She didn't make excuses, she didn't play victim. She studied, she worked hard and she earned her position. That's why so many men and women respect her.
Joeh1154, soot said “ but rather “ meaning that soot does watch Jude Judy but only because she is intelligent, not because she is a woman that has power. Unless soot says I’m wrong, I think you just miss understood what soot said.
Look at all the feminists in the comments all upset because Judy is taking credit for her own life. She made the life she wanted and owes nobody, no group, or any movement for all of her success.
With all due respect, actually, if there ever wasn't a succesful feminist movement, she would not be on TV. She would probobly be at home in a long dress cooking meals for her family, dreaming of being able to get an education and have a career. She would not be able to have a driving license or speak in a company of men. She would be scared to raise an issue and utter her opinion on politics or on the society. She would be obeying her husband's wishes, her father's, her brothers... Her sole purpose in life would be to be good and proper, and to raise children. She would be scared to follow her heart and be afraid of being scorned (maybe even stoned/burned/hanged) if she does. She would be scared to become an outcast, shamed, reprimanded for her opinion that she, that all women in America, should be equal to men... Ironic, isn't it? Before you so proudly throw feminism in the gutter, think of all the women in this situation TODAY. Can you think of any country, any culture? Have you any ideas on how to change their situation? Would courageous women and men coming together in a movement help? In the western world that movement was named feminism (daring to use a word connected to female/woman, for the first time truly brining women to attention), but it could of course be given other names, if you would prefer that. As to Judge Judy, she is great, nobody takes that away from her, everybody knows she is a hard worker. But her purely individualic perspective expressed in this show is saddening, that's all. Being proud of not being a feminist, just makes me truly hurt in my heart for the good and courageous men and women who got us here, and who still work on modern women issues, and for all the millions of women still struggling badly in other countries. This show's message clearly undermines the feminist movement, and that was also the intention of Megyn who was glad to interview a like-minded person. But why on earth are some people so eager to do that and are so proud to reject this truly fantastic phenomenon? Because somebody told you that somebody had said that some feminist whose name you don't know hate men, and so that's it for you? Or that somebody you percieve as smart has said that feminism portrays women as victims and you thought that sounds true, so you join to think that feminism is really bad for women? I just truly want to know. Where does it come from, how do you think about it?
Ok, to answer your statements in a few sentences: The old feminism was great and fought for women rights but now modern feminism is just about having more control
You don’t watch Jordan Peterson because he’s a man, you watch him because he’s entertains and smart. You don’t watch judge Judy because she’s a woman, you watch her because she’s entertaining and smart. Same thing
Some feminists seem to act like against feminism = they hate women, but that doesn't make sense because many of them support Judge Judy and other women. In fact my respect for Judge Judy is much higher than for Jordan Peterson.
And living in a just society where your gender has no bearing on your chances for progression. thats still not the case, progress has been made but you don't stop running until you cross the finishing line.
No. You can’t be the best burger flipper ever. That belongs to Spongebob. He satisfied a whole bus of anchovies in under a minute. It was an incredible feat.
@@yulia8175 I agree with you.The statemanet that all feminists are illogical is wrong.But still i can give you other one that i aprove and that's about hypocrisy and obviously i am not saying that all the feminists are hypocrists but most of them are.Especially if it comes to gender wage gap.
It's a fact & 2 never expect nothing 4 free when nothing is free in this world, gotta pull ur own weight along with taking responsibility 4 ur own life
YAS QUEEN I think feminism means different things to different people, and I'm pretty sure what Judge Judy was dancing around was she isn't a white feminist, there is more to life than a white girl getting the paycheck she thinks she deserves because daddy always told her she was a princess.
Gisforgary What did you mean when you said ''there is more too life than a white girl getting the paycheck she thinks she deserves because daddy always told her she was a princess''.
This is beyond feminist, this is about being a good person with common sense and good moral value tbh. She's a great role model even for a men like me.
@@heretyk_1337 because they dont follow the crowd, they get informed, and think by themselves. They dont need a corrupted group of women to speak for every woman in the world and make everyone think all male are crazy and such. They believe in equality, where women dont have to be in control of men, nor men of woman. They are in control of themselves. Atleast thats why i think they are :)
In college, 50% of my teachers were male and 50% were female. And let me tell you: the female teachers were rude, they would practically insult us, they would sort of do their job and they would always favor the guys over the girls. Male teachers were more patient with us and they were passionate about their subjects. Since college, I realized that women don't have you back, and you need to be your own hero. So BRAVO Judge Judy!!!!!!!!!
Hear hear, similar experience with educators the males seemed to not be as jaded as the female teachers who in my experience heavily heavily favoured girls
Why are all the feminists mad? Judge Judy has always said she rejects feminism. She doesn't consider herself a woman judge. She's a judge who just happens to be a woman. She competed against men without asking for or receiving special treatment and she came out on top because she was the best at what she does. That's an actual strong woman and is the exact opposite of 3rd wave feminists who pretend to want equality but really just want special treatment. Maybe you should listen to a wise woman rather than turn your nose up at her because she didn't need to be a part of your cult to be successful.
Well, then she was the only strong woman back then...the rest were just waiting for special treatment. Do you maybe think that there are less women in government and top management positions because women in general are not as strong as men? It kind of relates to your point. It always amazes me how people automatically think that there are less women on top (or in male-dominated careers) because there probably are not as many qualified women as men, or that it is the case because women choose family over career, or that they simply are not interested in that area of work, and that is not true. Not mad, but saddened.
natzki spionen There are less women in top positions or in male-dominated careers because those jobs and positions typically require people with male characteristics. Obviously there are going to be more men in them, the same way you'll find way less men in careers that typically require female characteristics like nursing or social work. It's not an accident that the most authoritative women at work are the complete opposite at home. If she had the same "masculine" behaviour at home, the relationship wouldn't work. All of this is science yet feminists want to call you sexist when you state it. I'm far from sexist and anyone willing to do the research can do it at any point rather than pushing the narrative that men are just sexist. Women are more than half of the population and could vote all women in most government positions if they wanted to. The reason they don't is largely because women don't run for those positions as they prefer other work. If you still think it's sexism then you'll have to make the same argument as to why nursing (for example) is dominated by women.
