Hey guys. totally love you. As for your desires, they are totally valid. Went through the same thing at your age. You feel like you are running out of time. You feel you need financial security! You are correct. That said, my humble request, write down your goals, find a scripture to stand on, pray over it together. You will be shocked by the power of unity and agreement! God loves this and you will move faster than if you try on your own. Today we are still hustling but our primary home that we built is now a rental property glory to God as we have another one. We had to sacrifice a lot and did not do things our friends were doing but it paid off.
totally agree , sometimes we have to make unconventional decisions, what one knows is best for self may not what your friends agree with. But standing by our own choices works
A home is a liability and so is a car but you can never put price to happiness. And also you will not work forever so to avoid the stress of where to get rent, you better have a home.
Great conversation here next time tunakuja na book na pen.Judy unafaa kutetea watu wa Mlima 😂😂 Nyeri ,Kirinyaga ,Embu tunawangoja kama ni location Mkuru anaogopa aseme asaidiwe🤣🤣🤣
I love how you guys are amazing and realistic in everything you do💯😍.......mind blowing advice and not like the shenanigans other celebs are doing.....kudos!!! and God bless you
Hii convo imenipea syk, asanteni Wakurugenzi. At 33 nafeel hiyo pressure and I agree ni poa kuwa on the same page na mtu wako ndio muwe mnaskuma life na common vision.
Hey Abel and Judy, I'm a BNI member and we have someone in our chapter called Gladys from Gated Shags, selling an acre piece of land at Kajiado for Kes 750K with a flexible payment plan and ready title deeds.
I watched this episode the first time it came out. I can't recall if I left the same comment.. When I sum up all the 💰 I've spent on paying rent , I'd be done paying for a mortgage a couple of years back. It's never too late to own your own place. I'd rather go hungry knowing the landlord isn't coming after me. It is one huge baggage taken off my shoulders.. It is worth it infolks!
Don't worry dear,God will open ways for us,am a mom of two, staying in rental house but natamani sana kusettle yet I have nothing,No giving up.Trust in God
I love this conversation, hubby turned 36 and am 35 too, na hio pressure imekua for like the last few years. We want to get a home to call our own too. Thanks for talking about this. Watching from diaspora and can't wait to get solutions na ideas. ❤❤❤
Same here... I'm turning 26 next month and the pressure is so real..like I have a kid, I'm turning 30 in a few and nothing to show for it...I feel the pressure of a place to call home
hizo movie GLL na click click ni kali sana, kama ningeulizwa, hazihitaji kusukumwa. But waKenya ni nani, maze let us embrace our own. I am very proud, ready and willing to support project imejipa kama hio! anyway, nice topic mko nayo hapa!
I'm in that age group and I always wanted to wake up to the sounds of birds and a rooster in the morning..I was very lucky to move to a home just before covid lockdown was announced. I was so happy.
@@bimkurugenzi it's amazing. You also have a space to do a kitchen garden, 2 chicken etc. Eating your own eggs or chicken feels so great. You'll get there. #Godspeed
Truly there's a return on investment on land and building. Developed land always appreciates. Bi mkuru you are teaching most ladies here that working together with your partner is a plus. Alafu yes saidia Abel kupack viatu na socks 😉😉😉
I come in ultimate peace, putting in consideration that it might be by choice or by health.. But at the back of my mind,yani uko nyuma ya akili yangu for once I thought Judy's pressure ni " I need another mkuru junior" 🤦🤦😂😂😂😂. Especially when she said,"as a woman" This family is lovely
Happening us right now when have just given up then I bump in to you this video is 6 month + am watching today, Wakuru we blessed because of you Mukurugenzi.
You can try to get land this side of ruiru east we use kangundo road unaingililia quick Mart ruai 6km to mashambas ni place imegrow sana many companies zimerudi hio side you can check Imara developers.diasporas wameinvest sana huko.
