yes, i'm an INFJ that took the test 2-5 years back :) Love the channel cuz i like thinking about psychology in general. Like how i'm not queer or anything, but i find it interesting to look at things like xenogenders, which are genders that explain the concept of how someone feels about their gender through an example. I feel like taking the test again even though I still relate pretty hard to this video (good job :D).
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time,people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
@@scyllari3544 To be completely honest I wouldn’t fully put all your belief in those tests. Personality tests aren’t really accurate. You can answer the questions 100% truthfully and you know what each question specifically means, but it can still put you in a category which isn’t you. A lot of people here are mistypes, and a lot of the time with those personality tests is a lot of the questions are similar to each other and therefore you think you relate to them all, which therefore doesn’t give an honest answer
@@scyllari3544 the fact that you recommended that website 😬😬 the only reason why your results seemed “accurate” is because the questions are vague and all have similar concepts, therefore each question sounds similar and ends up mistyping you with the wrong personality type. A lot of the questions on those personality tests are Barnum statements, which are statements that apply to most people.
As an INFJ I kinda felt lonely and not understood (dealed with loneliness a lot) but then I found my best friend. After 3 years of friendship I found out why I felt so understood and comfortable around her: she was also an INFJ
I'm an INFJ too, and I've always had friends, but like it said in the video, they were more like acquaintances. When I met my two best girl friends and my best guy friend, I suddenly felt so valued, understood and loved. I found out later that he's also an INFJ (which explains how we got along so well as soon as we met) and that my other friend is the "best friend" with INFJs (according to online sources)! (I forgot the MBTI for it TT) Anyways I found the video to be very accurate XD Especially the part about being a perfectionist and a procrastinator XD
@@Rue779I relate to you and the comment very well as an INFJ as well I often feel left out tho and want to meet more people like me. And it’s nice to know you found your people. 😊But the perfectionist and procrastinating part is so relatable 😭 🫥
Being rare feels great! But that means it's also rare to find other INFJ, cuz INFJ are rare. Yeah I'm an INFJ too. Loneliness is a part of our life that can only be solved if we find someone trustworthy. So accept it, and hope for good!
For an INFJ, it's more intense. Usually, we know what to do, but just don't do it. I wouldn't classify it as "procrastination", but rather our constant struggle towards perfection. We don't do something, at times, because of: the social circumstances, the timing, and the certainty of the outcome.
My weird shower thoughts: Even though INFJ's are the rarest personality type, they can be found in the comments section because they don't go out and instead spend their whole day watching TH-cam.... I speak from experience
I've thinked about that too! But I think because INFJs personality type is the less common so maybe we are more confused and we want to know better about us? Or maybe because (talking about myself but I know its pretty common in INFJs persons), when you are into a theme (which would be all the MBTIs personalities) we do want to search information and learn about that stuff they are now into
I figured out that I’m an INFJ about 3 weeks ago. It’s crazy how accurately it captured me. I’m happy with who I am, even if I feel out of place sometimes.
@@justhereyk6201diagnosed?!! No need for money its a quiz on the internet just type "Personality type quiz" on google and answer the questions [honestly] To get right results🤍hope this helps
Yeah [INFJ as well], like I'll literally tell them exactly what they're feeling and going through yet on the otherhand, they only know what I'm feeling or talking about if make I obvious or like most of the time, they just never know 😶 It really is pain to know its hard to find people or even someone who could actually grasp your thinking into one jar. Srry for the whole paragraph, but if you read this then thank you 👍
@@bnmangaman Or don’t worry bud I freakin love it, not to sound weird but it literally tells me about the future or even gives me auras around certain people and things telling me if their good for me or not and it ALWAYS RIGHT !! 😳 So it helps me in the long run 🏃♀️🤩 but I’m just sucks that I can’t share that with someone almost exactly like me heh, who’ll understand and talk to me about it 😅.
1. I mostly don’t share in things that other people do or are interested in 2. I missed one piece of homework and I was really stressed for the whole day and I procrastinate SO MUCH. 3. I can always tell what a person is feeling just by looking or talking to them even if they’re trying to hide it. 4. I have a circle of 3 friends and would do anything for them even though some of them don’t really share that. 5. I imagine what people are going through on a daily basis 6. I always think about what’s coming next. I also tend having a hard time letting go of possessions that I associate with my past. I keep several shelves full of these things and just go through them sometimes just to re experience those times. 7. I always feel like I need to help people. One person said to me “I think you help people to avoid helping yourself.” And it hit deep. I just do it without thinking about it. I really relate to this video. I guess I am an INFJ.
Same, I have a small circle of 4 friends and I am always there for them. They like... don't realise that I really need and want help. But I don't want to ask because I am afraid that they will judge me or something. So I kind if try to hide it and just continue to make them feel better so there is at least someone who can be happy.
You know you're an INFJ when you're a good listener and people always come to tell you their problems, and then you get depressed because you have their problems weighing on you, and there's no one who takes the time to listen to your problems.
For real...I really don't understand how it happens. All my life I have been the recipient of people's confessions, I don't know what vibe I give off that makes people just want to start telling me their stuff. And it literally is everyone I encounter, not just people I know. It makes me good at my job now, and I'm able to disassociate so it isn't a burden anymore, but it really was terribly difficult to handle when I was younger. And yeah...NO ONE fucking reciprocates. Unless you're lucky enough to be friends with another INFJ who will take turns with you sharing and caring.
oh my~ I was recently tested as a INFJ again, I wasn't so sure if I am still a INFJ, but this video definitely affirmed the test result. it's also a bit spooky how accurate these descriptions are...
i‘m always so worried about the environment and what the others will think. they just continue screaming and dont give a shit lmao even though i try to calm them down!!
Once you added “rarest personality type” to the title you made people subconsciously want to fit the type since it’s special to be rare. Now a lot of people will do anything to rationalize themselves being relatable to this video.
"You also tend to be critical about your past experiences." *flashbacks to those times I stayed up till 3am because I regretted using a certain word in a text message*
For me it’s weird I’m like this with one of my friends yet another personality if front of another so on so forth. It’s like I change personalities around different people and I trust them all equally so it has nothing to do with trust.
INFJ be like: "I mean I did take a hundred tests and they were all INFJ, but I don't want people to think I'm just saying it because it's the rarest type, so I'll just keep my mouth shut"
This: "do you hate small talk? " absolutely. It's difficult to host a conversation about nothing.. But tell me you are having a hard time or your heart is heavy - I'll listen attentively and empathize.
Same, like i hated people who dont back me up like im literally trying to have a decent conversation to them But of course saying thosr out loud will prevent me from making friends
Small talk can lead to deeper talk once you get to know them better. That’s what I’m starting to learn at my job. Conversations start off small at 1st but they can evolve over time, especially if you ask lots of questions.
@@Joshman601 yes I've experienced it sometime I really forget from where the long talk started from.. it can start from a small talk then you dig deeper and the conversation just keep going on and on
I used to hate all chinese people for my entire life, but then I've spent an entire week thinking about China and Chinese people, so now I feel sorry for them and bad about my self. Though, I am an introvert and avoid conflicts, so nobody ever knew that I had any hatred of Chinese. I also was bored af and felt academically invincible to the point that I speak Chinese now. It's like 1 month 180 degree transition.
I am an INTJ, and I am apparently really rare for some reason, being part of the 2.6% of the population. I think it's really interesting how they've actually named different personality trates and in which way. Really interesting stuff, keep it up!
well, not that rare… I‘m a person with Asperger, and that’s 2% too, and that‘s not that rare. If you pay attention, you‘ll notice which people have things like this, and You‘ll see that it‘s more or less common. Some just „hide“ (bc it‘s nothing negativ of course) it better than others. Müsst ihr wissen.
@@ditto6384 OBJECTION! Psych2go said themselves in the vid that about 2% of people have this personality type. at least I think that was the case too tired to check rn 🗿
@@Mandarinoooooo dude, there are literally 8 billions of people in this world. 2% is like, Idk 160,000,000? That might looks a lot to you but it's very little considering the fact of how big the world actually is.
My biggest problem with being an INFJ is how I know so much about everyone around me, but I never feel like anyone even bothers to get to know me beyond my name
@@HarryPotter-pi3km didn't expect to be roasted by Harry Potter today XD I was simply stating that this is the way I feel. This is what my biggest personal struggle looks like, and obviously it isn't limited to one single personality type - to assume it was would be stupid. And I didn't mean "knowing the person" as such, but more of "knowing a lot of secrets of that person, things not a lot of other people know". I just often feel like I have nobody to open up to about my problems while I'm the person everyone else opens up to. And, well, I enjoy being able to help others simply by listening to them, but I often let others' problems close to myself which affects me more than I'd like to admit. Sorry if that makes me a not-INFJ in your eyes XD I'm obviously aware of all the things you said although I don't really see how half of those things have anything to do with what I was stating before. Also, I see how my original comment wasn't formulated clearly :)
@@HarryPotter-pi3km A) I'm pretty much aware that you weren't actually roasting me, it was meant as a joke XD B) that's exactly what I meant, I wasn't talking about being an INFJ, but about my biggest struggle as such. Frankly, I don't even know why I wrote that comment in the first place XD About the "sharing secrets", I wasn't talking about someone's deepest secrets, but about things they might not feel comfortable sharing with lots of people, things they keep hidden. And yeah, I am aware I'm not the only one they might be telling these secrets, but I also know they often tell me not to tell anyone else - that's pretty much my definition of a secret. And I might be an INFJ, I might as well not be one. I didn't write these comments to prove you that I'm an INFJ because honestly, there are more important things. For me, at least.
