We Broke Up | Storytime - Whitney White

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  • @WhitneyWhiteOfficial
    @WhitneyWhiteOfficial  7 ปีที่แล้ว +343

    Yeah, so.. "We Broke Up" 💯 Full storytime here on my 3rd channel, WhitneyWhiteOfficial Xo! ❤️

    • @marthawelch9832
      @marthawelch9832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Every young woman should see this ! Very good advice.

    • @iSitPretty
      @iSitPretty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      absolutely LOVE the message in this video! I truly adore you, Whitney. you are goals.

    • @thiskenyanwoman
      @thiskenyanwoman 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Someone probably already asked, but what lipstick are you wearing? 🙏

    • @JamieLeeBunch
      @JamieLeeBunch 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I really, really, really love We Broke Up | Storytime because it's a reminder of me and my husband dating struggles in high school. We broke up and fate brought us back together. We eventually got married too. Simply, cuteness overload your hair and make-up.

    • @teri_p
      @teri_p 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Whitney White I don't know why but I was thinking about Love and Basketball but with Love and Track lol Love you Whitney, it was so sweet of you to share this moment in your life cause we know you are a private person lol so yea I love you and Felipe together! Everytime I see you guys I just be like Awwwww! buy yea love you Whit! 😁😍😍

  • @JaysLifee
    @JaysLifee ปีที่แล้ว +616

    TH-cam it's been 5 years why are you bringing this up on my feed

    • @ManifestbyDestiny
      @ManifestbyDestiny ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Exactly TH-cam is so messy 😂

    • @PhillAccio
      @PhillAccio ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Cause it knew their divorce was coming!!

    • @YouAdii
      @YouAdii ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@PhillAccio The algorithm is a gossip.

    • @Blackbritgirl1
      @Blackbritgirl1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My thoughts exactly

    • @yana212
      @yana212 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Is this the same lady that made a video about getting a divorce and being a cosmetologist? That video came across my page last night it looks like her but it's another channel I cant remember the name now

  • @IDFK__
    @IDFK__ ปีที่แล้ว +299

    Idk why this popped up on my recommendations. After watching this and now they’re divorced, further justifies why I don’t give dudes a 2nd chances…. He never changed. However, Whitney is continuously elevating and I’m so happy for her success!😭🤗

    • @joanwalker8594
      @joanwalker8594 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      RIGHT! It just popped up in my feed. Lol

    • @bronzeone752
      @bronzeone752 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Me, too! Now, I'm mad all over again. So glad she's free!! Go, Whitney, goooo!!

    • @Sheisdifferent
      @Sheisdifferent ปีที่แล้ว +11

      So we all had this randomly pop up but yes I totally agree couldn’t put this into better words myself.

    • @joanwalker8594
      @joanwalker8594 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Sheisdifferent Yes! It's weird lol

    • @emoo2342
      @emoo2342 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right? I dunno if youtube is petty or informative. I’m excited to see Whitney take off with her growing successes.

  • @ladylove34
    @ladylove34 3 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    Back then, you had to watch him date other people. Now, he has to watch you all up on the tv, building an empire. Queen moves 👑

  • @ClaireHaire
    @ClaireHaire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +453

    This video hits different now, I’m wishing happiness for her.

    • @tthomas
      @tthomas ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I know right. That 20/20 hindsight...

  • @chavaun1982
    @chavaun1982 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    In 2023.... He's still stupid. Glad that she's happy & in a different space.

  • @StarRoseAngelic
    @StarRoseAngelic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +663

    TH-cam is so messy for recommending this...

    • @kaytee789
      @kaytee789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why what happened im clueless?

    • @joannajohn7298
      @joannajohn7298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@kaytee789 apparently they got divorced. I saw the latest video and didnt know. Then I saw this video on the side...

    • @ladyt4062
      @ladyt4062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@joannajohn7298 I thought they divorced, but I haven’t seen the video.

    • @joannajohn7298
      @joannajohn7298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ladyt4062 yea, I thinks so. There isn't a video on it that I know of. I had just finished watching her latest video (at the time I made my comment) and it was just her and the children and a new apt, and TH-cam had this video after. It was curious, and I was curious.

    • @beaubeauknows3620
      @beaubeauknows3620 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right after all this time😂😂😂

  • @itsnevertoolate5216
    @itsnevertoolate5216 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I just found out yesterday that they're divorced and today U-Tube recommends this video from 5 years ago to me. You're too wrong for this u-tube, very shady.

  • @dogstyle76
    @dogstyle76 7 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    "I loved him but I loved myself more" this is a really great advice to give to young girls 👌🏽thank you !!

  • @LolaSunshine3535
    @LolaSunshine3535 7 ปีที่แล้ว +396

    "...but I just loved myself more, I suppose..." - Preach Whitney!!! The it's supposed to be!

