You Should Fear An INFP if...
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ต.ค. 2024
- You Should Fear An INFP if...
The Christian Bible states that as humans, we should be as quiet as a dove and as wise as a serpent. And honestly, this statement describes the attributes of INFPs. Because they tend to be very gentle and calm when you are at peace with them, but once you start getting awkward and try to manipulate their relaxed state, they will show you the part of them that's a serpent. And this serpent can be very poisonous.
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It reminds me when I caused my teacher to be fired, I printed chats of him with students and spread them everywhere before someone arrived. No one suspected since I was the quiet one. I'm proud of it, he was a creep
Coudl you tell me hwo you did it and got the chats of the tecahe and students and enters the shcool unnoticed-asking for a friend ~Infp
I too was responsible for the loss of a teacher’s job. By the time I graduated high school, five teachers learned the hard way how very protective an INFP can become. I also agree with you, the educators I personally made sure to eliminate from being around children I do not regret my actions. To this day.
@@sleepkae My quick tips would be, journal every time you felt your teacher was crossing a line, date, time, everything you can recall. Bring it to either your VP or your guidance counselor. I know it feels weird but trust neither of those people want a teacher like that in their school. It causes them more problems than you may realize. They will listen and the second you have something that can be cooperated, leave the class, with the classmates who saw it immediately. I don’t care if you are in the middle of it, all leave. Then immediately go to who ever you trust most. Ignore their threats, at that moment they will be nothing compared to the fact that a chunk of your class walked out, despite knowing they are all breaking the rules. At that point with the right person to take you seriously will make all of those rules you broke disappear. The only thing they care about at that moment is wtf is wrong with you teacher. They will listen, it’s quite literally their jobs and if what they hear is bad enough they are obligated by law to report. At that point your job should be done and they take over. Because if they don’t report and take what you and others are telling them seriously, they are jeopardizing their own jobs and freedom. Nobody is going to take that kind of hit for a teacher who’s crossing the line. If for whatever reason they resist, there’s a chain of command-
Use It. in that handbook they gave you on day one explicitly states what any student’s rights are, there you’ll find your way to gain attention. 💯☮️
@@jbrubin8274 thank you very much! This is helpful
@@sleepkae Oh gosh thank you. I hope in some small way my tips are helpful. Any walls, legit @ me here and I’ll do my best to find a few other methods to help you out. 💯☮️🫶
Part of being a healer is understanding when It's time to put a wild animal out of its misery. (in its place)
Truest words spoken
Indigenous and Native American peoples always believed in Prayer for the animal during hunting or near death so the spirit of the animal will move on. Understanding truly is healing and is super important.
Damn this is so good lol
Personally I think the biggest warning that the serpent is about to bite is one very simple tell.
Did your INFP suddenly become organized? That’s your sign we’ve gone into planning/prepping mode. (Gotta watch the quiet ones.)
Normal baseline, we’re bad at that. Very few things things will change that status quo. Whatever it is, our reaction will seemingly come out of nowhere.
We really hate leaving our comfy spots but will. Immediately. Especially if you’ve hurt someone we love. At that point- Things aren’t going to end well. 💯
Yeah, an INFP's likely response to a loved one being hurt can usually be summed up in 2 words, "red wedding".
Ooooof
"Beware the fury of a patient man." - John Dryden
Excellent quote, never came seen that one before. Thanks, I love a great quote.
Also I couldn’t agree more.
I’m always trying to tell my friends, “Patience isn’t just a virtue, it can be quite delicious as well.”
When u have been patient for long n had more than enough it's a sign to protect ourselves with the same intensity n energy we use to protect others. N I learned this from bad experiences in the past
Very true
I feel this.
It is a dark day when I feel the need to let my inner serpent out of it's cage.
I nearly fell over. This video exactly states what I went through as an INFP.
LET'S TO BE CLEAR
The bible says to be as WISE as a Serpent, NOT as HARMFUL as one
amen.
YESSS
Yes not harmful, right? It may not harmful hurting someone but what if it makes you can't move part of your body. Not harmful right?