Everyone’s like “omg I wish I was an INFJ” but they don’t consider: The fact that we are the worst when it comes to making decisions. Maybe it’s just me, but I am so freaking indecisive about everything
@@harinyeagerr6855 people are just self diagnosing themselves over this video tho lmao- if they really think they have it, they could maybe talk to somebody more professional (not saying that the person who made this video isnt professional, but like somebody to talk to 1 on 1 kind of thing if u get what i mean), not just rely on a youtube video. there is two types of people in this comment section. people who say that they think they have it/have it just to be quirky and think theyre "special', or people who seriously think they have it/have it.
i feel like it makes sense as to why so many INFJs are here. we have this innate craving to learn about others, ourselves included, so we click on videos like these to help us understand better☺️
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
If INFJs are here, then I want to share my feelings with y'all which I will maybe never share with my family nor friends. As being the rarest personality type, I feel unique, but also different, in the sense I can't find a person with whom I can share my feelings with as there is only 2 percent of the world's population of my personality. I really wanna find someone like a best friend, to share my feelings with, to get all the negative thoughts off my shoulder, and to also know how it feels to have someone like that person I wanna find. I always try to fit in as I don't like being alone sometimes, I want someone to share my feelings with, but I haven't found someone like that, and sometimes I avoid hanging out with my friends when I get too frustrated, because I don't think I really consider them as my friends. Why am I so different from everyone else I see? I really need someone to get assisted by and to assist. I shared my thoughts here because I wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way. (sorry for bad English)
This video changed my life, all my life I struggled, felt deep sadness and not belonging anywhere and being misunderstood, I also live in a small village with 1000 people so you can imagine the struggles Ive been through, finally I can live a bit more peacefull life knowing there are others like me and now having some insights and knowing myself better I can finally focus on things that matter to me and not destroy my mental heatlh like i did wandering in my mind what is wrong with me for years and years, I want to thank you for this video and i mean this absolutley sincerely 😘
Are you sure about that? I mean, there are several people like me. Hispanics, brown eyes, trilangual, dark brown hair, tiny feets, underweight, skeleton look alike, average height (etcetera). But there is only one with my personality (in all human history: past, present & future) and that's me.
The way every legitimate INFJ wishes they weren't an INFJ because we literally have the most difficult time finding similar people to connect with mentally and emotionally.
totally agree with you, when you try to reach out to other people yet you feel like it drains your energy too much and you feel like they don’t get you then the tendency is you isolate yourself again.
Lmao of course they’ll be here because this video is literally about *”INFJ”s.* Lmao you might as well wanna use your brain sometimes. There’s literally 7 billion people on earth, so there’ll be at least more than 156 million people who are INFJ type. 💀🙄
I’m an INFJ. I procrastinate a lot. I try to be perfect in everything. I have selective friends, and I get bored very easily in small talk and I rather have long conversations. I never knew I was till I saw this video.
Being worst part of an INDJ 1. You can’t seem to say NO 2. You cannot forget but move on easily makes you confused if you are emotionless 3. You are always unsatisfied with yourself no matter how hard you try 4. You start blaming yourself when you can’t fix someone 5 . You tend to think way too much for simplest of things 6 . Being considerate drains your energy 7. You find yourself being used 8. You end up being the understanding one always but never understood
Yeah this is all me. Do y'all ever get really nice stuff or do really nice things for your friends (cuz they're special to you) but then it's like they don't really reciprocate that feeling. And you can tell by the way they do things for you or stuff they get you. It's like, I feel like I'm the only one who's really trying to understand and appreciate ppl.
1. You're on a diff wavelength- dominant intuition, feel like outsider, make u feel isolated or misunderstood 2. You're a perfectionist and procrastinate 3. You're perceptive and good at reading people 4. You tend to keep small circle of friends 5. You're deeply empathetic 6. You cannot stand small talk 7. You are future focused 8. You gravitate towards people who need help
Rough tendency, not a strict behaviour of yours. Are you a perfectionist with literally everything? I doubt it since you never capitalized the “Y” in “you’re”. Zero period after the statement, no period after your second statement. This is not perfectionism in the slightest.
Theres a chance no one here is infj almost all of us do shit like this People just watch this sorts of videos and diagnose them shits as this to feel specials when they are not they are not
@@hokyvessaint there's a official 16 personalities test which almost everyone here took, most of them took it about 3 to 5 times. Not everyone is r/notlikeothergirls, sure there might be mistyped INFJ'S but generalizing is really stupid, no need to be so pissed. Anyways, this test has actually helped me a lot, I took it a year ago without knowing any of the personality types, they give advice, career suggestions, a lot of and a lot of information, this video is just simplified and INFP's also might relate to this
I'm still distant from my group of friends because i'm scared of everything " group of friends " means and that there gonna abandon me just like some of my friends did
IKRRRRRR Like... and they can just hold a convo with the male species randomly... I don’t even dare staring them in the eye 👁 (well I don’t like eye contacts usually but still)
I think the reason why "perfectionists but procrastinates" hits so close to home is because it's extremely rare for us to find something we actually truly care about--so in the few instances we do, we put our hearts and souls into it since it's one of the few opportunities when we're able to express who we are.
i once joined a soccer team (wiich trained for 4 years) and they just threw me to the others like im a professional, the coach always yelled at me until... on the third day, he told me not to go, i didnt, this is where my dream, to be as good as my friend has ended
INFJ can never be in a 3 ppl friend group bc whenever you talk to one of the friends you worry that the 3rd person gets jealous so you end up always letting the other 2 become best friends but you’re a jealous person yourself
Well i was lmao i let them play games with each other and left them cuz they understand each other support each other so i feel left out, thats why i left i don’t want to get involved with them anymore lmao
I first thought I was an INFJ, bit then I did a few tests and it turned out Im a INFP, pretty close. The only thing that didnt fit for the INFJ was the organization :) thx for the tests, and i recommend for evryone taking a mbti test to make sure which type you are
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@@spoodermemes8045 He wouldn't... We almost hate and love death at the same time... But even in my worst times "a week of constant sucidal depression" I managed to pull myself up. I don't think of the death as same after that... And would never give up because I'd love to live in pain to know more about what ive got here then to, go beyond sooner and might never have the chance to experience this world again...
we just want someone who we can actually trust our hearts to the one we're sure they won't break it letting the ice melt and tear the wall down... it's scary, because....u never know when that trust is not actually genuine u never really know love properly because u don't accept the love they give u u say "i do" or "i love u too" but in ur mind u r actually conflicted and does not trust them.
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
1. You're on a different wavelength 2. You're a perfectionist & procrastinate 3. You're perceptive & good at reading ppl 4. Tend to keep a small circle of friends 5. Deeply empathetic 6. Cannot stand small talk 7. Future focused 8. Gravitate towards ppl who need help
The last one hit especially hard. I'm like a beacon for that. Over the last few weeks I've been going out more regularly and more often than not I seem to run into some broken soul, yearning to be understood and just listened to.
the way i’ll describe INFJs are that they look absolutely cold, emotionless and chill outside, but in our heads we’re reading everyone and thinking of every possibility of anything. if that made sense
I will say only one thing.I know a lot of people,but i also know that my friends are 5 maximum.The only humans on earth except my family that i talk a lot , be myself and not be stressed by just talking to them.I am an INFJ for sure.The other 5 friends i have are ALL INFJ s, i suppose that is the reason we fit together so many years.This channel has helped me a lot to understand so many things about life, and i am grateful, because i am just 15 years old.Lastly, very good job.Your videos have a point and you are right, you have proof.Not like some other channels that just say random stuff,and i like that. Congratulations about the channel, keep up the good work!!( I am sorry if i wrote something wrong, my mother language is greek)
8 Signs You’re An INFJ 1. You're on a different wavelength 2. You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate 3. You are perceptive and good at reading people 4. You tend to keep a small circle of friends 5. You are deeply empathetic 6. You cannot stand small talk 7. You are future focused 8. You gravitate toward people who need help
@@abiiixoxo6555 I definitely understand that and I respect a degree of skepticism. If I may, I would like to intercede. The video states that the infj type is 2% of the global population. As someone who has designed and conducted psychological studies, albeit in an undergraduate context, I can tell you that psych stats, or even all stats in general, are very ambiguous at times and prone to misrepresentation. That 2% can only be inferred from people who have taken the test. It isn't a hard number but rather a trend. Meaning that of those who haven't taken the test, it could be said with some degree of certainty that only 2% will be infj, however there exists a chance, however small, that maybe all the infjs have been hiding in that group and suddenly the average increases. (BTW in psych stats you can have a maximum of 95% certainty that the stats a representative of reality. You can never state a psychological finding as proving but only supporting a theory) Secondly, at the time of writing this comment, only 4.3k people have commented. Not every single one is stating that they are infj so less than 4.3k people are claiming this. And even if they were, it would make sense that those who relate to the characteristics presented in the video would be the ones to comment. I personally wouldn't make a comment to say "oh... that isn't me". Some might but I would theorize that it is unlikely. Yeah, its possible that some people are lying so that they feel apart of something but what percentage do you think that would be? 2%? 5%? 50%? Consider that and put it into practical details. If you think that half or more people are lying, then that goes a bit beyond skepticism and into cynicism, which is fine if you find supporting evidence. Otherwise, you're categorizing people based on a faulty intuition. I personally abide by the trust but verify method, but like many of us, I dont have the free time to engage with everyone on this thread. Anyway, thanks for your time and im open to hearing any kind of response!
