WHAT WE KNOW ABOUT LOVE || The Den || FT Abel Mutua, Mainamind & Kagwe Mungai || Part 1

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  • @karenagufana6928
    @karenagufana6928 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    I think we all have to unlock Abel Mutua's level of not having any expectations. I was listening to a video post today that says one of our greatest heartbreak especially when your intentions are pure is expecting the same. It's like being an ocean and expecting a cup of water to fill you up. I think genuine love should have no expectations, that's the true meaning of unconditional love as the bible states. I think Judy is lucky...

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gurllllll 🤣🤣🤣I think most of us haven't gotten to that level of self awareness yet🤣🤣for me if it's not reciprocated,,I'm done done.. working on getting there thou

    • @karenagufana6928
      @karenagufana6928 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@edinahkendi9871 Don’t get it twisted though this doesn’t mean that you accept to be treated badly. Just that you should know your worth and do good not expecting but then also it’s easy for you to walk out of situations you are not respected

    • @africangirl189
      @africangirl189 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯💯💯oh yes!!😊

    • @ISONYX_LASHER
      @ISONYX_LASHER ปีที่แล้ว

      @@edinahkendi9871 we are many, not u alone

  • @patriciakamara8906
    @patriciakamara8906 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    When Abel Mutua said,”Bado namupenda deadly.” 😮 I felt that. Judy deserves this man ❤

  • @quiniannjambi
    @quiniannjambi ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Your primary source of happiness should be you 🔥🔥🔥🔥✨.
    -Abel Mkuru

  • @NjokiMwangi-p5q
    @NjokiMwangi-p5q ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Can I just say how much of a lovergirl I am for JoyRide? Now we have the Den? With the OG's? I'm sold. I love The Joyride so so much

  • @AmorFaith
    @AmorFaith ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I loved this....but then again, anything with Mkuru I would love. It would be great seeing Bien, Shiv, and Khaligraph on the same set😊

  • @sheillahsanau1189
    @sheillahsanau1189 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Kagwe hio ya Men are emotional women are Sensitive so trueee actually

  • @brigitopado9448
    @brigitopado9448 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    The den is just what the doctor prescribed🔥🔥can’t wait to hear you hosting Benjamin Zulu,Burale and Mike Wachira.

  • @njugunakaboi885
    @njugunakaboi885 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So true.... women really influence us.... I'm here juu my girlfriend Ruth suggested me to... shes a great fan.

  • @simplycapped1309
    @simplycapped1309 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hey Joyride hosts. Please put subtitles I'm a south African and I feel so left out when you speak Swahili. 😅 Pls include us as well.

  • @PaulineKitoto
    @PaulineKitoto ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This was a really sober conversation. I did miss Wanjiru laughing to Ben's jokes though 🥺

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you ❤ missed her too 😊

  • @shphmn07
    @shphmn07 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Kagwe is right, as a woman I lose respect for a man that I dominate or provide for.

  • @staceyfaustine8168
    @staceyfaustine8168 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    'people do grow apart coz their interests change"wuuuuuuuuh i felt that. wow

  • @100HERSELF
    @100HERSELF ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This generation will MOVE the world.
    Great stuff 🙌

  • @wangarikariuki6522
    @wangarikariuki6522 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Nice episode, gentlemen!
    Please don’t lie to Maina about long-distance relationships. Kagwe said the truth 100%. Long distance works when you have definite time periods before you’re back together physically, in one place

    • @wangarikariuki6522
      @wangarikariuki6522 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Life in a relationship, is meant to be done together as a couple, else you run the risk of drifting apart, among other risks

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @gacoki
    @gacoki ปีที่แล้ว +16

    When it comes to gender roles, I believe the trick is to find a balance, and also acknowledge that not all couples are created equal. Rather than base marital responsibilities solely on gender, it would be more ideal to base them on each individual's strengths and weaknesses.

  • @novyrenola4435
    @novyrenola4435 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the shortest 1 hr I have ever felt. Great show. In this wierd world, am glad we still have a generation of great men .

