Can we talk about how mature Taylor is??? She didn’t do drama, even when JP hurt her with his words, she stayed and talked to him and was always nice to him… very mature!!! 👏🏻
@@a.sydney5036I was also thinking that too about the teacher part but definitely also after I thought " men she has so much grace and so much love and very accommodating" she was such a class act
I feel like JP knew he was losing Taylor’s interest and latched on to her makeup to excuse himself and the fact he has no personality outside of loving the colors red, white, and blue. I’m so happy Taylor didn’t try to hold on to the relationship and just cut her losses.
Fr fr, because her makeup wasn't even over the top. Additionally, if the makeup was the issue, why did his behavior not change even after she went natural??
bc the makeup wasnt the issue. He doesnt know how to voice himself. He also seemed shy and reserved. I know people like that. They make pretty good listeners tbh. But i see why she seemed unnerved by that
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@@AdaezesSpace I think Aaliyah was young and confused and listening to too many opinions from people. That was a lot to process. And I also think the producers manipulated her to leave the way she did. Lydia is a little cray but Uche is that sneaky narcissist the sneaks up on you and drives you freaking crazy when they are the actual back guy. SMH
@@sb.788yes for real, Uche could've EASILY put out the fire by reassuring Aaliyah and making it abundantly clear that he doesn't like Lydia. Instead he was being so vague and sketchy about it and it made her anxiety worse. And the whole time it seemed he was speaking in riddles to keep the drama alive. Clearly he has zero communication skills bc that drama could've been entirely avoided.
-Lydia is a psycho stalker -Uche a bit of a narcissist -Aaliyah is a confused person -JP acts like Raj in Big Bang theory -Milton is a child 👩🏾🍼 -Izzy is slowly discovering he can’t financially afford to be with Stacey 💸 -Stacey is starting to come off as a bit of a spoiled brat …That’s sums it up
How is Stacey a spoiled brat? There’s nothing wrong with her wanting a nice lifestyle. Izzy is the one moving in her house not the other way around. Izzy is no more than a fuck boy and is not a provider
I was so surprised on his character after the pods. He is bold, knows what he wants and is just more manly than he came off as. He was not letting Lydia bully or trick her way into getting what he wanted from him. I was like 😮 oh Lydia you met your match lol.
Taylor is actually quite the stunner without makeup, but she has every right to wear it whenever she wants because SHE feels good in it. JP can get bent, having such a strong opinion of your partner wearing makeup and thus supposedly presenting themselves as “fake” is some forever alone ass shit.
@@LivingInSimcoeCountyOntariodunno…if your deal breaker is a woman wearing makeup to formal events that’s pathetic. Let’s not act like some preferences are not unreasonable and can’t be called out
Izzy and Stacy are NOT compatible. Izzy barely has a job, he literally started his insurance job a few days before the show. Finances are the number 1 reason couples divorce so Stacy's concerns are valid. Izzy needs a few more years to stabilize his finances before he commits to a marriage. He also gets very uncomfortable when talking about money and it gives the feeling that he is hiding a lot of information. The conversation between Stacy's dad and Izzy was hilarious but also valid. The man wants the best for his daughter.
Ik someone else in the comments called her spoiled but how is she spoiled when Izzy is the one moving in her house… like the fact that this guy doesn’t have real plates and acts like having that stuff is materialistic is so ridiculous. Izzy is not out of his fat boy/ fuck boy era which is the reason why he’s holding onto that lost in found of other women’s stuff. Stacey shouldn’t be quick to marry him
I agree. She definitely made mistakes and deserves to be called out. But she also sat down with Chris and told him exactly what Izzy said and reflected on it. That gives me hope that she can be better. Maybe she doesn't deserve Chris currently, but man do I want someone in this show to not be as horrible as they appear
Izzy: You messed up bad and were a horrible person to Chris! Be better! Johnie: I agree, and now I'm making up for that with Chris. Izzy: No not like that!
What's interesting is that he made it seem like he wasn't going to talk to Jhonie when he saw her but then he goes and asks her to talk. It was bizarre..he should have followed Stacey's lead and not say anything.
I learned a lot about love from these episodes. I learned that love sometimes needs to fly first class. And sometimes love needs more room in the overhead compartment, because love can't be expected to check ALL their bags at the gate. Because you know, sometimes love just needs to skip the baggage carousel and get right to the taxi. And of course love thought ahead for a late check-in time at the hotel. And if Izzy forgets any of this stuff, love will make fun of him to their family.
