@@tinalopez4300 and if they can not tip in money they will try by being as helpful and hospitable as they can. O and they will make sure they do recommend you to there friends.
My friend used to be a delivery driver. He's worked in low income neighborhoods and affluent ones. He actually had to quit only a few months after working in an affluent neighborhood because his customers ordered more, had more strict instructions, complained more, and tipped much less, if at all. Some even laughed at him and mocked him for expecting a tip at all, even if they sent him on a wild goose chase to get their stuff delivered to them. He made BELOW minimum wage working in the affluent neighborhood and ABOVE working in low income ones.
YUP! EEEWWWWW!!!!!! Wife needs to check hubby's storage, history, and messages, to make sure he's not doing something he's not supposed to be doing. 😖😖😖😖😖 -L🌘E
Dear Mr. Fluff. It does not matter the origin, but if you find a jar of unknown biofluids at the back of the cupboard under the sink you can throw it out.
@@TitLeeEst Yes; that stuff breaks down rather quickly at room temperature. It had to have been revolting holding a year's worth. Not sure how OP even could tell what it was (unless there was a fresh 'deposit' on top? ugh).
There is a form of OCD/hoarding disorder where people will keep fingernail clippings, hair, etc. Honestly, if you want to store semen, keep it labeled and in the freezer.
Wasting seed (onanism) is a sin according to the bible Genesis 38:9-10. Perhaps he was just being pious by saving it for his wife to use as is the divine female function.
Agreed. I’m a woman and If I found out that my husband was doing this, I’d be absolutely mortified. I’d honestly be a little freaked out. This is the kind of thing you read about in serial killer bios 😳 I mean, yikes what’s he doing with his “collection”? Seriously this might have become some kind of weird paraphilia where he’s now actually aroused by his jar collectionssss.
Wasting seed is not a sin. Thats in the same vein of don’t take too many steps on the sabbath because it’s a sin. The sabbath was made for the enjoyment of men and not the other way around. Onan's actions went against his cultural and familial responsibilities. Judah had instructed Onan to have sex with Tamar to preserve his brother Er's line. However, Onan knew that any children would belong to his deceased brother, not to him. To avoid this, Onan spilled his semen on the ground whenever he had sex with Tamar. God punished Onan by killing him. The sin is that he refused to redeem his brother’s widow because the children wouldn’t be counted as his, leaving the poor woman destitute.
That last story is 100% entering divorce teritory, and even attempting to defend it or give a pass is extreme red flag behaviour, "no harm no foul" is an abosolutely insane take
I agree, but with the caveat that if the husband is telling the absolute truth and not using the collection in any unsavory way then Fluff does sort of have a point. Saving bodily fluids is definitely a sign of some sort of obsessive behaviour, but as long as saving is all he's doing it isn't really harming anyone physically.
Ya, normally I say try to work things out. But the fact that he went and started a new one and won't say where he put it is divorce territory and extremely creepy. I'm a guy, and I don't think I could sleep at night from something like that if I knew the person.
@@angelofchaos8233honestly, based off how OP said the husband described it, it sounds like he was gonna save it up for the full year and then go "this is how much I had to masturbate while you were on your period, you neglect me"
Story 1: I'm so tired of people letting Karens get away with the things they do. Either press charges or you're part of the problem. It's the only way they will ever learn. You can't play nice with them or else you're making it worse.
I really hope the last story is fiction. It's honestly unimaginable doing something like that; and yes, I'm a guy. OP's husband has something broken in his head.
There is a radio station in Illinois where I live that does 2nd updates regularly. Well there’s at least 2 I remember that did the last story. 1 guy kept his fingernails.. the other kept exactly what that husband does. But . Also his buggers from his nose
I'm sorry to say this but people like this are exist, there's someone on 4chan did this with figurine inside the jar, he called it "my little pony c*m jar project"
I’m sorry, she is not the AH for throwing the jar away without his knowledge or permission. If the jar had been full of another disgusting bodily fluid like urine or snot, should she be expected to just leave it be because “oh I should check with him first because this jar of vomit-inducing bacteria doesn’t belong to me”?? Hell no. That sh*t is going in the trash where it belongs. And if he has such an attachment to saving his excretions to the point of screaming at his wife about it, he should see a therapist. And at the VERY LEAST he should be keeping that jar somewhere that is not a common household area like the KITCHEN ffs. Wtf is wrong with people, my god
Last story: Normally throwing out your partner's belongings without their permission or knowledge would make someone TA, but a biohazard, wtf. Keeping that in the fridge does not keep it fresh. Cleaning out bad contents of the fridge is perfectly acceptable, so this would fall under a NTA exception for multiple reasons. It'd be no different if someone was keeping a jar of blood in the fridge like they're a vampire. That sounds like a situation that needs therapy.
The Jar: NTA, as a man I can tell you. Men DO NOT do that. Your husband is sick in the head and needs therapy. For him to continue to do it? You have a choice to make. 1. keep dealing with that utterly disgusting behavior. 2. Leave now, before it gets worse.
