I agree w you and I’ve experienced it several times w narcs. They never end any relationship. They may disappear but they never end it. They leave all doors open and they do return. I hope everyone stays strong when the narc comes back knocking…. Please do not answer the door. Stay safe everyone❤️
Which also means that when they leave their other supply to come back, that they are only temporarily back and will return to their other people in much the same way as they returned to you.
Anoushka told e from the beginning that going no contact was the best route. Not necessarily the easiest but the best. So that’s what I did. I could tell you unbelievable stories about what he’s done to get my attention including having my name ground off our cemetery headstone before we decided what we were going to do with it. I stopped talking to him a long time ago. Best thing I could’ve done for my sanity. Thanks to Anoushka.
He deserted me sometimes and I knew he was with someone else but I couldn't get any explanation or who he was with, cos he got very angry and I was scared for the last 4 years. He was love bombing, hot & cold but I didn't know what he was doing to me, felt so stupid. You are explaining my experience and wow! that makes sense! I'm glad I left him, that was enough. Now I'm not contact him and healing myself. Thank you Anoushka xxxx
No contact is the first step of healing. After that long way to go because this person was not the first narcissistic person you thought was the right person to be a friend or partner. After my last narcissistic experience, I took an advise that at least you need a year alone to find a new peaceful path. I started a study to understand what happens in life and lot of questions where answered. But the biggest challenge is to find trust again in other people. So many victims will decide to stay alone because they are tired
No one that ends up with a narcisist has a childhood without trauma. The only reason we didnt notice redflags or stayed around was because we too come from backgrounds of trauma and the NARC can play into those insecurities. A healthy person WOULD LEAVE inmediately. I am becoming healthy as I keep healing my childhood trauma.
Within a week of my discard my ex covert narc treated me horribly! I asked him if he wanted to take a break, he said no. I asked if he was cheating, loonggg pause, he said no. I asked what the problem was, he said it wasn't me, he needed to get rid of all the negativity in his life.. I was quite perplexed, we hadn't fought and wouldn't explain what he meant. We then went away for a weekend and he wasn't talking and when he did he was so freaking rude! BIT was VERY kind and engaging to all the staff and people he met except me! The morning we were leaving he snapped at me again and I snapped back! I refused to speak to him the ride home. And as I sat home not even an hour after I got home. He discarded me via text. I let it go.
Something that I found very odd was that they had much, much, much 'no contact' going on with so many people! They had many people that they had 'written-off', 'blacklisted', 'taught a lesson' and 'held grudges against etc.' I wondered why they would boast/rant about it?
Yes, I experienced the same as you described. She didn't keep friends for long, sometimes they'd leave other times she stopped talking to them because they knew her too well. Narcs are pathetic and cowardly, let them destroy each other
I’ve been a target of various narcissists and I’ve also cut people out in recent years. Once you realise when people are walking over you no have the choice to no longer have to deal with them. I’ve forced myself to allow ‘friendships’ for years where I was being mistreated and judged. The difference is the people I cut out showed bullying by their behaviour and I gave them dozens of chances. Being a doormat has gotten me exactly where I don’t want to be in life. I don’t brag about getting rid of toxic people but it is one of my proudest achievements. Blocking the man I love for eg. because I know he’s a narcissist, even though it’s killing me is something I’m really proud of. Getting rid of a ‘friend’ who ignored my pleas to stop talking down to me is another. Motivation is always the giveaway with a narc. They cut people out who demand respect and equality so they can pretend they were just an awful person and not have to look at themselves.
Yes. And depending on the reason, he would say it was going to be a day, week, month or even a year. And he did not waver. If he blocked me he called it putting me on suspension.
I also was told i was too much, not good enough, defective , flawed, etc. That made me a target for NARCS and people to bully me, around as a teen and adult, and to stay around narcisistic systems (a lot of them in the world are) and wonder whats wrong with me that i didnt fit in or get accepted. Its not until I kept healing my trauma and got my assertiveness and started feeling and grieving that I am more watchful of the redflags and have self love. Not everyone that comes from a narc family or a trauma background develops that bullshit abusive personality disorder. Im not hearing that clearly in your videos, its weird , because i am a survivor of narc abuse in childhood and as an adult!
