It’s no joke! I am super faithful when I’m with someone, and a previous partner cheated and gave me an STD. The way I was so angry and disappointed. I promptly dumped his lying ass, but it took me a long while to trust men again and just the sheer embarrassment of having had it.
@@NickButler83 I'm so sorry this happened to you! That's just awful! I hope you find someone who loves, respects and is honest with you! We must be able to trust people we share a bed and our hearts with.....
@@Sadude13 HPV! I do realise it’s quite common, but it’s the fact that he broke the trust that really got me. And then having to go to the doctor to get rid of it too. I also have to play open cards with any person I am sexually active with because I may be a carrier or a giver (I don’t know which). I think it’s massively important (for me), to be open about this with anyone I decide to be intimate with, so that they know and they can make a choice about whether they want to continue or not.
@@NickButler83 I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s common but can be deadly (leading to increased rates of anal and oral cancer). You are doing the right thing by being open about it. Most guys will not mind. I’m vaccinated against it so wouldn’t mind. BUT you made the right decisions here. I wish you the best
If I were in a relationship, I wouldn’t want an open relationship. I don’t want to bring someone else into my relationship. If I’m having problems with my partner, I would want us to talk and work it out.👏🏽👍🏾👍🏾
That 31 year old is very naive…. Rules in an “open relationship” are going to be broken, it’s a setup for failure. The older partner sounds like a “partier”.. who’s most likely living a double life and lying about it all notwithstanding that he’s putting his partner at risk with the high risk sexual behavior. He’s using and taking advantage of the younger guy because he’s naive. The relationship doesn’t need to be salvaged, the 31 year old needs to kick the older guy to the curb and move on. He sounds like he deserves better, none of this is worth his time or effort. Being young with a career, focus, and a good head on your shoulders.. you shouldn’t put up with sh*t from anybody especially a man who’s going to put you at risk and waste your time.
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That is a recommended dosing model for people that have infrequent sex with bursts of sexual activity (like for going on a vacation). Prep and Pep do not protect against Mpox, Herpes, HPV, bed bugs, antibiotic resistant syphilis and gon, and a whole nasty range of sexually related dangers. The older partner just needs to be single.
@@TheAlfredPlatform They cost thousands to treat, I know more than one guy that got them from a hook up. If you house-hack and ret out a spare bedroom and the person you rent to brings them in, it eats up months of rent and drama about purging clutter and lifestyle changes. If you’re reading this and going through guys faster than your STI checks, pretend it’s like coming home from a low end hotel, strip at the door, carry your clothes to the washer in a tied trash bag, and soap your ass in the shower before sitting on a couch or bed!
And I don't think everybody's sex drive drops in the 30s, a lot of peoples it gets higher in their 30s and 40s, especially when they're focused I want different things in their life and their younger ages, and then they hit their thirties and forties, and their sex drive is just pumped.
That relationship is hella not salvageable. He is putting his partner at risk n has no insight nor care in the world. Ur partner was well enough to give u a hall pass, u being grateful should take all measures to ensure u enjoy urself while u don’t carry home nothing for ur supposed beloved partner. Inappropriate use of PreP and there at risk have contracting HIV Incurable std is still out there: HPV, HTLV, HSV, hep B & C. And for him to not see his fault, refusing to acknowledge his wrong, n attempting to make the partner feel his is nagging and gaslighting “I shouldn’t have told u” nicca what… It’s giving divorce court for me hunty.. that’s the gag
The two one one method was recommended by my doctor if I didn't want to take prep long term. I think it is more for one time use rather than continual use over a week. Nothing wrong with a hall pass. I just think his partner took it too far. Why was he the best freak in the group? Some people didn't have sex or did one or two. He had as many partners as some people have in a lifetime in that short time
Hello! One of your statements is not precise. Doctors often prescribe the two-pill regimen if you need PrEP in your system quickly. It’s not ideal, but it is a medically acceptable form of protection if necessary. With that stated, doctors prefer the two-pill rule if you happen to miss a day of medication, having already been on PrEP as prescribed.
The amount of prep the bf said is not made up please do some research before you start spreading misinformation. Tge doctor recommends that if it's a one off situation you can do 2-1-1 on the day two hours before intercourse and one each for the following two days!
From what I gleaned from this video, it’s important to set boundaries AND set priorities. Is travelling with your partner more important than hooking up randomly for sex? From the looks of it, the partner simply wanted random sex and had no respect for the other half (the author who penned the story). If random sex is an individual’s concern, I think it’s best to stay single so as to not play Russian roulette in a relationship. That’s my two cents. (-:
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Alfredo, I get the impression that you were trying very hard not to be censorious but I think you hit the nail on the head for your correspondent at about the 11.20 mark where you actually used the word "cheat" and then went on to say that if someone wants to live that sort of life then they ought, perhaps, to "stay single". If two people really are in love, this sort of activity would be dismissed out of hand without a second thought. I know the argument about men not being naturally monogamous creatures and putting two of us together in a relationship increases the temptation to cheat exponentially when compared with a heterosexual relationship, but these guys really need to think long and deeply about the nature of their relationship and whether it has a meaningful future before someone gets seriously hurt. Just my opinion, of course... I'm not meaning to offend anyone's sensibilites.