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Wow! 3 years later... I guess the saying is true. "When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time"~Maya Angelou. You deserve the best mama. Stay true to you💯😇🙏

  • @XandiiJamell
    @XandiiJamell ปีที่แล้ว +78

    TH-cam is trifling for suggesting this.

    • @LoveLacedRN
      @LoveLacedRN 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lol right

    • @acurlywonder
      @acurlywonder 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ikr…😮😢😡

  • @user-e2023
    @user-e2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +338

    She said he knew she was always there for him... When a guy knows that you'll always be around, no matter what, he isn't going to respect you. She was his friend, but personally I wouldn't be friends with a guy that treated me rudely to begin with.

    • @Be1smaht
      @Be1smaht 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Sooooooooooooooooooooooo truuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuue. You should have more likes dude

    • @SunsFlowerCreations
      @SunsFlowerCreations ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep. Red flags all in that story but hindsight is 20/20. I pray she continues to rise beautifully 💕

  • @BarbaraDonuts
    @BarbaraDonuts 7 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    I let my 13 yr old watch this so she can see that if it's meant to be it is meant to be. You don't have to compromise your morals to keep someone. Great message!

  • @abbigailglen
    @abbigailglen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    "You have to look out for yourself." I say this to single women all the time. Great video Whitney!

    • @girlwiththemagicpen
      @girlwiththemagicpen 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      w leonard Calm down. Just because she says that to single women doesn't mean it doesn't apply to all women

  • @love4mypeoples260
    @love4mypeoples260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    *TH-cam* is wicked! Never knew you had this channel and for them to put in my *recommendations* after your *divorce* is so awkward 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mrsgigi8862
      @mrsgigi8862 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Right. Same here 🙄

    • @IAmAdriaRenee
      @IAmAdriaRenee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Ditto! & I've been tryna figure out what happened between them and then this pops up from 4 years ago. smh

    • @Julissa0_o
      @Julissa0_o 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Yep, it just popped up for me today.

    • @sdperry00
      @sdperry00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here!

    • @victoriaonuigbo
      @victoriaonuigbo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly like what the hell

  • @babyandromedan9363
    @babyandromedan9363 7 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    "I just wanna know" --Black woman proverb

  • @valeriedakota2289
    @valeriedakota2289 7 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "When he needed me I was there for him" story of every females life!

  • @infinitestar6454
    @infinitestar6454 7 ปีที่แล้ว +215

    Whitney! You have me in tears. I ended my two year relationship three months ago because I love him so much and he wasn't loving me. I ended it. I'm thinking about him everyday and wondering how he is doing yet I know he is not doing the same. I'm glad you shared this story because I felt confused and guilty like I shouldn't feel this way when I broke up with him. It's great that you shared this because most people think the one who breaks up is the one who doesn't love. Most people never hear this perspective and you gave me an example to share and let more people close to me know how hard it has been for me even though I ended the relationship. I know I did the right thing. Thank you!

    • @CharleyCharlay
      @CharleyCharlay 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Infinite Star stay strong

    • @songsofsolace1620
      @songsofsolace1620 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Infinite Star

    • @sasukelover91
      @sasukelover91 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Infinite Star I'm going through the same thing. I finally parted ways with this guy that I loved and still love but I love myself more. I refused to be a person that he thought of as an option. People always think that the person who broke up first is the one that doesn't care but honestly I think it's quite the opposite. It's harder when you do the right thing. But what I can say is helping me is refusing to cry because most likely the guy isn't losing sleep or crying over me. I encourage myself and remind myself that I'm worth it and you my dear are worth loving and having a person who will love you as much as God does.

    • @Ebizzill
      @Ebizzill 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      girl, get busy. You have so much to offer, there's a perfect man out there for you, but you've got to get up, dust off your shoulders and get busy. Sky dive? Girl, get on it? Martial arts? Giiirll.... you know it? Heck, you want to travel... get on it now! Trust me, I had the opportunity to mope around, but I decided that I wasn't going to wait and get better... I knew I wasn't get better until I filled my mind with other interests. So I got on it. Now thinking about my ex I'm like.... (gurl bye) I'm SO much more now than I was then. Wiser, smarter, healthier.. richer. ayyee.

