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  • In this clip : Sarah Jessica Parker, Chris Noth, Kristin Davis ( gives you shivers at 4:06 onwards), Cynthia Nixon, Kim Cattrall, Mario Cantone, Willie Garson, Evan Handler, Lynn Cohen, Joseph Pupo and Alexandra Fong.
    About this clip: This is the most infamous scene in SATC narrative where we come to know of the impenetrable, phallogocentric Mr. Big's weakness (2:17 , 3:13 , 3:43). Not unlike a common man, he has his own share of jitters and lacks close male-companionship even for a momentous once-in-a-lifetime event like marriage. This scene fetches Big, big notoriety inasmuch sympathy. Carrie, all decked up in Vivienne Westwood and an avian head-gear, starts from the Goldenblatt residence at 930 Park Avenue, but cannot fly much high in the most important day for her life - the marrying of Carrie Bradshaw to John James Preston after years of trials, tribulations and Nijinskies. This event is what the preceding entire six seasons were aimed at and gravitated towards. In fact, this scene is the very "singularity" of the SATC "cosmos". We see the white rose-petals fall down all over in the middle of the road, as the traffic witnesses their drama-unfold, like the broken, withered wings of a once-ambitious bird.
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  • @terrywhitney9768
    @terrywhitney9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7242

    Kristin Davis' pain in this scene looks so realistic that it looks like she's not even acting at all.

    • @Dnzkocak1117
      @Dnzkocak1117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      Totally

    • @notsoinnocentcow
      @notsoinnocentcow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +291

      That look gets me every time I watch this scene

    • @citydweller99
      @citydweller99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      Charlotte always argued for Big on the series

    • @87alsjth
      @87alsjth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

      She looks so stressed for Carrie. Such a good friend.

    • @C_Tizzle
      @C_Tizzle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

      Her friends' hearts broke for her in that scene. And she knew they would have her for real. When she just said "get me outta here", and they all sprung into action. Ushering her away from any further embarrassment, while Samantha the PR Queen opted to take the reigns of damage control, along with the help of their party-planning expert gays.

  • @rayyana.8538
    @rayyana.8538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10294

    This should been the absolute and final end of the saga that was Big and Carrie. No take backs. No forgiveness. No nothing. Just the end.

    • @senemwho
      @senemwho 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

      Oh, how I wish!

    • @ambrosiacanelo9014
      @ambrosiacanelo9014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +416

      It should have ended with hubble

    • @Andreabruno81907
      @Andreabruno81907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +517

      At least she showed some self -respect for a few seconds before she started to humiliate herself again.

    • @user-fv9cp3tk7y
      @user-fv9cp3tk7y 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      That's stupid. Everybody makes mistakes. My husband also cancelled the wedding 2 days before it should have happened, and now we are happily married for 9 years. He also freaked out then.

    • @Andreabruno81907
      @Andreabruno81907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +535

      @@user-fv9cp3tk7y some women have no self-steem and would do anything to have a man put a ring in their finger.

  • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
    @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3377

    All these years and I will NEVER understand how this wasn’t the end of Big and Carrie.
    This should have been a permanent dealbreaker.

    • @obscurefantastica6883
      @obscurefantastica6883 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      Same. It can’t be forgiven

    • @toplaycool21
      @toplaycool21 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I saw the ending and I'm like "really?" Shouldn't have happened. No way they would be together.

    • @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343
      @sophieamandaleitontoomey9343 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@duchess5958 Except after so many years of lying, disappointment, not committing and everything, Big abandoned her...AGAIN.

    • @newsing33
      @newsing33 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      Raise your hand if that would have been the end of your relationship with him, you would have never talked to him again, and NEVER looked back! ✋

    • @newsing33
      @newsing33 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Duchess Yeah I heard when Big said that, but I think he was lying. I don't think he was really ok, and wanted to get married to her then.

  • @akibaryou
    @akibaryou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4794

    Based on my experiences, to be Samantha in this scene, that friend who takes over everything when things go wrong, is one of the greatest deed a friend can do... Samantha is truly an MVP.

    • @avisiktaghosh9075
      @avisiktaghosh9075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +157

      Absolutely, she would have to take on the brunt of the public and face the people and answer to goodness knows who.

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      So true. Imagine how awkward that would be to get up in front of several hundred people and say the wedding is off.

    • @heddalee
      @heddalee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@vegasgirl3538 It only takes ten seconds, though. There's nothing else to say except "go home."

    • @heddalee
      @heddalee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      She's not a better friend than the others for doing this. It just happens to be the thing she's better at.

    • @tenga3tango
      @tenga3tango 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Divide the credit equally among the 3 friends, Charlotte held Carrie, Miranda provided the sob tissues, Samantha just cleared the hall.

  • @londonsantana376
    @londonsantana376 ปีที่แล้ว +2075

    When Carrie said “I KNEW YOU WOULD DO THIS!” I get the chills everytime. That part hits home hard for me.

    • @karcig
      @karcig 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

      It makes me cry, think about how much you love and wait for someone and he just leave you without an explanation

    • @BellesView
      @BellesView 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Then why the hell did she go along with the wedding planning?

    • @dayschange2
      @dayschange2 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +85

      @@BellesView Sometimes when people want something really badly, they'll talk themselves out their doubts. Tell themselves that they're being paranoid over nothing and things like that. Honestly, if you've never had that kind of conflict tearing you up inside, I'm happy for you.

    • @JoDeeJ0D
      @JoDeeJ0D 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @havilahdriver8007 I agree. I am uncomfortable seeing people throw themselves at their partners when it's not reciprocated, like Carrie's character. It is creepy when men do it, and it makes women appear unstable when they do it. Like they have no self-worth. I almost broke up with my husband while we were dating cause he texted me too much, ffs!

    • @abertasso1298
      @abertasso1298 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yes....the specific details are different of course. I consider myself a pretty intelligent person. But I have been there. The foolish or misguided or downright stupid faith in someone who should not have been trusted. And then the "The I KNEW YOU WOULD DO THIS TO ME"...

  • @ValerianWitch
    @ValerianWitch 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3897

    The worst part is he said “I freaked out for a minute but I’m ready now”
    Men are so much drama they can’t handle themselves when they are emotional.