When you get a land you like visit the local make more enquiry about the specific peace. I learnt this after I bought a piece and it flood during rain season
Am 20 and my boyfriend and babydaddy is 24 and i think this is the conversation we've started having like where and how to start investing ... And i have been watching this investment talks like everywhere and i was like damn i should start working torwards investing especially in lands like this is the pressure i have right Now... Cause i have no one eti oooh nitaachiwa ama nitainherit wueeh... This mentality imeumiza watu wengi
unsolicited advice.....before you make joint investments with your baby daddy, please take sometime to think about it. Always make sure you are financially protected incase of anything. The same applies to him. Have an honest conversation between the two of you on how to move forward.
You guys are still young, I hope it goes well for both of you even though I feel both of you are still in the journey of self discovery and hope you don't drift apart
The pressure is real...am a single lady and heading 37 n constantly thinking about how to get my future house... I love your authenticity...nawapenda sana bi mkuru na mkuru mwenyewe
By the way,we need money and business that support us everyday but a home is gives you comfort and freedom to risk in huge businesses. This is out of my own experience,it feels so nice to know that your basic life is secured
Am only 24years I have land nilibuy place inatwa gatudia kwa center at only 650 transfer na kila kitu zikakam 700 sai najenga lentals bt nimkaamua niweke kanyumba kangu hapo kaa 3rooms na kitchen hoping to get married 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ndyo maana sikujenga yangu ya kukaa,lkni kina pruto na comrade fravour hawaniweki chini,nikuja apa I believe lov still exist 😋😋😋
@@kwerichege4463 on your way to rumuruti kuna center kubwa sana inatwa ivo,I schooled muhotetu girls kaa unaeza jua iyo shule basi u can easily know where gatudia is,
Lovely to see you guys discussing issues that impact lots of couples. Just love the way you go out of your way to find out how you’re both doing & how you share you’re ideas. A very beautiful couple indeed. Love you guys. 🥰🥰
Owning some property is not a bad idea. As a finance person I would advise you to invest in treasury bill, shares an bonds. The returns are very high .
Judy and Abel, these are healthy conversations. We do this mostly randomly with my husband... the pressure is real, do not succumb do just do what you need to do consistently. Seek God to guide you
How will you advise me now coz am 20yrs I have a husband already but no child yet and also am study account cause but I cannot be able to save and since I watch ur interview with obinna I have been greatly inspired Judy you such a good person,I was also trying to sell something online but I feel so much disappointed and giving up
Great, timely conversation Abel and Judy. Home ownership is no doubt everyone's goal at some point. If you're feeling pressure at 35 na jee watu wa 40+? 😭They (those people) say, the "why" is a crucial question when contemplating such major life decisions. What would be like the 5 top motivations for owning your own home? Also, most people tend to dream of building their own home versus buying. What would be 5 pros and cons of building vs buying? Lastly, after investing so much time, thought, resources into building your own home, can one feel a bit trapped for good? You can't just up and away to a different location. What if your neighbor suddenly decides to start zero grazing 100 pigs or 20 floor flats appear? For the record I'm 100% for owning and especially self-building when the time is right, these are just thoughts in the process.
very dynamic view of the whole hse owning journey and decision. I think it’s only thrilling to own a home in the yrs but ukisha ishi hapo like 10yrs. you feel bored and tired. Buying is ofcos expensive but if you get a good place it’s rewarding in the long run
I feel like pressure in your 20s kind of shouts in your face, it's more or less like peer pressure or comparison. Pressure in your 30s is very subtle. It silently creeps in during your quiet time or is triggers by certain things. But we move regardless, one day at a time.
Hi.Mkurugenzi naona mko poa wewe mama watoto.Ukweli mnajitahidi sana hard work never make someone down.Na mko poa wife 35 but kama yupo 24😄😄😄.Na wee mkurugenzi like uko 25.Good Luck.
