Things We Learnt While Being Single | Our Journeys in Singleness ft Jules and Lydia K M- Part One
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- Hello BKS lovers! Welcome to season two of The Best Kept Secret Podcast. On this episode Jules, Lydia and our host Sharon share their Best Kept Secrets on things they've learnt while being single and what their journeys in singleness looked like.
Please share YOUR best kept secret on singleness in the comment section.
Thank you for watching.
Wherever Jules and Lydia go ,
I follow 😌❤️❤️
I second you😅
And to think I wouldn't have "known" them were it not for social media😂
I third you ❤❤❤
Me too ❤
So be me❤
Only Jesus can really fill that 'hole'. Everything else is temporary and superficial. I've been single for 10 years and God has kept me.
Truth!
😮😮and do you flirt
Danganya maasai
@@damarlswanjlru6935 no. To be clear I didn't intentionally choose it to be 10 years but that's what's happened. I'm 31, I believe by virtue of being single and celibate these last 10 years, I've avoided a lot of recklessness that comes with the age between 20-30 as you discover who you are. Haven't had to take contraception, worry about pregnancy and STIs, no baby daddy drama and not to mention soul ties. I'd say in many ways,I have been spared a lot. I'm a Christian so that informed my decision. My initial decision was to keep myself until marriage and it still is. Of course I see others get married and have kids and want that too but I want it the right way, the God way. So I'm enjoying my singlehood working on myself(that's something else I noticed was lacking in my previous relationship. I experienced trauma as a child and kept putting that burden on my partner. I'm still healing but in a much better place than I was before.) I've made peace with my decision and if I don't get married, although I do desire a Godly union, there's so many children that deserve love and I will adopt. However, even within that I will maintain my celibacy journey because I obey God and it has never failed me. As a Christian I've come to learn that anytime you obey God, you gain more than you lose and that's how I intend to live.
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Learing that you are enough by yourself is not just for single people. I feel like even in a relationship you need to find peace at being yourself first and never loose that.
Jules ,sharon and lydia is definitely the trio i never knew i needed omg.I've subscribed immediately Someone to like this comment so i can come back and watch
I love Jules..she is very authentic,Lydia ❤ she has good energy...wisdom..
This didn't feel like a podcast episode but a conversation among friends.
This was lovely,can't wait for part 2❤
❤Feeling enough feels like a tree that produces apples and other people benefit by plucking the apples and eating them. If you were a tree, what are you producing? If nothing, check your soil, climate etc, not another tree. Hope that makes sense to whoever needs it.
On cheating...it's just a concept, if you buy a tap for your kitchen and it gets spoilt, replace it, if you don't you'll get dehydrated. So some men and women cheat to fill their cup, they don't want to fix their tap...on that note, you can't fill someone fully, they have to fill themselves first. That's what being enough is to my level of understwnsing. Unlearning alot of those things we learnt is the work.
I loved it here. Thank you Sharon K ❤. Lydia my darling, always a pleasure! Jules xo
We stan you Jules
@28 the feeling of loneliness is a real giant. Self-doubt,,sleepless nights, tears ,,but then again realising that it is a phase that will eventually come to an end keeps me moving
Jules and Lydia should start up a podcast❤️❤️❤️what a combo goodjob🎉
This good conversion. Being single is not easier thing.i lost my wife and it has not been easier but i thank God I am born again. God will led me to right person suitable wife for me .
I am 26 and I relate so much to Julia. In a job I don't love and so lonely but I'm so adamant on quality over quantity
It's gonna be okay hunny
@liliankamau5164 I understand what you mean. I just got a new job a few months ago and Imposter syndrome has been real. So i have been feeling so down and lonely since I moved to a new town. To make it worse I am going through a break up. So in short I know what you mean but i believe it gets easy with time.
Girl i know what you mean and i feel you, i am 25 i got pregnant at 23 went through a shitty break up and had bed rest most of my pregnancy i had to move back to my parents and completely depend on them.. now am approaching twenty six trying to figure out what the hell i want to do with my life and watching everyone else "win" in life
You define me some years back
Are all the 25 and 26-year-olds in the same boat? Cause I'm here too, feels like I'm moving but not getting anywhere! Sigh.