Lost all respect for Izzy when he attacked Johnie. So unnecessary - just wanted to make her feel awful. He knew he messed up and ran to Stacy for validation after. Chris is the ONLY mature adult there……
Even Marie Kondo said that she's basically given up after having 3 kids. They are overgrown ones. She would be like "not my circus, not my monkeys" and would get out faster than Jackie.
The way ucue speaks to women is gross. He is a perpetual gaslighter and puts people down. Also finding out he cheated on Lydia (and tries tociver by saying he was honest when she asked him about it) after lying to Aaliyah saying he only cheated when he was 18 is disgusting. I was so disappointed in Aaliyah beggin uche for another chance, I hope production paid her for that foolishness. Stacey and Izzy are not compatible. Stacey wants a stereotypical guy but also wants to wear the pants. She is materialistic and wants a guy that’s financially stable which are valid things (I want them too) but her and Izzy are not equally yoked. The plastic silverware argument was ridiculous.
No marriages this season. They literally only have two engaged couples and I can't see either of them getting married. I used this season will be show casing Jhonie and Chris and an angry Uche.
OMG! Yessssss!!!!! Stacey crying over plastic cutlery was so silly and superficial. Izzy is uncomfortable around Stacey, is a little low on self confidence and took out all of his frustrations on Johnnie. I am telling you, he hates the fact that she and Chris worked it out 😂 Uche comes across as a narcissistic, Aaliyah dodged a bullet, I am so happy for her!
The thing with Uche, Aaliyah and Lydia. They shouldn't be blaming each other, they SHOULD be blaming production for not doing research and psych evals at the very least, or traumatizing them on purpose, at the most.
Production surely knew they dated and wanted the drama to make this season different & interesting. Especially with so few couples getting engaged it's really the only thing keeping the season interesting
I think production knew. Uche should have not been a factor anymore but for some reason Netflix decided to still give him camera time to cause drama in that last episode with Lydia. I said to myself his presence wasn't needed. Lol they knew what they were doing. What I find even horrible is that maybe Lydia is right and he is a narc because if he cheated and was hammering Aliyah all along knowing he did that he has an extreme high sense of self..
How? They're having normal arguments. Every time she's confronted she looks like she just got sent to the principals office. Yall overuse gaslighting for everything
Deadass the first batch of episodes I was like “well it’s not that weird that Uche is concerned about the fact that Aaliyah cheated in a previous relationship” and then this new batch opened with that phone call... and Uche just becomes a bundle of red flags. The shit with Lydia is weird and the way he chooses to handle it is getting progressively worse. You didn’t have a fight or anything?? Dude you told her that her new bestie is your ex and that you intentionally both hid that from her!! She was horrified and she had a right to feel that way!! And now you’re putting it all on her during the phone call? Good grief, my dude. I’m afraid what the rest of these episodes is going to bring 😂😭
yeah it disgusts me that he is the type of guy to not consider how a woman feels about “his very recent past” and then continues to make her feel bad for her reaction, only to tell her “you don’t love me because you left” Like ftw!! Aaliyah has a right to feel how she feels- obviously she can’t really process the information- but he completely disregards her feelings over and over. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
He didn't even attempt to reassure Aaliyah that nothing shady was going on with Lydia, instead he communicated in the weirdest/shadiest manner possible. Like DUH she's not gonna trust you after that??? He felt entitled to her trust & devotion despite being a weirdo and giving her no reason to trust him.
JP and Taylor: I haven't been so uncomfortable in my own home for a long time, there were moments when I felt they should send in help and get her out of there, not just because it was awkward but imagine being with someone who would just stare at you and have nothing to say then be expected to sleep in the same bed. I wouldn't want to close my eyes, I keep seeing Jack Nicolson in The Shining, "Here's Johnny". Taylor is a class act and handled the situation with a lot of kindness and grace, and I really liked that JP opened up about his fears, and hugged her both times when she was leaving (the night before and when she left the next day after calling it quits). That whole thing was difficult for both and that was him stepping up in those moments to make a hard situation a little easier.