Mkuru fika Kirinyaga place inaitwa South Ngariama. It's a new settlement scheme and it's growing so fast. The lands are still cheap and tarmacking and other amenities are being put in place. I think ni fiti ufike huko, uone mashamba huko, then uweke Kwa bucket list yako. It's closet to Embu town
Hey guys. totally love you. As for your desires, they are totally valid. Went through the same thing at your age. You feel like you are running out of time. You feel you need financial security! You are correct. That said, my humble request, write down your goals, find a scripture to stand on, pray over it together. You will be shocked by the power of unity and agreement! God loves this and you will move faster than if you try on your own. Today we are still hustling but our primary home that we built is now a rental property glory to God as we have another one. We had to sacrifice a lot and did not do things our friends were doing but it paid off.
Wow! Thaankyou!
Thanks for the lesson 🙏🙏🙏th-cam.com/video/1RkpDodB5UY/w-d-xo.html
totally agree , sometimes we have to make unconventional decisions, what one knows is best for self may not what your friends agree with. But standing by our own choices works
Sage advice. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
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Still in my 20s learning a lot from You guys,Judy is such a smart woman Abel must be feeling lucky
God give me the resources to talk about 15-20 million so casually,amazing convo👍
Sijui kama ni Mimi tu naona hii ....si mnafanana 😍😍😍 cuteness overload I swear
I bumped into you guys at garden city and you guys were so lovely.
May God keep blessing your union🙏❤️
Thaankyou!
This is what we need. You look so beautiful together
A home is a liability and so is a car but you can never put price to happiness. And also you will not work forever so to avoid the stress of where to get rent, you better have a home.
I would reccomend AMG realtors.such good peoples
I also recommend Them hapa Roosters tu
Its the way Abel is paying attention 🤩
Plus the love he gets from bi mkuru
Aki si these two people are beautiful! Young, brilliant and very attractive. Nawapenda sana wakuru
Judy my mentor...I love you guys💕
Great conversation here next time tunakuja na book na pen.Judy unafaa kutetea watu wa Mlima 😂😂 Nyeri ,Kirinyaga ,Embu tunawangoja kama ni location Mkuru anaogopa aseme asaidiwe🤣🤣🤣
I love how you guys are amazing and realistic in everything you do💯😍.......mind blowing advice and not like the shenanigans other celebs are doing.....kudos!!! and God bless you
Thankyou.
Hii convo imenipea syk, asanteni Wakurugenzi. At 33 nafeel hiyo pressure and I agree ni poa kuwa on the same page na mtu wako ndio muwe mnaskuma life na common vision.
The pressure after 35 is real kwanza reality of 40's knocking
Weuh I'm in that bracket,I relate too well
Uwee shikilia tu hapo
My agemates kwanza ndio nmeanza kufikiria I think I was asleep n feeling am too young not knowing days are moving like wind
Hey Abel and Judy, I'm a BNI member and we have someone in our chapter called Gladys from Gated Shags, selling an acre piece of land at Kajiado for Kes 750K with a flexible payment plan and ready title deeds.
Wow, we need more of this dates, .
I really enjoyed watching you lovely couple
I watched this episode the first time it came out.
I can't recall if I left the same comment..
When I sum up all the 💰 I've spent on paying rent , I'd be done paying for a mortgage a couple of years back.
It's never too late to own your own place.
I'd rather go hungry knowing the landlord isn't coming after me.
It is one huge baggage taken off my shoulders..
It is worth it infolks!
My pressure too is to settle down and I have nothing at hand. At times I feel hopeless but I just chose to trust God for a way out.
Don't worry dear,God will open ways for us,am a mom of two, staying in rental house but natamani sana kusettle yet I have nothing,No giving up.Trust in God
Judy looks so young. Can't believe you are turning 35💓💕💕💓💓
I love this conversation, hubby turned 36 and am 35 too, na hio pressure imekua for like the last few years. We want to get a home to call our own too. Thanks for talking about this. Watching from diaspora and can't wait to get solutions na ideas. ❤❤❤
We got you! 😊
You two are so adorable, May God fulfil your heart desires, realest people with real content you can ever find in social media!