You can't have the benefits of something without being affected by it's side effects. INFP's are usually being harmful to protect themselves when they sense danger, just as snakes do. They can't repress that instinct, it's a natural thing. They need it to not only survive, but thrive. INFP's are really bad at confronting people or starting fights with them even if they're in the wrong, so this side helps protect them. They can't just stop doing that, or else they'll just become mentally unstable and unhealthy because they'd let anyone walk over all over them and not say a word.
Problem with INFPs we go through such a bad phycological heart break when we meet jackasses we go from merciful to Daneryes Targaryen….we have our dragons burn people we believe evil alive. Once we meet a narcissist we flip the F out. Especially if your an
INFP-A (assertive)
In regards to that venomous snake bite. For the first time in many many years I had to manifest this. Someone I once regarded as my best friend and made excuses for many times has become exposed to be a liar, was feeding me false information and has been playing the victim to me while in fact being abusive to girls he had dated. I finally uncovered this and he is ruined. He of course went to great lengths to keep this from me because it is no question as to my stance on abuse. I'm glad his most recent ex was strong, laid charges against him and was willing to talk to me about things when I first became suspicious. I am prepared, he is aware of my stance, she is now surrounded with support and he is exposed and awaiting trial. I hope he learns from this because he will never get away with it ever again.
Its going like I'm 90% percent sure that I'm an INFP (I really didn't wanna be one 😭) then Offcourse it's not my choice but personality and I'm getting to know myself these days. And videos like these r actually so useful and informative for me (infp) as I ownself don't know many things about myself? According to theories its often said that we INFPs r so sensitive....I can agree I'm one! But I hate the streotypic image we've gotten like we ain't crying babies duh! The things stated above in the video r very relating tbh! I hate ppl who r manipulating to the core! And those who just see things too straight !
I'm also an INFP (and a man). I'm also sensitive, but i've learnt to hide my emotions in situations that are hurtful and upsetting. I definitely feel pain when words are said to hurt me, but after 25 years of living i've learnt to control my reaction. My emotions are still deeply hurt (and i'll be replaying the scene in my head 10-20 times), but stoic philosophy has helped me an enormeous amount, when it comes to dealing with hurtful comments and bullies. As far as I can discern, this is strength. It isn't about not feeling emotions, but being able to control them well enough so that you can perform as well as possible in the given situation. There's this guy in my job that is both taller and much more extraverted than myself. We work in a medical environment with about 4 guys for 7 woman. He's a bit of a bully and i've seen him go after most of the guys at my job, usually in a somewhat inconspicious way. Like he would be telling a story about his weekend and somehow add into that how dude X from work resembled the stupid guy from the story. It's really under the rug and cowardly, and it's only when he's talking to the woman (trying to impress them, I guess). To counter this dumbass, we guys have found that not reacting to his hidden attacks was by FAR the best method. Like, he would would make one of his little attacks, and nobody would react or even look at him. Like he wasn't even listened to in the first place. Anyways, in short: We INFPs are sensitive. It's not about rejecting our emotions (that's impossible, it's part of who we are), but learning to control which of the emotions inside us we allow to reach the surface is a necessary skill for us, so that we aren't squashed by bullies. I would recommend stoic philosophy to any and all INFPs.
@@WAZZA1235 That's amazing to listen to my elder INFPs ....and Ur way is actually smth I follow in everyday life bcs I don't have to go outside of my house but my house is almost full of naracissts (literally I'm still in my teenage and when I entered into my puberty phase My Life taught me that What is life!) Luckily god was by my side that after few horrible accidents I still was able to make it till here....
And I think comment section is my safe place that I'm writing these words that I've never dared to speak to someone. As now I know myself and that there's so many like me out there is the most satisfying thing for me. I'm really glad that u shared ur experience and opinions with me. How I wish I had ppl like my personality around me. But I'm always pleased to hear to my fellow INFPs. Thank u :) (I'm a girl 🙋🏻♀️)
Haha I loved your post… we ain’t cryin babies duh lol 😂. That’s all I’ve got but I think I might be an INFP as well. So far I’ve laughed at some of these videos which is a good sign that it’s resonating with me.