    • @MaxMustermann-hd7oe
      @MaxMustermann-hd7oe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +340

      He was never husband material. It's not like, they decided to get married a day before the ceremony. I don't understand, why Carrie didn't move on after this.

    • @gregap8282
      @gregap8282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      We are raised to be logical not emotional and then it becomes hard for us to handle emotions

    • @Normbox268
      @Normbox268 2 ปีที่แล้ว +255

      @@gregap8282 go to therapy then

    • @gregap8282
      @gregap8282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @@Normbox268 lol I actually do, but the problem has to do with society. But thanka for the advice

    • @yenh1144
      @yenh1144 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Like through the whole planning, you had time to be ready but you needed an extra hr, WTF!

  • @smok3ywuff784
    @smok3ywuff784 ปีที่แล้ว +1128

    And the worst thing is, she STILL took him back after he disrespected and humiliated her like that in front of everybody. That would’ve been the last straw for me right there.

    • @mjeas6211
      @mjeas6211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That explains why you are still single and will be like that forever. Unable to reproduce. Darwinism.

    • @vhilofaye1618
      @vhilofaye1618 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Well Carrie is a slave for money and luxury (that normally she wouldn't be able to have). It makes sense for her to forgive because those dollars are so shiny!

    • @GradKat
      @GradKat 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      She just wanted a nice wedding in her beautiful designer frock and that bastard couldn’t even do that for her. Carrie may have forgiven him, but I never did.

    • @Sthuthukile
      @Sthuthukile 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Walking away from someone is extremely, especially trying to move on after loving someone for so many years. It might be easier for her to fall back with him, so all that time was worth it than face the fact that she has to start again from scratch.

    • @Debo_OG
      @Debo_OG หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Revisiting this show 20 yrs later and understanding how sadly dysfunctional so many of their relationships were. And, honestly, how immature Carrie was. Not to say Big wasn’t a hhhhuge A hole, because he is definitely the Biggest one of all!

  • @SLa-pb1gg
    @SLa-pb1gg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1862

    I remember seeing this in the movie and the theater went quiet on this scene. Every woman was shocked. The way Charlotte screamed at him was so good and made me tear up.

    • @msmilano7091
      @msmilano7091 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      It was typical Big, though. Nobody would have been shocked

    • @kennethhwang3425
      @kennethhwang3425 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Especially Charlotte. She's the romantic one among them. She trusted Big to not hurt her friend like that.

    • @JoDeeJ0D
      @JoDeeJ0D ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not shocking at all. She was unhinged throughout their relationship.

    • @rickyolivarez
      @rickyolivarez 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@JoDeeJ0Dhuh????

    • @JoDeeJ0D
      @JoDeeJ0D 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@rickyolivarez Am I not allowed to have an opinion? Wtf. She is a made-up-character, that appeared very unstable to me. Relax.

  • @rsmith6425
    @rsmith6425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4964

    Everyone needs friends like this, not only Miranda and Charlotte's support but also Samantha's immediate stepping up and going "I'll take care of everything just go"

    • @rileykaplan3470
      @rileykaplan3470 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      True 👍
      But then again... As first maid of honor this was actually her duty... 😅

    • @hardren101
      @hardren101 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      EXACTLY....The Oprah & Gayle....many can't conceive their bond n wanna label them lesbians...Do not believe either is a lesbian their relationship has ever been about sex....Their Glue is solely predicated on trust...we live a world dominated by jealousy n envy....Even Kelly Roland publicly shared she had work past her issues of jealousy related to Beyonce's success as a solo artist...Gayle is the one person on the planet that knws Oprah's true feelings on "EVERYTHING"....She trusts Gayle with inner most feelings and her life....n True genuine Trust is worth it's weight in gold...

    • @SSBB4
      @SSBB4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@rileykaplan3470 they meant to compliment her acting

    • @heathermetz3974
      @heathermetz3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely!

    • @dormimiranda8182
      @dormimiranda8182 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know!! Thats what i like about this, their friendship!

  • @rhondahoward8025
    @rhondahoward8025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2929

    _"You take her and I'll stay here and deal with all of this."_
    I haven't seen anyone give Samantha props for this, but damn, even if she's not a mother, she takes care of her girls! No questions asked just, "I'LL deal with it."

    • @MsImy12
      @MsImy12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      I like to think Samantha’s role was the mother to all of them.

    • @mauia88
      @mauia88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      She's also in PR no? Good at her job which is to manage a person's image and takes action all the time. If anyone could take care of everything, it /would/ be Samantha.

    • @janestub
      @janestub 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      U dont have to be a mother to care for people.move into the 21st century.insulting comment

    • @rhondahoward8025
      @rhondahoward8025 2 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      @@janestub That’s exactly what I said. She takes care of her girls regardless of being a mother or not. How you could possibly take issue with that comment, I have no idea. Is it part of the “21st century” to be offended at every little thing, even things that don’t make sense?

    • @eandean
      @eandean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      When Kim was getting ready to marry kris humpreys, kris Jenner said the same thing when she saw Kim was second guessing. Just go and I’ll deal with this. Kim went along with the wedding anyway

  • @HarveyHomeSchoolMomma
    @HarveyHomeSchoolMomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Charlotte’s reaction still makes me borderline tear up. It was so raw, so fiercely protective. “Don’t you dare.”

    • @nizjus3234
      @nizjus3234 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why does everything have to be borderline? You just teared up, Jesus.

    • @HarveyHomeSchoolMomma
      @HarveyHomeSchoolMomma 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      bord·er·line
      /ˈbôrdərˌlīn/
      noun
      noun: borderline; plural noun: borderlines
      a line marking a border.
      a division between two distinct (often extreme) conditions.
      Read the definition above, hopefully this clarifies it. I almost teared up but not quite. You’re welcome!

    • @LarrySonOfMilton
      @LarrySonOfMilton หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@nizjus3234lmao so pressed for no reason

  • @heathermetz3974
    @heathermetz3974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +359

    2:48 “I’ll stay here and deal with all of this!” And Just Like That, Samantha shows us again, that she is the Boss!

    • @light_and_sound
      @light_and_sound 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She is in PR so it makes sense.

    • @MH-gc2hr
      @MH-gc2hr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The Queen, often maligned but handles everything.

