9 Interior Design Mistakes That I Can't Stand! | Small Artwork, Faux Olive Trees, Unlit Candles

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  • @KivaBrent
    @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +21

    What’s your BIGGEST interior design pet peeve? ⬇️

    • @shylo-jean
      @shylo-jean ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Too much clutter that gives me anxiety amd can't relax. Not hoarder level, but something in every flat surface, in every room. ick

    • @futoijosei
      @futoijosei ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@shylo-jean I see where you're coming from. I used to clean houses for people and I get anxiety thinking about how hard some rooms are to clean.

    • @quicheitsimple
      @quicheitsimple ปีที่แล้ว +14

      A $3000 TV with mounted over the fireplace. That's a delicate piece of electronics circuit artistry and it's exposed to temps greater than 100 degrees, since heat rises. Only place to put a TV? Guess what? We ain't gonna have no darn TV. 😂

    • @Angie-ci1lp
      @Angie-ci1lp ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Everything MIRRORED AND BLING ! BLING! 😎

    • @gloriat8427
      @gloriat8427 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Clutter and Hanging pictures too high

  • @AMSA.3208
    @AMSA.3208 ปีที่แล้ว +200

    I’m so glad you mentioned unfinished backing on furniture. It amazes me how much something can cost, and the company can’t be bothered to add a backing. It makes it look so cheap even if it costs 3 thousand dollars. It would be like buying a car and getting exposed foam seats to sit on. No one would enjoy or appreciate that.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I totally agree with you, Alana! I can't get down with it.

    • @lovealwaysmom
      @lovealwaysmom ปีที่แล้ว +20

      150% agree the ICK of no backing, or the flimsy backing that isn't finished. I had asked a TH-camr why they didn't paint/stain the backs of their DIY flips. Their response was that most people place their furniture against the wall. No No No. I want it finished so that I can place it anywhere in the room. I also have an issue of the under parts of furniture isn't finished. You're playing around on the floor and you look up. Beautiful side table detailed, yet the underside still has paint from the previous owner, crayon markings etc... you get the point. I want 360 degree beauty. OK rant over.

    • @amberfrazier575
      @amberfrazier575 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😂

    • @laurancurtis5669
      @laurancurtis5669 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lovealwaysmom I totally agree with you! When I redo my own stuff, I do all surfaces so it's good from all angles!

  • @youbetcha108
    @youbetcha108 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    A stainless steel surface is the cleanest surface you can work on. It’s probably the safest choice in terms of cleanliness for a sink. So it’s a design element I’m willing to work around. You can match it up with faucets soap dispensers etc or just ignore it and design around it and know it’s your best choice for cleanliness. Nothing beats it. It’s why restaurants use it for countertops in the kitchen.

    • @EmeraldMara85
      @EmeraldMara85 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @John Meigs But porcelain enamel do get stained easily from tomatoes

    • @firebirdtelevision175
      @firebirdtelevision175 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I dunno, I kind of disagree. I had stainless steel for 25ish years and found it harder to care for than our new granite polymer sink. When you have hard water and stainless steel, the scrubbing causes lots of scratches, leading to more frequent scrubbing. Our current sink cleans much easier with disinfectant and a soft rag. No more hard scrubbing and way prettier.

    • @WomanRoaring
      @WomanRoaring ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@EmeraldMara85 my grams house had a white porcelain enamel sink, it was never stained. we'd use comet to clean it, her house was built in the 60s and we remodeled it after she passed and the sink was still white and stain free in 2010. my mom would dye her hair and use that sink to rinse it all the time, never got stained. we ate a lot of spaghetti and the sauce never stained the sink. you just have to use the right cleaner and don't let tomato sit, rinse that right away.

  • @RochelleLang
    @RochelleLang ปีที่แล้ว +157

    My design ick is wall art hung to darn high. Every time I walk into someone’s home and see artwork hung 6 inches from the ceiling my soul leaves my body!

    • @marynevlida2057
      @marynevlida2057 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!!!!

    • @dsinibaldi1715
      @dsinibaldi1715 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Omg yes! Ick to tiny art and art that’s too high. Art placed with the center at 57 inches from the floor looks so much better.

    • @TrishDigginsDesign
      @TrishDigginsDesign ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely. I don’t know how they can’t see it, either. Sigh.

    • @giselahilgers4250
      @giselahilgers4250 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here! And you see it sooo often!

    • @fineartlifestyling
      @fineartlifestyling ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This goes for wall mounted tvs as well

  • @maxthecat14
    @maxthecat14 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    You are the only person giving decor advice i have seen, that doesn't give patronising advice, or tell us to get rid of our "unfashionable" stuff with new things which invariably look tacky to me. Thank you, I enjoyed your video.

    • @enna4986
      @enna4986 ปีที่แล้ว

      Garrett LeChic on TH-cam.

