Are feminist didi aa gyi gyan Dene k liye aur bolne k liye first man are didi aese ladke bohot jo women k struggle par baat kare lekin problem ye hai ki ladki koi bhi nhi hai jo men k struggle par baat kare
As a woman who lived independently for 4 and a half years, I would like to add up few things. 1. Accommodation for women is costly compared to men. Pgs give less facility to women and yet charge more rent. 2. We need to spend more on safety while traveling. 3. Medical help is costlier. Mental health and gynic health detoriate when we go out to work.
Dahej isn’t limited to wedding only. After marriage girls family is expected to give gifts at every occasion be it small or big. Another thing to note is if the girl is earning her money doesn’t go to her parents and if she isn’t working she is a free kaamwali bai 24*7 always available to her kids, husband, in laws. Someone in the comment section was saying that men pay for women’s expenses, not accounting how much women handles various errands at home.
and women live in husbands' home rent-free and w/o worrying for expenses too, least they can do for that is do errands at home, right? You should stop demeaning women by calling kaamwali bai. It is called relationship responsibility - something that takes maturity to grasp. Women are dependent on husbands for providing resources in majority cases and it makes sense that husbands should be able to depend on women for taking care of homemaking and early child-rearing. It's called gender roles - that's how nature intended things to be.
@@NailsByAsh813 maybe, but we've got to live according to the limitations set by nature and evolution until we slowly break those limitations in a healthy and holistic manner. Till then, we have to accept those limitations. Otherwise, natural selection will take care of eliminating those people's genes who don't.
@@WisdomIsAwesomeas if she was giving rent to her parents before. Girls were having better living at her parents home. Women's life gets difficult after marriage, men's live at more ease. Go and live at her home n contribute to her family, only after that say this garbage.
societial pressure ? its girls vs girls we all know how girls who use buy expensive makeup . cloths , treat to thoose who use cheap shit [ also men doesnt care either that ice is fack or not , but women do care , men dont care either that is branded or not women does so
I worked in the netherlands for 14 years in a fortune 50 company. 10 years into the job i realised i was being paod half of what my white counterparts were making and within the brown category as a woman i was making about 10% less, while per the annual performance review i was in the top most quartile. Secondly, for knowledge migrant workers the dutch government charged a lower tax of 30% instead of the regular slab but the company used to withhold that and not pass the benefit to us (this also was allowed per law). Hence i was paying 42% tax on my already low earnings. In the end, i somehow pushed for an expat assignment and then left the company. Indians both men and women are paid less due to our nationality and within the asian pool indian women are paid even worse. Hence, both should try and be a bit more entreprenurial. Learn your akills and gain the knowledge then work for yourself.
This is why this gender war has to stop... I have no idea how it started in India but the videos from the west definitely has fueled it. Both genders have their own set of problems. But instead of working together sab ek dusre to gaali dene mein aur neecha dikhane mein lage hai. This video was very well explained.
i agree but still i believe if men (certain, not all) start respecting women, and the rapist ideology goes away, there will literally be zero gender wars.
I am girl but i have never wasted money on makeup and luxury coz society put pressure to look perfect and those companies fill the gap by using this as a marketing tool but no one realises did this even important in life ? Are we only here to paint our body and put stones on it . I always get ready to just present myself as neat n clean I think that's only thing important for both men and women . Instead I spent on science books .Varna kuch to bahar se ache dhikte hai but andar na Jane kitna kachra bhara rehta hai .
@@JayDhanavadesure ,A brief history of time by stephen hawking, cosmos by Carl sogan , sapiens - - a brief history of humankind by Yuval Noah ,ideas and opinions by Albert Einstein, astrophysics for people in hurry by Neil these are top preferences
This man is most unbiased, intelligent, nationalist youtuber He doesn't takes side but stick with facts and also his opinions are also well calculated and well thought. Thank you for educating people.
Lol he's as right wing as dhruv rathee is left wing. Anyway I can appreciate both their contents, if they're based on factual data, regardless of political biases, which almost everyone has.
@@udbhavsinha3987there is no RW party in India. If you think BJP is RW, then you need to research a little bit. BJP is a non left party but is slowly now tilting towards a LW party, i.e. it is going the Congress way.
While I can agree that he has Right Wing Bias. I would never compare an asshole like dhruv rathee to him. I had seen dhruv's content when he merely had 10000 subscribers and the kind of shit he and hate content he used to propagate, I alos remember the time Open Letter used to make content seriously bent in favour of right I have unsubscribed and subscribed to his channel a few times but he has matured. on the other hand dhruv is the same mediocre genius journalist ANAList man - woman and everything in between@@udbhavsinha3987
It's a tax taken on excessive consumption of chemicals. As long as all listed companies are taking it and increasing my portfolio value I have no objection.
Girls lives are different they need to understand marketing strategy and avoid being trapped into it. Also society has to understand the circumstances.
How will they understand honey,ever since you are a kid you see ads on Tv that fairness is the key to everything,also our bollywood movies,they don't fail to take beutiful,slim, gorgeous women at the epitome of beauty and it's existence and clearly it is shown that the not so fair aka beutiful girl is left unmarried and unattentive for example(God tussi great ho of Salman Khan).. and ever since they grow up and the color or facial features acc to the society aren't fair or clean enough they are constantly taunted and reminded k are rang dawa hua h,shadi m dikkat hogi.. try these creams,homemade masks and what not.. and if you have brother its always heard and in matrimonial it's clearly stated Sundar,Gori,sushil _ _ etc etc ladki is mandatory,(speaking from personal and collective perspective of alottttt(basically all)of girls, women I have met and spoken around me. Whereassss if the guy has same problem there is a clear solution always given to them that is"acchi naukri lgegi to acchi ldki milegi and as we have all seen acchi naukri not only means acchi ldki(gori,Sundar mainly) but also means accha khasa dahej,like wtf ,why so privileged (anyways).. I justtt hope kash ldkio ko yh sb bolne k jgah yh bolkr bda kra gya hota k shkl se or rang se frk nhi pdta.. tmhari qualification, degree and basically kashhh acchi naukri se frk pdta h bola gya hota to aj rate bht zada hota independent women ka,or shyd hi koi insecure hota looks ko leke,or koi dowry stupid system v nhi hota cuz both are independent,also ldkia dvke nhi rehti after marriage.. it is not just a simple topic you have picked.. it's a wholee fuc kin tabooooo.. i hope for the best in future for everybody 🙏❤
Tbh, most men won’t understand/ will choose not to understand the struggles of being a woman. Look at the people demeaning women’s struggles in the comment section. But kudos to people like you for truly shining a light on this unexplored territory. We need more people like you. You’re a gem. 🙏🙏
Everyone knows women's struggles , people have problems with constantly blaring like a horn in front of them.... Not many talk about men's problems instead
Problem is not in understanding women's problems. Problem is living constantly in a victim mindset. Constant urge to blame all the problem on the patriarchy. Let's counter some of the problems. 1. Wage gap : biggest myth ever. Men work 28% more than women. More risky jobs too. Guess who should be paid more.? 2. Maternity leave : Govt has rightly given enough leaves with FULL PAYMENT to women for that. 3. Make up : it's the problem in women mindset. Get that Gucci bag, louis vuitton bag, etc etc. Pick any middle class family, who is more likely to spend more for self like clothing, jwellery, bags etc etc, your father or mother?? You know who will😅 So all in all, I agree women have problems but it's just different sets of problem than men. Not that men don't have problem at all.! And one basic difference is men don't blame their problems on women. While women does! ALWAYS.
@@doctormax1342 instead of lecturing other women. You should lecture your own mother, telling how ungrateful burden was she, that she looted your father's money even after giving dowry. Jake apni Maa ko tight kr 😂 Tera baap uske liye capable nhi tha to shadi kyu ki?? Itna capable nhi tha to To use independent kyu nhi bnaya ??😂😂 Jak pooch. Tumlog to apni maa ko bhi nhi chodte 😂lol
@@doctormax1342 about point 1. 😂 go check who works construction work , female doing it get less pay. Even in many sectors 😂be it labour work. Idk insecure boys 😂will ne insecure about everything lol
@@mypersona8270 dikhadi aukaat.! 2 sentence to English me type hote nahi hai tumse, aur kya hi debate ki umeed rakhe tumse. Tum jaise log bhagwaan ne sirf is liye banaye hai ki logo ko pata chale ki Aisa to bilkul nahi ban na hai.😂 Sirf prithvi par bauj Bane fir rahe ho. O2 waste kar rahe ho. Btw O2 means oxygen ( nahi pata hoga unpadh hai na bichara ). And no I will not drag your parents into this because my parents have always taught me to respect others. No one is saying women has done nothing or they are not important. its just that both are equally important.!
I don't know why is there so much hate for Women and It is being spread by some Men . But not all girls are rich like you think. Not all girls have that much money to spent their money on unnecessary things like Makeup. Also There are many problems in the life of Indian girls which you Men can't understand. Istead of it You people find reasons to hate Women. You see Rich girls and Their attitude and you Men judge the whole Women Community. Also In Our Society, Women is graduated at the age of 21 yrs, after this They try to Find a Job which is difficult in Society like India because here everyone gives priority to Men in Jobs.. So How can you expect her to earn. Also if Women Find Job. Then After Marriage here Parents in laws and Husband would make pressure to leave her Job so that She can be A Good Housewife.. So don't judge Women Community by judging a Rich Women...I come from Middle class / Poor Class I only can understand what pressure I am going through.. You are Men be proud of it but don't disrespect Other Community!! Also Indian Society Only Accept Men not Women / Transgenders
Can i tell you something yes men don't know the problems of girls what they faced but if you not tell your problems to open platforms then can it be address and solved and see men wanna to know what problems they face if women did not comfront and tell the problems how can anyone know their and when we see insta flunercens and youtubers they tell what problems women face we tend to belive and these youtubers are moslty men and not women . and if women did not comfront and tell their problems then how can society will change and tell you that most men believe that women live is so easy so women should comfront and tell the problems so that society can change otherwise be stuck in the problems.
Bhai ye to phir bhi chalo jo low income class of city ya town kitne conservative or rural groups waha to aurto ko 12 th tak padhae yahi bhohot privilege ka chiz hai Ye kuch pagal log apne thought lo validate karne ke liye sirf wahi chiz dekhte hai jo dekhna chahte hai
Thank God, you wrote it Not everyone has that time and capacity to spend time and money on beauty and useless staff. It's just few women they see and pass comments , then they have to simp also on beautiful girls, and stare nd want them😂😂just Indian boys matter
@@namitjaiswal2031 yes, cry more lol 😂 Just another insecure lappu. Have you ever saw a girl getting simp over an insta make influencer s much as men ??? Bcoz you guys love watching skin show Then complain we believed her😂lol Your female role modal or women facing daily problems, can mostly be told by your Mother, sister, daughter 😂not insta Idk tumlog ko insta ladkiyo se kitna simp h. . My id is private , still I'm so sick of requests Which has only men lol.... Im speechless. Now I know why social media is such an unsafe place.
Unsolicited advice for women: 😊 1. For women who dont want to wear makeup: if you want a high paying job you need to wear makeup at least for the interview and key events in the company. 😊 For all other occasions (eg outings with family etc, there is no need). Keep your makeup budget low and invest in skincare. 2. Don't have big marriage functions if groom's side is not willing to share expenses. Have a registered marriage and reception with ordinary food at some ashram. Instead ask your dad to put the money in FD in your name. 3. Do not engage in gift giving during marriage at all. You are the gift 😊 and if groom's side want something more, they can move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. 4. Do NOT under any circumstances stop working. Women must have their own money even if it means avoiding pregnancy.. India doesnt need more people. If a woman is expected to do all the housework while also working or is expected to give up her job to raise children, then better not to have children. Unpaid housework will never be appreciated, so dont make it top priority in life - it will get you nothing. Basically be very pragmatic and self reliant even if you are married.
Point 2 , Bhai registered marriage kyu krna hai ? Sex ke liye na ? Marriage court ne banaye hai ya legal system ne ? Vivah sanskaar hai apne yaha jab vidhi se nahi hoga tb to fir sarir ki ichha pura krne ke liye hua na ? Khair jinke life ka aim hi paisa ho aur agle jnm me kutta billi banna ho unhe ye dharmsastr ki baat kha se smjh aayegi .......