Them: “You could be INFJ. A rare personality type” Me: “that does sound like me, but I can’t tell other people because they think I’m pulling “I’m NoT LikE oTheR GiRls” card”.
yup true my sister think im being like that even though I don't really care and even thought pf that so I kinda always fight woth her but she still don't get she thinks that I'm pretending to be cool even though I'm not I don't even think about this things but she thinks differently
Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout. The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it. (Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
I always fit every personality type you make a video of, idk why The things that depends are always the determining thing to know my personality type ;-;
what you neglect with this statement is that probably a lot of people who watch this video are INFJ who wanted to know more about their Myers Briggs personality ;) So to me it would be no surprise if the majority of watchers actually are INFJ. You also gotta consider that rare with around 2% of the population which is close to 8.000.000.000 it still means that there are still around 160 million people on the globe with that personality which is still a lot. So rare has to be put into perspective. It's only rare compared to other personality types, not rare in absolute numbers.
Maybe the majority of people who are interested in personality types are INFJ'S and the neighboring personalities, and that's why it can seem like people out there are mistyping themselves. Also, 2% is around 140 million people. There are still a lot of us.
@Arianna shifting is the act of moving your conscious to another reality that you want, you could go on adventures, see dead love one's in another reality, have that deep personal relationship that you always wanted and many more!
the sad part about me being an INFJ is that you can comfort friends easily cause you know what they feel but when you are the one who needs comfort, no one understands you nor try to understand you.
This is so true with me as well! But thankfully I found someone that I dare say understands me much better than any of my friends and when she doesn't she makes a very notable effort to try to understand me!! That alone makes me super happy and thankful, it's amazing!! Here's wishing for you to find someone like that as well!
@@jaminoess yeah this style of video plays into this effect very hard. People pick out small little vague details from these simplistic descriptions, apply them to their own life, and say they have the personality type. Certainly an interesting phenomenon I agree
@@nebula8893 True I used to do that but rn I'm not sure if I'm an INFJ tho I only clicked on this vid cuz I've never heard of it so I wanted to learn ab it, I'm social but these days I feel like trying to be around less ppl and I was able to read ppl personalities easily but I started thinking a lot ab the future and what i am or what i want more so that kinda distracts me and I always would like to help ppl out even if they were strangers on the internet I'd give them advices and I'd like to talk more about the person or know more abt em since it's pretty interesting to know more stuffs ab ppl and I like drama ig but small talks don't annoy me exactly they just make me a bit bored. Welp I'm not sure what am I exactly but at least I know that this is just me trying to break my limits of thinking
@@akiraaa100 I mean fair enough, to be honest I don’t think your specific personality type matters in the slightest. You are you, No one else needs to fit you into some personality. Everyone is a mix of a lot of things, and is their own person. The reason this video and others like it on this channel appeal to people so much is the same reason astrology appeals to people
Oh my gosh I am so glad there is at least 1 other person out there that understands this!! I want to know about this stuff but seeing the comments is torturing me and how people always think they have it 😭 wow am I a gifted person 0-0 lol
this video is actually shockingly similar to other videos talking about signs of high intelligence... maybe the theory isn't quite right and it's just being smart ?
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time, people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
I do use that rule, but then again I have a personality with severe anger issues, where I wish harm on people who are toxic and cruel towards me....like those people on games that message you and send you Kissy face emotes when you are bad and laugh at you when you bring up your leg disease. (I have muscular dystrophy)
Yeah, this bites me in the ass a lot, because when people do something poorly to me and I'm quick/blunt to point out their hypocriticism when they ask for the exact same favor they turned down... only for me to end up helping them anyway, because I can't avoid wanting to help them -_-
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life.
The worst part about being an INFJ is being able to read people but also giving everyone a fair chance and trying to help everyone. Like you know someone is going to hurt you but you still give them a chance because you want to be proven wrong.
@@zackfameree4474 Yes and then the cycle continues because you lose faith in humanity but the next person comes along and you’re like “okay they give the same vibe but everyone deserves a fair chance!” Like dammit 😂
...Does it mean I'm one if I could read my friend while playing...Roblox... And feel that people who do bad things on purpose may need attention and care...... Is it weird I could tell my friend was stressed without her actually purposefully showing signs in her text but just slightly less focused and different when it came to speech. Or that bullies really want to be that cool anime protag whos sarcastic psychopathic and brutal but don't realize there being mean.
@@who069 it’s based off of the Meyer Briggs test which is free to take online, you could be but you could also be a different combination of empath and other factors!
Your on a different wavelength : ✅ Your a perfectionist : ✅ Your perceptive : ✅ You keep a small circle of friends : ✅ Your deeply empathetic : ✅ You cannot stand small talk : ???? You are future focused : ✅✅✅✅✅
True INFJs, sometimes hate being an INFJ. It is a curse. We feel left out. And we know too much. We know more than we should, and it gets ugly. Sometimes, I wish I had an ON/OFF switch to turn off the alarm system in my head. I don't want all that information coming at me, all the time. I don't want to notice every little detail and calculate all the time. It is exhausting.
Thank you finally someone said it, like I just wish I didn’t notice and analyze every single micro expression and action even though it’s always right. I just don’t want to know, I want to not think and understand so much.
from 10 seconds of google search. i found world population is about 7.8 billion. so 2 percent of 7 billion = 140.000.000. this youtube only has 1.9 million views. cmiiw.
@@corny6909 The current world population is 7.8 billion as of December 2020 according to the most recent United Nations estimates elaborated by Worldometer. The term "World Population" refers to the human population (the total number of humans currently living) of the world. 👁👄👁
Did the test, got INFJ, never actually understood that until now. The thing is, I used to be like this a couple years ago, then depression came, a couple toxic relationships latter... I am starting to slowly find myself again, and this video just reminded/showed me a little of who I am and that I am not who I was trying (Toxically and unsuccessfully) to be, thank you❤
Do you believe in personality types? Which one are you? (pt3)
what
Bro this was 2 years ago why did you come back
@@JamesRice_idfkidk
I would love to see this as a series where you add signs you are for every personality type
yes, i'm an INFJ that took the test 2-5 years back :)
Love the channel cuz i like thinking about psychology in general. Like how i'm not queer or anything, but i find it interesting to look at things like xenogenders, which are genders that explain the concept of how someone feels about their gender through an example. I feel like taking the test again even though I still relate pretty hard to this video (good job :D).
"youre a perfectionist but you procrastinate"
oh my god
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time,people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
Hello army
@@scyllari3544 To be completely honest I wouldn’t fully put all your belief in those tests. Personality tests aren’t really accurate. You can answer the questions 100% truthfully and you know what each question specifically means, but it can still put you in a category which isn’t you. A lot of people here are mistypes, and a lot of the time with those personality tests is a lot of the questions are similar to each other and therefore you think you relate to them all, which therefore doesn’t give an honest answer
@@scyllari3544 that test is inaccurate. Mbti goes by functions and that test goes by the meanings of the letters.
@@scyllari3544 the fact that you recommended that website 😬😬 the only reason why your results seemed “accurate” is because the questions are vague and all have similar concepts, therefore each question sounds similar and ends up mistyping you with the wrong personality type. A lot of the questions on those personality tests are Barnum statements, which are statements that apply to most people.
"Small circle of friends"
I dont think two people can make a circle-
mine makes a triangle-
Can one make a circle?!