Agreed, the ones of us who are functional and empathic are ostracized for not conforming. It’s exhausting, the only thing left to do is detach from the dysfunction. Cheers to us… 🥂
@Mary Carroll trauma creates narcisists but not everyone that has trauma maybe the majority of people who have trauma dont become narcs. My point is that narc's come from trauma, and that a lot of people can have trauma and not be narcs. I think its this youtuber that repeats in her videos that "narc come from a terrible trauma" . And my point is well yes I know, and i come from a terrible trauma too, thats why I didnt see the redflags, becaue i have so much trauma that part of me USE to feel like i deserved it on some level or that i couldnt get anything better. Now i dont take abuse, i have good boundaries, assertivity , i come from an authentic place of self expression, i like connecting with others and getting my needs met and helping others the same, interdependently, as I have enough capacity in myself first. ( oxygen mask on first) the opposite of what i was taught in my narc household, that was : to abandon myself, or that i deserved poor treatment. Hope that clarifies it
Everything you said is true. I went out of town and he was spotted at my home twice . Told a neighbor hes there to take me to lunch. His new supply must be gone. After 3 years no contact.
Omg this is exactly what my wife doing through our divorce right now She has a no contact cause she choked me then filed for divorce. This pain is unbelievable
What about when you have no choice but to block them and go no contact? I felt guilty for a long time but at least I told him I was blocking him and letting him go. He treated me so bad I just couldn’t stand it anymore.
thanks so much - excellent a tough business for sure gives me really useful grounds for not responding when she does reach out, God willing, and not personally feeling harsh for not doing so... :)
I think I’ve tried to rationalize my exes narcissistic behavior on the fact that he was adopted, rejection etc. Idk how relevant that could be but I’m tired of making excuses. I do miss him though. It’s exhausting.
You mean narcs actually go no contact with you ? If that happens, make a party ! A psychopath went no contact with me, it was the best thing I ever got from that person. I did crash in the short term but boy did I got better afterwards.
Yes , he even told me himself my personal business is my own and nobody else"s because that gives them power over you ammunition they then have none that i give them....
so true ! My covert narcissist on again off again relationship lives next door to me ! I grey rock her and doing my best with no contact. Once in a while she leaves hints that she is still attached to me, for instance parking her car close to mine (she know how i love my cars) or returning the silent treatment in a bitchy way when be meet at random times. I return serve and grey rock. She has the opportunity to moving on (if she really does not need me), instead she has renewed her lease which means I have another 12months with her ! hahaha (I own my place).
Right. It is the beginning of the end of much suffering... the victim walks out (if she/he can afford it health and finace wise), leaving this possessed by demonic forces creature to him/herself, hopefully, to shrink (without the host) to that critical no-return when the demons inside are burned, and the narcisist in the past will rise and become a human, the way of Phynix. This is my story that has a double happy ending. I got my life back, am rebuilding it nicely at 72, and he is in a total collapse, wakening up to a new brave world that is waiting out for him...
No contact is the best thing I ever did Have been totally no contact 2 1/2 years (Not too difficult, Covid) BUT the new supply a.k.a Queen of the flying monkeys must be trying to do his bidding. I cannot not believe how he convinced her to do this but they will stop at nothing Stay strong narc survivors!
They always return beyond no contact. My ex girlfriend still has my number on her phone and even though she blocked me off Snapchat she could potentially unblock me at any point and that worries me
I would like your insight. This is the last message I got from her after I gave her a 'narc injury" I messaged her "I have often wondered how people get drawn into a cult. Now I understand" She messaged me "How's that?" I didn't answer so she sent this message and blocked me 2 days later. This is what she sent..... Since you haven't answered me I'm thinking you are unhappy with my unresponsive messages. determining the cult comparison is pretty insulting. I hope you find happiness Mark, as well as a peaceful life. Take good care of yourself. 🥰. Do you think she really means it or is it her way of trying to get even as I hurt her? Its been 3 months since we talked and two years since Ive seen her.