Yes! She really is a class act. Literally the type of person johnny needs to help him deal his childhood traumas and maladaptive behaviors but that's not the significant other's responsibility so I'm supportive of her leaving. Even when she was hurt she stayed calm, questioned his thinking but still allowed him to talk it out and even then reassured him that speaking was the right thing to do. Johnny still has the qualities his younger self who had to stay silent to not set off his mom. Which to me is what overthinkers do because now everything is filtered to the point where you feel paralyzed to say anything. So ironically both he and Taylor other think except that Taylor speaks her overthinking thoughts and he bottles them in. I think JP is a good guy he just needs some therapy.
@@a.sydney5036 He seems to be a different person when around non-romantic friends. The fact that the guy in the second part of the season was like "if I had a daughter I would want her to date someone like JP". I thought, he must be more social and charismatic than he appears to be on camera. So I could see why they chose him.
JP was “negging” her about the makeup. It’s what men who are insecure do to women to take them down a notch. It’s an excuse because Taylor doesn’t want him.
I did not expect that at all. He acted so weird and bizarre. Not sure if he was drunk or something but it weirded me out and felt uncalled for for sure.
@@destinyschild5768he was jealous, he likes her and covered it up with being aggressive.. He then told Stacey how happy he is to have choosen her like somehow convincing himself that he made the right decision but this was fake and Stacey was feeling it a little bit because she saw how excited he was..
WOWWWW!!! Uche literally just showed up for the sole purpose of sabotaging Lydia’s relationship with Milton. I knew Uche was toxic but this takes the cake! 🤮🤮🤡🤡
Yep, he's a narcissist. I also think he did not like the way Aaliyah looked physically and low key still wanted Lydia to want him. What a turn, I really thought he was a good dude. SMH
@@sb.788Why do you think he didn’t like her physically when she’s the prettiest there? Also he saw her on instagram before and followed her and waited until she unblocked him, to reach out again. He’s still a narcissist but he was definitely attracted to her.
Yeah they were saying that she’s the crazy one and wants him but she didn’t even bring up being with him she wouldn’t have said anything had it not come out so clearly the villain is Uche he needs to go
@@sb.788 he wanted control all the way. That’s why he waited on her to unblock him then he refused her , then he went back to sabotage Lydia’s relationship. He wants the control over people
A man moving into a woman's house is a recipe for disaster. Izzy cant afford Stacy or her lifestyle. Did you see his face when they mentioned going to France for vacation? This man has never even been to California. Nothing wrong with that, but it doesn't seem to be his lifestyle. He looked tense when she brought up finances and does he even have a stable job? Plus, did you see her family home and her dad casually perched up on his sports car! Izzy I'm praying for you playboy.
With season 4 getting three marriages as the final result, production decided this is going to be the season of unhinged, chaotic drama where it'll be a miracle to see even one couple get married at the end of the journey. This season is messy...and I love it. XD lol
But the thing is, the more couples the more drama. And now there are no couples!!!! So it seems like barely anything is happening. So much is resting on this (pre planned) Lydia-Uche drama
Way too much mess, not enough romance. The only couple I’m kinda interested in is Milton and Lydia and even their relationship is being muddied by the whole Uche drama.
Lydia was just tryna get engaged to anyone to get to the second half of the show so she could see Uche again. Then she found out Milton was actually hot and switched up lol.
This just seemed like a much weaker cast than usually. Ofc we don't know about the people who were cut from the show, but it seems like nobody is invested in any of the relationships. Especially compared to last season
How is it disappointing this is the most drama we have ever had from this show 😂 y’all actually wanna watch cute lil love stories ? That end in divorce down the road anyways?
@@Andrea7373_yes, it IS disappointing BECAUSE of all the drama. And yes, I do like the love stories. I mean, isn’t that the point of the show? I would LOVE for all of the relationships to be like Cameron & Lauren or Brett & Tiffany. You know, overall healthy relationships. But I know that’s wishful thinking. LIB is one of the few reality shows I actually watch for that simple reason. Can’t stand the drama 🤷🏾♀️
So wild, I felt the same way. I was smiling when they were on screen every time. And I'm like trying to stop myself from liking them. LOL. The crazy thing is, I think they are going to be the only ones that will say "I, do" because Stacey for sure isn't marrying Izzy's plastic cup, no passport having, lost and found ass. LOL.