Vivah sanskaar hai vidhi se vivah karne ke baad hi dusra aashram yani ki grihasth ashram me pravesh hota hai , moksh ke raste me 1 padav hai , Baaki kalyug ka to suruaat hai ant to bas kamvaasna me hoga...fir koi sanskaar wagairah kuch nahi bachega However aajkal jhuth ka paisa barbaad krte h log I'm against them
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs what does men wear chaddi , women wear chaddi, bra , iner , extra small short pant for periods . One cloth can't be same cost of four cloth . And also lehenga, saree or gown are the costliest.Then we have to carry some kind of bag in daily life as we have more things to carry but don't have pocket .
One thing I have to say. Our brothers are getting headaches after knowing it, in India. What would happen, if they know about S. Korea, China, Other Asian countries or in Western countries!???😂😂😂 Plastic surgery, 6-7 skin care routine, marriage expenses💀💀
are we forcinf someone not right that ur choice ur preference ur expense we can't comment on these things as they are degrading people externally which could be controlled by an indivdual but opposite is not true at all
@@artistica.m yep, i agree the expenditure for other things are more in east asia but Indians have the costliest weddings and thats a fact. We Indians spend more compared to our income than east asians who have more modest weddings. their skincare routine is also roughly the same cost as indians if you compare it to their salaries. Plastic surgery is also inexpensive there. But our weddings are unnecessarily expensive and cause indians to suffer more burden in paying for women.
A lot of women choose to remain unmarried today in the cities and take care of their parents and siblings. The multiple pressures of having a career, marriage and family are just too much.
I never do makeup..mujhe natural skin hi pasand hai... And now that I am earning I do savings every month😊mein ek ngo ke saath collab mein hun...sab ladkion ki lifestyle ek jesi nahi hai... actually upsc ke liye self study karti thi nahi hua so changed my profession and became a teacher...now I live with each penny counted everyday and make a budget monthly... Never forget that woman bhi kam cheezon se ghar chala leti hain 😊
women clothing which are more expensive also are of lesser quality than men's clothing.I prefer buying house clothes(t shirt, shorts, and lowers) from men's section, cost less and are more durable .( retains colour,stitching and fitting.
also being women (married, working) I have to buy so many things which my husband doesn't need to like matching bangles, hair products, bindi, dupatta , saree pins , matching jwellery etc😅😅
@@apurvasinha2848Sadly Corporate world destroyed Female- The modesty, shyness, empathy, motherhood As same the Male's Mesuculanity, strongnes, health, protectiveness etc.
Being a male I always wondered about why women are burdened with heavy and uncomfortable dresses, be it western or indian, and also other fashion things like heels, piercings, long hair, etc which decreases their security and/or productivity. Many points you spoke, I felt like I had them buried deep within me, thanks for raising these issues. Humanist issues like these always make me ponder, if anyone would like to connect with me then I have put my intro and contact details in the about section of my youtube channel ☺️👍🏻
You people say all these things but still get attracted to girls who wear makeup. I have never once seen a man getting attracted to women for things other than beauty. For most of the men, a woman becomes unlovable even if she has a small imperfection in her beauty.
The Main problem is that today's men want girl do both oitside and inside .... *Wo ghar ka sara kaam karegi ,baccha paida wo karegi , unhe bara bhi wohi karegi ,paisa bhi wohi kamai gi* *Agar sab kuch ladki hi karegi ,tum kya karoge?* *What is your contribution in relationship ?* *Sperm donate karna!!* *Bass* Agar ladki paise kamai gi to uspe tana kasenge ki *your now out of hand* or agar nahi kiya to fir *gold digger* kah do And let not forget about those *sigma*🍼🍼 who feel extremely superior after paying for his own wife or childern. Agar apki wife ghar sambhal rahi he , bahar sambhal na apki responsibility hai , pay karke ap kuch mahan nahi kar rahe ho!!....😗😗
Hospitality industry wants girls to look attractive because men likes to see butterflies around them. In the office, a short dress wearing girl becomes important over a saree or suit wearing girl. Over the period of time, girls conditioned themselves to live that life.
Thank you for speaking about the impact of maternity leaves in jobs. On one hand society calls women selfish if they don’t want to reproduce. It is precisely because of this reason. Career gaps scares me the most
Boys and Girls both have their own issues to handle, rather than comparing gender burdens, we should understand each other to not make the other gender uncomfortable.
I actually noticed something really concerning... I have to budget my stationary expenses so when it was my fresher party I decided not to go there. But everyone was so excited and urging me to go there even my own brother. I said yes. We had to wear saree so I bought one, there was little time so I even bought a readymade blouse.... Damn the cost was concerning. It doesn't end there actually my brother took it to doing the borders of saree idk what it's called them I had to buy make up and jewellery and other stuff plus the salon cost... I swear I have never spent so much money in one go. I literally still feel guilty over that. It actually makes me feel like a burden on my family whenever I feel like dressing up nicely femininely to feel better because it just costs too much. And as always the society and even my loved ones never forget to show that my needs and wants are too much that it would be better if I was born a boy or it I wasn't even born. So in the end what happens is I get silent and keep all my desires to myself and make sure that my needs and wants look as insignificant as it can. That is what I have been doing all my life to make sure I don't get any attention from my family... It's hard yeah but all I can think about is taking action so the burden can be off their shoulders, trying to be independent without knowing which direction to go. I don't want to talk about this but I want to let it off my heart as well. Just 2 years ago I tried to suicide because my grades were falling and I had no direction of future plus my family expectations. Good thing I was a coward to actually try to end myself 😂.
Indians have been repeatedly destroying my life since school days to now, snatching away each job I managed to get. Blocked my employment. Tarnished my reputation. Did black tantra. Forced me to suicide's door uncountable times. Each time, I told myself it's their choice, not mine. 12+ years now without income, bad health....is not a joke. #ShameOnIndianCulture Today, I wish that every Indian gets back billions of times the wrongs they have done to us and continue to do, and may your livelihoods be snatched away from you. May it happen soon. To each Indian, thank you for converting me into this (remember, I could not curse anyone even a few years ago despite your coaxing). #repeatedTrauma #PTSD #Trauma #intensepain
even as a guy I avoid parties and functions for this same reason. + stopped listening to people and their judgements jo kehna hai kaho. jo bolna hai bolo. I've a life and I can live it in one kurta pant and chappal with some job.
1)Nowadays industries forced this rule - Women can't wear same clothes twice in wedding & parties. As a result lots of clothes go waste with 1 time use. 2) Many healthcare products like hygiene cleaning are actually gimmicks ,simple soap cleaning is enough. But market brainwashes women & men it's believe it's truly necessary. 3) Waxing in today's generation almost became mandatory for women. It is huge extra expenditure. Society forces women to do makeup & spend money & time . Then men also mock us through jokes on taking time to get ready. 4)Also fact ,many times clothes quality is cheaper for women than mens at same price.
As a boy I understood 3 things which are important for Girls 1. Her Lifestyle 2. Her Appearance 3. Her Safety and security In my opinion these are necessary for Every Girl.
Women and men both suffer. People just seem to make everything too exaggerated and dramatic. This video is an unfiltered and wise one… Being a woman, I confirm that there are many things which we have to go through! There are certain uneducated, ill mannered people here in the comment section, bickering absolute nonsense. No one is avoiding the fact that men too, suffer. It’s just that some men have the audacity to generalise women and speak ill about them. Society won’t benefit until and unless people become practical. Respect men and women both.
fr, men won’t know the struggles of going through periods/pregnancy and not being able to go out alone at night, facing harassment and even possible rape etc. so they should not demean us.
More important is finding solutions. We all know very well that be it skin care dressing or anything there is quite diverse list for women . Also winters are coming I have seen that usually womens winter clothes are usually thinner as compared to men and are of higher price too. For eg bodywarmer of men is thicker and gives more warmth as compared to women ones which are expensive and less warm . Usually still in my family and most of the family the father only is the bread earner. So he understands that it's too tough to get good quality clothes at the same price as of men .
@@gm.8805 Exactly! Moreover, speaking about what women face; we’re definitely not saying that men don’t suffer! It’s just that at the moment, we’re highlighting the problems we face. The video speaks about us, therefore we do have the right to comment… I don’t find anything wrong in that!
@@gm.8805ladkiyon ko sex me maza bhi aata hain natural chizon me compare karte ho tum, Aise to harmon ke karan ham bhi गंजे hote hai aur tum ni hoge (agar tum care karo to but hamara lgbhag fix hain) Hamare pass bhi 🍒 hain jahan pad gaya to samjho 100 bachhe paida karne ke barabar dard hoga Aur hame regret feel hota hai kis chiz par ye tum ni jaante Hame nightfall bhi ho sakta hain saal ke 365 din kabhi bhi nind se uthne ke baad Plus hamare sperm zindgi bhar bante hai jo shrir ko khokhla karte jaata hain ye sab hain natural chiz
Of all the things discussed, menstrual cost is the important one. Pink tax is just marketing, so buy the boys product. Women clothes cost more because they also have much more variety and choices. There is also a campaign running to normalise women without makeup. Makeup shouldn't have be the norm but you have to understand that women are the biggest critic of women. I see how pretty women act around not so pretty women.
thats not the only case, while I also agree most girls in india would suffer through that. The most cases I have heard as product designer is an uneasiness and discomfort in using it. Every woman's is different and what can and can't go in should be left to them to assess. @@berzerius
For me if a girl look beautiful without make up she is always going to look better with makeup. And i think if u have already commit to a partner, a girl can actually show her non makeup side to him and a guy can actually accept the girl for who she is. It makes relationship great for long term and u don't have to fake anything to anyone. Besides maybe in function having little makeup should be norm.
A more apt title will be “Biggest problems FOR Indian women “. Kudos to you addressing them all as a man 🫡. The unpaid housework is a reality and a thankless job 😢. Hormonal problems that come with age is cherry on top.
I agree . Most of the alimony are for unprivileged women but privileged women use to maintain their luxury life . Fake rape cases , fake dowry cases , fake glamour ,fake confidence. Everything is fake by these women and in any era women are an enemy of the other women.
I colour my own hair, do my facial. When Im out for the day, I just apply lipstick big earing and bangles. Exact jobs are offered to men and women but most women will opt for less physical work which pays less. One has to live within their means, simple.
Physical work what?? Do you think men do little extra hardwork for a movie nope. But still women's pay is just 10% of what men's are paid. Dou u think a IT job requires physical work, where there are also women who are paid reluctantly less. More Physical work is just a excuse dude
But he didn't tell that the cost of these are covered by parents(before marriage) and her husband (after marriage).is he trying to get please women by making this video😅😅😅
At most times parents don't spend money on girls grooming only at the time of marriage they say to groom well so she looks more pleasant for men. After marriage girls don't concentrate on looks so she gets aged fast or gain weight. Both her parents and husband don't care how she looks it all to herself
It is misconception that guy with govt job only asks dowry😅😅, my sister(works in mnc) gets a marriage proposal and guy is in private job earning 10lpa in Bangalore, they ask 10 lacs minimum dowry in cash + gold bcz according to them it is his annual package so atleast we should pay that much to them. His parents rejected my sis bcz my father said he cannot give that much dowry 🙂
Are yaar 10 lakh wale ko chodo. Mere lie 4 lakh wale ka rista aya tha. Pehle without dowry k lie raji the fir nakhre suru hogae. Ek hi to ladki he usko nehi doge to kisko doge bla bla. And irony is I earn double the salary. Everyone wants dowry in marriage but they will never accept in social media 😂😂
Even in paid washroom in Govt hospital Hyderabad..women are charged double than men. Ridiculous! You can't do anything about it !! That's india for a woman.
It is simple agr paise nhi hai tho mt kro ye sab no one is forcing them to buy a 6 lakh lengha or 20000 worth of innerwear.....they do it bcz they like it. Beauty care products are not a necessity they are a luxury if you don't have money then don't buy, simple
@@mr.yamrajpatalwale5882ladke products kitne mehenge hain uspe dhyan ni dete ..wo toh females hi ek dusre ko nicha dikhane k lia karti hain.. Boys ko ghwnta pata konsa kitna price😂😂.. tumhe pata hai toh batana jara😅
Bhai achrya prasant published a video titled "hindu ladki gayeb". He showed through census that 3-4 crore girls were killed as per last census. What u think about that?
