WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT LOVE || The Den || FT Abel Mutua, Mainamind & Kagwe Mungai || Part 1

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  • on this episode of the Den we explore our Perspectives on Romantic Love: Cultural Influences, Personal Experiences, and Relationship Dynamics.
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    Abel Mutua: / abelmutua
    Kagwe Mungai: / kagwemungai
    Maina Mind: / mainamind

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  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    I think we all have to unlock Abel Mutua's level of not having any expectations. I was listening to a video post today that says one of our greatest heartbreak especially when your intentions are pure is expecting the same. It's like being an ocean and expecting a cup of water to fill you up. I think genuine love should have no expectations, that's the true meaning of unconditional love as the bible states. I think Judy is lucky...

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gurllllll 🤣🤣🤣I think most of us haven't gotten to that level of self awareness yet🤣🤣for me if it's not reciprocated,,I'm done done.. working on getting there thou

    • @karenagufana6928
      @karenagufana6928 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edinahkendi9871 Don’t get it twisted though this doesn’t mean that you accept to be treated badly. Just that you should know your worth and do good not expecting but then also it’s easy for you to walk out of situations you are not respected

    • @africangirl189
      @africangirl189 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯oh yes!!😊

    • @ISONYX_LASHER
      @ISONYX_LASHER ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edinahkendi9871 we are many, not u alone

  • @AmorFaith
    @AmorFaith ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I loved this....but then again, anything with Mkuru I would love. It would be great seeing Bien, Shiv, and Khaligraph on the same set😊

  • @patriciakamara8906
    @patriciakamara8906 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    When Abel Mutua said,”Bado namupenda deadly.” 😮 I felt that. Judy deserves this man ❤

  • @simplycapped1309
    @simplycapped1309 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hey Joyride hosts. Please put subtitles I'm a south African and I feel so left out when you speak Swahili. 😅 Pls include us as well.

  • @PaulineKitoto
    @PaulineKitoto ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This was a really sober conversation. I did miss Wanjiru laughing to Ben's jokes though 🥺

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤ missed her too 😊

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It's how kagwe have said 'when I was single I used to bring girls to my house "😮😮
    😂😂 ladies sikizeni kwa makini you are with him in his house him he knows he is single

  • @brigitopado9448
    @brigitopado9448 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    The den is just what the doctor prescribed🔥🔥can’t wait to hear you hosting Benjamin Zulu,Burale and Mike Wachira.

  • @wangarikariuki6522
    @wangarikariuki6522 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Nice episode, gentlemen!
    Please don’t lie to Maina about long-distance relationships. Kagwe said the truth 100%. Long distance works when you have definite time periods before you’re back together physically, in one place

    • @wangarikariuki6522
      @wangarikariuki6522 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Life in a relationship, is meant to be done together as a couple, else you run the risk of drifting apart, among other risks

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @NjokiMwangi-p5q
    @NjokiMwangi-p5q ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Can I just say how much of a lovergirl I am for JoyRide? Now we have the Den? With the OG's? I'm sold. I love The Joyride so so much

  • @quiniannjambi
    @quiniannjambi ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Your primary source of happiness should be you 🔥🔥🔥🔥✨.
    -Abel Mkuru

  • @ms.kariuki1035
    @ms.kariuki1035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally we have gotten to hear from men themselves. Thank you Ben for this show. I have learnt a lot .

  • @joanmumbua3765
    @joanmumbua3765 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Abel Mutua... dropping wisdom

  • @tashtashy7890
    @tashtashy7890 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm glad My ex😂😂introduced me to this❤ tudu🎉🎉

  • @shphmn07
    @shphmn07 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Kagwe is right, as a woman I lose respect for a man that I dominate or provide for.

  • @mugwegideon1450
    @mugwegideon1450 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless i love this show and i want more.
    something thats been on my mind lately is; when u get married , u r not just married to your wife but also married to her family, and some of the hardest challenges is taking up ur wife's/man's family baggage. we need a master class on this one 😅😄

  • @alex51559
    @alex51559 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When you like a video before you listen only because the lineup is 🔥🔥🔥 fire!
    Abel, said something...he has zero expectations...I was also told that and at the time, I didn't understand...