  • @carolynchristy
    @carolynchristy ปีที่แล้ว +79

    A huge "YES!" to if you are going to spend the money then use the item. Whether it is a candle, rug, or those lovely linens that our mothers said are too nice, just use them and enjoy them. Fires, floods, tornadoes and roommates happen. And 100 years from now they will either be in a thrift store or a landfill. Certainly take care of your belongings. But in the end it's just stuff. Don't love something that can't love you back.

  • @douglasflatley1178
    @douglasflatley1178 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    One of my biggest pet peeves is loose cushions that are not reversible. They've used some cheap fabric on the back instead of fully covering it. I'd gladly pay more to have it fully covered. And it's not just IKEA doing this!

    • @evelyninfurna9171
      @evelyninfurna9171 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Finish the back of the furniture…lol -the cushion thing enrages me too!

    • @cnoelle-1219
      @cnoelle-1219 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Also I hate cushions attached at the top to the back of the sofa so you can never flip the cushion. They are hideous looking and usually cheap!
      At least if it’s not finished on both sides you have the option,though tedious, of unzipping the cover and removing the cushion and flipping it over that way. I have a chair from West Elm (Andes chair) that is only finished on one side and this is my only option if I need to flip the cushion.

  • @RitualoftheHabit
    @RitualoftheHabit ปีที่แล้ว +49

    A good rule of thumb is to view a 6 foot art piece from 6 feet away, a 3 foot piece 3 feet away etc etc… if you have a tiny piece of art it needs to go in an intimate or small space like a bathroom, walk in closet, or nook. Otherwise you’re viewing it from too far away

  • @gailwilliams5278
    @gailwilliams5278 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I saw a literal postage-stamp sized price of art in an apartment in Paris … and it was gorgeous. An actual (but sizable) postage stamp, generously matted and beautifully framed, approximately 14 wide/12 tall as I recall. But it was a small apartment, a small wall, and it invited up-close viewing.

    • @sarahterry2140
      @sarahterry2140 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Thank you - I’ve been to Paris dozens of times and I love that there you find people who choose art for its meaning - not just as part of decoration to match their furniture. I’ve added a comment about my own Paris postage stamp here!

    • @eileen4851
      @eileen4851 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahterry2140 Yes, I get art that speaks to me because I’m the one that has to look at it everyday. A also don’t like huge wall art.

    • @nineteenfortyeight6762
      @nineteenfortyeight6762 ปีที่แล้ว

      The thing is that Paris apartments are tiny. So the postage stamp would be right up in your face, so tiny is perfect. It's about scale for the space.

  • @rox2870
    @rox2870 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    For the olive tree lovers and keepers, just use some acrylic paint for the back of the leaves, it might be time consuming but it will look so much better. Make sure the green color you use for the back of the leaves is not the same as the front so it'll look more natural, check a pic of olive leaves on line so get a good idea of the green you need; mix paints if needed to get the green you want. 😊 Happy Olive tree keeping 🙆😁

    • @adhinaya2354
      @adhinaya2354 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing.

  • @amg9163
    @amg9163 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My biggest pet peeve is when *throw pillows* have a nice design or fabric on the *front* and a plain, or worse, plain *nin-matching* colored fabric on the back. I realize it's a cost cutting measure for the companies that make the pillows, but I will only get pillows that have the same thing on both sides.

  • @anticapitalisthomedesign
    @anticapitalisthomedesign ปีที่แล้ว +53

    YESSSSS 👏 the the art that's awkwardly too small is my arch nemesis as a designer. I can appreciate thoughtful blank space or even an intentionally tiny piece of art on an appropriately sized wall, but most art in most situations is far too small for the context.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally agree!!!

    • @stinehansen191
      @stinehansen191 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is kind of trendy right now 😂😊

    • @merliciamelius8709
      @merliciamelius8709 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree I really hate when art is not to scale😏

    • @sarahterry2140
      @sarahterry2140 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s why I have my art professionally hung by a gallery worker who understands substantial pieces of art and that you don’t want the small ones to get lost on a large wall. It’s definitely worth the money for a few hours of their time and in major cities the top galleries can recommend people who actually know art.

    • @pigeon8311
      @pigeon8311 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@KivaBrent @medora kea Please don't see art just as decoration. Real art worth its money if you like it, just find the right place to put it! Maybe use another frame or use a gallery wall for smaller pieces. But please don't speak of art when it's just a decoration hanging on your wall (maybe just filling a gap) and has nothing meaningfull to you.

  • @joysoul4089
    @joysoul4089 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I remember when I was just starting out, I bought a stereo cabinet (yes we had stereos then 😆) and it had a finished back. Unusual for a stereo cabinet and I loved it. It's tall-ish and square, and because it's well-made, I have repaired and updated it as needed. I still have it 40 years later and I'm using it for my dog's stuff (clothes, food, grooming supplies.) It's so versatile, and yes, it's currently freestanding in the room near a wall.

