How To Improve Your Listening Skills

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ธ.ค. 2014
  • What was voted the most annoying workplace habit?
    People Interrupting You When You Are Speaking!*
    We all know who they are. We know how annoying it is when it happens to us so imagine how annoying it is when it happens to your customers and colleagues.
    Don’t let your co-workers carry on this terrible habit!
    www.learningheroes.com
    *according to a brand new poll taken in our office

ความคิดเห็น • 159

  • @joshuamendonca4201
    @joshuamendonca4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    i had to listen to this for homework

    • @jaesalovely
      @jaesalovely 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same u go to medgar Evers? Mr Martinez?

    • @joshuamendonca4201
      @joshuamendonca4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah

    • @jaesalovely
      @jaesalovely 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Papa Josh what grade are u in?

    • @joshuamendonca4201
      @joshuamendonca4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      6th

    • @jaesalovely
      @jaesalovely 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Papa Josh same, do u have music with mr Guzman 1st period?

  • @melanin7770
    @melanin7770 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As someone who's struggles to listen am very grateful for this video. My biggest issue for me is that I don't get to consume what someone is saying to me I tend to daydream while they talking, sometimes I interrupt them.

  • @theswcoaching
    @theswcoaching 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great video. Correlating verbal and nonverbal comms makes such a difference.

  • @UselessVoidBobo
    @UselessVoidBobo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I need this skill to pass the versant test for my job application. Memorizing is a key tool for it too.

  • @kantz7375
    @kantz7375 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'am really thankful for that. Tanks so much again.

  • @DianaLuckysova
    @DianaLuckysova 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    what a great video. thank you!

  • @Princeunique4life
    @Princeunique4life 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Or you could picture what they're saying. That's what I do

  • @user-rh2br3nf6j
    @user-rh2br3nf6j 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think everyone should watch this video.
    In modern society most of people already lost their ability to listen.
    Interrupting is very rude and impolite,and I'm really really hate it.
    They need to break this horrible habit.

  • @SyuanLin-oy9ql
    @SyuanLin-oy9ql 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for suggestion.It help me a lot on listening.

  • @aruntv9354
    @aruntv9354 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Best video on listening explained short and simple

  • @naomiklijs5912
    @naomiklijs5912 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you this is really helpful

  • @user-rp9yf5sg1h
    @user-rp9yf5sg1h 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video helps me know how to listen to others intently. It is a great video!!!

  • @poonamghorpade5828
    @poonamghorpade5828 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Excellent sir!

  • @NancySolariLivingFullOut
    @NancySolariLivingFullOut ปีที่แล้ว

    This is wonderful advice! It's such an important skill.

  • @amberleigh7772
    @amberleigh7772 7 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Sorry I wasn't listening what did you say

  • @durganireddy2507
    @durganireddy2507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you☺️

  • @user-vg6sl8jv6e
    @user-vg6sl8jv6e 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is very helpful to me.I will improve my listening skill more hard-working.

  • @0485rec1
    @0485rec1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to watch this twice, because I was focused on how the pickle people looked like pickles and then I started thinking about pickles. I guess I needed this more than I thought.

  • @paulayim4964
    @paulayim4964 7 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Great video.

  • @user-yt8dm3oq7s
    @user-yt8dm3oq7s 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Listening to others really important.
    Italo Calvino once said "The meaning of words depends on ears instead of mouth."

  • @bigpanda9684
    @bigpanda9684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks!

  • @alexscott4772
    @alexscott4772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a very interesting video well done 👍

  • @I-9Ether
    @I-9Ether 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I try to focus in on what others say, like...i literally try to use my mind to listen.

  • @temesgenyifrashewa4928
    @temesgenyifrashewa4928 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thanks

  • @mradulkhale3632
    @mradulkhale3632 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    thnxx 😊

  • @DarkHill43
    @DarkHill43 7 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    for some reason when people talk to me either i don't hear them well or i can't focus on what they say
    the weird think when others are talking not to me i can hear them perfectly and understand them with ease
    could someone tell me what the hell is wrong with me ??

