that watch this understand that everybody is unique and as soon as you start doing what's popular or do something because "everybody else is doing it" it automatically breaks down your own unique character and its even worse if you truly don't believe in doing those things.
Plenty of reasons for people of either sex to be jealous of other people in their twenties. The key would be to let it help you instead of dwelling on it
Just started watching your videos recently, and you have an absolutely remarkable amount of wisdom and honorable posture towards life, people, and the interconnected experiences of relationship... What's incredible is your ability to excavate the heart and uncover important pieces someone should observe and focus on to inherit an empathetic perspective opening your mind to things you've never witnessed before, which elegantly demonstrates you, your maturity, how much you care, and how authentic you really are 👏 Your personhood is priceless, keep going 🙌
As a man I’m very thankful that we peak during late 30s (36-37 and then plateaus during next decade). We have a lot more time to sculpt ourselves than yall women do, since u gals peak way earlier ab a decade earlier, and yall also have to rush life more because of that.
I don't know anything ladies but shouldn't be jealous she's right look if you got the right stuff. It will carry you work on yourself be the best self you can offer someone. Don't look at other people look at yourself. I love her to death for being so open that's a rarity people are afraid to be that open nobody wants to be rejected and that's what you put yourself in store for there will be people that don't agree with her that does not mean she's wrong she's right for who she is and I think she's beautiful thank you keira Lhotan you will accomplish all you set out you'll get what you put into the world and you're putting good things a positive energy you go girl I will be cheering for you till it's over and let's hope it continues on for the rest of your life don't let the world change you you'll thank yourself for❤
Thanks! Some people appreciate good humor. And then there are the Simping dipniblets below your post who spend hours stalking me and who are obsessed with me. What Chuckleheads!! 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
Jealousy is with both men and women. You are right, people comparing themself to others. When in actuality, it is your uniqueness that makes you the individual you are. We are all all ONE OF A KIND. That is really incredible if you think about it. However, some take that one of a kind to another level....LOL .
Every one of my wife’s women friends were jealous of her and tried to sabotage her life. Especially her older female friends who regretted there life decisions and actions and wanted to be in a different place than where they ended up.
As an older single man, I don't want to go back to my 20's. Well I'll take that back, I would like my memory of my 20's lol. I envy couples sometimes just because I get a little lonely. I do see women having this problem your talking about.
I agree, women don't need to be jealous and as a guy don't understand this "Female competitive logic". Why the need to "I have to have what she has mentality" instead of I'm happy for her, I hope to be that happy. I've posted this all over, women think to much with their emotions and not enough logic (mind). Another thing that needs to stop is that guys (men) say women at the ages of 30 years, 40 years, 50 years etc....have no value and that's just wrong. All have value. Guys are a big problem in this mess, they need to acknowledge this as well as certain females. The True Good Guys need to be wanted and not keep being stepped on and hurt. This will never stop until women stop with the disgusting use/abuse guys who don't care, now The True Guys are walking away and don't want to come back and until recently I never knew how bad women trying to destroy other women's relationships was. Keep up the good work, your videos are great and truthful.
I've seen a spouses jealousy effect a worker & coworkers' job a few times. And the workers might not eveñ know or expect it. But that couple might even pressure the bosses with their feelings & wants about it. Very hurtful to others in the workplace. Especially when it turns into targeting other workers, which I have seen happen.
I absolutely love you, your channel, your content, your ideas that makes us reflect about topics that aren't talked about enough. So refreshing, so authentic, you feel real. Not like every other internet personality that wears a mask. Please keep it up, Keira!! 🙏🙌👏
My girlfriend started grilling me about where I've been, who I was with, and stuff like that. I appreciate that she cares about me, but I don't like that she doesn't trust me. I also don't like that she's "investigating" me after I've been out with my buddys or at the gym and other places. I love her, but it's very uncomfortable to feel like my every move is being scrutinized and interpreted by her. I meet women all the time at work, at the gym, at events and other places. Some of them are hot, but I've never cheated on her. I don't know what I can do to make her trust me. I can't just stay at home all the time and not have a life.. I enjoy meeting new people, and I obviously enjoy being with beautiful women, but I have morals, ethics, honor, and principles. I love my girlfriend, and the last thing I want to do is hurt her, so I've never strayed even when I had the chance. The jealousy and distrust is very tiring and disappointing though. I'm not sure if my relationship can be sustainable if her jealously gets much worse over time.