  • @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
    @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2781

    He chased her down all the way from Paris just to break her heart again? smh

  • @Thechasschang
    @Thechasschang 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3228

    Charlotte’s reaction makes me emotional every time! It felt so real.

    • @Boo928
      @Boo928 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Yup here come the tears 🥲

    • @HIMAY10NENCE
      @HIMAY10NENCE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me tooooooo

    • @ScratchthechalkBoard
      @ScratchthechalkBoard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She was the best part. Great acting, seemed so realistic

    • @kaylafarrar778
      @kaylafarrar778 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I cry every time

    • @Omi-ub3cu
      @Omi-ub3cu ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Her acting is stellar

  • @lily2441
    @lily2441 2 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Something I always wondered...all the years since I watched this scene... Is how could you ever forgive someone who left you at the alter.

    • @SRR0247
      @SRR0247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      But he didn't leave her, he was later than she was (she was also late to her own wedding), got cold feet a little but then immediately shook it off and was trying to make his way back even driving the wrong way. They could've hashed things out and actually married but of course that wouldn't have been nearly as dramatic.

    • @Maria88881
      @Maria88881 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SRR0247 are u dumb? How can u say he DIDN T LEAVE her when HE said “i can t do this”, then HE LEFT =)))))) and CAME BACK, yes, but he did leave her :) wth. And than you blame her for being too emotional, tfffff man

    • @phillipsmom6252
      @phillipsmom6252 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It’s like she told Miranda in a later episode, “It’s called forgiveness.”

    • @Every5HoursBlckFemicide15
      @Every5HoursBlckFemicide15 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@SRR0247 Sigh...please

    • @slydEvil35
      @slydEvil35 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He’s good looking and has lots of money.

  • @trikywu
    @trikywu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    This gets me every time. That fierceness in Charlotte. That should have been the end of Big and Carrie right there.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But, it was not, it sounds like.

    • @sonjalalelu3667
      @sonjalalelu3667 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes. With her No to Mr. Big, Charlotte set the limit that Carrie should have set for him long before his massive failure.

  • @Shon9tilR
    @Shon9tilR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1652

    He didn’t love her. He was more concerned about his image because he was married before. Samantha was right.

    • @ennuiblue4295
      @ennuiblue4295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      He did the whole show with Natasha and she was his second wife

    • @Shon9tilR
      @Shon9tilR 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ennuiblue4295 First

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@Shon9tilR Second. Big's first wife was a book editor who appeared on an episode early in the show.

    • @intermilan9731
      @intermilan9731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Carrie was the same. She was too absorbed with the dress and wedding

    • @EB-tr2ly
      @EB-tr2ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@intermilan9731 exactly carrie was so lost in her own needs that she never noticed his needs of a discreet wedding

  • @SMiles.21
    @SMiles.21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2381

    I'm sorry but Charlotte looking back so fiercely before quickly tiny stepping to get back in the car is so cute. I know it's because of the bottom of her dress but the contrast of her being angry but having to walk so dainty is adorable.

    • @igiveoffbadvibes8347
      @igiveoffbadvibes8347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Dude yes I always thought the same thing

    • @x_t_c
      @x_t_c 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Punctuation plsssssss

    • @jaeceee
      @jaeceee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Right u remember watching it for the first time and I replayed it. It just felt so authentic and real.

    • @carag2567
      @carag2567 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's exactly the Bette Midler walk but damn does she do it justice.

    • @tiggerbuttdelove
      @tiggerbuttdelove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Totally, it's my favourite part. She looks absolutely stunning in that dress and then kills the reaction to Big.

  • @janeawashington1304
    @janeawashington1304 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    The hug that Carrie gives Charlotte is like shes holding on for dear life because the pain is unbearable. Charlotte yelling at Big makes me emotional Everytime I see it. She went into momma bear mode!

  • @carmellem6813
    @carmellem6813 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    When she hits him with the flowers 💐 I always get teary-eyed. She's just so hurt

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very hurt, so much she can't contain herself. I, on the other hand, would rather save that for the pillows!

    • @mjeas6211
      @mjeas6211 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was selfish here. "I am humiliated"
      Clearly the marriage was about her. Not him. He was right to walk out.

    • @jenniferraymond9766
      @jenniferraymond9766 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mjeas6211You're an absolute fool 😂

  • @NiVi192
    @NiVi192 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1209

    The looks her friends are giving each-other, they just knew instantly...

    • @winglau3128
      @winglau3128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Cause why?
      Hmmm Lets see...
      Cuz they are a pair of toxic couple and Carrie is being selfish and Big is being a dick again?

    • @Catsss1017
      @Catsss1017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      They are al great actresses, their looks said thousand words like when miranda was worried then it’s like she said let’s not assume the worst

    • @isag4411
      @isag4411 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      They had always understood Big way better than Carrie…

  • @isaacchua0405
    @isaacchua0405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +550

    I came back just for Charlotte's 'No!'

    • @ScoutMotto2011
      @ScoutMotto2011 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I looked for this to see that three seconds of that look on her face.

    • @mikesmemoriesfromthepast89
      @mikesmemoriesfromthepast89 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know why she said that. Big's apology did not work. It was too late for apologizing. He missed the wedding, and he's been had.

  • @NVRSURRENDERED
    @NVRSURRENDERED 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    The way she clings to Charlotte. KNOWING that Charlotte IS SAFTEY. that Charlotte would never do anything to hurt her. and Charlotte being taken out of character by Bigs actions..... whewwwww this was some good acting. and so hard to watch. Literally cant help but tear up from witnessing this pain and disappointment. BRAVO.

  • @bonniehowell9206
    @bonniehowell9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Can you imagine going for a leisurely jog only to witness an angry woman wearing an expensive wedding dress and a bird in her hair beat a man with a flower bouquet?

