Facing the Unthinkable: Nicola's Story

In this emotional and compelling episode, I welcome Nicola Holland, wife of Mark Holland, who shared his story a few weeks back about the mountain biking accident that left him paralysed from the waist down.
Nicola delves into the ripple effect of Mark's accident on their family and friends, highlighting the profound grief and disturbance to their "normal" life.
Managing the situation with three young children added an extra layer of complexity and stress.
Nicola's narrative draws parallels to my own experience, which makes for an emotional conversation, and unexpected tears from both of us.
She recounts the terrifying moment she received the call about Mark's critical condition while he was in a foreign country.
She also shares valuable advice for others facing similar situations, underscoring the importance of seeking help, staying resilient, and maintaining hope.
Her reflections on the journey of recovery and adaptation focus on the positives and the love that binds them together as a family.
Both Mark and Nicola's story is one of resilience, love, and the power of support, serving as a poignant reminder of the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity.
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[@arsolblanes5058]

Fantastic conversation, real, emotional and very necessary, thank you for expressing the feelings "from the other side"
A hug for both. Peace ☮️🫂

[@cfalkner1012]

We had so many similarities. From the uncertainty of everything, to missing my daughter’s second birthday, the grief of it all, the feeling that we should be grateful it wasn’t worse in spite of the grief, the change of emotional capacity.

[@JeannePlantation]

Thank you for sharing your story.

[@mariaroginska6383]

It's unbelievable how sharing trauma can get people closer... And opens up the new horizon for the relationship. Nothing can erase that.

[@icare6076]

Once again, such warmth and thoughtful presence in your interview, Fred. And Nicola, your authenticity and valuable sharing here will help others.

[@FreddotheWheelchairGuy]

How lovely, thank you for the kind words. I really feel these conversations are a valuable resource for people in the SCI community, and I really appreciate your positive feedback ❤️

[@howardgroves7371]

What an awsome podcast, had me blubbing from the get go, and man what an awsome lady.

[@FreddotheWheelchairGuy]

Cheers Howie! Glad you enjoyed it 😊

[@Kenzie_McIntyre]

man that insurance company is appalling ...the fact that he actually got insurance for extreme sports as well ! that makes me so mad she went through that stress on top of everything else