Bonani Mathambo im not angry at Judy, she showed her opinion very responsibly and respectfully. And I’m proud of her for that. I just am annoyed by people in the comments
true gold digger? how is that? Because I say I am an individual thinker? I don't let any females nor anyone else tell me how to be a woman? that is what gold digger is to you? Get real
Fendora "aggressive women don't have a clue what being a woman is", "I'm feminine".. your attitude here basically dictates that "I'm a feminine woman who knows how to wink and nothing else, so buy me luxury stuff and provide for me daddy". Don't get me wrong.. I loathe feminism too but certain women hate it to gain those traditional advantages they had, not for the sake of equality and equal opportunities. Eventhough you sound like a "great" woman. People who can see through bs can tell that it's still is all about you, when you say or write something.
She really wanted to say that the Me Too movement was going too far, but she knows this is national TV and tons of people would blow that statement put of proportion.
Siobhan Fogarty *The media loves to twist words around and manipulate the intentions of people and no, that’s not an opinion. They do it right in front of our faces.*
beeutskindeep - It's almost like if you work hard and show you're the best candidate for the job you don't have to lean on your genitals or skin color to get hired. Strange. 🤔
Ineffable Earth The way it's always been. But the sjws are lazy asscracks who pull out the victim card every chance they get to get free perks and easy jobs. Most of them millennials. Go figure.
@@lraoux well when feminism made all gender equal feminism transformed from wanting woman and man to be equal to thinking woman should be more important than men which is sexist
@@leonubalde391 no it didnt? show me an example bc almost every feminist i know online or irl just wants to help women. not trying to start an argument btw simply asking
R-Doce RZA keep trying to use Judge Judy as your prime (and virtually only) example of an intelligent leftist. I'm sure nobody will notice that she just shot feminism out of the sky.
@@theduchess9691 my point is... The most confident person doesn't feel the need to scream in everyone's ears how confident they are, because they are so confident they don't feel the need of validation
James Excell I agree. As she said, men and women should be able to naturally Interact with each other. It's a different story when saying something or touching someone inappropriately.
You sound like a creep. Keep your comments about random women's appearance to yourself. Women have always had to put up with creepy men, only very recentely that has changed, so look up the definition of "revolutionary" and stop using words you don't understand. Creep.
Nice Guy asking people to act right and be respectful of other people's bodies and not make inappropriate comments is not an inconvenience but how Society should work. Women don't make comments like nice biceps nice legs nice face because they know it's creepy and it's not a compliment
Nice Guy how about you leave that up to the women to decide how she feels and not tell us your opinion on what is and isn't appropriate since its not happening to you cause your privileged. 🤷
Yes, too bad she came from a different time, in which women really had to struggle. Women from nowadays expect everything in return from complaining and victimizing on fb and twitter
Femists: we want women to have the power to do what they want, when they want, without having to answer to anybody! Judge J: I got where I wanted to go by myself through my own hard work and dedication. Feminists: actually you can thank us.
K.C The kitty cat you already have it. And a few more. Y’all do want power whether you say so or not. Your actions prove that. Actions speak louder than words.
@Some Person It wasn't a stupid analogy, not everyone focus on a job as success. I don't. And when you all run to work in the morning, I sleep in. Yeah, I don't have the money you guys do, but looking at a lot of you, I feel I am happier than most. The idea was you don't have to define success through your a job always. You could be someone who would rather spend time with their kids.
Resembles a Karen cut and one can be quick to mistake it, but it is not blonde and does not have that big uniform part at the front. This cut is more refined and modest if I may say...
"Woman in control." Judge Judy immediately does an eye roll and I can practically see her mentally checking out of this interview. And we're only 20 seconds in, people! That's what a person who is qualified for her position looks like.
Cool, but if it weren't for the work of feminists millions of women wouldn't have the careers or independence they do now. Sooooooo many women (and men) don't understand this...
@Jayce Jayce, I am a woman. You really think I don't understand this? You think people aren't taught about women's suffrage from the beginning of our education? Everyone and I mean EVERYONE understands this in America. To compare modern feminists to those in the past is a complete disgrace to their legacy. What you see today is MISANDRY and blatant WHINING. To cry about manspreading and equate that to going to prison on hunger strikes just to vote for your president is spitting on the real heroes of our history!
Jayce, literally everyone understands that. But what's that got to do with anything? You don't keep the momentum of a movement going long after it's met the ambitions of what it aimed to achieve. No self-respecting individual needs to identify as a feminist unless they have deeper problems
@@juliaortizmolina7111 my bad, I forgot sth, it doesn't work when you're nine years old either. I don't want to argue or justify the actions of these so called "modern" feminists who are basically sexist Karens. I'm saying that there are many women and girls in Middle East and other countries in Asia live in horrible conditions. You can look it up, in my country - Iran - a young girl was strangled to death by her father - which has a backstory if you read the articles - & do you know what his excuse was? That she had turned the TV volume too high & he'd gotten mad for a moment & decided to choke his daughter with his belt. This. This is where we need feminism. If I try to explain the story in more detail this comment will be too long but I'm sure you can find relevant articles on the net.
I had a grandma once like that, holy roller too. Turns out she was a covert narcissist, taught projection distraction and deception to her daughters. I got to figure that out on my own. Thanks, but no thanks grandma.
She became what she is in a time when there really was a disparity in men's and women's rights. Through hard work she got herself too where she is. Why would she call herself a feminist? It would take away from her great accomplishment of becoming successful in a male dominated industry.
It's so funny that ideologues try to appropriate her success as an example of feminism. "The reason your show is so successful is because there's a _woman_ in control. And boy is that a timely sentiment now"... Judge Judy roles eyes. People love her show because Judy is no bs, non biased, and carefully examines each case very closely to find the truth and always reaches a correct judgement. Feminists are bots that can never comprehend the real world at the level normal people can.
@@k.cthekittycat6206 I see feminists here saying she got where she is "thanks to feminism" and some come across as being slightly disrespectful. Feminists, or feminism for that matter, can't really claim any credit for her success, no matter how much they want to feel useful.
Feminists are right. Judge Judy is successful because of hard work, but also because of feminism (and all other civil rights that people fought for which she benefited from).
richleev #1 if you're not sure what feminism is claiming, you shouldn't be commenting on feminism. Is just a Google search away... #2 individualism and Independence are two different things.
It is called working your way to manager. If you do a good job and try to perfect your job you get rewarded in a meritocracy. If they don't reward hard effort you can sell your services elsewhere.
