Whew, I don’t do anything on this list. Dodged a bullet. Women really do age themselves with these things. The more natural and effortless, the better. A dewy glow, a pale lip and nail polish, hair that is healthy and shiny, solid color clothes that drape beautifully, in natural fibers…these are goals IMHO.
Then why watch a video on fashion advice? You don’t have to watch or comment if you’re not interested. Other people come here because they like the advice.
Great -- for you! But B&W garments on my warmer, muted coloring enter the room long before I get there! Wearing the precise hues and intensities for our coloring is important!
I like black with my silver and white hair and I add a colorful scarf or even a sparkly brooch or necklace near the neckline to detract from the stark black. I agree black and white - cream looks more fresh.
Thanks for another fun video! When a friend confirmed black was no longer my friend, it made closet editing simpler. After a 40 year business career, I was stunned by how much black was in my wardrobe and I kept buying it post retirement. Excepting a few fabulous jackets, I let go of black. 😎
I agree with everything except the khaki pants- Kaki is a reasonable color and it’s all in the cut of the pants and what you wear with it (My humble opinion)
As long as they are high rise, I think they are fine. My favorite pair of non jean pants is a vintage pair of pleated black Khaki from the Gap. I love them, and get compliments of them all the time.
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
You're clearly a fashion pro, and let me add, I love that you've stayed with your gorgeous long hair! I am 74 years and have graduated to long hair that is still thick and wavy, as I've now learned how to handle it well.
One caveat - workout sneakers work great for knee, foot, & back problems, especially for us ladies who wear size 10 shoes or larger. Orthopedic inserts don’t fit in tinier shoes. Most nicer women’s shoes don’t have a large enough toe box for bunions or wider feet. I had to wear sneakers to work & everywhere else when I tore my meniscus. The only other alternative may be men’s shoes. I’ll suffer with dressier shoes when I dress up but I can’t walk far in them (even flats or low heels) which is very restrictive for us active folks.
Great point! You will definitely have to wear shoes that work for you when you have specific issues with your feet. Nothing is more important than that. Fortunately, there are a lot of athletic shoes that look really cute.
Thank you for your advice. To all of you complainers: why are you watching this video if you don’t want to learn something? Wear your ugly, outdated clothes and just be quiet about it.
Wear what you want at any age. Nobody really cares. We assume people are constantly checking us out but they are realistically only wrapped up in their own lives.
This video is for people who are actively interested in this kind of advice. You can do whatever you want but why watch and comment if you’re not interested?
Nada: I do not remember which video that you suggested “Archies”sandals, but I now have them. Thank you so much. They are So much more youthful on my foot, i dont feel old and sloppy, but much more current. They are amazing in arch support. Game changer for me. Thank you once again for great, youthful, functional finds!
Great things to think about. Also.....the bright red lipstick. Do we feel it's still ok? I see so many women wearing more neutral shades on their lips. Is that more tasteful now? Just wondering....
Some women suit a bright red lip and some women don't.. It's just that simple. It's has to suit your personality. I would say that many middle-aged women suit a softer lip suits them, while a bold lip often suits a more senior-aged woman. That being said, Nada suits the red lip because it suits her personality.. there are always exceptions.
Bright red lipstick certainly works well for so many people think it really depends on your skin color. I love a certain red lipstick on myself. It works for me and right now. I'm in an area where there's a lot of more brownish skin people. My husband is getting surgery and a Mexican hospital and everyone almost is wearing bright red and it's gorgeous. I think it really depends on the skin color.
Great question. You have to pick a lip shade that flatters you. I look dead in neutral shades, and very dark matte shades are aging on me. A classic red lip can work on many women, but we all have to pick what suits us. I do color analysis on all of my clients and help them choose lip colors that make their teeth look white and make them look bright and fresh. :)
Hi. Thanks for the tips. I do agree with the white soles looking better than the beige color ones- but, I’m recently traveled and knew I would be doing a lot of walking in the city and countryside. I specifically did not want to wear shoes with the white soles because I didn’t want the dirt from the city streets/sidewalks and from the gravel/dirt country roads/paths “showing up” on the white soles. Well- I couldn’t find the beige color sole shoes I wanted for my vacation and ended up purchasing a $5 pair of white sole shoes from Walmart (clearance) for the trip. Surprisingly, I wore these while soled shoes almost every day and am still wearing them months after my trip! Not only did the white soles hold up well to “dirt (not showing)” but those $5 clearance shoes (which I was fully expecting to throw away when I got home from my trip) are so comfortable and still so clean! I am simply amazed!
What a win! Thank you for sharing that . That is amazing! Some of them have a strip of dark rubber on the soul that helps keep them even cleaner, but I have also found that they do not get as dirty as you would expect. Your trip sounds amazing by the way.
Heading upstairs NOW, to declutter my closet, keeping your tips in mind. Can you give us some tips on what to wear to the gym....if we also need to run errands on the way home. Also any tips for post'bariatric surgery gals who want to show off their new slimmer figures while hiding areas of loose skin. Thanks.
Great ideas! I will share some athleisure and post-surgery tips for you. I always suggest adding a cool accessory and a layering piece or jacket on top of your workout clothes to take them from gym to grocery store :)
That can be a problem for sure! I have many clients with similar sizing issues, and I have managed to find some really good brands with a little searching. Of course I don’t know exactly what you’re looking for but I think these are really cute. rstyle.me/+rk0g2zzAq8Z5_eG11TcSlQ
Yes thank you. A lot of these I still thought were ok! I wish I could tell some of my friends about this list and so many more things I've learned from you...or I already knew!
Thank you so much for saying what I have always thought about beige pants. The only kind I wear are Linen beige or cream pants. No matter what you do you look like you “work at” whatever store you happen to be in. …lol😂.
I have recently noticed that younger women do not wear silk or thinner fabric scarves, it's only us ladies if a certain age, so I have sadly stopped wearing them. I have saved a couple of cashmere scarves for colder weather, but that's it.
I would need to see the shoes to be sure, but I would probably say that you might want to consider purging those. Happy to take a look if you want to share in my Facebook group. Thanks so much for the question and the comment.
I have just decided to give up black in most cases (I am keeping a black dress for funerals). For years black was my go to look and thought it made me look sophisticated. But I have fair skin And light hair and eyes and being over sixty it just drags me down and ages me. It’s a sad color. It’s a difficult transition but I am trying to embrace color!
I am 54. I realized capris were doing me NO favors ten years ago! Some people wear them well, lately with the wider leg and a cute flat or sandal--but not me.😂 A major one for our age group is, loose top with a snugger bottom and vice versa. Thanks for the tips.