  • @deesnicecream1402
    @deesnicecream1402 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My biggest pet peeve is a home filled to the nines with every decor style in tiny rooms! Someone I know home is so cluttered with all the beautiful & expensive stuff that you can barely move about without fear of knocking something over. It's never a comfortable visit, and I feel like I've walked into a home goods store and should be shopping there instead! I mean, it just looks like furniture store staging. Complete bedroom sets, living room sets- all the things, every room including the kitchen and bathrooms.

  • @Keyshadarling
    @Keyshadarling ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Please tell us about more icks 😂 because you are hilarious and I know you are so right about absolutely all of it!!

  • @christianjane8401
    @christianjane8401 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Yes the unfinished furniture in the back is an ick for me. Especially when you're paying high prices. I recently bought anew bed frame and I was deciding between Arhaus and Pottery Barn and what pushed me to Arhaus is the headboard of bed is finished in the back and Pottery Barn's was not and the only reason I knew the PB headboard was unfinished was because I saw it in store. There was zero mention on the website! With such an expensive bed you need to give people the option of floating their furniture period.

  • @Steph_Renee_RN
    @Steph_Renee_RN ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Yes, please we need a pillow video from you!!! Love your helpful content and sassy presentation style!!! Keep ‘em coming 👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💗

  • @floralscentkim1380
    @floralscentkim1380 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    I’m at the 7 minute mark in this video and I had to pause to tell you how much I am enjoying it! You are hilarious today and the topic is interesting. Thanks again for another great video…gotta go…on with the show! 🎥 ❤

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're the best! Thank you so much!!

    • @modernvillacompany
      @modernvillacompany ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello my friend . I hope you are fine
      I would be happy if you visit my channel if you are interested in villa interior design

    • @laurancurtis5669
      @laurancurtis5669 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@modernvillacompany Spam much?

    • @modernvillacompany
      @modernvillacompany ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurancurtis5669 no my friend
      I send a limited number of messages daily to attract followers, and these messages are only sent to contacts interested in architectural topics.

    • @modernvillacompany
      @modernvillacompany ปีที่แล้ว

      @@laurancurtis5669 I am not spam

  • @BBFLYRISEN
    @BBFLYRISEN ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣😂🤣😂. The designer I didn’t know I needed. Sis is ALL of that! Can’t wait to work with you on my place. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿❤️💅🏿

  • @ThatPlacefkaNebraskaBugeater
    @ThatPlacefkaNebraskaBugeater ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I so needed to see this video. I'm a recovering 3rd-generation pack-rat who has had a radical mind-set shift; so, I work toward minimalism because now even a little clutter stresses me out. But I was hung up on the throw pillows that I never use that take up way too much space, but I hang on to them for company who like to sit on the floor to watch movies. But the pillows are too hard on the bum, too. They're outa here! Huge victory! Thank you, Kiva.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Yay!!! So happy to hear it!

  • @claremiller9979
    @claremiller9979 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omg i had never even thought about how annoying the unfinished furniture thing is but YES. 100% agree. My desk is L shaped and i actually like having it in the middle of the room so I can put another side table on the side of it (making it almost T shaped i guess) but!!! The back of that L is unfinished and it looks BAD. I need to put some contact paper on it or something. You have inspired me. I'm going to officeworks this weekend and imma fix this eyesore (i can even see the unfinished part in the reflection of the window 🤮)

  • @amandak6986
    @amandak6986 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Oh my gosh I feel you with NOT washing dishes by hand😄 I grew up with a dishwasher but my mom never used it and made my brother and I wash by hand! I always say the best invention ever is the dishwasher 😁

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The best!

    • @robinoconnor553
      @robinoconnor553 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your mom had 2 dishwashers - you and your brother! 😊

    • @amandak6986
      @amandak6986 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @robinoconnor553 lol yes. She was a very messy cook too and would use a million bowls, pans, utensils 😆 It was torture lol

    • @MmeO
      @MmeO ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @amanda k Uggg I feel for you - I loved my mom but she'd start with a pot too small and have to dump things into a bigger one - more pots for her helper - me - to wash!!!! When I grew up, my 8 qt pot became my "go to" for everything - she'd say, "You cook in a cauldron!" She passed last year, I so miss her. Your comment brought the childhood memory back.

    • @modernvillacompany
      @modernvillacompany ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello amanda my friend . I hope you are fine
      I would be happy if you visit my channel if you are interested in villa interior design

  • @TheBaumcm
    @TheBaumcm ปีที่แล้ว +15

    The great thing about interior design is that while there are general proportions and color mixes that most people agree on, it can be an expression of a person’s personal taste, just like clothing. Several of these seem to be of the “not wrong per se but I hate it” variety.