  • @joanmumbua3765
    @joanmumbua3765 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Abel Mutua... dropping wisdom

  • @justamummy6598
    @justamummy6598 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Hope Wanjiru also hosts some ladies on the side....can't wait❤

  • @alex51559
    @alex51559 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When you like a video before you listen only because the lineup is 🔥🔥🔥 fire!
    Abel, said something...he has zero expectations...I was also told that and at the time, I didn't understand...

  • @tashtashy7890
    @tashtashy7890 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm glad My ex😂😂introduced me to this❤ tudu🎉🎉

  • @ms.kariuki1035
    @ms.kariuki1035 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Finally we have gotten to hear from men themselves. Thank you Ben for this show. I have learnt a lot .

  • @africangirl189
    @africangirl189 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It's Abel Mutua's thinking about marriage having less expectations from your partner

  • @carolinenjoroge1195
    @carolinenjoroge1195 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's how kagwe have said 'when I was single I used to bring girls to my house "😮😮
    😂😂 ladies sikizeni kwa makini you are with him in his house him he knows he is single

  • @chemutaileitich
    @chemutaileitich ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Eli Mwenda should be invited too!

  • @edinahkendi9871
    @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When Ben said application imefungwa,I literally felt for my bestfriend,she loves kagwe so much 😂😂😂sasaa hii podcast mnataka she unsubscribe ama 😅😅

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kuna ma bachelor tutaleta asiloose hope 😃

    • @edinahkendi9871
      @edinahkendi9871 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheJoyridepod 😂😂😂surely

  • @CS-zd8uf
    @CS-zd8uf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Abel ooozes wisdom man. Zero expectations, that's it🌸

  • @kathyigeria8834
    @kathyigeria8834 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Would like to see @Phil Director the Wise.Eli Mwenda the sweet boy, Oscar D Koome the guy from South C Massive

  • @CS-zd8uf
    @CS-zd8uf 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Anything with Mkuru, I'm in! This guy is the 🐐

  • @ShelmithKamande
    @ShelmithKamande ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I loved the conversation anything with mkuru😂

  • @sheilamarangu
    @sheilamarangu ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The part where Mkuru says the useless guys are Xtreme useless... I totally relate 😊😅

  • @mugwegideon1450
    @mugwegideon1450 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless i love this show and i want more.
    something thats been on my mind lately is; when u get married , u r not just married to your wife but also married to her family, and some of the hardest challenges is taking up ur wife's/man's family baggage. we need a master class on this one 😅😄

  • @wambuiwaweru9286
    @wambuiwaweru9286 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Oh our joyride is growing everyday❤i love this already

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We are! And we are so excited🥳

  • @terrydaniel1572
    @terrydaniel1572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all need to acknowledge how that show on Netflix ended tho. The couple’s relationship was repaired and they both ended up seeing each other’s worth. Esp in countries where childcare is super expensive, one/both spouse(s) definitely will have to take on primary childcare duties. And as long as you both agree, either should be able to comfortably be the primary childcarer.

  • @evelynewairegi9083
    @evelynewairegi9083 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anything with Mkuru is a MUST Watch

  • @THISJOURNEYLIFEBYKALIMIMUENDO
    @THISJOURNEYLIFEBYKALIMIMUENDO ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Loving the conversations with the gentleman. Good job Joyride team

  • @esthermukami2398
    @esthermukami2398 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im here just to hear mkurugenzi talk💯💯💯

  • @julietodundo9727
    @julietodundo9727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Woow i love the show next time Include YY to join the group

  • @wanjikunganga466
    @wanjikunganga466 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All Green flags 💚💚💚💚💚

  • @naxiz_kenya2805
    @naxiz_kenya2805 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kwanza mi I have a personal story with abel when he was Freddy. Had beef with him gor a minute until i realized what women do when it comes to celebs. But I'll one day look for him tucheke iyo story

  • @victoriamurugi6758
    @victoriamurugi6758 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agreed with just every point Kagwe shot. Great men on panel

  • @elizawangui2970
    @elizawangui2970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Me am like abel. Expectations are the worst kind of emotions

  • @bahatil5983
    @bahatil5983 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice episode and now Imagine the den with njugush and curtis in same episode😉 and topic being on marriage

    • @victoriaopoti
      @victoriaopoti ปีที่แล้ว

      Uwiiii yes please, that will be amazing

    • @TheJoyridepod
      @TheJoyridepod  ปีที่แล้ว

      Weuhhh fireworks 💯napenda

  • @okakafelix3644
    @okakafelix3644 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That variation in the intro ... 🔥

  • @advocateomariba8970
    @advocateomariba8970 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    interesting eye opening Conversation , looking forward to more episodes of the den

  • @blessedreuben
    @blessedreuben ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This conversation is just on another levol 🔥🔥.

