My Parents Didn't Go to My Wedding
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- In my wedding you can see my family is absent within the wedding and that is mainly because my parents fear of flying. The fear of flying is not an easy thing to overcome especially when traveling across the world for a wedding. However, that is completely okay and I understand it is something I cannot control on my end. Thank you for the many blessings mom and dad!
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I would move heaven and earth to be with my daughter on her wedding day. I’m sorry you missed out on that aspect of being a bride. But I am really glad you enjoyed your day.
Thank you~!
True sister
Greetings.
She had her true love Mother, his dad, his sister and all those lovely supportive people there to bridge in the gap.
Truly, I would be grateful.
Most women don't a living mother. Nevertheless do they have a father or family to be at the wedding.
So look at the bright side of things.
All the people that was meant to be there was there. Some people have no one to be at the wedding but the one that they love the most in the world.
I am thankful that they shared their story.
I'm even more thankful that she found a man that loved her enough to marry her and not make her a single mother.
He protects and provides for her as it was written before they both were even born into this mortal realm.
Yes....it's always good to remain Grateful.
Her husband beautiful mother and Handsome Father was there to stand in for her biological parents.
It could have been worse than that. Where his parents were not supportive of their union. Where both of their parents what not have been there.
So it was a blessing and a miracle during that event of their lives.
One must also be thankful. That he didn't have other outside children with several different women. She married a man that only has children from her, loves Dianna, welcome her into their culture and family. Despite of what many many thought of their union.
The Union itself faced many challenges. But by miracles of god they've made it. The Parents from both sides are still in the land of the living and are in lives.
That's a Miracle and a Blessing that many people in this world will never have..... Unfortunately.
Always look and search out the "Good" in all things
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🌿~Shalom~🌿
I’m sad dad couldn’t walk you down the aisle BUT sweet husband & his supportive family made up the emptiness a little..
Wow, nicely done video. Sorry, your parents didn't go to your wedding in Korea. But you can have a second wedding in the USA. That would be a good idea and video. k
Yes it would :)
Just renew your vows.
Angela Diab awesome idea
Angela Diab maybe on their anniversary, or vow renewal
Angela Diab the do weddings on cruises . My aunt and uncle renewed their vows on the last one we went on
....but, not brothers, sisters, aunts, auncles, friends ☹️😕 nobody even just 1 person! Oh well the weeding was so beautiful 💕
Korean style wedding sounds similar to African weddings. Come one come all! The bigger the better. Your wedding pics/footage are beautiful. Glad your in-laws are so supportive. Love that hanbok one day I will get one
exactly...its like a Nigerian wedding....everyone shows up...LOL
I am sure your parents love you and that is what is most important. I understand and you had a beautiful wedding!!! You and your husband and the twins are such a lovely family. No worries, its all good!!!
다이애나의 너무 긍정적인생각들.. 눈시울 울컥했을때 저도 같이 울컥했네요. 응원합니다. 그라고 결혼식 축하드리고 항상 행복하세요♡
In 1987 I had a small church wedding with my family and friends here in the US. Six months later I had a second wedding in my husband’s country. In both cases, one of us was without family. Nonetheless, we have had tremendous support from both sides these past 32 years. Indeed, now that there’s Skype and WhatsApp, not a week goes by without communication. The ceremony does not make the marriage, it’s all the ‘stuff’ afterwards.
I think it's common within couple when locations are far apart. International trips aren't the easiest trips. Especially for first time flyers in some cases. Thank you for sharing a similar story! :)
I agree 💯
@@diannainkorea I agree, I got married in Germany in the 37 years ago when me & my husband was in the Army. My parents , nor my husband’s family attended. Same reason as Dianna, fear of flying and going to foreign country. There was an “Alert” on that weekend on the army base, so none of our Army friends were able to attend either. Only two local co-worker Germans (witnesses & interpreters) from our jobs attended and the wedding and the official who married us. We have an international marriage license that is in 20 languages. This was before cell phones, internet ect
This was the best wedding because we were married in a castle and it was small an intimate, in hindsight I have no regrets. We did get to meet each other’s parents in the states.