Dude Ive learned that women need verbal or visible validation in a relationship like to guys its unspoken obviously but you gotta show it to your girl. Give her random compliments and idk take her out every now and then. Get here a chocolate when you come back from work theres lotsa things you can do.
Dude, I'm going to say it now. An insecure woman like this will probably cheat on you. The reasoning is in self-sabotage, projection, and insecurity. You sound like a good man. If she cannot trust you despite your values and honour, it's either because she doesn't know you well enough, or she doesn't trust her own nature. There could be another reason, such as she was betrayed and cheated on in the past by someone she cared about, lending to her distrusting nature. But I'd be cautious if she doesn't change her attitude and distrust of you. She may find herself in a situation to cheat and she will justify it like "he is going to cheat on me anyway, or he already has. So I should just do it too before he can hurt me". If you want a future with this woman, you need to reassure her and set down some concrete ground rules and lay out the future of the relationship, or get her to seek counselling of some kind.
@@kbrewski1The unpaid simp police. You don't even notice how you are projecting your own insecurities because you are obviously obsessed with her and the whole simping thing. Do some self-examination because you are embarrassing yourself.
In your 20s is when you are typically in your physical prime which would also means since your stock is rising or peaking you can choose the better candidate and not to be screwed over by loverboy chads, use it as a time to find a compatible and suitable husband, so after you have your kids you still be better positioned to have some kind of career later in life if you so choose, but the God loving and fearing modest mothers are what many are missing in the western world, we need more proverbs 31 women
My guess is the Modeling world is probably filled with jealousy - although I do love how there is also really good support in Modeling and acting - where there is scarcity you feel threatened - my girlfriends would not be jealous of certain girls and super jealous of others - and same with me - certain guys trigger me and other's not
I find that young people aren’t receptive to advice. I have 3 younger brothers, the youngest is the one who feels like he is the advisor! Nothing trumps experience. I’ve been there and done that. It is a generational thing. Younger people are being told some caca.
The entire system exists for profit by pitting people against one another. If the women are divided the community is divided. To rebel against this is to give yourself the love first the spills out into the world and makes the community that ensures the highest quality of life for our children’s children.
The best thing a woman can do is commit early to a high-value man. No premarital sex. Get engaged and married. Go through everything together, those things will make you stronger and better together, and you’ll have the best chance to spend the rest of your lives together. These women who date and party through their 20’s and 30’s have little to offer at 30 and nothing to offer at 40. No one wants that. They have half their lifetime of not committing to anything. Why would they at that point? They don’t.
Jealousy is rooted in safety, security, which is a deeply biologically rooted need for women because of the need for protection while vulnerable with a baby. Envy on the other hand, is pathological and wishes harm upon other people. This online culture hijacks our natural circuits of need for security, and turns it pathological. Both men and women have screwed each other over during the times, but I think the reason why jealousy seems stronger in women is because of the biological issue of safety. It turns emotional, and we don't understand it, it just feels undeniably real. Also, infidelity is very much real. But no matter how real, it starts with the individual. We must be whole in ourselves, no matter what happens. Dare to speak up when necessary, and search ourselves when we are carried away with our emotions ..
TH-cam, handlers. Yeah I used to be a game tester too. I find software and use it however I want.❤😊 Just like I'm using your comment section. To communicate to you.😮 Thanks for liking me boys.❤
Looking at jealousy from a theoretical scientific perspective, I think it's about survival. In primitive times, the best chance of survival for females is the male you have protecting you. And in order to be picked by a dominant male, you need to stand out from the rest; so other females are your competition. I think these traits may have survived through all the stages that of evolution and has morphed into what is know as "jealousy" today. The same could be said about males. Males can be jealous of other males because you want what another has, and to be the king you have to beat the king; or at least prove that you're better than the next male. These traits also survived throughout evolution. Its all about competition, survival, and mating. ....or shit, maybe this wine is just hitting me a little hard right now. Cheers! 😁
Its not that simple and fine: choices >>> consequences, Keira ^^ Its all extremely dynamic and out of control No one can have 100% confidence in themselves or their choices, its just impossible Too much info, too many events, too fast, too complex - we live in unhuman times In your 40s u will as clueless as u know, and its fine
And all men are, my friend, jealousy is not bad, it is proof the love and keeping the person who you love him, but excessive jealousy is bad, cause it transformed to controling and doubting, did you got it
What if jealousy is part of a recessive gene pool trait of the brain, triggering the brain when it's been programmed to what shamefulness we only bare upon ourselves by believing what others say. Due to time after time, that frequency is what we've lowered ourself into the comfortability-wise as what's now a reflex🤔
Keira has more confidence then a lot of 40,50,60, and even 70 year old women I tend to come across, she is confident, articulate, intelligent, and perceptive, she is not afraid to speak her mind, she giving Emma Chamberlain vibes! 🔥
@bolg892 Her videos are usually 8 to 12 minutes. Leaving a few comments takes no more than 5 to 10 minutes. So basically 20 minutes. That leaves 23 hours and 40 minutes in my day. What a dorkniblets!! On top of that, you're spending 20>30 minutes a day watching her videos, searching for my comments, reading my comments, and commenting back to me. Then factor in the 4 to 5 hours you've got your head up your rump, I've obviously had the more productive day limpnoodle!
