I actually am happy to hear this story Jesse. He took off himself and didn’t annihilate his whole family which I’m grateful for. He could have done the Chris watts and got rid of them, so in that way I’m grateful he took off himself and his wife and kids are able to start their lives over without him.
@@sunnywillow9976 I heard he took the policy and gave it with the new women. EDIT: then i read the news article. Nevermind. Now the insurance company is going to take that money back from his family.
This man is the biggest coward in the world. He didn’t have the nerve to tell his wife that he didn’t love her anymore and abandoned his children. COWARD!
Its a sad fact that this is what we have to think. They werent hurt physically but those mental and emotional scars are going going to live with them forever. I cant even imagine how they are feeling.
@tracyrasmussen8117 he made them think he DROWNED so he could get foreign 😺. Are you CRAZY!?!? He doesn't need to be in even the same STATE as those children
Tbh, I would much rather think my Dad died and being able to keep the thoughts of loving him and he loving me, than to learn he literally abandoned not only me, but all of my siblings, and mom for another woman. AND FAKED HIS DEATH! Either way you have to mourn the relationship and this level of pain idk how the children get over this? Unimaginable…
@@tonyalston4838He made a vow for better or worse. If his child isn't biologically his he could easily get DNA test to prove it. He is just making excuses to justify abandonment. Normal people go to court and get legal divorce but he didn't want to be on the hook for child support.
@@TitaniumTurbine I hear your heartbeat to the beat of the drums Oh, what a shame that you came here with someone So, while you're here in my arms Let's make the most of the night like we're gonna die young (Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh) We're gonna die young (Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh) We're gonna die young (Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh) Let's make the most of the night like we're gonna die young
I think what they mean by crisis, is like a midlife crisis…like he’s not all there. At least that’s how I take it because it’s the only thing that might make a little sense with such a senseless act. 🤷♀️
Was he declared deceased ? This will cause all sorts of financial issues for his wife if things like life insurance was paid out.. Hope she has some self respect & doesn’t take him back.
@@living-in-a-wasteland there are lots losers who left their wifes for someone. The interesting part is, this internet asian woman was obviously real!!!
@TanukiMiyazaki How on earth are you blaming the wife when the man cheated and faked his death in order to abandon her and his children? Don't answer that; I already know the reason.
He legally has a financial obligation and responsibility to his children. He needs to held accountable and not just get off. No privacy should be given to him just because he wants to be away. His children have been abandoned. Any other parent would go to jail for up and leaving their kids.
My heart aches for his children. The damage and pain he has caused for his children will affect them for the rest of their lives. My heart also goes out to his wife. I cannot imagine the shock and pain of finding out the husband you were mourning had deliberately left you and your children. Crushing.
Oh please, He planned every single detail of this even sending money to an overseas account and probably had an apartment or housing already lined up. That's not mental health. If he were my husband there's no way in hell.I would take him back or let him anywhere near my children.
But I bet you'd go after every last penny of support you could. LOL And they aren't "YOUR" children... they are also his. Children are not property of mothers.
Those poor kids will face a long hard road a head. Hopefully the family pulls together and eventually gets the children to a healthy emotional and spiritual state.
Why not just tell your spouse you’re leaving. What a horrible dad doing that to your kids. He picked his new lover over his kids. I hope karma comes back to him. He should have to pay the money back that was spent on finding him.
Maybe his wife is a narcissist. Don't judge. Maybe this way, the kids could get insurance, or he knew this investigation would lead to the children being taken. Maybe this video is fake, and he really is dead, and this guy that looks like him wants to steal his identity.
@@kinglawrey8948 : For now, only his wife and he know their differences. The rest of people are just guessing and jumping to conclusions so let them guess.
Or Susan Smith, who watched her little boys go off a boat ramp in a car that she locked the doors & got it going & jumped out & watched them screaming for her to save them so she could be with another man. Her on words! Evil!
This guy has those empty eyes in his family photos. He checked out mentally from his family a long time ago. 😢 It's so sad for his kids and wife. What a horrible thing to do to your family.
Wow. Abandonment by a parent is probably one of the worst things, but to cause them to grieve only to find out they have been abandoned is extra cruel.
Those kids!!! 😢😢😢 ... I lost my father at 9 years old!!! You never get over it! Now they have to go through life knowing he didn't die, but purposely, premeditated and with malice ABANDONED them in the most horrific way for a woman he never met!!! 😢😢😢
My father died when I was seven, I’m now 68. Not a day goes by I wonder what my life and siblings life would have been. I’m the youngest of 6, my mom suffered to keep food on our table and to keep us clothed. She died when she retired in a car accident on vacation…😢
@hearourvoice5495 I'm so sorry. I completely understand! What this worm did was unforgivable! I feel for his wife, but what he did to those children will scar them for the rest of their lives! He needs to stay wherever he is!
Saying this is a midlife crisis downplays what he did. The fact that he FAKED his death to abandon his wife and kids is absolutely diabolical. The trauma and emotional damage he has done is unfixable. He needs to go to jail for wasting police time and resources on ACTUAL victims.
