Finding Their Next Supply This Is How They Do It

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  • @emmabrooker166
    @emmabrooker166 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Dating websites are their never ending catalogue of options.

    • @Freethnkr
      @Freethnkr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, it gives them a chance to reinvent themselves, take on a whole new identity & personality, try new manipulating tricks, and possibly relocate to a new city where no one knows or suspects them...

    • @irenebusuttil2832
      @irenebusuttil2832 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And they like frequent porn sites ..I caught him

    • @mickymorton7148
      @mickymorton7148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dating apps behind a mobile phone where they can wear this fake persona mask .. & they can be whoever they want to be …. It’s catalogue of new supplies…

  • @msingh9634
    @msingh9634 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I can’t believe I fell for his love bombing. Good luck to the new supply and the one after that

    • @ericjackson-nq4hp
      @ericjackson-nq4hp ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ...hey, you were missed Tuesday.
      Cheers.
      See ya soon.

    • @elkebanhart7045
      @elkebanhart7045 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sympathy for the laughing third? NO.

  • @jbh5294
    @jbh5294 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    They are looking even when in your company .. then call you jealous when you question them over their behaviour or their weird relationships with exes who are always around … weird behaviour .

    • @bethhull1132
      @bethhull1132 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I couldn't go out to eat with him or to the grocery store without him ogling other women constantly. But of course, "I was paranoid." And the ex's relationships he still kept alive was pathetic!

    • @janettecavallaro5643
      @janettecavallaro5643 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@bethhull1132omg same here.....makes me so sick to stomach

    • @babyhandgrenade4004
      @babyhandgrenade4004 ปีที่แล้ว

      You described my relationship with my ex. I would be sitting right next to him and he would be scrolling through pictures of women in their underwear. Even weirder, he would show me their pictures and asked me what I thought. Now, I have nothing against the lgbtq community but I'm straight and I'm sorry but I don't want to look at pictures of half-naked women all day. I figured out that he was showing me what he wanted me to be despite the fact that he denied it when I called him out on it. Also, he also had a really weird relationship with his ex. He brought her up so frequently it was like they might as well have still been together. He was in contact with her every single day which was excessive in my opinion. It's like I told him, since you want to act like you're single, I'm going to go ahead and let you be single.

  • @Jeweli.
    @Jeweli. ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Not a relationship, a 'situationship.'

  • @lankankeys8310
    @lankankeys8310 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The mirroring part gets me because even after i let go and cut my ties with her, I realized she knew far too much about me whereas I barely knew anything about her, like her past or childhood. So she was perhaps learning me all along and tapping into my vulnerabilities by playing on my emotions. And she could return by using this tactic.

    • @TruthSeeker24-7
      @TruthSeeker24-7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes I experienced the same narc behaviours he wanted to know every single detail about me just to use it against me whereas with him he was sneaky, secretive and so obvious with it. But like I keep telling myself I only have myself to blame to allow this too happen when he showed me how he was from the getgo. Just got worse rapidly within the year's time frame we was around each other. Again so blessed and grateful I'm far away from that devil in disguise. 🤔😢😡

  • @vivisimonvi
    @vivisimonvi ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm convinced mine stuck with me for years because things like Facebook didn't exist. As soon as she signed up for Facebook, all kinds of exes and old guy friends started popping up out of the woodwork. This is exactly the same time I was going through the devaluation phase and this newfound platform was like her new home and central hub for posting all kinds of drama.

  • @江原-m3h
    @江原-m3h ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Absolutely right🎉My narc ex discard me quickly for his new supply and they quickly moved in together and now just half year he got another new supply online and got into love bombing phase with second new supply while he is still living and sleeping with the first one🙃what a horrible narcissist😢that can’t live without supply. I’m done.

  • @Redpill1962
    @Redpill1962 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Painfully true to hear 😮! But the fact we are here and listening means an end to being narced!!

  • @elcee7800
    @elcee7800 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    It’s perpetual, like a battery continually needs a charge.

  • @HellasGD88
    @HellasGD88 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Narcs are addicted to their own lunacy, that's their punishment.

  • @brunopannemans5729
    @brunopannemans5729 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You can't build a kingdom with someone who is stil carving attention from the village....

  • @dargeo1406
    @dargeo1406 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    They’re always on dating apps, including while they’re… dating you. 😳And I wish all those dating apps vetted their members and ran background checks. You’d be surprised how many narcissists have criminal history. I wish I did that before meeting my narc con artist. 😳

    • @donnamarrie3272
      @donnamarrie3272 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Truth

    • @LovingLightx
      @LovingLightx ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely!
      He had a record and did jail time. Thank God I ended it with him after a couple of months. No contact and feeling so much healthier ❤

    • @dargeo1406
      @dargeo1406 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LovingLightx sounds like my toxic ex I dated for about 6 months until he accidentally revealed he had been dealing with at least 2 women behind my back. Then disappeared like a coward with no explanation. Tried to reappear a YEAR later, but of course had figured him out by then. Just make sure you keep the door triple locked. 🔒 They like to reappear out of nowhere again and again trying to abuse us again. Stay safe! 🙏

  • @renatelewis538
    @renatelewis538 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mine was always on plenty of fish, even when we were living together. Wtf? I was soooo naive 😮😮😮

    • @Freethnkr
      @Freethnkr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pof is the weirdest and worst site their is, nothing but creepy dudes on there...