@@gohan12991 tampons and pads are needs , not wants, thats the difference, its a necessity, not a luxury product. every women irrespective of their income class will require it from 12 y o to almost 50 y o.
Woman feel insecurity seeing another woman in every aspect.. Whenever aunty attends marriage,they talked about fairness, jwellery,etc etc but on the other hand uncle's "kya farak padta hein ”
Life is tough but only for those indian women/girls who aim of becoming something in their lives. Otherwise in most cases, all these expenses are paid by either Father or Husband.
and u think that just because they dont earn so they dont have to think about financial condition of their family as well? Bruh! they still have to run their house and manage the expences in Whatever their husbands are earning. They aren't free from financial burden. On one hand ppl curse women for prioritizing their career, telling her the greatness of house wives who are selfless and as soon as they find it convenient they start insulting house wives as well. There is no way to win
@@vp-lv6yk first of all thanks for putting your point in a polite way. yes, i do accept your point but i made that point mainly for unmarried ones and a bit for the married ones to highlight the fact that those expenses in most cases have to be paid by a man ! i did not mention husband to portray that housewives don't have financial burden.😅 lastly, i wanted to highlight the fact that very few unmarried women have the extreme pressure of becoming successful and taking financial responsibility of their family.
Working women need to manage both house and work responsibilities. So in this case eventhough women are taking care of financial responsibility somewhat but very few men help in house chores.
@@apputhe even unmarried women have to think about finances. Not everyone comes from Rich families with unlimited money. And women who earn are far More likely to spend on their family as compared to men while they are less likely to take help from parents. U can search the data as well
First of all, it is not some "pink tax"/"gender tax" planned against girls. Men and Women perceive themselves differently. Men think their value is measured in the materialistic possessions, on the other hand women think their value is measured in their beauty and looks. Both of these cases are true, therefore we can see women spending more on clothing/makeup/beauty products and services whereas men spend on bikes, cars, tech gadgets and many more. The examples shown in video that are expensive for women, are perceived valuable by woman. An example - I spend way less on clothes and zero on makeup/beauty products but I've spend a lot on gaming, my bike etc. But my girlfriend spends mostly on clothing. So it is more easy to sell expensive clothes to her but not me, and more expensive games, bike equipment to me than her.
True brother. Are you in marketing? 😛 Btw, its not just makeup products. - Biological need: Menstrual products. - Skincare (not just beauty products) We age faster so anti aging creams/serums. Just soap wouldn't work. - Basic clothing: Women come in diff shapes and sizes. Some are curvy, some are not. Tons of options for tops and innerwear, activewear. Its not easy. Its why we take longer to shop 😅 - Tons of accessories to go with it. - Social pressure to look good. Like you said, makeup.
But ek aur baat bhi toh note karna banta hai ki ladkiyon ke liye job karna professional hona mandatory nahi hai especially india mein woh unka choice hai. Agar woh chahe toh housewife banke bhi aish kar sakti hai but househusband jaisa kuch nahi hota toh gender pay gap ka reason yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyan utna struggle aur focus nahi karte apne skills ko upgrade nahi karte kyu ki unko need hi nahi hai . But ladko ko pura family chalana hota hai .
Toh boys ko b housewife ka option bnd kr dena chahiye girls ke liye.... Or velle husband ghar pr bethe dekhe h pr ghar ke kam krte nhi dekhe.. 😂 ulta drink kr ke tamasha krte h....
@@ManishaSahu krti h mehnat pr appreciate krne wale km h....q ki us kaam ke pese nhi milte... Or male society me jis kam ke pese milte h use kaam mana jata h baki aram.
@@ac9158 the way he said,,, housewife karna aish he ... Its really a sick mentality. I don't know, even he ever saw his Mom or Sis or Aunt to work hard for the family. Yes i agree, Men & Women both working really hard but catagorizing Housing work as "Aish" is offendable
His opinions are pretty biased. In IT companies I have often heard bosses saying, "For girls take easy interview and hire". At work, they get easier tasks. At 6pm boss comes to the girls' desk and says, " It is unsafe, you should leave by 6:30". To boys the same boss says at 9:30 pm, "Do not leave without finishing the task. It is critical, high priority shit". Salary, girls get equal to boys. Promotion, girls get quicker than boys. At the time of marriage, girls' parents say, the boy should earn 4 times more than their girl. And people, especially bosses give logic like girls have to take care of household too, they need to cook food too. But in reality, girls say I too earn, I too get tired, lets order from swiggy and have a permanent cook. The only thing they do more is to take care of kids and that they do not because they are forced by society but because they have strong maternal instincts and really enjoy taking care of kids.
Finally someone said it...I started buying t-shirts from gents section when I was in college bcz I realised that they have better material and a better price plus they r better designed as well eg. the sleeves of our t-shirts are made comparatively short and then these company sell normal sleeves t-shirts as another style....😅
There we are also experiencing the torture on men and on its family members by their wives. But due to non availability of appropriate laws, in India , men are helplessly remaining silent or doing suicide.
Late to comment: I relate with the ladies commenting here. Now makeup, parlours have become an integral part even in the villages. I don't own make up or don't care how I look, so I am not considered faminine. Relatives would comment. However, I have been outside India for 6 years now, and people don't care about makeup much where I live. Videos like these are really important to change these trends and focus on what really matters. So thank you.
@@thapliyal_p2003 aapke ghar waale behen ji ki shaadi kisi achhe ghar me krwa dengey ye prefer nhi hai ?? Ya fir khud se partner dhoondhna hai jo bs aapke exterior appearance jo ki aapka real bhi nahi hai maintained krna pdta hai original se alag Usko prefer krengey?? lol
@@AanduPaandu69 kehna aasan hai apke liye Friend circle mei ladkiya taang kheechti hai taunt maarti hai just because mein insta mei 10-12 post nhi daalti mota makeup karke unn ladkiyon ki tarah Anyways I don't do makeup Duniya chahe kuch bhi kahe
Ohhh my goodness as a women , this vid is so close to my heart. I used to always wonder when I was a teen on why our skirts, shirts or even tops were so expensive while in the men section it was much cheaper even though more cloth was reqired to make it. Even our skincare products and stuff were 3x the price .Your video perfectlyy(!!) displays how I feel bout all of this.Thank you!!
Everything woman do is problematic I understand but what about men spending thousands on online games? Is it profitable? Also, liquor and cigarettes consumption is mainly done by men, can you please make a video on that?
Men usually spend (waste actually) their own money on that most of the time. For women, the excess expenditure is bared by her family usually especially up to age 18. That is the main difference. However men are 100% not justified in over spending in all these bad habits and shouldn't waste their money on stuff like this
Being women and class 1 job professional ,there is a huge difference in mindset of people who come to us that women can't handle some jobs only and they talk down to us compared to men,they think that we can't talk back or etc ,its fact that we have face soany challenges in life for being women and is she is not fits into beauty
Why are we treating this as an issue? We are in 21st century and women are as competent and even more competent than men in terms of talent and all. They can earn even more than man. So do earn more and spend the same. We should believe in equality of opportunity and consequence. And if someone gives the narrative that women have more struggle then even men have struggle in their own aspect. But the only difference is that we men don't crib about the same. We put our head down and work for the same. So if you really want equality then please work for it rather than cribbing on the same.
Are you even serious? Are you even speaking for rest of the men in the world? "Not talking about problems? " . I don't even know how to address your thoughts.
@@ryuchic462 do you doubt about the capability of modern day Indian women by any chance ? I hope not. May be you aren't through with my thought process.
@@theawesomedas I'm not even talking about Indian women. I'm talking about you. Why do you think that not talking about your problems is a manly thing? Because I can assure you men talk about their problems are try to find solutions. If you don't talk about issues then that is extremely unhealthy. Please help yourself.
Bro when we talk about wage gap we have to consider the work efficiency too the amount of efforts women put in office work they wont do over-night shifts which would be handled by some men in the office and they dont even improve themselves as much as men does
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 bro these days it's not necessary to work at office overnight they work from home too and I'm talking about overnights not night shifts.
@@naraharikommi8128 well I work in manufacturing sector. And they clearly don't allow us to work overnight and handle certain jobs. Idk about IT sector.
He clearly mentioned "for same job, same amount of work". U are talking about specific cases. He is not comparing cases where women do not work extra hrs etc. Plus they have to do domestic work as well so at the end they are anyways doing more. And what makes u assume that they do not improve themselves? This mentality is exact reason for pay gap
@@cryptoboi9584one woman got widowed near me, personally knew the husband, cheerful guy. Society comes like a vulture on them, I have seen it personally.
@@cryptoboi9584 actresses come from privileged background and have supportive ppl arround them so Obviously they wont face any social issue which normally women face in our society. They wont be treated like shit by their family, co workers and friends. They can afford to surround themselves with healthy ppl
thanks for addressing women's increasing health issues 😢 need to take care of women's more 😮.. also womens work in house 5hrs extra . Which is UNPAID work 😢😢
@@gohan12991 ladke ne bhi gharkam sikhne chaiye .. ladke ne roj khana banana apna clothes house clean karna chaiye .. ladkipr kam ka bojh Dene se better he khud kare... Qki ladki ko monthly pain hota he pet me so she need rest .. boys don't have any condition like that so boys can work at home more than girls .. also in pregnancy girls need full bedrest for 6 month atleast so it's very necessary that boys should learn cooking and take care of girls ..
@@dailyitmforecast ehh, pain sirf 2-3 dino ke liye hota hai. Utne me to maid bhi hire kar skti hai ladki. Ladko ko ye sab cheeje aati hai lekin shaadi ke baad biwi ki zimmedari ban jaati hai. Pregnancy ke time to gharwaale rahenge, bohot ladkiya apne maike chali jaati hai 3-4 mahino ke liye. Nahi to maike waalo ko naye Ghar bulati hai. Husband ko kuch kaam nahi
I understand most of your points but the gender pay gap is simply a myth. A man can work more hour for the same job whereas mostly women don't do that. A man will be available to work outside of his comfort zone to satisfy company need. Whereas woman mostly try to find jobs near their city or comfort zone. If hiring women can save more money to a company, they wouldn't have bother hiring man. I mean I won't miss any cheap labour if i had a business.
In japan like almost all asian countries there is huge compition among universities to hire best students. Still, one of the biggest university in tokyo was caught fabrication marks of female students because they dint wanted girls in their university no matter how good they score. Its about mentality and stereotype where its presumed that irrespective of qualifications, experience and good work. If she is a girl, she can't be doing better Hince do npt deserve the salary Plus even women harshly judge themselves. Women are More likely to feel unqualified or not good enough as compared to men. Which means they are less likely to argue about their salary despite of bringing same or even more good outcomes
It is acceptable in certain job but what about teachers, professor and doctors do you think your male professor work extra hard than your female professor
Just a point here from the company's perspective, most of the product apart from undergarments. The products that are for men/boys is mostly unisex even if a girl wears it, it is fine. But if a guy wears a pink shoe which is specifically targetted for woman, you should see how everyone will make fun of the guy. Basically what i want to say is Mens product mostly are unisex products especially for garments, whereas womans product are only womans product which leads to lesser volumes.
Ye jo aapne batein kahi vo High Class society ki women ki hai... being a middle class woman I m agree with only menstruation expenses per month, aur vo b koi itna kharcha nhi hai...pad kafi saste aur achhe mil jate hai..koi high end brand ki jarurat nhi hai...aur ye jo baki sb bola make-up, beauty parlour...vo sari ladkiyan daily basis pr nhi krti, mai to guarantee ke sath keh skti hun k Jo vo kharcha kr rahi hai vo already usse jyada kama rhi hoti hai ya kisi or pr dependent hoti hogi.. ya to aese profession mai hoti hai...baki koi sadharan Parivar ki ladkiya jarurat ka kama rhi hoti hai..apne khrche khud utha rhi ho vo koi parlour mai ye manicure pedicure nhi karvati..vo sb occasionally hota hai... mujhe yad hai meri best friend ne khud shadi mai b koi manicure pedicure nhi krvaya tha...darsal aapko in sab baato ko darkinar krne ka koi solution dena chahiye tha...na ki society ka pressure dikhana ki.. ladkiyo ko khubsurat dikhna ye society ko achha lagta hai 🙄.. aur ye kpde aapne high end brand k dikhaye... yakeen maniye India ki aadhe se jyada ladkiya wakef b na hogi aesi brand se.