Pearl I had a horrendous 30 year relationship with a textbook Narc which I only realised after a vindictive divorce and am healing now very slowly . The discard phase hurts but he continued in the marriage probs 10 years after the discard as I was paying all the bills and he had plenty of other supply when I went to work for long hours. I was just a shell and am only realising who I am now.
She's been ghosting me on and off since October, she knows i have bpd and the psychological pain of her abandoning me is crippling. I have kept reaching out but get nothing in return its because i feel ill without her
@@doralinda81 makes total sense, im still there trying to help her still giving energy, and blaming myself for everything, sleepless nights not eating, and i haven't even received an apology 😮
I want to say to you ! Have a beautiful heart! I am a man and was married for twenty three years to a narcissist. I know this because I have lived through it . It has been ten years now sence the devalue and discarded . We are doing well I think but I have two boys one is nineteen and one is twenty three. The twenty three year old is having some issues will he be okay? I worry she humiliated him with her new husband and then lifts him up. What should I tell him and and what can I do ! Sorry to bother you but it weighs on my heart as a dad thanks
What if you intimated No Contact. And your narcist Ex does not have social media, when meet in online class, To my knowledge he only talked to me in class. I called him out on his lies , Ie marital status .He was married and using me as his supply Other than class in the Spring, we have no connection , I think I am safe.
Its a matter of time and circumstance. If you are hoovered, they are most likely about to leave their current partner and do them the same way they did you. Block them immediately
@@SleggarLawlz Mine lives wayyy too far away now Thank god- but they texted me the other day, so for fun I texted back- Turns out they barely replied, so most likely they were drunk when they initially texted, and I didn’t respond the way they “wanted “ 😂👌👍👍👍
Is the end for me that wako have to stay far away from me and all his flying monkeys have to stay far from me too I block him and all his flying monkeys from every social media platform even straight calls so no contact
stop trying to make excuse for narcissists, because of their childhood abandement...I was raised by 2 narcissistic parents, father overt, mother covert, extremely controlling, I was never good enough for them, not smart enough, pretty enough, thin enough, ....I didn't become a narcissist, but a codependent ! all my life I got stuck with men who only used me and threw me away, and I was the one always blaming myself for it...I only later, learned about narcissism and realised that these men were almost all narcissists, textbook examples....my last narcisissitic relationship lasted 10 years, and this time I was the one gone no contat, who ended it all, without explanation, without a word, without a goodby! it's fresh, only 15 days, but I have absolutely no desire to go back, though it hurts, but I don't feel guilt over him, but feel guilt over myself, I regret I didn't make this move years earlier..
I told her I can’t do this anymore and I asked her to bring me back my garage door opener does that mean she’ll never contact me again because she is broken up with me and wanted me back 13 times and this would’ve been number 14 can you answer me
- discipline yourself not to entertain thoughts about him. every time you start to think about him, stop the thought persist in doing this ask God for help you will be surprised to see how one day when you are not thinking about it (or one day when you get up and about in the morning) something will change God can rearrange your feelings so that you will suffer less...
I subscribe and follow and share and have gratitude for AA and this community but felt this video and title somewhat confusing. It’s giving an impression there should be an end and then an exposition why it isn’t and then ends on that there can be one if you choose it. Perhaps that’s the start point? We all have responsibility in the choices we make and that’s a key difference to “us and them”. We can take responsibility for making a new choice towards something different and we can accept our vulnerability for being an unknowing victim or if self aware an avoidant one! Good wishes to you reading this 🙏🏻
And just as a thought she wouldn’t return she did and she wants an restraining order against me for seeking answers she have told the police that she is afraid oh what a pleasure to have a narcissist in your life it’s simply amazing 🤯
it was about money. money and luv don mix in marxist theory of class relations, thu she played a liberal role of a middle class, thu she has no capital, and me, middle class with no capital, so there was compatibility for luv. but im the magnet and she is the narciss. im magneted to complicated women with diagnosis
I agree w you and I’ve experienced it several times w narcs. They never end any relationship. They may disappear but they never end it. They leave all doors open and they do return. I hope everyone stays strong when the narc comes back knocking…. Please do not answer the door. Stay safe everyone❤️
very true
Which also means that when they leave their other supply to come back, that they are only temporarily back and will return to their other people in much the same way as they returned to you.
