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How to Persuade People - the 3 keys

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ธ.ค. 2017
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  • @mariannemaili
    @mariannemaili 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Growing up in the Midwestern USA, "now isn't that interesting" was always a zinger. Thanks, Colin, for being who you are, doing what you do, and sharing it this way.

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure!

  • @TheEJ1408
    @TheEJ1408 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Conor, I believe you heard this numerous times, but you are a true inspiration to everyone who needs to speak with/in front of people. It's not only WHAT you say, WHAT you teach, but how you present it. I very much appreciate you sharing your knowledge. Thank you.

  • @othmane-mezian
    @othmane-mezian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    « Don’t Ask Yourself What The World Needs, Ask Yourself What Makes You Come Alive. And Then Go And Do That. Because What The World Needs Is People Who Have Come Alive. » - Howard Washington Thurman

  • @srisalient5737
    @srisalient5737 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hi Conor that was a brilliant storytelling. The way you started with cassandra curse,then connected it to persuasion , further to the Dad and son story to explain concepts was amazing :)
    Learned a lot from the video
    Thanks :)

  • @ndumiasolomon7760
    @ndumiasolomon7760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When this man speaks it sinks deep. I learn more on practice

  • @NeilRichins
    @NeilRichins 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh Pathos, people will follow you any where, as long as it leads to their success.
    Thank you for sharing, your stories and this video are brilliant!

  • @ricolerio
    @ricolerio 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Logos,Ethos and Pathos- I will remember this. Thank you Conor.

  • @mustakizahzakaria6800
    @mustakizahzakaria6800 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interesting indeed😊
    What i want to say and what you need to hear means a lot.

  • @husseindhooma5816
    @husseindhooma5816 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Interesting story i decided to tell my wife what i wanted to say and not what she wanted to hear and I screwed my weekend and almost my marriage. You are so right its scary, thank you so much for this, I have a meeting with my boss tomorrow who wants to discuss my performance should i tell her what i want to say or what she wants to hear. Interesting indeed

  • @saulnamango2350
    @saulnamango2350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Interesting" what a word; thank you very much

  • @fennycruz6714
    @fennycruz6714 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Impactful...interesting. i am grateful for your talent to speak from the heart mr conner. Follower from the philippines

  • @ismaielwaheed4300
    @ismaielwaheed4300 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This guy is smart

  • @praisebotha5123
    @praisebotha5123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this was amazing. i have been watching you for years and i have learned a lot from you as far as communication is concerned. but this one was really a great speech. God bless you

  • @kalpanabalakrishnam5203
    @kalpanabalakrishnam5203 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant! Impactful! Thank you 🙏

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @user-rd2co3oh3d
    @user-rd2co3oh3d 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hallo, am from Uganda, thatnks so much conor

  • @abdirihmanabuuraas7831
    @abdirihmanabuuraas7831 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    cool and calmness is what drives me watch you more coner

  • @b4belteshazzar
    @b4belteshazzar 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I prefer longer videos like this that are richer in content than the recent short ones

    • @ruddin10
      @ruddin10 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i am with you - I like the longer video format. But often I could not summarize my understanding easily especially when the talk does not include slides with bulletpoints, mindmap or other visual cues. Conor Neill is not a boring, it is just our mind nowadays expect visual assistance / cues to organize messages better. I was hoping someone already summarize the key messages in the comment section. That helps me solidify my understanding better. For this long talk, I converted to mp3 and listen to it several times over several days on Sony mp3 player while I do my 6000 steps walk. That's why I wish someone already summarize it for me because it requires some efforts for me to internalize the key messages

    • @wgs8175
      @wgs8175 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      repetition, repetition, repetition. that's the best way to learn through audio and visual cues. You could also make your own notes, which would reinforce the message so that you internalise it and own what you're hearing.

  • @StanislavKozlovsk
    @StanislavKozlovsk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You're a great storyteller but I personally feel like this talk was all over the place.
    Otherwise, the takeaway was really valuable. The quote "there are only a few more weekends" really opened my eyes

  • @Burt177
    @Burt177 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Okay I’m totally persuaded.

  • @robinpal7920
    @robinpal7920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Huge love for you, from India 💞💞💞

  • @DougHanson2769
    @DougHanson2769 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Interesting

  • @azzafiomar9983
    @azzafiomar9983 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The most amazing video I have ever watched!

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!
      Kind words, thank you ;-)

  • @jonclark92
    @jonclark92 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very powerful...

  • @georgeb297
    @georgeb297 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Conor .. thank you for great advice!! How about persuading different audience, .. I just find it hard to start with a story to connect if I am talking to a higher level executive or a board of executives

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      story doesn't need to be long... it can be a 10 second story like "I remember my first day in this company... I remember walking in to the building... I remember my hopes and aspirations... today we face challenges that can cause us to forget why we are all here."

  • @Iamtheoverlander
    @Iamtheoverlander 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Interesting! :) thank you 🙏🏻

  • @ManolisPolychronides
    @ManolisPolychronides 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this! What was the occasion? Where was it filmed and broadcast? And happy new year!

    • @fm7551
      @fm7551 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bucharest Atheneum.

  • @saulnamango2350
    @saulnamango2350 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good, very good

  • @rajeshs1396
    @rajeshs1396 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    U said what I want to hear

  • @ojelanidi7923
    @ojelanidi7923 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting!

  • @vishnunagendran332
    @vishnunagendran332 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You smart

  • @visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727
    @visitesenalsaceleilakopff2727 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant!!!

  • @pjsgmusical3991
    @pjsgmusical3991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If Apollo was able to grant the gift of prophecy and he was a God, he should've been able to see the future too .... But if that didn't happen it's like a God with no ability to see the future has given the gift of prophecy? I don't understand!

    • @alihaidari3160
      @alihaidari3160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In my understanding he was using that particular story to convey his message and tie into everyday situations that most of face most of the time, you need to look at the big picture and see what the message is. Mind you his is not a historian or teaches history, his more of a story teller to me.

  • @adelarsen9776
    @adelarsen9776 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about telling the truth and saying Sorry ?

    • @Ghrainne
      @Ghrainne 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you did not get it

  • @DougHanson2769
    @DougHanson2769 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wasn’t it Daphne w/Apollo

  • @shunyabinduinteriors
    @shunyabinduinteriors 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interesting 🙏

    • @ConorNeill
      @ConorNeill  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha you nailed it

  • @ElisaSSuter
    @ElisaSSuter 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @jamesticknor1134
    @jamesticknor1134 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    If her words would not be believed by anyone else, she should have just lied.

    • @starlord7526
      @starlord7526 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      her words had no values. Lucky for her, she was one of the Royals, else she would have been burnt alive in cause of forecasting of ill future

  • @mitchellmccauley160
    @mitchellmccauley160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    haha this is interesting

  • @spirosgal1885
    @spirosgal1885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Λόγος
    Ήθος
    Πάθος

  • @RoflJoker1994
    @RoflJoker1994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    WHAT WAS THAT AT THE START LOL

  • @AntonioCostaAmaral
    @AntonioCostaAmaral 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Some Haydn persuation = th-cam.com/video/3DM1eJxUT8k/w-d-xo.html

  • @briancooley8777
    @briancooley8777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Logos never works with people. It should but people are stupid

    • @ricomajestic
      @ricomajestic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yea but people become smart when it is convenient for them so you have to be able to persuade them through reason.