Actually, if he gets the first dose of prep and seventy-two hours of exposure, his exposure is 99% less. We used to administer people who said they might have had unprotected sex. More detail the prep and tell them that. As long as it's within the last 72 hours, you are most likely free from getting H. I. V
No, he's right. PrEP does not need to be taken daily and doesn't need extended time to accumulate in the blood. There was a study done in France about 8 years ago that supports this.
I dont think thats Normal. He either has a fetish of some kind ( that maybe he suppresses) or possibly sex addiction. Either way its his “problem”. Also. It doesn’t mean he’s not faithful. Esp if he got permission. He just took it from 0-100…
Doubled your income? Don’t tell me you’re in an MLM situation where and recruiting for it. J/k But, seriously-Say it ain’t so! I don’t want to see you on Pocket Watching with JT! 😅😂
People really out there thinking STD's are a joke :(
It’s no joke! I am super faithful when I’m with someone, and a previous partner cheated and gave me an STD. The way I was so angry and disappointed.
I promptly dumped his lying ass, but it took me a long while to trust men again and just the sheer embarrassment of having had it.
@@NickButler83 I'm so sorry this happened to you! That's just awful!
I hope you find someone who loves, respects and is honest with you! We must be able to trust people we share a bed and our hearts with.....
@@NickButler83 what did he give to you
@@Sadude13 HPV! I do realise it’s quite common, but it’s the fact that he broke the trust that really got me. And then having to go to the doctor to get rid of it too. I also have to play open cards with any person I am sexually active with because I may be a carrier or a giver (I don’t know which). I think it’s massively important (for me), to be open about this with anyone I decide to be intimate with, so that they know and they can make a choice about whether they want to continue or not.
@@NickButler83 I’m so sorry this happened to you. It’s common but can be deadly (leading to increased rates of anal and oral cancer). You are doing the right thing by being open about it. Most guys will not mind. I’m vaccinated against it so wouldn’t mind. BUT you made the right decisions here. I wish you the best
If he’s sleeping around this much there’s NO WAY he’s faithful while he’s back at home with you . He enjoys getting ran through too much
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If I were in a relationship, I wouldn’t want an open relationship. I don’t want to bring someone else into my relationship. If I’m having problems with my partner, I would want us to talk and work it out.👏🏽👍🏾👍🏾
That 31 year old is very naive…. Rules in an “open relationship” are going to be broken, it’s a setup for failure. The older partner sounds like a “partier”.. who’s most likely living a double life and lying about it all notwithstanding that he’s putting his partner at risk with the high risk sexual behavior. He’s using and taking advantage of the younger guy because he’s naive. The relationship doesn’t need to be salvaged, the 31 year old needs to kick the older guy to the curb and move on. He sounds like he deserves better, none of this is worth his time or effort. Being young with a career, focus, and a good head on your shoulders.. you shouldn’t put up with sh*t from anybody especially a man who’s going to put you at risk and waste your time.
His boyfriend is acting like he is trapped in his teenage years. Probably someone who just came out.. he is just too old for that type of crap
20 guys in 3 days NO!
The 2-1-1 method is actually a recommended dosage…
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That is a recommended dosing model for people that have infrequent sex with bursts of sexual activity (like for going on a vacation). Prep and Pep do not protect against Mpox, Herpes, HPV, bed bugs, antibiotic resistant syphilis and gon, and a whole nasty range of sexually related dangers. The older partner just needs to be single.
Bed bugs 😂🤣😂🤣. No but for real, dudes are acting like bed bugs out here.
@@TheAlfredPlatform They cost thousands to treat, I know more than one guy that got them from a hook up. If you house-hack and ret out a spare bedroom and the person you rent to brings them in, it eats up months of rent and drama about purging clutter and lifestyle changes. If you’re reading this and going through guys faster than your STI checks, pretend it’s like coming home from a low end hotel, strip at the door, carry your clothes to the washer in a tied trash bag, and soap your ass in the shower before sitting on a couch or bed!
And I don't think everybody's sex drive drops in the 30s, a lot of peoples it gets higher in their 30s and 40s, especially when they're focused I want different things in their life and their younger ages, and then they hit their thirties and forties, and their sex drive is just pumped.
That relationship is hella not salvageable. He is putting his partner at risk n has no insight nor care in the world. Ur partner was well enough to give u a hall pass, u being grateful should take all measures to ensure u enjoy urself while u don’t carry home nothing for ur supposed beloved partner.