  • @iramsavir5631
    @iramsavir5631 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My Narc was always on dating sites, but he usually started affairs with female friends and co-workers. He had mostly (if not all) female friends, and not surprisingly, because that way, he was sure to have a pool to fish from. He finally brutally discarded me for a coworker, and right after my mastectomy. May Karma put him through hell and back!

  • @Ghostx1977
    @Ghostx1977 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My Narc was/is a Cosser/Cosplayer she would join online cosplay community groups. She once added over 270 people in the space of two weeks. This was during my discard.

  • @shakirajameel8042
    @shakirajameel8042 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    They say they need attention and validation but I gave him all that,I guess the need more than....
    .

    • @iramsavir5631
      @iramsavir5631 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No amount of supply, no matter how good, will ever be enough for them because they always crave NEW supply once the current supply gets too familiar. They feed and exist on novelty, excitement, newness, and the forbidden.

    • @Magirl-xq4hr
      @Magirl-xq4hr ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iramsavir5631 Perfectly said.

  • @bethhull1132
    @bethhull1132 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Don't forget Strip Clubs! One of my Narcs favorite hangouts while we were "dating."

    • @pei-hsuanli6017
      @pei-hsuanli6017 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it's easy to get new supply in y clubs there are more women need men to company and touch

  • @christinagipperich2780
    @christinagipperich2780 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    One of the most ridiculous dynamics I’ve ever seen is two narcissists using each other for supply in a work setting. If you have this situation at work, just sit back and watch. It’s like an episode of The Office.

  • @randyupladek1855
    @randyupladek1855 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Snapchat is a huge one ! They can mirror you and send you all kinds of pics that are going out to multiple people at the same time.

  • @dcikaruga
    @dcikaruga 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They love social media, seen some that always like to show off, big fat grins on their faces often, pretending their lives are so great.

  • @emilybouille5144
    @emilybouille5144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg ! The mirror thing is so true !

  • @Debo-d4p
    @Debo-d4p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Seriously ur videos really help me so much Thankyou whenever I think about my narcissist ex I feel grossed out they are so gross n toxic

  • @travstanz8544
    @travstanz8544 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m going through this by my narc gf constantly seeking attention through social media. And whenever I’ve asked any questions on who these guys are. I get told I’m so jealous and she’s not transparent about anything. It turns into a huge argument. And posts pics constantly of what we do every wkd but leave me out of posts and never tag me in them. It’s just strange. Seems like she wants to seem single to keep her options open with these guys online . It’s just hard to deal with and it’s only getting worse. I need to focus on myself and start letting her go.

  • @detjaggillar8081
    @detjaggillar8081 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Internet datingsites, neighbourhood the pub's, at work, with friends etc. = Every where they are fishing for New Supplies and sex partners. ALL the time.

  • @seanharrison6437
    @seanharrison6437 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My ex worked in the courts system she was very clever

    • @irielion3748
      @irielion3748 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not so clever when they keep doing the same things expecting a different result.

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@irielion3748exactly , Narcs behaviour patterns are predictable

  • @leahgannon5030
    @leahgannon5030 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you 👩🏼👍🏼🌹

  • @markallard3463
    @markallard3463 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    They love the dating apps

    • @pei-hsuanli6017
      @pei-hsuanli6017 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know that he's get new supplier from club whom likes to dancing

  • @carlos89784
    @carlos89784 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's crazy stuff. I suffered quite a bit when I was with my ex.
    At the end of the day, I am just happy and relieved I don't suffer from sort of NPD. They can be so twisted.

  • @Koda19651
    @Koda19651 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ex’s they don’t ever give them up

    • @elkebanhart7045
      @elkebanhart7045 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG 😱

    • @pjhall1353
      @pjhall1353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ten years after last seeing her he emails her, inviting her to his new work location, giving her his new cell number!!!!

  • @elkebanhart7045
    @elkebanhart7045 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I must have been accountering with that idividuum in a rehab.
    The best playground, because all the women there are single in their own rooms, no one is with friends or family in that foreign.
    Each person must spend about one month time there... They all come from different federal states and No one knows the other... Could there be a better playground as a rehab for those, sorry, "predators"?

  • @steenkristensen6351
    @steenkristensen6351 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Enig Anouska og forsat god aften 🙂👍

  • @moonglow1158
    @moonglow1158 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh they post family that died and boom they get everyone at the door

  • @tracyenbell
    @tracyenbell 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Work place!!!! BIG Time

  • @Wench1888
    @Wench1888 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The really lazy narc which I had. Will only search the length of his street where he is living. Any downgrade will do.

  • @raidenewalden4354
    @raidenewalden4354 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes , he can do what he wants but at the end of he day he goes home with me . He knows people at dating are all have same motives like him .His been there already , his been doing for years he is with me , I only find out 2 years ago , all his cheating , his dating app and maybe more but he said he goes home with me why because I am his big supply . He is getting old , will he still be able to do that . I don’t know , now I know who he is .

  • @boblangdon5253
    @boblangdon5253 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dating sitea yes.Especially for the women.

  • @MarieKarall
    @MarieKarall ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The music is way too loud, sadly.

  • @Freethnkr
    @Freethnkr 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex cheated on me with all of his exes while we were married but chose to relocate to a new city and meet & marry a whole new person after our divorce...Im sure he chose a dating site or linkd in to choose his next victim

  • @clarknawrocki9718
    @clarknawrocki9718 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Internet

  • @joeldwest
    @joeldwest ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Money and manipulation

  • @deezgex
    @deezgex ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im gonna say church