You'd probably need, like, infinite friends to make an actual circle
Lovely just lovely
Mines 1-0
INFJ people when they've been grouped with people they're not close to:
"sh*t, please end this day quick"
I think I'm INFJ and that's me lol
@@kawaii3157 lol same
@@tsu-kazuki Wait nvm I thought I was INFJ but I think im enfp or infp now :D
me in any group at all
I feel you
As an INFJ I kinda felt lonely and not understood (dealed with loneliness a lot) but then I found my best friend. After 3 years of friendship I found out why I felt so understood and comfortable around her: she was also an INFJ
I'm an INFJ too, and I've always had friends, but like it said in the video, they were more like acquaintances. When I met my two best girl friends and my best guy friend, I suddenly felt so valued, understood and loved. I found out later that he's also an INFJ (which explains how we got along so well as soon as we met) and that my other friend is the "best friend" with INFJs (according to online sources)! (I forgot the MBTI for it TT) Anyways I found the video to be very accurate XD Especially the part about being a perfectionist and a procrastinator XD
@@Rue779I relate to you and the comment very well as an INFJ as well I often feel left out tho and want to meet more people like me. And it’s nice to know you found your people. 😊But the perfectionist and procrastinating part is so relatable 😭
🫥
Being rare feels great! But that means it's also rare to find other INFJ, cuz INFJ are rare. Yeah I'm an INFJ too. Loneliness is a part of our life that can only be solved if we find someone trustworthy. So accept it, and hope for good!
i had the same thing happen with me😊
“Perfectionist but procrastinates” this right here is not a fact.. it’s life
:0 that’s what I do
ADHD be like
Nothing has ever been said better and truer
Yes
For an INFJ, it's more intense. Usually, we know what to do, but just don't do it. I wouldn't classify it as "procrastination", but rather our constant struggle towards perfection.
We don't do something, at times, because of: the social circumstances, the timing, and the certainty of the outcome.
"INFJ is the rarest type"
Everyone on the internet: wow that's me
Unoriginal fool
this is because these are common parts of the personality
True
2% of the world population is at least 156 million people..........
@@borahaeflash782 and...?
My weird shower thoughts: Even though INFJ's are the rarest personality type, they can be found in the comments section because they don't go out and instead spend their whole day watching TH-cam.... I speak from experience
I also have the same weird shower thoughts
Ooo yess its possible why so many comments
same like it won't bother me if i don't go out for a month but at some point i want to see my friends once then go on hybernate mode again
I've thinked about that too! But I think because INFJs personality type is the less common so maybe we are more confused and we want to know better about us? Or maybe because (talking about myself but I know its pretty common in INFJs persons), when you are into a theme (which would be all the MBTIs personalities) we do want to search information and learn about that stuff they are now into
I relate to all of the above reasons but I don't watch TH-cam allot, because I think it's a waste of time and should be working on myself instead.
I figured out that I’m an INFJ about 3 weeks ago. It’s crazy how accurately it captured me. I’m happy with who I am, even if I feel out of place sometimes.
Hey quick question, it sounds weird but like who do u go to to get diagnosed or "checked out“?😭
I think I'm one I'm not entirely sure tho. They all perfectly matched me.
@@justhereyk6201u can search it on TH-cam bright side had posted this test
@@justhereyk6201diagnosed?!! No need for money its a quiz on the internet just type
"Personality type quiz" on google and answer the questions [honestly]
To get right results🤍hope this helps
@@justhereyk6201 there is a test you can take online just search up ''16-personality-types-quiz''
“Perfectionist but procrastinates”
*my whole life has been described in one sentence*
Boi same
CUBERR YEY
That's me 😪
This is so meee
IKR
As an INFJ, It just feel sad that I always tend to observe other people's reaction and emotion but everyone of them misunderstood me
When the imporstor is sus
Yes
Yeah [INFJ as well], like I'll literally tell them exactly what they're feeling and going through yet on the otherhand, they only know what I'm feeling or talking about if make I obvious or like most of the time, they just never know 😶 It really is pain to know its hard to find people or even someone who could actually grasp your thinking into one jar. Srry for the whole paragraph, but if you read this then thank you 👍
@@wolfsnicker I can relate heavily my friend, I think you just gotta appreciate your weird brain cause most people aint all that intuitive sadly
@@bnmangaman Or don’t worry bud I freakin love it, not to sound weird but it literally tells me about the future or even gives me auras around certain people and things telling me if their good for me or not and it ALWAYS RIGHT !! 😳 So it helps me in the long run 🏃♀️🤩 but I’m just sucks that I can’t share that with someone almost exactly like me heh, who’ll understand and talk to me about it 😅.
Literally every INFJ: “I’ve taken over 1,000 tests and everyone thinks I’m lying so I will shut my mouth.”
Omg the way I relate to this comment sm.
Exactly
Yesss
Meh I wpuldnt just assume one of you guys who say thats lying
Yes I am too an infj and no one believes me
1. I mostly don’t share in things that other people do or are interested in
2. I missed one piece of homework and I was really stressed for the whole day and I procrastinate SO MUCH.
3. I can always tell what a person is feeling just by looking or talking to them even if they’re trying to hide it.
4. I have a circle of 3 friends and would do anything for them even though some of them don’t really share that.
5. I imagine what people are going through on a daily basis
6. I always think about what’s coming next. I also tend having a hard time letting go of possessions that I associate with my past. I keep several shelves full of these things and just go through them sometimes just to re experience those times.
7. I always feel like I need to help people. One person said to me “I think you help people to avoid helping yourself.” And it hit deep.
I just do it without thinking about it. I really relate to this video. I guess I am an INFJ.
Thats exactly 😊the same with me
That’s me too
Your #6 hit deep with me. I hoard stuff that I have a deep connection to. I am trying to get up the nerve to downsize but it seems so overwhelming.
Thats deep alot of that decribes me! We should be friends lol. Everything you said I agree with especialy 6 3 and 2 DEFINETELY 2.
Nobody asked for your results
"Perfectionist but procrastinates"
Holy crap. I feel *a t t a c k e d*
God, I thought the exact same thing
Damn me too
that was my reaction as well
Ya that got me
Bruh same, and I got INFP
As an Infj, I hate the fact that I'm always there for everyone when they need me but when I need someone, I realized that I'm alone.
Same
Same, I have a small circle of 4 friends and I am always there for them. They like... don't realise that I really need and want help. But I don't want to ask because I am afraid that they will judge me or something. So I kind if try to hide it and just continue to make them feel better so there is at least someone who can be happy.
yes i can relate so much
So true
Humans are mostly unreliable
You know you're an INFJ when you're a good listener and people always come to tell you their problems, and then you get depressed because you have their problems weighing on you, and there's no one who takes the time to listen to your problems.
For real...I really don't understand how it happens. All my life I have been the recipient of people's confessions, I don't know what vibe I give off that makes people just want to start telling me their stuff. And it literally is everyone I encounter, not just people I know. It makes me good at my job now, and I'm able to disassociate so it isn't a burden anymore, but it really was terribly difficult to handle when I was younger.
And yeah...NO ONE fucking reciprocates. Unless you're lucky enough to be friends with another INFJ who will take turns with you sharing and caring.
My life story. Everytime.
So true.
You explained who I am holy- i seriously weigh myself with everyone's problems and no one is with me :')
Thought that was introverts
oh my~ I was recently tested as a INFJ again, I wasn't so sure if I am still a INFJ, but this video definitely affirmed the test result. it's also a bit spooky how accurate these descriptions are...
Infj reality: you 're telling your friends to stop screaming because you're the only one who notices everyone staring
YES
i‘m always so worried about the environment and what the others will think. they just continue screaming and dont give a shit lmao even though i try to calm them down!!
@@rosestulip444 Frrr
Im always the one shouting and my brother tells me to stfu xD
Yes this happened once when my friend was screaming some weird things- we were in the middle of a park, next to an old lady💀
INFJ: you hate small talk
Literally everyone: “that’s me!”
Truuuuueeee
Is there really anybody that likes small talk?
One time:
Me: *Texts in all caps with my friend*
Friend: “Why are you yelling?”
Me: “I HATE SMALL TALK”
:)
@@lemin-lyme8807 LMAO
Literally nobody:
INFJs people on the comments section: writing large texts about how they feel, cuz we can only understand to each other
Damn you, this is too real
We're so lonely
Been bottled up for too long
@@RS_mamf need help?
Finally, someone in the same group I’m in
the concluding message made me cry. I thought that no one could understand me. but here's a video that says it all.
Once you added “rarest personality type” to the title you made people subconsciously want to fit the type since it’s special to be rare. Now a lot of people will do anything to rationalize themselves being relatable to this video.
Facts. And using words like “You” is convincing for simple minds
Thank you. Thats exactly it.
I've always thought that about these videos but you worded that perfectly😂
Lookin thru comments and cant agree with u more. Found like 20 people like im one too in the same comment thread
@@tempest510 read the title of the video. Its a comment on that
"You also tend to be critical about your past experiences."
*flashbacks to those times I stayed up till 3am because I regretted using a certain word in a text message*
That is so me lol
Same
Wwaaiittt so not everyone does that?
Oh God, my brain remember that one embarrassing message RANDOMLY, like, in the middle of the day!!
i do that except it's more serious than that
INFJ be like : texting someone for a while, then realize that they have overshared most of the things
Yess!!