    • @Twissstyyy
      @Twissstyyy ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My mom witnessed something very similar in real life in San Francisco! So crazy

    • @sunnysolaris23
      @sunnysolaris23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Because you didn't stay on the couch to watch a soap opera, the universe treated you with a real life soap opera on the jog. 😬

    • @alterbridgefan99
      @alterbridgefan99 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂

  • @terrywhitney9768
    @terrywhitney9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3052

    I loved Charlotte's reaction in this scene, when she yelled at Big, saying " No, no" it just shows how much she loves and cares deeply about Carrie, which makes her a loyal friend and I respect her for that 💯❤

    • @fairynaris2746
      @fairynaris2746 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Like nobody noticed...
      And you respect a movie character...?
      Fffff nevermind

    • @RoseyRose20
      @RoseyRose20 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She's such an amazing friend

    • @winglau3128
      @winglau3128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      On the other side, Carrie is a bitch to all of her friends.
      But the other girls are awesome.

    • @examichelle
      @examichelle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Plus, her dress was amazing

    • @ElvisLivesUpstairs
      @ElvisLivesUpstairs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I really don't like Carrie. She's so selfish to these people who are actually very good friends to her. I'd love a good friend like that

  • @ascent8487
    @ascent8487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2682

    I honestly feel this is Kristin Davis’ best scene ever. I know it’s just two words but delivered so beautifully. And it’s a poignant moment. Big finally manages to cause loves most faithful believer to turn on him. He broke her.

    • @lokena67
      @lokena67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +198

      I love the way she angrily and quickly tiptoed back in the car in her mermaid dress.

    • @eandean
      @eandean 2 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Well she cursed the day he’s born

    • @bonniehowell9206
      @bonniehowell9206 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I have noticed that Kristen Davis can be very comical.

    • @JackieHallam
      @JackieHallam 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sounds like my mom whenever she goes ballistic when pissed with me the breaking the rules.

    • @gregorbaby4269
      @gregorbaby4269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@JackieHallam does she wear mermaid dress every time you break rules as well? 😂😂

  • @megha6718
    @megha6718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    honestly, both Carrie and Big deserved this. i’d had enough of Carrie after watching the series. the girls gave up too much to deal with her crap, and they still came to her save time and time again. she really deserved to feel jilted like she made Aidan feel🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @AshleySpeaks09
      @AshleySpeaks09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      I feel awful for saying this but every time I see that scene I think of how Aiden will see this in the papers tomorrow over morning coffee w his family. I’m sure Natasha saw it too. They are both too classy to gloat but I know it must have been vindicating to know that after all that time Big and Carrie were still terrible.

    • @stephanylaroc7749
      @stephanylaroc7749 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed

    • @bergercookie
      @bergercookie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It was meant to be tragic for Carrie because she had forgotten what she promised Big . That it was just about him and her. But she didn’t answer her phone and she knew he needed her to communicate. She was selfish in making a huge public display of their wedding etc . I’m sorry but she knew what kind of man she was marrying and didn’t respect his wish for privacy.

    • @nimit2535
      @nimit2535 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes he freaked out for a moment but I do wonder if they still could have both married if Carrie could have heared him out, he was still willing to go through with it! But it was over the minute she emotionally reacted, she ended it!

  • @MSDDDD9
    @MSDDDD9 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    No matter how many times I know this seen I still get chills from “Carrie saying I knew you would do this “

  • @bbenjers
    @bbenjers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +888

    I love Samatha in this. She doesn’t even believe in marriage, but she still hurts for her friend & does what she can for her.

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Total foreshadowing that she's not in the limo with Carrie, Miranda and Charlotte. It's like they knew eventually Kim Catrall was going to quit

    • @puplover7991
      @puplover7991 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lenawagenfuehr53 Great observation!!!!👏👏

    • @TimidStorm
      @TimidStorm ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And I could tell from the looks on Carrie’s friends faced that they all knew that Big was going to back out of the wedding when he was 25 minutes late.

    • @lt3074
      @lt3074 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Samantha was always my favorite.

    • @juanchoresultay2704
      @juanchoresultay2704 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      As she said “ Marriage doesn’t guarantee a happy ending, just an ending “

  • @mammmamia
    @mammmamia 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1829

    This scene always makes me cry. Just imagine standing there and your groome is not coming.. Awful.

    • @littlewildrose860
      @littlewildrose860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      The anxiety of it all

    • @aylaperez2778
      @aylaperez2778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      I know i cried for carrie i felt so bad i would have been crying

    • @musememe1349
      @musememe1349 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Every one feels that way in their wedding day it’s natural to get cold feet.

    • @AnaMartinez-kx1wx
      @AnaMartinez-kx1wx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@musememe1349 not really...I'm more afraid of having to pay the legal fees if divorced...a divorce is a Legal break up....when your boyfriend and girlfriend there's no penalty fee, you just walk away EASY when married...it's a bitch of paperwork....fuck marriage, it's an industry to make money out of hopeless romantics...even me a woman brainwashed my whole life to believe that's the key to happiness blah blah bleh can see it's a bad financial investment... unless one is a person that is dependent on others for financial stability (gold digger,scrub, old school traditional women that depend on men cuz god forbid they get a job and get their shit together like an adult) would only benefit...the self sustaining independent provider is the one that risks getting financially screwed over...sorry but after analyzing a lot of couples around me, and even in my own family...Ive come to realize marriage IS NOT IMPORTANT...my retirement is :)

    • @kim7990
      @kim7990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Because she never learned

  • @drew5059
    @drew5059 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I’ll never forget seeing this is theatres for the first time! After this scene a woman stood up and yelled “fuck you Big!” with tears streaming down her face and then every woman (and even a couple men) stood up and chanted “fuck you Big” while crying. It was a crazy experience!

  • @YoTannyO
    @YoTannyO 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I’ve seen this scene so many times, and Charlotte’s visceral reaction of “NO, NO” when Big tries to talk to Carrie always brings tears to my eyes😢

  • @allison9090
    @allison9090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +634

    When Charlotte pointed at him and said NO. NO. The best acting moment in the entire series.

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Ah c'mon, who can forget the "I curse the day you were born" and then her water breaks?!

    • @kathconserv
      @kathconserv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The entire series…? No.

    • @elenaflowers8211
      @elenaflowers8211 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes 👍

    • @deedriver4566
      @deedriver4566 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agreed

  • @eloisagarcia3300
    @eloisagarcia3300 2 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    Everyone here praising Charlotte, and I do as well, but Sam was such a trooper and a great friend when she decided to stay and face a failed wedding

    • @Gumbier_Than
      @Gumbier_Than 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Her character does damage control well. 😊

    • @kidnplay3978
      @kidnplay3978 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well, I mean, it wasn't hers.