Elastic laces are amazing. I am able to tie my shoes without a problem, but it's great to be able to make them like a slip on! I also have wide feet and they're so much more adjustable than regular laces. I have never understood cold shoulder tops. They've been in and out over the years, and I always hated them. I'm gonna admit, I love me some bedazzled stuff, and always did even when I was young, so I have probably never been in style. 🤣
Thank you for the Khaki pants point. I’ve spent over 60 years wondering why khaki pants looked horrible on me. Preppy was big when I was in college, and I kept trying to make khaki pants work, but they just don’t! Especially on people with curves.
Thank you so much for the comment! Yes black is not for everyone and can be really harsh on some people. Maybe share this link with your mom so she can get annoyed with me instead. :))) I am so glad you liked the video and hope you will stick around!
Have you thought about focusing on vintage? I've always worn vintage and vintage inspired clothing. Hate to say this, but i still wear things I wore in high-school (1970s).
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Thank you so much for this comment! I do think it’s important for us to educate ourselves because so many of the things in stores are just not good and that can be confusing.
I am 55 , large bust and petite 😅. I still wear tops that are slightly cropped and wide leg trouser jeans . I wear what I like. But these points are good !!!
Of Course u can wear any damn thing u want. That does NOT mean u look ok. All this nonsense,…oh, wear what YOU like, feel comfortable in. We ALL know we laugh and roll our eyes at women age 50 and still shop at Forever 21. Most women look for advice. Please stop the virtue signaling. It’s SO obvious.
I agreed with much of what you said, but I just read an article after I watched your video from a British fashion magazine telling me what shoes I should wear with longer shorts. Now I think many of these magazines show some pretty cool fashion. So I guess I'm okay wearing some of my longer shorts over my pasty white chunky legs. Otherwise you were pretty spot on.
Lol. I am crushed about the khaki pants. I have a pair of lafayette 148 cigarette style lightweight pants that are my go to summer runnin’ around pants. Now what?? I checked on Nordstrom and Veronica Beard has a lot of Khaki pants listed-I wonder if they are OK? If the Veronicas are selling something it’s usually style approved by the masses! Just sayin’…
If you like them then wear them! Videos like this are not rules, just personal suggestions and preferences of the video maker. Everyone is different. Better to wear your khakis and feel comfy and happy than wearing something you're not so keen on simply because someone told you to do it 😊
@@jojojes1352 lol, TY. -just joking around, jj, giving NADA a little push back.😊 But I do take Nada’s advice seriously, so I am pained that if I go out in my khaki’s I will not be tres chic. it would not be the first time I was a fashion flub but it is some comfort that khaki’s are VBeard approved. That said, to be sure, I am 100% behind NM’s other nine of the “10 items to get rid of”. 👍 cheers!
Absolutely @jayinhoff6877. Those are NOT the ones I'm referring to. Yours sound gorgeous. I'm talking about the boxy cut pants often associated with khakis from very classic brands. :)
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
Hi Nada... I'm new to your chanel and really like your content. I absolutely agree with all of your style don'ts. These things simply aren't flattering and I consider them frumpy. Thanx for the great video.
Forget bedazzled shirts, I don't think shirts that have a huge print or saying on the front are elevated at all no matter what your age. A smaller item over thr heart with a pattern on the back or just a plain t are so much more while wearing less.
Re shoes: you assume we all have a lot of choices in shoes that offer both comfort and style. I have EE width feet with freaky high arches and insteps, so no fashionable or dressy, stylish shoes will fit me. Ever. Or on the off chance they do, they offer no support or comfort. I also have RA, which makes me only able to wear shoes like Birkenstocks and Crocs or thick walking shoes with lots of support. I will also wear my comfy Vionic flip flops here in the south as they are supportive to my freaky wide/high RA foot, and I will die on that hill. I don’t look good in white, so I will also wear beige shoes to go with my warm neutral pants. Fortunately, I’m in the South, where people don’t seem to be as worried as they were decades ago about what others wear, plus many of us can’t afford to be too stylish 😂 We will proudly wear slip on sneakers and mules (I also have really small ankles in addition to the other issues and so clogs and mules work best to keep from blistering my ankles) without caring if they’re stylish or not. I can’t wear those flat-footed sneakers with no support shown in the video. Never been able to wear black unless in prints as I’m warm toned and only medium contrast. The wardrobes awash in black also seem to be more of maybe an NYC thing, not so much in the South. It’s too hot to wear six months out of the year 😂 Agree about sparkly t-shirts-not a sequin girlie, but some people do like them.
@@BlessYourHeart254 I totally get that about shoes. Just got out of a workshop with the ladies and my Ageless Style community and had everything from 4W and with 4N and narrow as well as RA plantar fasciitis bunions, etc. etc. narrow is even harder to find them wide. I think everyone just has to make the best choices from what’s available to them, but it’s frustrating. Thanks for your comments.! I appreciate them!
Just turned 50 last week I never ever ware flip flops Prefer my simple nude slip ons any day Black is way to harch on me! pulls all color out of my face I prefer taupe, Irish green or camel I need to watch your video about shorts Grate shoetips Grate video X
I like to wear black at night time as soon as your wear a string of good pearls it looks smart but plain black no, I do wear rings on 3 fingers though, I just like certain rings though, also I like a cashmere jumper with linen pants, the pants have an A line shape find they look smart, cant stand Tshirts with logos.
I never wore these BEFORE 50😂! I do think it’s very personal and subjective though and I think it’s great to accept all kinds of different perspectives and opinions. Maybe using a different word than “should” could be helpful. Just my two cents! Fun video.
I've tried to say athletic sneakers don't go with dresses, but got shot down for it. I still just can't do it. Black: I've been weeding virtually all black from my wardrobe. It's depressing.
Most of the women I know are wearing athletic type sneakers with their everyday outfits, and I hate it -- I agree that sneakers with dresses look awful. I also have never been able to rock khaki pants.... I also don't think rubber flipflops are sandals.
I disagree with just about everything said here (except maybe the jewelry at any age). “Over 50” is also too broad. At a certain age, one might say long hair and red lipstick, but I would also disagree with that.
@@michellesapp7867 I definitely agree with your first sentence. I just believe there’s different perspectives on style and especially on beauty as we age. It’s hard to wrap it all into a tidy package. So much of beauty and style is individualized and comes from feeling good about yourself and of course what you’re wearing. I do appreciate that there are people out there to provide guidance.
@@Tutujls The hair length thing is nonsense, and while not everyone can carry off red lipstick, she most certainly can. It's a statement lip, but she has the personality to pull it off.