I was literally thinking shouldn’t JP’s behaviour be the complete opposite since he now sees Taylor with “no makeup”??? Like that whole situation had my mind racing. I’m glad that’s done
Look Lydia is a piece of work, but all this slander she’s receiving based on what Uche is saying disturbs me. He is full of shit in my opinion and Aaliyah rubs me the wrong was as well. All over the place, Lydia’s gonna be the godmother to my children to she’s smothering me, to she’s amazing to the back and forth blocking and unfollowing and now she’s wants to be with him, I’m confused… does she know what she wants at all? And Izzy is attracted to Johnnie and his need for closer is creepy. She’s your ex? Your engaged! Why do you need closure? He’s still feeling her I think that’s all. And Uche Lydia convo was going nowhere… both of them are messy and Uche needs someone to blame. Making her out to be a stalker … okay! Its like no one wants to take accountability this season
Dude it was kinda clear in the pods that Lydia was excited to hear Uche and suggested they start from zero and rebuild a relationship again. Uche was the one who shut that idea down. Uche is just such a narcissist & horrible communicator that he got mad at Aaliyah for not being ok with his stalker hanging around her.. Aaliyah is the only real victim here. Both Lydia & Uche seem very emotionally manipulative and they both enjoy creating drama a bit too much.
JP is insecure and has some deeper issues, I felt bad for Taylor. Izzy is an egomaniac and wanted both Lydia and Johnie to still want him. Uche is a low-key villain, poor Aaliyah dodged a bullet. I was suprised how much I liked Lydia and Milton together. I think they are the only couple that will get married.
I knew without a doubt he was misrepresenting himself and the Lydia situation. Whenever I see a woman being a bit 'bunny boiler' because of a man, there's usually a reason. @@pixiestxNyomouf
Chris is a fool. That girl come to the side, and then it when it didn't work out and her favor she came back spewing lies. Not only did she lied to Chris to try to manipulate the situation. But then she talked about Stacy and the pods when Stacey did nothing to her. Johnny is fake as hell.
I feel like JP is one of those guys who sees makeup only as the heavy eyeshadow looks and something on the cheeks. Like, Stacy's makeup is makeup. Johnie or Lydia's makeup looks would probably go unnoticed for him 😂
This Uche is a problem…the kind that makes you seem crazy and lets everyone around you think the same!! Lydia and Milton seem happy and they’ve been fun to watch. Izzy is insecure and using poor Johnnie to deflect the real issues he’s dealing with. He’s just realised that he’s not the babe-magnet he thought he was and he’s financially unstable. JP & Taylor - eish! Think that JP guy has some traumas that he hasn’t dealt with and didn’t get a chance to air. I’m glad Taylor called it off though. Aaliyah…and then MoGhel? Uche didn’t love this lady. He dropped her too many times to count - making her feel unworthy. This beautiful woman deserves better! Hope she finds her peace and her Kingdom Husband 🥰
Aaliyah was really focused on the wrong thing in her reason for leaving. All that stuff she said Lydia said was minor to the fact that Uche to reveal the information at all. Uche would have never said a thing even knowing she would find out. Then he wants to blame Aalyiah like she's the bad person. He's the Ahole
I didn’t expect to feel so tender toward Johnie but I actually felt so bad for her when Izzy went after her. It was so wildly unnecessary and the fact that she got with Chris off camera speaks well of her imo.
wow sooo funny how people fall soo easily for cute innocent looking girls CRYING every time she manipulates. lol... she lied the whole time to both guys, begged both of them to married her then talked badly of Stacy out of jealousy...!! She has very low self esteem, needy, and desperate for love but do NOT know how to give love back. She is a broken soul and I now know why her mom told her maybe she is meant to be alone. A mother knows her own kid.