We are still married today, best husband ever! So as long as you both love each other and your parents are happy for you that is all that counts! God bless you and your beautiful family! 😊💕❤️
I appreciate Diana's thought about her wedding without her parents. She is an understanding person. My wedding was at the courthouse without my parents. We had an excellent marriage for 26 years before my husband's passing. I feel that wedding ceremony is not so important. It depends on how both of you cultivate your marriage life together.
I was a flight attendant and that’s a huge trip for a first time traveling. I’m sure your family was there in spirit celebrating with you. It’s hard enough to get people to travel more than an hour by car.
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You did have "family' at your wedding, your Korean family! They are such an attractive family too! It was neat to see your husbands parents, they raised their son so well and your parents raised you so well too. It was a beautiful ceremony, you are a beautiful couple! God bless now and forever 🙏👏💕 .
yeah..whatever! Her family wasnt there....her side of her family
Thanks for explaining. I still wish someone from your direct family could have been there. It was just sad for no one from your immediate family to be there on your special day. Even having your brothers there would have been sufficient despite them having their own businesses. Their sister was getting married. So, I think they could have made an exception and had someone cover for them. Just my thought. Beautiful wedding though.🙂
splchicago :I agree with you 💯
I completely agree with you
You summed it all up.
That’s a poor excuse for the brother I can see with the parents they are old but the brother he is a man not a chicken it looks bad no family was there.sorry to say your foundation wasn’t the right shade that was for a white person. Wish you all best in your marriage.
The energy and visuals of your wedding.....absolutely gorgeous! So elegant and refined!
Appreciated!
I never noticed your family was missing until recently. Haha! I was just so happy for you! You're not obligated to tell us but thank you for sharing anyway. Have a great week.💕
I'm sorry to hear that your parents couldn't make it.
Your wedding was beautiful and
Thanks for sharing your story.
No problem. Thank you!💕
It was a nice wedding. I am sure your parents were happy to see d the video. ❤️🌻
Thank you! My parents definitely enjoyed being supportive through well wishes. It was also good to have them chime in through a video call as well💕
Everybody has his/her own reason for every circumstances that come and it is normal! I know your parents love you so much for giving so much advice and concern about your wedding! Nothing to worry as long as the relationships between your family and your parents are still ok and happy! Wonderful wedding for the special couple with amazing family!Thanks for sharing your beautiful wedding!
I was very touched by your understanding, gracious spirit, and love for your parents, Dianna. You are very mature. I'm sure they wanted badly to be there for you. Even though it must have felt painful to a degree, you handled the situation with grace. You have loving family on both sides and you are building a very beautiful family filled with love and respect. Thank you for sharing this deep topic. I'm sure many people were very curious as to why your folks weren't there, but don't feel that you 'owe' others an explanation. I have no doubt they were there in spirit and were sending you all their love. You were one of the most elegant and beautiful brides I have ever seen. It was really a large (and very beautiful) wedding; how you handled yourself with such calmness and poise was remarkable. My respect and best wishes from Israel.
It’s understandable that your parents has a fear of flying. It’s a fear in most older people. Glad that your parents love ❤️ your husband. Yes, your husband family is your family!
What a beautiful wedding! I bet your in laws have gone through a lot of preparation and that is remarkable knowing what a wedding involves. You are so loved and blessed. Happy marriage forever to you.
Your wedding was absolutely beautiful! You two were stunning and still are. Its sad your parents were unable to make it.
Stop trying to convince yourself...that the reasons your parents didn't come to the wedding is bc of their jobs. Most people who are afraid to fly will not get on a plane under any circumstances. I'm sorry you didn't have your parents or family with you on your wedding day. It had to have been very isolated and lonely. Memories...and you made it thru. Not to say you didn't fee some kinda way on your special day however...it's a blessing you can still enjoy good times with your parent after the event. Good luck in life, love and marriage.