Age shouldn’t dictate your style . It you’ve got it flaunt it ! I never go in granny shops / boring . I wear cut and colours that flatter my shape . Enjoy clothes . I get compliments about my look all the time at work and some are from children. Fashion is only to take money off of you . Just enjoy colour , pattern , feel , I buy new items from charities too. Recycling , eco friendly and money helps charity. I get a bargain plus put my money where I’d like it to go. I buy accessories to add to old outfits to add a splash of colour and softness. Use hair accessories and swop these around to kind of change the same outfit to a whole new level . Jewellery adds class or depending on the design can make an outfit more casual. Enjoy your own tastes , do not surrender your perfect judgment on what suits you to the fashion monsters that try to trick us all into suddenly the outfit that they told us was the best thing ever is suddenly naff! By all means buy new bits you like but don’t trash the clothes you really love . If they look good on you and you feel good , you’re clearly a great judge of style . Go out , head high , you’re the best already , no need to change .
The double layer hem is the worst. This is especially bad for those of us with a larger chest. They add 40 lbs and look like you are wearing a tent. I do disagree about black just bc I am a light olive skin tone. I think it looks great. Not hiding behind it, that I do agree with. It is slimming, but wearing the right style for you in a bright color can be just as slimming.
@xinexine2785 I hope the _long hair for older women_ rule has been squashed (otherwise, I am terribly out of fashion! 😆) Just turned 58, my hair is less than 10% grey, and long (down to my tailbone). I often wear it as twisted up in a ponytail so it only looks 10" long, and it's secured close to my neck. I've been wearing it this way for the past 3 years. People are surprised when I take my hair out of the ponytail. 😁 My motto that I just made up: _"if you can grow it, why not show it!"_ 😀
I certainly don't live by that rule lol, and I'll soon be seventy one. I just do not suit short hair. I've tried and just looked odd, a frump, so I grew it long again 😊
There is an important issue you are forgetting. For those of us with arthritis (or other medical issues) in our feet we need to have shoes that we can put orthotics in and which have the right side support as well as the proper cushioning. I can’t wear ANYTHING else than these and frankly not crippling myself more is much more important than wearing whatever is the “fashionable” sneakers or other shoes.
I just can't get with any sneakers, be they "fashion sneakers" or not, with a dress! There are much nicer shoes to wear with a sun dress or any casual dress. Sneakers with a dress just look lazy to me.
I’m in my sixties and I agree with your recommendations. Recently I ran across a pair of pretty cropped pants I wore in my thirties. I thought they might be wearable now. I’ve learned so much since wearing these type pants so when I tried them on again I was appalled when I saw how they looked on me. I find I like certain styles that are classic plus somewhat relaxed..everyday and special events. Recently while waiting to get into a country music concert, I started doing a little people watching! I saw so many people of all ages that have no idea how bad their outfits looked on them. I can’t believe they looked at themselves in the mirror before they left. I use my husband as a gauge too. I’ve taught him to look at my outfit and give me a second opinion! If I ask for his opinion he’ll tell me what he thinks. He’s usually right! 😂😂😂. When I get it right he says I look great! Who doesn’t like a complement like that? Comfortable shoes are so important as you grow older and I do believe they can be hard to find in cute styles. I think simple is more elegant. I’m from Tennessee and everywhere you go here you will see bleached or dyed short hair with unnatural looking highlights, rhinestones, and lots of capris and other bad choice styles for their skin tone worst of all body type. I used to think people start changing the way they dress when they get older. I’m now older and realize that the ones dressing badly for their body type and skin tone…have never learned how to dress better for their body type and skin tone since they were young. It’s really fun to learn these concept at my age. I know I’m getting it right when my husband and my 24 year old son tell me how great I look without being asked which makes me feel even better that I! Your tips are good ones. I will watch your video on shoes.
Oh my goodness, I love your perspective so much. Thank you for this comment.! I totally agree with everything you said. I think some people are not paying attention and then they wonder why they don’t look or feel as cute. Nothing is better than an unsolicited complement from your husband or son. Cheering you as you continue to look and feel your best. I hope you enjoy the rest of my videos and I’m so glad you found my channel!
I remember, years ago, my young son once said if I wore a certain top he wouldn’t go out in public with me ( he was 7)! I realized I had bought the top at my elderly mother’s insistence. It was a multicoloured wild print, and I realized it was what a woman of a certain age tended to wear! My boy was right, and I still take some advice from him…He is now 24, and if he really likes an outfit he will say “Are you going out? You look great”. I like the opinion of men usually over many women, because they tend to have more classic taste, and are not ‘catty’. They also will say nothing if they don’t like something, where another woman would lie and say I look great when I don’t. Nadia, you give the hard truth to us ❤, and that is why some women get triggered. I appreciate truth, because I really want to look my best, so THANK YOU for your unvarnished truth! lol!
@@mariamurad1352 who taught you to be so rude? Many of us are interested in other people’s perspectives. I am not, however, interested in a rude nasty Karen comment.
Hi Nada. This video came up in my feed and I thought I would watch it fully intending to disagree with everything you said about what not to wear over fifty. I'm seventy one in September and I know I don't look my age plus I love fashion. Not fashion trends, fashion that I'm easy with and I won't be told what I can and can't wear lol. Let me say Nada, apart from capri pants, I entirely agree with everything you have said. I think a lot of 'cheap' fashion looks just that, cheap. Now I'm not a designer gear female by any stretch of the imagination but I do like quality, fashionable quality that can be worn by any age. That said, all the taboos you mentioned are my taboos too. I know what suits me and what dusnt. I love wearing black, I don't use it to hide anything, I just love the colour. I also love white but I'm not really a patterned fabric kind of person, I just prefer, for example, a top of only one colour. I abhor logos and will avoid them like the plague though having said that I have two Chanel bags with the logo on display but if I were to wear a shirt or tee shirt, I don't expect the logo to be on the outside, showing itself to the world. You probably won't see my comment but, I've just subscribed to your channel because I like how you put your topic across, not condescendingly, and like I said, apart from the capris, I agree with you ❤
Hi! Thank you SO SO much! That means a lot to me! I am so glad that you found my channel and agree with most of my points. I love your perspective on your style and hope that you will enjoy my future videos. :)
I disagree with everything you said. It truly depend on your personality or body shape. When I was young my dress sense was just awful. It has taken years for me to learn what suits me. Classic is classic whatever.
Wear whatever you like at any age and wear it with confidence. But please put some effort into looking nice. It makes you feel good too, and others treat you with more respect. Those are facts.