    • @billyjobobb
      @billyjobobb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My hates are”hacks” to make your space look designer. Things like the chop on pillows, drapes hung from the ceiling, and the rug sizing. Among others…

  • @lezlieanne21
    @lezlieanne21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Just enjoy the things that life has to offer" words to live by.

  • @motherofbeagles8532
    @motherofbeagles8532 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Crooked paintings and picture frames! Make me crazy! Stick-Tak is my friend.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You and me both!

  • @ga40d23
    @ga40d23 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Stumbled across you here on YT and subscribed in the first 3 minutes of this video. You're energy is just EVERYTHING! So many great tips.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome!!! Thank you so much :) 💕

  • @buuurrrrppppp221
    @buuurrrrppppp221 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lol seeing the Mona Lisa was one of the most underwhelming experiences of my life 🤣

  • @JillCee
    @JillCee ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I have a senior dog who is starting to have issues. My rug is going to stay a floater so I can clean it easily. Also is a place for my elder pup to have a place where he can grip his feet to stand up. So my rug does have a friend and is a a good friend back to my pup. So it floats!

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is the best reason ever!

    • @gailwilliams5278
      @gailwilliams5278 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You have your priorities straight!

  • @susanmclare
    @susanmclare ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You’re 100% on with that Mona Lisa observation! That was the first thing that popped into my head when I saw the thumbnail!
    I’ve seen it in person and honestly it gives exactly these vibes- seeing something that feels too small for the space gives a feeling of it being underwhelming. To the extent you almost can enjoy the Mono Lisa more just by looking at a good quality picture online! (IMO you’re not missing anything since IRL there’s a permanent queue so you can’t just stand and look, you’re very aware of the line of people waiting behind you 🥵).
    I spent a long time trying to make different art pieces work and eventually figured out it wasn’t the pieces it was the size. I save my smaller pieces for a gallery wall in a spot where people might be waiting for a minute- like by the doorway- if there was a way to make a small picture on a regular sized wall look good I’m sure I would have found it cos I really tried 😂👌

  • @gigiunderwood3630
    @gigiunderwood3630 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh my gosh! I’m with you on the stiff pillows. I bought some throw pillows from World Market, but I replaced the inserts with feather down inserts. They look higher end and are more comfortable now.

  • @e471992
    @e471992 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Loving the energy in this video 💞 I purchased a real olive tree a month ago...so far so good. I'm hoping it stays alive. 🤞 It's currently budding olives. 🌱

  • @tonya7865
    @tonya7865 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Hey Kiva🙂 I was so excited to see a picture of you being recognized as one of VCF designer experts.❤️

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aw, thank you so much Tonya!! It wouldn't be possible without you :)

  • @ealeclerc9524
    @ealeclerc9524 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So glad I found your channel today. I agree with you on most points. One of my biggest pet peeves is not small art pieces on the wall but small art pieces hung on the wall all by themselves. It looks as if they've accidentally floated into the room and got stuck on the wall.

  • @lisalovett5902
    @lisalovett5902 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much for the information about the faux olive trees. I have been searching online for weeks trying to find one that looks real and has great reviews. Thank you for saving me money and additional time searching for something that's not out there because I'm now done with the search
    Also, the unfinished backings on furniture, I remember when companies only seemed to put those cheap cardboard-like backings on children's chests of drawers. I would call the company to complain when the nails wouldn't hold the backing in place and they would actually send a wood-like replacement. I just never could understand and I still don't understand why it's not only still being done with less expensive pieces but the more expensive pieces as well. Now, when that happens, my husband will cut a piece of wood and attach it to the back of these rip-off pieces. By doing this, it actually makes for a much sturdier piece of furniture. You also don't have to worry about the furniture tipping over as much, either because now it actually has some weight to it.

  • @s.newton5394
    @s.newton5394 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “It’s giving construction paper.” I hollered!

  • @shylo-jean
    @shylo-jean ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My home is definitely not the Louvre, but the lame!! That's why I need Kiva's videos to help me bring out the beauty!

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hahahah

    • @modernvillacompany
      @modernvillacompany ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello shylo my friend . I hope you are fine
      I would be happy if you visit my channel if you are interested in villa interior design

  • @tinaellison3521
    @tinaellison3521 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So many truths! Decor is a minefield! My new sofa came with unforgiving pillows. I would love a video on pillow inserts!

  • @newluhu
    @newluhu ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So glad you mentioned unfinished backing. I went to Ikea, 2 or 3 yrs ago, purchased this piece of furnture and there was no Backing whatsover, i was like 🤔🤔, oh no, i went to home depot to purchased piece of lumber to cover the back and it looks much better. 🤪😊. Tyvm, kiva for the video, EXCELLENT !!!🥰😍

  • @laurancurtis5669
    @laurancurtis5669 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kiva, I am so glad you pointed out that you don't run the dishwasher every day because you are only two people. Two-person household here also, and I refuse to run the dishwasher until it is full! I do hear people say they run theirs every day, even if it's only two... ridiculous to me, waste of water and electricity!