Feminists tell you all the time what to do,how you should be feeling about situations and instead rationally reviewing aituation happened you would raport a man to police because he looked at you in way you did not like.That is feminism agenda.How do you think it will make in future relations between men and women?
you claim youre not a feminist because feminism tells women how to think yet you say that women should listen to her and we should all think like her? feminists dont sound like hypocrites here, you do.
I think Judy had many of the women in the audience feeling convicted. She made her way without all the whining and complaining a lot of these modern woman are doing. Judy is a real strong-woman, and the real always expose the fake.
Ok well most real feminists aren't in kindergarten they're not gonna start whining feminism is a fight for men and women to be TREATED equally. They have the same rights yeah, but they are far from being treated the same. People don't understand that there's a difference between being a feminist and hating men.
@@gracie7499 tbh not really. You can make the argument that women are afforded more rights than men at this point. Alot of stuff that women get away with nowadays would never fly if the roles were reversed.
Spot on ... no excuses, no victim blaming ... It was my Dad's favorite show and for good reason. It is no wonder she is a judge... open minded, fair and no nonsense
i mean... not to put the shine out of this parade, but its a common saying that every villain is the hero in their own story, so... yea... But i kinda agree, just find the wording to be funny.
she’s so articulate but can tell she chose her words very carefully... in case people twist her words and cancel her... I like she still stayed true to herself and subtly called BS on metoo and feminism.
Who are you?! Re-read your comment . . . it says loud and clear that you are stupid, ignorant and lacking in common sense! REALLY SAD! Hope you don't have children!
I don’t see girls complaining that on the Titanic women were to be saved first on the lifeboats😂😂. Maybe then the men should have remembered that we are all equal and should be treated equal. Or maybe we should have sent women in WW2 because we are all equal
@@k.cthekittycat6206 Those men would not of allowed that. Men are naturally wired to protect women and children. If it was between a man and a woman, the man would definitely let the woman go to the lifeboat. Sure, feminism gives the CHOICE of equality in today's society but.. gender roles will forever be wired into our biology. Certain attributes will always be apart of our DNA. For men, it's about protecting and providing. Always will be.
@@stayathomemarine Let's rephrase that. The social ettiquiette at the time meant many men would push out men who tried to get into life boats to make room for women and children. That's why a few men disguised themselves as women to be able to reach safety. This natural wired thing isn't a hard rule. Some men are predisposed to self sacrifice, and many men feel the desire to help those they perceive as weaker than themselves, and for those that werent, there was a massive social pressure to conform to it anyway.
Feminism is dying. Individualism is growing. I've been watching this change for for years. It's what separates America from other countries. We still at heart, know the individual is more important than the "group". After all, the individual is the smallest minority, don't we want to protect minorities?
She has her self respect and jus gave some great down to earth advice. The fact of the matter is Feminist are angry extremist and only cause problems in society by wanting to break traditional families values due to there insecurities towards masculine men and feminine woman. Man and woman we all make mistakes and no one is perfect but we must try our best to live a life of morals values and ethics and have self respect for our self and others. Harvey Weinstein was a creepy desperate rich man and the woman who slept with him are creepy desperate gold diggers all over money.
This shows that you can experience success at ANY age! She was your average judge up until age 54 when a reporter saw her in action & made an article about her, which resulted in interviews & ultimately a tv show contract.
Feminist seem to think that all men had all the power since time began. The truth is you were either Royalty, Clergy or powerless peasant, man OR woman. The fight was led by men for hundreds of years to chip away at the power of the church and state. Do you think they gave up this power voluntarily? A lot of people died (mostly men) fighting for the right to be free of servitude and to get the vote - look at the USA's own revolutionary war to break away from the British state, there's a high male body count. Up until 1884 only landowners could vote in Britain (about 30% of the men). In 1918 finally all men could vote and women over 30. Then in 1928 Britain made voting rights equal. The general male population has only about 30 years advantage over the average woman with a very high body count to achieve it. The "struggle" for equality is really a class struggle, not a gender struggle. Only the very rich elite (mostly men) had money, education and power for the last 1000 years, the 99% of Men AND Women had servitude.
This is a very good point, but it should also be pointed out that men, at the very least, had some degree of power in their own homes. Power over the woman, who was expected to obey him(and still is, according to the bible). When men were servants, women were the servants of servants.
If you read the comment that Im responding to, you'll see that he stated that for most of history, both men and women were essentially servants and only select few ruling elites had any kind of freedom. My point is, that even in those days men still had more power than women. Housekeeping as a choice is not servitude. Being in a position of forced submission and obedience is servitude.
People are beginning to smarten up to the fact that what they (feminists) preach is not true empowerment. You cannot feel strong from a place of victimhood. Not once did Judge Judy ever put down men in this interview.
Feminist: "I'm a female, therefore, I am successful or you are sexist." Individualist: "It's about who I am, not what gender I am" Feminists can you please stop the victim card. Y'all have rights!!!
Excellent job on explaining. Individualism is something I can agree on. You can be a great person as an individual. Love yourself enough to stand strong and be comfortable with yourself as you are. Beautiful way of chill and life.
She didn't make excuses, she didn't play victim. She studied, she worked hard and she earned her position. That's why so many men and women respect her.
Lmfao. Sure bud.
Facts
feminist doesn't accept that sadly
@Ron Swanson Lmfao. Sure bud.
@@tenzinnyima3363 you're not making sense. keep hating women tho. it's really cool lookin. lmao
I don't watch Judy because I want to see a woman in control but rather because she is intelligent.
That is exactly why you should watch her show. Judy is brilliant and she suffers no fools in her court.
Oh do you smell that oh yes I smell Feminism
Joeh1154, soot said “ but rather “ meaning that soot does watch Jude Judy but only because she is intelligent, not because she is a woman that has power. Unless soot says I’m wrong, I think you just miss understood what soot said.
SHES SO SMART N FUNNY
Intelligent and no-bullshitting.
Didn’t she once say something like, “They don’t keep me here because I’m beautiful, they keep me here because I’m smart.”
Sure did and truer words were never spoken!
BINGO!
GONNA SCREENSHOT THIS
Yes I've always loved hear her saying that!
Yes
A woman who didn't use self-victimization to climb the ladder. She has my respect.
Look at all the feminists in the comments all upset because Judy is taking credit for her own life. She made the life she wanted and owes nobody, no group, or any movement for all of her success.