I hate those beige bottom sandals I would not even buy them for my mom when she was 92 . I had to search to find her cute sandals with no beige bottoms!! Go Nada!! Mom was an elegant women even when she had Alzheimer’s she looked beautiful.
I agree with everything except for the short pants and long shorts. For me, I like them in the summer because I’m 77, tall (5’10”) slim, and have long legs. I like the inseam on shorts to be at least 9” and slim capris look good on me. I agree that these don't flatter shorter women who are trying to look taller but I'd like to look shorter so I often do the opposite of what shorter influencers recommend. I think the cropped wide-leg pants that are in style right now make shorter ladies look “old lady.”
I agree. I wear pants that are the same length as my skirts, and it's fine. I think pants that are slim and end just below the knee look perfectly okay.
Nada, you COULD "wear beige well" IF you got the precise hue for your coloring. Of course there is nothing wrong with getting beige pants in a modern style, but "typical" khaki pants (like you show) are really just a replacement for jeans, when the color of jeans is too warm or the jeans themselves too youthful or heavy looking. If you require a decidedly casual look -- like in all cotton for, say, going to a backyard barbecue -- they're perfect and have remained a classic for 70 years for a reason!
In this life , that you are not going to be in forever wear whatever you want but also do not be a slave for style. We will never please everybody nor should we try. Be Happy people ❤
Hahaha! You did your BEST to not say the word "tacky" and you succeeded! So many of those things are just TACKY. Flip flops made "formal" by glitz/glitter is so cringe -- on anyone. They are the bottom of the barrel. BEACH ONLY. The 'slap' noise they make is much too crude for a restaurant or event!
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
I’m 69. Don’t wear leggings except in the house or under pants in the winter. Other than that I wear what suits me including neutrals which suit me better than anything else.
Well I think elegance rules are also evolving, eg the place of sneakers in combo with a variety of looks. Nada's point sounds a bit belonging to 1 or 2 decades ago. Yes kaki pants are also controversial, etc
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Dress to flatter your body shape,not by age ,trends or what influences say you should or shouldn’t wear. Wear what makes you feel good and comfortable
Agreed!
I agree with you to an extent, but an older woman walking around with like a teenage outfit is kind of distasteful
Whew, I don’t do anything on this list. Dodged a bullet. Women really do age themselves with these things. The more natural and effortless, the better. A dewy glow, a pale lip and nail polish, hair that is healthy and shiny, solid color clothes that drape beautifully, in natural fibers…these are goals IMHO.
Wear what makes you happy!
Then why are you watching a video on fashion advice? The people here want to look good.
@@AngxlicSunsetYT watch all types of videos, even the ones I don’t agree with. Again wear what makes you happy!
Yet here you are.
Then why watch a video on fashion advice? You don’t have to watch or comment if you’re not interested. Other people come here because they like the advice.
Silly woman. Wear what makes u feel good. Really? Anything goes? PLEASE.
Black: worn near my face black never worked, but I found out, that black-and-white looks enormously fresh and fits perfectly to my skin tone.
Great -- for you! But B&W garments on my warmer, muted coloring enter the room long before I get there! Wearing the precise hues and intensities for our coloring is important!
I like black with my silver and white hair and I add a colorful scarf or even a sparkly brooch or necklace near the neckline to detract from the stark black. I agree black and white - cream looks more fresh.
Thanks for another fun video! When a friend confirmed black was no longer my friend, it made closet editing simpler. After a 40 year business career, I was stunned by how much black was in my wardrobe and I kept buying it post retirement. Excepting a few fabulous jackets, I let go of black. 😎
I agree with everything except the khaki pants- Kaki is a reasonable color and it’s all in the cut of the pants and what you wear with it (My humble opinion)
But that is exactly what was said in the video…
I agree! I tried to communicate that, so I apologize if that wasn’t clear. I’m simply talking about the boxy khaki pants
As long as they are high rise, I think they are fine. My favorite pair of non jean pants is a vintage pair of pleated black Khaki from the Gap. I love them, and get compliments of them all the time.
@@ceasarsaran8573 agree. Those are not what I am talking about in this video. :)
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
You're clearly a fashion pro, and let me add, I love that you've stayed with your gorgeous long hair! I am 74 years and have graduated to long hair that is still thick and wavy, as I've now learned how to handle it well.
One caveat - workout sneakers work great for knee, foot, & back problems, especially for us ladies who wear size 10 shoes or larger. Orthopedic inserts don’t fit in tinier shoes. Most nicer women’s shoes don’t have a large enough toe box for bunions or wider feet. I had to wear sneakers to work & everywhere else when I tore my meniscus. The only other alternative may be men’s shoes. I’ll suffer with dressier shoes when I dress up but I can’t walk far in them (even flats or low heels) which is very restrictive for us active folks.
Great point! You will definitely have to wear shoes that work for you when you have specific issues with your feet. Nothing is more important than that. Fortunately, there are a lot of athletic shoes that look really cute.
Rheumatoid arthritis sufferer here-I will die on the hill of sneakers and Birkenstocks and Crocs, the only shoes my horridly painful feet can handle.
Thank you for your advice. To all of you complainers: why are you watching this video if you don’t want to learn something? Wear your ugly, outdated clothes and just be quiet about it.
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They want to learn but that doesn't mean they have to agree with everything they saw on a video.
So glad you said it so many poorly dressed women out there sorry but true!!
Great video! Totally agree with you on the sparkly flip flops!! They have BEEN out a very long time.
Wear what you want at any age. Nobody really cares. We assume people are constantly checking us out but they are realistically only wrapped up in their own lives.
Thank you! Truer words never spoken! ❤
This video is for people who care. I don’t know why you are watching it if you don’t.
Actually I do notice matronly tops on women immediately. I hope I never wear them but our body changes soooo
I just bought the most bedazzled purse on the planet lol. I do like it but it's more for younger AND they are larger "stones". Love your channel!
This video is for people who are actively interested in this kind of advice. You can do whatever you want but why watch and comment if you’re not interested?
Love sparkly flip flops and shoes. Not getting rid of mine $$.
Wear whatever makes you happy and feel comfortable as long as you’re covered and protected.❤
I think cold shoulders are so yesterday
Totally agree!
Nada:
I do not remember which video that you suggested “Archies”sandals, but I now have them. Thank you so much. They are So much more youthful on my foot, i dont feel old and sloppy, but much more current. They are amazing in arch support. Game changer for me.
Thank you once again for great, youthful, functional finds!
I thought I was going to hate this video but you made some good points - thank you :)
Another great video, Nada!
I think you should wear what you want as long as you feel comfortable and it’s looks good on you do it!