    • @iceberg3721
      @iceberg3721 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well... it depends on the time of day, the person, and how many things you guys have in common.. so if you're bored or either nervous you tend to get ahead of yourself

    • @kiethkat773
      @kiethkat773 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not me i think we have the same situation..

    • @yerasmus4025
      @yerasmus4025 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It may be a subcontious trigger of self protection. You may suspect you will be attacked and then you close up.

    • @nigelsanthosh4084
      @nigelsanthosh4084 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anxiety

  • @user-uq9dx3gc9t
    @user-uq9dx3gc9t 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It helps me a lot on listening.

  • @ragavia612
    @ragavia612 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank u!

  • @find_peace
    @find_peace 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    so helpful !

  • @borisgarcia2852
    @borisgarcia2852 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    gracias

  • @yayyayyay9912
    @yayyayyay9912 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you 😊

  • @jayakumarg9471
    @jayakumarg9471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good video.. With your permission shall I use this video for my presentation

  • @becomingdauntless8821
    @becomingdauntless8821 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:45 mins - perfect for me with such a short attention span!

  • @helenahayes6150
    @helenahayes6150 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    that was helpful for my assignment - thank you

  • @mohammedabdul2990
    @mohammedabdul2990 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    awesome tips

  • @user-kl9eq5hv8k
    @user-kl9eq5hv8k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to learn how to focus fully on the speakers because some speak is really boring making me distracted .As a result,I'll miss some important information.

  • @margaretkelberg4672
    @margaretkelberg4672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I need this for cadet it is all listing I feel like stupid this helps thanks

  • @coolbrains9354
    @coolbrains9354 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Helpful video

  • @sumankarki3959
    @sumankarki3959 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    something help me from this chapter

  • @divyagohil2050
    @divyagohil2050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had to listen to this for a training sessions

  • @weifan7415
    @weifan7415 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i am Chinese student.when i listen to English,i always want to change they into chinese that i can understand.now my listening of English is so sort

    • @paulbedon5845
      @paulbedon5845 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Have you improved your English?

  • @davidjames4267
    @davidjames4267 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I strongly suggest listening to all young men and women.
    You will achieve your goals so much faster if you will train yourself to hear and listen.
    Listening is a talent, it saves time, and it's profitable

  • @eaweir
    @eaweir 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Would you enable captions for this video? Even auto-generated captions would help quite a lot. Thanks!

  • @solarflutter3707
    @solarflutter3707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1. 0:58
    2. 1:29
    3. 3:41
    4. 4:07

  • @sujayupadhyay9513
    @sujayupadhyay9513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    sometimes I think too much and almost forgot what my boss asked me to do it.
    And when he ask me about the work at the end of the day , I reply him SORRY SIR I FORGOT.
    seriously I can't control my thoughts.

  • @twoking10
    @twoking10 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is all fine except for one problem. I have always taken a lot of pride in my ability to be congenial and not interrupt people. The frustrating part is when someone ELSE is always interrupting. What do you do with them? It's great not to interrupt but that leaves you in a quandry. You end up being around total conversation hogs who have absolutely NO interest in including you in it. Or, you are in a group and they are all talking over each other and Mr. Congenial ends up being like a bump on a log all night just because I am trying not to be rude and interrupt anyone. Or, I wait patiently for several minutes while someone else is talking and FINALLY feel like I can say something and then the other person interrupts, of course, lol. It's all well and good to say don't interrupt but it seems to me a just as important people skill is to make sure others are included in the conversation. My observation is that very few people do that.

  • @DOERXSTREET
    @DOERXSTREET 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My teacher sent me this link for costumer service class

  • @lohdiwei9778
    @lohdiwei9778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This isn't the advice I want and need.
    What I want to know is, what do I have to do to stress out the bad people so that as soon as they get back to their offices they have a heart attack?

  • @neiveythasrri170
    @neiveythasrri170 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cannot understanding sorry

  • @miashen888
    @miashen888 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I usually seem judgemental when I'm listening. Maybe I should get rid of the habbit then I could be a
    better listener.

