yes, i'm an INFJ that took the test 2-5 years back :) Love the channel cuz i like thinking about psychology in general. Like how i'm not queer or anything, but i find it interesting to look at things like xenogenders, which are genders that explain the concept of how someone feels about their gender through an example. I feel like taking the test again even though I still relate pretty hard to this video (good job :D).
Once you added “rarest personality type” to the title you made people subconsciously want to fit the type since it’s special to be rare. Now a lot of people will do anything to rationalize themselves being relatable to this video.
For an INFJ, it's more intense. Usually, we know what to do, but just don't do it. I wouldn't classify it as "procrastination", but rather our constant struggle towards perfection. We don't do something, at times, because of: the social circumstances, the timing, and the certainty of the outcome.
As an INFJ I kinda felt lonely and not understood (dealed with loneliness a lot) but then I found my best friend. After 3 years of friendship I found out why I felt so understood and comfortable around her: she was also an INFJ
I'm an INFJ too, and I've always had friends, but like it said in the video, they were more like acquaintances. When I met my two best girl friends and my best guy friend, I suddenly felt so valued, understood and loved. I found out later that he's also an INFJ (which explains how we got along so well as soon as we met) and that my other friend is the "best friend" with INFJs (according to online sources)! (I forgot the MBTI for it TT) Anyways I found the video to be very accurate XD Especially the part about being a perfectionist and a procrastinator XD
@@Rue779I relate to you and the comment very well as an INFJ as well I often feel left out tho and want to meet more people like me. And it’s nice to know you found your people. 😊But the perfectionist and procrastinating part is so relatable 😭 🫥
Being rare feels great! But that means it's also rare to find other INFJ, cuz INFJ are rare. Yeah I'm an INFJ too. Loneliness is a part of our life that can only be solved if we find someone trustworthy. So accept it, and hope for good!
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time,people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
@@scyllari3544 To be completely honest I wouldn’t fully put all your belief in those tests. Personality tests aren’t really accurate. You can answer the questions 100% truthfully and you know what each question specifically means, but it can still put you in a category which isn’t you. A lot of people here are mistypes, and a lot of the time with those personality tests is a lot of the questions are similar to each other and therefore you think you relate to them all, which therefore doesn’t give an honest answer
@@scyllari3544 the fact that you recommended that website 😬😬 the only reason why your results seemed “accurate” is because the questions are vague and all have similar concepts, therefore each question sounds similar and ends up mistyping you with the wrong personality type. A lot of the questions on those personality tests are Barnum statements, which are statements that apply to most people.
INFJ be like: "I mean I did take a hundred tests and they were all INFJ, but I don't want people to think I'm just saying it because it's the rarest type, so I'll just keep my mouth shut"
You know you're an INFJ when you're a good listener and people always come to tell you their problems, and then you get depressed because you have their problems weighing on you, and there's no one who takes the time to listen to your problems.
For real...I really don't understand how it happens. All my life I have been the recipient of people's confessions, I don't know what vibe I give off that makes people just want to start telling me their stuff. And it literally is everyone I encounter, not just people I know. It makes me good at my job now, and I'm able to disassociate so it isn't a burden anymore, but it really was terribly difficult to handle when I was younger. And yeah...NO ONE fucking reciprocates. Unless you're lucky enough to be friends with another INFJ who will take turns with you sharing and caring.
Are you sure about that? I mean, there are several people like me. Hispanics, brown eyes, trilangual, dark brown hair, tiny feets, underweight, skeleton look alike, average height (etcetera). But there is only one with my personality (in all human history: past, present & future) and that's me.
oh my~ I was recently tested as a INFJ again, I wasn't so sure if I am still a INFJ, but this video definitely affirmed the test result. it's also a bit spooky how accurate these descriptions are...
Yeah [INFJ as well], like I'll literally tell them exactly what they're feeling and going through yet on the otherhand, they only know what I'm feeling or talking about if make I obvious or like most of the time, they just never know 😶 It really is pain to know its hard to find people or even someone who could actually grasp your thinking into one jar. Srry for the whole paragraph, but if you read this then thank you 👍
@@bnmangaman Or don’t worry bud I freakin love it, not to sound weird but it literally tells me about the future or even gives me auras around certain people and things telling me if their good for me or not and it ALWAYS RIGHT !! 😳 So it helps me in the long run 🏃♀️🤩 but I’m just sucks that I can’t share that with someone almost exactly like me heh, who’ll understand and talk to me about it 😅.
I'm Highly Sensitive Person and INFJ-T. And yes, i'm man. Sensitive man. I accept life has pain and suffering. We all have bad days. Being sensitive has it's pros and cons. I'm lone wolf because of c-ptsd. Past traumas unfortunately shape a person and personality. Sensitivity also makes me work like spunge, absorbing others feelings because I Care too much. I'm 34 years old and all my issues in life happen because I care too much of small details. Life doesn't have to be pain and suffering, so that's why you gotta learn to regulate your "flaws", your innate core personality traits. You must work on your well-being, which means Doing, so you could call it well-doing, to improve your issues in life. Gaining healthy routines and habits are essential for feeling content in life. Most young INFJ's have issues because we care so much and we burnout from others burdens and that happens when we don't have the ability to say "no" to others at that time. Everything can be improved. People seek answers online and these videos here may be the answer you seek, or maybe it's this comment you are reading right now. I had issues accepting my spectrum of emotions as teenager, so did everyone around me also. Had to use heavy depression medication to sweep them under the rug, out of mind and focus. My regret after quitting 20 years of using that medication is, why I didn't quit it sooner. Every emotion and feeling exists for reason, you just have to practise mindfulness to figure out what causes anxiety, depression, pain and suffering. Figuring them out helps you to solve them and fix your issues. Those "bad" emotions are required to progress and self-improve in different aspects of life. Without emotions, feeling numb, you will just lay in bed, without energy or purpose, day by day, week after week, year after year, missing everything that you could do or achieve in life. Emotions, bad or good, give you energy and spark for action. Regulating and channeling them healthily and within good morals properly help you achieve things in life. Thank you for reading and reaching these last words. If you can reach here, reading these words, you can do anything you focus your mind on to!
I don’t know what type of mental illness I have… I’ve never labeled myself with one… But yes, I am extremely sensitive-especially when it comes to the people I’m deeply attached to. Instead of understanding my sensitivity, I’ve always been made to feel like this is my problem-that I’m “too sensitive.” But hey, it’s not like I chose to be this way. Maybe I have borderline personality disorder… Like, when I’m happy, I’m really happy-creative, everything. But when the people I care about, the ones I love, don’t understand me when I need them the most, I start thinking- I take on everyone’s worries, act like a "pleaser," try to ease their stress, but when it’s my turn, I get judged for being “too sensitive.” And so, from all of this, the only lesson I’ve gotten so far is-stay silent, cry it out, isolate yourself. I swear, I used to be a loud, bright, and happy kid… But as I grew up, everything got messed up. It’s gotten to the point where, when you don’t have anyone close to talk to, you find yourself writing a long comment to some stranger on TH-cam at 3:09 AM. Is it wrong to want to be understood? To wish to be seen?
I try to be happy, and I live happily... I work, I do everything... But then, after a month or two, something happens-a small, insignificant thing-and I feel like I'm back to zero. It takes a lot of courage to stand up again.
My weird shower thoughts: Even though INFJ's are the rarest personality type, they can be found in the comments section because they don't go out and instead spend their whole day watching TH-cam.... I speak from experience
I've thinked about that too! But I think because INFJs personality type is the less common so maybe we are more confused and we want to know better about us? Or maybe because (talking about myself but I know its pretty common in INFJs persons), when you are into a theme (which would be all the MBTIs personalities) we do want to search information and learn about that stuff they are now into
"You also tend to be critical about your past experiences." *flashbacks to those times I stayed up till 3am because I regretted using a certain word in a text message*
The way every legitimate INFJ wishes they weren't an INFJ because we literally have the most difficult time finding similar people to connect with mentally and emotionally.
totally agree with you, when you try to reach out to other people yet you feel like it drains your energy too much and you feel like they don’t get you then the tendency is you isolate yourself again.
This: "do you hate small talk? " absolutely. It's difficult to host a conversation about nothing.. But tell me you are having a hard time or your heart is heavy - I'll listen attentively and empathize.
Same, like i hated people who dont back me up like im literally trying to have a decent conversation to them But of course saying thosr out loud will prevent me from making friends
Small talk can lead to deeper talk once you get to know them better. That’s what I’m starting to learn at my job. Conversations start off small at 1st but they can evolve over time, especially if you ask lots of questions.
@@Joshman601 yes I've experienced it sometime I really forget from where the long talk started from.. it can start from a small talk then you dig deeper and the conversation just keep going on and on
Everyone’s like “omg I wish I was an INFJ” but they don’t consider: The fact that we are the worst when it comes to making decisions. Maybe it’s just me, but I am so freaking indecisive about everything
This video changed my life, all my life I struggled, felt deep sadness and not belonging anywhere and being misunderstood, I also live in a small village with 1000 people so you can imagine the struggles Ive been through, finally I can live a bit more peacefull life knowing there are others like me and now having some insights and knowing myself better I can finally focus on things that matter to me and not destroy my mental heatlh like i did wandering in my mind what is wrong with me for years and years, I want to thank you for this video and i mean this absolutley sincerely 😘
1. You're on a diff wavelength- dominant intuition, feel like outsider, make u feel isolated or misunderstood 2. You're a perfectionist and procrastinate 3. You're perceptive and good at reading people 4. You tend to keep small circle of friends 5. You're deeply empathetic 6. You cannot stand small talk 7. You are future focused 8. You gravitate towards people who need help
I think the reason why "perfectionists but procrastinates" hits so close to home is because it's extremely rare for us to find something we actually truly care about--so in the few instances we do, we put our hearts and souls into it since it's one of the few opportunities when we're able to express who we are.
i once joined a soccer team (wiich trained for 4 years) and they just threw me to the others like im a professional, the coach always yelled at me until... on the third day, he told me not to go, i didnt, this is where my dream, to be as good as my friend has ended
Yes, it is me. After many years of struggle in workplace situations I chose the perfect profession for an INFJ: I became a therapist. All the personality traits mentioned in this video make me perfect for the job. Finally in life instead of feeling empty and lonely I feel deeply appreciated (and make money at the same time 😊)
i‘m always so worried about the environment and what the others will think. they just continue screaming and dont give a shit lmao even though i try to calm them down!!