From what I've gathered reading elsewhere in these comments section, it's possible that this story is worse as I think dude uses that jar of his stuff to put into her food and an example was him using it in pancakes every Sunday morning.b
Story 4: Are you ok DarkFluff?? His wife is in no way the butthole because that’s honestly the most disgusting thing to keep a jar like that! What on earth…
Story 1 - I don’t buy Karen’s excuse about her losing her job and whatever other BS she said, she just didn’t want to pay OP and the electricians for their services. OP should’ve just called the police or at least her mom should’ve.
Police wouldn't have done anything. Instead, tell her to pay up or you'll take it to small claims court. OP already had plenty of evidence against her inability to pay. If nothing else, the court could order some of her fancy furniture be seized and auctioned off to pay the debt.
Last story: petty revenge time, OP. Start saving your used menstrual supplies, but hide it where he will find it. When he asks, tell him it’s something all women do, that you just learned about. 😂😂😂😂
Last story: Frist off, it's a bio hazard. And gross AF. Second: my husband listened to this story and the first thing he said was "what?" and the second thing was "No we do not. I have never done that!" That man has some issues.That's all I can say
I’m sorry to anyone who thinks the jar should be respected, I know its his personal property, but if you kept a jar of boogers, and everytime you’ve had a cold you kept all the tissues and just blew straight in the jar🤮 That’s a biohazard and its absolutely disgusting. I wouldn’t be attracted to anyone after I knew, and I don’t care if it hurts their feelings about their habit/hobby. Its not something like a bug collection, its gross and its screwed up. I would say in this instance she is justified throwing the jar away, and I would be reevaluating if you want to be in a relationship with someone who saves their…👀😶
There's a line that my husband's been saving for when a particular woman in our congregation pushes him too far with her holier-than-thou attitude: "You had one job, Sister B: to keep your daughter off the steipper pole." That's it. He thinks it every time she opens her mouth to complain how "shocked and appalled" she is by other people's perfectly normal behavior. Don't know if he'll ever use it, but it's a good one if he ever dares.
I have always treated people who do work on or around my home well. I am not rich, but I think that’s the point. If they are hungry, they get fed, thirsty, they are given something to drink. And most of all, they get paid.
Story one: OP could have reported and sued her for "theft of services". Make her pay. 🤨 Last story: "All guys do it!" No, we do not. That is disgusting, and weird. 😮
If Karen only offered me £80 for a job, I’d get a can of the most hideous colour and throw it over the painted walls I’d done to ruin them and then leave ! My brother is a builder/decorator and can turn his hand to anything to do with properties. Many years ago, because a client didn’t pay for the new porch and garden paths that were installed, he got his staff and went round to the guy’s house and demolished the porch and took back all the paving whilst the non payer was out at work ! The idiot tried to sue my brother but my brother won because the guy had not paid for anything that had been used in his garden/house and therefore technically belonged to my brother, meaning he had every right to take it back off the man’s house. The guy had to pay for the labour and materials used that were damaged and compensation + Court costs and all that worked out much more than had he just paid the initial bill ! Plus he now had no porch and a wrecked garden ! Some people are so stupid !
Note for story 2: Clear Karo syrup, kelly green liquid Rit dye, and water to reach the right consistency. Throw in a little dish soap to get it to sud up really well. Plus, they make Gain dish soap that smells just like the detergent so that you get that fresh, clean scent and they're ready for St Patrick's day.
Last story: HEEEEEEEELL NAW!!!!!!!!! Now maybe its my morbid that a story from Whang comes to mind. Definitely something I do not do and defiinitely something that is gross.
Story #1 - I learned something many years ago. It was a fairly expensive lesson. Rich people aren't generally rich because they make more money than everyone else, but because they don't spend as much money as everyone else. Sometimes it's because they spend YOUR money, instead of theirs.
There is public statements of the US being run by someone who has done bankruptcy to walk away from their bills... yet so many in the US still think they can run the country
Why did I have to be eating when story 4 popped up 🤢🤮 it takes a lot to completely blunt my appetite but yep this did exactly that. OP needs to get husband into therapy as something is definitely wrong mentally. Bad enough to find the jar but his insistence at not stopping/finding a replacement is not normal at all.
Last story: honest to God. I'm actually on the side of the woman here and I am an adult man. First off, shame on the guy for throwing all men under the bus for what could possibly be his own hobby, kink, morbidly disgusting curiosity. Yes it is wrong to throw someone's stuff away, but logically speaking if something is filled with stuff like that and you don't want anyone else to know about it, I either hide it away in a place where someone won't be reaching for important necessary things, or just don't leave something that looks nasty in view where people are more than likely to throw something away. Honestly throwing someone else's stuff away may not be cool, but if it's something that has no place being in a clean area, then I can't be mad at her for being unnerved and disgusted.
Sorry I’m going to have to say the last OP isn’t the a hole for throwing it away. That’s disgusting and a health hazard. I don’t go to “divorce” very often but I would have to be done with my husband if he wanted to keep something like that. 🤢
OP in Story 4 is NOT the AH, what the actual hell is wrong with that guy? The fact that he dumped out a jar of pickles and screamed at her saying "this is the new jar now" no. Get rid of him, or get him therapy. Dude needs help.
First story: If I were one of the people delivering furniture to that Karen, I would have said the following: Let me tell you a secret: We sell things that you don't actually need to survive. People without money don't come to us. They go to food shelters, looking for donations that could actually save their lives. If you can't afford our furniture, then you shouldn't have ordered it.