This is all whiteknightism. The analysis was too shallow and lacked depth. There is no such thing as wage gap, if it was true then all the companies would be filled with women. It is simply because wage depends on How your results affect your company and in general men do work more efficiently and take up more difficult tasks in any company. I have seen many many blatant discrimintation towards male candidates in hiring proces just because the company wants to fulfill their gender ratios. Heck even in my team with merely 70% of my qualification, one of my female team member got the job. She did not even know what is a compiler and yet she is a Java developer with a package of 7.5lacs. Also, companies inherently know about female psychology that they are conformists meaning they follow what other woman follow and on top of that it is easier to manipulate women to make them buy their company products. Women go out of their way to choose certain colors which are rarer and expensive. And the most common color among men's apparel is grey which is very cheap to produce from nature. If women take responsibility of their purchasing decisions without giving into their primal instincts then I think most women can leverage their financials for a quality life. Also, women don't care and are afraid of investing in stocks, bonds, metals etc. If you just save money throughout lifetime then obviously you gonna depreciate your money. Buy atleat gold every year and that too 24 carat gold biscuit so that after 10years of compounding you will have 250% value of your present gold. I am not hating here, I am just stating the facts, Our society has become so gynocentric that it actively finds ways to remove personal responsibility from women.
@@NativeVsColonial us ₹20 ka property + har month bheek maangke, toilet clean karke, drainage saaf karke ya fir kaise bhi karke apni wife ko har monthly maintenance bhi toh dena hai. Aur saath hi saath baccha bhi biwi ke jayega 👏👏👏. us bacche ko milne ke liye bhi permission mangna padega wife se 👏👏👏 Kitna mast zindagi hai na bhai 💪💪💪😃😃💩💩💩
beauty industry really capitalises off from women’s insecurities, and supports hyper consumption and fast fashion. fast fashion is known to be bad for the environment.
Women should understand Why she's body centric this is all about attention . Sb esi nhi hoti but mostly hain . Or ye sbme apni life ka sbse jyda time barbad kr deti Hain bs sundr dikhne k liye or yhi knowledge ki baato pr aaye bht saari girls nhi pta hota k India me ya overall women or men ki education , mindset Ka data kya khta hai overall . Sbse jyda time apni body ko attractive hone me lgta hai jiska relation knowledge k matter me hai hi nhi . And ye sb k lady ghr pr rh kr work krti hai pregent hone k bd ghr hi hr jati hai ye sb serial or movies se bhi influence ho jaate hain k isse pyr milta hai knowledge, wisdom gyi tel lene . That's why we don't need literate we need educated men and women , girl and boy who can identify all matter . And society ne hi sikhaya hai k sundr dikhogi to dulha bhi sundr milega or boy ka hai k job achchi hogi to sundr ldhki milegi hr kisi ka work decide kr diya jese ye earth pr isliye hi aayi hain or male jo sirf sundr ko sundrta tk hi rkhte hain knowledge k naam k kuchh nhi smjhte ye myths hain k male ko attractive sundr ldhki krti vo bs sexually attractive lgti hai unhe affect hamesha educated girl se pdhta hai . Vo ya unse dur ho jayege ya paas pr wisdom k base pr . Choice is yours understand economy understand yourself first that should girls wear fake beauty. Males also have a duty to tell them about wisdom. Industrial revolution in last 50 years has came in our life to fool us , to be body centric so they can earn mony .
the dowry cases u have mentioned..how many of them are real and how many of them are fake? bcz any women can go the police station and file complaint without proof..and about wage gap..what sector they are working in? what is the percentage of men and women in each sector? what are their positions in the sector? what defines "unpaid labor" ?
dowry is wayyyyyy more common than you think it is. think about how many dowry cases have gone unreported. thats certainly a lot more than the 'fake' reported cases. unpaid labor is when you work and arent paid for it. internship is one form of unpaid labor. women are expected to do household chores but they arwnt paid for it. if they decide to hire a maid, they have to pay her for doing the same work as a housewife, but a housewife isnt paid.
@@swarali1365 thats the problem..by just the word of women saying he took dowry..dowry cases are filed..and what are women expecting? Lakhs of salary, well settled, own house, handsome..are these normal? Why don't you criminalize these? Aren't these wayyyy more common? And talking about unpaid labor..men also dedicate their time and buy their wives jewelry, sarees take them outside..what about these..will they do the same for their maids? Marriage is about sharing responsibility..if one earns and other decides to take care of house hold ..it's their choice..I am more than happy if I were to get married and given the responsibility of taking house hold work..
Many govt schemes offer extra benefits for women - high interest in FD, post office schemes, endowment plans ..etc. It is only natural that women/parents have more money to spend and hence the high prices.
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First man who actually understand women....proud of you and hats off to your sincerity
That's an overstatement but yeah more people should speak on the struggles of both men and women.
Yaha ek nahi hai bhot sare isse bhi acche ladke hai
Are feminist didi aa gyi gyan Dene k liye aur bolne k liye first man are didi aese ladke bohot jo women k struggle par baat kare lekin problem ye hai ki ladki koi bhi nhi hai jo men k struggle par baat kare
@@akashchowdhury8922 are bhai tu kisko bol rha ye feminist ki chodiyaan hai inko samjh thodi aayega
@@aghor5317
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As a woman who lived independently for 4 and a half years, I would like to add up few things.
1. Accommodation for women is costly compared to men. Pgs give less facility to women and yet charge more rent.
2. We need to spend more on safety while traveling.
3. Medical help is costlier. Mental health and gynic health detoriate when we go out to work.
Aapki baat sahi hai didi women ka medical tho costlier hota hai , per mere khyal se pgs me facilities achchi honi chahiye 😊😊
Men pg's are worse. No cleaning, shared bathrooms, no security, shitty food.
So obviously they will charge less.
@@shivamnayan1202 in India mostly ladki ya fir aunty word ka zyda use hota women word western world m zyda use hota h
@@slayer_142that doesn't change anything bro
@@Anika9691 India m actor's ko ladka bola jata h chahe vo 60 saal ka kyu na ho 😂 but average 40 saal k adami ko budha uncle bol dete h
Dahej isn’t limited to wedding only. After marriage girls family is expected to give gifts at every occasion be it small or big. Another thing to note is if the girl is earning her money doesn’t go to her parents and if she isn’t working she is a free kaamwali bai 24*7 always available to her kids, husband, in laws. Someone in the comment section was saying that men pay for women’s expenses, not accounting how much women handles various errands at home.
and women live in husbands' home rent-free and w/o worrying for expenses too, least they can do for that is do errands at home, right?
You should stop demeaning women by calling kaamwali bai. It is called relationship responsibility - something that takes maturity to grasp. Women are dependent on husbands for providing resources in majority cases and it makes sense that husbands should be able to depend on women for taking care of homemaking and early child-rearing. It's called gender roles - that's how nature intended things to be.
@@WisdomIsAwesomeNature isn't always right.
@@NailsByAsh813 maybe, but we've got to live according to the limitations set by nature and evolution until we slowly break those limitations in a healthy and holistic manner. Till then, we have to accept those limitations. Otherwise, natural selection will take care of eliminating those people's genes who don't.
Marriage is a permanent retirement plan for women. Men should boycott marriage
@@WisdomIsAwesomeas if she was giving rent to her parents before. Girls were having better living at her parents home. Women's life gets difficult after marriage, men's live at more ease. Go and live at her home n contribute to her family, only after that say this garbage.
The line you said that female spend way less on her OWN education as compare to makeup hits hard !! Societial pressure is a bitch .
Sun meri baat its her choice
😂😂
societial pressure ?
its girls vs girls
we all know how girls who use buy expensive makeup . cloths , treat to thoose who use cheap shit
[ also men doesnt care either that ice is fack or not , but women do care ,
men dont care either that is branded or not women does so
If they know they are not smart enough to make a living out of their education why would they waste money on it. They took the correct decision.
@@ultopalto-pq3hm men dont care about their look Because no one cares much about their looks
I worked in the netherlands for 14 years in a fortune 50 company. 10 years into the job i realised i was being paod half of what my white counterparts were making and within the brown category as a woman i was making about 10% less, while per the annual performance review i was in the top most quartile. Secondly, for knowledge migrant workers the dutch government charged a lower tax of 30% instead of the regular slab but the company used to withhold that and not pass the benefit to us (this also was allowed per law). Hence i was paying 42% tax on my already low earnings. In the end, i somehow pushed for an expat assignment and then left the company. Indians both men and women are paid less due to our nationality and within the asian pool indian women are paid even worse. Hence, both should try and be a bit more entreprenurial. Learn your akills and gain the knowledge then work for yourself.
Yes
Behen 50 company main kaam karke thak ni gaye 😂 .. jhuthi kahani kahan se laate ho logic hi gayab hai
@priyaranjanmeher2345 yeap you r absolutely right ✅️ 👌
R u in Netherlands now?
It's true being Indian we are paid less than whites. Most painful thing is those companies haired us for their benifits.
Lol pehle comment theek se padh lo behen... She said Fortune 50 Company...Not 50 different companies !!@@priyaranjanmeher2345
As a young working professional, in her early 20s, I could relate to all the points mentioned. Thanks, Open Letter for making this.
ohh ok
the problems are nothing , simple solution is that be simple
I was about to reply to this statement but guess what i saw next...your name :)))....What else to expect lol@shahabuddinkhan4974
@@mohitjangid-f1v in India 35 saal ki ladki ko bhi aunty bol diya jata h 😂 but 50 saal ki actress ko ladki 😂
@shahabuddinkhan4974 pura video nahi sirf makeup or kapro ke alawa bhi bohot problems hoti hai
This is why this gender war has to stop... I have no idea how it started in India but the videos from the west definitely has fueled it. Both genders have their own set of problems. But instead of working together sab ek dusre to gaali dene mein aur neecha dikhane mein lage hai. This video was very well explained.
you are right on point, ye kya ho rha h sab aapas me ladd rhe hain. Grow up guys, understand each other & work together.
Exactly!
Finally someone said correctly here.
Divide and Rule. Since British era.
i agree but still i believe if men (certain, not all) start respecting women, and the rapist ideology goes away, there will literally be zero gender wars.
I am girl but i have never wasted money on makeup and luxury coz society put pressure to look perfect and those companies fill the gap by using this as a marketing tool but no one realises did this even important in life ? Are we only here to paint our body and put stones on it . I always get ready to just present myself as neat n clean I think that's only thing important for both men and women . Instead I spent on science books .Varna kuch to bahar se ache dhikte hai but andar na Jane kitna kachra bhara rehta hai .
True sister. Can you recommend some books related to science ... you mentioned above.
@@JayDhanavadesure ,A brief history of time by stephen hawking, cosmos by Carl sogan , sapiens - - a brief history of humankind by Yuval Noah ,ideas and opinions by Albert Einstein, astrophysics for people in hurry by Neil these are top preferences
@@Aashiiii29noted. Thanks:)
@@JayDhanavade my pleasure
Good on you.
This man is most unbiased, intelligent, nationalist youtuber
He doesn't takes side but stick with facts and also his opinions are also well calculated and well thought.
Thank you for educating people.
Lol he's as right wing as dhruv rathee is left wing. Anyway I can appreciate both their contents, if they're based on factual data, regardless of political biases, which almost everyone has.
@@udbhavsinha3987he is netural
@@DC-cg1fu lmfao no, he's clearly RW. And it's not a bad thing necessarily. Everyone have their biases.
@@udbhavsinha3987there is no RW party in India. If you think BJP is RW, then you need to research a little bit. BJP is a non left party but is slowly now tilting towards a LW party, i.e. it is going the Congress way.
While I can agree that he has Right Wing Bias. I would never compare an asshole like dhruv rathee to him. I had seen dhruv's content when he merely had 10000 subscribers and the kind of shit he and hate content he used to propagate, I alos remember the time Open Letter used to make content seriously bent in favour of right I have unsubscribed and subscribed to his channel a few times but he has matured. on the other hand dhruv is the same mediocre genius journalist ANAList man - woman and everything in between@@udbhavsinha3987
It's not Pink Tax, It's Stupid Tax.
On top of that it's men who have to pay for their stupidity as men are still the providers.
facts
it should be called pink profit
It's a tax taken on excessive consumption of chemicals. As long as all listed companies are taking it and increasing my portfolio value I have no objection.
yo
It's not easy to be a women, ask any women she will have Same story, this guy has came up with few of the concepts which definitely exist.