Being worst part of an INDJ 1. You can’t seem to say NO 2. You cannot forget but move on easily makes you confused if you are emotionless 3. You are always unsatisfied with yourself no matter how hard you try 4. You start blaming yourself when you can’t fix someone 5 . You tend to think way too much for simplest of things 6 . Being considerate drains your energy 7. You find yourself being used 8. You end up being the understanding one always but never understood
Yeah this is all me. Do y'all ever get really nice stuff or do really nice things for your friends (cuz they're special to you) but then it's like they don't really reciprocate that feeling. And you can tell by the way they do things for you or stuff they get you. It's like, I feel like I'm the only one who's really trying to understand and appreciate ppl.
i feel like it makes sense as to why so many INFJs are here. we have this innate craving to learn about others, ourselves included, so we click on videos like these to help us understand better☺️
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
If INFJs are here, then I want to share my feelings with y'all which I will maybe never share with my family nor friends. As being the rarest personality type, I feel unique, but also different, in the sense I can't find a person with whom I can share my feelings with as there is only 2 percent of the world's population of my personality. I really wanna find someone like a best friend, to share my feelings with, to get all the negative thoughts off my shoulder, and to also know how it feels to have someone like that person I wanna find. I always try to fit in as I don't like being alone sometimes, I want someone to share my feelings with, but I haven't found someone like that, and sometimes I avoid hanging out with my friends when I get too frustrated, because I don't think I really consider them as my friends. Why am I so different from everyone else I see? I really need someone to get assisted by and to assist. I shared my thoughts here because I wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way. (sorry for bad English)
I will say only one thing.I know a lot of people,but i also know that my friends are 5 maximum.The only humans on earth except my family that i talk a lot , be myself and not be stressed by just talking to them.I am an INFJ for sure.The other 5 friends i have are ALL INFJ s, i suppose that is the reason we fit together so many years.This channel has helped me a lot to understand so many things about life, and i am grateful, because i am just 15 years old.Lastly, very good job.Your videos have a point and you are right, you have proof.Not like some other channels that just say random stuff,and i like that. Congratulations about the channel, keep up the good work!!( I am sorry if i wrote something wrong, my mother language is greek)
My biggest problem with being an INFJ is how I know so much about everyone around me, but I never feel like anyone even bothers to get to know me beyond my name
@@HarryPotter-pi3km didn't expect to be roasted by Harry Potter today XD I was simply stating that this is the way I feel. This is what my biggest personal struggle looks like, and obviously it isn't limited to one single personality type - to assume it was would be stupid. And I didn't mean "knowing the person" as such, but more of "knowing a lot of secrets of that person, things not a lot of other people know". I just often feel like I have nobody to open up to about my problems while I'm the person everyone else opens up to. And, well, I enjoy being able to help others simply by listening to them, but I often let others' problems close to myself which affects me more than I'd like to admit. Sorry if that makes me a not-INFJ in your eyes XD I'm obviously aware of all the things you said although I don't really see how half of those things have anything to do with what I was stating before. Also, I see how my original comment wasn't formulated clearly :)
@@HarryPotter-pi3km A) I'm pretty much aware that you weren't actually roasting me, it was meant as a joke XD B) that's exactly what I meant, I wasn't talking about being an INFJ, but about my biggest struggle as such. Frankly, I don't even know why I wrote that comment in the first place XD About the "sharing secrets", I wasn't talking about someone's deepest secrets, but about things they might not feel comfortable sharing with lots of people, things they keep hidden. And yeah, I am aware I'm not the only one they might be telling these secrets, but I also know they often tell me not to tell anyone else - that's pretty much my definition of a secret. And I might be an INFJ, I might as well not be one. I didn't write these comments to prove you that I'm an INFJ because honestly, there are more important things. For me, at least.
Theres a chance no one here is infj almost all of us do shit like this People just watch this sorts of videos and diagnose them shits as this to feel specials when they are not they are not
@@hokyvessaint there's a official 16 personalities test which almost everyone here took, most of them took it about 3 to 5 times. Not everyone is r/notlikeothergirls, sure there might be mistyped INFJ'S but generalizing is really stupid, no need to be so pissed. Anyways, this test has actually helped me a lot, I took it a year ago without knowing any of the personality types, they give advice, career suggestions, a lot of and a lot of information, this video is just simplified and INFP's also might relate to this
I'm still distant from my group of friends because i'm scared of everything " group of friends " means and that there gonna abandon me just like some of my friends did
IKRRRRRR Like... and they can just hold a convo with the male species randomly... I don’t even dare staring them in the eye 👁 (well I don’t like eye contacts usually but still)
Oh my gosh I am so glad there is at least 1 other person out there that understands this!! I want to know about this stuff but seeing the comments is torturing me and how people always think they have it 😭 wow am I a gifted person 0-0 lol
this video is actually shockingly similar to other videos talking about signs of high intelligence... maybe the theory isn't quite right and it's just being smart ?
I’m an INFJ. I procrastinate a lot. I try to be perfect in everything. I have selective friends, and I get bored very easily in small talk and I rather have long conversations. I never knew I was till I saw this video.
1. You're on a different wavelength 2. You're a perfectionist & procrastinate 3. You're perceptive & good at reading ppl 4. Tend to keep a small circle of friends 5. Deeply empathetic 6. Cannot stand small talk 7. Future focused 8. Gravitate towards ppl who need help
Rough tendency, not a strict behaviour of yours. Are you a perfectionist with literally everything? I doubt it since you never capitalized the “Y” in “you’re”. Zero period after the statement, no period after your second statement. This is not perfectionism in the slightest.
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@@spoodermemes8045 He wouldn't... We almost hate and love death at the same time... But even in my worst times "a week of constant sucidal depression" I managed to pull myself up. I don't think of the death as same after that... And would never give up because I'd love to live in pain to know more about what ive got here then to, go beyond sooner and might never have the chance to experience this world again...
we just want someone who we can actually trust our hearts to the one we're sure they won't break it letting the ice melt and tear the wall down... it's scary, because....u never know when that trust is not actually genuine u never really know love properly because u don't accept the love they give u u say "i do" or "i love u too" but in ur mind u r actually conflicted and does not trust them.
I am an INTJ, and I am apparently really rare for some reason, being part of the 2.6% of the population. I think it's really interesting how they've actually named different personality trates and in which way. Really interesting stuff, keep it up!
well, not that rare… I‘m a person with Asperger, and that’s 2% too, and that‘s not that rare. If you pay attention, you‘ll notice which people have things like this, and You‘ll see that it‘s more or less common. Some just „hide“ (bc it‘s nothing negativ of course) it better than others. Müsst ihr wissen.
@@ditto6384 OBJECTION! Psych2go said themselves in the vid that about 2% of people have this personality type. at least I think that was the case too tired to check rn 🗿
@@Mandarinoooooo dude, there are literally 8 billions of people in this world. 2% is like, Idk 160,000,000? That might looks a lot to you but it's very little considering the fact of how big the world actually is.
the way i’ll describe INFJs are that they look absolutely cold, emotionless and chill outside, but in our heads we’re reading everyone and thinking of every possibility of anything. if that made sense
8 Signs You’re An INFJ 1. You're on a different wavelength 2. You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate 3. You are perceptive and good at reading people 4. You tend to keep a small circle of friends 5. You are deeply empathetic 6. You cannot stand small talk 7. You are future focused 8. You gravitate toward people who need help
INFJ can never be in a 3 ppl friend group bc whenever you talk to one of the friends you worry that the 3rd person gets jealous so you end up always letting the other 2 become best friends but you’re a jealous person yourself
Well i was lmao i let them play games with each other and left them cuz they understand each other support each other so i feel left out, thats why i left i don’t want to get involved with them anymore lmao
The worst part about being an INFJ is being able to read people but also giving everyone a fair chance and trying to help everyone. Like you know someone is going to hurt you but you still give them a chance because you want to be proven wrong.
@@zackfameree4474 Yes and then the cycle continues because you lose faith in humanity but the next person comes along and you’re like “okay they give the same vibe but everyone deserves a fair chance!” Like dammit 😂
...Does it mean I'm one if I could read my friend while playing...Roblox... And feel that people who do bad things on purpose may need attention and care...... Is it weird I could tell my friend was stressed without her actually purposefully showing signs in her text but just slightly less focused and different when it came to speech. Or that bullies really want to be that cool anime protag whos sarcastic psychopathic and brutal but don't realize there being mean.
@@who069 it’s based off of the Meyer Briggs test which is free to take online, you could be but you could also be a different combination of empath and other factors!
Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout. The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it. (Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
Lmao of course they’ll be here because this video is literally about *”INFJ”s.* Lmao you might as well wanna use your brain sometimes. There’s literally 7 billion people on earth, so there’ll be at least more than 156 million people who are INFJ type. 💀🙄
Them: “You could be INFJ. A rare personality type” Me: “that does sound like me, but I can’t tell other people because they think I’m pulling “I’m NoT LikE oTheR GiRls” card”.
yup true my sister think im being like that even though I don't really care and even thought pf that so I kinda always fight woth her but she still don't get she thinks that I'm pretending to be cool even though I'm not I don't even think about this things but she thinks differently
I do use that rule, but then again I have a personality with severe anger issues, where I wish harm on people who are toxic and cruel towards me....like those people on games that message you and send you Kissy face emotes when you are bad and laugh at you when you bring up your leg disease. (I have muscular dystrophy)
Yeah, this bites me in the ass a lot, because when people do something poorly to me and I'm quick/blunt to point out their hypocriticism when they ask for the exact same favor they turned down... only for me to end up helping them anyway, because I can't avoid wanting to help them -_-
The last one hit especially hard. I'm like a beacon for that. Over the last few weeks I've been going out more regularly and more often than not I seem to run into some broken soul, yearning to be understood and just listened to.
Seing things about the 16 personality types is fun, but don't forget that everyone is unique and different. Humans are complex creatures. With every interaction, every thought, every decision, we change. We just don't notice it at first.
True true, but can you honestly say that people can’t be sorted into groups? typically the people that laugh too loud or people who are empathetic towards others share some of the same personality traits as people with the same attributes. this logic gives the 16p theory credibility as a theory. Although I will admit that I believe it’s possible to change ones personality type over time and even though one person may fit a specific type it does not mean that they are exactly the same as everyone else in that group.
the sad part about me being an INFJ is that you can comfort friends easily cause you know what they feel but when you are the one who needs comfort, no one understands you nor try to understand you.
This is so true with me as well! But thankfully I found someone that I dare say understands me much better than any of my friends and when she doesn't she makes a very notable effort to try to understand me!! That alone makes me super happy and thankful, it's amazing!! Here's wishing for you to find someone like that as well!
I've taken the test multiple times throughout the years, and every time i do, i land as an INFJ-A personality type, i also am a girl and have Aspergers which is rather rare aswell; i found this video in my recommended after already knowing and reading up on my personality traits, and was pleasantly surprised to find some things that aren't described in detail, like life examples in this video which i have done in the past. Everything described in this video- although not as in detail as the briggs site descriptions, is me perfectly. and i feel. special in some way being able to understand people the way i do. and also very different than everyone i come across which is slightly weird going through life in this manner. but i enjoy it at the same time very much.
As someone with INFJ personality, and severe anxiety, it is kind of hard to live stress free. I always help everyone, at school, and online friends. But sometimes I just get so drained. I barely find people that can have deep conversations with me, without me feeling scared. My perfectionism is always commented on by others, that I get terrified. I'm hopefully going to get better, and help more people along the way!