@@sabrinavang8024Izzy has no reason to go off on her tho, she did absolutely nothing to him he's just on a power trip bc he chose another girl to marry and wants to rub it in her face
@@cc-gx8hr I understand your point.. but to me he didn't go off on her... to me he just called her out on her bs. Chris is a friend to him now too. people like her needs to be called out sometimes. but as u can see they deny everything and act like they walk on water still. I know alot of women like Johnnie, even family members. I see them manipulate people all the time like Chris. But quick google looks like Chris isnt even with her anymore. Probably after he actually watched the show and saw the TRUTH of what Izzy was calling her out on. Sometimes seeing and hearing it as it happens can reveal truths. She was out of luck it was all caught on camera. If it was the real world she would have been able to manipulate him into marriage and a few kids before he got out..! He is lucky to be able to get out now. And I dont buy the "they ran into the airport" i believe she followed him, knews exactly where he was going to be and made sure her presence was known due to her unique tone voice she knew he would know. Women like her ive met 1000 times... nothing new
@@cc-gx8hr Also Izzy has a right to call her out because she did it to HIM and Chris. It wasnt like she did it to his brother, friend, etc. She did it to HIM. So he had a right to speak for himself. If it was the OTHER way around, everyone would root and cheer her on. Imagine if it was Izzy who did that to her and stacy and Johnnie called Izzy out. Everyone would be like "girl power" Im a woman and even i think women are given too much grace sometimes just cause they are a woman. Thats why women learn to be so manipulative and cry at the drop of a hat to get their way.
Omg! I love this so much. You literally saved me from having to watch this. I’ll just watch Queen Charlotte for the 10th time to get my romance fix. Also BIP for mess with a side of hope. 😂
This season is perfect example of everything wrong/broken with modern dating and single people. It shows basically every red flag there is. Love is not blind but desperate and damaged people are. I'm sure they will blame it on producers, editing and whatnot.
@@ajh.4131 Producers knew it would create drama and it would get views. It is also why they select people with red flags. They are just doing their job. The show is actually very educational if viewers can separate emotions out of it.
Uche was embarrassed that Aaliyah never showed up in the pods so he took it on himself to embarrass her back by dumping her in person and gaslighting her at every chance. He’s narcissistic and now has a bruised ego
@@sufi8903 uche said he never wanted to speak with her after the phone call... but he kept on waiting for her to unblock him so he can reject her on air. He could have ignored her and not give her his time of day. It was obvious, he didn't like Aaliyah enough. His condescending words said it all. He cant take the rejection when A left him hanging in the pods. Alliyah was childish leaving the pods, but she was going back and forth on her actions and words, which showed that she liked Uche. She was just torn. And Uche used that opportunity just to show the world that HE rejected her in the end.
U mean to tell me i could've just come on here instead of wasting all my nights watching the show while they fill it with b.s to make it long ..thank you for the review ❤
Disagree. I think he is too on the facts and the girls just can't face the truth. Every word that came out of his mouth was legit and made sense. 1. Walking away from the relationship is an immature thing to do. Especially when you are trying to find your other half. Clearly can foresee how this woman will act when she faces problems. 2. With all the evidence been laid out that lydia may have stalked him (assumption), he was trying to clarify with her intentions which she refused to talk about? 3. Having Milton being so young and naive (to some extent) wanted to give him heads up and share his thoughts on Lydia because he doesnt want him to go through the similar path which he went. Ofcourse the decision is up to Milton, but he has his own right to share his opinion. Everyone nowadays calls disagreement as gaslighting. I say it's an over use of the actual word it intends to deliver.
@@kangminko81456 Yeah I'm not talking about any other cast mate, it's the way he talks, the cadence in which he flips the conversation. Hes manipulative and his emotionless eyes scream nutter butters.
• Uche is a narcissist and it explains why he was crying when talking about Lydia to aliyah saying he wants her to be happy. He was crying because he felt guilty for cheating on her. •Aaliyah is battling between her mind and heart and is super confused. She seems to have a good heart but its best she staya away from Uche. • Lydia is extremely desperate, she would have said yes to anyone who proposed to her. Whatever is going on between her and Milton will not last. • Milton still has a lot of growing up to do. • Stacey is very materialstic and I dont think Izzy likes that type of pressure. What they have is just a physical connection, but will eventually fizzle out. • JP has ALOT of issues and some type of trauma. He was awkward from the beginning until the end and then wanted to blame Taylor for it. He is a walking RED FLAG and im so glad Taylor got out of that situation as quickly as she did. • Taylor is a queen. She carried herself with so much grace and kindness. She truly did try to work things out but she knew it was time to walk away She 100% did the right thing and hopefully she never looks back!
I think she may have acknowledged it in the first place. Uche didnt realize her voice, because he had no idea whatsoever about his ex being on the show. What are the chances?! Lydia however, mentioned she noticed him the moment she heard his voice? And Uche mentions he has had a history of Lydia stalking him. So it is assumable that he thinks she got on a show to see him.