  • @prachipeshkar3674
    @prachipeshkar3674 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is difficult but most required skill to develop.

  • @martareeger4013
    @martareeger4013 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is there a way to add captions to this video? The content seems great but Deaf individuals are not able to follow along.

  • @isabellamota2799
    @isabellamota2799 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    good video

  • @poojapeswani3594
    @poojapeswani3594 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also for worksheet

  • @MarkElMago
    @MarkElMago 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was search how improve my listening in english, don't listening people.

  • @buskinglankans
    @buskinglankans 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am listening

  • @jama3335
    @jama3335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    sometimes I feel like a complete idiot, this is one of those times.

  • @professordrabhijitsayamber2299
    @professordrabhijitsayamber2299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @iffishawal116
    @iffishawal116 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    00:37 Listening is a powerful tool in the workplace
    01:14 Effective listening skills can help create a safe and productive environment.
    01:51 Stay focused and avoid interrupting during conversations
    02:28 People interrupt conversations because their minds are underutilized when listening.
    03:05 Interrupting others in a conversation can be avoided by keeping your mouth closed and making notes.
    03:42 To avoid interrupting others, write down your ideas and focus on listening more than talking.
    04:19 Effective communication requires setting aside judgment and showing interest
    04:55 Active listening involves showing interest and engaging with the speaker.

  • @squeakywhiskers
    @squeakywhiskers 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still don't understand why does this channel has only 7.7k subs... lol rip for this channel

  • @Trietlikesicecream
    @Trietlikesicecream 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Focus on the speaker: Give full attention, maintain eye contact, and minimize distractions.
    Avoid interruptions: Let the speaker finish before responding.
    Stay non-judgmental: Maintain neutral body language to avoid seeming critical.
    Show interest: Use verbal and non-verbal cues to convey curiosity and empathy.

  • @pencilonpaper1026
    @pencilonpaper1026 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just need to practice listening for Russian...

  • @or7626
    @or7626 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1:43

  • @gayatrid5531
    @gayatrid5531 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Manushree Devargaonkar

  • @tntdunce6363
    @tntdunce6363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why

  • @davidfarmer2049
    @davidfarmer2049 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The video was interrupted.

  • @DevinSymone
    @DevinSymone 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I am a good listener, my friends always cry on my shoulders

  • @user-pl1km3of6s
    @user-pl1km3of6s 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    we use it for exam

  • @subswithoutvideoschallen-qf2wo
    @subswithoutvideoschallen-qf2wo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone i listen to is Boring for me. Especially school classes When i listen to teachers i just watch them without even listening. I don’t know how to listen, and i Can’t even listen to a video like this. But i remember that i could listen beter before. And the funny thing is that when i listen someone is speaking to me i just watch them and think about other stuffs in my head.

    • @healthmintraa4320
      @healthmintraa4320 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Need to develop interest in reading and listening by beginning with 5 minutes at a time...

  • @underthesun65
    @underthesun65 ปีที่แล้ว

    Interrupting...ugh I need to do better

  • @gamercrazy890
    @gamercrazy890 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same here dude

  • @bobsandvagene8461
    @bobsandvagene8461 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    im deaf can u help me

  • @nguyenvanlong5410
    @nguyenvanlong5410 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I woun listen, no blabla

  • @kingme974
    @kingme974 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video shows the fact that I'm a bad listener.

  • @Madmax93898
    @Madmax93898 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It may Help me, but i feel like this is not for beginners !

  • @gabrielgouvea77
    @gabrielgouvea77 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Subtitles please!

  • @ilycupid2261
    @ilycupid2261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just cant concentrate

  • @missycromonic2189
    @missycromonic2189 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is my problem, too judgmental, trying my hardest not to be.

  • @asd70100
    @asd70100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want chat with English to improve communication

  • @MegamanZ9000
    @MegamanZ9000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought this would be a boring explanation. but I was wrong.