ShieldsJustice you don’t have to be a feminist to benefit from feminism. 🤷🏾♀️
With all due respect, actually, if there ever wasn't a succesful feminist movement, she would not be on TV. She would probobly be at home in a long dress cooking meals for her family, dreaming of being able to get an education and have a career. She would not be able to have a driving license or speak in a company of men. She would be scared to raise an issue and utter her opinion on politics or on the society. She would be obeying her husband's wishes, her father's, her brothers... Her sole purpose in life would be to be good and proper, and to raise children. She would be scared to follow her heart and be afraid of being scorned (maybe even stoned/burned/hanged) if she does. She would be scared to become an outcast, shamed, reprimanded for her opinion that she, that all women in America, should be equal to men... Ironic, isn't it?
Before you so proudly throw feminism in the gutter, think of all the women in this situation TODAY. Can you think of any country, any culture? Have you any ideas on how to change their situation? Would courageous women and men coming together in a movement help? In the western world that movement was named feminism (daring to use a word connected to female/woman, for the first time truly brining women to attention), but it could of course be given other names, if you would prefer that.
As to Judge Judy, she is great, nobody takes that away from her, everybody knows she is a hard worker. But her purely individualic perspective expressed in this show is saddening, that's all. Being proud of not being a feminist, just makes me truly hurt in my heart for the good and courageous men and women who got us here, and who still work on modern women issues, and for all the millions of women still struggling badly in other countries. This show's message clearly undermines the feminist movement, and that was also the intention of Megyn who was glad to interview a like-minded person. But why on earth are some people so eager to do that and are so proud to reject this truly fantastic phenomenon? Because somebody told you that somebody had said that some feminist whose name you don't know hate men, and so that's it for you? Or that somebody you percieve as smart has said that feminism portrays women as victims and you thought that sounds true, so you join to think that feminism is really bad for women? I just truly want to know. Where does it come from, how do you think about it?
Ok, to answer your statements in a few sentences:
The old feminism was great and fought for women rights but now modern feminism is just about having more control
Thank you for answering. What type of control do you mean and over what/whom?
Pea Nesquik what’s wrong with having more control? And how do you define old feminism? And how does it differ from new feminism?
"I'm not a feminist - I'm an individualist." LOVE IT!
Yeah tofu
yeah once are smart .
Love it, embrace it and apply it to your life, don’t be a part of a hate group
@shalki parkash wtf is wrong with you
둡다!!!!
Guys stop praising Judy! I’m tired of smashing the like button!
Nice
123 likes...perfect
😂 😂
Perfect
They had us in the first half, not gonna lie.
I like the way Judy cringed when Megyn said "women in control"
Because it reeks of hubris
And Judy certainly was aware to say what she said. What she believed without having to slam anyone.
When
Why did she cringe?
@@stevienicks9210 Watch the video.
You don’t watch Jordan Peterson because he’s a man, you watch him because he’s entertains and smart.
You don’t watch judge Judy because she’s a woman, you watch her because she’s entertaining and smart.
Same thing
Well said!
Just Judy rocks
And she’s basically saying the same thing he is! It’s about individual responsibility
Some feminists seem to act like against feminism = they hate women, but that doesn't make sense because many of them support Judge Judy and other women. In fact my respect for Judge Judy is much higher than for Jordan Peterson.
PREACH!
Self worth, that’s key
That's what feminists lack
The Metoo movement is caused by the Democrats. They are insane and full of hate.
The entire leftist movement is based on losers sucking the tit of government and resentful freaks who hate hard work.
CV I’m moderate/independent and I don’t think that’s true
And living in a just society where your gender has no bearing on your chances for progression. thats still not the case, progress has been made but you don't stop running until you cross the finishing line.
No. You can’t be the best burger flipper ever. That belongs to Spongebob. He satisfied a whole bus of anchovies in under a minute. It was an incredible feat.
Happy to get your upvotes up to 69. Little things in life.
He couldn't satisfy goku tho
Change my mind
@@_MegaMind_ if chichi can do it so can he
Actully 4 buses full of anchoives
True
Judge Judy is holding back I can sense the high level of intelligence in her, she's just avoiding unnecessary arguments
Exactly. TRUTH!
Yeah same here. There were way more solid points she wanted to make
She's a very rational mind. Very intelligent and totally fair minded. She fights and wins on her own terms.
@@optimusprimus89 I agree with you on that one she knows that some women will are just combative
100%. Megyn Kelly is out of her element here.
She's too logical to be a feminist.
and feminists are illogical?
@@yulia8175 You catch on quick Yulia.
Lightyear Hosting, would you be so kind as to give me any one example to back up your initial statement?
@@yulia8175 I agree with you.The statemanet that all feminists are illogical is wrong.But still i can give you other one that i aprove and that's about hypocrisy and obviously i am not saying that all the feminists are hypocrists but most of them are.Especially if it comes to gender wage gap.
AnoNym in what way are we hypocrites? explain.
0:15 Megyn: "women in control"
Judy: *rolls eyes*
she is just savage lol
Yeah you can tell that she's thinking "great, this BS again".
I stared laughing at 5am :)))
@bigpink pencil He's pointing out exactly what happened in the video
@bigpink pencilTF??!!
She’s a judge. She know politics vs curroption when she sees it.
" I'm not a Woman Judge... I'm a Judge who happens to be a woman "
That's what Empowerment looks like !
She pretty much said, stop whining and get a life of your own.
They still didn't get it tho
It's a fact & 2 never expect nothing 4 free when nothing is free in this world, gotta pull ur own weight along with taking responsibility 4 ur own life
I’ve gotta say, she’s probably the only woman I’d vote for to be president! 😂
She would be good
She should run
Agree.
Yeah
Fr Judy is super tough
My respect for Judge Judy has just risen to an all time high.
All thanks to Feminism.
YAS QUEEN
Well i guess your a feminist then right.
YAS QUEEN I think feminism means different things to different people, and I'm pretty sure what Judge Judy was dancing around was she isn't a white feminist, there is more to life than a white girl getting the paycheck she thinks she deserves because daddy always told her she was a princess.
Gisforgary
What did you mean when you said ''there is more too life than a white girl getting the paycheck she thinks she deserves because daddy always told her she was a princess''.
Blackjack Assassin 💯
Now this is what a "strong woman" really is
Feminist in corner of the room crying like
Intelligent too.
Basically what she saying is you gotta push yourself to become what you always wanted to be. Throughout hard work and dedication.
@@darksied1098 yes
Always remember: If a woman calls herself strong and independent, she's not.