Yes, it's definitly hard to find someone that'll have a deep conversation with you. I feel that totally. There is only one friend I have that I can talk to freely about anything without being scared. Even just having one person is good enough for me. I hope you at least have that one person in your life too.
So am I sometimes I feel like online friends are better but then, they'll all leave one day. It's so lonely, I also have anxiety and no one really understands me
I am also friends with an INFJ online and she told me to "survive" in this world since we're so rare, this perfectionism of mine keeps me going forward, it feels like I can't move forward at the same time can't step back I'm stuck in the middle
This comment really surprised me because I can really relate. I have really bad anxiety as well and when it comes to school and friendships, I wanna be the person to help others out. Just recently, I’ve been trying to help out others with no real success and it’s been draining me. I’ve been going through a rough patch these past few weeks and after seeing this, I’m really wondering if I’m an INFJ since I can really relate to a lot of these comments.
@@harinyeagerr6855 people are just self diagnosing themselves over this video tho lmao- if they really think they have it, they could maybe talk to somebody more professional (not saying that the person who made this video isnt professional, but like somebody to talk to 1 on 1 kind of thing if u get what i mean), not just rely on a youtube video. there is two types of people in this comment section. people who say that they think they have it/have it just to be quirky and think theyre "special', or people who seriously think they have it/have it.
@@abiiixoxo6555 I definitely understand that and I respect a degree of skepticism. If I may, I would like to intercede. The video states that the infj type is 2% of the global population. As someone who has designed and conducted psychological studies, albeit in an undergraduate context, I can tell you that psych stats, or even all stats in general, are very ambiguous at times and prone to misrepresentation. That 2% can only be inferred from people who have taken the test. It isn't a hard number but rather a trend. Meaning that of those who haven't taken the test, it could be said with some degree of certainty that only 2% will be infj, however there exists a chance, however small, that maybe all the infjs have been hiding in that group and suddenly the average increases. (BTW in psych stats you can have a maximum of 95% certainty that the stats a representative of reality. You can never state a psychological finding as proving but only supporting a theory) Secondly, at the time of writing this comment, only 4.3k people have commented. Not every single one is stating that they are infj so less than 4.3k people are claiming this. And even if they were, it would make sense that those who relate to the characteristics presented in the video would be the ones to comment. I personally wouldn't make a comment to say "oh... that isn't me". Some might but I would theorize that it is unlikely. Yeah, its possible that some people are lying so that they feel apart of something but what percentage do you think that would be? 2%? 5%? 50%? Consider that and put it into practical details. If you think that half or more people are lying, then that goes a bit beyond skepticism and into cynicism, which is fine if you find supporting evidence. Otherwise, you're categorizing people based on a faulty intuition. I personally abide by the trust but verify method, but like many of us, I dont have the free time to engage with everyone on this thread. Anyway, thanks for your time and im open to hearing any kind of response!
INFJ here, and for those who see having it as their personality type as some sort of grand achievement, believe me it isn’t. Having a “unique” way of thinking is not always ideal, especially when it comes to performing optimally in a group or trying not to get lost in one’s own thoughts. Something being rare does not make it desirable.
I am a INFJ personality as well, and also diagnosed with borderline personality. You’re right, it’s not always fun or nice at all. I find it very distressing. I have attachment issues, need to be loved, have strong emotions, I can feel the pain of others, I have very little close friends, I struggle with relationships and being understood, or understanding others. I often feel like I’m the one who cares more, and that really hurts my feelings, making relationships difficult and often very hurtful for me. I’m always there for people when they need me, but find others avoid me when I want to talk about my feelings or thoughts. I don’t like superficial small talk and often am too intense for other people to be around. I give up on things that don’t feel good, I experience black and white thinking and makes it hard to sustain relationships. I have problem seeing the good in people and in the world sometimes. I will never leave someone’s side when they are in distress, I put all my effort into those I love, often neglected myself. I think about other people all of the time, possibly more than I consider my own self or feelings. It is very difficult and you’re right, being unique isn’t always fun at all.
@@jaminoess yeah this style of video plays into this effect very hard. People pick out small little vague details from these simplistic descriptions, apply them to their own life, and say they have the personality type. Certainly an interesting phenomenon I agree
@@nebula8893 True I used to do that but rn I'm not sure if I'm an INFJ tho I only clicked on this vid cuz I've never heard of it so I wanted to learn ab it, I'm social but these days I feel like trying to be around less ppl and I was able to read ppl personalities easily but I started thinking a lot ab the future and what i am or what i want more so that kinda distracts me and I always would like to help ppl out even if they were strangers on the internet I'd give them advices and I'd like to talk more about the person or know more abt em since it's pretty interesting to know more stuffs ab ppl and I like drama ig but small talks don't annoy me exactly they just make me a bit bored. Welp I'm not sure what am I exactly but at least I know that this is just me trying to break my limits of thinking
@@akiraaa100 I mean fair enough, to be honest I don’t think your specific personality type matters in the slightest. You are you, No one else needs to fit you into some personality. Everyone is a mix of a lot of things, and is their own person. The reason this video and others like it on this channel appeal to people so much is the same reason astrology appeals to people
as infj myself id say tell her exactly what u just wrote bc that shows that she made an impact and u appreciate her for that asking if what u percive as beein distand is realy distance or something else id say we love to hear how other people think and feel thats realy exiting so prob just be open
I think I'm an infj cause most of the things match up, I'd like someone to understand me and talk to me(like in the vid) and I'd definitely Appreciate ppl doing nice things for me, as long as ur not using it to get something
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
I find personality types are often situational. At my school I'm that quite observant individual who will barely make a noise, but then I get home to my online games.
Personality types are used to describe your core characteristics (which are extremely hard to change), not situational ones (which change very frequently).
I’ve taken the test about 5 times through my adult and teenage life. I have gotten infj each time. It’s kind of a sad personality type and honestly kind of dangerous. It’s easy to feel lost and worn out. And it’s easy to be taken advantage of because you see the best in people and understand why they do things. Don’t fall trap to that. Set boundaries and learn your worth.
As a supposed “INFJ”and I’m not sad. Don’t let people label you be your own person. Don’t be a follower. If GOD is with you no one can stand against you seek GOD with all of your heart and soul. And accept GOD into your life. You can be granted peace that surpasses all understanding. Philippians 4:7 King James Version 7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
@=^K1TTY^= they aren’t forcing they’re offering support in a way they feel like would help. Don’t be so defensive and ready to attack people. If they were a different religion it would be a different story.
The hardest part for me being a infj is consistency, ill do great for months then fall off and become lazy, ill tear myself down as my own worse critic and build myself up as my own therapist, friends come to me for advice and I genuinely care but I feel as if my energy is drained to the point I wont talk to that person for months after my advice/opinion was givin. I see through people so easily to the point I dont have to pay attention to see their true intentions. I wanna socialize but isolation is safe, im a perfectionists and i hate failure, overthinking and Procrastination is my water.
also if you're like my and your "social battery" is quickly drained, focus on pushing that further and further slowly. in time you won't need months alone like I did, I have it down to disappearing socially for a few days vs years (like it used to be)
I’m an INFJ. The “perfectionist but procrastinates” really hit home for me. It perfectly describes that issue within me because when I try to explain it to someone else, no one ever understands. I constantly struggle internally with all of the goals I want to achieve but I put it off, every. time. It’s a constant battle of wanting to stop wasting time but when looking at the task ahead... well, it doesn’t seem easy. Which is strange because I know I can do it, without a doubt, but when I think of when I get there; all the responsibilities I’d have, and the pressure of it all to keep the ball rolling. I always get the comment “you have great potential,” and it annoys me because it’s true. As if I’m not there but there at the same time. I visualize is as this: walking down a dark road, seeing the light ahead, but when I try to take a step forward.. I can’t. It’s like trying to scream without any sound coming out. It’s scary, and I face it every day. Making friends is just as difficult. I observe people a lot and take joy in that, I pick up on people’s quirks and habits, I’m there for them when they need me or need advice. But I don’t get that genuity with others. I’ve come to accept that maybe people will never care as much. It’s lonely. Although it sounds nice to be part of the 2%, there’s a lot of downsides to it. For me, I try to take solace in solitude and knowing my worth, so that when I’m around people it doesn’t hurt as much.
same !!! everything that you said and i get very sad coz i just postpone things thinking I'll do that better later and end up doing messed up work i don't want to be like this 😞 it's been going on since forever and I know I'm wasting my potential but I can't seem to sort this out it's really taking a toll on me now, and add to it poor decision making it's not pleasant at all I WANT TO CHANGE ! I also get statements like "u have great potential" , "every work you do , you do it with perfection" i don't even have account of things I've put on hold for years now :/ plz do reply if u see this.
There wasn't even a phrase in which I didn't identify myself. You wrote exactly how i feel everyday.😳 In some way, I feel relieved, I'm happy to know that it's not me, I'm not the strange one and that it's only a personality trait.
Should you take the actual test to see if you’re an INFJ? You know.. since you all identified with the video. This video cannot diagnose someone. It is a brief overview of general characteristics.
@@whoatemynachos4993 I'm so sorry this is happening to you too. I'm by no means perfect and I struggle with these issues all the time but I will share some things that have helped upon excessive reflection. *Stop and breathe We all live our lives in our own bubble, constantly worried about the problems of our lives. When it becomes too much: stop and breathe. Take time to dwell on the bigger picture. I like to visualize myself first and zoom slowly outward to space, the endless galaxies. This visualization reminds me that my problems are small and I live but a fleeting life on this planet. It reminds me to live my days one at a time instead of pressuring myself of the future. Even though life doesn't always go the way we want it to, we have to make the best of it we can. *Make small goals It's easy to get overwhelmed with a ton of things you haven't done/need to do/promises to others or yourself. Its okay to take your time, as long as you do it. Write them down, divide them into small groups and try to tackle at least one thing a day. If you can't do something, it's okay. Learn from your mistakes this time on how to better approach something you need to do. We aren't robots. We fail. It's okay to make mistakes. *Don't compare yourself to others Things always look better from the outside looking in. There are more complexities at play when you admire someone or something. It looks easy. What makes others successful is failing and learning from it. Its okay to seek out inspiration, just be healthy about it and not compare yourself. Everyone has their own journey. *Be kind to yourself. This is the most important. Accept that you will fail and enjoy the journey. That not everyone is perfect including you. I know this is hard with perfectionism but honestly, most of the beautiful things in life are imperfect. We have to learn that not everything will go according to plan in life. With that said, be kind to yourself when things go wrong. Remind yourself it's okay and you will be alright. Always put your mental health first. *Write a letter to yourself On your best days things become more clear, more positive. And not everyday will be your best day or positive day. So write a letter to yourself when problems are more clear. Remind yourself of your dreams and aspirations. Urge yourself to be better and that things will be okay. That you will be okay. So that when those days roll around you can always read it and remember. Sorry, I know this was long but I hope this helps.