All I care about is the well-being of the kids. The wife's trauma is easier to deal with than the abandonment of his children. I can't even imagine their suffering right now.
@ so true, couples get dumped all the time, but to dump your kids, so horrible and will have a lasting affect on their lives. They will feel like they just didn’t matter.
His poor family, especially his wife and children. To go from worry and mourning for him to being publicly humiliated and devastated. Now his children are traumatized and feel unwanted by their father. I hope he got catfished in the worst way.
Have you ever considered that he may be a victim of a scammer? We hear similar stories of women being scammed by men, but women do it, too. He will soon discover that she is not what she appears to be.
@@tammylewis2408. If he wanted to pursue another woman, he could have separated from his wife. He has devastated his family and wasted a lot of money spent on searching for him.
@Meela234 the police are the reason his children feel unwanted they could have let it go like they do so many other cases, but no gotta get him for the 7 grand right. What a joke they should have left it alone and let the family go on thinking he had passed away
Why does she keep making excuses for him? He is in crisis, he is scared, he thought no-one cared for him... He planned this, probably so he didn't have to pay for child support or take care of the kids. It's just pure evil.
Ok but when a parent is toxic like this and choosing to go to these lengths to run away from his responsibility, is it really better for him to be reunited with his family? Leave his a&$ where he’s at.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again- he made his family grieve his death. And not just his wife and kids, but parents, siblings, friends, acquaintances. He put everyone who knew him through literally grief. Even to this day- I still have nightmares that my dad and sister didn’t actually die that they just faked their deaths to get away from everyone. My nightmare is their reality. What unimaginable pain.
They hadn't confirmed any death, yes, they may have thought it, but without a body people tend to believe their loved one is alive until proven otherwise.
Honestly, if he wasn't happy....there's a thing called divorce. What he did was wrong on so many levels but most of all....i can't even imagine how his wife and children feel.
@@macbook802 personally for me, It is better to divorce and co-parent than to stay in a marriage that no longer makes you feel happy, especially if at the end of the day, the ones who will suffer are always the children.
@@macbook802 which is more ugly and meaning telling your partner you don't want to be together anymore or making her and your young children think you're dead 💀
Yep. I did divorce and it was horrible. But it’s done and I made it. And Tatiana in Uzbekistan (romance scammer) had zero to do with it. This guy is a worm.
Yes, and he obviously does not care about his kids whatsoever. He would have rather them think of him as dead. People up and leave their children all the time. They see them as a bad memory.
Lol 😆! Omg... YESSSsssss! That's exactly why he has that pinched depressed look on his face - sitting in an empty motel room by himself . Ahaha.. what a fool this guy .
I can’t imagine a more MIND-WARPING thing to have done to his children. They have a LONG road ahead as they struggle to process and come to terms with what “dad” did. DESPICABLE.
@@TammyJones-v5e That’s not how life works realistically speaking. That’s very apathetic. People don’t just “get over” these kinds of things, not to mention the fact there’s even media coverage on this case.
Can't even finish watching. Too close to home bcos I do know EXACTLY how that family feels - And, sadly, what's in store for their emotional stability in their future. Selfish, insensitive man. His 'mental state at the time is nothing compared to what he's set in motion for his wife and kids going forward ... I just can't ...
A man in crisis? Um no. This is a man who only cares about himself and what he wants. The woman he’s with now has herself a piece of trash. Have fun with that lady. I hope the family he left behind gets the help they will need. Can’t imagine the trauma he’s caused them all. How cruel.
Uzbekistan is in Central Asia. It is not anywhere near Eastern Europe. Geographical ignorance is real in the United States. Learn about the world, Americans.
But the wife would file for it. If he's dead he's not on the hook for child support, possible alimony and other stuff. If he's alive, although far away, he would be still obligated to pay. International agreements exist to make that happen. He could be arrested for not paying cs and alimony.
He's gone over there - realised the 'new woman' doesn't exist and is now over there with nobody and is trying to get back to his old life.....please don't let his family forgive him.
@whyohwhy9679 I care because its a normal human reaction to have empathy for his children grieving for a dead dad who actually just couldn't say he wanted a different life
He had it all. A beautiful family, a home, a career.. he took it all for granted! How awful that he would rather his wife and kids think he was dead. All because he was too much of a coward to tell the truth behind his actions. Karma was swift with this one, and deservingly so.
To the people asking why he didn’t just get a divorce: if Dateline has taught us anything it is that churchgoers would rather commit murder (or in this case stage their death) than get a divorce.
I don't get it. I don't have kids but I would rather die in a house fire while tied up, than leave my kids and wife for another woman. Some people would do just about anything to have the family life he had before he left.
He didn't want to deal with his family's anger/tears. He's a sociopath. He doesn't look engaged with his family in any of the pictures. He doesn't touch them. He could easily be a neighbor/friend of the family/distant cousin.