Hi
Bingo
Going no contact with a narcissist irritates them! However, when they do make comeback attempts, be prepared for the worst of the worst!
ABSOLUTELY!! THEY PUNISH YOU FOR LEAVING IN THE FIRST PLACE!!
@@K70sflowerchile It seems like they love to punish for just about anything they consider a discretion towards their ego
It gets worse and worse every time. And they turn everything against you
Anoushka told e from the beginning that going no contact was the best route. Not necessarily the easiest but the best. So that’s what I did. I could tell you unbelievable stories about what he’s done to get my attention including having my name ground off our cemetery headstone before we decided what we were going to do with it. I stopped talking to him a long time ago. Best thing I could’ve done for my sanity. Thanks to Anoushka.
@@peterknyk1942 exactly! It is always our shortcomings that they feel harmed or hurt them.
Woo! It's painful but we all deserve more RESPECT and to be treated well. We will all get through this💕
Indeed 💫
🙏🏼❤️🩹
Thanks!
Coming up on 3 years no contact, January 1st
Hi my favorite beautiful teacher! Thank you for your years of help!
He deserted me sometimes and I knew he was with someone else but I couldn't get any explanation or who he was with, cos he got very angry and I was scared for the last 4 years. He was love bombing, hot & cold but I didn't know what he was doing to me, felt so stupid. You are explaining my experience and wow! that makes sense! I'm glad I left him, that was enough. Now I'm not contact him and healing myself. Thank you Anoushka xxxx
No contact is the first step of healing. After that long way to go because this person was not the first narcissistic person you thought was the right person to be a friend or partner. After my last narcissistic experience, I took an advise that at least you need a year alone to find a new peaceful path. I started a study to understand what happens in life and lot of questions where answered. But the biggest challenge is to find trust again in other people. So many victims will decide to stay alone because they are tired
I never regret watching a video from you. What you're saying in this video is hard to accept but it's true. ❤️🙏
Narcissist doesn't leave you in a healthy way because he wants to come back to you because of attachment disorder .
You said it sister!
No one that ends up with a narcisist has a childhood without trauma. The only reason we didnt notice redflags or stayed around was because we too come from backgrounds of trauma and the NARC can play into those insecurities. A healthy person WOULD LEAVE inmediately. I am becoming healthy as I keep healing my childhood trauma.
Not true. I had no childhood trauma.
@@maretomcic same here. No childhood trauma.
You are so right. My childhood was a nightmare, thus I attract these parasitic narcs. They can smell an empath a mile away.
No childhood trauma here. What about just being an empath?
@@reinhartbaptist9142 They can smell you & will bleed you dry. Be careful 😳
Within a week of my discard my ex covert narc treated me horribly! I asked him if he wanted to take a break, he said no. I asked if he was cheating, loonggg pause, he said no. I asked what the problem was, he said it wasn't me, he needed to get rid of all the negativity in his life.. I was quite perplexed, we hadn't fought and wouldn't explain what he meant. We then went away for a weekend and he wasn't talking and when he did he was so freaking rude! BIT was VERY kind and engaging to all the staff and people he met except me! The morning we were leaving he snapped at me again and I snapped back! I refused to speak to him the ride home. And as I sat home not even an hour after I got home. He discarded me via text. I let it go.
2022 Narc free Year!!
Something that I found very odd was that they had much, much, much 'no contact' going on with so many people! They had many people that they had 'written-off', 'blacklisted', 'taught a lesson' and 'held grudges against etc.' I wondered why they would boast/rant about it?
More than likely they are lying, these people cut them off and they have to change the narrative to seem like a victor and a victim.