Only thing I disagree with is putting yourself first in your twenties, just my experience, but I couldn't even put myself first in my teens due to socioeconomic circumstances and a naive nature, not to mention society does create an environment of self depreciation based on shallow expectations...life goes by quick from 20-40 only if your having a good time, but I will say some don't age chronologically, if anything many youths are also jello and green with envy with "older" people too, went to the mall last fall, can't say I was unscathed from evil hater vibes.
Exactly this! How am I meant to build a life together with the back of a smartphone? Men may have problems with video games, but at least video games aren't destroying their mental health and require some kind of brain power and critical thinking. It actually has some benefits to cognition and planning. But social media is just fast food for the brain, and it's turned all the women into narcissistic zombies and parasites. They can't even differentiate reality from social media anymore. All they want it that useless currency 'Likes' which does nothing but temporarily inflate their egos, but the come down is rough and then they need their next fix. I'm going to marry the first women I meet that doesn't use social media!
For us men, height & money are what we look at (unless of course you have that stuff) in other men. Now as for why we are jealous, it’s a long story but like with all things, it all starts somewhere in the book of “Genesis” & ends in a place called “Revelation”.
I'm brazilian and at the moment I'm studying English, but I'm still a begginer and your videos are helping me so much to improve my English, because I'm discovering so many new words and it is awesome for me. So, thank you and continue making videos, they are fun and I'm learning with them kkkkkkkk. Let's go Keira!
It is more than comparing yourself to another women, it is more of a case that your man will be more attracted to that women then you as she flirts with him.
I don't know if you are *super-wise* beyond your years, or just somewhat wise beyond your years but an extremely great & confident speaker. My daughter is 29, and neither she nor a friend of hers spoke like you *for such an extended duration.* I do know of several woman around my age who speak similar to you, but only because of their many years of experiences in which they learned from life.
The more skin you show, the more men will say you are the smartest person who ever lived. But the smart girl does not squander her youth and beauty chasing likes and subscribers.
Youre like one of few people who just talks and doesnt cut every 2 seconds. Way better honestly
It's definitely better, but I think TH-cam encourages people to do that, and it's very frustrating
Some people are good at NEGATIVE ranting. It comes naturally for her.
@@kbrewski1 It comes naturally for you too, I've never seen you say anything positive.
Please reply on the comments of yours old videos too
Someone said she is a bot in comment like im totally confused@@kbrewski1
Just the other day I had two Mexican women offer me (a White man) a bottle of water and a ride to wherever I needed to go. No American woman (black, white, asian) have never offered me a ride to help me.I have no sympathy for what's coming for American women. I see why the Mexican men work so hard, because their women actually respect and love them.
It's in their culture too Mexican folks are hard working people.
In what way do you think Mexican men work hard? Is there a country on earth where no man works hard? The better the country's economy is, basically the less loving and respectful the women are.
You're wishing bad on American women because a few didn't give you a ride? Sir no disrespect but I'm not giving a random man OR woman a ride either. I don't trust people, so many are out here robbing and killing. I prefer to be safe.
I work in construction, and now I even see Hispanic women working on construction sites, quite a bit. I saw some doing electrical work on a construction site, I couldn't believe it. I NEVER see any other type of woman but Hispanic doing actual work on a construction site.
I am mexican and live in Mexico. Don't get it twisted. VVomen here as unsufferable as in United States of Marica. Same materialistic and superficial culture.
great insight, "if you cant appreciate it now, you wont be able to appreciate it later".
LOL! Keira's "get your shit together" face close-up is gold.
Ever since the men are simple vid I've been watching your real talks consistently. You so real, WE need more people like you.
Keira is a very old soul. Wise beyond her years.