I have heard many stories from workers who have been ripped off by rich people. Even famous rich people. Regular folks understand that you have to pay people for their time. I love the commenter's suggestion about emptying the full vacuum cleaner on the wet paint!
Story 3: I don't give a damn about the site "rules" we do this deal how I want to or not at all. So its we meet in the middle or you come to me or there is no deal. You try to pay half and the door closes on your face... Oh and I was recording the whole thing so you play stupid games, gonna win stupid prizes!
I was just going to say, there's a reason people ask for a deposit. Chances are, this woman never intended to pay any of them for their work. That's why she hired them instead of contracting with a real company who would chart a lot AND sue her for non-payment in a New York minute! 😂😂😂
In Germany you wouldn't typically ask money before any service was provided. House owners are laughed at when they get scammed by builders that way. What is common though is to pay part of service after something was delivered, for big sums. Let's not go for shaming here. A lot can be done with experience and yes, even asking for pre-payment if your gut says something is fishy. Experience, though! And it should not even be necessary for the world that I live in.
That's a breach of contract (verbal agreements do count even though they're difficult to enforce) and the amount is enough that both OP and the electricians could take her to court
@@jurgennicht4626 I'm Australian, and most work like this is: a payment the day before they start; another payment halfway through; and then the last payment when they finish. This happened when we had the roof fixed, and the bathroom renovated. We also had to put a deposit of half the cost before the solar hot water system was done then the rest when they finished
Story 4: YTA for throwing it into the regular trash; it is Human Bodily Fluids, aka Biohazard. YTA if you continue to live with him. NTA for being disgusted about this; puke city just paid me a visit, thank you! NTA if you leave or throw him out. I would never let him touch me again.
Story 3: OP didn't go far enough. And I would've called out the Admin and Karen's FM for having their heads so far up Karen's a$$ they could see daylight. If you are going to call someone out on their behavior, be ready to go all the way or don't do it at all.
The "Jar" Story, Fluff... Please never look up My Little Poney Friendship is Magic + Jar. But I'm kinda surprised you don't know/remember that controversy. It was all over TH-cam and Reddit.
The last story. Mam, your husband has a freakish thing that probably started in puberty. No, normal men do not do that. But, then again, at least he wasn't keeping it in the refrigerator.
Story 3: Holy shit, most people only wish they could do this to a toxic place with bad moderatorship. props to OP for being creative. Story 4: I wouldn't necessarily say OP is the ahole but she definitely did overreact. I don't know if it was the shock of it or it it was a female thing but being as angry and disgusted as she was was definitely uncalled for. While what the husband did was definitely not something every guy does, it is more common than you think (5%-10% of people). People are weird by nature and do weird things. In fact there is one pretty famous story about a jar and a pony.
First Story: OP probably should call the IRS on that Karen as what's the chance that she commit tax fraud as well as regular fraud. Also Karen probably should pay the electrician as the last thing she want is to get taken to court for not paying for the service the electrician done for her and the judge won't take sob story as an excuse.
On that first story, both the OP and the electricians should have filed mechanics liens on that first story, both the OP and the electricians should have filed mechanics liens against that scamming which. Either that or call the cops and say that they are stealing from them. Yeah, I know, the cops would say it's a civil matter, but if you could get a police report of any kind, it would definitely help. Also, if the OP overheard the name of the private school, I might tip them off, as well. If anybody could file a lawsuit and force her to sell all that crap that she just bought, that would really put a nail in her coffin.
As a guy, that Last story almost had me throwing up. The only time I'd ever heard of a guy doing that before this involved a MLP toy..... If you know, you know.
Story #3: "Angela" should have made her comment shorter and sweet, saying this with the link: Have you seen your son lately? She hasn't, of course, she's embarrassed because her son is not perfect like she thinks he should be.
I've stolen twice in my life. Once when I was a kid, it was a writing set, I really wanted to write to my aunt and didn't have any money. I felt so bad afterwards that I never stole again. It actually took me years to use the writing set because I couldn't even look at it. Yes I did eventually write my aunt. The second time was by accident. I took my young kids shopping to a dress/fashion jewellery store. It was a rainy day so I had my umbrella with me. When I left the store I opened the umbrella and a necklace fell out. I was mortified. Thinking that while I had been shopping it had fallen off a rack into my umbrella. I wanted to return it but was scared they would not believe me and call the police. It turned out ok though, when I explained myself to the ladies they could see how upset I was and how embarrassed. They actually thanked me and said I was being a good example for my kids. They were super nice and I loved shopping there sadly the shop closed down a few years later.
Story 1: I would've told her in professional standards that IDGAS I paint your house, cleaned and folded your clothes per the contract that YOU signed, so pay the amount before I start collecting collateral (also in the contract)
My dad taught me to steal when I was young.. He never made me steal anything, but it was encouraged, and I would go along while he took family or friends to go into stores and steal massive amounts of items, and I would usually get to pick something from the loot. As I got older and had things stolen from me, my house being robbed, my car windows broken and stereo stolen several times, I gained a strong disdain for theft, and now I generally consider thieves to be among the lowest types of people. Edit: I can kind of understand stealing for survival, and the people he would take to steal were definitely from severe poverty, and we were poor, but not that poor that he couldn't afford the comic books, or whatever. I still remember the first time he showed me how to steal, it was a comic book I wanted from the 7-11 on a Friday night while we were cruising and and he drove and drank beer, which was a common activity. Needless to say, he wasn't the best influence. The 80s and 90s were a strange time.