Yes, I experienced the same as you described. She didn't keep friends for long, sometimes they'd leave other times she stopped talking to them because they knew her too well. Narcs are pathetic and cowardly, let them destroy each other
I’ve been a target of various narcissists and I’ve also cut people out in recent years. Once you realise when people are walking over you no have the choice to no longer have to deal with them. I’ve forced myself to allow ‘friendships’ for years where I was being mistreated and judged. The difference is the people I cut out showed bullying by their behaviour and I gave them dozens of chances. Being a doormat has gotten me exactly where I don’t want to be in life. I don’t brag about getting rid of toxic people but it is one of my proudest achievements. Blocking the man I love for eg. because I know he’s a narcissist, even though it’s killing me is something I’m really proud of. Getting rid of a ‘friend’ who ignored my pleas to stop talking down to me is another. Motivation is always the giveaway with a narc. They cut people out who demand respect and equality so they can pretend they were just an awful person and not have to look at themselves.
Yes. And depending on the reason, he would say it was going to be a day, week, month or even a year. And he did not waver. If he blocked me he called it putting me on suspension.
I also was told i was too much, not good enough, defective , flawed, etc. That made me a target for NARCS and people to bully me, around as a teen and adult, and to stay around narcisistic systems (a lot of them in the world are) and wonder whats wrong with me that i didnt fit in or get accepted. Its not until I kept healing my trauma and got my assertiveness and started feeling and grieving that I am more watchful of the redflags and have self love. Not everyone that comes from a narc family or a trauma background develops that bullshit abusive personality disorder. Im not hearing that clearly in your videos, its weird , because i am a survivor of narc abuse in childhood and as an adult!
Agreed, the ones of us who are functional and empathic are ostracized for not conforming. It’s exhausting, the only thing left to do is detach from the dysfunction. Cheers to us… 🥂
You have a heart of gold. 💕
@Mary Carroll trauma creates narcisists but not everyone that has trauma maybe the majority of people who have trauma dont become narcs. My point is that narc's come from trauma, and that a lot of people can have trauma and not be narcs. I think its this youtuber that repeats in her videos that "narc come from a terrible trauma" . And my point is well yes I know, and i come from a terrible trauma too, thats why I didnt see the redflags, becaue i have so much trauma that part of me USE to feel like i deserved it on some level or that i couldnt get anything better. Now i dont take abuse, i have good boundaries, assertivity , i come from an authentic place of self expression, i like connecting with others and getting my needs met and helping others the same, interdependently, as I have enough capacity in myself first. ( oxygen mask on first) the opposite of what i was taught in my narc household, that was : to abandon myself, or that i deserved poor treatment. Hope that clarifies it
I feel that in the no contact way is the only way for you to be respect
You are awesome!!! You explain everything beautifully!!! I been through a bad narcissistic relationship and now I know!!!
thank you
Your content is practical and profound. THANK YOU!!!!!
Everything you said is true. I went out of town and he was spotted at my home twice . Told a neighbor hes there to take me to lunch. His new supply must be gone. After 3 years no contact.
Omg this is exactly what my wife doing through our divorce right now
She has a no contact cause she choked me then filed for divorce. This pain is unbelievable
What about when you have no choice but to block them and go no contact? I felt guilty for a long time but at least I told him I was blocking him and letting him go. He treated me so bad I just couldn’t stand it anymore.
Don't feel bad. Life's too short to keep toxic vampires around 👹
thanks so much - excellent a tough business for sure
gives me really useful grounds for not responding when she does reach out, God willing, and not personally feeling harsh for not doing so... :)
Good job with the video presentation. Thanks
If they leave in my mind they are gone so I will never let them back.
I think I’ve tried to rationalize my exes narcissistic behavior on the fact that he was adopted, rejection etc. Idk how relevant that could be but I’m tired of making excuses. I do miss him though. It’s exhausting.
Well said!!
You mean narcs actually go no contact with you ? If that happens, make a party ! A psychopath went no contact with me, it was the best thing I ever got from that person. I did crash in the short term but boy did I got better afterwards.
Yes , he even told me himself my personal business is my own and nobody else"s because that gives them power over you ammunition they then have none that i give them....
Haha they can’t come back- I live too far away now! 😂🤣👏👏👏
Never ''Go Back.''
so true !
My covert narcissist on again off again relationship lives next door to me !
I grey rock her and doing my best with no contact.
Once in a while she leaves hints that she is still attached to me, for instance parking her car close to mine (she know how i love my cars) or returning the silent treatment in a bitchy way when be meet at random times. I return serve and grey rock.