Great things to think about. Also.....the bright red lipstick. Do we feel it's still ok? I see so many women wearing more neutral shades on their lips. Is that more tasteful now? Just wondering....
I'm 73 and red is the only shade of lipstick that doesn't make me look drained. Neutral colours just make me look ill.
Some women suit a bright red lip and some women don't.. It's just that simple. It's has to suit your personality. I would say that many middle-aged women suit a softer lip suits them, while a bold lip often suits a more senior-aged woman. That being said, Nada suits the red lip because it suits her personality.. there are always exceptions.
When you age, your teeth and lips age along with you. Nothing attractive about red lipstick on yellowed teeth and wrinkled lips
Bright red lipstick certainly works well for so many people think it really depends on your skin color. I love a certain red lipstick on myself. It works for me and right now. I'm in an area where there's a lot of more brownish skin people. My husband is getting surgery and a Mexican hospital and everyone almost is wearing bright red and it's gorgeous. I think it really depends on the skin color.
Great question. You have to pick a lip shade that flatters you. I look dead in neutral shades, and very dark matte shades are aging on me. A classic red lip can work on many women, but we all have to pick what suits us. I do color analysis on all of my clients and help them choose lip colors that make their teeth look white and make them look bright and fresh. :)
Great video! Looking forward to Closet Confidence.
Thank you so much!
I think some hairstyles can be very ageing. Perhaps you could do an episode on that next!
Hi. Thanks for the tips. I do agree with the white soles looking better than the beige color ones- but, I’m recently traveled and knew I would be doing a lot of walking in the city and countryside. I specifically did not want to wear shoes with the white soles because I didn’t want the dirt from the city streets/sidewalks and from the gravel/dirt country roads/paths “showing up” on the white soles. Well- I couldn’t find the beige color sole shoes I wanted for my vacation and ended up purchasing a $5 pair of white sole shoes from Walmart (clearance) for the trip. Surprisingly, I wore these while soled shoes almost every day and am still wearing them months after my trip! Not only did the white soles hold up well to “dirt (not showing)” but those $5 clearance shoes (which I was fully expecting to throw away when I got home from my trip) are so comfortable and still so clean! I am simply amazed!
What a win!
Thank you for sharing that . That is amazing! Some of them have a strip of dark rubber on the soul that helps keep them even cleaner, but I have also found that they do not get as dirty as you would expect. Your trip sounds amazing by the way.
These videos are so much fun. I where my Toms still mostly when my feet aren't sandal ready 😂. As for the rest, I've given them up thanks to you
Thank you so much! They are intended to be fun and a little tongue-in-cheek, but many of these items are hard to wear. I appreciate the comment!
Heading upstairs NOW, to declutter my closet, keeping your tips in mind. Can you give us some tips on what to wear to the gym....if we also need to run errands on the way home. Also any tips for post'bariatric surgery gals who want to show off their new slimmer figures while hiding areas of loose skin. Thanks.
Great ideas! I will share some athleisure and post-surgery tips for you. I always suggest adding a cool accessory and a layering piece or jacket on top of your workout clothes to take them from gym to grocery store :)
It is hard to find some size winter everyday shoes without velcro. I wear a WW shoe. Suggestion?
That can be a problem for sure! I have many clients with similar sizing issues, and I have managed to find some really good brands with a little searching. Of course I don’t know exactly what you’re looking for but I think these are really cute. rstyle.me/+rk0g2zzAq8Z5_eG11TcSlQ
I am a classic minimum jewelry. All those shoes and pants have their place in your life. Crocs for gardening, flip flops for poolside. Etc.
Agree with much of what you said…thanks
Thank you so much Dina! I so appreciate it!
Yes thank you. A lot of these I still thought were ok!
I wish I could tell some of my friends about this list and so many more things I've learned from you...or I already knew!
Thank you so much! Please share this video with them. :)
Just click share on this video and paste it into an e-mail to your friends. They'll love it.
I think you're absolutely right and I'm 62 thank you!
Thank you so much for saying what I have always thought about beige pants. The only kind I wear are Linen beige or cream pants. No matter what you do you look like you “work at” whatever store you happen to be in. …lol😂.
lol…so true!
I have recently noticed that younger women do not wear silk or thinner fabric scarves, it's only us ladies if a certain age, so I have sadly stopped wearing them. I have saved a couple of cashmere scarves for colder weather, but that's it.
What about thoughts on glitter cork wedges?
I would need to see the shoes to be sure, but I would probably say that you might want to consider purging those. Happy to take a look if you want to share in my Facebook group. Thanks so much for the question and the comment.
Thanks, your videos are awesome !
Thank you for your ideas❤
I have just decided to give up black in most cases (I am keeping a black dress for funerals). For years black was my go to look and thought it made me look sophisticated. But I have fair skin And light hair and eyes and being over sixty it just drags me down and ages me. It’s a sad color. It’s a difficult transition but I am trying to embrace color!
Hi Nada , thanks for sharing . What about long hair like your for example we sure cut it and style different, all are good ideas we appreciate it.☺
I am 54. I realized capris were doing me NO favors ten years ago! Some people wear them well, lately with the wider leg and a cute flat or sandal--but not me.😂 A major one for our age group is, loose top with a snugger bottom and vice versa. Thanks for the tips.
Elastic laces are amazing. I am able to tie my shoes without a problem, but it's great to be able to make them like a slip on! I also have wide feet and they're so much more adjustable than regular laces.
I have never understood cold shoulder tops. They've been in and out over the years, and I always hated them.
I'm gonna admit, I love me some bedazzled stuff, and always did even when I was young, so I have probably never been in style. 🤣
I agree with you on all of these! I’m lucky enough to be able to wear black. Navy is a great replacement for black ❤
Yes it is! Everything that comes in black usually also comes in another dark neutral. Thanks for the comment.
Thank you for the Khaki pants point. I’ve spent over 60 years wondering why khaki pants looked horrible on me. Preppy was big when I was in college, and I kept trying to make khaki pants work, but they just don’t! Especially on people with curves.
You are so welcome! Glad you found it helpful. They truly are hard to wear.
As a natural blond I never could wear black.. It is one of the perks of skin and hair tone changing that now I can wear it...Turing 80.
That’s awesome! There are some benefits to getting older for sure
Would you say New Balance 327 is a fashion sneaker?
Yes for sure!
I wear mine with midi skirts :)
Great list, I love what you say about wearing or not wearing black. I try sharing tips with my mother but she gets so insulted 🙄 so I quit.
Thank you so much for the comment! Yes black is not for everyone and can be really harsh on some people. Maybe share this link with your mom so she can get annoyed with me instead. :))) I am so glad you liked the video and hope you will stick around!