I’m a believer that God has a plan for each one of us. God knows your new chapter in life would be surrounded by your husband and his fellow countrymen. Your wedding refeclted your new life. He has so much in store
I've seen the videos with your parents and clearly, you have a beautiful relationship with each, so as far as I'm concerned, they were there with you. They were still a major support and you looked so beautiful and happy. Maybe one day you can also have an American wedding when you visit home again!
Thank you Sonja and glad to see you back! The most important thing was being happy and receiving love for both sides. It was an unforgettable event💕
At least one family members could have been there to represent the rest of the family..
I thought so.
Nope!
flying there is not cheap..
Its Beautiful😍😍😍💖🌹
It's awkward to hear that your father and brother was a success bussinessman, (you said it in several times),but they're never going abroad or flying before.. Marriage is one in a lifetime moments..
I’m afraid of flying also and a friend tricked me into going to Jamaica to her wedding... I went but I was scared to death! Coming and going! Whew 😅
Life happens..we love you and all the people that attended your wedding.
Love you Beautiful Soul
The fear of flying is a large concern for many people and not easily over won. Love supports in multiple ways.
Beautiful colors, happy faces, lots of love. Wonderful!
You make a beautiful couple.
People are always curious and too often assume the worse. You are so understanding and kind to explain why your parents were not at your wedding but you didn't have to. It's nobody's business.
Wish you all the best and God's blessings.
So cute how you guys met and your wedding was absolutely magnificent. Never saw a Korean wedding before.
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They were with you in spirit. Their love and prayers surrounded you.
Your parents wasn't
there in person, but
they were there in spirit, and your wedding pictures are
beautiful!!💝🎉
Wow, I’m sorry that you didn’t have anyone for your own life/people/family/friends. And your wedding was absolutely beautiful. Wishing you the best. Wishing your family the best.
That is so beautiful that they came, help to put the wedding together and supported their son in lovewithstanding a TH-cam couple his Korean family didn't even attend the wedding and where against the marriage because the young lady was half black and Philipino, they need to see this it's very impressive.
Your wedding decor was gorgeous!!!!
I think that you are a woman of great courage. I first saw your marriage video and all I could think was where's her family. I am glad that I saw this one.
May God bless your marriage forever more 🙏🏾. Thanks so much for sharing
Thank you so much!
정말 행복하고 사랑이 많은 가족이네요👍👍😎🤣💖
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At least one of your brothers could represent the family
I agree, even a member of the extended family. Anyway, she understands her family best. Besides it was her wedding.
@@valdenelucas2349 But he had time to find his becky though
@@valdenelucas2349 your believing is irrelevant and certainly an unnecessary, naw harsh comment. If there is more to the Story, why do we (the people) deserve all the back Story. She seemed to be treated very well by all these people. Will there presence at the wedding ensure longevity.....No. She really didnt owe any of us an explanation.
Awww! They were there in the spirit. Keep safe, happy and blessed! ❤🎉🍾🥂
The family love and being there in spirit is what matters....all this love is truly amazing💞💞💞
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Hello Mrs. Dianna & Mr. Kyungho. This video was really nice. Mrs. Dianna it is understandable why your parents were not able to attend. The best part is they support the both of you and you are able to visit with them. Thank you so much for making me smile and giggle. Your wedding was gorgeous and I really enjoyed it. I am so happy you released all of it. All the best to both of you, Jun and Minji. Thank you again. Like # 271. Tina in Cali
Good morning Tina!
A beautiful and wonderful blessed couple 💑 and family 👪 ❤
I relate to you on so many levels. I'm much older than you. My mother did not cone to my wedding, although she flew before. When we moved abroad, she would NOT come. She never met her grandkids, I'm happy you guys are able to go there.
My mom is Korean and she never came to see me get married either. I have 5 children and she's never met my youngest 3 children. She only met my first two children one time when they were very little when I went to visit her. We are not close as mother and daughter. I had my youngest child last year in August at the age of 44 and she was not supportive. We haven't talked in three years.