I agree... the world needs more of her type.
When you see someone with something you don't have, tell yourself that they deserve it and that you should be happy that they are happy.
Maybe they don't deserve it, but it's best to tell yurself life is unfair, and accept it.
If you really want that "thing," whatever it may be, save your money and get it. It's not that complicated.
@@operoverlordI don't know about telling yourself that life is unfair, in a situation like that because it's basically like having a pity party, while simultaneously victimizing yourself, when you're not at all a victim. I mean, you're talking about material possessions.
@@gtagameplayvidzsometimes life is complicated. we all have different situations. some people can’t just do anything if they are limited in some way. some people can get out of difficult situations better than others where as others are stuck physically or mentally. life is really THAT tough for some people. especially homeless people.
You need to find your true self your best self. Ask God to find yourself and you will discover things very deep that you will never ever have thought about when it comes about your character and destiny. God will give you challenges in life and those challenges are made for you and tell you what your true self is
Jealous is anger exteriorised, semi unconscious. It is hostility directed outwardly but also partly inward, an unmet need or perceived injustice.
It comes from a scarcity mentality. Others must lose for you to win. Why can't you be selfless and wish well upon others, and yourself? One judges oneself inadequate and seek attention to remediate that. It's envy of others good fortune. Take responsibility for your weaknesses and assert your needs, be grounded in reality. This is my best advice on jealousy.
people in general we are deeply selfish and arrogant af.
BONUS DIAS, OHMBRE! PLEASE READ MY COMMENT AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE.
For the most part, I agree. I am very selfish.
Jealousy, as I have observed it, seems to be a reaction to the fear of losing, or not having access, to scarce resources or the achievement of goals. Definitely see this in older women who are searching for a mate and finding that they have to compete with younger women Maybe that's better characterized as "envy". But same is true when a wife or girlfriend becomes jealous of another woman who might be paying too much attention to the former's man. She's fearful that she'll might lose her security and comfort.
What we are missing and the way forward is brother and sisterhood. Comparison is the thief of joy. Jealousy is emotional disregulation. Looking forward to meeting you.
You are a girl this world needs! I wish i could find a girl like you !
Old Soul for sure
She more like a young lady with potential that not easy to find these days definitely a role model to the girls out here though with no direction in life
You are average simp lol .
Just go to the local gym or supermarket and quit hanging around the trailer park.
@bankheadpolo all the ones I like are taken, if very rare one doesn't have a boyfriend and even then it's hard to get them to open up...
These 30+ women have the accumulated pump 'n dump energy.
i'm more valuable now that i'm used and damaged and have higher standards.
@@uhnborhn5032 their logic indeed. Unfortunately for them, the market decides (otherwise).
I'm in my 40s and I relate better to the 20year olds...somehow.
@RandysAvocations I do too. Sometimes ill see a man about 45 at a restaurant with some 45 year old monster. And I'm just like- why dude? Why!?
You mean the 304 energy
She's lowkey flexing her Abs... and I'm here for it. 😂
Ngl eventhough as guy who has difficulty understanding women, watching ur content helps me understand those term...thnx
Try telling a narcissist to just stop being jealous.
Or something worse.
She herself is the ultimate Narcissist.
⭐Guy : Doctor, my Girlfriend is pregnant but we always use protection How is it possible?
Doctor : Let me tell you a story: "There was once a Hunter who always carried a gun wherever he went.
One day he took out his Umbrella instead of his Gun and went out. A Lion suddenly jumped in front of him. In order to scare the Lion, the Hunter used the Umbrella like a Gun, and shot the Lion, then it died!
Guy : Nonsense! Someone else must have shot the Lion..
Doctor : Good! You understood the story. Next patient please.⭐
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Great public speaker and great explanation
Jealousy / comparison is a happiness thief.
You are awesome! You speak the truth! I admire you!
Old men do this to young men also because they're mad they wasted thier youth.
I blame women for their unrealistic expectations. Not young men, especially if they're short. They got it just as bad.
"Old man take a look at your life, I'm a lot like you were."
You will be old one day just so you know. And all the old men I know are happy and minding their own business. Never witnessed this supposed jealousy
@@Las645
Well, there are always a few "get off my lawn" types.
@Las645 maybe you have a good family any person from a dysfunctional family knows what I'm talking about.
properly defined: jealousy is when you're worried someone is taking something from you (you already own it, and are afraid of losing it)
ENVY: is when you want what someone else has (someone else owns it, and you want it)
I like your Honesty❤
This is a great video topic, a woman who lives with me in her mid 20s in jealous of me and I’m 18.