Have you thought about focusing on vintage? I've always worn vintage and vintage inspired clothing. Hate to say this, but i still wear things I wore in high-school (1970s).
I don't see you link to the shoe strings?
Sorry it is in the blog post but here it is! www.xpandlaces.com/products/no-tie-original-elastic-lacing-system?variant=19252660273263¤cy=USD&absrc=Google&abid=&abcampid=21006335679&gclid=CjwKCAjwmrqzBhAoEiwAXVpgotQC1EZNK6I0Uf-fvtmkVQoxHbX6oBYQLS-q5ZlDdgawU8dBwx8IbxoCgRYQAvD_BwE&tw_source=google&tw_adid=&tw_campaign=21006335679&gad_source=1
I love your presentation and I'm now a sub
Thank you SO much! I appreciate the comment and I’m so happy you are here!
trouble is, the beige sole sandal has more arch support! it illustrates the problem with bad feet and being stylish
@@christinestewart2504 I’m seeing the same styles in both colors so I think that’s changing. But you have to pick a shoe that’s comfortable for you.
Wear what makes you look and feel good! Never stop being 'You'!
50 is not mid-life. Wear whatever you want as long as you like it.
Midlife is between the ages of 40-60. You are watching a video on fashion advice, if you don’t want advice, don’t watch it.
@@AngxlicSunsetYTlol…so true…cognitive dissonance is real…unless you live way over 100, over 50 is way into midlife!
@AngxlicSunsetYT 50 is midlife if you live to 100! Actually 40 is more like midlife.😊 Life expectancy is about 80.
Of course one may wear whatever one likes however there is the chance that it may not be the best look! Good advice.
Absolutely agree!
We need videos like this to help avoid the sloppy frumpy look I see so much of. Good taste doesn't always come naturally. We need to be educated.
Thank you so much for this comment! I do think it’s important for us to educate ourselves because so many of the things in stores are just not good and that can be confusing.
I am 55 , large bust and petite 😅. I still wear tops that are slightly cropped and wide leg trouser jeans . I wear what I like. But these points are good !!!
I really LOVE your honesty. I want to be guided and your advice is SO helpful!
This truly means so much to me. Thank you!!
Of Course u can wear any damn thing u want. That does NOT mean u look ok. All this nonsense,…oh, wear what YOU like, feel comfortable in. We ALL know we laugh and roll our eyes at women age 50 and still shop at Forever 21. Most women look for advice. Please stop the virtue signaling. It’s SO obvious.
Exactly. Just because we can, doesn’t mean we should. 😅
I have those slip-on shoes and when I was sitting in a waiting room, I looked down and hated how they looked with my work dress pants.
I agreed with much of what you said, but I just read an article after I watched your video from a British fashion magazine telling me what shoes I should wear with longer shorts. Now I think many of these magazines show some pretty cool fashion. So I guess I'm okay wearing some of my longer shorts over my pasty white chunky legs. Otherwise you were pretty spot on.
Lol. I am crushed about the khaki pants. I have a pair of lafayette 148 cigarette style lightweight pants that are my go to summer runnin’ around pants. Now what?? I checked on Nordstrom and Veronica Beard has a lot of Khaki pants listed-I wonder if they are OK? If the Veronicas are selling something it’s usually style approved by the masses! Just sayin’…
If you like them then wear them! Videos like this are not rules, just personal suggestions and preferences of the video maker. Everyone is different. Better to wear your khakis and feel comfy and happy than wearing something you're not so keen on simply because someone told you to do it 😊
@@jojojes1352 lol, TY. -just joking around, jj, giving NADA a little push back.😊 But I do take Nada’s advice seriously, so I am pained that if I go out in my khaki’s I will not be tres chic. it would not be the first time I was a fashion flub but it is some comfort that khaki’s are VBeard approved. That said, to be sure, I am 100% behind NM’s other nine of the “10 items to get rid of”. 👍 cheers!
You know who wore cigarette pants and would have worn khaki with a white blouse …. Audrey Hepburn and Katherine Hepburn
Absolutely @jayinhoff6877. Those are NOT the ones I'm referring to. Yours sound gorgeous. I'm talking about the boxy cut pants often associated with khakis from very classic brands. :)
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
Hi Nada... I'm new to your chanel and really like your content. I absolutely agree with all of your style don'ts. These things simply aren't flattering and I consider them frumpy. Thanx for the great video.
Thank you so much! I so appreciate the comment and so glad you enjoyed the video.
Terrific...new subscriber...!!
Thank you so much! I’m so glad you’re here!
I have often wondered what the difference is between khaki and chino pants. I thought khaki referred mostly to the color but what is the difference?
Chinos are usually made of a sturdy cotton twill material, and they are often in beige, and so the words have become synonymous.
I once quit a job when they told me I’d have to start wearing khakis (Dockers were specifically suggested) with a company logo polo to work. Nope.
Only one ring at a time for me unless they are small stacked ones. Those gray slip on sneakers are bad
Great video Nada! I totally agree with everything. Thanks for the fashion advice, so great to have someone who keeps it real!
This all makes sense but sometimes it is really hard to find appropriate length pants and shorts when a person has a long inseam.
Forget bedazzled shirts, I don't think shirts that have a huge print or saying on the front are elevated at all no matter what your age. A smaller item over thr heart with a pattern on the back or just a plain t are so much more while wearing less.
I like a little bling! So, I'm probably not going to stop wearing bling shoes or other sparkly types of clothing. I don't think I overdo bling.
fun video!!
You are absolutely right!🎉❤ plus style has no age.....
Re shoes: you assume we all have a lot of choices in shoes that offer both comfort and style. I have EE width feet with freaky high arches and insteps, so no fashionable or dressy, stylish shoes will fit me. Ever. Or on the off chance they do, they offer no support or comfort. I also have RA, which makes me only able to wear shoes like Birkenstocks and Crocs or thick walking shoes with lots of support. I will also wear my comfy Vionic flip flops here in the south as they are supportive to my freaky wide/high RA foot, and I will die on that hill. I don’t look good in white, so I will also wear beige shoes to go with my warm neutral pants. Fortunately, I’m in the South, where people don’t seem to be as worried as they were decades ago about what others wear, plus many of us can’t afford to be too stylish 😂 We will proudly wear slip on sneakers and mules (I also have really small ankles in addition to the other issues and so clogs and mules work best to keep from blistering my ankles) without caring if they’re stylish or not. I can’t wear those flat-footed sneakers with no support shown in the video.