I like that she said the "me too movement" shouldn't be abused. (By women. )
I think that will stop some of the hate for it
Always liked Judy, she is a real role model for men and women, can't imagine any feminist behaving in manner of such rationality thought or maturity.
Kurturmis exactly
This is beyond feminist, this is about being a good person with common sense and good moral value tbh. She's a great role model even for a men like me.
Judge Judy was a real judge not just a show
Muzic Vidz 12 yeard old?
Kurturmis
Truly agreed
Its always the smartest women, that say they aren't feminists.
Makes one wonder, why is that...
@@heretyk_1337 because they dont follow the crowd, they get informed, and think by themselves. They dont need a corrupted group of women to speak for every woman in the world and make everyone think all male are crazy and such. They believe in equality, where women dont have to be in control of men, nor men of woman. They are in control of themselves. Atleast thats why i think they are :)
@@aydeepeperoni6018 Have you ever heard about irony? Or rhetorical questions? :D oh boy...
@@heretyk_1337 ever heard of a inoffensive comment..
@@aydeepeperoni6018 Yes. I find them boring
In college, 50% of my teachers were male and 50% were female. And let me tell you: the female teachers were rude, they would practically insult us, they would sort of do their job and they would always favor the guys over the girls. Male teachers were more patient with us and they were passionate about their subjects. Since college, I realized that women don't have you back, and you need to be your own hero. So BRAVO Judge Judy!!!!!!!!!
Hear hear, similar experience with educators the males seemed to not be as jaded as the female teachers who in my experience heavily heavily favoured girls
I have similar experience with toxic female professors 😢😢
" I'm not a feminist ... I'm an individualist " ... perfect. What a lady, graciously put, Mam 👊🏻🎃👊🏻
Why are all the feminists mad? Judge Judy has always said she rejects feminism. She doesn't consider herself a woman judge. She's a judge who just happens to be a woman. She competed against men without asking for or receiving special treatment and she came out on top because she was the best at what she does. That's an actual strong woman and is the exact opposite of 3rd wave feminists who pretend to want equality but really just want special treatment. Maybe you should listen to a wise woman rather than turn your nose up at her because she didn't need to be a part of your cult to be successful.
Well, then she was the only strong woman back then...the rest were just waiting for special treatment. Do you maybe think that there are less women in government and top management positions because women in general are not as strong as men? It kind of relates to your point. It always amazes me how people automatically think that there are less women on top (or in male-dominated careers) because there probably are not as many qualified women as men, or that it is the case because women choose family over career, or that they simply are not interested in that area of work, and that is not true. Not mad, but saddened.
They're angry because she's more successful and wealthy than they will ever be and tells it like it is
natzki spionen There are less women in top positions or in male-dominated careers because those jobs and positions typically require people with male characteristics. Obviously there are going to be more men in them, the same way you'll find way less men in careers that typically require female characteristics like nursing or social work. It's not an accident that the most authoritative women at work are the complete opposite at home. If she had the same "masculine" behaviour at home, the relationship wouldn't work. All of this is science yet feminists want to call you sexist when you state it. I'm far from sexist and anyone willing to do the research can do it at any point rather than pushing the narrative that men are just sexist. Women are more than half of the population and could vote all women in most government positions if they wanted to. The reason they don't is largely because women don't run for those positions as they prefer other work. If you still think it's sexism then you'll have to make the same argument as to why nursing (for example) is dominated by women.
natzki spionen shut up
Bonani Mathambo im not angry at Judy, she showed her opinion very responsibly and respectfully. And I’m proud of her for that.
I just am annoyed by people in the comments
I am feminine not feminist. Individual thinker, strong in my own feminine ways.
Fendora more women need to be like you.
Thank you. And I am sorry you have to be around aggressive women who have no clue what being a woman is. Women are not all the same.
spoken like a true gold digger.
true gold digger? how is that? Because I say I am an individual thinker? I don't let any females nor anyone else tell me how to be a woman? that is what gold digger is to you? Get real
Fendora "aggressive women don't have a clue what being a woman is", "I'm feminine".. your attitude here basically dictates that "I'm a feminine woman who knows how to wink and nothing else, so buy me luxury stuff and provide for me daddy". Don't get me wrong.. I loathe feminism too but certain women hate it to gain those traditional advantages they had, not for the sake of equality and equal opportunities. Eventhough you sound like a "great" woman. People who can see through bs can tell that it's still is all about you, when you say or write something.
I respect her honesty. It's sometimes brutal, but that is exactly what the world needs. Tough love
She really wanted to say that the Me Too movement was going too far, but she knows this is national TV and tons of people would blow that statement put of proportion.
Yeah she wanted to say that but she had to use her words carefully.
She is literally playing 16D Chess and she played it perfectly. Mate in 32.
jert opp
I would've said it so F^¢K feminists and their pathetic feelings
I bet you're right.
Siobhan Fogarty *The media loves to twist words around and manipulate the intentions of people and no, that’s not an opinion. They do it right in front of our faces.*
I don't watch Judge Judy because she's a woman. I watch it because she's a great judge.
I watch because she yells at people.
I dont think she actually prosecutes
Had me in the first half ngl
Why are most judges women instead of men? They act based off of emotions
I watch her bc she don't believe in crocodiles tears , bc lot of men judge believe in women tears
I like the way she explained herself
beeutskindeep - It's almost like if you work hard and show you're the best candidate for the job you don't have to lean on your genitals or skin color to get hired. Strange. 🤔
Ineffable Earth The way it's always been. But the sjws are lazy asscracks who pull out the victim card every chance they get to get free perks and easy jobs. Most of them millennials. Go figure.
Do you? because she's drawing a parallel between two things that are not the same.
Its freakin Judge Judy shes the female Judge Dredd.
Feminism is problematic af. I agree with Judy.
👐👐👐 I don't know who you are but usually know you have a brain
@@meow-ge4nu yepp! makes sense...
just curious, why do you say so?
@@lraoux well when feminism made all gender equal feminism transformed from wanting woman and man to be equal to thinking woman should be more important than men which is sexist
@@leonubalde391 no it didnt? show me an example bc almost every feminist i know online or irl just wants to help women. not trying to start an argument btw simply asking
I’m glad Judge Judy is a free thinker and sees the flaws with feminism today.
ScentlessApprentice7 I’d hesitate to call it progress. lol I consider myself progressive and don’t subscribe to that.