    • @smileyface8057
      @smileyface8057 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@kidnplay3978still pretty brave

  • @dannerzme
    @dannerzme 2 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    This scene was always the most powerful because all throughout the series Charlotte stood up for Big. She believed in his and Carrie's relationship, and played devil's advocate. At this moment she had had it with his hurtful behavior.

  • @StaceofCakes
    @StaceofCakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +533

    Every woman should be blessed with friends like these.

    • @Ajgsydodkdlclcjjs
      @Ajgsydodkdlclcjjs ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes please

    • @reneenordeen9447
      @reneenordeen9447 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      100% agree, but women these days, compete and backstab, so much. I've had my heart broken more often by women, than men. Friends, are actually enemies, these days.

    • @juanchoresultay2704
      @juanchoresultay2704 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@reneenordeen9447I think it applies to both genders, backstabbing each other but I see the point 😢

    • @lucianamentthe3613
      @lucianamentthe3613 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@reneenordeen9447❤yes, yes, yes. 😢

    • @yeayea828
      @yeayea828 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If we could all be so lucky!

  • @DakotaGreene_1
    @DakotaGreene_1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1064

    With this guy for 4 years, Engaged for 1 1/2. 6 months before the wedding. "This isn't what I want". The GET ME OUT OF HERE resonates. You're just so heartbroken.

    • @rayyana.8538
      @rayyana.8538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      A friend bought a house with her boyfriend, moved in, spent ages and lots of money renovating, all at *his* insistance. He also proposed. Then he decided he feels suffocated by her. Some people

    • @aassttrrr
      @aassttrrr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      That sounds horrific! I’m very sorry! You’ll find the one at the right time.

    • @saynotohookups
      @saynotohookups 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@rayyana.8538 Smh and rolls my eyes. Unbelievable. Who do you trust, eh?

    • @ambrosiacanelo9014
      @ambrosiacanelo9014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@rayyana.8538 for the love of God tell me she got the house!

    • @gaarasoren1234
      @gaarasoren1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @rayyan a. That's why it's not financially wise to buy a house with someone you're not married to

  • @LG-dj9qr
    @LG-dj9qr 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    All these years later it is still a heartbreaking scene.

  • @llarausa2879
    @llarausa2879 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This scene looks so realistic that gives chills. This shows the incredible friendship Carrie has, Samantha taking charge or everything, Charlotte putting a stop on her friend’s pain and Miranda supporting her.
    Even Big looks impressed by the acting of these girls… Charlotte yelling: “NO! No!!” And Carrie so broken hearted.
    Amazing acting skills everyone there.

  • @alyssaj6579
    @alyssaj6579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +917

    When Big said "I cant do this" I think anyone and everyone whos been with someone and to all of a sudden hear that...that pain is universal and recognizable. Honestly I could feel just that stinging pain...

    • @tamikaphidas6907
      @tamikaphidas6907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I cried that was the most heartbreaking movie scene ever 💔💔💔💔

    • @BriEntAnderson
      @BriEntAnderson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I blame lily for this for taking carries phone, he kept on trying to call her so he can get reassurance . Then once he tried explain carrie already had so much rage inside that nothing comprehended .

    • @katerinaliakou5549
      @katerinaliakou5549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@BriEntAnderson It's nobody's fault but Big's. How much reassurance does that toxic asshole need? They have known each other for years and they always ended up together, they even screwed other people up in order to be together, if he had the slightest doubt about this, he should have never asked her to marry him. If you love someone you don't run away because you can't reach them on the phone for a few hours, he is a middle aged man child.

    • @intermilan9731
      @intermilan9731 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Must because you made him feel unsafe.

    • @djfhfh
      @djfhfh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He could do this he just didn't want to do this

  • @terrywhitney9768
    @terrywhitney9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +559

    Kristin Davis did an amazing job in this scene!

    • @musiclove543
      @musiclove543 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yeah, her no and her eyes telling him Stop hurting her again

  • @EB-tr2ly
    @EB-tr2ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Am I the only one who thinks Carrie is so narcissist that she didn't listen to Big when he said he wanted a discreet wedding, she made all about herself, it was HER wedding, not their wedding. She was so lost in her own needs that she never picked up the phone, and once she calls him, she didn't even let him speak, when she finds him in the street, does the same, don't even listen just hit him.

  • @rochellebanks6651
    @rochellebanks6651 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Charlotte only said two words, yet conveyed a million.

  • @Olokunful
    @Olokunful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +582

    Do you know how beautiful that wedding would have been?!?!? I feel deprived! 😥💐🥀

  • @elisefincher4478
    @elisefincher4478 3 ปีที่แล้ว +429

    That look of absolute rage and disgust that charlotte had while screaming no at Big really just brought this scene to a whole other level.

    • @lisamader5270
      @lisamader5270 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      And Miranda's disgusted glance at Big. She didn't need to say a word.

  • @Mitzi73
    @Mitzi73 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I remember the scene at Big’s funeral when one of the people there said something like “he was always a dick”. I am glad the writers acknowledged this. They seemed to know how the audience felt.

  • @Kanamit3150
    @Kanamit3150 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I've never forgotten this scene. their voice pitches are all primal. you've got Carrie's wounded enraged animal " get me outta here, I am humiliated" Samantha's chaos control tone and Charlotte's pitch is like..BATTLE. unforgettable scene. I've been in all 3 positions and those voices flashed through my mind in each instance.

  • @zoeevans6410
    @zoeevans6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    Usually Miranda’s the most vociferously critical of Big’s bad behaviour, but here her
    vitriol’s tempered by her guilt about what she said to him the night before. Cynthia Nixon’s such a great actress.

    • @zoeevans6410
      @zoeevans6410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@meenaksi1082I agree - her expressions are highly nuanced. The scene when Big's trying to convince Carrie's friends to go get her from Paris is another great example.

    • @mauia88
      @mauia88 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What did she say to him?