Good thoughts
.. feels isolating when no one else around you wants to acknowledgement uncomfortable truths.
Excellent points. Kudos for speaking the truth. However, how can women be not jealous of you if when you reach 40 and if you use no makeup, you'll still look way better than most of them even in their 20s! That's a conundrum, I guess. You will scare off all women and girlfriends of all men right off the bat as they can't compete with your looks at all 🙂
You don't need to worry about other younger women you're good-looking the Way You Are
Lovely woman...❤🌺🌺
This is the exact problem I have. This is my root problem. BEAUTY AND THEM BEING AHEAD OF ME.
Its true that a lot of men try to look the same. As a man i see it often, and catch myself doing it too every now and then but there seems to be a different template for every 10 years of age groups. But then there's people that try everything to look 'different' which ultimately and ironically causes the same effect of looking the same as someone else trying to do that. I just try to dress simply and practically with some decent colours but at this point im thinking of learning to make my own tshirts because good Lord clothes quality is shit nowadays.
So true man, even people in public comment on my simple style more nowadays than when I was trying to jump on fashion trends.
Suit at work. Jeans and a t-shirt everywhere else. Simple.
You are an example of a good role model, thank you for making these videos. 👍
I begin to believe the feeling is a fear of being rejected, a negative vise we seem to get entangled with.
And now that I think of it it's more of a way of self-discipline and how One deals with this negative emotion so that one can overcome it even if you have strong feelings of jealousy for one person that person has their own flaws so I like to just think of it as nobody's perfect and we're all under God's 🚧 construction at different levels.
Your such an inteligent Woman I hope your worshiped in a good way and happy ! Your a great Role model for younger women and speak so much sense and truth Your parent s must be very proud too Have a Great Day Kiera !
I'm a dude and most of her points apply to me as well, I hope the young women that watch this understand that everybody is unique and as soon as you start doing what's popular or do something because "everybody else is doing it" it automatically breaks down your own unique character and its even worse if you truly don't believe in doing those things.
Plenty of reasons for people of either sex to be jealous of other people in their twenties. The key would be to let it help you instead of dwelling on it
Just started watching your videos recently, and you have an absolutely remarkable amount of wisdom and honorable posture towards life, people, and the interconnected experiences of relationship...
What's incredible is your ability to excavate the heart and uncover important pieces someone should observe and focus on to inherit an empathetic perspective opening your mind to things you've never witnessed before, which elegantly demonstrates you, your maturity, how much you care, and how authentic you really are 👏
Your personhood is priceless, keep going 🙌
Totally agree. It's like she stepped out of a time machine. These observations usually take decades to coalesce into clarity like hers.
You guys obviously don't know many women. Do you live in trailer parks? Van down by the river?
We tell our sons to utilize post-nut clarity before going to meet a girl. So they don't sound like this.
My nephew is a 24 year old ISFP. I can see similarities here
@@kbrewski1 Bro is projecting lol sad
As a man I’m very thankful that we peak during late 30s (36-37 and then plateaus during next decade). We have a lot more time to sculpt ourselves than yall women do, since u gals peak way earlier ab a decade earlier, and yall also have to rush life more because of that.
I don't know anything ladies but shouldn't be jealous she's right look if you got the right stuff. It will carry you work on yourself be the best self you can offer someone. Don't look at other people look at yourself. I love her to death for being so open that's a rarity people are afraid to be that open nobody wants to be rejected and that's what you put yourself in store for there will be people that don't agree with her that does not mean she's wrong she's right for who she is and I think she's beautiful thank you keira Lhotan you will accomplish all you set out you'll get what you put into the world and you're putting good things a positive energy you go girl I will be cheering for you till it's over and let's hope it continues on for the rest of your life don't let the world change you you'll thank yourself for❤
And yes you already know you're something special just don't let it blind you 💓
My ex wife was very jealous whenever a random woman would approach or speak to me in public it was a big turnoff
I'm here for Brewski's commentary!🥤
You mean that incel in the comment section who spends his days writing hate comments cause his life is just that sad.
That guy is something else lol
Thanks! Some people appreciate good humor. And then there are the Simping dipniblets below your post who spend hours stalking me and who are obsessed with me. What Chuckleheads!! 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
@@kbrewski1 I feel sorry for you, bro.