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When Ben said application imefungwa,I literally felt for my bestfriend,she loves kagwe so much 😂😂😂sasaa hii podcast mnataka she unsubscribe ama 😅😅

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kuna ma bachelor tutaleta asiloose hope 😃

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheJoyridepod 😂😂😂surely

  • @sheillahsanau1189
    @sheillahsanau1189 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kagwe hio ya Men are emotional women are Sensitive so trueee actually

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Makofi kwa yule aliandika hizo maswali😅👌🏾. This was amazing premiere🔥🔥, great stuff Joyride👏🏾. Enjoyed this one❤.

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Hope Wanjiru also hosts some ladies on the side....can't wait❤

  • @quiniannjambi
    @quiniannjambi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a lady I really loved this episode 😍😍😍✨🔥.

  • @njugunakaboi885
    @njugunakaboi885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So true.... women really influence us.... I'm here juu my girlfriend Ruth suggested me to... shes a great fan.

  • @julietodundo9727
    @julietodundo9727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woow i love the show next time Include YY to join the group

  • @thee_classic
    @thee_classic ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'll answer you the first question.....when a man releases an orgasm, he releases a burning hormone oxytocin,,women do the same as well but men do it 400% more...the skin to skin contact is what creats deep connection of a man to woman.....and it's crazy because God wired his body like that....men emotionally bond with women through sex,,,

    • @ngomokahiu9912
      @ngomokahiu9912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait what men can get like sexual ties weuh coz explains so much in my life ...... Daamn

  • @chemutaileitich
    @chemutaileitich ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Eli Mwenda should be invited too!

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's Abel Mutua's thinking about marriage having less expectations from your partner

  • @sheilamarangu
    @sheilamarangu ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The part where Mkuru says the useless guys are Xtreme useless... I totally relate 😊😅

  • @100HERSELF
    @100HERSELF ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This generation will MOVE the world.
    Great stuff 🙌

  • @novyrenola4435
    @novyrenola4435 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the shortest 1 hr I have ever felt. Great show. In this wierd world, am glad we still have a generation of great men .

  • @okakafelix3644
    @okakafelix3644 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That variation in the intro ... 🔥

  • @wanjikunganga466
    @wanjikunganga466 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All Green flags 💚💚💚💚💚

  • @gacoki
    @gacoki ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When it comes to gender roles, I believe the trick is to find a balance, and also acknowledge that not all couples are created equal. Rather than base marital responsibilities solely on gender, it would be more ideal to base them on each individual's strengths and weaknesses.

  • @staceyfaustine8168
    @staceyfaustine8168 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    'people do grow apart coz their interests change"wuuuuuuuuh i felt that. wow

  • @THISJOURNEYLIFEBYKALIMIMUENDO
    @THISJOURNEYLIFEBYKALIMIMUENDO ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loving the conversations with the gentleman. Good job Joyride team

  • @bahatil5983
    @bahatil5983 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nice episode and now Imagine the den with njugush and curtis in same episode😉 and topic being on marriage

    • @victoriaopoti
      @victoriaopoti ปีที่แล้ว

      Uwiiii yes please, that will be amazing

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Weuhhh fireworks 💯napenda

  • @samdeson
    @samdeson ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Abel dated one womanz for too long that he doe'snt have much story experience 😅 NICE PODCAST

  • @wambuiwaweru9286
    @wambuiwaweru9286 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Oh our joyride is growing everyday❤i love this already

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are! And we are so excited🥳

  • @advocateomariba8970
    @advocateomariba8970 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    interesting eye opening Conversation , looking forward to more episodes of the den

  • @Helloo_oo
    @Helloo_oo ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was a good conversation.... so chill and reasonable discussions!👌
    Lakini that audio...mehn.... nilikuwa nashinda Niki adjust volume!🫤

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ absolutely 💯 amazing conversation.