Hyo 'kitu' munaita kiatu kwel😂😂😂mkuruuu🔥😹Aah c nimeniwas kuwatch
I'm feeling that pressure and I'm in my 20's😂😂🙆♀️
Same here... I'm turning 26 next month and the pressure is so real..like I have a kid, I'm turning 30 in a few and nothing to show for it...I feel the pressure of a place to call home
Me too😂😂😂😂
Kwanza 22 ikona noma 😞
Ati haakaangi😂😂😂 great conversation you have here I feel inspired..
hizo movie GLL na click click ni kali sana, kama ningeulizwa, hazihitaji kusukumwa. But waKenya ni nani, maze let us embrace our own. I am very proud, ready and willing to support project imejipa kama hio! anyway, nice topic mko nayo hapa!
A veeery wise woman,,,, Abel you are blessed... Keep that lady.. I love the way she gives space to talk... God bless you both
Try Daykio plantations you will not regret.They have done membly,now daykio bustani...
I really love how you guys subconciously touch/hold each other as you talk🥰
Abel will always make sense, such an amazing family, God awabless siku zote
@10:34 I feel a failure ,abeli at 36 and the big mile stone,the me 38 no kids no wife .manze challenge accepted. Congratulations to you both.
Buying a plot and building a home is the best. Nothing like not paying rent. It is a great relief
I Conquer with Mkuru, on his first opinion of owning a house at young age.
I'm in that age group and I always wanted to wake up to the sounds of birds and a rooster in the morning..I was very lucky to move to a home just before covid lockdown was announced. I was so happy.
Niice....Can't wait to wake up to that sound myself...🤗
@@bimkurugenzi it's amazing. You also have a space to do a kitchen garden, 2 chicken etc. Eating your own eggs or chicken feels so great. You'll get there. #Godspeed
I love the idea nitaiactualize nkitoka diaspora with my one..mnanijenga sana Bw.na Bi.Mkuru
Eldoret is such a nice place to live,life is affordable, good weather , cosmopolitan and it's growing fast
We love Eldoret.
Am 32 and the pressure is real…ati mmesema kujenga ni pesa ngapi Tena🫣🫣anyway the Lord will provide 🙏
Road to 100k subs I love the kind of energy you put into this videos ....kindly tulete njungush and cele time mumbus yuko shule
Count me in mkurungezi coz I trust u r open but I’ll need more assurances coz sisi hapa 🇺🇸tumenyoroshwa sana
Truly there's a return on investment on land and building. Developed land always appreciates. Bi mkuru you are teaching most ladies here that working together with your partner is a plus. Alafu yes saidia Abel kupack viatu na socks 😉😉😉
Mkuru is always a vibe. Ukitaka views, put him in your you tube!
We need to take Bi mkuru to 100k subscribers team wakurugenzi❤
tuko hapo mkurugenzi, hio pressure but God anajishow in the process
Is it just me am Judy is having a different kind of smile when having this discussion with Abel , she is lighting up different
When you love and you are loved back, that's how you glow.
😅🤣
Kumbe sio mimi peke yangu nime observe. She still blushes when directly looking at him😏
Yeah😂
Now I can say it loudly I Now Believe in Loooooooooove,,aki nipewe mtu Kam Abel aki
I come in ultimate peace, putting in consideration that it might be by choice or by health..
But at the back of my mind,yani uko nyuma ya akili yangu for once I thought Judy's pressure ni " I need another mkuru junior" 🤦🤦😂😂😂😂.
Especially when she said,"as a woman"
This family is lovely
Stop over thinking
Sahi early 20s pressure ni kusaidia tu paro na expenses since yeye ni mmoja tu na kujijenga like invest and acquire property
This couple makes me happy am smiling all through this video ❤❤❤they are soo adorable together ❤❤❤great topics i learnt something
Very good topic, keep it up. Encouraging the youth in a great way.
Happening us right now when have just given up then I bump in to you this video is 6 month + am watching today, Wakuru we blessed because of you Mukurugenzi.
You can try to get land this side of ruiru east we use kangundo road unaingililia quick Mart ruai 6km to mashambas ni place imegrow sana many companies zimerudi hio side you can check Imara developers.diasporas wameinvest sana huko.