@@vivianaromano8156 I'm happy as well that I don't face this kind of battle alone, although I don't wish it on anyone, I share the sentiment. Try to accept that you are this way, although it's hard to make friends as an INFJ, its better to accept it and build on it slowly so that you are comfortable in your own shoes.
More like how you understood or reacted to a situation and if there was anything you could have done to keep someone from making a huge mistake and/or hurting someone. Like, "Why didn't I catch this," and "If I were closer with this person could I have influenced them what not to say or do?" And of course there's the, "I knew what was happening but didn't know what to do!!" What hurts is, "I really thought you could have been a friend... and now I don't know how to grow apart from you." And you have to disassociate without hurting yourself and your friends who are still friends with the non-friend. Not an INFJ but an INTJ. Most characteristics can go for both.
I took the Mayers Brigg test many times and the result is always the same. I'm an INFJ and yes I possesse the traits you mentioned. I can see through people even just by looking at them and is able to predect their next action or expression. I can sense if there's a good or bad thing/s to happen. I can tell who walks behind me with just their smell and the intensity of the wind they created. I can look for my things even if it's pitched black just by feeling it because I can tell the things I've been using just by feeling it. Yes, I've predicted accurately the things that's going to happen.
The moment when you realize you are INFJ, but are scared telling anyone. Because they will probably say: "You say this just because it's a rare type!" And it hurts.
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time, people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
Do you believe in personality types? Which one are you? (pt3)
what
Bro this was 2 years ago why did you come back
@@JamesRice_idfkidk
I would love to see this as a series where you add signs you are for every personality type
yes, i'm an INFJ that took the test 2-5 years back :)
Love the channel cuz i like thinking about psychology in general. Like how i'm not queer or anything, but i find it interesting to look at things like xenogenders, which are genders that explain the concept of how someone feels about their gender through an example. I feel like taking the test again even though I still relate pretty hard to this video (good job :D).
"Perfectionist but procrastinates"
Holy crap. I feel *a t t a c k e d*
God, I thought the exact same thing
Damn me too
that was my reaction as well
Ya that got me
Bruh same, and I got INFP
Once you added “rarest personality type” to the title you made people subconsciously want to fit the type since it’s special to be rare. Now a lot of people will do anything to rationalize themselves being relatable to this video.
Facts. And using words like “You” is convincing for simple minds
Thank you. Thats exactly it.
I've always thought that about these videos but you worded that perfectly😂
Lookin thru comments and cant agree with u more. Found like 20 people like im one too in the same comment thread
@@tempest510 read the title of the video. Its a comment on that
“Perfectionist but procrastinates” this right here is not a fact.. it’s life
:0 that’s what I do
ADHD be like
Nothing has ever been said better and truer
Yes
For an INFJ, it's more intense. Usually, we know what to do, but just don't do it. I wouldn't classify it as "procrastination", but rather our constant struggle towards perfection.
We don't do something, at times, because of: the social circumstances, the timing, and the certainty of the outcome.
As an INFJ I kinda felt lonely and not understood (dealed with loneliness a lot) but then I found my best friend. After 3 years of friendship I found out why I felt so understood and comfortable around her: she was also an INFJ
I'm an INFJ too, and I've always had friends, but like it said in the video, they were more like acquaintances. When I met my two best girl friends and my best guy friend, I suddenly felt so valued, understood and loved. I found out later that he's also an INFJ (which explains how we got along so well as soon as we met) and that my other friend is the "best friend" with INFJs (according to online sources)! (I forgot the MBTI for it TT) Anyways I found the video to be very accurate XD Especially the part about being a perfectionist and a procrastinator XD
@@Rue779I relate to you and the comment very well as an INFJ as well I often feel left out tho and want to meet more people like me. And it’s nice to know you found your people. 😊But the perfectionist and procrastinating part is so relatable 😭
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Being rare feels great! But that means it's also rare to find other INFJ, cuz INFJ are rare. Yeah I'm an INFJ too. Loneliness is a part of our life that can only be solved if we find someone trustworthy. So accept it, and hope for good!
i had the same thing happen with me😊
7 of these signs were on my personality, but I'm probably not an INJF. That is NOT happening (probably)
“Perfectionist but procrastinates”
*my whole life has been described in one sentence*
Boi same
CUBERR YEY
That's me 😪
This is so meee
IKR
"youre a perfectionist but you procrastinate"
oh my god
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time,people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
Hello army
@@scyllari3544 To be completely honest I wouldn’t fully put all your belief in those tests. Personality tests aren’t really accurate. You can answer the questions 100% truthfully and you know what each question specifically means, but it can still put you in a category which isn’t you. A lot of people here are mistypes, and a lot of the time with those personality tests is a lot of the questions are similar to each other and therefore you think you relate to them all, which therefore doesn’t give an honest answer
@@scyllari3544 that test is inaccurate. Mbti goes by functions and that test goes by the meanings of the letters.
@@scyllari3544 the fact that you recommended that website 😬😬 the only reason why your results seemed “accurate” is because the questions are vague and all have similar concepts, therefore each question sounds similar and ends up mistyping you with the wrong personality type. A lot of the questions on those personality tests are Barnum statements, which are statements that apply to most people.
INFJ be like: "I mean I did take a hundred tests and they were all INFJ, but I don't want people to think I'm just saying it because it's the rarest type, so I'll just keep my mouth shut"
Me: well it’s just his/her thoughts
*my POV; how did she know.*
Y-you're a wizard
EXACTLY
You read my fucking mind
HOW DID YOU KNOW KJBFUYJBJHYGUY
You know you're an INFJ when you're a good listener and people always come to tell you their problems, and then you get depressed because you have their problems weighing on you, and there's no one who takes the time to listen to your problems.
For real...I really don't understand how it happens. All my life I have been the recipient of people's confessions, I don't know what vibe I give off that makes people just want to start telling me their stuff. And it literally is everyone I encounter, not just people I know. It makes me good at my job now, and I'm able to disassociate so it isn't a burden anymore, but it really was terribly difficult to handle when I was younger.
And yeah...NO ONE fucking reciprocates. Unless you're lucky enough to be friends with another INFJ who will take turns with you sharing and caring.
My life story. Everytime.
So true.
You explained who I am holy- i seriously weigh myself with everyone's problems and no one is with me :')
Thought that was introverts
"Small circle of friends"
I dont think two people can make a circle-
mine makes a triangle-
Can one make a circle?!
You'd probably need, like, infinite friends to make an actual circle
Lovely just lovely
Mines 1-0
No matter your personality type, rare or not, there is only one you 🤗
Nicole on EQ amen!
Thank you :D this made my day✨
This made me feel better since I’m an ISFP and I’m one of the most popular type
Yup definitely☺️☺️☺️
Are you sure about that?
I mean, there are several people like me. Hispanics, brown eyes, trilangual, dark brown hair, tiny feets, underweight, skeleton look alike, average height (etcetera).
But there is only one with my personality (in all human history: past, present & future) and that's me.
oh my~ I was recently tested as a INFJ again, I wasn't so sure if I am still a INFJ, but this video definitely affirmed the test result. it's also a bit spooky how accurate these descriptions are...
As an INFJ, It just feel sad that I always tend to observe other people's reaction and emotion but everyone of them misunderstood me
When the imporstor is sus
Yes
Yeah [INFJ as well], like I'll literally tell them exactly what they're feeling and going through yet on the otherhand, they only know what I'm feeling or talking about if make I obvious or like most of the time, they just never know 😶 It really is pain to know its hard to find people or even someone who could actually grasp your thinking into one jar. Srry for the whole paragraph, but if you read this then thank you 👍
@@wolfsnicker I can relate heavily my friend, I think you just gotta appreciate your weird brain cause most people aint all that intuitive sadly
@@bnmangaman Or don’t worry bud I freakin love it, not to sound weird but it literally tells me about the future or even gives me auras around certain people and things telling me if their good for me or not and it ALWAYS RIGHT !! 😳 So it helps me in the long run 🏃♀️🤩 but I’m just sucks that I can’t share that with someone almost exactly like me heh, who’ll understand and talk to me about it 😅.
Literally nobody:
INFJs people on the comments section: writing large texts about how they feel, cuz we can only understand to each other
Damn you, this is too real
We're so lonely
Been bottled up for too long
@@RS_mamf need help?
Finally, someone in the same group I’m in
Literally every INFJ: “I’ve taken over 1,000 tests and everyone thinks I’m lying so I will shut my mouth.”
Omg the way I relate to this comment sm.
Exactly
Yesss
Meh I wpuldnt just assume one of you guys who say thats lying
Yes I am too an infj and no one believes me
I'm Highly Sensitive Person and INFJ-T. And yes, i'm man. Sensitive man. I accept life has pain and suffering. We all have bad days. Being sensitive has it's pros and cons. I'm lone wolf because of c-ptsd. Past traumas unfortunately shape a person and personality. Sensitivity also makes me work like spunge, absorbing others feelings because I Care too much. I'm 34 years old and all my issues in life happen because I care too much of small details. Life doesn't have to be pain and suffering, so that's why you gotta learn to regulate your "flaws", your innate core personality traits. You must work on your well-being, which means Doing, so you could call it well-doing, to improve your issues in life. Gaining healthy routines and habits are essential for feeling content in life. Most young INFJ's have issues because we care so much and we burnout from others burdens and that happens when we don't have the ability to say "no" to others at that time. Everything can be improved. People seek answers online and these videos here may be the answer you seek, or maybe it's this comment you are reading right now. I had issues accepting my spectrum of emotions as teenager, so did everyone around me also. Had to use heavy depression medication to sweep them under the rug, out of mind and focus. My regret after quitting 20 years of using that medication is, why I didn't quit it sooner. Every emotion and feeling exists for reason, you just have to practise mindfulness to figure out what causes anxiety, depression, pain and suffering. Figuring them out helps you to solve them and fix your issues. Those "bad" emotions are required to progress and self-improve in different aspects of life. Without emotions, feeling numb, you will just lay in bed, without energy or purpose, day by day, week after week, year after year, missing everything that you could do or achieve in life. Emotions, bad or good, give you energy and spark for action. Regulating and channeling them healthily and within good morals properly help you achieve things in life. Thank you for reading and reaching these last words. If you can reach here, reading these words, you can do anything you focus your mind on to!
I don’t know what type of mental illness I have… I’ve never labeled myself with one… But yes, I am extremely sensitive-especially when it comes to the people I’m deeply attached to.
Instead of understanding my sensitivity, I’ve always been made to feel like this is my problem-that I’m “too sensitive.” But hey, it’s not like I chose to be this way.
Maybe I have borderline personality disorder… Like, when I’m happy, I’m really happy-creative, everything. But when the people I care about, the ones I love, don’t understand me when I need them the most, I start thinking-
I take on everyone’s worries, act like a "pleaser," try to ease their stress, but when it’s my turn, I get judged for being “too sensitive.”