Seems flakey to do this. There are men that are there but not there if you know what I mean. I would love to hear from the wife. I bet there is a history of weird behavior from him.
Humans are sure full of surprises...sometimes it's best to push that lonely feeling deep down & make peace with your loneliness instead of dealing with stuff like this.
What a coward. His poor family. Searching for a man who is living a double life… without any guilt of the torture and suffering that he has left behind. P#%$k!
He will come crawling back. Girls from the -stans are only after one thing. And it’s not even money. It’s a passport to the West. No way she will allow him to be holed up in her country forever. Her target is getting to the West. She will nag him into taking her back soonish.
@@obrynhe doesn’t want to come back because he knows he will be charged with insurance fraud. He 100% got catfished and now he’s desperate and in a corner.
@ QUESTION: WHAT IF he was out in the water (and the wife knew) and then at some point he decides to just leave everything behind. Thats not a crime right?? Cause he's an adult. But if the family contacts the police reports him missing....does THAT now make it a crime if he doesnt come forward??? Is that his fault? I guess im wondering where is the line drawn at between just walking away VS a missing person/faking death?
I wonder if that is why he did this in the manner he did. That is something I'd not thought about. 🤔Like if I don't exist, I can't pay. ? Very curious if he gets brought back or held liable for the amount of time and money put into searching for him (when everyone thought he was dead).
@@cindyrussell1581are you serious? He broke his children’s hearts by making them believe he was dead? Why? Probably because he wanted a different woman and didn’t want to help financially support HIS children but somehow this is the fault of women? You’re mental.
@@cindyrussell1581 how? Even the sheriff said he was probably going to pay restitution? And child support of course for his kids or at least give money for their college something. What did I say that was wrong?
To hurt his family this way, because he is too cowardly to be a man and tell his wife he didn't want to be with her...Is so evil! Sadly, those children will never forget what he did even if they forgive him one day. I hope the family have a great support system.🙏
What scumb. WHY would you do that to your children and wife. Be a man, file for divorce. He needs to be made to pay every single penny back to the state for the search. He's a complete coward. His children will never recover from what he did. His wife will always have trust issues with men.
I would file charges and sue him for emotional and physical hardship, and pain and suffering he brought on his wife and kids. This is way worse than his death. What an absolute sociopath.
A guy in the uk went out to sea in his kayak. The kayak was found on the beach. After some time the court declared him dead and his widow claimed the life insurance and decided to sell up and move to Panama. Then one day he turned up in a London police station claiming he has lost his memory, a massive investigation took place. The husband and wife were both in on it and both went to prison.
Wow...that's pretty damn low. Of course, it's difficult when you want to end your marriage, but pulling a stunt like this is so cruel. Totally selfish.
@@strongfoot2009 We do know Ryan is a coward. If his wife was cheating, he could divorce her. Instead he ran away and made his kids think he was dead. He's a loser.
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I actually am happy to hear this story Jesse. He took off himself and didn’t annihilate his whole family which I’m grateful for. He could have done the Chris watts and got rid of them, so in that way I’m grateful he took off himself and his wife and kids are able to start their lives over without him.
I can’t imagine this level of rejection from a parent
This is horrific for these kids to go through!
No doubt. Those kids must be pretty lame.
You said it exactly! The “rejection”
Abandonment issues daddy issues poor kids that women probably will never trust a man again.
He said his wife wouldn't lose weight and one of his kids might not be biologically his... I don't blame him for leaving
Why bother faking your death when you could just bail, then call your family and admit you're a piece of crap?
I think he justified leaving by getting that life insurance policy leaving that money for his family. That's why he faked his death.
What a LOSER!
@@sunnywillow9976 I heard he took the policy and gave it with the new women. EDIT: then i read the news article. Nevermind. Now the insurance company is going to take that money back from his family.
It's not as easy to go to the store for milk and never come back like it used to be.
He went to the same destination but took the long way
Oh, They Know.
This man is the biggest coward in the world. He didn’t have the nerve to tell his wife that he didn’t love her anymore and abandoned his children. COWARD!
Absolutely! Coward of the worst kind!
Even worse is abandoning you kids.
Everyone is judging this guy. You haven’t even seen the desert he went for! Maybe she is top shelf delicious.
Let’s wait till we have THAT info!
Well said
He’s going to regret his decision when his new girlfriend breaks up with him.
He’s a sociopath and am thankful his kids and wife weren’t hurt. At least he just left.
This.
Not hurt physically, but definitely hurt and damaged in every other way.
Exactly, Chris Watts took the darker path 😢
Its a sad fact that this is what we have to think. They werent hurt physically but those mental and emotional scars are going going to live with them forever. I cant even imagine how they are feeling.
Exactly my thoughts also 🤔
That man should never be allowed to be near his kids. He’s dangerous
I agree his is like Chris Watts
That's probably not the best outcome for the kids though. Hopefully they'll all heal from this and find a new normal.