Sounds like a modern day Pharisee from that Bible she loves so much. It's hilarious she hasn't learned her lesson either, she was still a female dog. If that pastor values his job he'd better ditch that wife of his.
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I've had contractors tell me that it's much easier to get paid by poor people than it is the rich.
Not giving up their money is how they stay rich.
That's the truth! And the poor people will also give you a nice tip if they can!
There is a part of the law that the electricians could get their money, “A Mechanic’s Lien”. It’s not just for car mechanics.
@@tinalopez4300 and if they can not tip in money they will try by being as helpful and hospitable as they can. O and they will make sure they do recommend you to there friends.
My friend used to be a delivery driver. He's worked in low income neighborhoods and affluent ones.
He actually had to quit only a few months after working in an affluent neighborhood because his customers ordered more, had more strict instructions, complained more, and tipped much less, if at all. Some even laughed at him and mocked him for expecting a tip at all, even if they sent him on a wild goose chase to get their stuff delivered to them.
He made BELOW minimum wage working in the affluent neighborhood and ABOVE working in low income ones.
Last Story: Absolutely not the AH. That’s a biohazard, honestly. AND OH MY GOSH! No, it’s the shower. Not a freaking jar. What a the FFFFFF????!!!!!
yeah, throwing away a rotting biohazard will never be an AH move to me
Do you also freak out over pocket lint? Is that also a chick thing?
YUP! EEEWWWWW!!!!!! Wife needs to check hubby's storage, history, and messages, to make sure he's not doing something he's not supposed to be doing.
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-L🌘E
@@thebibosez7949it was a year of fucking sperm in a jar, that’s far different from pocket lint. It’s like leaving mayo out for a year.
Lets cjange that to storing period blood.....id throw either away, no remorse
Dear Mr. Fluff. It does not matter the origin, but if you find a jar of unknown biofluids at the back of the cupboard under the sink you can throw it out.
@@crichtonbruce4329 As a biochemist, agreed. Especially if it's stored at an uncontrolled temperature.
But, a jar of unknown biofluids could give you superpowers. I say it's worth the risk.
@@TitLeeEst Yes; that stuff breaks down rather quickly at room temperature. It had to have been revolting holding a year's worth. Not sure how OP even could tell what it was (unless there was a fresh 'deposit' on top? ugh).
@@ashblossomandjoyoussprung.9917 Just make sure you have a team from the Center for Disease Control on standby in the background.
@@TitLeeEst He tried the "Pony Cum Jar" challenge. 🤪
Last story: I sure as hell don’t do that. WTF is the husband’s problem?
Yeah, that seems pretty abnormal to me, too.
I don’t either. Husband is a freak.
@@crimsonmaelstrom573 as weird as it may be, he wasn’t hurting anyone but maybe himself if this is some timed event. Lmao
There is a form of OCD/hoarding disorder where people will keep fingernail clippings, hair, etc.
Honestly, if you want to store semen, keep it labeled and in the freezer.
I can't help but think of another Reddit story with a similar jar. Boyfriend was adding it to her food.
That jar is a literal biohazard. Do no keep jars of body fluid around your home! Toss that shit in the trash!
Story 4: WTH did I just read? I don't fill jars with my fluids, why is he doing that (especially over the course of a year, that is disgusting)
Hes just mad his MLP got thrown out.
I still hate that that existed, and i will continue to remind people about it as revenge on life
Maybe he has a fetish for filling jars or something...
@@FlarflenugenMLP?
That’s not an entitled story, that’s just a weirdo story.
Last story: I'm a man. We don't do that. I would seriously reconsider staying married to that man. He has a serious psychological issue.
Wasting seed (onanism) is a sin according to the bible Genesis 38:9-10. Perhaps he was just being pious by saving it for his wife to use as is the divine female function.
Agreed. I’m a woman and If I found out that my husband was doing this, I’d be absolutely mortified. I’d honestly be a little freaked out.
This is the kind of thing you read about in serial killer bios 😳
I mean, yikes what’s he doing with his “collection”? Seriously this might have become some kind of weird paraphilia where he’s now actually aroused by his jar collectionssss.
Wasting seed is not a sin. Thats in the same vein of don’t take too many steps on the sabbath because it’s a sin. The sabbath was made for the enjoyment of men and not the other way around.
Onan's actions went against his cultural and familial responsibilities. Judah had instructed Onan to have sex with Tamar to preserve his brother Er's line. However, Onan knew that any children would belong to his deceased brother, not to him. To avoid this, Onan spilled his semen on the ground whenever he had sex with Tamar. God punished Onan by killing him. The sin is that he refused to redeem his brother’s widow because the children wouldn’t be counted as his, leaving the poor woman destitute.
@@thebibosez7949 So... A serious psychological issue then!
4chan gooners do that shit
That last story is 100% entering divorce teritory, and even attempting to defend it or give a pass is extreme red flag behaviour, "no harm no foul" is an abosolutely insane take
The worst is that he can not use it for anything. Grosse.