And so, from all of this, the only lesson I’ve gotten so far is-stay silent, cry it out, isolate yourself.
I swear, I used to be a loud, bright, and happy kid… But as I grew up, everything got messed up. It’s gotten to the point where, when you don’t have anyone close to talk to, you find yourself writing a long comment to some stranger on TH-cam at 3:09 AM.
Is it wrong to want to be understood? To wish to be seen?
I try to be happy, and I live happily... I work, I do everything... But then, after a month or two, something happens-a small, insignificant thing-and I feel like I'm back to zero. It takes a lot of courage to stand up again.
My weird shower thoughts: Even though INFJ's are the rarest personality type, they can be found in the comments section because they don't go out and instead spend their whole day watching TH-cam.... I speak from experience
I also have the same weird shower thoughts
Ooo yess its possible why so many comments
same like it won't bother me if i don't go out for a month but at some point i want to see my friends once then go on hybernate mode again
I've thinked about that too! But I think because INFJs personality type is the less common so maybe we are more confused and we want to know better about us? Or maybe because (talking about myself but I know its pretty common in INFJs persons), when you are into a theme (which would be all the MBTIs personalities) we do want to search information and learn about that stuff they are now into
I relate to all of the above reasons but I don't watch TH-cam allot, because I think it's a waste of time and should be working on myself instead.
"You also tend to be critical about your past experiences."
*flashbacks to those times I stayed up till 3am because I regretted using a certain word in a text message*
That is so me lol
Same
Wwaaiittt so not everyone does that?
Oh God, my brain remember that one embarrassing message RANDOMLY, like, in the middle of the day!!
i do that except it's more serious than that
INFJ people when they've been grouped with people they're not close to:
"sh*t, please end this day quick"
I think I'm INFJ and that's me lol
@@kawaii3157 lol same
@@tsu-kazuki Wait nvm I thought I was INFJ but I think im enfp or infp now :D
me in any group at all
I feel you
the concluding message made me cry. I thought that no one could understand me. but here's a video that says it all.
Imagine wanting to succeed but your too lazy. And when you didn’t succeed you feel sad. Ik its complicated
I feel you
Yes this happens so much. Honestly this group of people are amazing and I'm happy that I'm not the only one. I love these comments.
You’re literally describing me here
That's me but I'm not even close to an INFJ
Yh
"INFJ is the rarest type"
Everyone on the internet: wow that's me
Unoriginal fool
this is because these are common parts of the personality
True
2% of the world population is at least 156 million people..........
@@borahae_tXtluv75 and...?
The way every legitimate INFJ wishes they weren't an INFJ because we literally have the most difficult time finding similar people to connect with mentally and emotionally.
omfg I feel that on every level
Yep...
I totally feel that everyday..
totally agree with you, when you try to reach out to other people yet you feel like it drains your energy too much and you feel like they don’t get you then the tendency is you isolate yourself again.
@lia luna your right. i think that sometimes its just stressing..
wow you just described me perfects with this whole video, its crazy how accurate you got my personality
This: "do you hate small talk? " absolutely. It's difficult to host a conversation about nothing.. But tell me you are having a hard time or your heart is heavy - I'll listen attentively and empathize.
This right here. Smalltalk is just such a waste of time. But when we found that one topic that's interesting it's like "we ride at dawn bitches"
Same, like i hated people who dont back me up like im literally trying to have a decent conversation to them
But of course saying thosr out loud will prevent me from making friends
Small talk can lead to deeper talk once you get to know them better. That’s what I’m starting to learn at my job. Conversations start off small at 1st but they can evolve over time, especially if you ask lots of questions.
@@Joshman601 yes I've experienced it sometime I really forget from where the long talk started from.. it can start from a small talk then you dig deeper and the conversation just keep going on and on
Definitely easier to hold a conversation when there’s substance and legitimate interest
INFJ: you hate small talk
Literally everyone: “that’s me!”
Truuuuueeee
Is there really anybody that likes small talk?
One time:
Me: *Texts in all caps with my friend*
Friend: “Why are you yelling?”
Me: “I HATE SMALL TALK”
:)
@@lemin-lyme8807 LMAO
Everyone’s like “omg I wish I was an INFJ” but they don’t consider:
The fact that we are the worst when it comes to making decisions. Maybe it’s just me, but I am so freaking indecisive about everything
No same thing here
bro i literally flip coins to make decisions
PLS- WHY IS THIS TRUE FOR MEE 💀😭😭
YES EXACTLY PREACH
EXACTLY. I just see so many options that I can't decide which one is the best for me
This video changed my life, all my life I struggled, felt deep sadness and not belonging anywhere and being misunderstood, I also live in a small village with 1000 people so you can imagine the struggles Ive been through, finally I can live a bit more peacefull life knowing there are others like me and now having some insights and knowing myself better I can finally focus on things that matter to me and not destroy my mental heatlh like i did wandering in my mind what is wrong with me for years and years, I want to thank you for this video and i mean this absolutley sincerely 😘
1. You're on a diff wavelength- dominant intuition, feel like outsider, make u feel isolated or misunderstood
2. You're a perfectionist and procrastinate
3. You're perceptive and good at reading people
4. You tend to keep small circle of friends
5. You're deeply empathetic
6. You cannot stand small talk
7. You are future focused
8. You gravitate towards people who need help
THANK YOU FOR THIS SWEETHEART!!!
I guess the only thing that doesn't really relate to me is the very last one its a very on off situation for me. What about you?
@@Cyber_Dystopian_Duck for me it was true and happened always.. however now I have become more discerning and concious and so doesn't happen everytime
@@rd25391 yes.
I'm 3,5,6,7 and 8.
I think the reason why "perfectionists but procrastinates" hits so close to home is because it's extremely rare for us to find something we actually truly care about--so in the few instances we do, we put our hearts and souls into it since it's one of the few opportunities when we're able to express who we are.
When you put your heart into something.
But people dont see the same value its just soul crushing
Yeah.
Glad someone else understands. So hard to find something I genuinely care about so I just coast through the days.
i once joined a soccer team (wiich trained for 4 years) and they just threw me to the others like im a professional, the coach always yelled at me until... on the third day, he told me not to go, i didnt, this is where my dream, to be as good as my friend has ended
Either overachieve or don’t do it at all
"Perfectionists but Procrastinate."
*angered exposed noises*
*Joins in too*
do you have a link to take this test
Mhmmmmmm
Yep yep
this sentence explaines me, even though the test said im an ENFP-
Yes, it is me. After many years of struggle in workplace situations I chose the perfect profession for an INFJ: I became a therapist. All the personality traits mentioned in this video make me perfect for the job. Finally in life instead of feeling empty and lonely I feel deeply appreciated (and make money at the same time 😊)
Infj reality: you 're telling your friends to stop screaming because you're the only one who notices everyone staring
YES
i‘m always so worried about the environment and what the others will think. they just continue screaming and dont give a shit lmao even though i try to calm them down!!
@@rosestulip444 Frrr
Im always the one shouting and my brother tells me to stfu xD
Yes this happened once when my friend was screaming some weird things- we were in the middle of a park, next to an old lady💀
Being worst part of an INDJ
1. You can’t seem to say NO
2. You cannot forget but move on easily makes you confused if you are emotionless
3. You are always unsatisfied with yourself no matter how hard you try
4. You start blaming yourself when you can’t fix someone
5 . You tend to think way too much for simplest of things
6 . Being considerate drains your energy
7. You find yourself being used
8. You end up being the understanding one always but never understood
This list is literally me, and I’m very self aware about it, but I just can’t find the energy to do anything about it.
Yeah this is all me. Do y'all ever get really nice stuff or do really nice things for your friends (cuz they're special to you) but then it's like they don't really reciprocate that feeling. And you can tell by the way they do things for you or stuff they get you. It's like, I feel like I'm the only one who's really trying to understand and appreciate ppl.
F*
And also, true
Everything except the 3rd is me lol
i feel like it makes sense as to why so many INFJs are here. we have this innate craving to learn about others, ourselves included, so we click on videos like these to help us understand better☺️
Okay I thought I only do this but it makes me feel special
I love the mind!
Yess
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
If INFJs are here, then I want to share my feelings with y'all which I will maybe never share with my family nor friends. As being the rarest personality type, I feel unique, but also different, in the sense I can't find a person with whom I can share my feelings with as there is only 2 percent of the world's population of my personality. I really wanna find someone like a best friend, to share my feelings with, to get all the negative thoughts off my shoulder, and to also know how it feels to have someone like that person I wanna find. I always try to fit in as I don't like being alone sometimes, I want someone to share my feelings with, but I haven't found someone like that, and sometimes I avoid hanging out with my friends when I get too frustrated, because I don't think I really consider them as my friends. Why am I so different from everyone else I see? I really need someone to get assisted by and to assist. I shared my thoughts here because I wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way. (sorry for bad English)
I will say only one thing.I know a lot of people,but i also know that my friends are 5 maximum.The only humans on earth except my family that i talk a lot , be myself and not be stressed by just talking to them.I am an INFJ for sure.The other 5 friends i have are ALL INFJ s, i suppose that is the reason we fit together so many years.This channel has helped me a lot to understand so many things about life, and i am grateful, because i am just 15 years old.Lastly, very good job.Your videos have a point and you are right, you have proof.Not like some other channels that just say random stuff,and i like that. Congratulations about the channel, keep up the good work!!( I am sorry if i wrote something wrong, my mother language is greek)
INFJ be like : texting someone for a while, then realize that they have overshared most of the things
Yess!!
Meeeee
Yesssss
Oooh Man stop exposing us ,our biggest trait is to remain secretive and mysterious.
also INFJ: typing up paragraphs and not sending them because the other person would think he/she's too much
My biggest problem with being an INFJ is how I know so much about everyone around me, but I never feel like anyone even bothers to get to know me beyond my name
@Tumour Consumer who asked you to reply to this comment?
Ahhh yesss.
fricking true
@@HarryPotter-pi3km didn't expect to be roasted by Harry Potter today XD
I was simply stating that this is the way I feel. This is what my biggest personal struggle looks like, and obviously it isn't limited to one single personality type - to assume it was would be stupid.
And I didn't mean "knowing the person" as such, but more of "knowing a lot of secrets of that person, things not a lot of other people know". I just often feel like I have nobody to open up to about my problems while I'm the person everyone else opens up to. And, well, I enjoy being able to help others simply by listening to them, but I often let others' problems close to myself which affects me more than I'd like to admit. Sorry if that makes me a not-INFJ in your eyes XD
I'm obviously aware of all the things you said although I don't really see how half of those things have anything to do with what I was stating before.