    • @zoeevans6410
      @zoeevans6410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@mauia88 'You guys are crazy to get married'. (Steve's just turned up at the rehearsal dinner, and she's extremely upset/annoyed.) Of course, instead of just understanding that Miranda's traumatised, and doesn't mean this, Big decides to act like a five-year-old, and Carrie, of course decides to guilt Miranda and blame her for Big's behaviour, which she has enabled for years, much to Miranda's annoyance.
      (Sorry - didn't realise Meenaksi had already answered.)

    • @pastcineo
      @pastcineo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zoeevans6410 amen

    • @marymeyan
      @marymeyan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe she was thinking about the breach of promise case she's about to have 🤣

  • @dejaalston8672
    @dejaalston8672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +678

    When Charlotte says " NO!!!!" 😡😡😡😡 I felt that in my heart. It was just so heartbreaking, raw, deep, powerful, and genuine. To this day it still makes me emotional and teary eyed. 😭🥺😞 4:08

    • @lindsey5659
      @lindsey5659 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She nailed it, literally made me cry 😭 just so much love for her friend and anger.

    • @reneenordeen9447
      @reneenordeen9447 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      It gets me, every time.

  • @tdr_paraadvisor3996
    @tdr_paraadvisor3996 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg I cry every time Charlotte /(Kristen Davis)does the "NO"!!!!! Line...She really felt that line/scene and pulled it from deep down...I know because being an empath I feel it too hence my tears/emotional response EVERY SINGLE TIME!!!!!

  • @frogBISCUITS
    @frogBISCUITS 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I don't even remember him saying "I freaked out for a minute but I'm ready now" I just remember being blind with rage the first time I saw this like Carrie was.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Couldn't he have waited, and shouldn't he have gone to therapy before getting married?

    • @cherylhulting1301
      @cherylhulting1301 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm always troubled by that moment. Like maybe if she had heard they could have stepped away to talk for a moment. The earlier correspondent brought up good points that were fueling Big's nervousness. But of course there would not have been much of a movie if they had talked before the wedding.

  • @danielaantonia5881
    @danielaantonia5881 4 ปีที่แล้ว +604

    He never loved her.

    • @carolinemarchand4743
      @carolinemarchand4743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Neither did she! She loves his image and the fact that he is rich. But she never communicates with him, if he has any doubts, fear... she lashes out right away! She tolerates no flaws in him and as soon as she sees one, she acts like a brat! She wants things her way period! Watch the série again and ask yourself if you would put up with someone acting like Carrie? I would not and I am a woman

    • @hesayshesayhowboutmesay
      @hesayshesayhowboutmesay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@carolinemarchand4743 THANK YOU!!!!

    • @Andreabruno81907
      @Andreabruno81907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@carolinemarchand4743 I watched the series when it was originally aired and I was in my early 20’s . Their relationship seemed romantic .I’m rewatching the series now and I see it with different eyes. Big never loved her . She’s clingy, needy and always asking for more. She pushed this relationship and forced it . This couple would had never last in real life.

    • @snopesshop1903
      @snopesshop1903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      The worst part about this whole mess is that Carrie blamed Miranda more then she blamed Big. Miranda!

    • @C_Tizzle
      @C_Tizzle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Aiden did. And, she blew it.

  • @Whyistomatoafruit
    @Whyistomatoafruit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    I literally had a visceral, emotional reaction to this scene the first time I saw the movie. It still gets me, years later. It’s just so heartbreaking and well-acted by all. Charlotte screaming “NOOOO!!!” at Big with a voice that didn’t even sound like her, and glaring at him with a look that could kill...so well done.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'd have Charlotte go, "Too late!"

    • @lt3074
      @lt3074 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, we'll done.

    • @QuietlyCurious
      @QuietlyCurious 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I believe Kristin Davis said she didn't realize it was her take either. She thought the camera was on Chris Noth.

  • @OwlBard
    @OwlBard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The way Charlotte screams ' No' at Bigs was marvelous

  • @CrystalMadeClear
    @CrystalMadeClear 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    She said, "I knew you would do this." Meaning she was just as scared as he was, if not more, but showed up anyway.
    When I was younger, I sympathized with Big almost as much as I did with Carrie in this episode. Now I'm 100% with her, because there are people I love enough to risk and sacrifice _anything_ for.

    • @Starboy-_-
      @Starboy-_- 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She was scared of him and what he was capable of doing. She was sure of her own feelings and willingness to commit.

    • @monicavillarreal3902
      @monicavillarreal3902 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well Part 2 ruined it for me with Carrie. Looking back she was never ever satisfied and when she finally got Big she still wasn't satisfied and made out with her ex in part two.

  • @Marianita195
    @Marianita195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +452

    I know this is a very emotional scene... but the way Charlotte walks with that knee tight dress has me laughing my ass off

    • @immandm
      @immandm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Charlotte****

    • @Marianita195
      @Marianita195 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@immandm you're right, thank you

    • @ennuiblue4295
      @ennuiblue4295 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Me too, they lightened the mood with her 'shuffle'

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The clothes in this series were always the worst...

    • @Izabelle710
      @Izabelle710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The same 😂 made me smile)

  • @Espressoqueen9894
    @Espressoqueen9894 2 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    Charlotte was truly meant to be a mom because of how fiercely protective she was over Carrie the situation that tells you that she's going to be a fantastic mom.. it's meant to be

  • @phoneactress3725
    @phoneactress3725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That "No!" That Charlotte gives brings tears to my eyes every time!

  • @lisahodges9489
    @lisahodges9489 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I love Charlotte’s ferocity in this scene. It gives me chills every time.

  • @drRunp
    @drRunp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +552

    lmao she doesn't know how to use an iphone, it truly was 2008

    • @lokena67
      @lokena67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That was so me back then. I needed a keypad! LOL

    • @brett8460
      @brett8460 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @styloetpapier styloetpapier ok boomer

    • @analigiabatres9114
      @analigiabatres9114 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @styloetpapier styloetpapier ok boomer

    • @StewNWT
      @StewNWT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I didn't get one til 2012 and I was in my 20s.

    • @kim7990
      @kim7990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Victoir just like chasing Big all over again when she knows it's not healthy. Smh

  • @MonaLisaFace
    @MonaLisaFace 4 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    It’s just weird what his prerequisites were ... seeing the bride before the wedding isn’t even something that happens. And he was like “I need to know that it’s us like you said”. You know what! After everything, Big is a Big baby.