I agree, but with the caveat that if the husband is telling the absolute truth and not using the collection in any unsavory way then Fluff does sort of have a point. Saving bodily fluids is definitely a sign of some sort of obsessive behaviour, but as long as saving is all he's doing it isn't really harming anyone physically.
Ya, normally I say try to work things out. But the fact that he went and started a new one and won't say where he put it is divorce territory and extremely creepy. I'm a guy, and I don't think I could sleep at night from something like that if I knew the person.
@@angelofchaos8233honestly, based off how OP said the husband described it, it sounds like he was gonna save it up for the full year and then go "this is how much I had to masturbate while you were on your period, you neglect me"
Story 1: I'm so tired of people letting Karens get away with the things they do. Either press charges or you're part of the problem. It's the only way they will ever learn. You can't play nice with them or else you're making it worse.
If they didn't have sense enough to get a deposit, I doubt they had any written agreement.
Put a mechanic's lien against the property then the owner will not be able to sell UNTIL ALL lien's are paid.
Never give in to bullies, and never give a pass to a Karen.
Yeah if she claims to lose her 6 figure job AFTER she flexed splurging 100k, I immediately smelled bullshit
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*Say it louder for the simpletons in the back!*
*I will never understand this mentality.. allowing a$$hats to get away with their bull 💩*
Not pay me after spending 4 days cleaning? I think the vacuum needs emptying, all over the apartment and wet painted walls.
Put a lien on the property.
Sue the rich lady in small claims court.
Call the cops
I really hope the last story is fiction. It's honestly unimaginable doing something like that; and yes, I'm a guy. OP's husband has something broken in his head.
There is a radio station in Illinois where I live that does 2nd updates regularly. Well there’s at least 2 I remember that did the last story.
1 guy kept his fingernails.. the other kept exactly what that husband does. But . Also his buggers from his nose
I'm sorry to say this but people like this are exist, there's someone on 4chan did this with figurine inside the jar, he called it "my little pony c*m jar project"
Google "Pony Cum Jar Project" 😅
The fact that the husband dumped the pickles to take the jar...his ass should've been out the door that instant...
That is just gross...
I’m sorry, she is not the AH for throwing the jar away without his knowledge or permission. If the jar had been full of another disgusting bodily fluid like urine or snot, should she be expected to just leave it be because “oh I should check with him first because this jar of vomit-inducing bacteria doesn’t belong to me”?? Hell no. That sh*t is going in the trash where it belongs. And if he has such an attachment to saving his excretions to the point of screaming at his wife about it, he should see a therapist. And at the VERY LEAST he should be keeping that jar somewhere that is not a common household area like the KITCHEN ffs. Wtf is wrong with people, my god
Last story: Normally throwing out your partner's belongings without their permission or knowledge would make someone TA, but a biohazard, wtf. Keeping that in the fridge does not keep it fresh. Cleaning out bad contents of the fridge is perfectly acceptable, so this would fall under a NTA exception for multiple reasons. It'd be no different if someone was keeping a jar of blood in the fridge like they're a vampire. That sounds like a situation that needs therapy.
I believe OP said she found the jar under the sink! 😱🤮 Which is way worse than it being in the fridge!
The Jar: NTA, as a man I can tell you. Men DO NOT do that. Your husband is sick in the head and needs therapy. For him to continue to do it? You have a choice to make. 1. keep dealing with that utterly disgusting behavior. 2. Leave now, before it gets worse.
Or...get him into therapy. There seems to be nothing else wrong in the marriage, just that extremely weird behaviour.
A man has his fetish ....
From what I've gathered reading elsewhere in these comments section, it's possible that this story is worse as I think dude uses that jar of his stuff to put into her food and an example was him using it in pancakes every Sunday morning.b
@@patrickpunmaster6862 Now you ruin my breakfast 🤢🤮
@@patrickpunmaster6862 I would not be surprised in this day and age,
Story 4: Are you ok DarkFluff?? His wife is in no way the butthole because that’s honestly the most disgusting thing to keep a jar like that! What on earth…
Jar Story: No all guys do NOT do that...OP needs to think seriously about filing for Divorce...
First, she has to find the second jar, because otherwise, she will sound unhinged in court.
Story 4: yeah…this is by no means normal.
Story 1 - I don’t buy Karen’s excuse about her losing her job and whatever other BS she said, she just didn’t want to pay OP and the electricians for their services. OP should’ve just called the police or at least her mom should’ve.
Police wouldn't have done anything. Instead, tell her to pay up or you'll take it to small claims court. OP already had plenty of evidence against her inability to pay. If nothing else, the court could order some of her fancy furniture be seized and auctioned off to pay the debt.
That last story 🤢.
Maybe the wife can suggest someone may steal it and frame him for a crime .
Wait till she finds his booger collage
Lol
I think Nose Goblins are kept under the piano bench?
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Last story: petty revenge time, OP. Start saving your used menstrual supplies, but hide it where he will find it. When he asks, tell him it’s something all women do, that you just learned about. 😂😂😂😂
Haha!
Joke on you, it is his fetish 🤪
Married 36 years and there is no freaking jar in my possession EVER.