Also, I see how my original comment wasn't formulated clearly :)
@@HarryPotter-pi3km
A) I'm pretty much aware that you weren't actually roasting me, it was meant as a joke XD
B) that's exactly what I meant, I wasn't talking about being an INFJ, but about my biggest struggle as such. Frankly, I don't even know why I wrote that comment in the first place XD
About the "sharing secrets", I wasn't talking about someone's deepest secrets, but about things they might not feel comfortable sharing with lots of people, things they keep hidden. And yeah, I am aware I'm not the only one they might be telling these secrets, but I also know they often tell me not to tell anyone else - that's pretty much my definition of a secret.
And I might be an INFJ, I might as well not be one. I didn't write these comments to prove you that I'm an INFJ because honestly, there are more important things. For me, at least.
ok but has anyone talked about the ART STYLE in this video
its so adorable 🥺
Ikr
Ik
true!
Ikr
IKR I kinda Wonna try it but it’s not myn it’s adorable tho lol
I love how you talk to the viewers like people and not subjects. 💙😍🤩
Most people who are an INFJ most likely didn’t feel like commenting that they are
Theres a chance no one here is infj almost all of us do shit like this
People just watch this sorts of videos and diagnose them shits as this to feel specials when they are not they are not
@@hokyvessaint there's a official 16 personalities test which almost everyone here took, most of them took it about 3 to 5 times. Not everyone is r/notlikeothergirls, sure there might be mistyped INFJ'S but generalizing is really stupid, no need to be so pissed. Anyways, this test has actually helped me a lot, I took it a year ago without knowing any of the personality types, they give advice, career suggestions, a lot of and a lot of information, this video is just simplified and INFP's also might relate to this
Ur right.im not here to complain about myself
Hahahah your the one 😂but I suppose it could always depend on the mood
Wellll i seem like one but- eh forget about this
I don't understand how people can make friends so easily. It seems impossible to me most of the time...
This is the most relatable comment here
Like the video said, we are VERY selective and we hate small talk
So that combination makes us have very few friends :v
maybe you have a lot of people who consider you a friend, but as you are very celebratory, and you only consider these people as acquaintances
I'm still distant from my group of friends because i'm scared of everything " group of friends " means and that there gonna abandon me just like some of my friends did
IKRRRRRR Like... and they can just hold a convo with the male species randomly...
I don’t even dare staring them in the eye 👁 (well I don’t like eye contacts usually but still)
Watching this made me remember a saying I heard: “Being gifted isn’t about being smart, it’s about viewing the world in a different way”
As a gifted student, I can definitely say this is true
damn, thought my brain was wired wrong
Oh my gosh I am so glad there is at least 1 other person out there that understands this!! I want to know about this stuff but seeing the comments is torturing me and how people always think they have it 😭 wow am I a gifted person 0-0 lol
this video is actually shockingly similar to other videos talking about signs of high intelligence... maybe the theory isn't quite right and it's just being smart ?
ISFP moment
I’m an INFJ. I procrastinate a lot. I try to be perfect in everything. I have selective friends, and I get bored very easily in small talk and I rather have long conversations. I never knew I was till I saw this video.
1. You're on a different wavelength
2. You're a perfectionist & procrastinate
3. You're perceptive & good at reading ppl
4. Tend to keep a small circle of friends
5. Deeply empathetic
6. Cannot stand small talk
7. Future focused
8. Gravitate towards ppl who need help
THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE WITH THE INFJ FRIENDS I HAVE!
The comment i was looking for
Future focused, That's me
Thanks so much for this!!!
Yep im the 2%
"you're a perfectionist and procrastinate"
I feel *murdered*
I laughed for 10 minute cause that is me described perfectly
Exactly 🤠
Accurate honestly
Rough tendency, not a strict behaviour of yours. Are you a perfectionist with literally everything? I doubt it since you never capitalized the “Y” in “you’re”. Zero period after the statement, no period after your second statement. This is not perfectionism in the slightest.
I m also
"The loneliest people are the kindest,
the saddest people smile the brightest,
and the most damaged people are the wisest.
All because they don't wish to see others suffer like they do"
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I'd like to give you a hug just incase
💯
I've Loved, borrowed and shared these words for several years now.
Please feel free to borrow and share them as well.
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@@spoodermemes8045 He wouldn't... We almost hate and love death at the same time... But even in my worst times "a week of constant sucidal depression" I managed to pull myself up. I don't think of the death as same after that... And would never give up because I'd love to live in pain to know more about what ive got here then to, go beyond sooner and might never have the chance to experience this world again...
we just want someone who we can actually trust our hearts to
the one we're sure they won't break it
letting the ice melt and tear the wall down...
it's scary, because....u never know when that trust is not actually genuine
u never really know love properly because u don't accept the love they give u
u say "i do" or "i love u too" but in ur mind u r actually conflicted and does not trust them.
I am an INTJ, and I am apparently really rare for some reason, being part of the 2.6% of the population. I think it's really interesting how they've actually named different personality trates and in which way. Really interesting stuff, keep it up!
Hi, another INTJ ..
well, not that rare… I‘m a person with Asperger, and that’s 2% too, and that‘s not that rare. If you pay attention, you‘ll notice which people have things like this, and You‘ll see that it‘s more or less common. Some just „hide“ (bc it‘s nothing negativ of course) it better than others.
Müsst ihr wissen.
@@Mandarinoooooo
No, Introverted Intuition and Extraverted Thinking simply don't mix.
Which makes INTJ one of the rarest type
@@ditto6384 OBJECTION! Psych2go said themselves in the vid that about 2% of people have this personality type.
at least I think that was the case too tired to check rn 🗿
@@Mandarinoooooo dude, there are literally 8 billions of people in this world.
2% is like, Idk 160,000,000?
That might looks a lot to you but it's very little considering the fact of how big the world actually is.
the way i’ll describe INFJs are that they look absolutely cold, emotionless and chill outside, but in our heads we’re reading everyone and thinking of every possibility of anything. if that made sense
Yeah, I've been called cold before after breaking up with a partner! Lots to relate to in this video.
Never related to something
Soo much
People always say I look mean or cold but honestly, im just tryna get through the day without having a panic attack haha
Untrue
8 Signs You’re An INFJ
1. You're on a different wavelength
2. You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate
3. You are perceptive and good at reading people
4. You tend to keep a small circle of friends
5. You are deeply empathetic
6. You cannot stand small talk
7. You are future focused
8. You gravitate toward people who need help
Thank you 🌼🌼🌼
I guess I’m an INFJ :l
i can kinda relate to some of those
Ok I'm an INFJ :)
Me
INFJ can never be in a 3 ppl friend group bc whenever you talk to one of the friends you worry that the 3rd person gets jealous so you end up always letting the other 2 become best friends but you’re a jealous person yourself
I feel attacked!!! hahah
As an INFJ that's in a trio, this is very true, so I tend to keep my interactions with them limited to avoid conflict. :')
T T
Well i was lmao i let them play games with each other and left them cuz they understand each other support each other so i feel left out, thats why i left i don’t want to get involved with them anymore lmao
I am in this situation 😒
This totally is me!! I had no idea this personality was rare!
INFJ: the rarest personality type
People in the comment section:
" *Hey, that's me.* "
it’s because we’re all over the internet lol imagine an extrovert looking at this shit. hehe.
I know right, it's almost as though people will watch and comment on a video that is about them and their type of people?
even you jjajajj must be an INFJtype , jajajaj what are you doing here extrovert then? jejeje and yeah introverts are mostly on the internet
idk if people are lying or nit. so i never trust anything. but its whatever
@@nerdemojireal what you got against extroverts huh
"Number two, You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate"
me: oh
Ikr! It's spot on. 🤭
Just gotta write this but, yeah. Hahah
Somehow i procastinated till the last 5 or 6 hours or so. I somehow got a B, idk bout you but id call that a pretty good grade for an essay
um...
i was gonna comment the same thing
Does anybody else cry when they're angry and yellin, as an INFJ?
This treat always confuses me, like the moment I broke the gate to get angry at someone at the same time it also comes with the flood of tears wtf man
Bro right I hate it when I start yelling or get angry I cry midway
i cry whenever i talk about myself to others but at this point i’m not even sure if it’s my personality or if i’m mentally ill
WHY IS THIS TRUE, like when i get angry at anyone at anytime, outside or inside, i start breaking into tears midway
yes!
“You are heavily appreciated by your friends and family.” Friends, yes. Family, not so much.
For me, I feel both of them don't appreciate me.
Relatable
True for me as well
Relatable too
I have no friends and a negative family
everybody: *talking about the personality types*
me: *going crazy over the CUTEEEE animations!!!!*
aahhhh!!!
Same here.
Same
SAME LMAO
Yep
Omg yass girl
The worst part about being an INFJ is being able to read people but also giving everyone a fair chance and trying to help everyone. Like you know someone is going to hurt you but you still give them a chance because you want to be proven wrong.
But you're usually always proven right.
@@zackfameree4474 Yes and then the cycle continues because you lose faith in humanity but the next person comes along and you’re like “okay they give the same vibe but everyone deserves a fair chance!” Like dammit 😂
...Does it mean I'm one if I could read my friend while playing...Roblox... And feel that people who do bad things on purpose may need attention and care...... Is it weird I could tell my friend was stressed without her actually purposefully showing signs in her text but just slightly less focused and different when it came to speech. Or that bullies really want to be that cool anime protag whos sarcastic psychopathic and brutal but don't realize there being mean.
Preach. I feel that every day.
@@who069 it’s based off of the Meyer Briggs test which is free to take online, you could be but you could also be a different combination of empath and other factors!
Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout.
The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it.
(Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
*video*: “INFJ is one of the rarest personality traits”
**me just realising that half of the comment section are INFJ**
Makes sense tho. The world's population is 7 billion, 2% is a big number 😍
7/8
Welcome to 50% I.N.F.J...... of this chat
That’s because this video targets INFJs?
Lmao of course they’ll be here because this video is literally about *”INFJ”s.*
Lmao you might as well wanna use your brain sometimes.
There’s literally 7 billion people on earth, so there’ll be at least more than 156 million people who are INFJ type. 💀🙄
Them: “You could be INFJ. A rare personality type”
Me: “that does sound like me, but I can’t tell other people because they think I’m pulling “I’m NoT LikE oTheR GiRls” card”.
yup true my sister think im being like that even though I don't really care and even thought pf that so I kinda always fight woth her but she still don't get she thinks that I'm pretending to be cool even though I'm not I don't even think about this things but she thinks differently
Same! Honestly...
Same here...
Same, It's just 😀
Same
Are we *n o t* gonna talk about how cute the art style is? Like- *I just wanna keep you in my pocket*
Yessss 😭 HAHAHA
RIGHT
I'm a huge fan of it (◡‿◡✿)
And her voice is so calming!
her channel name is naphia :)
hearing these common signs actually made me feel heard and comforted
im not even sure if im an infj but all these signs, i can heavily agree.
INFJ be like: If I can't be perfect then fuck it all
😂
Well-said!
That’s it. This is THE COMMENT.