  • @okakafelix3644
    @okakafelix3644 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only yardstick for a mans value is ability to provide..Mwenda tezi na omo, marejeo ni ngamani..its the default. I think women in marriages that dont upset that balance are happier...incase the man procides and does the extras..even better..

  • @reginahwaithira8684
    @reginahwaithira8684 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wooow this is a version of from Glory to Glory ✨✨ this is another banger 💯...to more grace...in Iove with the progress

  • @titostrings3108
    @titostrings3108 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is officially my fav. Channel... Conversation and conversation join the talk . Great work great work. Hii imeenda

  • @beloncekamz2821
    @beloncekamz2821 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Makofi kwa yule aliandika hizo maswali😅👌🏾. This was amazing premiere🔥🔥, great stuff Joyride👏🏾. Enjoyed this one❤.

  • @quiniannjambi
    @quiniannjambi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As a lady I really loved this episode 😍😍😍✨🔥.

  • @samdeson
    @samdeson ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Abel dated one womanz for too long that he doe'snt have much story experience 😅 NICE PODCAST

  • @maggiemacharia5467
    @maggiemacharia5467 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am soo mad at that Abels story.Ati mtoi can wait

  • @thee_classic
    @thee_classic ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'll answer you the first question.....when a man releases an orgasm, he releases a burning hormone oxytocin,,women do the same as well but men do it 400% more...the skin to skin contact is what creats deep connection of a man to woman.....and it's crazy because God wired his body like that....men emotionally bond with women through sex,,,

    • @ngomokahiu9912
      @ngomokahiu9912 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wait what men can get like sexual ties weuh coz explains so much in my life ...... Daamn

  • @abigaillfl3439
    @abigaillfl3439 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great podcasts guys I really enjoyed when is the next one coming it is been a month now I miss you guys

  • @Sharon_Njoki.M
    @Sharon_Njoki.M ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My new favorite segment 😍 also guys are very wise hapa 👌🏾 brilliant choice Benard 😀

  • @lornahwanjiku2149
    @lornahwanjiku2149 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think the men who are having this conversation are just really woke and self aware. I wish all men took a moment to do that meehhnnn.

  • @jackiejdub
    @jackiejdub ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what a bunch of amazing guys! loved both episodes.

  • @TalithaCumi1
    @TalithaCumi1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cant wait to listen to this till the end ❤❤👌

  • @beckymumbi1265
    @beckymumbi1265 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wanjiru please hear this Gents' First ladies..we are waiting.

  • @BenTheSkipper
    @BenTheSkipper ปีที่แล้ว +5

    mr. Maina in da building‽ Who'd have expected this day to come!😅

  • @Helloo_oo
    @Helloo_oo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was a good conversation.... so chill and reasonable discussions!👌
    Lakini that audio...mehn.... nilikuwa nashinda Niki adjust volume!🫤

  • @nyokabi2894
    @nyokabi2894 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you guys would like to hear a lot of Godly content though

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As a lady I just love how men think but when you say men are emotional I don't get it kindly explain

  • @mayreekenya
    @mayreekenya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this convo was an eye opener for something have been struggling to find answers. Thank you guys more of this please

  • @ISONYX_LASHER
    @ISONYX_LASHER ปีที่แล้ว +1

    27:22 @ Kifee, usiogope
    but Abel, expectations can also matter, obviousily in a rlsp u need trust some emotional support u need to be compatible and also some good communications for without this nothing gonna go on, everything will be death for without expectation everything will be like a meeting without an agenda.