Last story: Frist off, it's a bio hazard. And gross AF. Second: my husband listened to this story and the first thing he said was "what?" and the second thing was "No we do not. I have never done that!" That man has some issues.That's all I can say
*third story .. what a horri .. *fourth story .... oh neptune 🤢
I had my husband listen to that story too and he practically had the same exact reaction. 😂
I’m sorry to anyone who thinks the jar should be respected, I know its his personal property, but if you kept a jar of boogers, and everytime you’ve had a cold you kept all the tissues and just blew straight in the jar🤮
That’s a biohazard and its absolutely disgusting. I wouldn’t be attracted to anyone after I knew, and I don’t care if it hurts their feelings about their habit/hobby. Its not something like a bug collection, its gross and its screwed up. I would say in this instance she is justified throwing the jar away, and I would be reevaluating if you want to be in a relationship with someone who saves their…👀😶
Google "Pony Cum Jar Project" 😅
Last story is an absolute biohazard
I'd throw out the jar; that is gross
There's a line that my husband's been saving for when a particular woman in our congregation pushes him too far with her holier-than-thou attitude: "You had one job, Sister B: to keep your daughter off the steipper pole." That's it. He thinks it every time she opens her mouth to complain how "shocked and appalled" she is by other people's perfectly normal behavior. Don't know if he'll ever use it, but it's a good one if he ever dares.
I have always treated people who do work on or around my home well. I am not rich, but I think that’s the point. If they are hungry, they get fed, thirsty, they are given something to drink. And most of all, they get paid.
24:18 I’ve been flashbanged by words.
Story one: OP could have reported and sued her for "theft of services". Make her pay. 🤨
Last story: "All guys do it!"
No, we do not. That is disgusting, and weird. 😮
Now I'm considering to do that.
*not
If Karen only offered me £80 for a job, I’d get a can of the most hideous colour and throw it over the painted walls I’d done to ruin them and then leave !
My brother is a builder/decorator and can turn his hand to anything to do with properties. Many years ago, because a client didn’t pay for the new porch and garden paths that were installed, he got his staff and went round to the guy’s house and demolished the porch and took back all the paving whilst the non payer was out at work !
The idiot tried to sue my brother but my brother won because the guy had not paid for anything that had been used in his garden/house and therefore technically belonged to my brother, meaning he had every right to take it back off the man’s house. The guy had to pay for the labour and materials used that were damaged and compensation + Court costs and all that worked out much more than had he just paid the initial bill ! Plus he now had no porch and a wrecked garden !
Some people are so stupid !
Note for story 2: Clear Karo syrup, kelly green liquid Rit dye, and water to reach the right consistency. Throw in a little dish soap to get it to sud up really well. Plus, they make Gain dish soap that smells just like the detergent so that you get that fresh, clean scent and they're ready for St Patrick's day.
she had plenty of money, she never intended to pay, should have called the cops or everybody pick up a chair and walk out
I can't believe OP just accepted a fraction of the cost of his work. That's how she gets away with it.
Something I have found is, rich people tend to pull every scam they can to hold on to their “hard earned cash” rather than pay contractors. 🤬🤬
Story 2: Geez, teaching kids to steal soap and stuff over and over at a laundromat, yeah I really feel bad for the kids they deserve a better mom
You should teach your kids early about the life in crimes.
Why do I suddenly have the old Monty Python song, “Every Sperm Is Sacred” running through my head?
Lol
I've never heard this song so my brain just played it in the tune of every snowflakes different from yo gabba gabba lmao
🎼Every sperm is sacred
Every sperm is great
If a sperm is wasted
God gets quite irate…
S4, guy here: what the actual fuck
What? As a guy you never do that?
Omg, the last story!! I'd be outta that situation pronto. That is disgusting.
I would have called the cops on her for theft of service. No way would I let her get away with that.
Last story sounds like the guy wants physical proof of how much he gets turned down by OP.
I've never once thought of collecting that stuff. It's gross, your husband is gross. Obviously final story
Last story: HEEEEEEEELL NAW!!!!!!!!! Now maybe its my morbid that a story from Whang comes to mind. Definitely something I do not do and defiinitely something that is gross.
That's a divorce jar. If the jar ever gets filled to the top, you divorce your wife.
For real?! Ugh! 😖
Story 4: *R U N!!*
Story #1 - I learned something many years ago. It was a fairly expensive lesson. Rich people aren't generally rich because they make more money than everyone else, but because they don't spend as much money as everyone else. Sometimes it's because they spend YOUR money, instead of theirs.
Exactly.
There is public statements of the US being run by someone who has done bankruptcy to walk away from their bills... yet so many in the US still think they can run the country
The last story. A guy here I don't do that. Never heard of any guy doing that.
Have you ask around or is it only you who don't do that?
😅
Why did I have to be eating when story 4 popped up 🤢🤮 it takes a lot to completely blunt my appetite but yep this did exactly that.
OP needs to get husband into therapy as something is definitely wrong mentally. Bad enough to find the jar but his insistence at not stopping/finding a replacement is not normal at all.
Story 1: That's what a contractors lean is for.
True, but bit would probably cost OP even more just to be able to do that. Especially if there was no written contract.