@@meganfox5219 Haha! IKR 😂
Continue ur research One day U will be confirmed that U r probably like me 🙂
Why don't you wanna be an infp. Infps are so kind and kind hearted and friendly (if you just give enough time to them to trust you and get heartfelt with you). I really don't understand why people don't like infps and it's one of the most hated character types. I'm an infp i'm so proud of it and i love to be an infp. You should change your mind about it
I’ve been emotionally manipulated due to my trusting nature and desire to connect with others. I’ve been manipulated by people taking advantage of emotional turmoil so that they “come to the rescue”. This is love bombing.
"Harmless as a dove", my dear Mind Again. "Harmless" 😊
The video is very informative.
There could be several reasons why us INFP's can start becoming cold, even if it's an activity we really like.
We could have other issues in our lives going on. Or maybe that activity has been hot for so long, we get a little burnt out and need some time to recuperate. There's nothing worse that starting to dislike something you really like because you ignore the warning signs of it being too much and it gets taken so far that whatever it may be will not be enjoyable any more.
And if it's something in our lives and someone wants to work it out or talk it out, it's extremely hard to get an INFP to fully open up to you about exactly what it is they are feeling or going though. They must really trust you with their feelings to get them to do so. And if you do get them to open up and they find out you betrayed them by invalidation or gossip, or something to that degree, then forget it. The likelihood of opening up again is incredibly slim, you would have an easier time going out into the ocean on a boat and catching an award winning tuna or something.
INFP's have a tendency to be very protective about their feelings and unless lying has been intergrated in their moral (immoral) foundation, they're not going to bs you about their thoughts and feelings.
Also, the INFP probably has a very good idea of what is going on and usually just wants someone to listen to them. Or ask for general advice. Or to get someone elses opinion on whether they are on the right course and if there could be a different perspective they haven't thought of yet.
As for the outbursts, yeah it could happen to a younger INFP more frequently. But it takes A LOT to get a more mature one to act out harshly or violently. That person must of goofed pretty bad somewhere along the way. Not to say that we never act out stupidly or lose our cool. Life is pretty tough and can be overwelming for anyone.
You got it! This is the first ytb video knowing that ‘intentional manipulation’ matters the most. Most of the cases I might leave quietly just being cold, but if it was a planned lie, I will not forget.
Thanks for watching.
This was definitely me when I was younger, especially during my early 20s. I was so outwardly wrathful due to making myself put up with people’s BS all the time that I would show that wrath before cutting people out of my life. Nowadays, I just give the cold shoulder at best, at worst I’m silently like “You just permanently lost your interaction privileges with me :,)” (not at all to say people have privileges to interact with me, this is more in a joking sense but they do still end up losing connections with me which that in itself isn’t a joke)
Its really difficult to relive moments that i acted out. But i understand myself and in those moments... i wish i can comfort myself.
Da INFP confermo tutto, ma ci tengo a precisare che è una modalità che uso solo per DIFESA...In quei momenti la frase che più mi rappresenta è “Chi di spada ferisce, di spada perisce”.
I'd be interested to see a video on the INFP with bipolar and BPD, lol. I value harmony and time alone, i feel sick to my stomach when it comes to any conflicts. But as we all know, when someone manipulates you, it's all claw and fangs. Like a human grenade pin out.
Yes... we published a video on INFP with Bipolar already - th-cam.com/video/uX8dEaRTl94/w-d-xo.html
@@MindAgain amazing! Thank you
@elishaaldcroft1500 I "knew" long long ago, medication only seemed to work for so long and then stop. I was just diagnosed bipolar almostv2 years ago at age 40. It might be late, but it was so validating to have it confirmed.
💜💜💜
This is hilarious! B/c I find it to be true...& sometimes it could just be "a case of the hangry setting in"...
For true, I really good at reading people emotions and thoughts. End most what I hate it's not even when people bad or lie, it is when they try manipulate me or to other people. My hate is blowing up.
A good friend was going thru a nasty break up. I had been friends with his gf as well. During the break up, she hacked his FB and started messaging me pretending to be him to get info out of me and drive a wedge between us. The rage that burst out of me when I realized I'd been manipulated was nearly uncontrollable. It was scary.