  • @izishillboldon6036
    @izishillboldon6036 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a video! I am enjoying the hell out of this. I feel ya lady. Keep this one in a file for me. I feel the exact same way in life that you are expressing out loud for me. I have always felt this way but did not know if I was right or not. I feel you 100% on ALL that you stated in this video. I am going to watch this a couple of times again and note this video once I find a house that fit my style. Great, great, great job. You are the Queen of Decorating.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow, you agree with everything I said, Izishill?! That is SUCH high praise! I appreciate you!!!!

  • @liasmith696
    @liasmith696 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    16:27 Oprah said something similar years ago~ USE the expensive lotion, perfume or candle that you bought or have been gifted. That struck me and stayed with me. Use it, love it and then treat yourself again some other time to something luxurious!

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Love that!

    • @carolinagirl3110
      @carolinagirl3110 ปีที่แล้ว

      Totally agree….my mom is bad about waiting for a “special day”….every day is special to me - I ain’t saving nothing!

    • @terriroberts8594
      @terriroberts8594 ปีที่แล้ว

      Life is short. Enjoy the luxurious.

  • @brendaalbaugh8927
    @brendaalbaugh8927 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your content! Agree. Grew up in a furniture store and I’m aware of the markups on furniture and lamps. The very least the furniture makers should finish the piece of furniture! So many more options for use thus upping your satisfaction and likely getting your repeat business

  • @barbarahaberman349
    @barbarahaberman349 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    In the 90's we had fake ficus trees. My husband called it a fakus, and I finally replaced it with a live peace lily.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fakus. I love it.

  • @TonyaR213
    @TonyaR213 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Just enjoy the things that life has to offer” ❤️

  • @danitarodriguez5803
    @danitarodriguez5803 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It was the unfinished furniture for me. Like, WHY?! And whyyy surprise me?! Just mention it somewhere! Make it super obvious that the back is cardboard so that people don’t waste their time! Love your videos! Thank you so much for always sharing your tips!

  • @misscharwinter2233
    @misscharwinter2233 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Unfinished furniture..that is why I love antiques. Real wood and finished on all sides.

  • @stephaniebyous-7021
    @stephaniebyous-7021 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    First, I’m a huge fan of you and your designs. Thank you! Next, being 71 years wise, your candle advice compels me to share a design imperative younger stylists may not know about or know its derivation: NEVER display candles without burning the wick first. Credit to We’re You Raised By Wolves for stating the reasons succinctly.

    • @youbetcha108
      @youbetcha108 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why is it bad to put out a candle with a clean wick? What is the derivation? Karma? Like displaying a stopped clock?

    • @sweetmother2406
      @sweetmother2406 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      For me, if decor is going to take up my surface space it has to be functional. An unused candle is not.

    • @Jessica-tz5cl
      @Jessica-tz5cl ปีที่แล้ว

      I make candles, so I have hundreds of them out without being used

    • @annanabil73
      @annanabil73 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's (vaguely) referencing the podcast "Were You Raised By Wolves" April 19, 2021 where they teach you etiquette and lifestyle habits that prevent people from wondering if you were raised by wolves lol.
      _Here's a snippet...._
      *Nick:* So for today's amuse-bouche, I want to talk about displaying candles in your home.
      *Leah:* Mm!
      *Nick:* Specifically, there's a very specific rule about this. And this is one of those rules that if you don't know the rule, it's not gonna bother you or hit your radar, but if you know this rule, it will always bother you. So I want to just let everybody know. So that we're all on the same page.
      *Leah:* So that we can all be bothered. [laughs]
      *Nick:* Right! So the rule is that you can never have fresh candles on display. You always have to blacken the wicks first. So if you buy new candles and you put it in a candelabra and you set it on the side table, you have to light them for, you know, a hot second just to get the wicks black.
      *Leah:* What is the reasoning?
      *Nick:* So Miss Manners explains it as, like, the rule is to, quote, "Indicate that the candles are not being used for show only." Which anytime you kind of have something that's just for show, I guess that's kind of considered bad etiquette. Like guest soap? You know, like the decorative soap in the guest bathroom that you're not allowed to use. I think that's technically considered improper because, like, why are you offering something to guests that they can't actually use? So I think there's that similar idea with the wicks. Also, I was looking deeper into this, though, and there's this etiquette school in Charleston, and they say that when electricity was new, not everyone had it, and only wealthy people could have it. And so if you went to a wealthy person's house, they would blacken the wicks on the candles so you wouldn't necessarily know if they had electricity or not. It was to sort of be more "of the people," and not, like, show off or be ostentatious.
      _They continue giving more reasons and background, you can read the full transcript here:_
      www.wereyouraisedbywolves.com/being-late-for-surprise-parties-sending-provocative-selfies-lighting-candles-and-more/

    • @jauntydamemusic
      @jauntydamemusic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@annanabil73 This was so helpful, thank you!

