Story one- That dad had a good response and based on his potential in-laws response shows that whole side doesn't value your daughter. So proud of him for calling it off
Story 4 last update : Sorry it took awhile to update. I’ll keep this brief. Yes, I broke up with him. Unfortunately I did not listen to everyone’s warnings about not breaking up with him in person. His mom came with me - he was calm and apologetic. He said he understood. He asked if he could come by and get his things. I said yes as I felt safe and it seemed like he was okay with the breakup (he literally tried breaking up with me every day.) When he got to my house he assaulted me. I won’t go into detail but I ended up hospitalized due to the attack. I’m okay and home now. He has not contacted me and has gone MIA. Unfortunately due to the attack I did not get to make a decision about the baby, I lost the baby while in the hospital. Thank you everyone for the kind words and support. I will not be updating any further, I’m ready to move on and start my healing.
There was an update for the last story, he went over to OP’s house to collect his things and he assaulted her, she ended up in the hospital and lost the baby because of his assault before she could choose to abort or not
Guys the last story brings awareness to domestic abuse. There is an increase of domestic violence once partner becomes pregnant. At first it starts as insults then it escalates to tantrums and then hitting please stay safe out there. If he hit you once he will hit again please get out before it gets there. He may apologise but it's most likely a manipulation tactic
My ex was also abusive when I was pregnant (and after). Luckily I got away and raised my son alone but I am so so sorry for those who endure this type of situation.
There is an update to the last story and it's not great... Spoiler OP broke up with him in person. His mom was with OP. He came to her place later to get his belongings, assaulted her. She is in the hospital and due to the assault lost the baby.
I lived that last story, he got physically abusive and I almost died a few times. I did have my son with him (he even slapped me in the face the day I was supposed to be induced , because me over 9 month’s pregnant had to help wash dishes and I got upset at how crappy he was washing them) mine ended with the cops being called (from me and a neighbor that could see in the window) after that day I never looked back. I am glad OP realized what was going on and is getting out. We are so blind until something horrible happens and I’m glad it’s not going to get worse for her.
I just read the update from 4. I hope she finds peace...and I hope he gets a hefty prison sentence for attacking her and causing her to lose the child...but that addiction is probably going to end him. And screw him. I just pray for her to find someone that treats her better and finds a good strong support group.
Don't get me wrong, a guy can have female friends and that's absolutely okay. BUT! In my personal experience, when a guy says his female friend is "like a sister to him", 9 times out of 10 he already has, or is just waiting for a chance to go full Alabama with his "sister". So to me, a guy saying he has a brother-sister relationship with a female friend is an immediate red flag.
The last story, the finsl update makes me so sad especially since he assaulted her so bad that she ended up hospitialized and lost the baby, it reminds me so much of my ex(he was an ex marine and had a horrible drinking problem) he actually had the nerve to grab be my neck in front my father(who is a vietnam vet and you dont mess with him) and he grabbed him and threw him on the ground and pointed his pew pew at him while i called the cops and i was finally able to leave the state for awhile and havent heard from him since thank god! I hope the poor girl finds peace and someone who will treat her right this is all too common and i wish more people knew about it and the signs..
Story 2: Better to end your marriage than defile it. Cheating isn't an acceptable way to increase self confidence. Neither her "low drive" nor your "lack of confidence" sound like the real problems. They are symptoms of a root problem in your marriage, which is probably your narcissism and lack of character. Likely her drive is low because she's checked out of the marriage, so you'll have your freedom soon.
Regarding the last story, As a mom of 3 adult sons i would absolutely take the side of the pregnant girlfriend, and be very grateful to her for sharing so that I could try and fix the behavior of my child. regardless of their age.
Dang!!! Op and his kid lucked out!!! My ex got with a chick who was obvious to my kids and I but he didn't pick up on it. Sure enough little by little he showed up less and less until he's just not a part of their lives
😢 the last one really brings back nasty memories with my ex live in partner. We didn't have a kid but the verbal, emotional and physical abuse i got from him made me feel worthless for a long while.
With story 3, I personally think OP is kind of an AH. I mean, he set up the wife's birthday to be special as a way to make it up to her. Then he just ditches her. I'm sure that his friend has other friends she could have called when she went into labor, not just him. I'm the kind of person that takes promises very seriously. If you don't intend to keep a promise, then don't make it in the first place. Personally, I don't think I'd be happy about OP's decision if I was in the wife's position. Like you can be involved and helpful when a friend is pregnant, but there is a line where you become too involved, and I think OP has crossed that line, even if he hasn't stated it (remember, many people try to write themselves in the best possible light)
pregnant lady story op not asshole based on info given. but I'm certain there is info left out. You give more to a random girl then your wife clearly as you would only make it up on a special occasion I feel like he WOULD NEVER put that event on if it wasn't her bday. he doesnt see that woman as a sister or he would set an actual boundary. He should leave her. Doesnt lover her end of.