  • @j.m.m5795
    @j.m.m5795 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ben,ebu jaribuni mulete mse mgenge,alafu mse hajakafunga vipoa,akupee a diff perspective ya rshp when you dont hv cash as it is,or u aint like famous cz kuna that aspect that isnt addressed..as it is😊

  • @kathyigeria8834
    @kathyigeria8834 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Would like to see @Phil Director the Wise.Eli Mwenda the sweet boy, Oscar D Koome the guy from South C Massive

  • @Iam_kawiraah
    @Iam_kawiraah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kazi yako ni kuwa useless😂😂am done with Abel😂❤

  • @BenTheSkipper
    @BenTheSkipper ปีที่แล้ว +5

    mr. Maina in da building‽ Who'd have expected this day to come!😅

  • @aririsamantha
    @aririsamantha ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not "are we pen pals?"😂😂😂😂 then Mainamind goes ahead to say he's in one😅 really enjoyed this

  • @terrydaniel1572
    @terrydaniel1572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all need to acknowledge how that show on Netflix ended tho. The couple’s relationship was repaired and they both ended up seeing each other’s worth. Esp in countries where childcare is super expensive, one/both spouse(s) definitely will have to take on primary childcare duties. And as long as you both agree, either should be able to comfortably be the primary childcarer.

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a lady I just love how men think but when you say men are emotional I don't get it kindly explain

  • @KarenGitonga-lk2uu
    @KarenGitonga-lk2uu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men are emotional
    Women are sensitive

  • @ISONYX_LASHER
    @ISONYX_LASHER ปีที่แล้ว +1

    27:22 @ Kifee, usiogope
    but Abel, expectations can also matter, obviousily in a rlsp u need trust some emotional support u need to be compatible and also some good communications for without this nothing gonna go on, everything will be death for without expectation everything will be like a meeting without an agenda.

  • @sheswangeci237
    @sheswangeci237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exciteddddddd🎉

  • @reginahwaithira8684
    @reginahwaithira8684 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wooow this is a version of from Glory to Glory ✨✨ this is another banger 💯...to more grace...in Iove with the progress

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love it here😭😭😍😍

  • @ShelmithKamande
    @ShelmithKamande ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved the conversation anything with mkuru😂

  • @danielmaina4942
    @danielmaina4942 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well, here's your Daniel for the next one 😄!

  • @nancieakinyi
    @nancieakinyi ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. So smooth. Loving The Den

  • @giftmagdalene6525
    @giftmagdalene6525 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂 it's the way Abel is concentrating banaaa

  • @annemuthonikigo4249
    @annemuthonikigo4249 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't wait for part 2😩😩

  • @nyokabi2894
    @nyokabi2894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys would like to hear a lot of Godly content though

  • @hey.wanjiku
    @hey.wanjiku ปีที่แล้ว +2

    always lit🔥

  • @gladysbob6534
    @gladysbob6534 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first podcast with men only and i didn't hear any misogynistic comments and ideas

  • @CS-zd8uf
    @CS-zd8uf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Abel ooozes wisdom man. Zero expectations, that's it🌸

  • @Sharon_Njoki.M
    @Sharon_Njoki.M ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My new favorite segment 😍 also guys are very wise hapa 👌🏾 brilliant choice Benard 😀

  • @lornahwanjiku2149
    @lornahwanjiku2149 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think the men who are having this conversation are just really woke and self aware. I wish all men took a moment to do that meehhnnn.

  • @Denistoursscenes
    @Denistoursscenes ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work. Maasai Mara Escapade & Overland Party on 29th-30th July.
    Inclusive of:
    Transport to and from
    Camping at Leshuta Village
    Enroute Drinks
    Bonfire experience & DJ entertainment
    Team building
    Meals on half-board basis
    Park fee
    Game drive
    Unlimited photography
    Charges 8500/- per person
    Deposit 2500/-
    Lipa pole pole is also accepted

  • @dorshee22
    @dorshee22 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kuamka na kungara 😂😂😂 hio imepita akina Ben 😂😂😂

  • @TalithaCumi1
    @TalithaCumi1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant wait to listen to this till the end ❤❤👌

  • @naxiz_kenya2805
    @naxiz_kenya2805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kwanza mi I have a personal story with abel when he was Freddy. Had beef with him gor a minute until i realized what women do when it comes to celebs. But I'll one day look for him tucheke iyo story

  • @CS-zd8uf
    @CS-zd8uf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anything with Mkuru, I'm in! This guy is the 🐐

  • @Jkioko
    @Jkioko 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you grow apart after ten years of being together?