  • @sharondamongeot1439
    @sharondamongeot1439 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like to know that people still care for refined taste . I go to people's houses and I try not to be snoopy on the decor but I end up leaving thinking about the things I liked snd did not like.
    Hard to find my taste in a house decor , most people just don't care about updating or do not know hiw to mix and match.
    I love to see beautiful deco it makes me happy.

  • @monamohammad6555
    @monamohammad6555 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I got a faux olive and fig tree and love them! I didn’t know it was a popular thing too, I got them because they remind me of my middle east heritage ❤ gonna keep them 😂

  • @the_wanderlust_interiors
    @the_wanderlust_interiors ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My ick is matching furniture and signs like coffee, home etc… 🥲🥲

    • @cnoelle-1219
      @cnoelle-1219 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯‼️
      I’m so glad you said that as I was surprised she did not add those two and I was scrolling down the comments to see if anyone else would mention these. Otherwise, I would add those as my icks. I also hate semi gloss paint on walls. And pretty much everything Kica mentioned.

  • @jeannineterese1037
    @jeannineterese1037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t know why people would have issues with any of your design choices. Your home is beautiful!

  • @cathywilliams7779
    @cathywilliams7779 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Kiva, you never disappoint! You are so hilarious and provide education all at the same time! This is definitely your lane! Praying for you to have a tv show in the near future!🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

  • @misoandramen
    @misoandramen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My biggest ick has to be throw pillows with sewn on pillow covers. Why can’t all pillow covers be removable. I wish places would have the option of selling pillow covers by themselves. I have too many pillows lying around

  • @susanb4317
    @susanb4317 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you! Tense pillows should be illegal along with tiny art on big walls and eternally un burnt candles-all three seem to indicate fear of actually living in the space, right? Pillows are for comfort, art is for looking at and of course candles are for that cozy little flickering flame signifying home and hearth, warmth and safety. Awesome video! Venting vicariously with you is The Best!

  • @whenitsjune
    @whenitsjune ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I actually appreciate my chairs not completely fitting under the dining table because it makes the dining area look more substantial but maybe that’s just me lol

    • @juliehowell8251
      @juliehowell8251 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree...
      I also think chairs slightly pulled away from the table look inviting.
      It also protects my slip covers from getting smudged from hands pulling the chair out to sit.

  • @laurancurtis5669
    @laurancurtis5669 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Furniture makers USED to include a back on things like bookshelves, and they used to finish the backs of bureaus, etc. I have some family pieces that are nicely finished on the backs so they could be floated if I desired. ALL manufacturers have cheapened up, including the "designer" pieces :(

  • @cattuslavandula
    @cattuslavandula ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had a white sink several years ago. It was beautiful. It was also a constant cleaning chore.

  • @firebirdtelevision175
    @firebirdtelevision175 ปีที่แล้ว

    We have a black sink, too. I absolutely love it. I have lived in rural areas most of my life and grew tired of scrubbing hard water stains 2, sometimes 3, times a week. The black sink comes clean with some microban and a soft rag. It's glorious!

  • @peggyanglin9650
    @peggyanglin9650 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Oh Kiva--You are the cutest thing ever!!! I agree with you on everything, except maybe the faux Olive Tree. I love mine but have to say I paid a pretty penny for it so it looks like the real deal. However, don't think I would invest that much in another one. Wish I had a green thumb so I could have real plants, but sadly I kill everything I come into contact with!!!

  • @loriegabidel
    @loriegabidel ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I don't buy super expensive candles because I probably wouldn't burn them. I used to only buy Target/Walmart/Amazon candles, but I did allow myself to upgrade to nice candles from a local small business. They have a better throw and come in gorgeous reusable containers, so the cost probably balances out.

  • @stephanieh5494
    @stephanieh5494 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You just make me smile 😃. $400 candle 🤣🤨😂. All great points, especially furniture with no back or the cardboard. Ugh!

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed!

  • @MollySato
    @MollySato ปีที่แล้ว

    I totally understand what you’re talking about when it comes to uncomfortable cushions and pillows that ”don’t give”! I have old, old down pillows and I try to really, I mean really take good care of them as I don’t have the conscience to buy new ones because they are “harvested” from birds in a gruesome way. 😢(didn’t know or fully understand it before)
    Now I’ve read about recycled down cushions/pillows but, boy they are expensive.. 🙈.. so I have to save some doe before I can get my hands on them.
    The weird thing is that it seems fairly easy to make duvets that feels like real down even when it’s not so why can’t they make cushions the same way??!! 🙈😩

  • @Sari_Ariel
    @Sari_Ariel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the colorful blue, yellow, pink artwork just to the left of you in this video 😍. Can you please share some info about it?