She has the opportunity to moving on (if she really does not need me), instead she has renewed her lease which means I have another 12months with her ! hahaha (I own my place).
Right. It is the beginning of the end of much suffering... the victim walks out (if she/he can afford it health and finace wise), leaving this possessed by demonic forces creature to him/herself, hopefully, to shrink (without the host) to that critical no-return when the demons inside are burned, and the narcisist in the past will rise and become a human, the way of Phynix. This is my story that has a double happy ending. I got my life back, am rebuilding it nicely at 72, and he is in a total collapse, wakening up to a new brave world that is waiting out for him...
Good word. Ty Ana 🙂
So True!!
In the wise words of HG Tudor..... "GOSO"
TY
No contact is the best thing I ever did
Have been totally no contact 2 1/2 years
(Not too difficult, Covid)
BUT
the new supply a.k.a Queen of the flying monkeys must be trying to do his bidding. I cannot not believe how he convinced her to do this but they will stop at nothing
Stay strong narc survivors!
And my narc didn't blame me she just said she cannot do relationships after 15 months. Nothing more then silence.
My Narssastic person is one of 8 children. Firmly now understand why this happened.
So they can't detach from new supply either. So we have to detach from them. Roc on.😄
They always return beyond no contact. My ex girlfriend still has my number on her phone and even though she blocked me off Snapchat she could potentially unblock me at any point and that worries me
Block her dude. It'll be the best thing you can do for yourself. Don't look back, she'll just continue to mistreat you. Stay strong.
Just keep saying you are not interested.
I would like your insight. This is the last message I got from her after I gave her a 'narc injury" I messaged her "I have often wondered how people get drawn into a cult. Now I understand" She messaged me "How's that?" I didn't answer so she sent this message and blocked me 2 days later. This is what she sent..... Since you haven't answered me I'm thinking you are unhappy with my unresponsive messages. determining the cult comparison is pretty insulting. I hope you find happiness Mark, as well as a peaceful life. Take good care of yourself. 🥰. Do you think she really means it or is it her way of trying to get even as I hurt her? Its been 3 months since we talked and two years since Ive seen her.
Pearl
I had a horrendous 30 year relationship with a textbook Narc which I only realised after a vindictive divorce and am healing now very slowly . The discard phase hurts but he continued in the marriage probs 10 years after the discard as I was paying all the bills and he had plenty of other supply when I went to work for long hours. I was just a shell and am only realising who I am now.
She's been ghosting me on and off since October, she knows i have bpd and the psychological pain of her abandoning me is crippling. I have kept reaching out but get nothing in return its because i feel ill without her
Trauma bond
@@doralinda81 makes total sense, im still there trying to help her still giving energy, and blaming myself for everything, sleepless nights not eating, and i haven't even received an apology 😮
@@davt8615 she's not going to apologize and you've got to ignore no matter what you do she sees vulnerability as weakness
I want to say to you ! Have a beautiful heart! I am a man and was married for twenty three years to a narcissist. I know this because I have lived through it . It has been ten years now sence the devalue and discarded . We are doing well I think but I have two boys one is nineteen and one is twenty three. The twenty three year old is having some issues will he be okay? I worry she humiliated him with her new husband and then lifts him up. What should I tell him and and what can I do ! Sorry to bother you but it weighs on my heart as a dad thanks
Yeah
My ex narc broke it off. Now silent since December 2022. Think she has gone.
Oh yes it is
That 👹 is well aware of why I left...no need for me to provide an explanation to 👹!
But I think there are some narcissists you will never again hear from.
Yes,but if the ex contacts the narcissist,they may come back for sometime and somehow use them for some purpose.
Definitely. If you leave them it depends on how you do it. They fear rejection.
What if you intimated No Contact. And your narcist Ex does not have social media, when meet in online class, To my knowledge he only talked to me in class. I called him out on his lies , Ie marital status .He was married and using me as his supply Other than class in the Spring, we have no connection , I think I am safe.
What about when you leave them and go no contact, I haven't heard from my ex narc in two months. I discarded her.
Me too. I was forced to leave him. Or to take more abuse.