Last story: honest to God. I'm actually on the side of the woman here and I am an adult man. First off, shame on the guy for throwing all men under the bus for what could possibly be his own hobby, kink, morbidly disgusting curiosity. Yes it is wrong to throw someone's stuff away, but logically speaking if something is filled with stuff like that and you don't want anyone else to know about it, I either hide it away in a place where someone won't be reaching for important necessary things, or just don't leave something that looks nasty in view where people are more than likely to throw something away. Honestly throwing someone else's stuff away may not be cool, but if it's something that has no place being in a clean area, then I can't be mad at her for being unnerved and disgusted.
First story: good luck selling your house with all the craftsmen’s liens on it,
Absolutely gross and disrespectful. Would leave that guy unless he got counseling. That's not normal.
Story #2: You should have called the cops the first time she left her kids!
She would’ve been taking something to the pawn to pay me 😂😂
Guys don’t do that.
Story 3: WOW, OP, best case of nuclear revenge I have read, to this point. Thank you.
Stealing $5 bottle of soap?? Hope it was worth it, Karen. 😂
Yeah enjoy your new Acid Wash clothes.
Story 3 is litigation goldmine against the admin and Karen
Sorry I’m going to have to say the last OP isn’t the a hole for throwing it away. That’s disgusting and a health hazard. I don’t go to “divorce” very often but I would have to be done with my husband if he wanted to keep something like that. 🤢
OP in Story 4 is NOT the AH, what the actual hell is wrong with that guy? The fact that he dumped out a jar of pickles and screamed at her saying "this is the new jar now" no. Get rid of him, or get him therapy. Dude needs help.
Easy fix for Facebook Karen.... Block her then she can't see when you post something
First story: If I were one of the people delivering furniture to that Karen, I would have said the following:
Let me tell you a secret: We sell things that you don't actually need to survive. People without money don't come to us. They go to food shelters, looking for donations that could actually save their lives. If you can't afford our furniture, then you shouldn't have ordered it.
I have heard many stories from workers who have been ripped off by rich people. Even famous rich people. Regular folks understand that you have to pay people for their time. I love the commenter's suggestion about emptying the full vacuum cleaner on the wet paint!
Last story....I don't know a single man that does that..
Story 3 : Karen’s husband was so embarrassed, he walked ‘pastor’ every time they were out ! 🤣😂🤣😂 (past her) I hope you see the pun in this !
Grrrooooooaaaaaannnnnn! Get ye to a punnery! 😂😂😂😂😂
Story 3: I don't give a damn about the site "rules" we do this deal how I want to or not at all. So its we meet in the middle or you come to me or there is no deal. You try to pay half and the door closes on your face... Oh and I was recording the whole thing so you play stupid games, gonna win stupid prizes!
First story either ask for cash upfront even if it's just half. Or ask to get paid per day at end of day
I was just going to say, there's a reason people ask for a deposit. Chances are, this woman never intended to pay any of them for their work. That's why she hired them instead of contracting with a real company who would chart a lot AND sue her for non-payment in a New York minute! 😂😂😂
In Germany you wouldn't typically ask money before any service was provided. House owners are laughed at when they get scammed by builders that way. What is common though is to pay part of service after something was delivered, for big sums.
Let's not go for shaming here. A lot can be done with experience and yes, even asking for pre-payment if your gut says something is fishy. Experience, though! And it should not even be necessary for the world that I live in.
That's a breach of contract (verbal agreements do count even though they're difficult to enforce) and the amount is enough that both OP and the electricians could take her to court
@@jurgennicht4626 I'm Australian, and most work like this is: a payment the day before they start; another payment halfway through; and then the last payment when they finish. This happened when we had the roof fixed, and the bathroom renovated. We also had to put a deposit of half the cost before the solar hot water system was done then the rest when they finished
Story 4: YTA for throwing it into the regular trash; it is Human Bodily Fluids, aka Biohazard. YTA if you continue to live with him. NTA for being disgusted about this; puke city just paid me a visit, thank you! NTA if you leave or throw him out. I would never let him touch me again.
DarkFluff. Really? Did you really say that OP shouldn’t have thrown away the jar? Just because that it “belongs” to the husband? Buddy, really?
12:39 the entitled Karen deserves to be called out for her actions. And the admin and Karen and her cronies deserve to be banned.
Last story. No man has a jar like that. Wtf!
@@lasserasmussen3125 hard to believe, but not unbelievable.
Story 3: OP didn't go far enough. And I would've called out the Admin and Karen's FM for having their heads so far up Karen's a$$ they could see daylight. If you are going to call someone out on their behavior, be ready to go all the way or don't do it at all.
Yes!
The "Jar" Story, Fluff... Please never look up My Little Poney Friendship is Magic + Jar. But I'm kinda surprised you don't know/remember that controversy. It was all over TH-cam and Reddit.
The last story. Mam, your husband has a freakish thing that probably started in puberty. No, normal men do not do that. But, then again, at least he wasn't keeping it in the refrigerator.
.... and keep the lid closed.
Last story? God! This is some weird fetishism gross stuff. Evaluate the relationship because this is a major red flag
oh my god last story no no no no NO ew that is so gross. NO dude most guys do NOT do that?????? fucking hell. GROSS.
Are you sure? Are you really really sure?
Story 1: Both you AND the electriian should have contacted the police.