INTJ here
I was kind of forced to make amends with an INFP, but it all turned out good
But that's what I thought
Half an year later into our friendship
She just became soo cold n soo distant, she have given me the cold shoulder before, but it was never this long
But this this time shi- being continued for weeks
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N before u'all come to me, I would like to clarify
Emotions n I don't get along, n especially trying to understand other people's emotions
So I was just confusion at 1st, I tried to talk to her but she didn't seem interested
Worst is she only gave the cold shoulder to me, the rest 2 people of the group, she was still normal to them,only to me the cold shoulder
If she gave cold shoulder to everyone that would make more sense to me,but no,she treated the rest just as the good old times n avoided just me
So nothing makes sense to me idk wtf is wrong with her now, I have dealt with it for long enough,I gave her time 3 weeks (thats the longest I can do as an INTJ) N even after this she is still being the same
I just came to a stage where I just dk what to do
I quit, m done, I can no longer deal with this, if she doesn't want to be clear, then m sorry, I can't read u, m not an "F"
There is no more logic that I can see in this friendship anymore
.
But I did like her(thats rare), sometimes did wish, y she gave me a cold shoulder, did she hated me?, got offended by me?, grew tired of me?
I want answers but.....
Why don't you just ask her why if that doesn't work tell her how you feel, INFPs are extremely empathetic if you tell her it's hurting you she'll probably try to make it better in some way
@@wingedgirl7035 I asked multiple times
She just said, m not being weired u r
Which idk what m doing
N she stopped responding to my texts n everything
N if I tried to approach she just walks away
@@forgotmyname4807 Well dang I'm sorry, I was in a similar situation and that was a burning trash fire, maybe try talking to your mutual friends about it
@@forgotmyname4807 If she pretends you don’t exist and doesn’t show warmth, she probably decided she doesn’t like you. Depending on how severe it is, it might be permanent. Or maybe it’s a crush? idk
@@wingedgirl7035 brave of u to think I m someone to have a lot of friends 👁👄👁
2 of them right now r aways on vacation
N one, that girl she is ...... idk..... the type of person to be friends with the entire school (n she is friends with both of us n sometimes used to hang around) but I don't really think she can do much of our conflict
do any infp's (im infp-a) ever feel the need to be the opposite of a sociopath to balance out the good and evil? like i think of harming only those who harm others and can easily justfiy and understand lets say a dad killing ssomeone who raped their kid. i sometmies feel a need to hunt those non empathetic/manipulative people so that no more bad happens to the good people and im tired of seeing bad people get away with it, sometimes it involves me thinking of killing them or torturing them but never an innocent person, only someone whos harmed alot of people
Honestly yeah.
Yes
As a infp, I need a mean side or a “dangerous side” because iv been used, and other things by people iv trusted. Iv had to cut them out my life but it was so hard because I want everyone to be happy and if I was the one to cut them out my life I’d feel like it was my fault. It also give’s them a loop hole because they can make everyone think I was the one being toxic, when in reality I always have a reason for cutting people off, always. Because of this iv stopped trusting people, iv become less empathetic (I’m still very very empathetic but just less then before) and overall become different. Don’t try manipulate us because most of the time we have before and we will cut you out with no explanation if we feel you’ve wronged us to many times
Spot ON 🎉
Do INFPs have a higher chance of haveing borderline personality disorder?
This is so true. I'm going to send this to my bff. She needs to know :D
As an INFP, I don't know how to feel about this video. I tried to manipulate someone to safety.
This happened in an anon online chat. I tried to get someone to snitch to their parents about the bullying they're going through. Because I related alot to said person, but I didn't vent honestly the way they did. Because I shared my own experience with purpose to guide them. I was not interested in venting. I honestly was not interested in myself. I didn't care about my own person in all those months I tried to help another person
So I pulled from my own experiences but I would piece them together or rearrange/alter it in a way that would help them.
The person would withhold talking to me coz they thought their situation is beyond helping. When we did talk, they can't help but vent. I didn't mind that too even if their experience added up to even my my past painful experience
I had two objectives in mind. I wanted keep them as safe as possible. And I wanted to give them company and let them feel appreciated. So the feelings I shared about the issue was genuine. My thoughts about the person's good qualities was genuine.