R-Doce RZA keep trying to use Judge Judy as your prime (and virtually only) example of an intelligent leftist. I'm sure nobody will notice that she just shot feminism out of the sky.
R-Doce RZA judy sounds like a true hard working american. Republican or democRAT.
Too many bitter feminist misandrists in the world. JJ is such a breath of fresh air. I wish more people could be this intelligent.
Remeber they didnt hire her because shes beautiful they hired her because shes smart
As she said Im not a Woman Judge IM A JUDGE THAT HAPPENS TO BE A WOMAN !!!!
no she didn’t lmfaooo, women aren’t obliged to be a feminist
@@Blessedron1 Huh? That’s not what they were implying
So… she’s a woman judge bruh
She's too smart to be a feminist.
underrated comment
Indeed she is! 💯💖
Exactly
Feminists are way smarter than you and her, and too smart to even deal with you.
A feminist is someone who believes in equal rights of men and women nothing wrong with that.
The most confident person in the room stays quiet, because he doesn't need to scream how confident they are about themselves anywhere
absolutely
Agreed....
So a person can't be loud and the most confident ? I don't see your point...
@@theduchess9691 my point is... The most confident person doesn't feel the need to scream in everyone's ears how confident they are, because they are so confident they don't feel the need of validation
@@theduchess9691 it’s like saying you are a good person. when people brag about how good of a person they are, they usually aren’t a good person.
"Nice legs"
Her response: "thank you."
What a revolutionary. Something that everyone should model.
James Excell I agree. As she said, men and women should be able to naturally Interact with each other. It's a different story when saying something or touching someone inappropriately.
You sound like a creep. Keep your comments about random women's appearance to yourself. Women have always had to put up with creepy men, only very recentely that has changed, so look up the definition of "revolutionary" and stop using words you don't understand. Creep.
I will complain about whatever the F I want.
Nice Guy asking people to act right and be respectful of other people's bodies and not make inappropriate comments is not an inconvenience but how Society should work. Women don't make comments like nice biceps nice legs nice face because they know it's creepy and it's not a compliment
Nice Guy how about you leave that up to the women to decide how she feels and not tell us your opinion on what is and isn't appropriate since its not happening to you cause your privileged. 🤷
She just took a legal dump on the feminist movement. Love her. Thank goodness we still have logical thinking people like her.
Richard Stevens I know right.
She used pure logic and reasoning rather than unstable emotion.
LOL a "legal dump" ... I love her too! Logical but still feminine, but still can stand up for herself too.
Yes, too bad she came from a different time, in which women really had to struggle. Women from nowadays expect everything in return from complaining and victimizing on fb and twitter
richard don't you have taxes to be paying buddy?
The way she rolled her eyes when she said you’re a man and a woman in control - love you judge - keep rocking it!
😂
Femists: we want women to have the power to do what they want, when they want, without having to answer to anybody!
Judge J: I got where I wanted to go by myself through my own hard work and dedication.
Feminists: actually you can thank us.
@@ffreaaa2238 "gEnDeR eQuAliTy"
@@ffreaaa2238 so
Actually we said we wanted equal rights. Not power:
K.C The kitty cat you already have it. And a few more. Y’all do want power whether you say so or not. Your actions prove that. Actions speak louder than words.
@@user-sp5ck4fs1n women have more rights in America than men.
"you can be a burger flipper and be the best darn burger flipper they've ever seen!"
*Gordon Ramsay has entered the chat.*
Spongebob has also entered the chat.
*It's RAW*
@Some Person yeah... glad that was caught by someone else
@Some Person It wasn't a stupid analogy, not everyone focus on a job as success. I don't. And when you all run to work in the morning, I sleep in. Yeah, I don't have the money you guys do, but looking at a lot of you, I feel I am happier than most. The idea was you don't have to define success through your a job always. You could be someone who would rather spend time with their kids.
@Some Person it's a false analogy. She's barely even listening, and then tries to undermine Judge Judy only to make a fool of herself.
She has the Karen cut but isn’t one.
Impressive
I Exist this her pre 2020 cut, her current cut is slicker, modern, faster.
Resembles a Karen cut and one can be quick to mistake it, but it is not blonde and does not have that big uniform part at the front. This cut is more refined and modest if I may say...
😂
My nana looks like judge judy
Nah fam. Thats the judge Judy 3000
"Woman in control." Judge Judy immediately does an eye roll and I can practically see her mentally checking out of this interview. And we're only 20 seconds in, people! That's what a person who is qualified for her position looks like.
Soooooooooo many of women won't understand this ..... #IAmNotAFeminist !!!!!!!!
Mimi Pierre amen
Neither am I sister 😘
Cool, but if it weren't for the work of feminists millions of women wouldn't have the careers or independence they do now. Sooooooo many women (and men) don't understand this...
@Jayce Jayce, I am a woman. You really think I don't understand this? You think people aren't taught about women's suffrage from the beginning of our education? Everyone and I mean EVERYONE understands this in America. To compare modern feminists to those in the past is a complete disgrace to their legacy. What you see today is MISANDRY and blatant WHINING. To cry about manspreading and equate that to going to prison on hunger strikes just to vote for your president is spitting on the real heroes of our history!
Jayce, literally everyone understands that. But what's that got to do with anything? You don't keep the momentum of a movement going long after it's met the ambitions of what it aimed to achieve. No self-respecting individual needs to identify as a feminist unless they have deeper problems
Strong women dont need feminism to succeed.... and they accept their own fails without blaming on men.
Hmmmhmmmm true
It kinda doesn't work like that when you live in a third world country and your dad decides to cut off your head cuz you were being a strong woman
@@Den-jp4yu A strong woman is smart enough to fake submision until she has a escape plan.
@@juliaortizmolina7111 my bad, I forgot sth, it doesn't work when you're nine years old either.
I don't want to argue or justify the actions of these so called "modern" feminists who are basically sexist Karens.
I'm saying that there are many women and girls in Middle East and other countries in Asia live in horrible conditions.
You can look it up, in my country - Iran - a young girl was strangled to death by her father - which has a backstory if you read the articles - & do you know what his excuse was?
That she had turned the TV volume too high & he'd gotten mad for a moment & decided to choke his daughter with his belt.
This.
This is where we need feminism.
If I try to explain the story in more detail this comment will be too long but I'm sure you can find relevant articles on the net.
@NeilsFeels I agree with you
She’s tough. He demeanor is very strong and inspiring.