    • @anna-mariadavis5914
      @anna-mariadavis5914 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      It's ok the same thing happened to me I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy who treated me very well at 1st but slowly began to treat me like second fiddle. He didn't care about my feeling and emotions and he took everything I did for him for granted! I mean I was there for him more than his own family he owned a business and I practically ran it for him (pretty dumb huh?). He made me feel ugly, second best, basically like nothing in the end my self esteem was shot! Slowly I started to come to my senses I didn't know who was I was anymore but I wasn't this girl!!!! So I left!!!!! Shortly after I met a guy a great guy who treated me the way I deserved, and guess who ass popped up? You guessed it ol' dude! I didn't want him backed he begged, still didn't budge, guess what ladies here he come with the rock in hand doing what I dreamed he would proposing but it was too late I fell for the other guy and I'm now married to the man of my dreams who has always treated me like a queen

  • @ilonachance4461
    @ilonachance4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    It's a shame he couldn't stick to his own advice...but glad Whit did. It's sad people are willing to sacrifice something so special for something incomparable. Praying for full healing for Whit and her babies ❤️

  • @chloe_aku
    @chloe_aku 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I’m sorry Whitney. You are an amazing women who has helped me since I was in middle school. You probably won’t see this but We love you and everything will be okay ❤️

  • @IjeomaThePlantMama
    @IjeomaThePlantMama 7 ปีที่แล้ว +314

    My blood pressure did NOT appreciate this title!! With all the drama channels popping up on my timeline, I just got really really scared😓

    • @alwaystatiana595
      @alwaystatiana595 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      pajamagirl123 😂😂😂she raised all our blood pressure

    • @hannahofhorror
      @hannahofhorror 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      pajamagirl123 Can you imagine Whitney being like "omgosh guys like I literally HATE drama but this what happened" 😂😂😭😭

    • @ashleyibuaka
      @ashleyibuaka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      pajamagirl123 girl mine did not to lool

    • @LoveTheChandelierRoom
      @LoveTheChandelierRoom 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!

    • @Marie14749
      @Marie14749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well now they're divorce, he cheated.

  • @joythompson9530
    @joythompson9530 7 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Beautiful Video!!!♥
    Me and my ex broke up recently because he was moving on from me. I felt like he was not cherishing me (seeing my worth) and it made me feel sad because I cared for him so much; additionally, I felt like I was putting in more effort with upholding my values and morals. He started seeking advice and listening to his friends about what we should be doing in our relationship, and it made us grow further apart. This video was a prayer answered, just seeing a strong woman I really look up to on TH-cam, who doesn't even know me, Speak Truth.
    If you read this Whitney I am still moving on from him, it still stings. But I am just staying focused on God and my classes. So thank you Whitney, and I definitely think you two should do more Story Time Videos!

    • @iamieeesha9619
      @iamieeesha9619 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Joy Thompson Awww don't worry you'll find someone better

  • @Zoey_Heartlok
    @Zoey_Heartlok 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    First time seeing this. It's funny how youtube is only showing me this now that persons are talking about Whitney. But when it came out in 2017 I never saw it. smh. This algorithm yes.

  • @Genie2386
    @Genie2386 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1080

    I love that I didn't even remotely question the title of this story because your marriage is SOLID ;-D

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Miss Raquel I know right. All these commentators talking about how scared they were based off the title. 1. It says story time duh. 2. I have no doubt that these two will fight to the death for their marriage.

    • @shaystuh
      @shaystuh 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Miss Raquel yes!! same

    • @Inevachange
      @Inevachange 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Right ! I knew this had to be a story time !

    • @twweety9
      @twweety9 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      That's exactly what I said. I'm like if this isn't no click bait I don't know what is. Lol
      I'm like Whitney and Felipe? Please lol

    • @aliataylor92
      @aliataylor92 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Raquel same lol

  • @viintaget6372
    @viintaget6372 7 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I LOVE everything about this story time. You didn't bash him, you didn't talk bad about him. You have such great advice to young girls and even girls your age that you don't need to compromise your morals to keep or get your guy ! Such a dope message. Your terms your way but it worked. And it was respectful and it shows the growth that you both went through. That's why I love you guys. You can see the love and growth you guys went through and now even more growth since you started TH-cam. So proud of you for sticking up for your morals.

  • @michellepreston9799
    @michellepreston9799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I guess now he’s is going to be the player he always wanted to be.

  • @yasminholmes8824
    @yasminholmes8824 7 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I don't usually comment, but beautiful story and beautiful lesson. I've been a lurker for years, Whitney. The more that you open up to your viewers, the more great life/relationship lessons have been taught. Keep it up!

  • @jajajameena
    @jajajameena 7 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "Not everyone has to be bad."
    THANK YOU for saying that.
    Love this post! Little young girls (heck grown women) take notes! Do YOU first!

  • @imgrateful7142
    @imgrateful7142 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Past behavior is an indicator (not a guarantee) of future behavior. Move accordingly,

  • @RadiantRose217
    @RadiantRose217 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Oh, so Whitney was the original "bye Filipe" 😂
    That was a great story with awesome advice for young girls and boys. ❤️

  • @BooksAndBigHair
    @BooksAndBigHair 7 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    You look beautiful!! I love you and Felipe and
    This story had such an important message! I love that at 16 you had the presence of mind to realize your worth. 💕 great video!!

  • @Honestly_Marie
    @Honestly_Marie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We need more strong women like you. “Look out for yourself “. I feel like our generation hasn’t grown out of that phase of “what are they gonna think?” and into the phase of “what is going to make ME happy?” At the end of the day, we gotta live our lives and no one can fix anything outside of ourselves.