@Darren_S
That's interesting because I feel sorry for your family and anyone you come into contact with. 😵💫
I like your hair that length - good choice!
How nice if there were more women like you in this world. Love from Malaysia.
Napoleon my old chum, my war brother & my emperor... so "this" is where you ended up being exiled to!
Napoleon was a pipsqueak with SPS (small pecker syndrome)
Ok your joke was really good. I just happen to be some random guy from Southeast Asia who loves history.
Jealousy is with both men and women. You are right, people comparing themself to others. When in actuality, it is your uniqueness that makes you the individual you are. We are all all ONE OF A KIND. That is really incredible if you think about it. However, some take that one of a kind to another level....LOL .
I wanted to look like other girls 👧 I had that problem too 😕 I wasn't happy anymore in myself it really made me so so depressed😔 😪
I recommend. Don't be a Chad chaser. It will just make you miserable.
Every one of my wife’s women friends were jealous of her and tried to sabotage her life. Especially her older female friends who regretted there life decisions and actions and wanted to be in a different place than where they ended up.
As an older single man, I don't want to go back to my 20's. Well I'll take that back, I would like my memory of my 20's lol. I envy couples sometimes just because I get a little lonely. I do see women having this problem your talking about.
I agree, women don't need to be jealous and as a guy don't understand this "Female competitive logic". Why the need to "I have to have what she has mentality" instead of I'm happy for her, I hope to be that happy. I've posted this all over, women think to much with their emotions and not enough logic (mind). Another thing that needs to stop is that guys (men) say women at the ages of 30 years, 40 years, 50 years etc....have no value and that's just wrong. All have value. Guys are a big problem in this mess, they need to acknowledge this as well as certain females. The True Good Guys need to be wanted and not keep being stepped on and hurt. This will never stop until women stop with the disgusting use/abuse guys who don't care, now The True Guys are walking away and don't want to come back and until recently I never knew how bad women trying to destroy other women's relationships was. Keep up the good work, your videos are great and truthful.
I've seen a spouses jealousy effect a worker & coworkers' job a few times. And the workers might not eveñ know or expect it. But that couple might even pressure the bosses with their feelings & wants about it. Very hurtful to others in the workplace. Especially when it turns into targeting other workers, which I have seen happen.
I absolutely love you, your channel, your content, your ideas that makes us reflect about topics that aren't talked about enough. So refreshing, so authentic, you feel real. Not like every other internet personality that wears a mask. Please keep it up, Keira!! 🙏🙌👏
I love watching your channel grow!
someone who has low confidence, low self-esteem in their 20s could screw their whole life up by the time they are in their 40s.......good topic
My girlfriend started grilling me about where I've been, who I was with, and stuff like that. I appreciate that she cares about me, but I don't like that she doesn't trust me. I also don't like that she's "investigating" me after I've been out with my buddys or at the gym and other places. I love her, but it's very uncomfortable to feel like my every move is being scrutinized and interpreted by her. I meet women all the time at work, at the gym, at events and other places. Some of them are hot, but I've never cheated on her. I don't know what I can do to make her trust me. I can't just stay at home all the time and not have a life.. I enjoy meeting new people, and I obviously enjoy being with beautiful women, but I have morals, ethics, honor, and principles. I love my girlfriend, and the last thing I want to do is hurt her, so I've never strayed even when I had the chance. The jealousy and distrust is very tiring and disappointing though. I'm not sure if my relationship can be sustainable if her jealously gets much worse over time.
Dude Ive learned that women need verbal or visible validation in a relationship like to guys its unspoken obviously but you gotta show it to your girl. Give her random compliments and idk take her out every now and then. Get here a chocolate when you come back from work theres lotsa things you can do.
Same here but it's people I don't even know and their reasons seem to be stupid since I'm single and don't owe them anything.
Quit being such a Beta male wimp.
Dude, I'm going to say it now. An insecure woman like this will probably cheat on you. The reasoning is in self-sabotage, projection, and insecurity. You sound like a good man. If she cannot trust you despite your values and honour, it's either because she doesn't know you well enough, or she doesn't trust her own nature. There could be another reason, such as she was betrayed and cheated on in the past by someone she cared about, lending to her distrusting nature. But I'd be cautious if she doesn't change her attitude and distrust of you. She may find herself in a situation to cheat and she will justify it like "he is going to cheat on me anyway, or he already has. So I should just do it too before he can hurt me".
If you want a future with this woman, you need to reassure her and set down some concrete ground rules and lay out the future of the relationship, or get her to seek counselling of some kind.