Educative and relatable conversation. No to idolizing marriage no matter our age.
I don't know how to act😍😍😍my favs on one single episodee😭❤Goooddddd !
And you aren't alone
Immediately yes ❤
Saaaaame😭😭😭❤❤❤
I know right 🤗
You're not alone
Anywhere Jules is...is where my heart is. Amazing conversation Ladies!
Yesss team jules
Sharon gives me pretty queen quiet confidence 😍. Like angelic
Jules is just good vibezz period,
Lydia is vibes and also like a very good friend 😊.
Love love this podcast
Where ever I see lydia, I pause everything and watch, you ladies look stunning
My way of showing myself love is going out on solo dates i rewrite my goals,tick goals achieved.. enjoy good food, ...take good pics.. some days solo movie dates.
Woow i should try this
lydia with jules in one episode😍😍😍
Where Jules is,i am there! ni kama aliniwekea juju🤣🤣🤣
Mee tooooo🔥🔥🔥
Me too😅
Same😂😂😂😂😂
Currently @23yrs old and your podcast has definitely impacted my future positively ❤ realising that I have the power to heal is the greates gift one can get
I am not currently single , but I appreciate your insight. Somethings I did when single and I agree being content when single and knowing it's a season is the cream of the cake .
I'm in the journey of singleness, and it needs a lot of commitment and discipline for you to find alone time, self-worth, self-love, and feel enough for oneself. Thank you ladies
Jules, you have been my compass in the whole psychology/soul-searching and healing journey for a while now. I just want to say a big thank you to you.
I 100% related to this particular conversation
The base of one allowing themselves get to the point of choosing aloneness/loneliness is never to get ourselves into something that will cost our peace of mind..and generally put our authenticity to jerpody
We dont need to be fully healed to be in our next relationship, is such a game changer!
Thank you for bringing Jules and Lydia.
We are here for this ❤️ thank you for bringing Jules and Lydia these two are just wholesome.
@sharon ,Jules and Lyd loved loved this episode.
39:45
39:53
The best of Lydia and Jules. I feel healed coz it's like this conversation is for me.
i love Lydia's wisdom.. Julia, i love her authentic self and how much i learn from her,😍😍 great work sharon
Can't take my eyes off Lydia's jacket ❤❤❤
I love Jules. Jules, I love ya! Also, this is very wholesome.
It was my first time coming across your channel. I enjoyed the conversation, it is relatable and I can’t wait for part 2😊. 🇿🇦
This was a whole therapy session!!! Can't wait for part 2.
In a relationship, and I loved every single second of this. Woow, such gems, so beautiful.
Thank you girls🎉
I totally relate with Jules....human connection is so important
Great conversation! Love love it! Came for Jules and Lydia and I loved it!!! Watching from Uganda.🇺🇬
Before i was betrayed i betrayed myself 😮
So true...
Best idea ever.. Lydia and Jules 😍😍
So amazingly to hear that authentic second point. I grew up without the extreme edification of marriage. I recently discovered that the whole concept of how marriage is like the" it" for a woman... Was learned in church/religion. Spiritual women really get it good on this one.
What Jules said is true. A healthy relationship can help guide you heal in so many ways. As much as therapy can be useful you still need some training ground to see if you've truly healed.
Jules....girl you are so underrated...Am giving you your flowers, shine. Lydia has great energy
And over 25 which is on a break 😭😭
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I wholly embrace such wholesome meaningful insightful conversations.... Thank you for sharing and being authentic in the process! ❤❤
Can't wait for part two🎉🎉This is wholesome!
Ugandan here ,loved this session ,very relatable ,informative ,and even inspirational about embracing one own company
Powerful discussion, educational and eye opening. I like the fact that you share things that are hardly shared because we are scared of disgrace from our communities, I can relate to a lot of what you discussed.
My 3 personalities in one room 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
right !
You ladies be shouting 🤣 but 🤯 this conversation was what I needed today.
This is the best podcast in Africa
You've written the end before you even know if they are fit the course!!!
I'm mindblown ❤❤
When you unmask the patterns you will never be the same sis...