Inappropriate use of PreP and there at risk have contracting HIV
Incurable std is still out there: HPV, HTLV, HSV, hep B & C.
And for him to not see his fault, refusing to acknowledge his wrong, n attempting to make the partner feel his is nagging and gaslighting “I shouldn’t have told u” nicca what…
It’s giving divorce court for me hunty.. that’s the gag
I would dump him - that to me, isn’t salvageable . He needs to grow up lol.
The two one one method was recommended by my doctor if I didn't want to take prep long term. I think it is more for one time use rather than continual use over a week. Nothing wrong with a hall pass. I just think his partner took it too far. Why was he the best freak in the group? Some people didn't have sex or did one or two. He had as many partners as some people have in a lifetime in that short time
Hello! One of your statements is not precise. Doctors often prescribe the two-pill regimen if you need PrEP in your system quickly. It’s not ideal, but it is a medically acceptable form of protection if necessary. With that stated, doctors prefer the two-pill rule if you happen to miss a day of medication, having already been on PrEP as prescribed.
Now, if his body look like anything that was in the thumbnail, he’s obviously on some kind of testosterone
Wow 20 guys in 3 days!!? That’s wild!
Meanwhile aces and sides are like 'interesting'
The amount of prep the bf said is not made up please do some research before you start spreading misinformation. Tge doctor recommends that if it's a one off situation you can do 2-1-1 on the day two hours before intercourse and one each for the following two days!
From what I gleaned from this video, it’s important to set boundaries AND set priorities. Is travelling with your partner more important than hooking up randomly for sex? From the looks of it, the partner simply wanted random sex and had no respect for the other half (the author who penned the story).
If random sex is an individual’s concern, I think it’s best to stay single so as to not play Russian roulette in a relationship.
That’s my two cents. (-:
The. MF. End.
❤ life is very long and extremely suffering day after day the same thing .the only thing we are all bound to on a constant is that everyday we grow older and closer to death . the final climax . Hell will get tired of death maybe one day hell wil want us all to be alive forever.
BEING WITH ONE PERSON FOR THE REST OF YOU LIFE IS UNNATURAL.😂😂😂
Go get tested and leave him. 🤢 🤮
Alfredo, I get the impression that you were trying very hard not to be censorious but I think you hit the nail on the head for your correspondent at about the 11.20 mark where you actually used the word "cheat" and then went on to say that if someone wants to live that sort of life then they ought, perhaps, to "stay single".
If two people really are in love, this sort of activity would be dismissed out of hand without a second thought. I know the argument about men not being naturally monogamous creatures and putting two of us together in a relationship increases the temptation to cheat exponentially when compared with a heterosexual relationship, but these guys really need to think long and deeply about the nature of their relationship and whether it has a meaningful future before someone gets seriously hurt.
Just my opinion, of course... I'm not meaning to offend anyone's sensibilites.
20 in 3 days... babe thats meth
Baybeh… 💯
The orgy was at capacity
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Actually, if he gets the first dose of prep and seventy-two hours of exposure, his exposure is 99% less. We used to administer people who said they might have had unprotected sex. More detail the prep and tell them that. As long as it's within the last 72 hours, you are most likely free from getting H. I. V
I think that's PEP. There is PEP and PREP. PREP needs time to build in the blood stream.
No, he's right. PrEP does not need to be taken daily and doesn't need extended time to accumulate in the blood. There was a study done in France about 8 years ago that supports this.
Doxy PeP (doxycycline hyclate) should be taken within 72 hours of exposure to prevent STDs/STIs. PrEP + PeP = incredible protection.
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I dont think thats Normal.
He either has a fetish of some kind ( that maybe he suppresses) or possibly sex addiction. Either way its his “problem”.
Also. It doesn’t mean he’s not faithful. Esp if he got permission. He just took it from 0-100…
That's why relationships shouldn't open up . People.never learn it never works. . Unless your a flds 😂
I dating a really good guy but he had 2 really bad execs should I hold that against him
Is he still seeing them? If not...why the hell would you..........👀
@@arianka5786lmaooooo
Why r u in a relationship if it’s open just to have a fwb u talk to on the regular??? I can’t find one and they out here like they single lol wtf
that 'open relationship' ish....🤑🤮
Doubled your income? Don’t tell me you’re in an MLM situation where and recruiting for it. J/k
But, seriously-Say it ain’t so! I don’t want to see you on Pocket Watching with JT! 😅😂
Hell no 🤬
Alfred please marry me
Hey I’m about to email you 😅
I read your email. I'll make a video for you appearing next week 🐺🐺
@@TheAlfredPlatform 😆
@@TheAlfredPlatform btw I might add something to it