    • @intermilan9731
      @intermilan9731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And you wonder why you are single and will remain single till 80.

    • @EB-tr2ly
      @EB-tr2ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      wow, is not about seeing the bride before the wedding, is about the discreet wedding it was supposed to be, carrie is so narcissist she made the whole thing about her, she didn't answer her phone because she only pays attentions to her own needs.... well, a wedding is about two people, not only the bride you know?

    • @lindajackson2382
      @lindajackson2382 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      I never understood what BIG meant by " "It'll be just US, right?" So what does that mean? Who else does he think it would be???

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@lindajackson2382 it means he didn't want the three ring circus...but he was marrying Carrie Bradshaw. That narcissist parade comes first. (But he was a real slime bag anyway)

    • @steffnic13
      @steffnic13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It was the fact that he didn’t want the hoopla and she said she didn’t either, then of course one small thing became many. And let’s give Carrie a damn break. She was finally marrying the man of her dreams, so it’s not unheard of to get lost in it all. Everyone calling her a narcissist by default. He’s been married twice before and really wants it to be something intimate between only them. The whole thing goes off the rails because each is focused on their individual driving factor. And in the end, she realizes her contribution to it all, and they find their way through it.

  • @JuMiMi86
    @JuMiMi86 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    SJP sprinting like Tinkerbell and landing those blows 🥀...one of the best dramatic moments of the series. This scene was always a fave.

  • @zlatkajupe
    @zlatkajupe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    They all should have won awards for this. The pain in the ladies faces. The anger coming from Charlotte and Miranda. This was some great acting.

  • @polskiziemniak9776
    @polskiziemniak9776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    Charlotte's character in the series was so sweet, giggling and naive but her reaction here was such a powerful statement, very strong.

  • @taylorwaylor8965
    @taylorwaylor8965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Charlotte was always rooting for them .. her no was so heartfelt

  • @orion8835
    @orion8835 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brilliantly acted by all. This truly was the most chilling scene ever to come out of the show. I think everyone watching this show who followed SATC felt sick. The abandonment was beyond cruel.

  • @franss7554
    @franss7554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This scene was the best, you really see the pain in Carrie & Charlotte’s eyes. And Miranda’s guilt too!

  • @danielclarke5743
    @danielclarke5743 2 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Loved how her friends went on damage control mode in split second.

  • @eunicechang8329
    @eunicechang8329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +514

    When Charlotte roared the 2 ‘no’s’ to Big, that’s when he knew all his life was doomed
    EDIT: thanks for 57 likes!

    • @lokena67
      @lokena67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Right, those 'no's' were like she was damning him to hell! Excellent! True sisterhood!

    • @eunicechang8329
      @eunicechang8329 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lokena67 yeah

    • @citydweller99
      @citydweller99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Because she always went to bat for him on the show

    • @Catsss1017
      @Catsss1017 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      God I hate when people thank for likes stop it

    • @katerinaliakou5549
      @katerinaliakou5549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Catsss1017 right? 😂 you didn't win an academy award you just got a few likes on TH-cam 😂

  • @kristinaparker5597
    @kristinaparker5597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I get a lump in my throat and tears well up every time I hear Charlotte yell no to Big. 😭

  • @anastasiaalk
    @anastasiaalk 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I always wondered why he wanted her to turn around so he could see her and then immediately just looks filled with regret, as if he wanted so badly to have an excuse not to show up that even just the superstition of seeing the bride was enough for him to bail, and after all of the shit they put each other through. Unreal.

    • @EB-tr2ly
      @EB-tr2ly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      he wanted her to noticed he was there, to look at him, or at least to see her face, but the girls covered with the veil, which represents the wall of narcissism that is in the middle of them; Carrie made the wedding only about her and she only care about her own needs that she never pick up the phone to answer his calls

    • @steffnic13
      @steffnic13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      As I recall, Carrie lost her phone because Lily took it and hung up on Big and then put it into her (Lily’s) purse. Carrie only got all of the calls when she was in Mexico. And that’s when she tosses the phone into the ocean. Big wanted to see her and see her face to remind and connect with her as a person, because the wedding was becoming a runaway train of wedding craziness, which spooked him. Let’s not forget that what really got this all going was the night before the wedding, Big was roasted by his annoying “friend” at the final dinner. Made fun of for his many marriages, which he then felt he was a failure for not being able to keep. And Miranda, in her own turmoil, tells Big, “I don’t know why you’re getting married. It ruins everything.” Or something along those lines. It became the perfect storm.

  • @stress2wealth
    @stress2wealth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    Charlotte reaction actually made me cry instead of Carrie. Why would you do this geez

    • @designercreep7823
      @designercreep7823 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I cry everytime. She said enough is enough

    • @ayina114
      @ayina114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree, her reaction that made me cry

    • @lillyess385
      @lillyess385 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Really? It made me howl with laughter.

  • @amaliaromero6142
    @amaliaromero6142 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    If a man shows you who he really is early believe him and move on !

  • @hart3254
    @hart3254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If that were real life she would of never taken him back. To leave someone at the alter is the ultimate heartbreaker.

  • @monicawatson2537
    @monicawatson2537 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Charlotte screaming at him was freaking epic. Everyone needs a friend like Charlotte

  • @NikkoVargas
    @NikkoVargas 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    That black mermaid gown of Charlotte is absolutely devine!

  • @rbcatlover17806
    @rbcatlover17806 2 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    Personally, I don’t blame Carrie for freaking out. I would have done the same thing. Her reaction to what that skunk bag groom did is very understandable

    • @julianbluefeather8491
      @julianbluefeather8491 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Except he treated that way the entire time

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      And be honest...if you saw that outfit, wouldn't.you have turned tail and run?!

    • @SRR0247
      @SRR0247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Carrie's reaction was psychotic & immature. To beat her beloved fiancé like that was abusive and exaggeration. Had that been a man beating his fianceé over the head with a heavy bridal bouquet, it would not have been acceptable by society standards.
      The talk they have at the end, in the closet, THAT'S the talk they needed to have had in that moment (or whenever she calmed TF down). To blame him for being humiliated yet she's the one standing in the middle of the street making a scene is ridiculous. I love SATC but have never been able to agree with Carrie's double-standards throughout all her relationships.