Meeeee
Yesssss
Oooh Man stop exposing us ,our biggest trait is to remain secretive and mysterious.
also INFJ: typing up paragraphs and not sending them because the other person would think he/she's too much
Imagine wanting to succeed but your too lazy. And when you didn’t succeed you feel sad. Ik its complicated
I feel you
Yes this happens so much. Honestly this group of people are amazing and I'm happy that I'm not the only one. I love these comments.
You’re literally describing me here
That's me but I'm not even close to an INFJ
Yh
I LOVE just sitting in a room, not talking, listening, and reading people.
Lol that sounds so boring
Me tooo
Same I align with every symptom that was mentioned in the video 😂 I always felt like a black sheep
For me it’s weird I’m like this with one of my friends yet another personality if front of another so on so forth. It’s like I change personalities around different people and I trust them all equally so it has nothing to do with trust.
all mbti statistics are fake, there are no concrete statistics of types
im saying that infjs are not the rarest type
You're an INFJ when the person you talk to the most is yourself. Lol
Edit: Thank you for all of the likes! 🤗❤
I feel very exposed 😂
lmao I thought I did that just because i'm lonely
@@cloudy4536
Hahaha. I ask that myself everyday.
I feel attacked
No
wow you just described me perfects with this whole video, its crazy how accurate you got my personality
INFJ be like: "I mean I did take a hundred tests and they were all INFJ, but I don't want people to think I'm just saying it because it's the rarest type, so I'll just keep my mouth shut"
Me: well it’s just his/her thoughts
*my POV; how did she know.*
Y-you're a wizard
EXACTLY
You read my fucking mind
HOW DID YOU KNOW KJBFUYJBJHYGUY
This: "do you hate small talk? " absolutely. It's difficult to host a conversation about nothing.. But tell me you are having a hard time or your heart is heavy - I'll listen attentively and empathize.
This right here. Smalltalk is just such a waste of time. But when we found that one topic that's interesting it's like "we ride at dawn bitches"
Same, like i hated people who dont back me up like im literally trying to have a decent conversation to them
But of course saying thosr out loud will prevent me from making friends
Small talk can lead to deeper talk once you get to know them better. That’s what I’m starting to learn at my job. Conversations start off small at 1st but they can evolve over time, especially if you ask lots of questions.
@@Joshman601 yes I've experienced it sometime I really forget from where the long talk started from.. it can start from a small talk then you dig deeper and the conversation just keep going on and on
Definitely easier to hold a conversation when there’s substance and legitimate interest
INJF: The people around me are all idiots- but idiots that are just trying their best 🥺
spelling this INJF has to be either great satire or irony. Not that typos are a sign of intelligence anyway.
This
Lol
Well this is true, I find myself confused at why people don’t get this.
I used to hate all chinese people for my entire life, but then I've spent an entire week thinking about China and Chinese people, so now I feel sorry for them and bad about my self. Though, I am an introvert and avoid conflicts, so nobody ever knew that I had any hatred of Chinese. I also was bored af and felt academically invincible to the point that I speak Chinese now. It's like 1 month 180 degree transition.
@@alansteyrbach6926 bro what
I am an INTJ, and I am apparently really rare for some reason, being part of the 2.6% of the population. I think it's really interesting how they've actually named different personality trates and in which way. Really interesting stuff, keep it up!
Hi, another INTJ ..
well, not that rare… I‘m a person with Asperger, and that’s 2% too, and that‘s not that rare. If you pay attention, you‘ll notice which people have things like this, and You‘ll see that it‘s more or less common. Some just „hide“ (bc it‘s nothing negativ of course) it better than others.
Müsst ihr wissen.
@@Mandarinoooooo
No, Introverted Intuition and Extraverted Thinking simply don't mix.
Which makes INTJ one of the rarest type
@@ditto6384 OBJECTION! Psych2go said themselves in the vid that about 2% of people have this personality type.
at least I think that was the case too tired to check rn 🗿
@@Mandarinoooooo dude, there are literally 8 billions of people in this world.
2% is like, Idk 160,000,000?
That might looks a lot to you but it's very little considering the fact of how big the world actually is.
INFJ be like: If I can't be perfect then fuck it all
😂
Well-said!
That’s it. This is THE COMMENT.
Yep
Lol yes. It feels like even small thing gets ruined, you are like everything's fucked up. My whole life is fucked up
My biggest problem with being an INFJ is how I know so much about everyone around me, but I never feel like anyone even bothers to get to know me beyond my name
@Tumour Consumer who asked you to reply to this comment?
Ahhh yesss.
fricking true
@@HarryPotter-pi3km didn't expect to be roasted by Harry Potter today XD
I was simply stating that this is the way I feel. This is what my biggest personal struggle looks like, and obviously it isn't limited to one single personality type - to assume it was would be stupid.
And I didn't mean "knowing the person" as such, but more of "knowing a lot of secrets of that person, things not a lot of other people know". I just often feel like I have nobody to open up to about my problems while I'm the person everyone else opens up to. And, well, I enjoy being able to help others simply by listening to them, but I often let others' problems close to myself which affects me more than I'd like to admit. Sorry if that makes me a not-INFJ in your eyes XD
I'm obviously aware of all the things you said although I don't really see how half of those things have anything to do with what I was stating before.
Also, I see how my original comment wasn't formulated clearly :)
@@HarryPotter-pi3km
A) I'm pretty much aware that you weren't actually roasting me, it was meant as a joke XD
B) that's exactly what I meant, I wasn't talking about being an INFJ, but about my biggest struggle as such. Frankly, I don't even know why I wrote that comment in the first place XD
About the "sharing secrets", I wasn't talking about someone's deepest secrets, but about things they might not feel comfortable sharing with lots of people, things they keep hidden. And yeah, I am aware I'm not the only one they might be telling these secrets, but I also know they often tell me not to tell anyone else - that's pretty much my definition of a secret.
And I might be an INFJ, I might as well not be one. I didn't write these comments to prove you that I'm an INFJ because honestly, there are more important things. For me, at least.
Everyone’s like “omg I wish I was an INFJ” but they don’t consider:
The fact that we are the worst when it comes to making decisions. Maybe it’s just me, but I am so freaking indecisive about everything
No same thing here
bro i literally flip coins to make decisions
PLS- WHY IS THIS TRUE FOR MEE 💀😭😭
YES EXACTLY PREACH
EXACTLY. I just see so many options that I can't decide which one is the best for me
I love how you talk to the viewers like people and not subjects. 💙😍🤩
Video: "Less than 2% of the population is INFJ"
Everyone in the comments: "OMG, this is so me!"
World population is around 7 billion people. 2% of that is still quite a lot and often people with same views gravitate toward same content.
yes there are a lot of people
@@harinyeagerr6855 people are just self diagnosing themselves over this video tho lmao- if they really think they have it, they could maybe talk to somebody more professional (not saying that the person who made this video isnt professional, but like somebody to talk to 1 on 1 kind of thing if u get what i mean), not just rely on a youtube video. there is two types of people in this comment section. people who say that they think they have it/have it just to be quirky and think theyre "special', or people who seriously think they have it/have it.
I was thinking the same thing 🙂
That’s cz people who aren’t INFJ wouldn’t be saying it lol, also 140 mil is a big number
i feel like it makes sense as to why so many INFJs are here. we have this innate craving to learn about others, ourselves included, so we click on videos like these to help us understand better☺️
Okay I thought I only do this but it makes me feel special
I love the mind!
Yess
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
If INFJs are here, then I want to share my feelings with y'all which I will maybe never share with my family nor friends. As being the rarest personality type, I feel unique, but also different, in the sense I can't find a person with whom I can share my feelings with as there is only 2 percent of the world's population of my personality. I really wanna find someone like a best friend, to share my feelings with, to get all the negative thoughts off my shoulder, and to also know how it feels to have someone like that person I wanna find. I always try to fit in as I don't like being alone sometimes, I want someone to share my feelings with, but I haven't found someone like that, and sometimes I avoid hanging out with my friends when I get too frustrated, because I don't think I really consider them as my friends. Why am I so different from everyone else I see? I really need someone to get assisted by and to assist. I shared my thoughts here because I wanted you to know that you are not the only one feeling this way. (sorry for bad English)
"Perfectionists but Procrastinate."
*angered exposed noises*
*Joins in too*
do you have a link to take this test
Mhmmmmmm
Yep yep
this sentence explaines me, even though the test said im an ENFP-
This video changed my life, all my life I struggled, felt deep sadness and not belonging anywhere and being misunderstood, I also live in a small village with 1000 people so you can imagine the struggles Ive been through, finally I can live a bit more peacefull life knowing there are others like me and now having some insights and knowing myself better I can finally focus on things that matter to me and not destroy my mental heatlh like i did wandering in my mind what is wrong with me for years and years, I want to thank you for this video and i mean this absolutley sincerely 😘
No matter your personality type, rare or not, there is only one you 🤗
Nicole on EQ amen!