@tracyrasmussen8117 he made them think he DROWNED so he could get foreign 😺. Are you CRAZY!?!? He doesn't need to be in even the same STATE as those children
@@tracyrasmussen8117 their normal is an insanely dishonest and uncaring immature father they never should ever trust or value again.
Leaving is one thing, faking your death is a whole different level of cruel punishment to your family !
Tbh, I would much rather think my Dad died and being able to keep the thoughts of loving him and he loving me, than to learn he literally abandoned not only me, but all of my siblings, and mom for another woman. AND FAKED HIS DEATH! Either way you have to mourn the relationship and this level of pain idk how the children get over this? Unimaginable…
He said his wife wouldn't lose weight and one of his kids might not be biologically his... I don't blame him for leaving
@@tonyalston4838He made a vow for better or worse. If his child isn't biologically his he could easily get DNA test to prove it. He is just making excuses to justify abandonment. Normal people go to court and get legal divorce but he didn't want to be on the hook for child support.
Source: trust me bro😂@@tonyalston4838
@@tonyalston4838If she needed to lose weight, he needed hair plugs. 😂
This man takes "Dead Beat Dad and husband" to a WHOLE A NEW LEVEL!
Not DEAD, has heartBEAT. I couldn’t help myself.
@@TitaniumTurbineu don’t know the term Dead Beat” don’t u lol
@@TitaniumTurbine I hear your heartbeat to the beat of the drums
Oh, what a shame that you came here with someone
So, while you're here in my arms
Let's make the most of the night like we're gonna die young
(Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh) We're gonna die young
(Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh) We're gonna die young
(Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh-oh)
Let's make the most of the night like we're gonna die young
He's not a man in crisis.He's a scumbag who abandoned his children and his wife
💯
Too much planning & research to even remotely consider this just a crazy overreaction. F**k him.
Exactly. To call it a crisis is bologne. He doesn’t want the responsibility of his family any more. What he really is is a monster and a loser.
Exactly. I hate that we always infantilize these scumbags.
I think what they mean by crisis, is like a midlife crisis…like he’s not all there. At least that’s how I take it because it’s the only thing that might make a little sense with such a senseless act. 🤷♀️
What a cruel thing to do to his wife and children.
As a wife, I wouldn’t want him to come home. If he doesn’t love and respect his family enough to stay, he is dead to me either way.
Feel sorry for ur hubby.
“Come back home and be with his family “! I think that ship has sailed. His wife should immediately file for divorce and sole custody of the kids.
I think you're taking things at face value... while the police are attempting something much deeper than that.
Was he declared deceased ? This will cause all sorts of financial issues for his wife if things like life insurance was paid out..
Hope she has some self respect & doesn’t take him back.
Thats what I was thinking! Like who said going home was still an option? Shes crazy if she takes him back after this.
😂
@@Rangyroth4089I wouldn’t take him back for nothing.
Imagine him being your dad… those poor kids man. And the wife too.
Most kids would probably get a laugh about it
@@macbook802the majority of criminals have no father in their life. Pretty sure this man's kids aren't laughing.
Yup he a corn 🌽 ball 🏈 for that!
What a loser
Those kids won't be there for him when he's old and sick.
Dude abandoned his children for a woman. WHAT A LOSER!
IN UZBEKISTAN out if all places on earth 😂😂
it takes two to tango. wife has culpability as well. Dude took time and effort to escape.
@@living-in-a-wasteland there are lots losers who left their wifes for someone. The interesting part is, this internet asian woman was obviously real!!!
What if he is actually a Russian spy? Lol
@TanukiMiyazaki
How on earth are you blaming the wife when the man cheated and faked his death in order to abandon her and his children?
Don't answer that; I already know the reason.
He legally has a financial obligation and responsibility to his children. He needs to held accountable and not just get off. No privacy should be given to him just because he wants to be away. His children have been abandoned. Any other parent would go to jail for up and leaving their kids.
My heart aches for his children. The damage and pain he has caused for his children will affect them for the rest of their lives. My heart also goes out to his wife. I cannot imagine the shock and pain of finding out the husband you were mourning had deliberately left you and your children. Crushing.
Oh please, He planned every single detail of this even sending money to an overseas account and probably had an apartment or housing already lined up. That's not mental health. If he were my husband there's no way in hell.I would take him back or let him anywhere near my children.
Thank you 🙏🏻
I dont think he wants to come back
Exactly
Blaming mental health only makes it more disgusting - it discredits those with ACTUAL mental health illnesses!!!!
But I bet you'd go after every last penny of support you could. LOL And they aren't "YOUR" children... they are also his. Children are not property of mothers.
What a total loser. He has destroyed his family's trust. Nothing will ever be the same for them again:(
Those poor kids will face a long hard road a head. Hopefully the family pulls together and eventually gets the children to a healthy emotional and spiritual state.
Why not just tell your spouse you’re leaving. What a horrible dad doing that to your kids. He picked his new lover over his kids. I hope karma comes back to him. He should have to pay the money back that was spent on finding him.
She might KILL you. Lots of women killed their husbands and their boyfriends.