Dianna and hubby God bless you and keep you and your family +in-laws, your American family where with you on that special day in thoughts and spirit. Both of you come from calm reassuring families and that reflects in you and your husband 💝🙏
You guys give me Hope, that a relationship like your can work. My parent give me rules on to who i should marry, just to make it hard for me. Two of them is that the have to be muslim and the wedding need to be in África cause most family are there. 😢 but i am not losing Hope Thank to you guys love story.
My Mother only lived about 1800 miles from me across the US she is terrified to fly so she could not come to.my wedding and driving was not an option as I married in the winter and traveling across US in winter is not good .I can so relate.
결혼은 두사람이 하는거지 부모님하는건아니지요 분득 다이아나가 너무대견스러웠어요 어떤부모가 자식결혼식에 못오시는심정 오죽하셨겠어요 암튼 두분이서 행복하시면 그게결혼생활이라고봅니다 두분다 💕 💜 💏 사랑합니다 💜 💕
Wow beautiful wedding. I wish that I would’ve gotten married and had kids. You’re truly blessed.
I really love that you give a wonderful explanation about your family's absence. My 1st airplane trip was just 1 hour from San Francisco to San Diego, California. My 2nd was 12 hours from San Francisco to Tokyo, Japan to see my Japanese in-laws.
I admit that I was really afraid! However, after that, I traveled to Fiji and also to New Zealand (I thought that flight would never end 😂). I hope that your parents do have a chance to meet your loving in-laws!
공유해 주셔서 감사합니다! ❤
If you had the money you and your husband could have gone back to the US and have a small intimate wedding. But I do understand about flying internationally. I am also petrified flying, especially as I got older and long flights. But sometimes we just have to pray and go out in faith. Your husband’s family are super beautiful and kind, and loving and so much more. They welcome you the planned the wedding and did it all. Everything seem to have turned out so very beautiful even though your family couldn't be there. It all good, thank you for a lovely video of your wedding and your Korean family and friends.
You guys should do a American wedding in America for your side of the family
We are actually thinking this! 😍
I do understand as I've have to get the doctor to give me something to help me fly as for family running a business many people run big business but still find time to go on holiday so that I don't get even if one person from your family had come as it not any event it's your wedding but good on you for been so understanding
Thank you dianna for sharing, i love the way u look at Things 😊😊😊😊
Dianna, you are such a beautiful person inside and out.
Your wedding was beautiful ,oh those colours purple is my favorite, my turkish wedding was also with a lot of people and im married for 30 years.My blessing to you and your family💜💜💜
Tu boda fue demasiado hermosa algo diferente por su cultura que es muy interesante 💕💕👏🏻👏🏻
i rhink your wedding was lovely yes is a disappointment when love ones are unable to attend. This was my case when my son left England to follow his girl friend back to South Africa who had gone home because her visa expired. My son got down and one day he booked his ticket to go get her and by that point his baby boy, 14 years later im a grandmother of five children who are such a blessing My son has a fear of flying and of heights he had to have medicine to help especially when he had to broad a small craft to PE i so proud of him. I had to travel to Jamaica because my mother wasnt well so i couldn’t go to SA or attend the wedding of my son. But we did a small celebration together on their anniversary. Your in laws made your day special xxxx
My late Father was fearful of flying and he was in the Air Force! I on the other hand was never fearful of flying! I am glad you explained why your family wasn't at your Wedding You were a very beautiful BRIDE 🔱🎂😊
I have been watching the vlogs of Cedric, Mazee and Lily Petals as well as yours
also Cole and Charisma l have learned a lot from each one of them especially not jumping to conclusions about people in relationships that I may initially understand at first. Then I have to remember that people may not understand my relationship as that I am 13 years older than my husband 😊
You looked beautiful at your wedding, and it is sad that your American family allowed themselves to miss the event due to fear.
Some phobias are hard to deal with but I think that atleast 1 immediate family member should have been there for support.