  • @mayreekenya
    @mayreekenya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this convo was an eye opener for something have been struggling to find answers. Thank you guys more of this please

  • @elizawangui2970
    @elizawangui2970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me am like abel. Expectations are the worst kind of emotions

  • @jackiejdub
    @jackiejdub ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a bunch of amazing guys! loved both episodes.

  • @estherheward
    @estherheward ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couldn't miss watching this episode for anything😂😂❤️❤️

  • @blessedreuben
    @blessedreuben ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This conversation is just on another levol 🔥🔥.

  • @sainaaggy4953
    @sainaaggy4953 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can we have burale next

  • @architectyveazar1880
    @architectyveazar1880 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Wooooooooow! So happy to see the growth on the Joyride Podcast. I didn't think this was soon. 🙈I thought it was vision 2030😝.
    To Kagwe's point on attraction being affected when the woman earns more😅: Weeell, this being the Den😝, hence Lion kingdom, the Lionesses are the ones who hunt, but the lion is still loved and respected🙈... However, a couple should seek to grow together to avoid such imbalances, and should such an imbalance occur then the couple should seek to understand deeper how to keep the attraction and respect...

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much ❤
      Hehehee!! Ushaasema

  • @trizahmukei13
    @trizahmukei13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ben part 2 enhe...😅

  • @cynthiathira
    @cynthiathira ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love to see it!!!!😍👏🏾

  • @esthermukami2398
    @esthermukami2398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im here just to hear mkurugenzi talk💯💯💯

  • @bolcholdeng
    @bolcholdeng ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is, right after she would say yes, we would go on as bf gf, my big bruhs, I would wonder what to do next.😂😂😂😂😂😊

  • @thee_classic
    @thee_classic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly love this show,,,you brings the best people, beneficial knowledge one would harvest from them....great minds in there🔥🔥

  • @okakafelix3644
    @okakafelix3644 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only yardstick for a mans value is ability to provide..Mwenda tezi na omo, marejeo ni ngamani..its the default. I think women in marriages that dont upset that balance are happier...incase the man procides and does the extras..even better..

  • @manyawaful
    @manyawaful ปีที่แล้ว

    I stand to be corrected but I want the next conversation to be less of lovey dovey and more of the man being the man. Bring in an older guest

  • @lizziewanene6942
    @lizziewanene6942 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree with Kagwe, gender roles lazima. God didnt give women the grace to head the home

  • @suewayesu5908
    @suewayesu5908 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benard 😂 what's the name of the show on Netflix?

  • @ngomokahiu9912
    @ngomokahiu9912 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men are more emotional women are sensitive .....take away .....

  • @titostrings3108
    @titostrings3108 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is officially my fav. Channel... Conversation and conversation join the talk . Great work great work. Hii imeenda

  • @itsiante
    @itsiante ปีที่แล้ว

    Boychurld served right!!
    Thank you Ben for the DEN!!... Indeed invite Daniel next time😅😅😅😅

  • @YoungShiro
    @YoungShiro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed watching this.

  • @staceyfaustine8168
    @staceyfaustine8168 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what an enlighting show wow......this is good

  • @Kiptuibrenda
    @Kiptuibrenda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love to see it!!! I have enjoyed this episode, good job guys❤

  • @valmemo7801
    @valmemo7801 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Well done joyride for this brilliant segment can't wait for more of this

  • @abigaillfl3439
    @abigaillfl3439 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcasts guys I really enjoyed when is the next one coming it is been a month now I miss you guys

  • @mercychege4707
    @mercychege4707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love it for you guys🎉

  • @janenyokabi9748
    @janenyokabi9748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where is part two?

  • @rayaansheikh9431
    @rayaansheikh9431 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful ❤

  • @furahathestar
    @furahathestar ปีที่แล้ว

    Niiice🔥🔥🔥

  • @victoriamurugi6758
    @victoriamurugi6758 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agreed with just every point Kagwe shot. Great men on panel

  • @Sintamei_
    @Sintamei_ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Twede nyubani... tukafanye kakitu."😂😂😂 mkuru

  • @botanictradingcompany
    @botanictradingcompany ปีที่แล้ว

    Me:Searching for a Man in the pod...