WomBn didn't decide to create Corporate Culture ..😤🤷🏻♀️ ...
Nor did we say create Banking system ..
Same for boys.
@@ankanroy9758Not at all 🤷🏻♀️
@@lakshmiuikey22926than not at all for women also
@@lakshmiuikey22926women☕️
Girls lives are different they need to understand marketing strategy and avoid being trapped into it. Also society has to understand the circumstances.
Society won't. It's stupid
@@Maolana_ModiG bilkul aunty ji bhi yasi hi hongi hain na
dimaag se khali aur unki sab se bari galti yani tum
@thezoldics7648truedt words ,and making ppl athiest, non religious, non masculine too
@@anirbansarkar1486 ale mele babu ko bula laga..
How will they understand honey,ever since you are a kid you see ads on Tv that fairness is the key to everything,also our bollywood movies,they don't fail to take beutiful,slim, gorgeous women at the epitome of beauty and it's existence and clearly it is shown that the not so fair aka beutiful girl is left unmarried and unattentive for example(God tussi great ho of Salman Khan).. and ever since they grow up and the color or facial features acc to the society aren't fair or clean enough they are constantly taunted and reminded k are rang dawa hua h,shadi m dikkat hogi.. try these creams,homemade masks and what not.. and if you have brother its always heard and in matrimonial it's clearly stated Sundar,Gori,sushil _ _ etc etc ladki is mandatory,(speaking from personal and collective perspective of alottttt(basically all)of girls, women I have met and spoken around me.
Whereassss if the guy has same problem there is a clear solution always given to them that is"acchi naukri lgegi to acchi ldki milegi and as we have all seen acchi naukri not only means acchi ldki(gori,Sundar mainly) but also means accha khasa dahej,like wtf ,why so privileged (anyways)..
I justtt hope kash ldkio ko yh sb bolne k jgah yh bolkr bda kra gya hota k shkl se or rang se frk nhi pdta.. tmhari qualification, degree and basically kashhh acchi naukri se frk pdta h bola gya hota to aj rate bht zada hota independent women ka,or shyd hi koi insecure hota looks ko leke,or koi dowry stupid system v nhi hota cuz both are independent,also ldkia dvke nhi rehti after marriage.. it is not just a simple topic you have picked.. it's a wholee fuc kin tabooooo.. i hope for the best in future for everybody 🙏❤
Tbh, most men won’t understand/ will choose not to understand the struggles of being a woman. Look at the people demeaning women’s struggles in the comment section. But kudos to people like you for truly shining a light on this unexplored territory. We need more people like you. You’re a gem. 🙏🙏
Everyone knows women's struggles , people have problems with constantly blaring like a horn in front of them....
Not many talk about men's problems instead
Problem is not in understanding women's problems. Problem is living constantly in a victim mindset. Constant urge to blame all the problem on the patriarchy.
Let's counter some of the problems.
1. Wage gap : biggest myth ever. Men work 28% more than women. More risky jobs too. Guess who should be paid more.?
2. Maternity leave : Govt has rightly given enough leaves with FULL PAYMENT to women for that.
3. Make up : it's the problem in women mindset. Get that Gucci bag, louis vuitton bag, etc etc. Pick any middle class family, who is more likely to spend more for self like clothing, jwellery, bags etc etc, your father or mother?? You know who will😅
So all in all, I agree women have problems but it's just different sets of problem than men. Not that men don't have problem at all.!
And one basic difference is men don't blame their problems on women. While women does! ALWAYS.
@@doctormax1342 instead of lecturing other women.
You should lecture your own mother, telling how ungrateful burden was she, that she looted your father's money even after giving dowry.
Jake apni Maa ko tight kr 😂
Tera baap uske liye capable nhi tha to shadi kyu ki??
Itna capable nhi tha to To use independent kyu nhi bnaya ??😂😂
Jak pooch.
Tumlog to apni maa ko bhi nhi chodte 😂lol
@@doctormax1342 about point 1. 😂 go check who works construction work , female doing it get less pay.
Even in many sectors 😂be it labour work.
Idk insecure boys 😂will ne insecure about everything lol
@@mypersona8270 dikhadi aukaat.!
2 sentence to English me type hote nahi hai tumse, aur kya hi debate ki umeed rakhe tumse. Tum jaise log bhagwaan ne sirf is liye banaye hai ki logo ko pata chale ki Aisa to bilkul nahi ban na hai.😂
Sirf prithvi par bauj Bane fir rahe ho. O2 waste kar rahe ho. Btw O2 means oxygen ( nahi pata hoga unpadh hai na bichara ).
And no I will not drag your parents into this because my parents have always taught me to respect others.
No one is saying women has done nothing or they are not important. its just that both are equally important.!
I don't know why is there so much hate for Women and It is being spread by some Men . But not all girls are rich like you think. Not all girls have that much money to spent their money on unnecessary things like Makeup. Also There are many problems in the life of Indian girls which you Men can't understand. Istead of it You people find reasons to hate Women. You see Rich girls and Their attitude and you Men judge the whole Women Community. Also In Our Society, Women is graduated at the age of 21 yrs, after this They try to Find a Job which is difficult in Society like India because here everyone gives priority to Men in Jobs.. So How can you expect her to earn. Also if Women Find Job. Then After Marriage here Parents in laws and Husband would make pressure to leave her Job so that She can be A Good Housewife.. So don't judge Women Community by judging a Rich Women...I come from Middle class / Poor Class I only can understand what pressure I am going through.. You are Men be proud of it but don't disrespect Other Community!! Also Indian Society Only Accept Men not Women / Transgenders
Can i tell you something yes men don't know the problems of girls what they faced but if you not tell your problems to open platforms then can it be address and solved and see men wanna to know what problems they face if women did not comfront and tell the problems how can anyone know their and when we see insta flunercens and youtubers they tell what problems women face we tend to belive and these youtubers are moslty men and not women . and if women did not comfront and tell their problems then how can society will change and tell you that most men believe that women live is so easy so women should comfront and tell the problems so that society can change otherwise be stuck in the problems.
Bhai ye to phir bhi chalo jo low income class of city ya town kitne conservative or rural groups waha to aurto ko 12 th tak padhae yahi bhohot privilege ka chiz hai
Ye kuch pagal log apne thought lo validate karne ke liye sirf wahi chiz dekhte hai jo dekhna chahte hai
@@namitjaiswal2031 what's the use of telling ? They will simply shun it.
Thank God, you wrote it
Not everyone has that time and capacity to spend time and money on beauty and useless staff. It's just few women they see and pass comments , then they have to simp also on beautiful girls, and stare nd want them😂😂just Indian boys matter
@@namitjaiswal2031 yes, cry more lol 😂 Just another insecure lappu.
Have you ever saw a girl getting simp over an insta make influencer s much as men ???
Bcoz you guys love watching skin show Then complain we believed her😂lol
Your female role modal or women facing daily problems, can mostly be told by your Mother, sister, daughter 😂not insta
Idk tumlog ko insta ladkiyo se kitna simp h.
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My id is private , still I'm so sick of requests Which has only men lol....
Im speechless. Now I know why social media is such an unsafe place.
Unsolicited advice for women: 😊
1. For women who dont want to wear makeup: if you want a high paying job you need to wear makeup at least for the interview and key events in the company. 😊 For all other occasions (eg outings with family etc, there is no need). Keep your makeup budget low and invest in skincare.
2. Don't have big marriage functions if groom's side is not willing to share expenses. Have a registered marriage and reception with ordinary food at some ashram. Instead ask your dad to put the money in FD in your name.
3. Do not engage in gift giving during marriage at all. You are the gift 😊 and if groom's side want something more, they can move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.
4. Do NOT under any circumstances stop working. Women must have their own money even if it means avoiding pregnancy.. India doesnt need more people. If a woman is expected to do all the housework while also working or is expected to give up her job to raise children, then better not to have children. Unpaid housework will never be appreciated, so dont make it top priority in life - it will get you nothing.
Basically be very pragmatic and self reliant even if you are married.
Better than all of this... Don't get married at all...😂
Very realistic approach towards life, great advice 👍
Point 2 ,
Bhai registered marriage kyu krna hai ?
Sex ke liye na ? Marriage court ne banaye hai ya legal system ne ? Vivah sanskaar hai apne yaha jab vidhi se nahi hoga tb to fir sarir ki ichha pura krne ke liye hua na ?
Khair jinke life ka aim hi paisa ho aur agle jnm me kutta billi banna ho unhe ye dharmsastr ki baat kha se smjh aayegi .......
Vivah sanskaar hai vidhi se vivah karne ke baad hi dusra aashram yani ki grihasth ashram me pravesh hota hai , moksh ke raste me 1 padav hai ,
Baaki kalyug ka to suruaat hai ant to bas kamvaasna me hoga...fir koi sanskaar wagairah kuch nahi bachega
However aajkal jhuth ka paisa barbaad krte h log I'm against them
@@GuruGranthGovind Bhai jinko shaadi riti riwajo se karne ki iccha hai wo mandir Mai ek simple wedding bhi kar sakte hai
Every girl is not rich as you think bro. I am from middle class family and not spend any money on makeup products and expensive clothing.
Ya me too 😂 but under wear larko se jyada kharcha ho hi jata hay
but when you have money you will be forced to buy it be it peer pressure or societal pressure
I only spend my parents money into my education
@@tris331 nope. Men's wear are most costly.
@@AmishKumar-lc7zs what does men wear chaddi , women wear chaddi, bra , iner , extra small short pant for periods . One cloth can't be same cost of four cloth . And also lehenga, saree or
gown are the costliest.Then we have to carry some kind of bag in daily life as we have more things to carry but don't have pocket .
One thing I have to say.
Our brothers are getting headaches after knowing it, in India.
What would happen, if they know about S. Korea, China, Other Asian countries or in Western countries!???😂😂😂
Plastic surgery, 6-7 skin care routine, marriage expenses💀💀
marriage expenses there are less
@@mr.donaldduckblowstrumpet6053 less??😅😅
Okayyyy....😆
are we forcinf someone not right that ur choice ur preference ur expense we can't comment on these things as they are degrading people externally which could be controlled by an indivdual but opposite is not true at all
@@artistica.m yep, i agree the expenditure for other things are more in east asia but Indians have the costliest weddings and thats a fact. We Indians spend more compared to our income than east asians who have more modest weddings. their skincare routine is also roughly the same cost as indians if you compare it to their salaries. Plastic surgery is also inexpensive there. But our weddings are unnecessarily expensive and cause indians to suffer more burden in paying for women.
@@mr.donaldduckblowstrumpet6053 why do Indians not marry abroad if it's that cheaper?
A lot of women choose to remain unmarried today in the cities and take care of their parents and siblings.
The multiple pressures of having a career, marriage and family are just too much.
Their parents themselves want their daughters to get married
@@gohan12991 so what?
It's her/his life....not their parents life!
@JigSawJiraKit That's not what happens in India
@@gohan12991 if it's wrong, it's wrong!
No excuses.
@@gohan12991 agreed but it needs to change
I never do makeup..mujhe natural skin hi pasand hai...
And now that I am earning I do savings every month😊mein ek ngo ke saath collab mein hun...sab ladkion ki lifestyle ek jesi nahi hai... actually upsc ke liye self study karti thi nahi hua so changed my profession and became a teacher...now I live with each penny counted everyday and make a budget monthly...
Never forget that woman bhi kam cheezon se ghar chala leti hain 😊
Teacher life is fun with holidays. You did better by changing profession.
I wish u all the best
That's called a heroic comment , Best of luck.
@@cryptoboi9584 teacher is most valuable person for everyone's life I think you are not insulting her
@@cryptoboi9584 Actually nowadays, teachers have to go to school and make their presence even if there are holidays for students.
That's why my Educated sister use Men products 🗿
😂😂
I dint knew that men wear skirts and use pads as well? 💀
Most of my friends use men's tshirts & cargo pants 🗿🗿
@@vp-lv6yk ohh what a great joke you trying to be a comedian or what?
Haha..Being a girl, after watching this vdo I'm gonna do the same 🗿
women clothing which are more expensive also are of lesser quality than men's clothing.I prefer buying house clothes(t shirt, shorts, and lowers) from men's section, cost less and are more durable .( retains colour,stitching and fitting.
also being women (married, working) I have to buy so many things which my husband doesn't need to like matching bangles, hair products, bindi, dupatta , saree pins , matching jwellery etc😅😅
@@apurvasinha2848Sadly Corporate world destroyed Female- The modesty, shyness, empathy, motherhood As same the Male's Mesuculanity, strongnes, health, protectiveness etc.
