Caught in the Hijackal® Trap? Narcissistic Victim Syndrome

Do you feel caught, stuck, trapped in a crazy-making relationship? Do you second-guess yourself? Listen in...
HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
- How does it feel to be caught in the #Hijackal® Trap?
- What are the behaviors that #Hijackals use to trap you?
- Why it's not your fault, no matter what a Hijackal tells you.
- Are you caught up in defending your abuser?
- What about the #gaslighting ?
- How wanting to be a good person can trip you up in the Hijackal Trap.
The #Hijackal Trap usually closes slowly. At first, everything seems rosy, wonderful, and just what you've always longer for.
Then, it starts to close. Narcissistic behavior is crafty!
You want to believe what you fell in love with was true, so you rationalize, justify, and excuse red flag behaviors.
Did you do that? Are you doing that? That will keep you trapped!
In this episode, I walk you through more than eight clear signs and symptoms that you are caught in the #Hijackal Trap, and hopefully, you'll see them clearly. Once you see them, you can make better decisions for yourself...and, for your children. Until you see them, you may think everything is your fault. At least, that's what the Hijackal has been telling you, right?
When someone tells you something negative about the person who has caused you to listen to this, do you instantly jump to their defense? Or, do you make it all your fault? These are signs you are in the #HijackalTrap
Good news. You can get out of the Hijackal Trap. Read my downloadable ebook, Escaping the Hijackal Trap. You can recover from any symptoms of Narcissistic Victim Syndrome. It will take awhile, but you'll recover to live and love and trust again. If you're ready to do that now, let's talk: www.BeAClient.com
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* * Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.
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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.
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[@bandieboo8102]

Great video...lots of helpful information! Thank you 😘🤗

[@ForRelationshipHelp]

You're so welcome. I'm glad you found it valuable. Feel free to subscribe, and to join in my Monday evening livestreams at 6 PM Pacific each week, too.

[@ForRelationshipHelp]

@@fifisquirrel4638 Hi, I'm so happy to hear from you. I'm glad you found value and I hope to see you on the livestream some Monday. I know that's at 2 AM for you!

[@lindagreen9278]

I know I'm caught in this syndrome, but feel I'm taking the right steps in delving into the whole circumference of it all and what I need to deal with it. I would like to know about this trap in reference to a long term friendship. Thank you.

[@nlbar8813]

Godbless you my name is Angie