Warren is a bizarre man - like why would u post on AITA for validation and actively lie about the facts?? Like i get that ppl will try to spin the story in a way that makes them look as good as possible, but the moment you go and lie about the facts, whatever validation you could be getting is just useless? 🤨
Facts! It didn’t make sense. To me it sounded like the wife was constantly being ignored even just hearing the husband’s side. If your wife is uncomfortable to the point of needing therapy!, the wife was never the priority.
older people seem to have so many issues around sex its so strange.. just communicate. I prefer sensual touching as a foreplay simply told my partner that and now we have lots of sex... its not hard if you know yourself!
The verbal abuse one near the end, naw NTA AT ALL. Like if he's apologizing for it once he's sober, knowing drunk him is mean, why would he take issue with it all the sudden? Why he ain't trying to change it to stop it? Naw, it's intentional, that's sociopath behavior
Imagine driving to work Melissa-ning to this kind of podcast and hearing your own life by your cheating ex who is trying to lie on Reddit for clout.
Omg...the Melissa pun is good
Story one- That dad had a good response and based on his potential in-laws response shows that whole side doesn't value your daughter. So proud of him for calling it off
Great episode! Sean really killed it in this one, glad to see him!
One of his best episodes really!
Story 4 last update : Sorry it took awhile to update. I’ll keep this brief. Yes, I broke up with him. Unfortunately I did not listen to everyone’s warnings about not breaking up with him in person. His mom came with me - he was calm and apologetic. He said he understood. He asked if he could come by and get his things. I said yes as I felt safe and it seemed like he was okay with the breakup (he literally tried breaking up with me every day.) When he got to my house he assaulted me. I won’t go into detail but I ended up hospitalized due to the attack. I’m okay and home now. He has not contacted me and has gone MIA. Unfortunately due to the attack I did not get to make a decision about the baby, I lost the baby while in the hospital. Thank you everyone for the kind words and support. I will not be updating any further, I’m ready to move on and start my healing.
Just read that too. How horrifying and I hope she’s getting the help she needs.
Poor thing, i hope her healing journey goes steady
Please press charges on him.
There was an update for the last story, he went over to OP’s house to collect his things and he assaulted her, she ended up in the hospital and lost the baby because of his assault before she could choose to abort or not
Guys the last story brings awareness to domestic abuse. There is an increase of domestic violence once partner becomes pregnant. At first it starts as insults then it escalates to tantrums and then hitting please stay safe out there. If he hit you once he will hit again please get out before it gets there. He may apologise but it's most likely a manipulation tactic
My ex was also abusive when I was pregnant (and after). Luckily I got away and raised my son alone but I am so so sorry for those who endure this type of situation.
Jesus was not expecting the update from the wife...but glad we heard her side! New Sean's women's intuitions were all over that one 🙌
Melissa's gonna lose her mind when Warren still has to co parent with his wife Elle and I'm here for it 👏👏👏
Look at heeeerrrrrr 2:04
Ringo is my favorite person on this podcast
There is an update to the last story and it's not great...
Spoiler
OP broke up with him in person. His mom was with OP. He came to her place later to get his belongings, assaulted her. She is in the hospital and due to the assault lost the baby.
💔 this story is too dang common, i hope she's okay
Oh my god 😳 that took a turn for the worst. I hope the listener is in a safe place with the help she needs. Sending positive thoughts to them.
Jesus Christ.. that's fucking tragic... has he been arrested?
@@bxbydrxgxn I hope he had been arrested bc that's just messed up
31:44 BIIIG STRETCHH
🎵"you make my oats quake" 🎶
Lmao, recently my boyfriend had a dream that we were going to get married and in the dream my daughter was his "best man".
I lived that last story, he got physically abusive and I almost died a few times. I did have my son with him (he even slapped me in the face the day I was supposed to be induced , because me over 9 month’s pregnant had to help wash dishes and I got upset at how crappy he was washing them) mine ended with the cops being called (from me and a neighbor that could see in the window) after that day I never looked back. I am glad OP realized what was going on and is getting out. We are so blind until something horrible happens and I’m glad it’s not going to get worse for her.
Warren wasn't melis-tening 😅 here you go John
I just read the update from 4. I hope she finds peace...and I hope he gets a hefty prison sentence for attacking her and causing her to lose the child...but that addiction is probably going to end him. And screw him. I just pray for her to find someone that treats her better and finds a good strong support group.
I obviously miss Sean but it's good to see Sienna again! She has a really nice voice and insight ♡
I love Sienna's voice, too! It's soothing and healing in some way
Don't get me wrong, a guy can have female friends and that's absolutely okay. BUT! In my personal experience, when a guy says his female friend is "like a sister to him", 9 times out of 10 he already has, or is just waiting for a chance to go full Alabama with his "sister". So to me, a guy saying he has a brother-sister relationship with a female friend is an immediate red flag.