Aaj kl all i see is ppl making fun of women on the internet bcos vhi 'cool' hogya hai...but what a breath of fresh air this video was man, respect.
Being a male I always wondered about why women are burdened with heavy and uncomfortable dresses, be it western or indian, and also other fashion things like heels, piercings, long hair, etc which decreases their security and/or productivity.
Many points you spoke, I felt like I had them buried deep within me, thanks for raising these issues. Humanist issues like these always make me ponder, if anyone would like to connect with me then I have put my intro and contact details in the about section of my youtube channel ☺️👍🏻
They should start a campaign rejecting their use maybe, then there'll be communities for it.
@@mayanksolanki7028 right 💯
You people say all these things but still get attracted to girls who wear makeup. I have never once seen a man getting attracted to women for things other than beauty. For most of the men, a woman becomes unlovable even if she has a small imperfection in her beauty.
In short, it is because men and women are not designed/evolved to be equal but modern world tries to make them equal and fails every time.
then there will be an idiot who says noo saris are amazing while himslef wearing shorts ol@@mayanksolanki7028
The Main problem is that today's men want girl do both oitside and inside ....
*Wo ghar ka sara kaam karegi ,baccha paida wo karegi , unhe bara bhi wohi karegi ,paisa bhi wohi kamai gi*
*Agar sab kuch ladki hi karegi ,tum kya karoge?*
*What is your contribution in relationship ?*
*Sperm donate karna!!* *Bass*
Agar ladki paise kamai gi to uspe tana kasenge ki *your now out of hand* or agar nahi kiya to fir *gold digger* kah do
And let not forget about those *sigma*🍼🍼
who feel extremely superior after paying for his own wife or childern.
Agar apki wife ghar sambhal rahi he ,
bahar sambhal na apki responsibility hai , pay karke ap kuch mahan nahi kar rahe ho!!....😗😗
Exactly, and even after doing it all. Its still never enough.
Gurl you spoke facts 🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Ladkiya itni v bewakoof nhi hoti
This happens because girls always want husband who is superior to them. If girl Earn 1 lakh a month, she wants Rs 3 lakh earning MAN.
@@tirthaobiswas true but this generation's so called sigma boys are😂
We Indian girls would rather have sanskari purshottam than a sigma 😂
Hospitality industry wants girls to look attractive because men likes to see butterflies around them. In the office, a short dress wearing girl becomes important over a saree or suit wearing girl. Over the period of time, girls conditioned themselves to live that life.
Every men is not a simp like you.
not men, but everyone wants to see that. its both gender that want to see butterflies
Thank you for speaking about the impact of maternity leaves in jobs. On one hand society calls women selfish if they don’t want to reproduce. It is precisely because of this reason. Career gaps scares me the most
Ya..either of them could be done not both smoothly.
Your first priority should be your child and family, then career
Male 🙄@@gohan12991
@@gohan12991same for men
Why@@gohan12991
Boys and Girls both have their own issues to handle, rather than comparing gender burdens, we should understand each other to not make the other gender uncomfortable.
🎉More sensible comment than this video
Chalo koi toh sensible hai...
2000 mei socha tha ab tak flying cars hongi..2023 khatm hone ko hai aur ab tak gender war khatm nhi ho pa rha
how is this video attacking women? it's just telling the issues of being women, WTF
Be more open minded
@@peak_911 who is attacking women here?
I agree fully. It's time we stop fighting amongst ourselves. 🤦♀️
I actually noticed something really concerning...
I have to budget my stationary expenses so when it was my fresher party I decided not to go there. But everyone was so excited and urging me to go there even my own brother. I said yes. We had to wear saree so I bought one, there was little time so I even bought a readymade blouse.... Damn the cost was concerning. It doesn't end there actually my brother took it to doing the borders of saree idk what it's called them I had to buy make up and jewellery and other stuff plus the salon cost... I swear I have never spent so much money in one go. I literally still feel guilty over that. It actually makes me feel like a burden on my family whenever I feel like dressing up nicely femininely to feel better because it just costs too much. And as always the society and even my loved ones never forget to show that my needs and wants are too much that it would be better if I was born a boy or it I wasn't even born. So in the end what happens is I get silent and keep all my desires to myself and make sure that my needs and wants look as insignificant as it can. That is what I have been doing all my life to make sure I don't get any attention from my family... It's hard yeah but all I can think about is taking action so the burden can be off their shoulders, trying to be independent without knowing which direction to go. I don't want to talk about this but I want to let it off my heart as well. Just 2 years ago I tried to suicide because my grades were falling and I had no direction of future plus my family expectations. Good thing I was a coward to actually try to end myself 😂.
Lol 🤣, Don't lose hope everything will be ok.
Indians have been repeatedly destroying my life since school days to now, snatching away each job I managed to get. Blocked my employment. Tarnished my reputation. Did black tantra. Forced me to suicide's door uncountable times. Each time, I told myself it's their choice, not mine. 12+ years now without income, bad health....is not a joke. #ShameOnIndianCulture Today, I wish that every Indian gets back billions of times the wrongs they have done to us and continue to do, and may your livelihoods be snatched away from you. May it happen soon. To each Indian, thank you for converting me into this (remember, I could not curse anyone even a few years ago despite your coaxing). #repeatedTrauma #PTSD #Trauma #intensepain
even as a guy I avoid parties and functions for this same reason. + stopped listening to people and their judgements jo kehna hai kaho. jo bolna hai bolo. I've a life and I can live it in one kurta pant and chappal with some job.
@@khaidempsWhat's so funny🤨 I didn't notice any joke in her comment.
Search for tradtional cloth rental services
1)Nowadays industries forced this rule - Women can't wear same clothes twice in wedding & parties. As a result lots of clothes go waste with 1 time use.
2) Many healthcare products like hygiene cleaning are actually gimmicks ,simple soap cleaning is enough. But market brainwashes women & men it's believe it's truly necessary.
3) Waxing in today's generation almost became mandatory for women. It is huge extra expenditure.
Society forces women to do makeup & spend money & time . Then men also mock us through jokes on taking time to get ready.
4)Also fact ,many times clothes quality is cheaper for women than mens at same price.
As a boy
I understood 3 things which are important for Girls
1. Her Lifestyle
2. Her Appearance
3. Her Safety and security
In my opinion these are necessary for Every Girl.
@@user-wz7mh2qk1z
But I will be a Man and Husband 💀
I understand what you are saying
Thank you
@@user-wz7mh2qk1z
If I will be a Husband in future
then I will just want my wife to good looking not Extreme Pretty or Disney Princess type 😂😂🤣💀
Women and men both suffer. People just seem to make everything too exaggerated and dramatic. This video is an unfiltered and wise one…
Being a woman, I confirm that there are many things which we have to go through! There are certain uneducated, ill mannered people here in the comment section, bickering absolute nonsense.
No one is avoiding the fact that men too, suffer.
It’s just that some men have the audacity to generalise women and speak ill about them.
Society won’t benefit until and unless people become practical.
Respect men and women both.
fr, men won’t know the struggles of going through periods/pregnancy and not being able to go out alone at night, facing harassment and even possible rape etc.
so they should not demean us.
More important is finding solutions. We all know very well that be it skin care dressing or anything there is quite diverse list for women .
Also winters are coming
I have seen that usually womens winter clothes are usually thinner as compared to men and are of higher price too.
For eg bodywarmer of men is thicker and gives more warmth as compared to women ones which are expensive and less warm .
Usually still in my family and most of the family the father only is the bread earner.
So he understands that it's too tough to get good quality clothes at the same price as of men .
@@gm.8805 Exactly!
Moreover, speaking about what women face; we’re definitely not saying that men don’t suffer! It’s just that at the moment, we’re highlighting the problems we face. The video speaks about us, therefore we do have the right to comment… I don’t find anything wrong in that!
@@Mahmood786 Agreed!
Solutions are what we need. This dirty market trick is actually very unethical and wrong.
@@gm.8805ladkiyon ko sex me maza bhi aata hain natural chizon me compare karte ho tum,
Aise to harmon ke karan ham bhi गंजे hote hai aur tum ni hoge (agar tum care karo to but hamara lgbhag fix hain)
Hamare pass bhi 🍒 hain jahan pad gaya to samjho 100 bachhe paida karne ke barabar dard hoga
Aur hame regret feel hota hai kis chiz par ye tum ni jaante
Hame nightfall bhi ho sakta hain saal ke 365 din kabhi bhi nind se uthne ke baad
Plus hamare sperm zindgi bhar bante hai jo shrir ko khokhla karte jaata hain ye sab hain natural chiz
Of all the things discussed, menstrual cost is the important one. Pink tax is just marketing, so buy the boys product.
Women clothes cost more because they also have much more variety and choices. There is also a campaign running to normalise women without makeup. Makeup shouldn't have be the norm but you have to understand that women are the biggest critic of women. I see how pretty women act around not so pretty women.
Menstrual cups are a one time investment though. But women are afraid of using them before marriage.
@@berzerius I uhh bought one could not figure out where to insert it
@@k.999 it goes completely inside the vagina. The cup fits the conical shape of the cervix.
thats not the only case, while I also agree most girls in india would suffer through that. The most cases I have heard as product designer is an uneasiness and discomfort in using it. Every woman's is different and what can and can't go in should be left to them to assess. @@berzerius
For me if a girl look beautiful without make up she is always going to look better with makeup. And i think if u have already commit to a partner, a girl can actually show her non makeup side to him and a guy can actually accept the girl for who she is. It makes relationship great for long term and u don't have to fake anything to anyone. Besides maybe in function having little makeup should be norm.
A more apt title will be “Biggest problems FOR Indian women “. Kudos to you addressing them all as a man 🫡. The unpaid housework is a reality and a thankless job 😢. Hormonal problems that come with age is cherry on top.
The real problem is this -
Privileged women are taking advantage of the benefits that are designed to benefit unprivileged women.
For example?
I agree . Most of the alimony are for unprivileged women but privileged women use to maintain their luxury life . Fake rape cases , fake dowry cases , fake glamour ,fake confidence. Everything is fake by these women and in any era women are an enemy of the other women.
What about the sexual harrasment and abuse faced by women. I think every woman have atleast one story of sexual exploitation or persecution
fr, almost every women i know has faced some sort of sexual assault
@@shreya7181exactly
@@shreya7181I know it and as guy I feel sad for women but I try not to be a creep and make sure women around me feel safe and comfortable
@@aayushtiwari3272 Keep it up, gentleman
@@aayushtiwari3272 bare minimum.
Brother before marriage: greatness of India
Brother after marriage: Stree ka Karcha
Aurat ek ganda shabd hai. Uska arth dekhna Urdu aur Arabic mein.
@@NailsByAsh813 Majak kr rha tha yrr
Lo change kr deta hu
@@Njshekhawat333 Okeydokey.
@@NailsByAsh813aurat means women in urdu
@@Sukuna609 There are other meanings too.
Brother , please keep up the good work... never stop to expose dark sides of the modern society.
As a girl... I really really really don't like pink color... I really hate it... Black is the favorite color of mine🖤
Hi
You are just being a pick me nothing else 🤡
I colour my own hair, do my facial. When Im out for the day, I just apply lipstick big earing and bangles. Exact jobs are offered to men and women but most women will opt for less physical work which pays less. One has to live within their means, simple.
Physical work what?? Do you think men do little extra hardwork for a movie nope. But still women's pay is just 10% of what men's are paid. Dou u think a IT job requires physical work, where there are also women who are paid reluctantly less.
More Physical work is just a excuse dude
But he didn't tell that the cost of these are covered by parents(before marriage) and her husband (after marriage).is he trying to get please women by making this video😅😅😅
Uski wife maregi agar kuch aisa bolta😂
At most times parents don't spend money on girls grooming only at the time of marriage they say to groom well so she looks more pleasant for men. After marriage girls don't concentrate on looks so she gets aged fast or gain weight. Both her parents and husband don't care how she looks it all to herself
Are there no independent women?
Ya tumhare khandaan mai saari gawar auratein hai!
Somewhat 😂
Itna sach mat bola karo be...