I like Lydia. I find her genuine, honest, loud, open. What you see is what you get. And i like her even more out of the pods. She knows Uche well enough to not accept his bullshit and manipulations. Only she can unmask him. You go girl. Stay true to yourself. Even if nobody likes it.
Lydia was being sketchy af about Uche towards Aaliyah tho, he's awful but she clearly had lingering feelings for him. It was wrong to attach herself to the ONE girl Uche was seriously dating in the pods, knowing there's a big secret that's gonna drop on her. She should've kept her distance and kept to herself. But she wanted the drama.
izzy and stacy shittalking johnie and being so mean to her was so unnecessary. like yeah she didnt act the greatest but izzy especially cant seem to let it go. i kinda understand stacys feelings because johnie did talk shit behind her back in the pods. but now its time to move on. izzy boasting to stacy about being mean to johnie was terrible. hope johnie and chris do well. uche is a manipulative aggressive person who seems to be kinda obsessed with lydia. i dont like lydia but uche is taking the cake as the worst one for sure 😂 milton is too young for all of this. taylor dodged a bullet with jp, hope she find someone better.
Taylor asks do you think you could sleep with me for the rest of your life and the response wasn’t a CLEAR YES… She should’ve left… lol😂 or had as much fun in Mexico and then headed home!
Izzy just mad Chris is getting some honey 😂 . I don't understand why he rolled up on her like that. He better worry about his shallow pockets going up against Stacy's deep needs. Me thinks Chris is sitting in the better seat right now😂
Yeah I didn’t understand why he went so hard on Jonnie either. Do you think Stacy hates Jonnie so bad that salesman Izzy thought he’d score some bonus points with her? Kind of like Stacy made a pit bull out of Izzy in that moment. 🤔
@@Miranda-gi9fx I forgot, what did she say about Stacy? I kind of don’t like her vibe. - but I agree I saw some unstableness in Jonnie while in the pods. Yeah she kind of does have some red flags. But for me is still more likeable than Stacy. And I didn’t think those kind of words were warranted from Izzy. He was too harsh in that moment which was supposed to be a conversation.
The way I saw it, Johnie was pretty honest with the guys and showed self awareness. She was going for her usual with Izzy, but then realized it was ok to have a steady, loving relationship with Chris. They are not the first couple to change their minds and quite frankly it is better for them to really date and get to know each other.
The only couple I am looking forward too is johnie and Chris! they’re relationship seemed the most genuine out of the pods when we saw them together with everyone else. Johnie didn’t deserve that from Izzy (I feel like we’re seeing another side of him(Izzy) like chris is over it and Izzy is still being pushy about the whole thing) wishing both J and C the best!!
I dont think the Johnie is genuine. If you are genuine, and true to what you say, you don't go out and say two diff words, then start bad mouthing Izzy just beacuse he didnt choose her. And having been her rebound, so called second choice, she commented Chris as "not exciting" and "a safe choice" is a bit of hurtful, insulting word to comment on someone that you say you love. So how is Izzy calling her out and so called giving advice a wrongful thing to do? It is sketchy, and what she did WAS SKETCHY!!
Johnnie is the "innocent" face manipulator that cries every time she gets caught in her lies. Izzy called her out on it and she stuttered to point she walked away out of embarassment. Chris is those sweet guys that love emotionally damage manipulative women...! If you give him a normal girl level headed woman he will NOT be attracted to her. Met many women like Johnnie and many men like Chris. Same story every time. Only people who are soft hearted falls for women like Johnnies manipulations.
I have never been so disappointed. The first four episodes were riveting and fun and these last three I literally fell asleep. I think what happened is we only have two couples to follow who I don’t like, and the fake drama with all the cast who aren’t even on the show anymore come on?
I'm not even sure what show i'm watching after these last episodes . JP ! where did that come from. Eww! just Eww! i feel his insecurity from the screen. Trying to knock her down coz you feels not good enough was terrible to watch. Uche and Lydia both of yall are crazy. Aliyah needs to really watch these episodes, how does she not see the red flags with Uche? The way he talks to her is demeaning . Johnie i don't think she is a villian just a girl who really needs to go for therapy.