He was not talking about how tall he was when he said 6.5 😂
😂😂😂
The last story, the finsl update makes me so sad especially since he assaulted her so bad that she ended up hospitialized and lost the baby, it reminds me so much of my ex(he was an ex marine and had a horrible drinking problem) he actually had the nerve to grab be my neck in front my father(who is a vietnam vet and you dont mess with him) and he grabbed him and threw him on the ground and pointed his pew pew at him while i called the cops and i was finally able to leave the state for awhile and havent heard from him since thank god! I hope the poor girl finds peace and someone who will treat her right this is all too common and i wish more people knew about it and the signs..
Story 2: Better to end your marriage than defile it. Cheating isn't an acceptable way to increase self confidence. Neither her "low drive" nor your "lack of confidence" sound like the real problems. They are symptoms of a root problem in your marriage, which is probably your narcissism and lack of character. Likely her drive is low because she's checked out of the marriage, so you'll have your freedom soon.
The kitttyyyyy 😄
Wow I really love Sean’s reaction on all of these 🫶🏾
Sean being in the ad going damn how long have we been recording when he is not in the episode killed me😂
Regarding the last story, As a mom of 3 adult sons i would absolutely take the side of the pregnant girlfriend, and be very grateful to her for sharing so that I could try and fix the behavior of my child. regardless of their age.
Dang!!! Op and his kid lucked out!!! My ex got with a chick who was obvious to my kids and I but he didn't pick up on it. Sure enough little by little he showed up less and less until he's just not a part of their lives
😢 the last one really brings back nasty memories with my ex live in partner. We didn't have a kid but the verbal, emotional and physical abuse i got from him made me feel worthless for a long while.
I love John's puns 🫶🏼
Oh God! There is an update to the last story. I`m so sad about it.
I knew we were Melissa-ing some information!!!
I know a baby dying is very sad and everything but that's called karma
Sounds like Warren will have no peace from now on. 😊
With story 3, I personally think OP is kind of an AH.
I mean, he set up the wife's birthday to be special as a way to make it up to her. Then he just ditches her.
I'm sure that his friend has other friends she could have called when she went into labor, not just him.
I'm the kind of person that takes promises very seriously. If you don't intend to keep a promise, then don't make it in the first place. Personally, I don't think I'd be happy about OP's decision if I was in the wife's position.
Like you can be involved and helpful when a friend is pregnant, but there is a line where you become too involved, and I think OP has crossed that line, even if he hasn't stated it (remember, many people try to write themselves in the best possible light)
I guarantee he would never build a nursery for his Mrs'
calllllled it
What are the chances we sometimes throw in a “predicjohn” (in addition to “predicseans”) 😆😂
John looks so freaking cute! Love the facial hair!
pregnant lady story op not asshole based on info given. but I'm certain there is info left out. You give more to a random girl then your wife clearly as you would only make it up on a special occasion I feel like he WOULD NEVER put that event on if it wasn't her bday. he doesnt see that woman as a sister or he would set an actual boundary. He should leave her. Doesnt lover her end of.
Loved the episode, Sean is so handsome
such a good episode!
Oh no there was an update on the last story she was assulted after the breakup and ended up in the hospital and lost the baby 😞
37:43 dammmmmn
Warren is a bizarre man - like why would u post on AITA for validation and actively lie about the facts?? Like i get that ppl will try to spin the story in a way that makes them look as good as possible, but the moment you go and lie about the facts, whatever validation you could be getting is just useless? 🤨
Unpopular opinion: Guy with GBF was an asshole for not respecting the boundaries of his wife
Agreed. 1000%
Facts! It didn’t make sense. To me it sounded like the wife was constantly being ignored even just hearing the husband’s side. If your wife is uncomfortable to the point of needing therapy!, the wife was never the priority.
older people seem to have so many issues around sex its so strange.. just communicate. I prefer sensual touching as a foreplay simply told my partner that and now we have lots of sex... its not hard if you know yourself!
Hey clips of your podcast are all over TikTok but it’s hard to find the actual video you should watermark
The verbal abuse one near the end, naw NTA AT ALL. Like if he's apologizing for it once he's sober, knowing drunk him is mean, why would he take issue with it all the sudden? Why he ain't trying to change it to stop it? Naw, it's intentional, that's sociopath behavior
RANGOOOO
Hey John I'm from the Philippines.! Sarah is Sarah ulo (sirang ulo in tagalog) which means crazy..
Story 3 the whole post is a red flag.
I made the 3 John comment 😳😳😳😳
This channel really needs to start picking different stories. Their tone is too lighthearted for some of the stories and updates