  • @RachelRae
    @RachelRae ปีที่แล้ว +6

    FUN FACT! The Mona Lisa used to be a large piece but it has been stolen so many times by thiefs cutting it right out of the frame that it’s a fraction of the size it used to be. 😊

    • @Lightice1
      @Lightice1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm assuming that this is a joke, but just in case somebody takes it for a fact, it's not. Mona Lisa is painted on a wood slate, not canvas, so it can't be cut out of the frame. It's also only been stolen once in its history.

  • @glenysburgoyne7128
    @glenysburgoyne7128 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Like the comments about not finished furniture and the scale of the lighting for art (I confess, my lighting is too small so now I'm inspired to get the right scale). Really appreciate you, thanks for sharing!

  • @shnuggumz
    @shnuggumz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow, so many relevant nuggets of practical information packed into this video. Can’t believe I didn’t find the channel sooner. Would love to see an episode on styling with plants. There are statement plants, and accent plants. In my opinion, foliage and their requisite pots and containers can serve as pieces of art. They have the power to enhance, or detract from the environment. Fake plants are a no go, and always look tacky in my opinion. If you don’t have a green thumb, another option is to cut branches of trees/bushes in your immediate environment that you love biweekly, and use those instead.

  • @glennpatrick8908
    @glennpatrick8908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100% agree about the tiny art. Even worse is when it’s tiny art and it’s hung too high on the wall. It looks terrible

  • @vivianadeva
    @vivianadeva ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like your videos. In Scandinavia, people are a little more practical though, so you can not find to many large rugs. Because here you should benefit from the use of the rug, not your furniture 😁. We can't find those olive trees either.

  • @tiffanywalker1312
    @tiffanywalker1312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your hilarious. Dashing 2 miles around the table. 😂
    Also side note It boils my blood to see those micro art works.

  • @geniej9093
    @geniej9093 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subscribed as you are right in every aspect of your presentation. Agree! Love you overall vibe as well.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome!! Thank you so much! :)

  • @motherofbeagles8532
    @motherofbeagles8532 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Don't down yourself by saying you are basic and predictable. A sink/countertop/backsplash is an expensive investment that you can't easily change out on a whim. What you have chosen is called: Classic!

  • @dawnross644
    @dawnross644 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My pet peeve…..the olive trees…went to Greece. None here look like the ones in GREECE !! Drives me crazy!!

  • @destinee.26
    @destinee.26 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love your energy! When you were talking about small art pieces it made me think of The Office when Michael was so excited and pleased with his tiny TV 😂😂😂
    Please keep making these videos! They’re great!

  • @madusonkeeper
    @madusonkeeper ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree the back of furniture unfinished is sad!

  • @bluesky7838
    @bluesky7838 ปีที่แล้ว

    The crappy furniture back thing... Exactly!

  • @crazycatlady312
    @crazycatlady312 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    $400 candles?! My max for a candle is $20 smh that's insane.

    • @charitygoldart
      @charitygoldart ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed! Some people have more money than sense (or scents in this case!)

  • @JennaHong
    @JennaHong ปีที่แล้ว +2

    home decor icks LOVE this idea also this is the video i needed because i still can't pick a good faux tree for my apartment 😭 i had so many olive trees in my cart and couldn't do it for some reason

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I bought my Olive tree off Etsy and the quality is far superior than anything else I've seen.

    • @bern8378
      @bern8378 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please share the link with me. Thank you

    • @Alliegator0047
      @Alliegator0047 ปีที่แล้ว

      Link?

  • @mattneillninasmom
    @mattneillninasmom ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Am with you in most of what you say - except, for backless furniture. I LOVE the fact that the bookcase exposes the continuum of the wall color and blends in so nicely with the rest of the decor, rather than plunking itself down like some monolith with its unnecessary backing. Just, sayin'.

  • @spiritualinfluencer3747
    @spiritualinfluencer3747 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks!!! for your honesty about the olive tree

  • @triciafields8551
    @triciafields8551 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do a video on the best down alternatives for pillows!

  • @adriennehill7514
    @adriennehill7514 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh no! Not the faux olive tree! I love mine! I didn’t know $500 candles were a thing! 😳

  • @marthagilmore404
    @marthagilmore404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Frame the rug".....I'm dying!!!