    • @caldervitriolic2128
      @caldervitriolic2128 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@SRR0247 Double standards, he left her at the alter you Nimrod, humiliated her and then say hey I'm back, deal with it

    • @djlibby8805
      @djlibby8805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@SRR0247 He absolutely humiliated her on their wedding day. It's not psychotic to hit your breaking point after years of dealing with a hot-and-cold, wishy-washy partner. It's not as if she punched him with her fist. Try and understand the situation.

  • @user-ef5id9km3p
    @user-ef5id9km3p หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've watched this scene a thousand times, and every time it still makes me cry. One of the all time best movie scenes ever, in my opinion. This and the scene when Samantha is looking after Carrie in her honeymoon suite feeding her because she wouldn't eat, when Charlotte runs into Big and gives him a piece of her mind, and when Carrie hires Jhud as her assistant and the song real girl comes on. Why this movie is one of my all time favorites.

  • @yanniswt1598
    @yanniswt1598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This scene still squeez my heart and makes me cry😭the way she hugs Charlotte

  • @miyamimiami2873
    @miyamimiami2873 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Can’t imagine being Carrie on this scene😭
    anw i agree too, that Charlotte acts so good in this scene! The emotion feels so real 😂🙏🏻

  • @shael7642
    @shael7642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    it’s Kristin Davis for me. Every time

  • @virginblythe
    @virginblythe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    When I saw this movie the first time, I had never watched sex and the city, the rawness and good acting of this scene made me pause the movie and have a good cry. The heartbreak is tangible

  • @manuesophie4154
    @manuesophie4154 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The pain on Samantha's face as the girls leave 😢 and then Charlotte's rage and disgust. That scene gets me every time

  • @missraven88
    @missraven88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I always disliked Big. Carrie wasn't my favorite either but she never deserved the way he treated her.

    • @lenawagenfuehr53
      @lenawagenfuehr53 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And she kept coming back for more...🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @AndreaRodriguez-jo7ul
    @AndreaRodriguez-jo7ul 3 ปีที่แล้ว +202

    I cry and laugh at the same time with this scene. I always cry for Carrie and I laugh for Charlotte's walk at the end.

  • @BG-wn1pl
    @BG-wn1pl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the best scenes ever. Its a lesson to everyone when the person you love cant be serious leave it alone. He had her forever in tears and dissapointed. No one needs that. And they all looked stunning. Loved Carrie in that Vivienne Westwood.

  • @FereehaIdreesOfficial
    @FereehaIdreesOfficial 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The NO of Charlotte’s the most iconic moment ever. She should get an award for this scene.

  • @terrywhitney9768
    @terrywhitney9768 4 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    I loved Kristin Davis' acting in this scene! ❤💗

  • @mmmm.5161
    @mmmm.5161 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I can't believe she went back to him after this

    • @endlessstudent3512
      @endlessstudent3512 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Because she realizes, that she is partly at fault. They promised each other a small wedding with just some friend, he signaled her earlier during the planning, that he does not like it getting so fancy and she ignored him. She should have talked to him the whole time, knowing he is scared. People who have been married before often want to marry very small if they do it again. Also, hi did come to the wedding after all, that counts for something, even if it was too late. Of course what he did was horrible, but both worked for the desaster.

  • @nebulashine4600
    @nebulashine4600 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    just realized there's no way Carrie, or anyone else with her, wouldn't have noticed Big's car parked right next to them when they got out of the limo 😮

  • @HiSheebz
    @HiSheebz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    To any person that has severe doubts about getting married, you resolve them before the wedding day. Once it's wedding day you don't back out. There's no forgiving that type of raw, excruciating humiliation you put someone through. You don't do that to someone you love. I don't mean you shouldn't do that to someone you love. You DON'T do that to someone you love. It doesn't happen.

  • @chocsn414
    @chocsn414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Such an amazingly made, dramatic, heartbreaking scene! 😭 I love how Samantha and Miranda leapt into fix it mode, sorting out the venue and guests and stuff. Then there’s Charlotte who leaves her grace and is full of RAGE.

  • @kellynunez3430
    @kellynunez3430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Angry Charlotte in that dress is EVERYTHING!!!!

  • @Joeys4921
    @Joeys4921 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Charlotte’s reaction gets me the most. She always believed Big was the one for Carrie and was hopeful things would work out. Her reaction just seemed so hurt because she supported her friends hurt so many times for this man.

  • @NH-tb2sm
    @NH-tb2sm 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This always brings me to tears , not just Carrie's pain which is done so well but how Samantha, Miranda and Charlotte were so protective of her.

  • @serenequeen8973
    @serenequeen8973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I always get chills at Charlotte’s/ Kristin Davis’ “NOOOOOO!!!” I also tear up as well because I’ve always been that friend myself - fiercely protective even more than I would be of myself if that makes sense.
    Friends and family will always protect their loved ones from someone they know will hurt them regardless of the circumstances they are experiencing which is a sign of how strong the bond is.
    I wish they’d never bothered with the sequel because it was as though they went against everything they’d built the characters up to represent - Charlotte getting worried about her husband cheating on her, Carrie being so spiteful especially to Charlotte

  • @dejaalston8672
    @dejaalston8672 2 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    When Charlotte says " NO!!!"😡😡😡😡 I felt that in my heart. It was just so heartbreaking, raw, deep, powerful, and genuine. Kristen Davis did a phenomenal and spectacular job in this scene.😍😎💯👍 To this day it still makes me emotional and teary eyed. 😭🥺😞 4:08

  • @evalangoria4963
    @evalangoria4963 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The way she hugs Charlotte ♥️♥️♥️

  • @humay1004
    @humay1004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I just love the way charlotte walks, great contrast of her screaming "no" and walking away with that dress😂😂

  • @notthefather3919
    @notthefather3919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    This was so heartbreaking. Who didn't feel Carrie's devastation.😢

    • @djlibby8805
      @djlibby8805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It triggers me from two years ago when my bf went through some bad anxiety and couldn't figure out "what he wanted". I was so hurt and in love that I took him back and got played again and again while he bounced back and forth between me and another woman. It was agonizing. I couldn't imagine feeling what Carrie would have felt.