Its a matter of time and circumstance. If you are hoovered, they are most likely about to leave their current partner and do them the same way they did you. Block them immediately
@@barbaraviniegra Same here hun
Give it time LOL-
They always come back-
Kinda like psoriasis 🥴
@@SleggarLawlz
Mine lives wayyy too far away now
Thank god- but they texted me the other day, so for fun I texted back-
Turns out they barely replied, so most likely they were drunk when they initially texted, and I didn’t respond the way they “wanted “
😂👌👍👍👍
Is the end for me that wako have to stay far away from me and all his flying monkeys have to stay far from me too I block him and all his flying monkeys from every social media platform even straight calls so no contact
stop trying to make excuse for narcissists, because of their childhood abandement...I was raised by 2 narcissistic parents, father overt, mother covert, extremely controlling, I was never good enough for them, not smart enough, pretty enough, thin enough, ....I didn't become a narcissist, but a codependent ! all my life I got stuck with men who only used me and threw me away, and I was the one always blaming myself for it...I only later, learned about narcissism and realised that these men were almost all narcissists, textbook examples....my last narcisissitic relationship lasted 10 years, and this time I was the one gone no contat, who ended it all, without explanation, without a word, without a goodby! it's fresh, only 15 days, but I have absolutely no desire to go back, though it hurts, but I don't feel guilt over him, but feel guilt over myself, I regret I didn't make this move years earlier..
I told her I can’t do this anymore and I asked her to bring me back my garage door opener does that mean she’ll never contact me again because she is broken up with me and wanted me back 13 times and this would’ve been number 14 can you answer me
I have a question …..// why did she ask me to do it? She would do or say stuff to irritate or hurt me and then say can you be done with me ?
Does it always mean they have another supply
Always.
Usually yes! It’s doesn’t mean it has to be a romantic one but someone that will be able to supply them with lots of attention
@@anoushkamarcin thnkyou x
Pretty Much. Keep Moving On Focus on You. Just Saying.
Always!
I wish I went no contact and gave him a long text of closure. Now I feel stupid
I dont think mines will ever try n contact me becz he put his hands on me n he knows I want NOTHING to do with him nor his family.
What about when they're children envolved?
I need help its killing me!! I cant live without him it hurts sooo much 😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
Accept it he is toxic and they are fake peoples
@@ganeshlal3737 true 😪😪😪💔
Stay away from the Demon they come back with 3 demons!
- discipline yourself not to entertain thoughts about him. every time you start to think about him, stop the thought
persist in doing this ask God for help you will be surprised to see how one day when you are not thinking about it (or one day when you get up and about in the morning) something will change
God can rearrange your feelings so that you will suffer less...
@@misfit7866 😪💔
I subscribe and follow and share and have gratitude for AA and this community but felt this video and title somewhat confusing. It’s giving an impression there should be an end and then an exposition why it isn’t and then ends on that there can be one if you choose it. Perhaps that’s the start point? We all have responsibility in the choices we make and that’s a key difference to “us and them”. We can take responsibility for making a new choice towards something different and we can accept our vulnerability for being an unknowing victim or if self aware an avoidant one! Good wishes to you reading this 🙏🏻
I don’t think she will come back 🤷🏼♂️ almost 6 months of completely no contact other than her smear campaign 🤦🏼♂️
And just as a thought she wouldn’t return she did and she wants an restraining order against me for seeking answers she have told the police that she is afraid oh what a pleasure to have a narcissist in your life it’s simply amazing 🤯
Si ludunt victimam, da eis quod clamet.
it was about money.
money and luv don mix in marxist theory of class relations, thu she played a liberal role of a middle class, thu she has no capital, and me, middle class with no capital, so there was compatibility for luv. but im the magnet and she is the narciss. im magneted to complicated women with diagnosis
Woman.. you good looking in that outfit.. watch out for male narcs. ❤ true love is Danish . So please go direct to CPH airport. 😂
Is narcissistic supply always a person?
oooh wdym?
@@sophiestanza such as drugs... Or fixated on events ... Things like that.
@@dreams.of.dyeing Hm probably, but I’d guess it would ultimately be out of social status or image related reasons
It can be their job