@@kbrewski1The unpaid simp police. You don't even notice how you are projecting your own insecurities because you are obviously obsessed with her and the whole simping thing. Do some self-examination because you are embarrassing yourself.
In your 20s is when you are typically in your physical prime which would also means since your stock is rising or peaking you can choose the better candidate and not to be screwed over by loverboy chads, use it as a time to find a compatible and suitable husband, so after you have your kids you still be better positioned to have some kind of career later in life if you so choose, but the God loving and fearing modest mothers are what many are missing in the western world, we need more proverbs 31 women
My guess is the Modeling world is probably filled with jealousy - although I do love how there is also really good support in Modeling and acting - where there is scarcity you feel threatened - my girlfriends would not be jealous of certain girls and super jealous of others - and same with me - certain guys trigger me and other's not
This young lady is spotlighting problems.......
I am a boy. No definition of jelousy found. I was there with Carlo Pagani and he told me at the end of the exam not to ever stop
Wise beyond your years.
Great Video!!! really liked this one
I find that young people aren’t receptive to advice. I have 3 younger brothers, the youngest is the one who feels like he is the advisor! Nothing trumps experience. I’ve been there and done that. It is a generational thing. Younger people are being told some caca.
Auditon for this role of st catherine of alexandria; you'd portray a model of righteousness for unmarried girls (LA/OC)
I love it when women act irrational and jealous. It's so cute
The entire system exists for profit by pitting people against one another. If the women are divided the community is divided. To rebel against this is to give yourself the love first the spills out into the world and makes the community that ensures the highest quality of life for our children’s children.
The best thing a woman can do is commit early to a high-value man. No premarital sex. Get engaged and married. Go through everything together, those things will make you stronger and better together, and you’ll have the best chance to spend the rest of your lives together.
These women who date and party through their 20’s and 30’s have little to offer at 30 and nothing to offer at 40. No one wants that. They have half their lifetime of not committing to anything. Why would they at that point? They don’t.
I video was really refreshing to hear thank you for that 😅
Jealousy is rooted in safety, security, which is a deeply biologically rooted need for women because of the need for protection while vulnerable with a baby.
Envy on the other hand, is pathological and wishes harm upon other people.
This online culture hijacks our natural circuits of need for security, and turns it pathological. Both men and women have screwed each other over during the times, but I think the reason why jealousy seems stronger in women is because of the biological issue of safety. It turns emotional, and we don't understand it, it just feels undeniably real. Also, infidelity is very much real.
But no matter how real, it starts with the individual. We must be whole in ourselves, no matter what happens. Dare to speak up when necessary, and search ourselves when we are carried away with our emotions ..
Thought she was gonna throw that cup at me
TH-cam, handlers.😊 I swear this the last time I'll do this. Is there anyone in the Alton area that needs a drummer🎉😅
I am immune: Transistor Technics.
I have to say, your fitness level is inspiring. Quite discipled you must be.
TH-cam, handlers. Yeah I used to be a game tester too. I find software and use it however I want.❤😊 Just like I'm using your comment section. To communicate to you.😮 Thanks for liking me boys.❤
Looking at jealousy from a theoretical scientific perspective, I think it's about survival. In primitive times, the best chance of survival for females is the male you have protecting you. And in order to be picked by a dominant male, you need to stand out from the rest; so other females are your competition. I think these traits may have survived through all the stages that of evolution and has morphed into what is know as "jealousy" today.
The same could be said about males. Males can be jealous of other males because you want what another has, and to be the king you have to beat the king; or at least prove that you're better than the next male. These traits also survived throughout evolution. Its all about competition, survival, and mating.
....or shit, maybe this wine is just hitting me a little hard right now. Cheers! 😁
From a guy who calls himself "Kong". aka Small pecker Syndrome. Sps
Thank you Keira❤. You are awesome
These videos are incredible ❤
loving your style in this vid: comfy and insightful
they say jealousy is a green eyed monster
When i first checked your channel and viewed your content... ngl, but i was shocked. I was shocked to see women like you do exist :') Keep goin :)💙
Its not that simple and fine: choices >>> consequences, Keira ^^
Its all extremely dynamic and out of control
No one can have 100% confidence in themselves or their choices, its just impossible
Too much info, too many events, too fast, too complex - we live in unhuman times
In your 40s u will as clueless as u know, and its fine
Which is perfectly natural.