When you get a land you like visit the local make more enquiry about the specific peace. I learnt this after I bought a piece and it flood during rain season
Am 20 and my boyfriend and babydaddy is 24 and i think this is the conversation we've started having like where and how to start investing ... And i have been watching this investment talks like everywhere and i was like damn i should start working torwards investing especially in lands like this is the pressure i have right Now... Cause i have no one eti oooh nitaachiwa ama nitainherit wueeh... This mentality imeumiza watu wengi
unsolicited advice.....before you make joint investments with your baby daddy, please take sometime to think about it. Always make sure you are financially protected incase of anything. The same applies to him. Have an honest conversation between the two of you on how to move forward.
You guys are still young, I hope it goes well for both of you even though I feel both of you are still in the journey of self discovery and hope you don't drift apart
Enjoy life first
Wueh at 20 bf babydaddy concentrate in school school school build yourself otherwise wueh
😂😂😂ghaiii at 20 sina hata boyfriend ,mmeanza investment waaah !
The pressure is real...am a single lady and heading 37 n constantly thinking about how to get my future house...
I love your authenticity...nawapenda sana bi mkuru na mkuru mwenyewe
just turned 37 and still single
Waoh, 30's its not late. Kindly watch my show experiences with other 30 plus people.
@@MarinaRembo usitense Mungu atakam through 🙏
By the way,we need money and business that support us everyday but a home is gives you comfort and freedom to risk in huge businesses. This is out of my own experience,it feels so nice to know that your basic life is secured
Wow. Loving that you guyz are opening up and bringing up these conversations
Am only 24years I have land nilibuy place inatwa gatudia kwa center at only 650 transfer na kila kitu zikakam 700 sai najenga lentals bt nimkaamua niweke kanyumba kangu hapo kaa 3rooms na kitchen hoping to get married 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ndyo maana sikujenga yangu ya kukaa,lkni kina pruto na comrade fravour hawaniweki chini,nikuja apa I believe lov still exist 😋😋😋
Wooooow congratulations 🎉
Gatudia iko wapi
Gatudia ni wapi, iyo ya 650 ni size wat
@@samiimburu4585 50 by 100
@@kwerichege4463 on your way to rumuruti kuna center kubwa sana inatwa ivo,I schooled muhotetu girls kaa unaeza jua iyo shule basi u can easily know where gatudia is,
Lovely to see you guys discussing issues that impact lots of couples. Just love the way you go out of your way to find out how you’re both doing & how you share you’re ideas. A very beautiful couple indeed. Love you guys. 🥰🥰
Thaankyou Irine.
Karibuni Hyssop properties coz you know what ... We got you👌
mko wasupuu sana,you guys should give mumbus a sister😍
Pressure ya investment is real! Im in my early 20s na nimeona what I can do now is expand my knowldge on matters investment.
Owning some property is not a bad idea. As a finance person I would advise you to invest in treasury bill, shares an bonds. The returns are very high .
Hey Juma,kindly shade more light on this
Judy is a very good listener
My hubby and I are 35 and the pressure is there…..we moved to our home this year and to be honest it’s a great step and we loving it
So agemated can marry?
My couple doing that thing. I just love how the two vibes. I love you
I know the feeling and the pressure...I never had so much but I just have a simple house in kenol..Try to check plots in Kenol.
Judy and Abel, these are healthy conversations. We do this mostly randomly with my husband... the pressure is real, do not succumb do just do what
you need to do consistently. Seek God to guide you
So beautiful ❤️
Mm nangoja hio two weeks am turning 26 and I want to settle my mum ndio pia mm nijipange before my daughter joins high school
Mwanamke ata uko on the right track ukianza kununua mashamba.. Agikuyu na tufuroti maguta ma!
How will you advise me now coz am 20yrs I have a husband already but no child yet and also am study account cause but I cannot be able to save and since I watch ur interview with obinna I have been greatly inspired Judy you such a good person,I was also trying to sell something online but I feel so much disappointed and giving up
This talks to my soul .same conversations in my house 🏠 ,same pressure.
Same Whatsapp
Aaaaah....kumbe tuko wengi.