It is misconception that guy with govt job only asks dowry😅😅, my sister(works in mnc) gets a marriage proposal and guy is in private job earning 10lpa in Bangalore, they ask 10 lacs minimum dowry in cash + gold bcz according to them it is his annual package so atleast we should pay that much to them. His parents rejected my sis bcz my father said he cannot give that much dowry 🙂
Are yaar 10 lakh wale ko chodo. Mere lie 4 lakh wale ka rista aya tha. Pehle without dowry k lie raji the fir nakhre suru hogae. Ek hi to ladki he usko nehi doge to kisko doge bla bla. And irony is I earn double the salary. Everyone wants dowry in marriage but they will never accept in social media 😂😂
10 lpa is like minimum or average...otherwise shadi hogi hi nahi.
marriage h ya flat ka security money
लेकिन आपको भी amir hi ladka chahiye 😅😅@@friendshiprocks8673
Even in paid washroom in Govt hospital Hyderabad..women are charged double than men. Ridiculous! You can't do anything about it !! That's india for a woman.
It is simple agr paise nhi hai tho mt kro ye sab no one is forcing them to buy a 6 lakh lengha or 20000 worth of innerwear.....they do it bcz they like it.
Beauty care products are not a necessity they are a luxury if you don't have money then don't buy, simple
Ladko ko bhi to fasana hai😂😂😂😂
@@mr.yamrajpatalwale5882ladke products kitne mehenge hain uspe dhyan ni dete ..wo toh females hi ek dusre ko nicha dikhane k lia karti hain..
Boys ko ghwnta pata konsa kitna price😂😂.. tumhe pata hai toh batana jara😅
@@mr.yamrajpatalwale5882han tumhe to pata hi hoga. Tumhare ghar me sab yehi jo karte ha
@@vp-lv6yk tumhara breakup hua hai na sach batana ya fir failed relationship😅
@@cryptoboi9584 when u have no answer then start doing personal attacks and try to manipulate the argument. Typical incel Behavior
Bhai achrya prasant published a video titled "hindu ladki gayeb". He showed through census that 3-4 crore girls were killed as per last census. What u think about that?
Such a rational analysis on such a topic , kudos to you ❤️
The saddest fact is we have to pay tax on pads and tampons which should actually be affordable for each and every woman.
It's a product. Obviously there would be tax on it. Most men pay income tax compared to women.
@@gohan12991 tampons and pads are needs , not wants, thats the difference, its a necessity, not a luxury product. every women irrespective of their income class will require it from 12 y o to almost 50 y o.
@@QwertyQwerty-eq7th same goes for trains, buses, roads. Those are also needs. Every day men go to work because there are these things available.
Finally someone spoke about the cost of being a woman!!!
its not an problem , just dont spend money
Ham ladko ko jayada khana khana padta hain😅😅😅
Woman feel insecurity seeing another woman in every aspect..
Whenever aunty attends marriage,they talked about fairness, jwellery,etc etc but on the other hand uncle's "kya farak padta hein ”
Life is tough but only for those indian women/girls who aim of becoming something in their lives. Otherwise in most cases, all these expenses are paid by either Father or Husband.
and u think that just because they dont earn so they dont have to think about financial condition of their family as well? Bruh! they still have to run their house and manage the expences in Whatever their husbands are earning. They aren't free from financial burden.
On one hand ppl curse women for prioritizing their career, telling her the greatness of house wives who are selfless and as soon as they find it convenient they start insulting house wives as well. There is no way to win
@@vp-lv6yk first of all thanks for putting your point in a polite way.
yes, i do accept your point but i made that point mainly for unmarried ones and a bit for the married ones to highlight the fact that those expenses in most cases have to be paid by a man !
i did not mention husband to portray that housewives don't have financial burden.😅
lastly, i wanted to highlight the fact that very few unmarried women have the extreme pressure of becoming successful and taking financial responsibility of their family.
@@apputhe but they also have pressure to get married especially in rural side
Working women need to manage both house and work responsibilities. So in this case eventhough women are taking care of financial responsibility somewhat but very few men help in house chores.
@@apputhe even unmarried women have to think about finances. Not everyone comes from Rich families with unlimited money. And women who earn are far More likely to spend on their family as compared to men while they are less likely to take help from parents. U can search the data as well
Thats why every women should try to stand on her own feet and enjoy an independent life 😊
First of all, it is not some "pink tax"/"gender tax" planned against girls. Men and Women perceive themselves differently. Men think their value is measured in the materialistic possessions, on the other hand women think their value is measured in their beauty and looks. Both of these cases are true, therefore we can see women spending more on clothing/makeup/beauty products and services whereas men spend on bikes, cars, tech gadgets and many more. The examples shown in video that are expensive for women, are perceived valuable by woman.
An example - I spend way less on clothes and zero on makeup/beauty products but I've spend a lot on gaming, my bike etc. But my girlfriend spends mostly on clothing. So it is more easy to sell expensive clothes to her but not me, and more expensive games, bike equipment to me than her.
True brother. Are you in marketing? 😛
Btw, its not just makeup products.
- Biological need: Menstrual products.
- Skincare (not just beauty products) We age faster so anti aging creams/serums. Just soap wouldn't work.
- Basic clothing: Women come in diff shapes and sizes. Some are curvy, some are not. Tons of options for tops and innerwear, activewear. Its not easy. Its why we take longer to shop 😅
- Tons of accessories to go with it.
- Social pressure to look good. Like you said, makeup.
This man is talking about issues that really need to be discussed more. Loved his contents
But ek aur baat bhi toh note karna banta hai ki ladkiyon ke liye job karna professional hona mandatory nahi hai especially india mein woh unka choice hai. Agar woh chahe toh housewife banke bhi aish kar sakti hai but househusband jaisa kuch nahi hota toh gender pay gap ka reason yeh bhi hai ki ladkiyan utna struggle aur focus nahi karte apne skills ko upgrade nahi karte kyu ki unko need hi nahi hai . But ladko ko pura family chalana hota hai .
Toh boys ko b housewife ka option bnd kr dena chahiye girls ke liye.... Or velle husband ghar pr bethe dekhe h pr ghar ke kam krte nhi dekhe.. 😂 ulta drink kr ke tamasha krte h....
Kya bola ....housewife hona aish karna hota h😮😮😮😮 waah bhai teri soch... Humari mummiyan to bohot mehnat karti h... Tum alag grah me ho sayad
@@ManishaSahu krti h mehnat pr appreciate krne wale km h....q ki us kaam ke pese nhi milte... Or male society me jis kam ke pese milte h use kaam mana jata h baki aram.
@@ac9158 the way he said,,, housewife karna aish he ... Its really a sick mentality. I don't know, even he ever saw his Mom or Sis or Aunt to work hard for the family. Yes i agree, Men & Women both working really hard but catagorizing Housing work as "Aish" is offendable
@@ManishaSahuin middle class families, housewives have to work very hard but it's not the same case in rich families.
I literally feel like shopping from the men's section cuz it's comfy and less expensive.
Thank you for making this video. Hope the nation wakes up and makes the necessary changes.
इसीलिए मैं लड़कों के सेक्शन से टीशर्ट और पजामा खरीद लेती हूं। वो ज्यादा कंफर्टेबल भी होते हैं और सस्ते भी।
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Sahi Baath hai muje lagta hai ladkiyo ko awaz utani chaiye
Only Chad women I found in the comment section 🫵🗿
What can we normal people do to stop this inequality?
👏👏👏👏kudos for speaking about the most important irony in Indian society!✨🙌
His opinions are pretty biased. In IT companies I have often heard bosses saying, "For girls take easy interview and hire". At work, they get easier tasks. At 6pm boss comes to the girls' desk and says, " It is unsafe, you should leave by 6:30". To boys the same boss says at 9:30 pm, "Do not leave without finishing the task. It is critical, high priority shit". Salary, girls get equal to boys. Promotion, girls get quicker than boys. At the time of marriage, girls' parents say, the boy should earn 4 times more than their girl. And people, especially bosses give logic like girls have to take care of household too, they need to cook food too. But in reality, girls say I too earn, I too get tired, lets order from swiggy and have a permanent cook. The only thing they do more is to take care of kids and that they do not because they are forced by society but because they have strong maternal instincts and really enjoy taking care of kids.
Finally someone said it...I started buying t-shirts from gents section when I was in college bcz I realised that they have better material and a better price plus they r better designed as well eg. the sleeves of our t-shirts are made comparatively short and then these company sell normal sleeves t-shirts as another style....😅
Please also do a part 2 on this topic. There are still more things to be covered.
There we are also experiencing the torture on men and on its family members by their wives. But due to non availability of appropriate laws, in India , men are helplessly remaining silent or doing suicide.
Pankha mere se roz keheta hai: “kitne din mera hawah khaiga, labhi latak bhi jaa”
YOU SHOULD ALSO TALK ABOUT PREETY PRIVILAGE A ATTRACTIVE WOMEN GET ( HOW SOCEITY TREAT A NORMAL AND SO CALLED ATTRACTIVE DIFFERENTALY )
Late to comment: I relate with the ladies commenting here. Now makeup, parlours have become an integral part even in the villages. I don't own make up or don't care how I look, so I am not considered faminine. Relatives would comment. However, I have been outside India for 6 years now, and people don't care about makeup much where I live. Videos like these are really important to change these trends and focus on what really matters. So thank you.
Meanwhile me striving on my brother's t-shirts & hoodies 😅😂
In my childhood, my parents also used to make me wear my sister’s clothes, the clothes that no longer fit my sister 😂😅
Dude got married and made a video on cost of being a woman☠
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Galti ladki ki hi hai...
Learn from kalpna chawla marry kom and Atishi...
Being Women is beyond its body....
Listen to acharya prashant.
Bhai agar makeup na karei aur parlor mei jakey baal straight na karaye 😢 toh society hum jaisi ladkiyon ko bhenji bhenji keh kar chidhati hai 😢
true bilkul
@@thapliyal_p2003 aapke ghar waale behen ji ki shaadi kisi achhe ghar me krwa dengey ye prefer nhi hai ??
Ya fir khud se partner dhoondhna hai jo bs aapke exterior appearance jo ki aapka real bhi nahi hai maintained krna pdta hai original se alag
Usko prefer krengey?? lol
@@AanduPaandu69 kehna aasan hai apke liye
Friend circle mei ladkiya taang kheechti hai taunt maarti hai just because mein insta mei 10-12 post nhi daalti mota makeup karke unn ladkiyon ki tarah
Anyways I don't do makeup
Duniya chahe kuch bhi kahe
@@thapliyal_p2003exactly
Ohhh my goodness as a women , this vid is so close to my heart. I used to always wonder when I was a teen on why our skirts, shirts or even tops were so expensive while in the men section it was much cheaper even though more cloth was reqired to make it. Even our skincare products and stuff were 3x the price .Your video perfectlyy(!!) displays how I feel bout all of this.Thank you!!
Everything woman do is problematic I understand but what about men spending thousands on online games? Is it profitable? Also, liquor and cigarettes consumption is mainly done by men, can you please make a video on that?
Men usually spend (waste actually) their own money on that most of the time. For women, the excess expenditure is bared by her family usually especially up to age 18. That is the main difference. However men are 100% not justified in over spending in all these bad habits and shouldn't waste their money on stuff like this
Being women and class 1 job professional ,there is a huge difference in mindset of people who come to us that women can't handle some jobs only and they talk down to us compared to men,they think that we can't talk back or etc ,its fact that we have face soany challenges in life for being women and is she is not fits into beauty
Why are we treating this as an issue? We are in 21st century and women are as competent and even more competent than men in terms of talent and all. They can earn even more than man. So do earn more and spend the same. We should believe in equality of opportunity and consequence. And if someone gives the narrative that women have more struggle then even men have struggle in their own aspect. But the only difference is that we men don't crib about the same. We put our head down and work for the same. So if you really want equality then please work for it rather than cribbing on the same.
By that logic we do not even need any government, laws, ngo's etc sab khud apna samajh lo. Social issues to kuch hota hi nahi ha. Chutiya incel 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Are you even serious? Are you even speaking for rest of the men in the world? "Not talking about problems? " . I don't even know how to address your thoughts.
@@ryuchic462 do you doubt about the capability of modern day Indian women by any chance ? I hope not. May be you aren't through with my thought process.