Maybe his wife is a narcissist. Don't judge. Maybe this way, the kids could get insurance, or he knew this investigation would lead to the children being taken. Maybe this video is fake, and he really is dead, and this guy that looks like him wants to steal his identity.
He didn't want to have to pay child support. It's automatic in a divorce & sometimes spousal support!
@@ommitedommited154 :
Exactly. If he told her, she might have killed him. Lots of women killed their husbands and their boyfriends.
@@kinglawrey8948 :
For now, only his wife and he know their differences. The rest of people are just guessing and jumping to conclusions so let them guess.
At least he didn't pull a "Chris Watts". May the family dust off from his actions and move forward without him.
That's what I said but not trying to excuse his dispicable actions.
Or Susan Smith, who watched her little boys go off a boat ramp in a car that she locked the doors & got it going & jumped out & watched them screaming for her to save them so she could be with another man. Her on words! Evil!
This is what I just said “they” usually off their families. I’ll give him credit for that.
@@captainchaos52 irrelevant comment
This guy has those empty eyes in his family photos. He checked out mentally from his family a long time ago. 😢 It's so sad for his kids and wife. What a horrible thing to do to your family.
This family would be much better off WITHOUT this awful man in it.
Wow. Abandonment by a parent is probably one of the worst things, but to cause them to grieve only to find out they have been abandoned is extra cruel.
Having a parent just up and leave one day is traumatic. This is just horrific to do to children and his wife. He’s such a coward.
Those kids!!! 😢😢😢 ... I lost my father at 9 years old!!! You never get over it! Now they have to go through life knowing he didn't die, but purposely, premeditated and with malice ABANDONED them in the most horrific way for a woman he never met!!! 😢😢😢
absolutely awful!
Crazy
My father died when I was seven, I’m now 68. Not a day goes by I wonder what my life and siblings life would have been. I’m the youngest of 6, my mom suffered to keep food on our table and to keep us clothed. She died when she retired in a car accident on vacation…😢
@hearourvoice5495 I'm so sorry. I completely understand! What this worm did was unforgivable! I feel for his wife, but what he did to those children will scar them for the rest of their lives! He needs to stay wherever he is!
He still hasn’t seen the woman? I guess that’s why he’s speaking up to authorities. I need to know if she’s real or not lol. This is siiiccckkk!!!
Saying this is a midlife crisis downplays what he did. The fact that he FAKED his death to abandon his wife and kids is absolutely diabolical. The trauma and emotional damage he has done is unfixable. He needs to go to jail for wasting police time and resources on ACTUAL victims.
As a father, I can’t imagine abandoning my kids. That’s horrible.
How horrible for his wife, but even worse for his kids! Disgraceful!
Actually he is trash and took himself out.
All I care about is the well-being of the kids. The wife's trauma is easier to deal with than the abandonment of his children. I can't even imagine their suffering right now.
@ so true, couples get dumped all the time, but to dump your kids, so horrible and will have a lasting affect on their lives. They will feel like they just didn’t matter.
His poor family, especially his wife and children. To go from worry and mourning for him to being publicly humiliated and devastated. Now his children are traumatized and feel unwanted by their father. I hope he got catfished in the worst way.
Have you ever considered that he may be a victim of a scammer? We hear similar stories of women being scammed by men, but women do it, too. He will soon discover that she is not what she appears to be.
Eastern European fans-only women are experts at scamming.
@@tammylewis2408. If he wanted to pursue another woman, he could have separated from his wife. He has devastated his family and wasted a lot of money spent on searching for him.
@Meela234 the police are the reason his children feel unwanted they could have let it go like they do so many other cases, but no gotta get him for the 7 grand right. What a joke they should have left it alone and let the family go on thinking he had passed away
@@michaelpark616 Wrong, their creep dad is why the kids feel unwanted...Just him.
Why does she keep making excuses for him? He is in crisis, he is scared, he thought no-one cared for him... He planned this, probably so he didn't have to pay for child support or take care of the kids. It's just pure evil.
Yes! Child support! He wanted all the money for himself and his new honey!
She's a defense attorney- it just her nature
Could’ve been worse, he could’ve Chris Watts them.
I feel like we’re looking at a woman who has probably been abused her entire relationship with him and is just too far gone for now.
MORE THAN LIKELY A DEFENSE ATTORNEY OR THE COURT SYSTEM... KEEP STATING. HE NEEDS TO STOP TALKING 🤬🤬🤬
Ok but when a parent is toxic like this and choosing to go to these lengths to run away from his responsibility, is it really better for him to be reunited with his family? Leave his a&$ where he’s at.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again- he made his family grieve his death. And not just his wife and kids, but parents, siblings, friends, acquaintances. He put everyone who knew him through literally grief.
Even to this day- I still have nightmares that my dad and sister didn’t actually die that they just faked their deaths to get away from everyone. My nightmare is their reality. What unimaginable pain.
They hadn't confirmed any death, yes, they may have thought it, but without a body people tend to believe their loved one is alive until proven otherwise.