Yep
Lol yes. It feels like even small thing gets ruined, you are like everything's fucked up. My whole life is fucked up
We INFJ’s are basically living golden rules: treat others the way you would want to be treated.
Like a pet as same as an dog
Are we in hive mind ? because I have the same thought's and standards
We shall unite one day ;)
I do use that rule, but then again I have a personality with severe anger issues, where I wish harm on people who are toxic and cruel towards me....like those people on games that message you and send you Kissy face emotes when you are bad and laugh at you when you bring up your leg disease. (I have muscular dystrophy)
Yeah, this bites me in the ass a lot, because when people do something poorly to me and I'm quick/blunt to point out their hypocriticism when they ask for the exact same favor they turned down... only for me to end up helping them anyway, because I can't avoid wanting to help them -_-
I agree
Infj catch phrases:
"Sorry"
"Do you want help?"
"Is everything okay?"
"Sorry"
saying sorry when it isn't even your fault
So basically Canadian 😅
I guess I’m an INFJ 👁👄👁
soooo been a canadian is infj huh?
Literally I use all these
The last one hit especially hard. I'm like a beacon for that. Over the last few weeks I've been going out more regularly and more often than not I seem to run into some broken soul, yearning to be understood and just listened to.
Seing things about the 16 personality types is fun, but don't forget that everyone is unique and different. Humans are complex creatures. With every interaction, every thought, every decision, we change. We just don't notice it at first.
True
Yes amen
True
True true, but can you honestly say that people can’t be sorted into groups? typically the people that laugh too loud or people who are empathetic towards others share some of the same personality traits as people with the same attributes. this logic gives the 16p theory credibility as a theory. Although I will admit that I believe it’s possible to change ones personality type over time and even though one person may fit a specific type it does not mean that they are exactly the same as everyone else in that group.
No. Disagree. My experience has been that people are largely predictable and not so complex, behaviorally speaking.
the sad part about me being an INFJ is that you can comfort friends easily cause you know what they feel but when you are the one who needs comfort, no one understands you nor try to understand you.
This, I feel so fucking lonely at times because of this.
Me.
I highly relate to this, you should still try to help people if you want to, but don't be afraid to ask for help too...
true... i always feel like no one cares about me as deeply as i care about them
This is so true with me as well! But thankfully I found someone that I dare say understands me much better than any of my friends and when she doesn't she makes a very notable effort to try to understand me!! That alone makes me super happy and thankful, it's amazing!!
Here's wishing for you to find someone like that as well!
everyone: "omggg being an INFJ must be SO cool ur so rare lololol!!!'
literally every INFJ: **irritated silence**
Yes being a person like that is hard just care for others and be thankful
- coming from a INFJ girl
Sometimes we won't even tell others it's not cool because they think INFJ people are bragging.
YES!!
Trueeee😶
I feel like we often are the ones trying to help people but no one wants to return the favor so we end up burnt out often
I've taken the test multiple times throughout the years, and every time i do, i land as an INFJ-A personality type, i also am a girl and have Aspergers which is rather rare aswell; i found this video in my recommended after already knowing and reading up on my personality traits, and was pleasantly surprised to find some things that aren't described in detail, like life examples in this video which i have done in the past. Everything described in this video- although not as in detail as the briggs site descriptions, is me perfectly. and i feel. special in some way being able to understand people the way i do. and also very different than everyone i come across which is slightly weird going through life in this manner. but i enjoy it at the same time very much.
As someone with INFJ personality, and severe anxiety, it is kind of hard to live stress free. I always help everyone, at school, and online friends. But sometimes I just get so drained. I barely find people that can have deep conversations with me, without me feeling scared. My perfectionism is always commented on by others, that I get terrified. I'm hopefully going to get better, and help more people along the way!
we're litterally living the same life 😭
Yes, it's definitly hard to find someone that'll have a deep conversation with you. I feel that totally. There is only one friend I have that I can talk to freely about anything without being scared. Even just having one person is good enough for me. I hope you at least have that one person in your life too.
So am I sometimes I feel like online friends are better but then, they'll all leave one day. It's so lonely, I also have anxiety and no one really understands me
I am also friends with an INFJ online and she told me to "survive" in this world since we're so rare, this perfectionism of mine keeps me going forward, it feels like I can't move forward at the same time can't step back I'm stuck in the middle
This comment really surprised me because I can really relate. I have really bad anxiety as well and when it comes to school and friendships, I wanna be the person to help others out. Just recently, I’ve been trying to help out others with no real success and it’s been draining me. I’ve been going through a rough patch these past few weeks and after seeing this, I’m really wondering if I’m an INFJ since I can really relate to a lot of these comments.
Video: "Less than 2% of the population is INFJ"
Everyone in the comments: "OMG, this is so me!"
World population is around 7 billion people. 2% of that is still quite a lot and often people with same views gravitate toward same content.
yes there are a lot of people
@@harinyeagerr6855 people are just self diagnosing themselves over this video tho lmao- if they really think they have it, they could maybe talk to somebody more professional (not saying that the person who made this video isnt professional, but like somebody to talk to 1 on 1 kind of thing if u get what i mean), not just rely on a youtube video. there is two types of people in this comment section. people who say that they think they have it/have it just to be quirky and think theyre "special', or people who seriously think they have it/have it.
I was thinking the same thing 🙂
That’s cz people who aren’t INFJ wouldn’t be saying it lol, also 140 mil is a big number
“This personality type is rare!”
Everyone; “THATS ME!”
Exactly 😂 it’s actually annoying me now
But They are getting everything correct-
@@abiiixoxo6555 I definitely understand that and I respect a degree of skepticism. If I may, I would like to intercede. The video states that the infj type is 2% of the global population. As someone who has designed and conducted psychological studies, albeit in an undergraduate context, I can tell you that psych stats, or even all stats in general, are very ambiguous at times and prone to misrepresentation. That 2% can only be inferred from people who have taken the test. It isn't a hard number but rather a trend. Meaning that of those who haven't taken the test, it could be said with some degree of certainty that only 2% will be infj, however there exists a chance, however small, that maybe all the infjs have been hiding in that group and suddenly the average increases. (BTW in psych stats you can have a maximum of 95% certainty that the stats a representative of reality. You can never state a psychological finding as proving but only supporting a theory)
Secondly, at the time of writing this comment, only 4.3k people have commented. Not every single one is stating that they are infj so less than 4.3k people are claiming this. And even if they were, it would make sense that those who relate to the characteristics presented in the video would be the ones to comment. I personally wouldn't make a comment to say "oh... that isn't me". Some might but I would theorize that it is unlikely. Yeah, its possible that some people are lying so that they feel apart of something but what percentage do you think that would be? 2%? 5%? 50%? Consider that and put it into practical details. If you think that half or more people are lying, then that goes a bit beyond skepticism and into cynicism, which is fine if you find supporting evidence. Otherwise, you're categorizing people based on a faulty intuition. I personally abide by the trust but verify method, but like many of us, I dont have the free time to engage with everyone on this thread. Anyway, thanks for your time and im open to hearing any kind of response!
The reason why it seems that way is bc INFJs are the main ones that watch these videos
@@LifeisaBeautifulting Fair-
as an INFJ, im glad that i found my people heree (+ i feel called out)
INFJ here, and for those who see having it as their personality type as some sort of grand achievement, believe me it isn’t. Having a “unique” way of thinking is not always ideal, especially when it comes to performing optimally in a group or trying not to get lost in one’s own thoughts. Something being rare does not make it desirable.
Yea a lot of people have it
I’m a INFJ, bro my empathy literally hurts me. If someone has a wound I can feel it
Well said.
Blessing and a curse
I am a INFJ personality as well, and also diagnosed with borderline personality. You’re right, it’s not always fun or nice at all. I find it very distressing. I have attachment issues, need to be loved, have strong emotions, I can feel the pain of others, I have very little close friends, I struggle with relationships and being understood, or understanding others. I often feel like I’m the one who cares more, and that really hurts my feelings, making relationships difficult and often very hurtful for me. I’m always there for people when they need me, but find others avoid me when I want to talk about my feelings or thoughts. I don’t like superficial small talk and often am too intense for other people to be around. I give up on things that don’t feel good, I experience black and white thinking and makes it hard to sustain relationships. I have problem seeing the good in people and in the world sometimes. I will never leave someone’s side when they are in distress, I put all my effort into those I love, often neglected myself. I think about other people all of the time, possibly more than I consider my own self or feelings. It is very difficult and you’re right, being unique isn’t always fun at all.
"INFJ is the RAREST personality type" , every single person in the comments and watching this including me does every single thing:
If you think about it tho for the most part people who are INFJ and relate to this are more likely to comment
This is called the Barnum effect, also known as the Forer effect! You should do some research on it, it's really interesting!
@@jaminoess yeah this style of video plays into this effect very hard. People pick out small little vague details from these simplistic descriptions, apply them to their own life, and say they have the personality type. Certainly an interesting phenomenon I agree
@@nebula8893
True I used to do that but rn I'm not sure if I'm an INFJ tho I only clicked on this vid cuz I've never heard of it so I wanted to learn ab it, I'm social but these days I feel like trying to be around less ppl and I was able to read ppl personalities easily but I started thinking a lot ab the future and what i am or what i want more so that kinda distracts me and I always would like to help ppl out even if they were strangers on the internet I'd give them advices and I'd like to talk more about the person or know more abt em since it's pretty interesting to know more stuffs ab ppl and I like drama ig but small talks don't annoy me exactly they just make me a bit bored. Welp I'm not sure what am I exactly but at least I know that this is just me trying to break my limits of thinking
@@akiraaa100 I mean fair enough, to be honest I don’t think your specific personality type matters in the slightest. You are you, No one else needs to fit you into some personality. Everyone is a mix of a lot of things, and is their own person. The reason this video and others like it on this channel appeal to people so much is the same reason astrology appeals to people
"Perfectionist but procrastinates"
I have an exam tomorrow, and i'm watching this instead of studying..
Damn, that's accurate.
Damn accurate 😂
Btw i like your hand.. feels like i wanna hold it 😏
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Come to think of it.. it's just about a kind-hearted/empathetic introvert.That's what this personality type narrows down too...
Seems like my sister is infj. She understands everyone but she seems distant sometimes. I wish I could help her someway. she's always there for me.
as infj myself id say tell her exactly what u just wrote bc that shows that she made an impact and u appreciate her for that
asking if what u percive as beein distand is realy distance or something else id say we love to hear how other people think and feel thats realy exiting so prob just be open
I think I'm an infj cause most of the things match up, I'd like someone to understand me and talk to me(like in the vid) and I'd definitely Appreciate ppl doing nice things for me, as long as ur not using it to get something
Theres most likely no need to help her, if shes like me, than shes fine pursuing interests in her own way
Just being there for her is enough 🙂
Welp i just found out im infj myself
So uhhh this is kinda surprising
For those who keep saying: “how is it rare? Look at the comments.”