  • @tanishqupreti7433
    @tanishqupreti7433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bad listeners won't ever ponder on this video

  • @gr4ystripe18
    @gr4ystripe18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😴

  • @cautiondonotsubscribe.1199
    @cautiondonotsubscribe.1199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video choice! Bet 4/5 of the views are repeats lol

  • @starnyx3593
    @starnyx3593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m a kid with ADHD, so listening and focusing is very hard for me. Can anyone else relate?

    • @laprimeramujer2486
      @laprimeramujer2486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Different. Im a kid with autism and an anxiety disorder. And I still struggle with cutting people off , wanting to explain my point and still talking because I don’t like what’s going on or I don’t agree with what there saying. And then I get this icky feeling most of the time. I try following tips. But it’s not easy. And I don’t know if being a Sagittarius has to do with it

  • @nicolas-zb2ie
    @nicolas-zb2ie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Que di sen jile ATR

  • @wearenotsame24
    @wearenotsame24 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi anyone from SRM Trichy 🤣

    • @manidhar4038
      @manidhar4038 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙋‍♂️

    • @wearenotsame24
      @wearenotsame24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manidhar4038 you are from arts and science am I right

  • @noorahmed5448
    @noorahmed5448 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰

  • @user-wd6ky9pw8w
    @user-wd6ky9pw8w 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Crawford me nyasha

  • @Mu5icluver
    @Mu5icluver 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm sorry but in my personal opinion other than the third rule, these all seem so mundane and obvious, closing your mouth when listening??? and making random expressions of acknowledgement, saying "yes", "really" or "uh huh", pretending to give the impression that you are engaged, this is shit I see so many fake bitches implement and it's all useless unless you are genuinely interested.
    How's about being honest to the point of telling someone that you are not engaged? It seems savage but Iv'e witnessed some people literally just talk because they feel like they are socially inclined to fill the silence with vague unimportant filler, if it's these kind of people your confronted with stop them, tell em to save their breath and ask why they feel the need to talk at all?

    • @Alphacentauri819
      @Alphacentauri819 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you on the spectrum?
      It seems you have a very narrow view of communicating and its function.
      There are different reasons why different people communicate.
      Yours isn’t the “right” way, nor is it the wrong way. However, to be pejorative and judge the ways others communicate, misses a whole realm of opportunity to learn.
      Peoples wiring is different, not bad or good, just different. People want to be heard, understood and accepted. For some, who haven’t been heard or have been chronically invalidated, they sometimes go on and on. Or, some who go on and on, are external processors, and process by saying things out loud. Yet others, struggle with anxiety and their talking on and on can be a result of that.
      Sure, you can tell them you’re not interested, or to stop…but to zoom out, be curious, give them space (and not be self centered), can sometimes be powerful.
      It’s fair to be kind and direct (not rude and narcissistic) and state your needs and boundaries regarding communication…but that also requires being mindful of others.
      There are people who only take themselves into consideration. There are people who only take others into consideration. There are people who take themselves AND others equally into consideration…and those people are good communicators, and usually have high emotional intelligence.

  • @deathlord_
    @deathlord_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Noice

  • @PugTartz
    @PugTartz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deaf people watching this: 👁👄👁

    • @rxbyrxd5534
      @rxbyrxd5534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you watching this for a school subject? I think I know you your username sounds very familiar 💀💀💀

    • @ndsoweflew
      @ndsoweflew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      furries watching this: 👁👄👁

    • @ndsoweflew
      @ndsoweflew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mha fans that ship characters way too much and probably supports messed up shit as well watching this: 👁👄👁

    • @ndsoweflew
      @ndsoweflew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      folks that have a weirdass brother watching this: 👁👄👁

    • @ndsoweflew
      @ndsoweflew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      people that uses mha characters names and puts it as their name-tags for weeks watching this: 👁👄👁

  • @ww1germany
    @ww1germany 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No

  • @arifhakimi2671
    @arifhakimi2671 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HAHAHAH IM FROM 2024

  • @user-nz4mg9qd5d
    @user-nz4mg9qd5d 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bad

  • @sumankarki3959
    @sumankarki3959 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks

  • @samabhai2125
    @samabhai2125 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thanks