  • @zs9710
    @zs9710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    3 years after this video was uploaded, it still resonates with me, especially as a young woman in her early 20s. I just got out of a 3 1/2 year relationship with someone who is incredibly toxic and while it was a hard and confusing step to take, I’m so proud of myself for doing it. Like you said in the video, I 👏🏾 loved 👏🏾 my 👏🏾 self 👏🏾 more

  • @cwill30665
    @cwill30665 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I appreciate your openness. I have shared your video with my 19 and 15 year old because I love that you did not compromise your morals for a relationship. When you are true to yourself, what belongs to you, comes to you in my opinion.

  • @moncoeurmamour
    @moncoeurmamour 7 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    "LOVE AND TRACK" 😂😂😂

    • @keishacassia
      @keishacassia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      vpires do i get it ☺

    • @scifianalyst
      @scifianalyst 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      vpires do My thoughts exactly..

    • @hanatachibaina7730
      @hanatachibaina7730 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol I was thinking of that movie

  • @zenlifetv4837
    @zenlifetv4837 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Listening to your update story of your divorce and watching this video now...Whitney you are so right with taking your videos down because this was cringe to listen to. He showed you who he was in the beginning. I noticed in the video you kept saying that he was so full of himself. But everything happens for a reason.

    • @tiara29963
      @tiara29963 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I noticed that as well. Sadly, seems a lot of red flags were missed. But she got some beautiful babies out of it and I’m glad she’s happy now.

  • @GorgeousGemini23
    @GorgeousGemini23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    You two were my first TH-cam couple. I used to say that I wanted a funny caring husband like him when I grow up lol. Here I am now- grown - got married - divorced and dealing with the hand that life deals us sometimes when we think we know a person . I’m so, so, so proud of what you’ve become and what you’ve accomplished, Whit. You made something out of this TH-cam shit..I see you in Ulta for Christ sake. Lol. Ex hubb dropped the ball when he didn’t realize and cherish the strong and capable woman that you are. Men are notoriously stupid so it was expected lol I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s not still stalking and sniffing around in one way or another

  • @shawnjones08
    @shawnjones08 7 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    I want to see high school pics now lol

    • @crossing.the.cosmos84
      @crossing.the.cosmos84 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      sib what's her insta, I hafta see

    • @rpierrelouis87
      @rpierrelouis87 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dayla Renee' 9

    • @teri_p
      @teri_p 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dayla Renee' right give it up we wanna see!

    • @brilliantchic
      @brilliantchic 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      they have pics in an old video

    • @varonicabryant8253
      @varonicabryant8253 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Chiamaka , thanks for the link info. your right.

  • @MeekahLynne
    @MeekahLynne 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That's great that you recognized the relationship wasn't what you wanted ESPECIALLY AT 16! I tell the teen girls I use to work with that all the time. Stand your ground and know you are so valuable❤❤

  • @KISSwithNatty
    @KISSwithNatty ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I just finished watching her latest post..Why TH-cam be doing that?? 🥴🥴

    • @mariemarie3614
      @mariemarie3614 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ...he seems 💁🏽‍♂️

  • @AFOS94
    @AFOS94 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Woooooww it’s interesting how parallel this is to what happened recently. It made me think about my old high school to early 20s relationship and how similar this is to what I experienced. It’s still hard for me to shake it even now in my mid 20s but this made me realize even more now that I have to.

  • @xogulxo2
    @xogulxo2 7 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Whit I love you girl! I relate to you so much, I feel like I'm your mini-me lol. I'm currently a senior. Wish I had a "Felipe" lol it's hard out here for an old school girl with standards! High school boys and relationships these days are really dumb/crazy.

    • @CreativelyPhoenix
      @CreativelyPhoenix 7 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      xogulxo2 Having standards means you have self-respect. Keep it up gurl ✌💕

    • @trulyjeannette
      @trulyjeannette 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Pay attention to what she said, when she got to college she was like, "Hello :)" because she met and dated others that he was no longer her focus. Things now as a high school senior may seem strenuous, but when you get to college, you will meet all kinds of fine men that you're gonna look at the guys in high school like, "who are you?"LOL

    • @mshellokittylover1635
      @mshellokittylover1635 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeannette Marie Girl, I saw your reply to another comment, i needed ​your wise advices to get my life together. Thank you

    • @jayfergee_
      @jayfergee_ 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      xogulxo2 I'M SAYIN!

    • @ebony_avae
      @ebony_avae 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      You're not missing out on anything but STDs, teenage pregnancy and drama lol. Wait for your husband.

  • @boutux
    @boutux 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love that Flippe popped in and confirmed everything you said. And his advice for men is perfect. They should be mindful before they mistreat women that they could become fathers of daughters and treat women the way they would men to treat their daughters.