Thank you :D this made my day✨
This made me feel better since I’m an ISFP and I’m one of the most popular type
Yup definitely☺️☺️☺️
Are you sure about that?
I mean, there are several people like me. Hispanics, brown eyes, trilangual, dark brown hair, tiny feets, underweight, skeleton look alike, average height (etcetera).
But there is only one with my personality (in all human history: past, present & future) and that's me.
The way every legitimate INFJ wishes they weren't an INFJ because we literally have the most difficult time finding similar people to connect with mentally and emotionally.
omfg I feel that on every level
Yep...
I totally feel that everyday..
totally agree with you, when you try to reach out to other people yet you feel like it drains your energy too much and you feel like they don’t get you then the tendency is you isolate yourself again.
@lia luna your right. i think that sometimes its just stressing..
*video*: “INFJ is one of the rarest personality traits”
**me just realising that half of the comment section are INFJ**
Makes sense tho. The world's population is 7 billion, 2% is a big number 😍
7/8
Welcome to 50% I.N.F.J...... of this chat
That’s because this video targets INFJs?
Lmao of course they’ll be here because this video is literally about *”INFJ”s.*
Lmao you might as well wanna use your brain sometimes.
There’s literally 7 billion people on earth, so there’ll be at least more than 156 million people who are INFJ type. 💀🙄
I’m an INFJ. I procrastinate a lot. I try to be perfect in everything. I have selective friends, and I get bored very easily in small talk and I rather have long conversations. I never knew I was till I saw this video.
everyone: "omggg being an INFJ must be SO cool ur so rare lololol!!!'
literally every INFJ: **irritated silence**
Yes being a person like that is hard just care for others and be thankful
- coming from a INFJ girl
Sometimes we won't even tell others it's not cool because they think INFJ people are bragging.
YES!!
Trueeee😶
I feel like we often are the ones trying to help people but no one wants to return the favor so we end up burnt out often
Being worst part of an INDJ
1. You can’t seem to say NO
2. You cannot forget but move on easily makes you confused if you are emotionless
3. You are always unsatisfied with yourself no matter how hard you try
4. You start blaming yourself when you can’t fix someone
5 . You tend to think way too much for simplest of things
6 . Being considerate drains your energy
7. You find yourself being used
8. You end up being the understanding one always but never understood
This list is literally me, and I’m very self aware about it, but I just can’t find the energy to do anything about it.
Yeah this is all me. Do y'all ever get really nice stuff or do really nice things for your friends (cuz they're special to you) but then it's like they don't really reciprocate that feeling. And you can tell by the way they do things for you or stuff they get you. It's like, I feel like I'm the only one who's really trying to understand and appreciate ppl.
F*
And also, true
Everything except the 3rd is me lol
ok but has anyone talked about the ART STYLE in this video
its so adorable 🥺
Ikr
Ik
true!
Ikr
IKR I kinda Wonna try it but it’s not myn it’s adorable tho lol
NOW I KNOW WHY I'M LIKE THIS..😐😐.
THIS VERY HELPFUL TY FOR UPLOADING.. 😘
Omg me too!!!
1. You're on a diff wavelength- dominant intuition, feel like outsider, make u feel isolated or misunderstood
2. You're a perfectionist and procrastinate
3. You're perceptive and good at reading people
4. You tend to keep small circle of friends
5. You're deeply empathetic
6. You cannot stand small talk
7. You are future focused
8. You gravitate towards people who need help
THANK YOU FOR THIS SWEETHEART!!!
I guess the only thing that doesn't really relate to me is the very last one its a very on off situation for me. What about you?
@@Cyber_Dystopian_Duck for me it was true and happened always.. however now I have become more discerning and concious and so doesn't happen everytime
@@rd25391 yes.
I'm 3,5,6,7 and 8.
"you're a perfectionist and procrastinate"
I feel *murdered*
I laughed for 10 minute cause that is me described perfectly
Exactly 🤠
Accurate honestly
Rough tendency, not a strict behaviour of yours. Are you a perfectionist with literally everything? I doubt it since you never capitalized the “Y” in “you’re”. Zero period after the statement, no period after your second statement. This is not perfectionism in the slightest.
I m also
Most people who are an INFJ most likely didn’t feel like commenting that they are
Theres a chance no one here is infj almost all of us do shit like this
People just watch this sorts of videos and diagnose them shits as this to feel specials when they are not they are not
@@hokyvessaint there's a official 16 personalities test which almost everyone here took, most of them took it about 3 to 5 times. Not everyone is r/notlikeothergirls, sure there might be mistyped INFJ'S but generalizing is really stupid, no need to be so pissed. Anyways, this test has actually helped me a lot, I took it a year ago without knowing any of the personality types, they give advice, career suggestions, a lot of and a lot of information, this video is just simplified and INFP's also might relate to this
Ur right.im not here to complain about myself
Hahahah your the one 😂but I suppose it could always depend on the mood
Wellll i seem like one but- eh forget about this
INFJ: rarest personality trait
Everyone in the comments:omg that’s so me
INFJ: am I a joke to you?
there are only 21K comments....
@@liandli I was about to say that
😂😂😂😂 true
@@liandli J-HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOPE💜
IKR im a entp and i see so many infjs !
Does anybody else cry when they're angry and yellin, as an INFJ?
This treat always confuses me, like the moment I broke the gate to get angry at someone at the same time it also comes with the flood of tears wtf man
Bro right I hate it when I start yelling or get angry I cry midway
i cry whenever i talk about myself to others but at this point i’m not even sure if it’s my personality or if i’m mentally ill
WHY IS THIS TRUE, like when i get angry at anyone at anytime, outside or inside, i start breaking into tears midway
yes!
I don't understand how people can make friends so easily. It seems impossible to me most of the time...
This is the most relatable comment here
Like the video said, we are VERY selective and we hate small talk
So that combination makes us have very few friends :v
maybe you have a lot of people who consider you a friend, but as you are very celebratory, and you only consider these people as acquaintances
I'm still distant from my group of friends because i'm scared of everything " group of friends " means and that there gonna abandon me just like some of my friends did
IKRRRRRR Like... and they can just hold a convo with the male species randomly...
I don’t even dare staring them in the eye 👁 (well I don’t like eye contacts usually but still)
hearing these common signs actually made me feel heard and comforted
im not even sure if im an infj but all these signs, i can heavily agree.
"Number two, You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate"
me: oh
Me too.
Ikr! It's spot on. 🤭
Just gotta write this but, yeah. Hahah
Somehow i procastinated till the last 5 or 6 hours or so. I somehow got a B, idk bout you but id call that a pretty good grade for an essay
um...
I think the reason why "perfectionists but procrastinates" hits so close to home is because it's extremely rare for us to find something we actually truly care about--so in the few instances we do, we put our hearts and souls into it since it's one of the few opportunities when we're able to express who we are.
When you put your heart into something.
But people dont see the same value its just soul crushing
Yeah.
Glad someone else understands. So hard to find something I genuinely care about so I just coast through the days.
i once joined a soccer team (wiich trained for 4 years) and they just threw me to the others like im a professional, the coach always yelled at me until... on the third day, he told me not to go, i didnt, this is where my dream, to be as good as my friend has ended
Either overachieve or don’t do it at all
INFJ can never be in a 3 ppl friend group bc whenever you talk to one of the friends you worry that the 3rd person gets jealous so you end up always letting the other 2 become best friends but you’re a jealous person yourself
I feel attacked!!! hahah
As an INFJ that's in a trio, this is very true, so I tend to keep my interactions with them limited to avoid conflict. :')
T T
Well i was lmao i let them play games with each other and left them cuz they understand each other support each other so i feel left out, thats why i left i don’t want to get involved with them anymore lmao
I am in this situation 😒
I first thought I was an INFJ, bit then I did a few tests and it turned out Im a INFP, pretty close. The only thing that didnt fit for the INFJ was the organization :) thx for the tests, and i recommend for evryone taking a mbti test to make sure which type you are
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the saddest people smile the brightest,
and the most damaged people are the wisest.
All because they don't wish to see others suffer like they do"
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I'd like to give you a hug just incase
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@@spoodermemes8045 He wouldn't... We almost hate and love death at the same time... But even in my worst times "a week of constant sucidal depression" I managed to pull myself up. I don't think of the death as same after that... And would never give up because I'd love to live in pain to know more about what ive got here then to, go beyond sooner and might never have the chance to experience this world again...
we just want someone who we can actually trust our hearts to
the one we're sure they won't break it
letting the ice melt and tear the wall down...
it's scary, because....u never know when that trust is not actually genuine
u never really know love properly because u don't accept the love they give u
u say "i do" or "i love u too" but in ur mind u r actually conflicted and does not trust them.
For those who keep saying: “how is it rare? Look at the comments.”
There are billions of people on Earth.