Accepting is key word here... just to given a clue. Kiddo
Just made the likes 900 and now im playing with it 899...900...899
On words everything is simple
Thank 💚🩶
"All women are jealous"
-Keira Lhotan
And all men are, my friend, jealousy is not bad, it is proof the love and keeping the person who you love him, but excessive jealousy is bad, cause it transformed to controling and doubting, did you got it
@@zaidalmalhe7854 yeah, I do.
What if jealousy is part of a recessive gene pool trait of the brain, triggering the brain when it's been programmed to what shamefulness we only bare upon ourselves by believing what others say. Due to time after time, that frequency is what we've lowered ourself into the comfortability-wise as what's now a reflex🤔
You’re amazing Keira❤❤❤
Keira has more confidence then a lot of 40,50,60, and even 70 year old women I tend to come across, she is confident, articulate, intelligent, and perceptive, she is not afraid to speak her mind, she giving Emma Chamberlain vibes! 🔥
Wow, the Simping is strong with these.....
@@kbrewski1 🤣
@@kbrewski1 You say that yet you're spending your days watching her videos and leaving angry comments.
@bolg892
Her videos are usually 8 to 12 minutes. Leaving a few comments takes no more than 5 to 10 minutes. So basically 20 minutes. That leaves 23 hours and 40 minutes in my day. What a dorkniblets!!
On top of that, you're spending 20>30 minutes a day watching her videos, searching for my comments, reading my comments, and commenting back to me. Then factor in the 4 to 5 hours you've got your head up your rump, I've obviously had the more productive day limpnoodle!
Sounds more like envy, to me.
Youth is wasted on the young.
I dislike jealous people, it is the start of why crimes happen
What basketball player is it behind you? Looks like Toney Parker!
Beautiful
Only thing I disagree with is putting yourself first in your twenties, just my experience, but I couldn't even put myself first in my teens due to socioeconomic circumstances and a naive nature, not to mention society does create an environment of self depreciation based on shallow expectations...life goes by quick from 20-40 only if your having a good time, but I will say some don't age chronologically, if anything many youths are also jello and green with envy with "older" people too, went to the mall last fall, can't say I was unscathed from evil hater vibes.
Don't be a sacrificial pawn to king's and queens.
If women would pull their faces away from their phones for a minute maybe they will learn how to have some confidence!
Yep. Ever since the cell phone was introduced, women are absolutely addicted to their phones. That's what has killed normal social dating.
Exactly this! How am I meant to build a life together with the back of a smartphone? Men may have problems with video games, but at least video games aren't destroying their mental health and require some kind of brain power and critical thinking. It actually has some benefits to cognition and planning. But social media is just fast food for the brain, and it's turned all the women into narcissistic zombies and parasites. They can't even differentiate reality from social media anymore. All they want it that useless currency 'Likes' which does nothing but temporarily inflate their egos, but the come down is rough and then they need their next fix. I'm going to marry the first women I meet that doesn't use social media!
Social media & dating apps ruined society
I was shy way before I had a phone. I can't stand people who blame every problem on technology.
@@Las645 tech playes a big roll in the social problems so you must hate a majority of people.
Woman out here getting exposed by other woman👀
For us men, height & money are what we look at (unless of course you have that stuff) in other men. Now as for why we are jealous, it’s a long story but like with all things, it all starts somewhere in the book of “Genesis” & ends in a place called “Revelation”.
I'm brazilian and at the moment I'm studying English, but I'm still a begginer and your videos are helping me so much to improve my English, because I'm discovering so many new words and it is awesome for me. So, thank you and continue making videos, they are fun and I'm learning with them kkkkkkkk. Let's go Keira!
It is more than comparing yourself to another women, it is more of a case that your man will be more attracted to that women then you as she flirts with him.
The most pathetic of human emotions (that I've been guilty of once or twice)
I don't know if you are *super-wise* beyond your years, or just somewhat wise beyond your years but an extremely great & confident speaker. My daughter is 29, and neither she nor a friend of hers spoke like you *for such an extended duration.* I do know of several woman around my age who speak similar to you, but only because of their many years of experiences in which they learned from life.
The more skin you show, the more men will say you are the smartest person who ever lived.
But the smart girl does not squander her youth and beauty chasing likes and subscribers.
Some men here have repeatedly told her exactly that. But she ignores it. She wants the Simp subscribers.
@@kbrewski1 I'm just grateful for it. Professional men have been coming in droves to my province for young, chaste wives. I was a millionaire at 19.
Preach, young lady!