Can you imagine judge Judy being your mom/aunt/grandma 😢 terrifying but a blessing
I had a grandma once like that, holy roller too. Turns out she was a covert narcissist, taught projection distraction and deception to her daughters. I got to figure that out on my own. Thanks, but no thanks grandma.
“Me Too is important, but we shouldn’t abuse it.” 🙌🏼
YES
It's already been abused. Amber Heard is a prime example.
@@paulig8743 That's her point - we should not be like Amber Heard.
@@paulig8743 Let's all curse her
It’s only harassment if you don’t like the men huh?
I'm not a Feminist.
I'm a REAL woman.
👏👏👏
👍🏽
I guess you’ve voted for trump
You're a "pick me" girl who looks for validation in men because you have no self esteem.
@@tessajames2460 triggered feminist.
“I am a individualist.” Yes! Be the hero to your own story!
She became what she is in a time when there really was a disparity in men's and women's rights.
Through hard work she got herself too where she is. Why would she call herself a feminist?
It would take away from her great accomplishment of becoming successful in a male dominated industry.
Well, modern feminism was waiting for her at the finish line too so they could claim credit:
It's so funny that ideologues try to appropriate her success as an example of feminism. "The reason your show is so successful is because there's a _woman_ in control. And boy is that a timely sentiment now"... Judge Judy roles eyes.
People love her show because Judy is no bs, non biased, and carefully examines each case very closely to find the truth and always reaches a correct judgement. Feminists are bots that can never comprehend the real world at the level normal people can.
"That doesn't take a village, that takes an individual spirit."
Ouch, hard blow at camp Clinton there.
Judge Judy: I got here through my hard work and dedication.
Feminists: Well yes, but actually no.
Oh boy, the premise that feminists would try to take credit from someone who works for a living, triggers me so hard.
No. We think Judy did work hard to get where she is. We never said anything about Judy.
@Ayanokoji wooow
@@k.cthekittycat6206 I see feminists here saying she got where she is "thanks to feminism" and some come across as being slightly disrespectful. Feminists, or feminism for that matter, can't really claim any credit for her success, no matter how much they want to feel useful.
Feminists are right. Judge Judy is successful because of hard work, but also because of feminism (and all other civil rights that people fought for which she benefited from).
She is saying what Ive been telling everyone!!! I'm an INDIVIDUALIST! She's the real deal!
Feminist: *exists*
Judge Judy: I'm but to end this bitchs whole career.
Kyler Clapper your comment made my day
Nicklangatang well it has a lot more likes than yours, and btw nobody is = to 0, not 69....
Judge Judy... the product of a far greater generation.
Beautiful explanation of how feminism should actually look.
richleev she offered no explanation at all, actually. She described individualism.
well what about independence? isn't it all about what feminists are claiming ?
richleev #1 if you're not sure what feminism is claiming, you shouldn't be commenting on feminism. Is just a Google search away...
#2 individualism and Independence are two different things.
#1 I'm sure what feminism is claiming. You better goolge it.
#2 who said they aren't?
Feminism would look best when it's invisible dead and gone.
Feminists' vision of equality: Women get the authority of men, the privileges of women,
and the accountability of children.
Megan, way over her head. " Best burger flipper." lol... Out classed again.
Ms. Vela I agree my friend. I thought I was the only one who felt this way. What happened to her...
Marvin Norstrom ironically she thought that was a humble comment
It is called working your way to manager. If you do a good job and try to perfect your job you get rewarded in a meritocracy. If they don't reward hard effort you can sell your services elsewhere.
Some clown
Vagabond Wastrel We know what she was trying to say, but the her way of saying that sounded so crass next to Judge Judy’s words of wisdom.
A person of great character and wisdom. Thank you, Judge Judy
Absolutely true. How are you doing? Hope you are good and staying safe out there?
I love how annoyed she looked and rolled her eyes in the beginning 😂
Patrice O'neal said it many years ago. "You can't even tell a woman, 'hey you look beautiful today' that's how messed up the game is."
Judy was trying her best to make sure she didn’t say, “these chicks are trippin right now” lol
I’m not a feminist either and she’s so spot on with how all women should think.
*They’re all socialists too. Socialism doesn’t promote individuality - capitalism does.*
Absolutely true. How are you doing? Hope you are good and staying safe out there?
Feminists tell you all the time what to do,how you should be feeling about situations and instead rationally reviewing aituation happened you would raport a man to police because he looked at you in way you did not like.That is feminism agenda.How do you think it will make in future relations between men and women?
“how all women should think.” ?
you claim youre not a feminist because feminism tells women how to think yet you say that women should listen to her and we should all think like her?
feminists dont sound like hypocrites here, you do.
I think Judy had many of the women in the audience feeling convicted. She made her way without all the whining and complaining a lot of these modern woman are doing. Judy is a real strong-woman, and the real always expose the fake.
Ok well most real feminists aren't in kindergarten they're not gonna start whining feminism is a fight for men and women to be TREATED equally. They have the same rights yeah, but they are far from being treated the same. People don't understand that there's a difference between being a feminist and hating men.
@@gracie7499 🤣
@@gracie7499 very hard to tell the difference these days
@@gracie7499 tbh not really. You can make the argument that women are afforded more rights than men at this point. Alot of stuff that women get away with nowadays would never fly if the roles were reversed.
@@cheehee808_delusional. Iran and Afghanistan left the chat. Name one right that women have that you don't
Spot on ... no excuses, no victim blaming ... It was my Dad's favorite show and for good reason. It is no wonder she is a judge... open minded, fair and no nonsense
"Best Burger Flipper" title goes to Spongebob Squarepants
Yes
exactly what was on my mind when she said it
Who is John cena? And why do you have just a black picture?
😂😂😂😂🍔
Actually that goes to Jim. The man who made Krabby Patties before Spongebob was even born.
i love judge judy
I like you
Shelley Peedin judge Judy is amazing
I'm still waiting for you all to burn your bras.
Shelley Peedin cuz she’s your mom or grandma
hashtag me too.
Basically...old gen tougher young gen softer... interviewer didn't have a clue
She is what the world needs right now
This is a real woman
I want her to be my grandmother 😍
Ciara Mcwilliams You: Breaks glass and fall asleep
Her: Puts you in a courtroom and grbs her gaval
@@DarkNomad38 lmao u ok bro?
I dont
Manguy mcDudebro wtf
I feel bad for your poor grandmother.