Yepp, two percent is still dozens or maybe even hundreds of millions of people
+ the people who clicked on this video probably did it because they thought they were infj but weren't sure and wanted to confirm
156,000,000 to be precise (one-hundred and fifty-six million)
Maybe most of people who clicked this video are INFJ, cos i am
The way this channel makes its content is very smart, almost every viewer thinks that it is he or she the video is about, it's a very clever way to satisfy the viewers and get more subscribers
1. You're on a different wavelength
2. You're a perfectionist & procrastinate
3. You're perceptive & good at reading ppl
4. Tend to keep a small circle of friends
5. Deeply empathetic
6. Cannot stand small talk
7. Future focused
8. Gravitate towards ppl who need help
THIS MAKES SO MUCH SENSE WITH THE INFJ FRIENDS I HAVE!
The comment i was looking for
Future focused, That's me
Thanks so much for this!!!
Yep im the 2%
The last one hit especially hard. I'm like a beacon for that. Over the last few weeks I've been going out more regularly and more often than not I seem to run into some broken soul, yearning to be understood and just listened to.
“INFJ is the rarest personality type”
Literally everyone in the comment section: “I’m INFJ”
I noticed that as well
i was thinking the same thing lol
Does that mean everyone is starving for attention, or does it mean the TH-cam algorithm knows us more than we think?
@@paytoncollins4629 I've seen this video 3 other times in my recommendation this is the fourth so i decided to watch it
@@paytoncollins4629 I think people tend to associate and relate themselves with media. Wether it’s a book, a show, a movie, or even a TH-cam video.
INFJ: the rarest personality type
People in the comment section:
" *Hey, that's me.* "
it’s because we’re all over the internet lol imagine an extrovert looking at this shit. hehe.
I know right, it's almost as though people will watch and comment on a video that is about them and their type of people?
even you jjajajj must be an INFJtype , jajajaj what are you doing here extrovert then? jejeje and yeah introverts are mostly on the internet
idk if people are lying or nit. so i never trust anything. but its whatever
@@nerdemojireal what you got against extroverts huh
the way i’ll describe INFJs are that they look absolutely cold, emotionless and chill outside, but in our heads we’re reading everyone and thinking of every possibility of anything. if that made sense
Yeah, I've been called cold before after breaking up with a partner! Lots to relate to in this video.
Never related to something
Soo much
People always say I look mean or cold but honestly, im just tryna get through the day without having a panic attack haha
Untrue
I will say only one thing.I know a lot of people,but i also know that my friends are 5 maximum.The only humans on earth except my family that i talk a lot , be myself and not be stressed by just talking to them.I am an INFJ for sure.The other 5 friends i have are ALL INFJ s, i suppose that is the reason we fit together so many years.This channel has helped me a lot to understand so many things about life, and i am grateful, because i am just 15 years old.Lastly, very good job.Your videos have a point and you are right, you have proof.Not like some other channels that just say random stuff,and i like that. Congratulations about the channel, keep up the good work!!( I am sorry if i wrote something wrong, my mother language is greek)
8 Signs You’re An INFJ
1. You're on a different wavelength
2. You're a perfectionist and you procrastinate
3. You are perceptive and good at reading people
4. You tend to keep a small circle of friends
5. You are deeply empathetic
6. You cannot stand small talk
7. You are future focused
8. You gravitate toward people who need help
Thank you 🌼🌼🌼
I guess I’m an INFJ :l
i can kinda relate to some of those
Ok I'm an INFJ :)
Me
“This personality type is rare!”
Everyone; “THATS ME!”
Exactly 😂 it’s actually annoying me now
But They are getting everything correct-
@@abiiixoxo6555 I definitely understand that and I respect a degree of skepticism. If I may, I would like to intercede. The video states that the infj type is 2% of the global population. As someone who has designed and conducted psychological studies, albeit in an undergraduate context, I can tell you that psych stats, or even all stats in general, are very ambiguous at times and prone to misrepresentation. That 2% can only be inferred from people who have taken the test. It isn't a hard number but rather a trend. Meaning that of those who haven't taken the test, it could be said with some degree of certainty that only 2% will be infj, however there exists a chance, however small, that maybe all the infjs have been hiding in that group and suddenly the average increases. (BTW in psych stats you can have a maximum of 95% certainty that the stats a representative of reality. You can never state a psychological finding as proving but only supporting a theory)
Secondly, at the time of writing this comment, only 4.3k people have commented. Not every single one is stating that they are infj so less than 4.3k people are claiming this. And even if they were, it would make sense that those who relate to the characteristics presented in the video would be the ones to comment. I personally wouldn't make a comment to say "oh... that isn't me". Some might but I would theorize that it is unlikely. Yeah, its possible that some people are lying so that they feel apart of something but what percentage do you think that would be? 2%? 5%? 50%? Consider that and put it into practical details. If you think that half or more people are lying, then that goes a bit beyond skepticism and into cynicism, which is fine if you find supporting evidence. Otherwise, you're categorizing people based on a faulty intuition. I personally abide by the trust but verify method, but like many of us, I dont have the free time to engage with everyone on this thread. Anyway, thanks for your time and im open to hearing any kind of response!
The reason why it seems that way is bc INFJs are the main ones that watch these videos
@@LifeisaBeautifulting Fair-
Them: “You could be INFJ. A rare personality type”
Me: “that does sound like me, but I can’t tell other people because they think I’m pulling “I’m NoT LikE oTheR GiRls” card”.
yup true my sister think im being like that even though I don't really care and even thought pf that so I kinda always fight woth her but she still don't get she thinks that I'm pretending to be cool even though I'm not I don't even think about this things but she thinks differently
Same! Honestly...
Same here...
Same, It's just 😀
Same
Being an INFJ is like a double-edged sword; on one hand, you know barely anyone could understand you but you bottle it up because you know it's annoying. Therefore we like to keep most of ourselves to ourselves for the sake of others, which leads to cycles burnout.
The other hand though, I'd rather struggle with inner turmoil, ultimately finding peace in solitude than be anybody different. Not many people like to look beyond the surface. I'm in college to become a psychologist because I simply enjoy working with people on anything they struggle with. The goal is to know how to validate yourself, accept what is, forgive the things you cannot forget, and flourish from all of it.
(Edit: jfc that was a lot sorry i didn't mean to preach to the choir)
"You tend to keep a small circle of friends."
You guys have friends? 👁👄👁
Oof moment
No, for many years. Is just a matter of preffererence, I guess.
no
I have 3 😀👍
I don't have friends but i have CATSSZ
“You are heavily appreciated by your friends and family.” Friends, yes. Family, not so much.
For me, I feel both of them don't appreciate me.
Relatable
True for me as well
Relatable too
I have no friends and a negative family
"The world's rarest personality type"
Most of the people in the comment section: "Yes"
Ha thats funny and true what you said.. In 5 years its gona be populated with infj over 102 percent of population
Ikr 🥲🥲
@@Psych2go wtf how did you get them emojis
@@jasmineguy2236 lmao what why is this making me laugh so hard-
I always fit every personality type you make a video of, idk why
The things that depends are always the determining thing to know my personality type ;-;
Infj catch phrases:
"Sorry"
"Do you want help?"
"Is everything okay?"
"Sorry"
saying sorry when it isn't even your fault
So basically Canadian 😅
I guess I’m an INFJ 👁👄👁
soooo been a canadian is infj huh?
Literally I use all these
“This personality type is rare”
Everyone: me!
Me: ya it’s not me
I said the same thing
Same, my personality type is apparently INFP-T
Everyone just china be different
what you neglect with this statement is that probably a lot of people who watch this video are INFJ who wanted to know more about their Myers Briggs personality ;) So to me it would be no surprise if the majority of watchers actually are INFJ. You also gotta consider that rare with around 2% of the population which is close to 8.000.000.000 it still means that there are still around 160 million people on the globe with that personality which is still a lot. So rare has to be put into perspective. It's only rare compared to other personality types, not rare in absolute numbers.
Maybe the majority of people who are interested in personality types are INFJ'S and the neighboring personalities, and that's why it can seem like people out there are mistyping themselves. Also, 2% is around 140 million people. There are still a lot of us.
Me as an INFJ: craving for deep connections and yet so private T.T
Lol relatable
Yup that's why I just shift
Reading this comment, yup sounds exactly like me. Does this mean I get minority status now?
@Arianna shifting is the act of moving your conscious to another reality that you want, you could go on adventures, see dead love one's in another reality, have that deep personal relationship that you always wanted and many more!
Same
Come to think of it.. it's just about a kind-hearted/empathetic introvert.That's what this personality type narrows down too...
the sad part about me being an INFJ is that you can comfort friends easily cause you know what they feel but when you are the one who needs comfort, no one understands you nor try to understand you.
This, I feel so fucking lonely at times because of this.
Me.
I highly relate to this, you should still try to help people if you want to, but don't be afraid to ask for help too...
true... i always feel like no one cares about me as deeply as i care about them
This is so true with me as well! But thankfully I found someone that I dare say understands me much better than any of my friends and when she doesn't she makes a very notable effort to try to understand me!! That alone makes me super happy and thankful, it's amazing!!