  • @MsMamamia20
    @MsMamamia20 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Your make-up is ON POINT!!!

  • @samuri2011
    @samuri2011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    @17:36 hit so different now.... He sold himself out on that advice phewwwwww. BE FREE WHITNEY!

  • @trulyjeannette
    @trulyjeannette 7 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I'm always concerned when people have been together since high school and have never broken up. I don't think many realize how much is in store for them after they graduate high school. It's great that the two of you broke up and eventually got back together. During that break up, you were able to experience life, date some and learn who you are. You both grew and evolved. You were able to rejoin one another with more maturity and have a much stronger union as a matrimonial team. That is wonderful.

  • @LilyB793
    @LilyB793 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks for posting this story, Whitney. I broke up with a guy I've been dating for 4 months a few days ago. I wanted to be with him so much, but deep down inside I knew it wasn't right and I deserve better. I wanted more and he couldn't or wouldn't give that to me.

    • @LilyB793
      @LilyB793 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      w leonard Thanks love. I fell for the companionship and the conversation. My favorite part about that person was talking with them and spending time with them. They weren't in the position to give me what I wanted.

  • @TheNormalOddball
    @TheNormalOddball 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It took me until now to realize the blog channel hasn't been updated and this fool isn't on her Instagram.
    I'm glad she's healing but damn this is an eye opener. Like I bet she looks back on this and is like ooofff.

  • @KatNaturalBeauty
    @KatNaturalBeauty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Girl I remember AOL messenger, lol, we are not old. That neck roll though, that's so me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love this video, very positive message.

    • @uncagedlearning
      @uncagedlearning 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes! Same here. lol

    • @RainShower1st
      @RainShower1st 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kat Natural I remember that and I'm 19 😂

  • @live42dayk1
    @live42dayk1 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow I never seen this before. Didnt even know this channel existed. Interesting to watch this video now. Thanks youtube for showing it in the recommend section but weird though to pop up.

  • @lovejesus12012
    @lovejesus12012 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    He cheated again. Sorry you had to go through all this hurt. Too many red flags. But you are beautiful, and deserve better.

  • @mjgarner123
    @mjgarner123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Excellent!!! You are so right we as women need to know our worth...regardless of age. Thank you Whitney and Felipe. Much Love and Blessings!

  • @QTiye88
    @QTiye88 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Whitney, you have always been strong. I am TWENTY-EIGHT years old and your words of " I didn't want to be with someone who wasn't putting the same effort as me" (and you were a teenager) hit me SO hard. Personally going through it. Thank you

  • @sweetradical
    @sweetradical 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Came fishing for something like this after seeing you cut your hair. Proud that you were that girl! Many women today still need to hear this message

  • @tayyyyyyyyyyyy609
    @tayyyyyyyyyyyy609 7 ปีที่แล้ว +392

    Had to run to the comments before even watching....glad to know I had a heart attack for nothing 😂😂😂

    • @mesewhappy5119
      @mesewhappy5119 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Girl..... y'all better stop playin. Had me in the Chic firing up my hoopty! Bean town bound, to slap some sense into the both of you. LOL!

    • @iSitPretty
      @iSitPretty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lmao

    • @Debra5115
      @Debra5115 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Taylor For real... I was chanting 'no way, no way, no way' as I scrolled down to comments. 😂😂😂

    • @notwrongorright2853
      @notwrongorright2853 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Taylor 🤣🤣

    • @Geezeimhungry
      @Geezeimhungry 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Taylor okay !!!! 😂😂😂

  • @bettyruthdenson
    @bettyruthdenson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I love your comment about working on our self-esteem. How we perceive ourselves is very important. I have a woman ask me how did I get my man. As if I was lucky to have him. I immediately said to her, "you mean how did he get me?" We need to think more highly of ourselves. Women are the good thing, not the opposite.

  • @sandykd8800
    @sandykd8800 7 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Whitney your amazing and very wise, your parents instill in you what lots of young ladies don't have today. You knew your worth and values long before you left your parents home. GOD bless your parents for such a wise woman that you are. Oya is such a bless child she will know her worth long before she leave home. Thanks for sharing.

  • @briamackey6410
    @briamackey6410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    Wow. Men do not change.

    • @youtubeaddict5663
      @youtubeaddict5663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @Buddy Darius She never men were horrible. She said men dont change

    • @rtoriq
      @rtoriq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Nope, they sure don’t. That’s why I don’t ever buy when ppl try to say marriage will change you for the better.