Never been able to wear black unless in prints as I’m warm toned and only medium contrast. The wardrobes awash in black also seem to be more of maybe an NYC thing, not so much in the South. It’s too hot to wear six months out of the year 😂 Agree about sparkly t-shirts-not a sequin girlie, but some people do like them.
@@BlessYourHeart254 I totally get that about shoes. Just got out of a workshop with the ladies and my Ageless Style community and had everything from 4W and with 4N and narrow as well as RA plantar fasciitis bunions, etc. etc. narrow is even harder to find them wide. I think everyone just has to make the best choices from what’s available to them, but it’s frustrating. Thanks for your comments.! I appreciate them!
Just turned 50 last week
I never ever ware flip flops
Prefer my simple nude slip ons any day
Black is way to harch on me! pulls all color out of my face
I prefer taupe, Irish green or camel
I need to watch your video about shorts
Grate shoetips
Grate video X
Thank you so much! I am glad you found it helpful!
Oops. I have a pair of khaki “man” pants. I thought they were a way for me to participate in the looser pant trend. Maybe not? Thanks for your videos.
I like to wear black at night time as soon as your wear a string of good pearls it looks smart but plain black no, I do wear rings on 3 fingers though, I just like certain rings though, also I like a cashmere jumper with linen pants, the pants have an A line shape find they look smart, cant stand Tshirts with logos.
Sparkly shoes are awesome!! I'll probably be wearing them to my grave 😂
I never wore these BEFORE 50😂! I do think it’s very personal and subjective though and I think it’s great to accept all kinds of different perspectives and opinions. Maybe using a different word than “should” could be helpful. Just my two cents! Fun video.
I've tried to say athletic sneakers don't go with dresses, but got shot down for it. I still just can't do it.
Black: I've been weeding virtually all black from my wardrobe. It's depressing.
Most of the women I know are wearing athletic type sneakers with their everyday outfits, and I hate it -- I agree that sneakers with dresses look awful. I also have never been able to rock khaki pants.... I also don't think rubber flipflops are sandals.
I never thought athletic sneakers looked good with dresses…no way.
I disagree with just about everything said here (except maybe the jewelry at any age). “Over 50” is also too broad. At a certain age, one might say long hair and red lipstick, but I would also disagree with that.
I was wondering about the waist length hair and red lipstick myself. Needs more sophistication.
This is for people who aren’t intuitively stylish and need rules.
I believe that looking a good as you can at any age is a good thing … she has amazing points…. Unless you want to look frumpy. You do you
@@michellesapp7867 I definitely agree with your first sentence. I just believe there’s different perspectives on style and especially on beauty as we age. It’s hard to wrap it all into a tidy package. So much of beauty and style is individualized and comes from feeling good about yourself and of course what you’re wearing. I do appreciate that there are people out there to provide guidance.
@@Tutujls The hair length thing is nonsense, and while not everyone can carry off red lipstick, she most certainly can. It's a statement lip, but she has the personality to pull it off.
Age shouldn’t dictate your style . It you’ve got it flaunt it !
I never go in granny shops / boring . I wear cut and colours that flatter my shape . Enjoy clothes . I get compliments about my look all the time at work and some are from children. Fashion is only to take money off of you . Just enjoy colour , pattern , feel , I buy new items from charities too. Recycling , eco friendly and money helps charity. I get a bargain plus put my money where I’d like it to go. I buy accessories to add to old outfits to add a splash of colour and softness. Use hair accessories and swop these around to kind of change the same outfit to a whole new level . Jewellery adds class or depending on the design can make an outfit more casual.
Enjoy your own tastes , do not surrender your perfect judgment on what suits you to the fashion monsters that try to trick us all into suddenly the outfit that they told us was the best thing ever is suddenly naff!
By all means buy new bits you like but don’t trash the clothes you really love . If they look good on you and you feel good , you’re clearly a great judge of style . Go out , head high , you’re the best already , no need to change .
Sometimes I don't go according to body shape. I have an apple shape body and wear t-shirts at 55 years old 😅
I have had a pair of sparkly flats that I never wear…now I know why…instinctively I knew they were tacky…lol
The double layer hem is the worst. This is especially bad for those of us with a larger chest. They add 40 lbs and look like you are wearing a tent. I do disagree about black just bc I am a light olive skin tone. I think it looks great. Not hiding behind it, that I do agree with. It is slimming, but wearing the right style for you in a bright color can be just as slimming.
I thought big hair and long hair was supposed to be a fashion faux pas for us oldies, too??
It is definitely not. :) It depends on your hair, your face shape, etc.
@xinexine2785 I hope the _long hair for older women_ rule has been squashed (otherwise, I am terribly out of fashion! 😆)
Just turned 58, my hair is less than 10% grey, and long (down to my tailbone). I often wear it as twisted up in a ponytail so it only looks 10" long, and it's secured close to my neck. I've been wearing it this way for the past 3 years. People are surprised when I take my hair out of the ponytail. 😁 My motto that I just made up: _"if you can grow it, why not show it!"_ 😀
Not if I had hair like that!!
I certainly don't live by that rule lol, and I'll soon be seventy one. I just do not suit short hair. I've tried and just looked odd, a frump, so I grew it long again 😊
just wear my Birkenstocks tiill fall
me too - but I like the ones with thinner straps, not the classic Arizona style.
They can pry my flip flops from my hands when I am dead.
There is an important issue you are forgetting. For those of us with arthritis (or other medical issues) in our feet we need to have shoes that we can put orthotics in and which have the right side support as well as the proper cushioning. I can’t wear ANYTHING else than these and frankly not crippling myself more is much more important than wearing whatever is the “fashionable” sneakers or other shoes.
I just can't get with any sneakers, be they "fashion sneakers" or not, with a dress! There are much nicer shoes to wear with a sun dress or any casual dress. Sneakers with a dress just look lazy to me.
They take 10 years off...
I’m in my sixties and I agree with your recommendations. Recently I ran across a pair of pretty cropped pants I wore in my thirties. I thought they might be wearable now. I’ve learned so much since wearing these type pants so when I tried them on again I was appalled when I saw how they looked on me. I find I like certain styles that are classic plus somewhat relaxed..everyday and special events. Recently while waiting to get into a country music concert, I started doing a little people watching! I saw so many people of all ages that have no idea how bad their outfits looked on them. I can’t believe they looked at themselves in the mirror before they left. I use my husband as a gauge too. I’ve taught him to look at my outfit and give me a second opinion! If I ask for his opinion he’ll tell me what he thinks. He’s usually right! 😂😂😂. When I get it right he says I look great! Who doesn’t like a complement like that? Comfortable shoes are so important as you grow older and I do believe they can be hard to find in cute styles. I think simple is more elegant. I’m from Tennessee and everywhere you go here you will see bleached or dyed short hair with unnatural looking highlights, rhinestones, and lots of capris and other bad choice styles for their skin tone worst of all body type. I used to think people start changing the way they dress when they get older. I’m now older and realize that the ones dressing badly for their body type and skin tone…have never learned how to dress better for their body type and skin tone since they were young. It’s really fun to learn these concept at my age. I know I’m getting it right when my husband and my 24 year old son tell me how great I look without being asked which makes me feel even better that I! Your tips are good ones. I will watch your video on shoes.
