How You Are Unconsciously Manipulated by a Narcissist's Voice
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.ย. 2024
- Whether you have a Hijackal parent, partner, sibling, or other of the narcissistic variety, knowing how they manipulate you with their voices is important to recognize. AND, they only do some of that manipulating consciously. Once you're aware of these important cues, you can refuse to be affected. GREAT!
HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
- How your body reads the Hijackal
- Why your mind argues with your body
- Why you need to know you can trust your body's wisdom
- How Hijackals manipulate you with their voice
- Know what you're actually taking in...and
- Know to trust your body
This episode will help you see how you're being subconsciously affected by the tone, pace, volume, and other cues that a Hijackal gives through their voice.
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I lived in a hippie community many years ago. One of my roommates was a highjackal woman pushing my buttons on a daily basis. But one day, she didn t even mean to provoce me in particular, - I simply overheard her pushing people around by yelling at them ... That was a moment I never forget. The sound of her voice, and the way she commanded people around hit an unhealed spot in me and I truly saw RED! I simply saw RED! And I had to use all of my strength to not walk into her room and strangle her there and then. I am not kidding! Instead I packed my stuff and left. Her way og treating others and her tone of voice reminded me so bad on my hj mother , which I obviously had some unresolved issues with.... .. It was one of the scariest moments in my entire life, as I had to fight my own demons, my own surpressed rage against that woman and my mother and leave without harming anyone.
So understand that triggering
You are brilliant. Thank you a million times over for your messages. I have been binging and sponging as much as I can. Please know you have saved a life. 🙏❤️
This entire video is divine intervention at its finest!!!❤🎉.
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD naming there ways of expressing the dissatisfied and disappointment they have with their dumping bag.#getout!
Exactly what the narc did to me. They would break promises of not bread crumbing me on dates and when i would get fed up and call them out they would try to sound so sincere and sweet and love bombing me.
Excellent!
Thank you, this was incredibly helpful. I've been trying to escape the NPD cycles of abuse since I was a child. I'm a fighter, but I am finally feeling like something broke in me. I believe it can be healed. Just trying to move forward with my life and let go of someone who part of me knows he lies all the time and gaslights/manipulates, but I think due to the fact of his style being incredibly covert, and the fact of me being raised by npd and dated npd for years, I go back and forth sometimes part of me asks myself if I am the problem and if I am just like him yet so self deceived that I'm a oblivious npd, but my lifelong empathy tells me that's just believing the lies. I would love to check myself into an in patient place to recover my sanity with safe ppl, but that will have to be for the celebrities . I believe I can recover and the power is in me... I'm not giving up yet.
I just wanted to thank you because this is helping me keep this former fiancé blocked so far on my phone today. I hope this can continue. Much gratitude and many thanks ❣️
Great video. Insightful. Thanks
I'm camping and my good friend is asleep. I'm wondering why I'm just now finding out that I've been surrounded for ever it seems My mother was a hijackles. But, seriously, am I right to believe that my good friend of 40 years is like this. What if they just get up and walk away when I speak about something bothering me that's not about them? I've made mistakes, not so many in the last 30 years. Maybe I should say....not since my 20s and I'm 62. But, it can't be. Right?
I keep headphones on because I knew his voice was part of the problem.
I started doing the same thing.
Honest feedback. If you can make the videos shorter (15-20 mins), it will be far far better.
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Agree
Excellent.
Too many ads on this one
They use NLP .