Wueh🥵🥵🥵🥵....Was just chilling then boom someone said whats really hitting 70% of the Couples..
Yaani Abel so sweet when talking to BMkurungenzi i love both you guys
I know people are conned through land, but Imara land investments limited is here to make a difference ‼️
Hey guys, Nyawira my namesake🤗 loving the conversation ,may God hear you..I can't wait to have such with the one He's keeping for me🙏
Walking with you in this, IN JESUS NAME IWILL BE YOUR NEIGHBOUR!!
Ameeeen!
I've loved the conversation
Hizo pressure ndizo tunataka pia🤭
Me na wife tuna experience the same na tuko 25yrs😀
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Wow. Ulioa lini?
Fikeni 35 pamoja then tuone how far
Bi mkurugenzi Tembea kangundo road kuna genuine plots na land.
I relate though pressure ya kujenga bado haijaniingia. Pressure niko nayo ni ya kuwa na iyo parcel kwanza
If you want outside nairobi but accessible to nairobi I'd suggest maeneo kama ya kajiado. Kiserian unaweza get a huge chunk of land and beautiful
Nice conversation..
Hapo kwa mashamba , you trust RISI INVESTMENT.
I follow those guys wako legit 👍
Your relationship looks so real .. love you so much 🥰
Great, timely conversation Abel and Judy. Home ownership is no doubt everyone's goal at some point. If you're feeling pressure at 35 na jee watu wa 40+? 😭They (those people) say, the "why" is a crucial question when contemplating such major life decisions. What would be like the 5 top motivations for owning your own home? Also, most people tend to dream of building their own home versus buying. What would be 5 pros and cons of building vs buying? Lastly, after investing so much time, thought, resources into building your own home, can one feel a bit trapped for good? You can't just up and away to a different location. What if your neighbor suddenly decides to start zero grazing 100 pigs or 20 floor flats appear? For the record I'm 100% for owning and especially self-building when the time is right, these are just thoughts in the process.
very dynamic view of the whole hse owning journey and decision. I think it’s only thrilling to own a home in the yrs but ukisha ishi hapo like 10yrs. you feel bored and tired. Buying is ofcos expensive but if you get a good place it’s rewarding in the long run
I feel like pressure in your 20s kind of shouts in your face, it's more or less like peer pressure or comparison. Pressure in your 30s is very subtle. It silently creeps in during your quiet time or is triggers by certain things. But we move regardless, one day at a time.
Why don't you try getting land in Kajiado North. It is not far from Nairobi but at the same time it fairly reasonable. Reach out.
Iam at 35 and paying rent suddenly stopped making sense... We had to relocate to our home from which we commute
Hi.Mkurugenzi naona mko poa wewe mama watoto.Ukweli mnajitahidi sana hard work never make someone down.Na mko poa wife 35 but kama yupo 24😄😄😄.Na wee mkurugenzi like uko 25.Good Luck.
A great incentive pray earnestly to God to make it appealing all the best
If you can have your conversations in English, it will have global effect.
I couldn't flow with the gist though the title attracted me
Aki I have been reasoning like that for the longest time.sinking alot of money in a house.but Iam also having a change of heart
Thoughts become things! Affirmative thoughts are very powerful.
So very true!
Good Convo im in your age group, and I constantly feel the pressure of Building a house for my Family as a Man
Ka pressure kako proper.. securing the future.. n Job growth. What's next after this level
so lovely , sijui ka hivi ndio mnaongeanga kwa hao 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You guys are so natural... my first time here. Lovely couple
Aki mapenzi nikikushika wewe🤭. But hii discussion ni timam kabisaaa 👌🏼
Endeni Nairobi ndogo. Great community and it is not so expensive
Mkuru fika Kirinyaga place inaitwa South Ngariama. It's a new settlement scheme and it's growing so fast. The lands are still cheap and tarmacking and other amenities are being put in place.
I think ni fiti ufike huko, uone mashamba huko, then uweke Kwa bucket list yako. It's closet to Embu town
Amazing dual 🔥🔥...God shall establish ur plans