"Individuals each have within themselves the capacity to be a hero of their own story"
i mean... not to put the shine out of this parade, but its a common saying that every villain is the hero in their own story, so... yea...
But i kinda agree, just find the wording to be funny.
she’s so articulate but can tell she chose her words very carefully... in case people twist her words and cancel her... I like she still stayed true to herself and subtly called BS on metoo and feminism.
She is successful because she is a strong intelligent woman not just because she is a woman.
Omgoodness . . . great words from Judge Judy!!!
she is ignorant. I guess that people like you value ignorance when is convenient for you. Sad.
Who are you?! Re-read your comment . . . it says loud and clear that you are stupid, ignorant and lacking in common sense! REALLY SAD! Hope you don't have children!
triggered. I hit the nail on the head
You've only hit yourself in the head.
Peruvian Authorities 💯
Wanna hear a joke?
"Feminism"
That's really funny.
Shashank Nath hahah equal rights funny
You dropped this sir 👑
😂
I need a subreddit for this
Shes a judge, not a feminist!
This woman knows what’s up
Absolutely true. How are you doing? Hope you are good and staying safe out there?
I don’t see girls complaining that on the Titanic women were to be saved first on the lifeboats😂😂. Maybe then the men should have remembered that we are all equal and should be treated equal. Or maybe we should have sent women in WW2 because we are all equal
P. Maldini yeah.
Women and men should have been able to go on lifeboats at the same time and we should have sent men AND women
@@k.cthekittycat6206 Those men would not of allowed that. Men are naturally wired to protect women and children. If it was between a man and a woman, the man would definitely let the woman go to the lifeboat. Sure, feminism gives the CHOICE of equality in today's society but.. gender roles will forever be wired into our biology. Certain attributes will always be apart of our DNA. For men, it's about protecting and providing. Always will be.
@@stayathomemarine Let's rephrase that. The social ettiquiette at the time meant many men would push out men who tried to get into life boats to make room for women and children. That's why a few men disguised themselves as women to be able to reach safety. This natural wired thing isn't a hard rule. Some men are predisposed to self sacrifice, and many men feel the desire to help those they perceive as weaker than themselves, and for those that werent, there was a massive social pressure to conform to it anyway.
Sarah Wagner i dont stan feminism but i agree woth this. you can see this behavior in animals as well. men being alpha and the protector.
Some of the women in the background were making faces at her for speaking facts lmao
This ain’t Oprah
I’ve always loved her. She is such a smart individual and I have so much respect for her!
Thank you! Because your a women it doesn’t mean you have to be a feminist!
I absolutely love and respect her.
Feminism is dying. Individualism is growing. I've been watching this change for for years. It's what separates America from other countries. We still at heart, know the individual is more important than the "group". After all, the individual is the smallest minority, don't we want to protect minorities?
The trans are now on the rise, they take over the feminism. Most lefties want trans in women's sport.
@@sgcl10658 so are you a terf or what
She has her self respect and jus gave some great down to earth advice. The fact of the matter is Feminist are angry extremist and only cause problems in society by wanting to break traditional families values due to there insecurities towards masculine men and feminine woman. Man and woman we all make mistakes and no one is perfect but we must try our best to live a life of morals values and ethics and have self respect for our self and others. Harvey Weinstein was a creepy desperate rich man and the woman who slept with him are creepy desperate gold diggers all over money.
*grabs popcorn*
*reads comments*
*wears HAZMAT suit*
*watches feminist videos*
This shows that you can experience success at ANY age! She was your average judge up until age 54 when a reporter saw her in action & made an article about her, which resulted in interviews & ultimately a tv show contract.
Feminist seem to think that all men had all the power since time began. The truth is you were either Royalty, Clergy or powerless peasant, man OR woman. The fight was led by men for hundreds of years to chip away at the power of the church and state. Do you think they gave up this power voluntarily? A lot of people died (mostly men) fighting for the right to be free of servitude and to get the vote - look at the USA's own revolutionary war to break away from the British state, there's a high male body count. Up until 1884 only landowners could vote in Britain (about 30% of the men). In 1918 finally all men could vote and women over 30. Then in 1928 Britain made voting rights equal. The general male population has only about 30 years advantage over the average woman with a very high body count to achieve it. The "struggle" for equality is really a class struggle, not a gender struggle. Only the very rich elite (mostly men) had money, education and power for the last 1000 years, the 99% of Men AND Women had servitude.
This is a very good point, but it should also be pointed out that men, at the very least, had some degree of power in their own homes. Power over the woman, who was expected to obey him(and still is, according to the bible). When men were servants, women were the servants of servants.
Cam C women were not servants. They were caretakers. I just can't believe why women tend to think housekeeping is a servants job?
If you read the comment that Im responding to, you'll see that he stated that for most of history, both men and women were essentially servants and only select few ruling elites had any kind of freedom. My point is, that even in those days men still had more power than women. Housekeeping as a choice is not servitude. Being in a position of forced submission and obedience is servitude.
peter schmidt But in reality Yahweh had the power so are feminists atheists then ?.
Cam C So house keeping in a marriage is now forced servitude. Really!
I love this woman so much. She’s my hero.
Feminism is so played out and stale now...and most of the times you can't take seriously most of these women as a collective these days.
People are beginning to smarten up to the fact that what they (feminists) preach is not true empowerment. You cannot feel strong from a place of victimhood. Not once did Judge Judy ever put down men in this interview.
Feminist: "I'm a female, therefore, I am successful or you are sexist."
Individualist: "It's about who I am, not what gender I am"
Feminists can you please stop the victim card. Y'all have rights!!!
America loves her. Love her values.
Excellent job on explaining. Individualism is something I can agree on. You can be a great person as an individual. Love yourself enough to stand strong and be comfortable with yourself as you are. Beautiful way of chill and life.
I just went to the comment section to see any feminists getting triggered lol
Permafriedchaos m
I haven't seen none on here yet. Did you see any of those monsters?
I don’t see tho
@@darylenelorde8388 "It's clear her definition is different and leaning towards the negative side." - A little disrespectful and a little triggered.
I love Judy's facial reaction when Kelly said that people like her show because it's a women in control. 0:16
"You can be the best darn burger flipper there is" WHAT?!?! just shut up megyn kelly.
I love Judge Judy. She has her own mob.
Jamie Morrison 💯
@Starscream91 some people love working in restaurants, serving people. Some people love providing service to others...
'people love watching a women in control'... correction... a COMPETENT PERSON in control, whether male or female