Oh my goodness, I love your perspective so much. Thank you for this comment.! I totally agree with everything you said. I think some people are not paying attention and then they wonder why they don’t look or feel as cute. Nothing is better than an unsolicited complement from your husband or son. Cheering you as you continue to look and feel your best. I hope you enjoy the rest of my videos and I’m so glad you found my channel!
I remember, years ago, my young son once said if I wore a certain top he wouldn’t go out in public with me ( he was 7)! I realized I had bought the top at my elderly mother’s insistence. It was a multicoloured wild print, and I realized it was what a woman of a certain age tended to wear! My boy was right, and I still take some advice from him…He is now 24, and if he really likes an outfit he will say “Are you going out? You look great”. I like the opinion of men usually over many women, because they tend to have more classic taste, and are not ‘catty’. They also will say nothing if they don’t like something, where another woman would lie and say I look great when I don’t. Nadia, you give the hard truth to us ❤, and that is why some women get triggered. I appreciate truth, because I really want to look my best, so THANK YOU for your unvarnished truth! lol!
Learn to edit your comments or get your own channel. Not interested in the story of your life.
@@mariamurad1352 who taught you to be so rude? Many of us are interested in other people’s perspectives. I am not, however, interested in a rude nasty Karen comment.
Hi Nada. This video came up in my feed and I thought I would watch it fully intending to disagree with everything you said about what not to wear over fifty. I'm seventy one in September and I know I don't look my age plus I love fashion. Not fashion trends, fashion that I'm easy with and I won't be told what I can and can't wear lol. Let me say Nada, apart from capri pants, I entirely agree with everything you have said. I think a lot of 'cheap' fashion looks just that, cheap. Now I'm not a designer gear female by any stretch of the imagination but I do like quality, fashionable quality that can be worn by any age. That said, all the taboos you mentioned are my taboos too. I know what suits me and what dusnt. I love wearing black, I don't use it to hide anything, I just love the colour. I also love white but I'm not really a patterned fabric kind of person, I just prefer, for example, a top of only one colour. I abhor logos and will avoid them like the plague though having said that I have two Chanel bags with the logo on display but if I were to wear a shirt or tee shirt, I don't expect the logo to be on the outside, showing itself to the world. You probably won't see my comment but, I've just subscribed to your channel because I like how you put your topic across, not condescendingly, and like I said, apart from the capris, I agree with you ❤
Hi! Thank you SO SO much! That means a lot to me! I am so glad that you found my channel and agree with most of my points. I love your perspective on your style and hope that you will enjoy my future videos. :)
I disagree with everything you said. It truly depend on your personality or body shape. When I was young my dress sense was just awful. It has taken years for me to learn what suits me. Classic is classic whatever.
Wear whatever you like at any age and wear it with confidence. But please put some effort into looking nice. It makes you feel good too, and others treat you with more respect. Those are facts.
Oh, thank goodness for Betty White and her bedazzler! R.I.P. ❤
I hate those beige bottom sandals I would not even buy them for my mom when she was 92 . I had to search to find her cute sandals with no beige bottoms!! Go Nada!! Mom was an elegant women even when she had Alzheimer’s she looked beautiful.
Mine look like oatmeal colored rope at bottom but they are gold snakeskin Steve maddens n I can't bear to part with them but I know what you mean
I agree with everything except for the short pants and long shorts. For me, I like them in the summer because I’m 77, tall (5’10”) slim, and have long legs. I like the inseam on shorts to be at least 9” and slim capris look good on me. I agree that these don't flatter shorter women who are trying to look taller but I'd like to look shorter so I often do the opposite of what shorter influencers recommend. I think the cropped wide-leg pants that are in style right now make shorter ladies look “old lady.”
I agree. I wear pants that are the same length as my skirts, and it's fine. I think pants that are slim and end just below the knee look perfectly okay.
I agree, I hate cropped baggy pants, ugh! 😊
Nada, you COULD "wear beige well" IF you got the precise hue for your coloring. Of course there is nothing wrong with getting beige pants in a modern style, but "typical" khaki pants (like you show) are really just a replacement for jeans, when the color of jeans is too warm or the jeans themselves too youthful or heavy looking. If you require a decidedly casual look -- like in all cotton for, say, going to a backyard barbecue -- they're perfect and have remained a classic for 70 years for a reason!
In this life , that you are not going to be in forever wear whatever you want but also do not be a slave for style. We will never please everybody nor should we try. Be Happy people ❤
If you feel that way why are you wasting your time watching fashion videos?
❤ your hair looks great! Great tips!!!!
Do you really think that her hair is beautiful? It doesn't have style, it isn't look good.
Hahaha! You did your BEST to not say the word "tacky" and you succeeded! So many of those things are just TACKY.
Flip flops made "formal" by glitz/glitter is so cringe -- on anyone. They are the bottom of the barrel. BEACH ONLY. The 'slap' noise they make is much too crude for a restaurant or event!
platform thong sandals in general are out of style and have been for a while :)
We should stop listening to anyone who has something to sell and anyone who wants to change you!
Nothing screams "old lady" more than khaki pants. They are the pants you wear as part of your uniform at work.
I have my khaki long cargo pants and i love them. My go to chore/ errand pants. I am not going for flattering with those but rather comfort and function.
So what if you look like an old lady 👵. We all get old, unless you’re a celebrity
I’m 69. Don’t wear leggings except in the house or under pants in the winter. Other than that I wear what suits me including neutrals which suit me better than anything else.
You lost me at losing sneakers.
Did you formerly say "over 40"? Did you change it? Maybe I'm misremembering. (They should keep doing what they did in their 30's, right?)
I did change it and yes, in your 40s there are far fewer things to take into account for sure. :)
Well I think elegance rules are also evolving, eg the place of sneakers in combo with a variety of looks. Nada's point sounds a bit belonging to 1 or 2 decades ago. Yes kaki pants are also controversial, etc
Elegance rules are definitely evolving, but in my opinion, these items have never been considered elegant.