Honestly, if he wasn't happy....there's a thing called divorce. What he did was wrong on so many levels but most of all....i can't even imagine how his wife and children feel.
Exactly like how is someone's first thought (or at least the one they go with) to kill the other person or stage their own death? Tf
Divorces are mean and negative
And faking your death and traumatizing you family isn't?@macbook802
@@macbook802 personally for me, It is better to divorce and co-parent than to stay in a marriage that no longer makes you feel happy, especially if at the end of the day, the ones who will suffer are always the children.
@@macbook802 which is more ugly and meaning telling your partner you don't want to be together anymore or making her and your young children think you're dead 💀
It’s crazy the lengths people will go to avoiding just saying how they feel. Murder, faking deaths, abandoning children.
Doesn't want to pay child support or $ to his wife! Jerk.
Maybe he didn’t want to hurt their feelings. I wouldn’t have adviced him to send proof of life.
What men will do for certain things is diabolical
It’s weird.
@mimiseeyou 😘
I hope the wife sues him, and gets everything.
@Darius-uj1gvpretty sure him having an affair is what caused all this. Actually.
@@Copeandseethe822it’s so telling what the men are like who defend his behavior 🤮
@Darius-uj1gv It is?
@@tiffanyhanson3701if a woman did this, you’ll say she is escaping an abusive husband. But a man does this and he’s automatically a bad person. Lmao
The police should sue him too. I am sure the police used substantial tax payers money for his search.
In my opinion, he did it this way because he didn’t want to be an adult, file for divorce and pay child support
Alimony too
1000%
Yep. I did divorce and it was horrible. But it’s done and I made it. And Tatiana in Uzbekistan (romance scammer) had zero to do with it. This guy is a worm.
Yes, and he obviously does not care about his kids whatsoever. He would have rather them think of him as dead. People up and leave their children all the time. They see them as a bad memory.
I think his Eastern European girlfriend told him, “look, police are contacting me and this isn’t fun anymore. You better call home.”
Unlike other channels/news outlets, thank you for blurring the faces of his innocent children!
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Absolutely. I've always wondered why other media outlets don't do that.
He's a man in crisis because he finally met Tatiana and she probably didn't look like the supermodel 20 year old that he thought she was.
And maybe he is not the superhero Tatiana was lookin for😅
Tatiana is aka Andrew Tate😆
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Lol 😆! Omg... YESSSsssss! That's exactly why he has that pinched depressed look on his face - sitting in an empty motel room by himself . Ahaha.. what a fool this guy .
if she's Uzbek, she looks Chinese
What type of woman would even want to be with a man who could do something like this? Like he literally abandoned his minor children.
Ikr, and not only that but he was also perfectly fine with not seeing his kids ever again and with letting them believe that their father was dead...
My guess is a lady of the night. She thinks she hit the jackpot probably lol
He will end up doing the same thing to her!
I bet his new lover is super young, even, maybe, underage. 🤦🏾♀️
@@emiliamartineli1888 She might even be a man.
It's always the children left holding the bag. Sorry, kids. Your dad must be very troubled to leave amazing kids like you.
What a sad excuse for a man. He did his family a favor, life without him.
The audacity of some people.
I can’t imagine a more MIND-WARPING thing to have done to his children.
They have a LONG road ahead as they struggle to process and come to terms with what “dad” did.
DESPICABLE.
The kids and wife will have extreme trust issues for the rest of their lives
Exactly
I sure they will get over it what other choice do they have
the wife & kids should sue him for the emotional damage
@@TammyJones-v5eit happened to me when I was nine. I have had abandonment issues since then.
@@TammyJones-v5e That’s not how life works realistically speaking. That’s very apathetic. People don’t just “get over” these kinds of things, not to mention the fact there’s even media coverage on this case.
Can't even finish watching. Too close to home bcos I do know EXACTLY how that family feels - And, sadly, what's in store for their emotional stability in their future.
Selfish, insensitive man. His 'mental state at the time is nothing compared to what he's set in motion for his wife and kids going forward ... I just can't ...
sorry you had to go through that 😞🫶🏾
So sorry you had to go through that - its really excrusiating
Did you first believe he was dead or did he just abandon you guys? Mine did too and started a new family, it's pretty rough
@@mistymountainhopperhorrible.Its the other woman's fault too.
A man in crisis? Um no. This is a man who only cares about himself and what he wants. The woman he’s with now has herself a piece of trash. Have fun with that lady. I hope the family he left behind gets the help they will need. Can’t imagine the trauma he’s caused them all. How cruel.
An advert interrupted your advert. I realize now there’s no escape for me.
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Let's face it, if they are counting on him to just come back, think again. He is not coming back willingly. Especially with possible charges pending.
I don’t think they’d want him back atp 😭
The amount of disgust I would have for this man. Talk about easy af to move on
Exactly!
Get a life.
That Google Maps guy could find him based on that video.