    • @youtubeaddict5663
      @youtubeaddict5663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@rtoriq & thats why I no longer believe in monogamy lol

    • @youtubeaddict5663
      @youtubeaddict5663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Licinda Stevens I totally agree with you, but statistically, more relationships break down after marriage then with two people who decide to stay together in a long term relationship (with no rings)

    • @michellepreston9799
      @michellepreston9799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      For better or worse nobody talks about the worse

  • @TraciRene
    @TraciRene 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Why this popped up on recommended page, idk but I have been recently thinking that they must have split. If that's true, saddened to hear that but hope whatever happened you and your kids and him are happy. 💙

    • @ladygem09
      @ladygem09 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don’t usually keep up with peoples business, but I honestly thought the same because the vlogs stopped. Only hair footage. I wish them the best 💜

    • @HappilyNappy000
      @HappilyNappy000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes she confirmed it on Instagram

  • @guinabells
    @guinabells 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    awesome. ..I grew up around my hubby also , we were friends before we seen each other as someone to spend the rest of our life with....thanks for your story being friends 1st helps alot

  • @Trinitray
    @Trinitray 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The puff, the makeup, everything is so gorgeous I almost couldn't focus, but thx 4 sharing ur story!

  • @Faithmilon40
    @Faithmilon40 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this story, it's important for young girls to understand that it's ok not follow what everyone is doing. My daughter watched with me and it opened up a conversation on the subject, she's only 9 but Im guessing now is a good time to start those types of talks❤you have a beautiful family you two!

  • @sabrinawhite7185
    @sabrinawhite7185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I'm here in 2020. Sorry to hear about your divorce. God bless you and your children.

    • @JennyClaire789
      @JennyClaire789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      They broke up when they were boyfriend and girlfriend. They are not divorced lol

    • @celesterae2154
      @celesterae2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      @@JennyClaire789 it's been reported she filed for divorce. Is that a lie going around now? UPDATE: I just watched her IG story, from her on words, they are not together.

    • @JennyClaire789
      @JennyClaire789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@celesterae2154 At the time of reading the post I assumed others mistook the video of breaking up in marriage instead of what the video said as bf/gf. That why I responded the way I did. I usually don't feed into social media spreading things if it was for trends. I just now found out with very few valid resources that clarified they are no longer together which I did not know. So now I know they are no longer together. That's what I get for not being in social networks as much lol

    • @celesterae2154
      @celesterae2154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@JennyClaire789 I didn't know either so that's why I asked my initial question to you and then thought to myself, "Ummm, research for yourself". I was also surprised as I'm not into people's lives like that either. It is a sad thing to learn, but hope everyone is adjusting well. It's not an easy decision to make.

    • @Eyerusalem_
      @Eyerusalem_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      What??? Am here in 2021 I did not know they are divorce. I have been following Witt for so long

  • @rachelmm05
    @rachelmm05 7 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    thanks for sharing☺ i dated a guy my freshmen year in college. Even though he was nice, we were complete opposites and he was pressuring me to have sex. As a 18/19year old it wasnt gonna happen. i knew my self worth so, i broke up with him and so glad i did... a year later i started dating my then boyfriend. we dated for a yr then he broke up with me cause he wasnt ready for a full committment. it tore me up but i knew i wasnt gonna chase him down. Then one day he calls me, asked to meet, we talked, he apologized, etc asked if we could get back together. we did, got engaged a few mths later and got married at the end of that year. that was over 15 years ago and we are still together☺...a good man will come to his senses and get his lady a boy keeps playing games.

  • @dadyzheart92
    @dadyzheart92 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Thank you Whitney, truly, thank you! Getting back on track to finding myself! I'm 26 & proudly holding on to my virginity, always been that "goody too shoes" that holds my morals & beliefs high & I don't regret a moment of it! All you young ladies & men, hold yourself high & understand your worth 🙏🏽

    • @Failureisnotanoptionever
      @Failureisnotanoptionever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had a dream in 2008 and in the dream a lady said to me, “Ladies be careful who you pick as a boyfriend be careful who you choose as a mate.” This dream from the Lord was a sharp warning to me...so keep on holding on to your MORALS and you will see the benefits and rewards of waiting.

    • @dadyzheart92
      @dadyzheart92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Failureisnotanoptionever 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you!! Just turned 28 & still holding steadfast❤

  • @theycallthewind3038
    @theycallthewind3038 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was so great hearing Filipe basically reiterate everything you said throughout the video. You can tell that he did a lot of growing and reflecting after losing you the first time and it's made him a better partner. But it also shows how right your advice is, for both men and women who are dating. Knowing your self-worth is so important when it comes to all relationships, from dating to friends to coworkers.
    Also loved the end when Filipe talked about Olivia finding a person, and not necessarily a boy! You both are such supportive and great parents. I'm happy Olivia has two people she can always depend on.