There are billions of people on Earth.
Yepp, two percent is still dozens or maybe even hundreds of millions of people
+ the people who clicked on this video probably did it because they thought they were infj but weren't sure and wanted to confirm
156,000,000 to be precise (one-hundred and fifty-six million)
Maybe most of people who clicked this video are INFJ, cos i am
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
I find personality types are often situational. At my school I'm that quite observant individual who will barely make a noise, but then I get home to my online games.
Yo tard one bud, we’re going big this year
Personality types are used to describe your core characteristics (which are extremely hard to change), not situational ones (which change very frequently).
@@anonymoussoul2563 oh okay, after getting into this a bit more I comprehend this concept more accurately.
That sounds like a very sad life.
@@Lily-xk4ss he seems sad, but really he’s just getting ready for the big year
NOW I KNOW WHY I'M LIKE THIS..😐😐.
THIS VERY HELPFUL TY FOR UPLOADING.. 😘
Omg me too!!!
I’ve taken the test about 5 times through my adult and teenage life. I have gotten infj each time. It’s kind of a sad personality type and honestly kind of dangerous. It’s easy to feel lost and worn out. And it’s easy to be taken advantage of because you see the best in people and understand why they do things. Don’t fall trap to that. Set boundaries and learn your worth.
As a supposed “INFJ”and I’m not sad. Don’t let people label you be your own person. Don’t be a follower. If GOD is with you no one can stand against you seek GOD with all of your heart and soul. And accept GOD into your life. You can be granted peace that surpasses all understanding. Philippians 4:7
King James Version
7 And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
INFJ - T for me
i feel like I always try to help everyone, but no one helps me. Everyone can tell there secrets to me, but when i need to do so, nobody cares...
@=^K1TTY^= they aren’t forcing they’re offering support in a way they feel like would help. Don’t be so defensive and ready to attack people. If they were a different religion it would be a different story.
I see people with a clean slate
When she attacked me with “you have a large group of acquaintances but a few number of friends”
That’s literally the same for most people though
Isn't that literally everyone though?
@Momo the Great Aww 😟
I have 10+ acquaintances but 2 true friends. Still am able to keep contact with those two.
Yeah, same
that's not a bad thing though :)cc
Because of the INFJ's kindness, they often get hurt by other people easily.
Main reasons why most of INFJ don't really open up that much anymore and wouldn't give in so easily
ive let toxic people stay with me and its a bad habit kf mine now
i feel attacked-
Why you gotta be so loud 😭
True though
How relatable the fact that I want to do things, but my intuition just tells me "nah I'd take a break.".
Everyone: talking about how INFJ is the rarest personality types and stuff like that.
Then there's me: How is the narrator's voice so calm?
Intellectuals my friend
Her voice is so soft- it’s so-
*how do I describe an emotion that doesn’t exist*
@@NasheedforQalb oh thank you for telling. I'll for sure visit it
“You find explaining how you know things difficult”
Me. Every single day.
Same. I thought I was just dumb😆
Saammeee
Me in school trying to explain my thought process to my maths teacher
Me trying to tell my friend why I think her crush likes vanilla 😂😅
Me too I just stutter and hesitate and give up saying " I don't know how to explain things "
The hardest part for me being a infj is consistency, ill do great for months then fall off and become lazy, ill tear myself down as my own worse critic and build myself up as my own therapist, friends come to me for advice and I genuinely care but I feel as if my energy is drained to the point I wont talk to that person for months after my advice/opinion was givin. I see through people so easily to the point I dont have to pay attention to see their true intentions. I wanna socialize but isolation is safe, im a perfectionists and i hate failure, overthinking and Procrastination is my water.
Damn so relatable!
I struggled with that for years too my friend. keep future focused and you won't fall off the wagon. it's the only solution I found
also if you're like my and your "social battery" is quickly drained, focus on pushing that further and further slowly. in time you won't need months alone like I did, I have it down to disappearing socially for a few days vs years (like it used to be)
Find a drink, get laid, say hi to Mom or whatever parent u got. Repeat
Whew, that was a mouthful of "I totally relate!"
The reason I like teaching others is because it's the best way to expose my own holes in my knowledge, and learn myself.
I’m an INFJ. The “perfectionist but procrastinates” really hit home for me. It perfectly describes that issue within me because when I try to explain it to someone else, no one ever understands. I constantly struggle internally with all of the goals I want to achieve but I put it off, every. time. It’s a constant battle of wanting to stop wasting time but when looking at the task ahead... well, it doesn’t seem easy. Which is strange because I know I can do it, without a doubt, but when I think of when I get there; all the responsibilities I’d have, and the pressure of it all to keep the ball rolling. I always get the comment “you have great potential,” and it annoys me because it’s true. As if I’m not there but there at the same time. I visualize is as this: walking down a dark road, seeing the light ahead, but when I try to take a step forward.. I can’t. It’s like trying to scream without any sound coming out. It’s scary, and I face it every day. Making friends is just as difficult. I observe people a lot and take joy in that, I pick up on people’s quirks and habits, I’m there for them when they need me or need advice. But I don’t get that genuity with others. I’ve come to accept that maybe people will never care as much. It’s lonely. Although it sounds nice to be part of the 2%, there’s a lot of downsides to it. For me, I try to take solace in solitude and knowing my worth, so that when I’m around people it doesn’t hurt as much.
same !!! everything that you said
and i get very sad coz i just postpone things thinking I'll do that better later and end up doing messed up work
i don't want to be like this 😞 it's been going on since forever and I know I'm wasting my potential but I can't seem to sort this out
it's really taking a toll on me now, and add to it poor decision making it's not pleasant at all
I WANT TO CHANGE !
I also get statements like "u have great potential" , "every work you do , you do it with perfection" i don't even have account of things I've put on hold for years now :/
plz do reply if u see this.
There wasn't even a phrase in which I didn't identify myself.
You wrote exactly how i feel everyday.😳
In some way, I feel relieved, I'm happy to know that it's not me, I'm not the strange one and that it's only a personality trait.
Should you take the actual test to see if you’re an INFJ? You know.. since you all identified with the video. This video cannot diagnose someone. It is a brief overview of general characteristics.
@@whoatemynachos4993 I'm so sorry this is happening to you too. I'm by no means perfect and I struggle with these issues all the time but I will share some things that have helped upon excessive reflection.
*Stop and breathe
We all live our lives in our own bubble, constantly worried about the problems of our lives. When it becomes too much: stop and breathe. Take time to dwell on the bigger picture. I like to visualize myself first and zoom slowly outward to space, the endless galaxies. This visualization reminds me that my problems are small and I live but a fleeting life on this planet. It reminds me to live my days one at a time instead of pressuring myself of the future. Even though life doesn't always go the way we want it to, we have to make the best of it we can.
*Make small goals
It's easy to get overwhelmed with a ton of things you haven't done/need to do/promises to others or yourself. Its okay to take your time, as long as you do it. Write them down, divide them into small groups and try to tackle at least one thing a day. If you can't do something, it's okay. Learn from your mistakes this time on how to better approach something you need to do. We aren't robots. We fail. It's okay to make mistakes.
*Don't compare yourself to others
Things always look better from the outside looking in. There are more complexities at play when you admire someone or something. It looks easy. What makes others successful is failing and learning from it. Its okay to seek out inspiration, just be healthy about it and not compare yourself. Everyone has their own journey.
*Be kind to yourself.
This is the most important. Accept that you will fail and enjoy the journey. That not everyone is perfect including you. I know this is hard with perfectionism but honestly, most of the beautiful things in life are imperfect. We have to learn that not everything will go according to plan in life. With that said, be kind to yourself when things go wrong. Remind yourself it's okay and you will be alright. Always put your mental health first.
*Write a letter to yourself
On your best days things become more clear, more positive. And not everyday will be your best day or positive day. So write a letter to yourself when problems are more clear. Remind yourself of your dreams and aspirations. Urge yourself to be better and that things will be okay. That you will be okay. So that when those days roll around you can always read it and remember.
Sorry, I know this was long but I hope this helps.
@@vivianaromano8156 I'm happy as well that I don't face this kind of battle alone, although I don't wish it on anyone, I share the sentiment. Try to accept that you are this way, although it's hard to make friends as an INFJ, its better to accept it and build on it slowly so that you are comfortable in your own shoes.
"You also tend to be very critical of your past experiences"
Me going back to what I should've said in an argument
Felt this on a spiritual level above the universe.
I sometimes cringe at things I did in past
More like how you understood or reacted to a situation and if there was anything you could have done to keep someone from making a huge mistake and/or hurting someone. Like, "Why didn't I catch this," and "If I were closer with this person could I have influenced them what not to say or do?"
And of course there's the, "I knew what was happening but didn't know what to do!!"
What hurts is, "I really thought you could have been a friend... and now I don't know how to grow apart from you." And you have to disassociate without hurting yourself and your friends who are still friends with the non-friend.
Not an INFJ but an INTJ. Most characteristics can go for both.
🥵😵😔🤦🏾♀️
@@type3gaming851 I cringe at things I did YEARS ago
"You also tend to procrastinate, because you feel it's to big of a task"
Sounds like my daily life
It's common
Thats meeeee!!!
I took the Mayers Brigg test many times and the result is always the same. I'm an INFJ and yes I possesse the traits you mentioned. I can see through people even just by looking at them and is able to predect their next action or expression. I can sense if there's a good or bad thing/s to happen. I can tell who walks behind me with just their smell and the intensity of the wind they created. I can look for my things even if it's pitched black just by feeling it because I can tell the things I've been using just by feeling it. Yes, I've predicted accurately the things that's going to happen.
Everyone please be quiet for a moment and appreciate the cute animation.
I know right! It's adorable! And they're all PLANTS
Yes so true!!
OMG!! JB on your profile!
:D
@@krzln it's my favorite era of him ㅠㅠ his hair was really beautiful
The moment when you realize you are INFJ, but are scared telling anyone. Because they will probably say: "You say this just because it's a rare type!" And it hurts.
I feel free to comment here, since almost everyone here is INFJ...
i am also an infj
don't feel scared from telling the truth, it's really normal for people to misinterpret you
And no one understands anyways
@@zerozero7158 Except INFJ
@@l1atena1 exactly
INFJ: "I am INFJ!"
Everyone: "I am INFJ!"
INFJ are 2% of the world population.
Which means there are 14 millions INFJ 😄.
I am radio rebel
I am microwave
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time, people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
@@rebeccaeverett8957 exactly. Everybody thinks about their future and procrastinates lol. Just cause you have heard about it doesn’t mean you are it
Ive always wondered why my heart of gold never went away ❤
"The world's rarest personality type"
Most of the people in the comment section: "Yes"
Ha thats funny and true what you said.. In 5 years its gona be populated with infj over 102 percent of population
Ikr 🥲🥲
@@Psych2go wtf how did you get them emojis
@@jasmineguy2236 lmao what why is this making me laugh so hard-