  • @Seal_pup
    @Seal_pup ปีที่แล้ว

    So my fiancé is a carpenter and has his own company with a few employees. He makes high end custom pieces and he always finishes the back unless the client says they don’t want that. But damn, it DOES bring the price up dramatically. If you’re making a solid wood cabinet and want more solid wood on the other side, it will simply cost so much more than just $10 lol. It’s not just material. It’s about labor cost. Shipping weight. Shipment cost for material. Etc.
    My fiancé is a super honest guy, makes a fair profit but not an excessive amount. He always thinks a piece needs to be finished on all sides, but since he’s so transparent with his clients and tells them exactly what will cost them more (and how they can lower that price for themselves if they want) clients will often choose to cut corners and they will choose not to have a back to their furniture. We’re talking high end customers here. And even they want to lower the price. Granted not all of them, but many clients do.
    Large production companies are different but still, these same cost issues arise with the large manufacturers who know their clientele. The clients they have are not high end. They want something cheaper and that’s what they deliver. So I understand the frustration but I would start looking into custom furniture for your specific needs.
    Not my man though lol we’re on a different continent to you 😂 but I know in North America carpenters are all over the place and possibly cheaper so I would really reaaally consider custom work for your home.
    -Ted talk. Thanks.

  • @thatlaserlady3899
    @thatlaserlady3899 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are HALAERIOUS!! I don't even know how I landed on this channel, but I am so glad I did. 🤣🤣

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Welcome!! So happy that you’re here! :)

  • @traceywiseheart6424
    @traceywiseheart6424 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree! Enjoy the things!!

  • @RedPanda79
    @RedPanda79 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Grew up in a house with a room we never ever were allowed to enter. If we walked in our foot prints would be on the carpet so then we were caught and had to vacuum to prints out

  • @amuart8997
    @amuart8997 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Totally agree with you on these home decor icks! Furniture not touching the rug? That's a big no-no! Burn those candles, people! Don't let them go to waste! Plus, who wants a sink that doesn't match the countertop? 😩 Faux olive trees are alright, but finishing the back of furniture is a must! Thanks for sharing your thoughts! 🏠✨"

  • @AllisonMoon-SheWandersFeral
    @AllisonMoon-SheWandersFeral ปีที่แล้ว +2

    TABLES that don’t take armed chair: drives me CARZY., blame Phillips Stark & his Masters chairs, but I had the excuse to put clear wheels on my IKEA table
    Now it fits. I love putting wheels on furniture. Blame that on studying Nursing in my early 20s…

  • @kaystinebrink1220
    @kaystinebrink1220 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love your rug comments. I participate on a channel where others ask random strangers decorating advice. Yes, this is a strange way to decorate your home. Anyway, my rug comment to them is, "If you cannot afford a LARGE enough area rug go to your carpet store's discount area and buy a length of broadloom. Then have it bound. Such a simple solution for a tight budget.

    • @enna4986
      @enna4986 ปีที่แล้ว

      What is broadloom

  • @missemarie1
    @missemarie1 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES! shout this video from the rooftop please. Scale (rugs, furniture, art, lamps, anything and everything) being off drives me insane. I don't get how ppl don't see it. Scale is the first thing I notice in everything.

  • @dramaqueen3457
    @dramaqueen3457 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so happy to see you !! (I've been sick) So I now look forward to watching all that I have missed. I love your channel. You are so uplifting. Believe me. DQ/Kim .

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you feeling any better? I hope so!!! Thanks for being here, Drama Queen Kim 💕.

  • @suephelps8123
    @suephelps8123 ปีที่แล้ว

    When watching your channel I find myself smiling or laughing and nodding and saying out loud, ""I love this chic", soooo many times we must be of the same mind.........except when you call cushions pillows, BUT apart from that, our icks match. Keep educating you design guru you. Oh and my design peeve is people putting fake plants in their outdoor garden! Icccckkkkk

  • @carolereames13
    @carolereames13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with you about having furniture finished. Great advise on today’s video. Thanks ❤😂

  • @velocitygirl8551
    @velocitygirl8551 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a great point about finishing the furniture!

  • @SB-vt9tz
    @SB-vt9tz ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Electrical cords or cable cords. Drive me bonkers!

  • @hristina449
    @hristina449 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    These videos are great, such educational value for someone like me who is clueless in interior design 😂

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So happy that you’re enjoying them :)

  • @jentastic3236
    @jentastic3236 ปีที่แล้ว

    A couple years ago I overstuffed my throw pillow covers based on a TH-cam video…I really think it was this channel! Am I losing my mind, or am I just out of date now lol?! I like the overstuffed pillows so much better than ones that get instantly flat. 🤷‍♀️

  • @tyleranderson4852
    @tyleranderson4852 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The unfinished back of furniture seems to be the worst with office furniture. We purchased a desk and matching drawer set recently and that was the most irritating part!! It has a very specific wood frame and the back is basic particle board 😮 basically it has to sit against a wall and cant float in the room like we wanted. Its been basically useless for us since we do move periodically for work and it never fits correctly in any space.

    • @KivaBrent
      @KivaBrent  ปีที่แล้ว

      Ugh, I’m so sorry that happened to you, Tyler! You’re right, this is super common with office furniture. It’s so frustrating.

  • @jemmajames6719
    @jemmajames6719 ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband hates rugs that touch or are underneath furniture so I’ve got ridiculously small rugs for our rooms next time I’m just buying them!