@@theawesomedas I'm not even talking about Indian women. I'm talking about you. Why do you think that not talking about your problems is a manly thing? Because I can assure you men talk about their problems are try to find solutions. If you don't talk about issues then that is extremely unhealthy. Please help yourself.
@@ryuchic462 why is masculinity being promoted as toxic in society? I don't treat feminism as toxic in any space otherwise I would be cancelled.
This is what Acharya Prashant has been telling since last 4 yrs but still nobody seems to understand
Bro when we talk about wage gap we have to consider the work efficiency too the amount of efforts women put in office work they wont do over-night shifts which would be handled by some men in the office and they dont even improve themselves as much as men does
They aren't allowed to do night shifts by their bosses because of saftey
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 bro these days it's not necessary to work at office overnight they work from home too and I'm talking about overnights not night shifts.
@@naraharikommi8128 well I work in manufacturing sector. And they clearly don't allow us to work overnight and handle certain jobs. Idk about IT sector.
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 It sector is something where women mostly work in these days but the way they work is so lame
He clearly mentioned "for same job, same amount of work". U are talking about specific cases. He is not comparing cases where women do not work extra hrs etc. Plus they have to do domestic work as well so at the end they are anyways doing more.
And what makes u assume that they do not improve themselves? This mentality is exact reason for pay gap
Thanks a lot for making a video on this topic! Not many people have discussed this topic on TH-cam. Appreciate it!
This economic burden is more for divorced and widow women they are more vulnerable in society.
But now they live peaceful life. They preach in social media about their single life how they are enjoying and don't want to get married😮
@@cryptoboi9584one woman got widowed near me, personally knew the husband, cheerful guy.
Society comes like a vulture on them, I have seen it personally.
@@cryptoboi9584 example?
@@vp-lv6yk see in youtube their interviews. Especially actressess🙄.
@@cryptoboi9584 actresses come from privileged background and have supportive ppl arround them so Obviously they wont face any social issue which normally women face in our society. They wont be treated like shit by their family, co workers and friends. They can afford to surround themselves with healthy ppl
thanks for addressing women's increasing health issues 😢 need to take care of women's more 😮.. also womens work in house 5hrs extra . Which is UNPAID work 😢😢
To wo to tumhari waise bhi zimmedari hoti hai. Working outside is your choice. That doesn't mean you'll ignore the work inside the house
@@gohan12991 same to you ...
@@dailyitmforecast 🫡glad you understood. Ladkiya bahar kaam kare to ghar bhi sambhaale. Warna jitna Paisa kama Rahi ho usse maid hire karo
@@gohan12991 ladke ne bhi gharkam sikhne chaiye .. ladke ne roj khana banana apna clothes house clean karna chaiye .. ladkipr kam ka bojh Dene se better he khud kare... Qki ladki ko monthly pain hota he pet me so she need rest .. boys don't have any condition like that so boys can work at home more than girls .. also in pregnancy girls need full bedrest for 6 month atleast so it's very necessary that boys should learn cooking and take care of girls ..
@@dailyitmforecast ehh, pain sirf 2-3 dino ke liye hota hai. Utne me to maid bhi hire kar skti hai ladki. Ladko ko ye sab cheeje aati hai lekin shaadi ke baad biwi ki zimmedari ban jaati hai. Pregnancy ke time to gharwaale rahenge, bohot ladkiya apne maike chali jaati hai 3-4 mahino ke liye. Nahi to maike waalo ko naye Ghar bulati hai. Husband ko kuch kaam nahi
The victim mindset is insane.
Correct ✅
In USA yes not in India
Bhai tu India mei rehta hai , California mei nhi 😂
u haven't even seen the video. The hateful mentality is insane
@@k.999aisa nahi hae, yaha India me bhi to alag tarah ka victim level chalta hae
This man earned my respect
Ladkiyon ko leke toxicity failna ek buisness ban gaya hai Aaj kal, jo kabhi fail nahi hoga 😂😂😂
I understand most of your points but the gender pay gap is simply a myth. A man can work more hour for the same job whereas mostly women don't do that. A man will be available to work outside of his comfort zone to satisfy company need. Whereas woman mostly try to find jobs near their city or comfort zone. If hiring women can save more money to a company, they wouldn't have bother hiring man. I mean I won't miss any cheap labour if i had a business.
In japan like almost all asian countries there is huge compition among universities to hire best students. Still, one of the biggest university in tokyo was caught fabrication marks of female students because they dint wanted girls in their university no matter how good they score.
Its about mentality and stereotype where its presumed that irrespective of qualifications, experience and good work. If she is a girl, she can't be doing better Hince do npt deserve the salary
Plus even women harshly judge themselves. Women are More likely to feel unqualified or not good enough as compared to men. Which means they are less likely to argue about their salary despite of bringing same or even more good outcomes
It is acceptable in certain job but what about teachers, professor and doctors do you think your male professor work extra hard than your female professor
Women do lot of unpaid work at home.
Bro forgot to add that this all expenses are covered by Man 💀
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Dear women, don't make the mistake of trying to relate or commenting on this video as this thread is full of misogynists.
Nope. Not. But sensible comments.
cope
Just a point here from the company's perspective, most of the product apart from undergarments. The products that are for men/boys is mostly unisex even if a girl wears it, it is fine. But if a guy wears a pink shoe which is specifically targetted for woman, you should see how everyone will make fun of the guy.
Basically what i want to say is Mens product mostly are unisex products especially for garments, whereas womans product are only womans product which leads to lesser volumes.
Ye jo aapne batein kahi vo High Class society ki women ki hai... being a middle class woman I m agree with only menstruation expenses per month, aur vo b koi itna kharcha nhi hai...pad kafi saste aur achhe mil jate hai..koi high end brand ki jarurat nhi hai...aur ye jo baki sb bola make-up, beauty parlour...vo sari ladkiyan daily basis pr nhi krti, mai to guarantee ke sath keh skti hun k Jo vo kharcha kr rahi hai vo already usse jyada kama rhi hoti hai ya kisi or pr dependent hoti hogi.. ya to aese profession mai hoti hai...baki koi sadharan Parivar ki ladkiya jarurat ka kama rhi hoti hai..apne khrche khud utha rhi ho vo koi parlour mai ye manicure pedicure nhi karvati..vo sb occasionally hota hai... mujhe yad hai meri best friend ne khud shadi mai b koi manicure pedicure nhi krvaya tha...darsal aapko in sab baato ko darkinar krne ka koi solution dena chahiye tha...na ki society ka pressure dikhana ki.. ladkiyo ko khubsurat dikhna ye society ko achha lagta hai 🙄.. aur ye kpde aapne high end brand k dikhaye... yakeen maniye India ki aadhe se jyada ladkiya wakef b na hogi aesi brand se.
Hamare ghar main bhi, Didi- mummy itna to koi kharcha nahi karta 😂😂😂
@@akashsahu3098 vhi to...koi nhi krta...
Women ki problem pe video bana deta hu one side dikha kar😂 bahot views aur cmnt ayega🤡🤡
Women will cry for feminism but never protest against companies like Lakme or L'Oreal.
This is all whiteknightism. The analysis was too shallow and lacked depth. There is no such thing as wage gap, if it was true then all the companies would be filled with women. It is simply because wage depends on How your results affect your company and in general men do work more efficiently and take up more difficult tasks in any company. I have seen many many blatant discrimintation towards male candidates in hiring proces just because the company wants to fulfill their gender ratios. Heck even in my team with merely 70% of my qualification, one of my female team member got the job. She did not even know what is a compiler and yet she is a Java developer with a package of 7.5lacs. Also, companies inherently know about female psychology that they are conformists meaning they follow what other woman follow and on top of that it is easier to manipulate women to make them buy their company products. Women go out of their way to choose certain colors which are rarer and expensive. And the most common color among men's apparel is grey which is very cheap to produce from nature. If women take responsibility of their purchasing decisions without giving into their primal instincts then I think most women can leverage their financials for a quality life. Also, women don't care and are afraid of investing in stocks, bonds, metals etc. If you just save money throughout lifetime then obviously you gonna depreciate your money. Buy atleat gold every year and that too 24 carat gold biscuit so that after 10years of compounding you will have 250% value of your present gold. I am not hating here, I am just stating the facts, Our society has become so gynocentric that it actively finds ways to remove personal responsibility from women.
This is a really good and amazing video.
Stay MGTOW, Stay Happy 😎
No Wife = Happy Life.
Par bhai mere jo 20₹ rupay ka property hai, usko mere marne ke baad kisko saup ke jaunga? 😭😭
@@NativeVsColonial us ₹20 ka property + har month bheek maangke, toilet clean karke, drainage saaf karke ya fir kaise bhi karke apni wife ko har monthly maintenance bhi toh dena hai. Aur saath hi saath baccha bhi biwi ke jayega 👏👏👏. us bacche ko milne ke liye bhi permission mangna padega wife se 👏👏👏
Kitna mast zindagi hai na bhai 💪💪💪😃😃💩💩💩
In a nutshell women's life are more difficult & painful
Waiting for your "Biggest PROBLEM with Indian Men" video now.
Remind me of the quote which says
"Men want to be heard and women want to be seen that's why men seek for POWER and women seek for Beauty"
Very well laid out facts. More power to you!👏
Thats the genuine reason why women "have" to marry someone with a higher salary!
beauty industry really capitalises off from women’s insecurities, and supports hyper consumption and fast fashion. fast fashion is known to be bad for the environment.
Women should understand
Why she's body centric this is all about attention .
Sb esi nhi hoti but mostly hain .
Or ye sbme apni life ka sbse jyda time barbad kr deti Hain bs sundr dikhne k liye or yhi knowledge ki baato pr aaye bht saari girls nhi pta hota k India me ya overall women or men ki education , mindset
Ka data kya khta hai overall .
Sbse jyda time apni body ko attractive hone me lgta hai jiska relation knowledge k matter me hai hi nhi .
And ye sb k lady ghr pr rh kr work krti hai pregent hone k bd ghr hi hr jati hai ye sb serial or movies se bhi influence ho jaate hain k isse pyr milta hai knowledge, wisdom gyi tel lene .
That's why we don't need literate we need educated men and women , girl and boy who can identify all matter .
And society ne hi sikhaya hai k sundr dikhogi to dulha bhi sundr milega or boy ka hai k job achchi hogi to sundr ldhki milegi hr kisi ka work decide kr diya jese ye earth pr isliye hi aayi hain or male jo sirf sundr ko sundrta tk hi rkhte hain knowledge k naam k kuchh nhi smjhte ye myths hain k male ko attractive sundr ldhki krti vo bs sexually attractive lgti hai unhe affect hamesha educated girl se pdhta hai . Vo ya unse dur ho jayege ya paas pr wisdom k base pr .
Choice is yours understand economy understand yourself first that should girls wear fake beauty.
Males also have a duty to tell them about wisdom.
Industrial revolution in last 50 years has came in our life to fool us , to be body centric so they can earn mony .
the dowry cases u have mentioned..how many of them are real and how many of them are fake? bcz any women can go the police station and file complaint without proof..and about wage gap..what sector they are working in? what is the percentage of men and women in each sector? what are their positions in the sector? what defines "unpaid labor" ?
dowry is wayyyyyy more common than you think it is. think about how many dowry cases have gone unreported. thats certainly a lot more than the 'fake' reported cases. unpaid labor is when you work and arent paid for it. internship is one form of unpaid labor. women are expected to do household chores but they arwnt paid for it. if they decide to hire a maid, they have to pay her for doing the same work as a housewife, but a housewife isnt paid.
@@swarali1365 thats the problem..by just the word of women saying he took dowry..dowry cases are filed..and what are women expecting? Lakhs of salary, well settled, own house, handsome..are these normal? Why don't you criminalize these? Aren't these wayyyy more common? And talking about unpaid labor..men also dedicate their time and buy their wives jewelry, sarees take them outside..what about these..will they do the same for their maids? Marriage is about sharing responsibility..if one earns and other decides to take care of house hold ..it's their choice..I am more than happy if I were to get married and given the responsibility of taking house hold work..
Many govt schemes offer extra benefits for women - high interest in FD, post office schemes, endowment plans ..etc. It is only natural that women/parents have more money to spend and hence the high prices.
Great Topic. Nicely analyzed and presented.
0-21 sal tak papa ye pink tax pay karte he aur 21 ke bad husband/boyfriend pay karta hai bro, ye 99% women ka hal he desh me