The electrician may be illegal, but the story was in New York, so negative and positives are balanced.
Last story: no she is not the AH. That’s disgusting.
Story 3: Holy shit, most people only wish they could do this to a toxic place with bad moderatorship. props to OP for being creative.
Story 4: I wouldn't necessarily say OP is the ahole but she definitely did overreact. I don't know if it was the shock of it or it it was a female thing but being as angry and disgusted as she was was definitely uncalled for. While what the husband did was definitely not something every guy does, it is more common than you think (5%-10% of people). People are weird by nature and do weird things. In fact there is one pretty famous story about a jar and a pony.
First Story: OP probably should call the IRS on that Karen as what's the chance that she commit tax fraud as well as regular fraud. Also Karen probably should pay the electrician as the last thing she want is to get taken to court for not paying for the service the electrician done for her and the judge won't take sob story as an excuse.
Re:painting story. Look into a contractor's lien on the house.
On that first story, both the OP and the electricians should have filed mechanics liens on that first story, both the OP and the electricians should have filed mechanics liens against that scamming which. Either that or call the cops and say that they are stealing from them. Yeah, I know, the cops would say it's a civil matter, but if you could get a police report of any kind, it would definitely help. Also, if the OP overheard the name of the private school, I might tip them off, as well. If anybody could file a lawsuit and force her to sell all that crap that she just bought, that would really put a nail in her coffin.
First story, they need to add some zeroes to their services. Also start recording client interactions.
Italian here. Honest question: are we famous around the world for furniture?
Not in the US. That's not to say you don't have nice furniture, just that it doesn't jump out at me like Italian cars.
For me, it’s food… authentic food though, not Americanized recipes.
As a guy, that Last story almost had me throwing up. The only time I'd ever heard of a guy doing that before this involved a MLP toy..... If you know, you know.
Oh, you haven't heard the story about four gamblers and a spit jar, have you? 😅
@gorilladisco9108 thankfully no. And I'm not about to look it up either.
Bots are out today. Pickle jar hubby? Divorce the creep!!
Beep boop bop "the missile knows where it is cause it knows where it is not."
Small claims court for the painter and electrician.
And do a joint case... it now becomes 2 separate items which she reneged on the service contract for, AFTER getting the services done.
Ew wtf fluff NO thats gross as hell your wrong thinking shes the ahole
Story #3: "Angela" should have made her comment shorter and sweet, saying this with the link: Have you seen your son lately? She hasn't, of course, she's embarrassed because her son is not perfect like she thinks he should be.
I've stolen twice in my life. Once when I was a kid, it was a writing set, I really wanted to write to my aunt and didn't have any money. I felt so bad afterwards that I never stole again. It actually took me years to use the writing set because I couldn't even look at it. Yes I did eventually write my aunt. The second time was by accident. I took my young kids shopping to a dress/fashion jewellery store. It was a rainy day so I had my umbrella with me. When I left the store I opened the umbrella and a necklace fell out. I was mortified. Thinking that while I had been shopping it had fallen off a rack into my umbrella. I wanted to return it but was scared they would not believe me and call the police. It turned out ok though, when I explained myself to the ladies they could see how upset I was and how embarrassed. They actually thanked me and said I was being a good example for my kids. They were super nice and I loved shopping there sadly the shop closed down a few years later.
That stuff needs to be refrigerated doesn't it? Any "bankers" that can weigh in?😂
That last story was jarring.
Ba-dum tish!
LMAO "We have to sell the apartment" that she just put $100k into.
Story 2: I don't think OP deserves to feel bad about that. It was a totally valid way to address a Karen's abusive conduct.
Story 4: Now he's gonna need a new Rainbow Dash figurine, too!
I hate that I understood this reference.
Oh my eyes
I see, you are a man of culture as well.
Story 1: I would've told her in professional standards that IDGAS I paint your house, cleaned and folded your clothes per the contract that YOU signed, so pay the amount before I start collecting collateral (also in the contract)
Believe me, the smell coming from that jar after 6 months would be horrendous.
18:34 Dark Fluff may have said "holy cow," but I believe this woman is technically a "holier than thou, cow". 🤣
My dad taught me to steal when I was young.. He never made me steal anything, but it was encouraged, and I would go along while he took family or friends to go into stores and steal massive amounts of items, and I would usually get to pick something from the loot. As I got older and had things stolen from me, my house being robbed, my car windows broken and stereo stolen several times, I gained a strong disdain for theft, and now I generally consider thieves to be among the lowest types of people.
Edit: I can kind of understand stealing for survival, and the people he would take to steal were definitely from severe poverty, and we were poor, but not that poor that he couldn't afford the comic books, or whatever. I still remember the first time he showed me how to steal, it was a comic book I wanted from the 7-11 on a Friday night while we were cruising and and he drove and drank beer, which was a common activity. Needless to say, he wasn't the best influence. The 80s and 90s were a strange time.
Story 3 - There’s no question in my mind that Karen is going to Hell when her time comes.
Sounds like a modern day Pharisee from that Bible she loves so much. It's hilarious she hasn't learned her lesson either, she was still a female dog. If that pastor values his job he'd better ditch that wife of his.
Thanks for ruining my dinner with that last story, Fluff.