Here's wishing for you to find someone like that as well!
"INFJ is the RAREST personality type" , every single person in the comments and watching this including me does every single thing:
If you think about it tho for the most part people who are INFJ and relate to this are more likely to comment
This is called the Barnum effect, also known as the Forer effect! You should do some research on it, it's really interesting!
@@jaminoess yeah this style of video plays into this effect very hard. People pick out small little vague details from these simplistic descriptions, apply them to their own life, and say they have the personality type. Certainly an interesting phenomenon I agree
@@nebula8893
True I used to do that but rn I'm not sure if I'm an INFJ tho I only clicked on this vid cuz I've never heard of it so I wanted to learn ab it, I'm social but these days I feel like trying to be around less ppl and I was able to read ppl personalities easily but I started thinking a lot ab the future and what i am or what i want more so that kinda distracts me and I always would like to help ppl out even if they were strangers on the internet I'd give them advices and I'd like to talk more about the person or know more abt em since it's pretty interesting to know more stuffs ab ppl and I like drama ig but small talks don't annoy me exactly they just make me a bit bored. Welp I'm not sure what am I exactly but at least I know that this is just me trying to break my limits of thinking
@@akiraaa100 I mean fair enough, to be honest I don’t think your specific personality type matters in the slightest. You are you, No one else needs to fit you into some personality. Everyone is a mix of a lot of things, and is their own person. The reason this video and others like it on this channel appeal to people so much is the same reason astrology appeals to people
everybody: *talking about the personality types*
me: *going crazy over the CUTEEEE animations!!!!*
aahhhh!!!
Same here.
Same
SAME LMAO
Yep
Omg yass girl
as an INFJ, im glad that i found my people heree (+ i feel called out)
Watching this made me remember a saying I heard: “Being gifted isn’t about being smart, it’s about viewing the world in a different way”
As a gifted student, I can definitely say this is true
damn, thought my brain was wired wrong
Oh my gosh I am so glad there is at least 1 other person out there that understands this!! I want to know about this stuff but seeing the comments is torturing me and how people always think they have it 😭 wow am I a gifted person 0-0 lol
this video is actually shockingly similar to other videos talking about signs of high intelligence... maybe the theory isn't quite right and it's just being smart ?
ISFP moment
INFJ: "I am INFJ!"
Everyone: "I am INFJ!"
INFJ are 2% of the world population.
Which means there are 14 millions INFJ 😄.
I am radio rebel
I am microwave
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life. For example, most people like things to be perfect, but also procrastinate a lot. It is literally a really common feeling people will go through at some point. Also, a lot of the time, people will make things true for themselves, and want to believe what they believe and make that true for themselves. People will subconsciously influence themselves into what they want to believe they are.
@@rebeccaeverett8957 exactly. Everybody thinks about their future and procrastinates lol. Just cause you have heard about it doesn’t mean you are it
We INFJ’s are basically living golden rules: treat others the way you would want to be treated.
Like a pet as same as an dog
Are we in hive mind ? because I have the same thought's and standards
We shall unite one day ;)
I do use that rule, but then again I have a personality with severe anger issues, where I wish harm on people who are toxic and cruel towards me....like those people on games that message you and send you Kissy face emotes when you are bad and laugh at you when you bring up your leg disease. (I have muscular dystrophy)
Yeah, this bites me in the ass a lot, because when people do something poorly to me and I'm quick/blunt to point out their hypocriticism when they ask for the exact same favor they turned down... only for me to end up helping them anyway, because I can't avoid wanting to help them -_-
I agree
How relatable the fact that I want to do things, but my intuition just tells me "nah I'd take a break.".
Are we *n o t* gonna talk about how cute the art style is? Like- *I just wanna keep you in my pocket*
Yessss 😭 HAHAHA
RIGHT
I'm a huge fan of it (◡‿◡✿)
And her voice is so calming!
her channel name is naphia :)
INFJ: The World Rarest Personality Type
Also INFJ: Literally everyone I know
you should be hitting the rarest part of the earth
INFJs find other INFJs because we hold the same values, ambitions, and personality for that matter. It's just what we do.
@@weberumah4549 or you’re not actually an infj... yeah probably not
2% is low but not impossible to come across because 2% of the world’s population is still a lot
I can guarantee most of you claiming you are a INFJ, probably aren’t one. Most people say they are,only because the feelings in the video are very common. A lot of the things said in the video are known as “Barnum statements” which are statements that apply to most people at some point in life.
The worst part about being an INFJ is being able to read people but also giving everyone a fair chance and trying to help everyone. Like you know someone is going to hurt you but you still give them a chance because you want to be proven wrong.
But you're usually always proven right.
@@zackfameree4474 Yes and then the cycle continues because you lose faith in humanity but the next person comes along and you’re like “okay they give the same vibe but everyone deserves a fair chance!” Like dammit 😂
...Does it mean I'm one if I could read my friend while playing...Roblox... And feel that people who do bad things on purpose may need attention and care...... Is it weird I could tell my friend was stressed without her actually purposefully showing signs in her text but just slightly less focused and different when it came to speech. Or that bullies really want to be that cool anime protag whos sarcastic psychopathic and brutal but don't realize there being mean.
Preach. I feel that every day.
@@who069 it’s based off of the Meyer Briggs test which is free to take online, you could be but you could also be a different combination of empath and other factors!
Your on a different wavelength : ✅
Your a perfectionist : ✅
Your perceptive : ✅
You keep a small circle of friends : ✅
Your deeply empathetic : ✅
You cannot stand small talk : ????
You are future focused : ✅✅✅✅✅
True INFJs, sometimes hate being an INFJ. It is a curse. We feel left out. And we know too much. We know more than we should, and it gets ugly. Sometimes, I wish I had an ON/OFF switch to turn off the alarm system in my head. I don't want all that information coming at me, all the time. I don't want to notice every little detail and calculate all the time. It is exhausting.
Spoke right out of my soul there 😭😂
Damn.. I've always thought nobody understood me.. I guess I was wrong. You're the one. ;( can't relate more.
Thank you finally someone said it, like I just wish I didn’t notice and analyze every single micro expression and action even though it’s always right. I just don’t want to know, I want to not think and understand so much.
Same i want to cry
I think youtube knows a little too much about me to have brought me here
Everyone please be quiet for a moment and appreciate the cute animation.
I know right! It's adorable! And they're all PLANTS
Yes so true!!
OMG!! JB on your profile!
:D
@@krzln it's my favorite era of him ㅠㅠ his hair was really beautiful
When you didn't know what INFJ was and thought you were just built different.
Midoriya?
Eh, makes sense. Lol!
Thats how i feel. I always thought i was diff and to nice. But now i know
Haha deku is also an infj
Same here i never knew what INFJ was and i thought there was something wrong with me
@@centaurzuko1928 is it canon though? Nah.
I got 8/8 full. I am an INFJ and i was knowing it but wasn't sure enough thanks to you for clearing my path ☺️. A lot of love and support ❤️
Me too!
Same
same here!
Wow. I’m happy for all of you , I did not fit the criteria however
Same!
"Perfectionist but procrastinates"
I have an exam tomorrow, and i'm watching this instead of studying..
Damn, that's accurate.
Damn accurate 😂
Btw i like your hand.. feels like i wanna hold it 😏
@@ahmadhaziq9143 Come and get it baby 😏
@@aliayohanis4686 uuuuu daammnn
@@ahmadhaziq9143 👆 my boyfriend everyone 😂
How is INFJ the rarest personality type and yet almost half of the people under every video like this are INFJs 😭😭✋✋✋
from 10 seconds of google search. i found world population is about 7.8 billion. so 2 percent of 7 billion = 140.000.000. this youtube only has 1.9 million views. cmiiw.
I mean, if it's a video about INFJs... people who know they're INFJs through the test will be the majority of people clicking.
@@HarryPotter-pi3km That was insanely rude. Everybody's special in their own way.
2% prozent is still 15.6million people
Infj's unite ✊
reminder that 2% of the world population is still 156 million. So I'm not surprised that there are many of us
14 million* 😴
@@liltter5961 the world has 700 million people
@@corny6909 sis the world has nearly 8 billion people 👁👄👁
@@corny6909 The current world population is 7.8 billion as of December 2020 according to the most recent United Nations estimates elaborated by Worldometer. The term "World Population" refers to the human population (the total number of humans currently living) of the world. 👁👄👁
@@liltter5961 140 : )
Did the test, got INFJ, never actually understood that until now. The thing is, I used to be like this a couple years ago, then depression came, a couple toxic relationships latter... I am starting to slowly find myself again, and this video just reminded/showed me a little of who I am and that I am not who I was trying (Toxically and unsuccessfully) to be, thank you❤
No.5 "you’re deeply empathetic"
Me: remove the em
Idk why but you made me laugh
I would be offended if this wasn't funny lmao
*AGREED*
Lmao, I feel naive
FREAKING SAME