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There’s like one million clues for the google map guy to follow in that video
That video looks like he’s being held hostage in a secret location if you ask me. That doesn’t look like a regular apartment in Uzbekistan
@@kelliekriss2131such as?
Uzbekistan is in Central Asia. It is not anywhere near Eastern Europe. Geographical ignorance is real in the United States. Learn about the world, Americans.
He didn't even have to file for divorce/pay child support. He could've just left the wife a note- "I'm out". "Never coming back".
But the wife would file for it. If he's dead he's not on the hook for child support, possible alimony and other stuff. If he's alive, although far away, he would be still obligated to pay. International agreements exist to make that happen. He could be arrested for not paying cs and alimony.
He's gone over there - realised the 'new woman' doesn't exist and is now over there with nobody and is trying to get back to his old life.....please don't let his family forgive him.
Why do you care? It's not your family. You don't know what their family was like before.
@whyohwhy9679 I care because its a normal human reaction to have empathy for his children grieving for a dead dad who actually just couldn't say he wanted a different life
A better alibi would be i bumped my head while kayaking and I don't remember anything else
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For real.
@@macbook802 🤣🤣
"Overboard" LAW & Crime.
lololol he sure is acting as if he done Bumped his head
I'd just be making sure he pays for his kids at this point. I wouldn't want him back that's for sure!
At all
Child supports the biggest scam the USA does 😂
What a coward he is.
I don’t believe he’s a man in crisis at all. He couldn’t face his family to tell them he wanted out. A very cowardly man in my opinion.
He was in crisis? Stop with the sympathy. This guy has a grandiose view of himself, everyone else matters little!
He had it all. A beautiful family, a home, a career.. he took it all for granted!
How awful that he would rather his wife and kids think he was dead. All because he was too much of a coward to tell the truth behind his actions. Karma was swift with this one, and deservingly so.
And with any luck, he will lose his freedom.
To the people asking why he didn’t just get a divorce: if Dateline has taught us anything it is that churchgoers would rather commit murder (or in this case stage their death) than get a divorce.
@@vhnf1 It's not church goers, stop being silly. Most Americans are not regular church goers 🙄
Agatha Christie said “Some people will murder to avoid a scandal.”
Crazy - I hope the kids will just stick with his first story and find peace growing up like having a deceased father ! Act like he is actually dead
He didn't tell his family he was leaving because he's a COWARD.
I don't get it. I don't have kids but I would rather die in a house fire while tied up, than leave my kids and wife for another woman. Some people would do just about anything to have the family life he had before he left.
I lost dad at eleven, in 30s now and it still hurts. Can't believe he faked his death. The emotional torment those kids must be going through 😢😢😢
I’M SPEECHLESS!!! My heart definitely feels for his wife & kids!!
Creep! Wasn't man enough to just tell his family he needed to just go. Instead he let's them freak out...grieve. shame on him.
He didn't want to deal with his family's anger/tears. He's a sociopath. He doesn't look engaged with his family in any of the pictures. He doesn't touch them. He could easily be a neighbor/friend of the family/distant cousin.
Seems flakey to do this. There are men that are there but not there if you know what I mean. I would love to hear from the wife. I bet there is a history of weird behavior from him.
He s a coward, and immature for not telling his wife the truth. Total jerk for making people, his kids and wife think he s dead
Humans are sure full of surprises...sometimes it's best to push that lonely feeling deep down & make peace with your loneliness instead of dealing with stuff like this.
I agree middle age crises. He should be charged for all the work authorities did . Very costly for the taxpayers.
The trauma to the family weighs deeper than that and unfortunately they do not get the compensation they deserve
The wife should put him on child support. That'll eventually trigger a warrant.
@@AreYouABadfishTooDoesnt she have to know where he's at or contact info in order to serve him the papers? (Or whatever the process is)
What a coward. His poor family. Searching for a man who is living a double life… without any guilt of the torture and suffering that he has left behind. P#%$k!
Uzbekistan is in Central Asia, not Eastern Europe. It's very far from Europe.
The woman he was talking to was from Uzbekistan, but law enforcement was able to track him as far as eastern Europe
As a wisconsin man i have only one question: has anyone called dibs on mr borgwardts abandonned kayak, yet?
As a Wisconsin woman, I called dibs. Put it on E-Bay.
What a pos to do that to his kids.
Looks like his dream girl turned out to be a catfish and now he’s crawling back 🤦♂️
what do you mean? He doesn't want to come home. did you even watch the video lol
He'll crawl back into a cage. Aka jail cell.
He will come crawling back. Girls from the -stans are only after one thing. And it’s not even money. It’s a passport to the West. No way she will allow him to be holed up in her country forever. Her target is getting to the West. She will nag him into taking her back soonish.
@@obrynhe doesn’t want to come back because he knows he will be charged with insurance fraud. He 100% got catfished and now he’s desperate and in a corner.
Hope the wife divorces him! He doesnt deserve to have his kids in his life! One horrible man!
He doesn’t care at all about the kids
He obviously does not care about having the children in his life. That will not be a punishment for this chad.