Beautiful wedding🌹💞
Damn his family are very cute can’t stop staring at their beautiful skin and it’s amazing how all of his family are there e with you and him ❤️
I have a terrible fear of flying. I would hope I would be able to overcome that if I had to fly for my daughter's wedding, but with phobias, it is hard to tell. I think I would have to be drugged, but I would try that to go. Looks like you had a beautiful wedding. It is sad they had to miss it.
I love how you were able to come to terms with not having your family there. However, I can see that you were disappointed and sad not having your family there. Your wedding was beautiful inspire of not having your culture there. Maybe you can have another wedding in the U.S. or have a beach wedding in the Bahamas Would your parents take a cruise?
I can understand, it is a very long flight. I taught English in South Korea. Prior to my flight, I deprived myself of sleep so I would sleep on the flight. I pray you and your husband enjoy much happiness.🌻
Brave you!! African american have all kinds of fears! That's the reason for so many churches on every corner of their communities. Fear plays a great part of the past. I have been to wedding in this country (America) where either the mom or dad or both didn't show up for support.Most of the time, they didn't like in the africian american, the person their child (Son or daughter) was marrying. You really didn't have to explain, but thank you 😊
The brave you, I so proud of the a young africian american women that don't live the box, they travel and work aboard. My daughter makes director of a large company, have been truly been bless, but not married. I tell her and friends, you guys need to get out the box there is no shortage of men it is a shortage of husbands there is a different. He may be of another race especially for black women with strong characters and great careers. God himself have built you up, the husband has to strong be strong to carried you. Kramer Harris the vice president can testify to that.
I am a Black Elderly woman encouraging, the black young adult women coming behind!!
Dr. Sheliah
Dianna your wedding was beautiful.
Your wedding was fit for a princess.
You're incredibly understanding. You're a credit to those who raised you!
I loved your wedding and it look like it was full of love. Thanks for sharing. Mississippi
My parents and siblings have they own businesses as well , but it didn’t stop them from attending my sister wedding here in the USA and our children birth . It’s all about choices and priorities:(
You are a A brave woman to marry a person that it’s from another culture I would’ve been scared from the beginning to the end just even going to another country would’ve got me scared
Bless your sweet heart. I viewed your wedding video, it was lovely ❤️❤️❤️
I guessed right. They are Aerophobic, yes you're right you can't control it
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처음엔 호기심 으로 봤는데~~ 지금은 구독자가 되어버렸어요 다이애나 화이팅입니다
Watching this has shead a bit more light on the situation with my Son . He suddenly developed a fear of travelling. And because he has Aultism the journey can be crazy . Please God help my Son . Also Diane don’t worry . Celebrate a wonderful anniversary in America one of these years . HML
Hello beautiful Diane with your gorgeous beautiful family especially your gorgeous beautiful twins and you right Diane because I even had fear of flying but sometimes you just have to but you're right some people can try and then some people still afraid to try it then so some people is different you are very very right and may God continue to be with you and your gorgeous husband with your beautiful marriage
Your parents should have put you first before their bondage of fear; you are their daughter, and your father should have been there to walk you down that isles. Your mother also should have been standing next to your father at his side, you are their only baby girl! That's a big moment and Special time in your life! Your second most important day of a young lady life is graduating from college and graduate school,; thirdly, giving birth to your twins! Your brothers also should have at your big day to represent you. I remember finishing graduate school, earning my MAB, and no one in my family was in attendance at my ceremony; not my husband and not even my son and daughter; not even my brother and sister. I still hurt from that, because that was a big day for me, and I have supported my husband through his 20 years of military service. I just think your parents were selfish, just like my husband.
Beautiful couple..I dunno why I don't buy that fear of flying prevented even 1 other person from Dianne's side of family such an important event..🤔
True! When I listened to her explanations its VERY clear they just didn't want to come. It felt more like she was making up excuses for them not wanting to attend the wedding. They knew she was getting married in advance....so they had plenty of time to arrange/plan find someone to help with their businesses🤷🏿♀️. And doesn't she have cousins or relatives that could have attended on behalf of the family....🤔
It does seem strange. Owning a business is more flexibility even if one family member shows up. However I like that her wedding was still beautiful and she was embraced by others.