  • @cynthiachepkoech2395
    @cynthiachepkoech2395 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm enjoying this for sure!Sober conversations

  • @itsiante
    @itsiante ปีที่แล้ว

    Boychurld served right!!
    Thank you Ben for the DEN!!... Indeed invite Daniel next time😅😅😅😅

  • @j.m.m5795
    @j.m.m5795 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ben,ebu jaribuni mulete mse mgenge,alafu mse hajakafunga vipoa,akupee a diff perspective ya rshp when you dont hv cash as it is,or u aint like famous cz kuna that aspect that isnt addressed..as it is😊

  • @KarenGitonga-lk2uu
    @KarenGitonga-lk2uu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Men are emotional
    Women are sensitive

  • @wawanjohi
    @wawanjohi ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh, sweet Joyride, we appreciate you, Ben and Wanjiru.
    Thank you for bringing this men's perspective here.
    Never listened to Kagwe this long...man is smart and well articulated.

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤ absolutely 💯 amazing conversation.

  • @puritynjeri4133
    @puritynjeri4133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The authenticity 🔥🔥🔥

  • @giftmagdalene6525
    @giftmagdalene6525 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂 it's the way Abel is concentrating banaaa

  • @Iam_kawiraah
    @Iam_kawiraah ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kazi yako ni kuwa useless😂😂am done with Abel😂❤

  • @aririsamantha
    @aririsamantha ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Not "are we pen pals?"😂😂😂😂 then Mainamind goes ahead to say he's in one😅 really enjoyed this

  • @cynthiathira
    @cynthiathira ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love to see it!!!!😍👏🏾

  • @mercychege4707
    @mercychege4707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    We love it for you guys🎉

  • @sheillahsanau1189
    @sheillahsanau1189 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wooow just wooow, i love it cant wait to see what the ladies hot seat would be about🎉🎉🎉

  • @gladysbob6534
    @gladysbob6534 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The first podcast with men only and i didn't hear any misogynistic comments and ideas

  • @YoungShiro
    @YoungShiro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed watching this.

  • @valmemo7801
    @valmemo7801 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well done joyride for this brilliant segment can't wait for more of this

  • @Walterlagat901
    @Walterlagat901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing show ,, hope this generation can get tips

  • @judynancy3125
    @judynancy3125 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eish joylads representing 😂😂❤

  • @estherheward
    @estherheward ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Couldn't miss watching this episode for anything😂😂❤️❤️

  • @staceyfaustine8168
    @staceyfaustine8168 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what an enlighting show wow......this is good

  • @digitalhustleshq
    @digitalhustleshq ปีที่แล้ว

    The thing is, right after she would say yes, we would go on as bf gf, my big bruhs, I would wonder what to do next.😂😂😂😂😂😊

  • @thee_classic
    @thee_classic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I truly love this show,,,you brings the best people, beneficial knowledge one would harvest from them....great minds in there🔥🔥

  • @lizkathuri2040
    @lizkathuri2040 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great 1st episode. Keep em coming.

  • @Kiptuibrenda
    @Kiptuibrenda ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love to see it!!! I have enjoyed this episode, good job guys❤

  • @hinesightmind
    @hinesightmind ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this Episode❤.

  • @Denistoursscenes
    @Denistoursscenes ปีที่แล้ว

    Good work. Maasai Mara Escapade & Overland Party on 29th-30th July.
    Inclusive of:
    Transport to and from
    Camping at Leshuta Village
    Enroute Drinks
    Bonfire experience & DJ entertainment
    Team building
    Meals on half-board basis
    Park fee
    Game drive
    Unlimited photography
    Charges 8500/- per person
    Deposit 2500/-
    Lipa pole pole is also accepted

  • @sammmnate
    @sammmnate ปีที่แล้ว

    The Man Cave🎉

  • @nancieakinyi
    @nancieakinyi ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow. So smooth. Loving The Den

  • @annemuthonikigo4249
    @annemuthonikigo4249 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't wait for part 2😩😩

  • @sainaaggy4953
    @sainaaggy4953 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    can we have burale next

  • @Jkioko
    @Jkioko 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you grow apart after ten years of being together?

  • @sheswangeci237
    @sheswangeci237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Exciteddddddd🎉

  • @lamuriasworld
    @lamuriasworld ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so sweet and I love it daamnnn

  • @juliagachoka9448
    @juliagachoka9448 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The den 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥love it

  • @pesh8980
    @pesh8980 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love love it here😭😭😍😍