I just love how they do not "perfectualize" their life,we all are definitely a work in progress....thank you for doing this
Jules and lydia should be friends
Infact they should have a podcast. They are so similar
I really love Lydia and Jules together do something for us girls
Rich conversations.
Yes please
They are great friends❤
so much wisdom in just one video !! ❤❤
Jules growth on rshps...and love for Self ❤...Lydia is on another level! Deep ❤
Today's podcast was full of wisdom 🔥🔥🔥✨. Thank you ladies 🥰🥰🥰.
And two of my favourites are here
Amazing times here today
Yhoo! All my faves #Lyd❤ and #Jules❤ in same session. I know I'm gonna enjoy this one😎😅. Good vibes🔥🔥.
Jules & Lydia should start something together ❤️
Learning a lot from you guys especially now with my broken heart 😢
That part where Lydia related being chosen as proof of worthiness just answered an existential question that I've been grappling with.
Oh!!! What agreat learning session here . Thanks to the host Sharon and the other two likeminded and full of energy ladies ; Julie and lydia . We may not share same faith or most cultural blieves but i see alot of commonsense thoughts from you ladies . Anywhere nikiwaona kwa social media niku folow tu, keep it up and wishing you all the very best in you endeavours... Please like my comment so that i continue coming back to listening to these thought provoking , intellectually stimulating conversation of these young super cute ladies....
All the way from South Africa, thanks for this video @Sharon. Such an incredible video n being exposed to the incredible guests.
What do you mean..like Jules and Lydia ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 woooooowwwwww
Wow what a beautiful story. You are a strong woman. Congratulations. May the Lil one grow to be loved by God and man
sharon's haiirrrrrrr,,, tell us the secret girll!!!😍😍😍
I have been intentionally single since January 2023, lol, I have so much work to do. The introspection is bananas, but I am getting better at being alone and being comfortable not having romantic partners.
Best kept secret combo!!! These three are gold!!!
It all about working ,developing and improving yourself as woman everyday. And always knowing you deserve better
Jules and Lyd equals funnnn
When love finds me again, l want it to find me submerged in my own love....Lydiaaa😢😢
I stayed single for 2 years . I thought it was the most blissful time in my life.
2. Motherhood, you don't wonna do that if ain't ready . Takes away from your freedom . (Speaking as a , now single mom). It comes to a point where you just can't handle it anymore .
Very powerful topic especially for women.....personally I've learnt alot....
I loved loved this episode 💗
Very insightful and fun ,I always enjoy Jules energy❤thank you.
Enjoyed the show!!! Indeed as a woman you need to figure out your self worth and what does self love look like to you before you betray yourself.
Wonderful episode Sharon💗
Podcasts are genius.. we really are so similar as humans and I appreciate the wisdom from these sisters🫶🏾
10K!!!😍Congrats
🎉 thank you!
I like the part that you guys talk about responsibility I have been blaming others but from now I'll be taking responsibility.thanks girls your the best 💗🥰💯
This was amazing,have really learned more and most of the things have discovered about myself and working on them. Thanks so much .
Woooow, discovering yourself is the first step before relationship
this was amazing. A girl was taking notes! Looking forward to part two
I enjoyed listening to these powerful ladies, their content is educative.
Currently in this alone phase and I appreciate your insights to this
Will really help a bunch 🙏
After this you guys should do how to maintain selflove even in relationship
Am new in this channel 😊and am already loving this 🎉sharon you're soo audible and clear ❤i love that
This talk does it apply to us men.
Yes
Jules and Lydia should have a podcast
This was so helpful ❤❤
This is soo good,loved it Jules, Lydia following you religiously where you go ❤️❤️❤️
Watching this podcast for the first time, I must say I'm here to stay...interesting indeed ❤
Favs in one video😍 Definatelyy here for it!
I really enjoyed this episode ❤️🤗
Such a wholesome conversation👌👌, also the three of you can launch another podcast 😊
This was such an amazing sister to sister conversation. Super insightful and raw. Part 2 please❤
Julessssss❤❤❤ Lydia ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Sharon ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Just what I needed today. Very educative😊
This felt so therapeutic and such an eye opener!
I discovered this space cz of Jules n Lydia❤🎉
Waiting for part two❤.. learning alot