This is a lot of effort for a simple divorce.
This man is not in crisis.. he’s just a coward that could not just go ahead and be a man and says he wants a divorce.. like a normal person .
He'll find out that the grass is not greener on the other side.
Exactly, because wherever he goes, there he'll be.
There’s no grass in Uzbekistan. Most of the country is desert
But he doesnt want to come back n thats worse
@@ItsBrittany.well because if he does he’ll be charged with insurance fraud
@ QUESTION: WHAT IF he was out in the water (and the wife knew) and then at some point he decides to just leave everything behind. Thats not a crime right?? Cause he's an adult.
But if the family contacts the police reports him missing....does THAT now make it a crime if he doesnt come forward??? Is that his fault? I guess im wondering where is the line drawn at between just walking away VS a missing person/faking death?
He needs to pay up for child support, pay for restitution, and jail time
Just like a women it's all about money.
I wonder if that is why he did this in the manner he did. That is something I'd not thought about. 🤔Like if I don't exist, I can't pay. ? Very curious if he gets brought back or held liable for the amount of time and money put into searching for him (when everyone thought he was dead).
@@cindyrussell1581 Homelessness and destitution don't play well with children.
@@cindyrussell1581are you serious? He broke his children’s hearts by making them believe he was dead? Why? Probably because he wanted a different woman and didn’t want to help financially support HIS children but somehow this is the fault of women? You’re mental.
@@cindyrussell1581 how? Even the sheriff said he was probably going to pay restitution? And child support of course for his kids or at least give money for their college something. What did I say that was wrong?
What a piece of garbage. Why traumatize your family like that?
To hurt his family this way, because he is too cowardly to be a man and tell his wife he didn't want to be with her...Is so evil!
Sadly, those children will never forget what he did even if they forgive him one day. I hope the family have a great support system.🙏
I'd rather my Dad leave and not stay home pretending to love us. Fake love hurts more.
Very strange behavior
What scumb. WHY would you do that to your children and wife. Be a man, file for divorce. He needs to be made to pay every single penny back to the state for the search. He's a complete coward. His children will never recover from what he did. His wife will always have trust issues with men.
How could he do this to his wife and kids 😢😢 Absolutely diabolical
He said his wife wouldn't lose weight and one of his kids might not be biologically his... I don't blame him for leaving
@@tonyalston4838 Sick comment 👹
@@tonyalston4838 Where did you hear that?
@@tonyalston4838why are you romanticizing him?
I would file charges and sue him for emotional and physical hardship, and pain and suffering he brought on his wife and kids. This is way worse than his death. What an absolute sociopath.
A guy in the uk went out to sea in his kayak. The kayak was found on the beach. After some time the court declared him dead and his widow claimed the life insurance and decided to sell up and move to Panama. Then one day he turned up in a London police station claiming he has lost his memory, a massive investigation took place.
The husband and wife were both in on it and both went to prison.
Wow...that's pretty damn low. Of course, it's difficult when you want to end your marriage, but pulling a stunt like this is so cruel. Totally selfish.
The emotional trauma he put his children and wife through, he should get prison time
No no and no
Yes.
HOW dramatic!🙄JUST tell your wife and family and deal with the fallout..how bizarre..like a Coen brothers movie!unbelievable
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Children make something of yourself and you 'll never have anything to thank him for. My heart breaks you. 😢😢😢😢😢
At least his family is not in oil tanks. Just leave no need to fake your death. Don’t let him return home to his ex family.
6 months later the woman will show her true colors and he will have major regret
That woman will leave him when she finds out what a tosser he is. I hope the kids change their last names and let him know they are better than him!
I can't believe how he did his family! If he was my husband he better not come back after all that.
It’s not sad, he’s completely self absorbed.
As raggedy as this is ..I’m just happy he didn’t kill his family thinking that was his only way out
Wow… I can’t imagine anyone would do this to their children!
Maybe his wife was cheating: we just do not know the full story. Only the future will tell us.
@@strongfoot2009who gives a crap. Why would adult assume this to justify his disgusting behaviour. His family deserves this???
@@wandahuff3579 :
Your point?. This is no news for me.
@@strongfoot2009 We do know Ryan is a coward. If his wife was cheating, he could divorce her. Instead he ran away and made his kids think he was dead. He's a loser.
@@Dayle5280 :
Your opinion doe NOT count with me. So keep on barking.
He doesn't look very scared on his video. Now the whole world knows he's a dirtbag who abandoned his children.
What about his extended family like siblings and parents??? You just walk away from everyone?!
Exactly where are they in this matter. Why haven't they spoken out either. Something is not right here.
I’m sure his extended family wants their privacy and are dealing with his abandonment too. 🙏🏼
@@katyroekle682 I think they know
Too late now. They should all go on Dateline and tell the truth about him. Do not sugarcoat anything. Sugarcoating is how we got here.
Now he will say he never staged his death but just walked away from his family; actually, abandoned his family!😖