  • @DiscoveringNatural
    @DiscoveringNatural 7 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    There is a famous quote that says:
    If you love something, let it go. If it returns, it’s yours; if it doesn’t, it wasn’t.
    If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t they never were.
    I am so glad you both are together. Here is to growing old together. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @Ohyousunflower
      @Ohyousunflower 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      God i hate that quote

    • @Ms.NoNo2
      @Ms.NoNo2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This certainly didn’t age well 🤣

    • @krystalroney
      @krystalroney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😬

    • @tammy6907
      @tammy6907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I believe they’re divorced now! 😔

    • @ChantalesprettylittleDIYS
      @ChantalesprettylittleDIYS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      If they come back it's because they found out the grass wasn't greener on the other side. Never go back to a person who broke you

  • @shalomjohn6668
    @shalomjohn6668 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hard to watch cos just like many other people commented, in hindsight, a bunch of red flags were missed. Unfortunately many women make the mistake of going back to their exes for one reason or the other. If you break up, just walk away, don’t be their friend, don’t be the confidant, or therapist, don’t be there for them. Moooove on!!! It never ends well. Hopefully many people learn from her mistakes. Fine she broke up with him and is proud of that in this video but unfortunately she still hung around hoping he’ll “grow up” or come back to his senses. He realized she’d be there no matter what so he came back to her. Don’t ever allow yourself be the second or third choice. Thing’s probably didn’t work out at the time with some other person so he realized he still had her. Sad to hear his hypocrisy. I wish her the best and hopefully she never goes back to him for any reason. Most of all, make God the center of your marriage and don’t marry for looks. It never lasts if you do. God bless.

  • @azurisora9836
    @azurisora9836 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is such a VALUABLE STORYTIME that even your children will cherish..Love it!

  • @keonnabanks-levon2632
    @keonnabanks-levon2632 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this story. You're a good example for these women who do not have self respect or self worth. Never dull down your morals for some guy. If he really cares about you, he will respect you and if he doesn't someone else will appreciate you.

  • @sweetnyouniq
    @sweetnyouniq 7 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I f*cking LOVE your makeup!!!

    • @Josh-el1lr
      @Josh-el1lr 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why'd you capitalize lady? Are you emphasizing her gender to further your point that she deserves a level of respect? You don't have to be a lady to deserve respect. Matter of fact you don't even have to be human. ALL living things deserve respect. And plus, she was complimenting her. It may not have been in a way you deem acceptable, but that's just how some people talk. Leave her be

    • @BREANNA1234567890123
      @BREANNA1234567890123 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Josh George you're being SO extra with this comment. There was nothing negative about what w Leonard said 🙄🙄🙄😒

  • @itsthekayway
    @itsthekayway 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved this! I honestly prefer these kind of storytimes over the extremely dramatic ones 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

  • @jasimed2456
    @jasimed2456 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love this Whitney! It's so important that us as women stand firm in our feelings and boundaries. I feel like society expects women to always compromise, but it's important that we don't compromise our self worth

  • @1happyfamily775
    @1happyfamily775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Here is 2021 and just heard about the divorce

  • @pinkchilldivestmentor
    @pinkchilldivestmentor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    TH-cam is so messy for recommending this. I was wondering if you guys had broken up but of course I wasn’t going to ask that question

  • @klesham6444
    @klesham6444 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love your story I just sent it to my two daughters ..who also are keeping thier selves for marriage. . ones 22 yrs and the other 19 .I think it's good testimony for young girls. just to let you know you are the first person I ever respond to . I'm not really in social media don't even have a Facebook or anything but snapchat. lol .. That how much I love your story .well God Bless you.

  • @tayinatayina9005
    @tayinatayina9005 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    TH-cam man. This was 5 years ago 😮

  • @CaliforniaAfrican
    @CaliforniaAfrican 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My husband and I dated in college, where we met. We broke up, still undergrads. Years later, we "rediscovered" each other. Never of us thought we'd ever be together again. We fell back in love. We've been married for 21 years now.

  • @MsVaughnKitty
    @MsVaughnKitty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Don't even know how much I needed to hear this today. ☺️

  • @sawnxoxo9744
    @sawnxoxo9744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    It’s crazy how men can get on TH-cam talk all this bullshit and still embarrass you by cheating.

    • @winter5988
      @winter5988 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where’s the proof

    • @sawnxoxo9744
      @sawnxoxo9744 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Em ykw I don’t know but it’s been a thing that naptural85 and him divorced because he cheated

  • @teee.1283
    @teee.1283 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Im glad i watched this video. Im a sophomore in high school right now and is constantly questioning myself because of everything that's happening around me. This video really gave me the answers that i needed ❤️ great video!

  • @michelles.3624
    @michelles.3624 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very sweet story. Glad to hear you stood your ground and held on to your values. I did too in high school and it cost me a boyfriend or two. But I have a wonderful husband now and I am not emotionally damaged by any other guys.

  • @rosalina5936
    @rosalina5936 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Filipe fucked up big time!!