I would share funny topics accordingly to make the person lighthearted. I'd share elements about my pain only to make them feel that they aren't alone.
It all started falling apart when I misjudged their parents. They didn't listen to their own kid. So the dynamic of our talks turned into: this person telling about their pain, and me assuring how valuable they are. And this cycle went on.
But I just can't take not doing anything anymore. Listening to this person's pain was driving me mad.
I tried getting them to surround themselves with the few, good irl people they know of. Especially when they suddenly disappeared for nearly two months and I really thought they were dead. I spammed tips to get them to talk with others, I begged them to try irl people
This person returning only to tell me that they're more closed off than ever was the breaking point for me. I needed to reveal myself. The person would either hate me and end our talks. Or i can go the extra mile to help personally. Either option seemed better to me then continueing the cycle of passive listening which was so painful. The worry from that was gripping.
The person just hated me at the end because I lied and didn't vent honestly. And I feel detached because of it.
parents "manipulate" their children to study, eat vegetables, bathe, etc... because kids still don't understand what is necessary for their well being. would you say they are bad parents for that?
i want you to know that you don't need to open up to anyone if you don't want to.
they vented to you because you were there to listen, they felt you care. you tried to connect with them sharing parts of yourself for they would relate to you and listen to your advices.
you aren't a liar for being wise and not oversharing things unnecessarily. trust yourself. you know that venting your traumas wouldnt help them.
your heart is really precious and you shouldnt show your private wounds to someone who cannot handle their own.
if your intention was genuine and you just omitted things you thinked woulnt help them, you are not a bad person.
futhermore, the person need help in real life. you gave the help you could.
infps are known for seeking justice, don't forget to be fair to yourself.
My mother prepared me for this kind of situations as an snake. The problem for me was to get free of this habit of venous toxication like a drug for self growth. Sounds very unhealthy, but on the other hand it gave me more insights and will power for my way.
As an infj type it’s not easy to get around with this type cause it feels like an magnetic field that brings both together for self growth purposes. The infp seems like dominate the functions of mental fixed infj at all. The manipulation can described as an play or war who is the more wisdom individual in this constellation or as an disfunctional vicious circle. The first end was for me a consequential distance to find back in my eloquent way of being.
Thank you for the video. ❤
Thanks for watching
I had a 'friend' who was an 'infj'.
she absolutely drained me by telling me everyday she was going to kill herself. I tried my best to help her, and eventually I helped got her out of that phase. I obviously didn't mind helping her, but a few months later after not really talking, she accused me of paying a random 10yo to dox her. She then proceeded to ghost me.
I was gunna give her a piece of my mind, but I ended up not, because it was a lot of energy.
If I had the option to go back though, I would definitely do it, no hesitation.
I don’t know really what to say . Sums it up .
Most definitely. But I prefer that whoever is doing the wrong, get a good speech from me! So much injustice in the world, sometimes I dream of just going to every evil person and giving them a piece of my mind. That verse in the Bible is great advice. Jesus said it to His disciples before sending them out on mission. I'm a Christian. I believe every word in the Bible, so I will tell people that are living a sinful life that they are living in sin if they want to justify their actions with me. As an INFP and a Christian, they will definitely get a mouthful of what God has to say about it and that I agree wholeheartedly.
I hate myself lol
u know most of the viewers are infp's you know actuallu even me im infp my self😂
Yeah its true
Run😈
You should fear an INFP if...
you don't know the difference between poisonous and venomous in your serpent analogy
so, infp are also Super Empaths
I am an INFP but not an empath.
Be as gentle as a dove, and wise as a serpent
I agree with this
A serpent is venomous, not poisonous.
You're if you're lying
The wolf or serpent is the one that is manipulative. If a person resist being abused, that's a good thing! You are victim blaming!
If you watched until the end of the video, which you did not clearly, he literally says they only release the serpent when INFP are being purposely manipulated or used, which is common bc INFP are so giving and have strong emotional connections, and for someone to betray that is abuse on itself, so INFP are abusing the abuser? Sounds like you are defending abusers to me.
truth
Stop using fake Chinese ai to explain something relevant about personality.