That fear of flying is real! I don’t have it because I’ve been to 5 continents but I understand. The wedding was beautiful and your husband’s family is your family!
Reminds me of my mother not wanting to attend my graduation from university for the same reason. I was willing to pay for her airfare and accommodation but nope, these incentives still did not faze her. At least my older sister and my aunt, who is like a second mother to me, did attend.
So glad some family came through for you❤
결혼식 사진 정말 아름다워요~~~ 미국에 계신 부모님의 비행기 공포증 이해해요. 제가 가지고 있던 공포증은 극복했지만 여전히 비행기 타는것이 불편해요.
The MINDset is fsntastic❣
See this as a gift💝, because of it. You will enjoy your own family and your new family as well❣
Thank you fore sharing🌼.
Gong-yu haejusyeoseo gamsahabnida🙏🏻🙏🏽
I totally understand how that fear can overtake someone. I have been tra eling for work for over 20 years and I am so afraid of flying, still. I have to pop sedatives everytime.
It's been about 10 years for me and I'm still afraid of flying as well.
They could have taken a Boat to see your Wedding 💒... 😂 😆 Lol! Lot's of Love 💖💖💖
Thank you for sharing this ❤️ I hope that one day they can visit you! 🥰 I know they will enjoy it once they get there. But at least you can still visit with them 😊. Have a Blessed and Happy New year!🙌🏼 🎉
Thank you for coming through! Hope you have a blessed and happy new year as well!♡
@@diannainkorea Your welcome, and thank you ☺️
I wondered the same thing as I watched your wedding. It was still beautiful
Omg I’ve never been this early on a video! Love your channel and although your parents weren’t there I’m sure they sent nothing but love ❤️ the wedding was gorgeous and I can’t wait to see more❤️❤️
I would like to see you and your family (brothers, mom, dad) go on that cruise your dad talked about in the other video
Hopefully one day!
It was a beautiful wedding I may God continue to be with you both and your beautiful marriage
Blessings to you and your husband always!!
Why do your parents have this fear without flying before? Did they hear a lot of things in the news when they were younger about plane crashes? I had a fear of flying when I was younger due to bad turbulence on a flight from UK to NY when I was 14 years old. It’s many years later I’m now over this fear by travelling a lot more, doing solo travelling and I’ve even done sky diving before which was so much fun! I hope they can face their fears one day. The only way you can remove a fear is if you put yourself in the situation you are fearful of.
My parents too were not able to attend my wedding from overseas. I was very ok with it. I had an auntie and uncle visiting so they walked me down the aisle.
Both of ur families must have lot of money to have such a big wedding.. Beautiful!!
다이애나 생각하는 마음이 어른스럽네요.
Your wedding was beautiful and I know your family is very happy for you and wanted to be there I have the same problem I want to go so bad when it come time I change my mind.
I actually didn’t notice your family Bess so happy watching you guys x
I truly understand i didn't fly my whole life my fear was soooooosoooooo deep rooted!!! And then i was invited to Vegas a five hour flight from Philly i had to get flying therapy!!! It dd work a lil i say this because once i got on that plane i thought i was going to die!!/ And then it took off!!!!!! Omg about ten min in this calm came over me and then i just felt stupid because it really wasn't bad at all! And i thought all these yrs I've been scared to death and it was nothing!!!! So i say all that to say my fear was all in my mind but it was real the fear is real
This is me, how do you get flying therpy? Thanks
You guys can meet again and do a cruise for a few days to Mexico or something. It’s so nice to get them out of comfort and as working class people we have to teach our parents to enjoy time off.
both of you looking good together god blessed both of you. I’m addicted to your video.
Yeah - this is complicated. It's very different to have a first flight so late in life and to have it be an extensive long-haul flight 🤷🏾♀️ As an experienced traveler, I really empathize with them 💛
A beautiful couple!