  • @rebeccamesukalombo5342
    @rebeccamesukalombo5342 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!!!!!! More girls need to hear this please! Ladies please know your worth, know your value. You are NOT meant to be a hormonal high school boys 'experiment or college or whatever'. Your HS romance is NOT the end of the world. The world is so much bigger and there is just so much more out there to enrich your life, to build you up unlike the HS romance that might be tearing you down or that has you in tears and emotional pain. It aint that deep chile, let it go, you are worth much more than that ok.

  • @pnutbuttababi24
    @pnutbuttababi24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Damn this was only 3 years ago and said all that with sincerity and just had another child too! NARC at his finest smh karma train is coning for you boy. Whitney is BLESSED MUTHA QUEEN 👑

  • @kesirandall2755
    @kesirandall2755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are awesome! This is going to help so many people no matter what age and stage one is in their relationship. I have been following you for a long time and yes this is definitely a proud past moment! Love this and so agree! Know your worth!

  • @rawlawgirl
    @rawlawgirl 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i have found that the way relationships start, it is the way they end. EVERY guy that broke up with me early in the relationship eventually left when we got back together even after marriage and a child. it's like the heart NEVER lies. i am a bit older than you and what i have learned is that a man NEVER leaves a woman he loves no matter the age. i think that it is myth when the girl gets the guy back. it is just a matter of time before the heart flies again because it secretly knows that love is never about convenience. also, once we get back together with a man who did not want us in the first place, this is set in stone and comes back to bite us in various ways through the years. true, my experience is not everyone's experience, but time reveals all.

    • @jallowJow
      @jallowJow 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Raw LawGirl truth.

    • @moelove8603
      @moelove8603 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sooo I was searching a for a sign and sis🫠 you mudhole stumped me right in the spine with this one🤦🏾‍♀️ why this the only message that aged well in 2023.

    • @Celebrian261
      @Celebrian261 ปีที่แล้ว

      You must be a wise person. Whatever you said is proven to be right.

  • @CookyNYC
    @CookyNYC 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent Whitney and Phillipe! Great job sticking to your morals Whit and for teaching young men and ladies how they should conduct themselves. Livvy is a blessed little girl with parents like you both.

  • @politereminder6284
    @politereminder6284 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wassup with the algorithm? 😳👀

  • @Ossouko
    @Ossouko 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's the friendship and mutual respect that got you two lovebirds through 😉

  • @ashleyinwonderland6804
    @ashleyinwonderland6804 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love when you guys talk about your relationship lol. Your couples 123 tag is hands down my favorite. BTW you look BEAUTIFUL Whitney.

  • @briolivia
    @briolivia 7 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    aaaaaaye dial up generation 🙋

  • @varonicabryant8253
    @varonicabryant8253 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    what is in the water?.... I was like how come we are braking up? My husband of 14 yrs wanted to leave, however, because we kept talking, hope has returned for me. I (even thou married) Had to demand respect and other things. I withheld my body, emotion, and care from him. had to get his attention. everyone was making feel like I was in the wrong. I was at my wits end. I had tried talking, I even wrote him a letter, pouring my heart out. it was very rough, I was so numb. I felt traped in a loveless marriage. He really did not want to depart and he is really trying, he is beginning to really hear my cry, out to him, we're trying. I'm feeling hopefull. "Time will tell if this love will last forever " Thanks Patty LaBelle.
    Nap...Thank you for share the storm you have gone through. So glad your title is pasted tense and not present.

  • @jademoonraven7840
    @jademoonraven7840 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great message for young girls, and older women alike! You rock.

  • @AdriennOnita
    @AdriennOnita 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    People are so afraid of someone else having that person they like and do not know how wonderful a break up can be. Meaning if they are not ready for what your ready for then the deserve the time to experience what they think they missing and to grow and you don't have to be hurt and abused in the process.

  • @celeadoniaturner462
    @celeadoniaturner462 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful story. So glad "you broke up". Definitely a way to gain perspective. Love you guys.

  • @thatsreallypretty
    @thatsreallypretty 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You had me at that "okay" around 8 minutes in 🤣. Too real. Thanks for sharing. It's very interesting to see the similarities between your high school experience and my life right now. Putting yourself first is a must!

  • @daphneedwards2738
    @daphneedwards2738 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Whitney...I will make sure my 10 year old daughter sees this. She respects you and your example of "loving myself more than the relationship" is the way I hope she will live.

  • @IjeomaThePlantMama
    @IjeomaThePlantMama ปีที่แล้ว +16

    TH-cam is being messy boots I see...
    I commented on this vid 5 yrs ago saying how startling the title was (I think this was around the time where there was HUGE TH-cam drama going on). Watching this back now hits really different, knowing everything Whitney went through. I'm glad she is on the path of success and self-fulfillment and has cut off the toxic part of her. She should be so very very proud. And to all the new commentors laughing that the video and 5 yr old comments "aged poorly", yes, we get it, we couldn't see into the future. Maybe come up with a more original joke.