Agree with everything you've said. I also feel Lydia is probably a little less crazy than what is being portrayed, and Uche a bit more. I suspect there is a reason Lydia went a bit bonkers after their breakup. I think he was stringing her along, lying to her, and using her.
I agree with you to. I feel she was in a bad place in her life, Uche made it worse. It seems to me he likes playing jump rope with her emotions. One min he has a lot of love for her the next she's a crazy stalker ex girlfriend. He's version of the story keeps changing yet with her's she keeps revealing new information. And notice how he didn't deny cheating on her? he didn't even react to it. So weird.@@a.r.8954
How is Lydia the crazy one for looking at public profiles on Instagram, especially after she's been cheated on? Honestly, watching Instagram stories that are made to be watched-really? Looking in a couple of drawers isn't that crazy either in that situation. I thought the "invasion of privacy" was going to be breaking into his phone or email or something actually real...but all of this is just drama he's creating for TV. What's the point of even bringing this up?
That’s what I was thinking too! Last time I checked, it’s not illegal to watch instagram stories of “some girls” that Uche happens to follow. Dude has narcissistic tendencies and I don’t blame Lydia for fuming out of that conversation. She was happy with Milton and Uche wanted her night to revolve around him. 😡
That was my first thought, too. Omg, Lydia is looking at people's public stories? 😱 Especially when she knows or suspects cheating? What was weird to me is that supposedly these people were DMing Uche to tell him. Like isn't that what Instagram stories are for? Why is that strange? I do think something is off with Lydia, but the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle of her and Uche's version of what happened between them. When Uche fist told Aaliyah about her behavior I was like 😮, but Lydia's explanation of events makes sense, especially if she thought Uche was cheating. And, most interesting, when Uche first told Aaliyah about his prior relationship with Lydia, one of the first tnings he said was that Lydia was trustworthy. So which is it? Good, trustworthy person who deserves to find love or psycho ex-girlfriend?
I’m not going Dutch on a dinner date with my husband. That’s crazy. She paid for the house (he seems pretty excited to move in to) it’s the least he can do if by your logic he’d pay for a $20,000 ac unit
I agree that men should always pay for dates when you’re married. And to be honest it’s not like he’s really paying anyway lol once you’re married it is both your money, so yes you have your own separate accounts and a joint account but when stuff hits the fan, it’s all a united front. So the act of you pulling up your card to pay for dinner doesn’t mean Much it’s just symbolic.
Izzy and Stacey are definitely bullies. “Omg she was saying nice things to multiple people on a blind dating show” SHOCKER. Izzy was exactly the same only he won’t own it. Stacey is going to turn him worse with her money hungry ways. Messy. I also think Lydia is unstable but Uche probably gaslit it out 2000% more.
Sometimes love is blind. Sometimes love wants to fly first class. Sometimes love just wants a big D.
He told no lies!!!
Don't forget that love also needs to eat.
Rugged ladies, a little rough around the edges. Strong.
Sometime the truth hurt 😂.
Hahaha, I love your sense of humour, it's perfect.
Can we talk about how mature Taylor is??? She didn’t do drama, even when JP hurt her with his words, she stayed and talked to him and was always nice to him… very mature!!! 👏🏻
She was the epitome of grace under pressure. She deserves someone much better than JP.
She is beautiful inside and out, she deserves so much better. I know she will find someone who will treat her like the queen she is.
Yeah. She's a stand out. Think because she's a teacher.
@@a.sydney5036I was also thinking that too about the teacher part but definitely also after I thought " men she has so much grace and so much love and very accommodating" she was such a class act
Absolutely loved how she handled it and didn't try to insult him in return
I feel like JP knew he was losing Taylor’s interest and latched on to her makeup to excuse himself and the fact he has no personality outside of loving the colors red, white, and blue. I’m so happy Taylor didn’t try to hold on to the relationship and just cut her losses.
Fr fr, because her makeup wasn't even over the top. Additionally, if the makeup was the issue, why did his behavior not change even after she went natural??
bc the makeup wasnt the issue. He doesnt know how to voice himself. He also seemed shy and reserved. I know people like that. They make pretty good listeners tbh. But i see why she seemed unnerved by that
@@themysticwarriorgal9465yh it was to the point of awkwardness for me too.
He wasn’t physically attracted to her..
You can tell he’s a Trumper
Izzy and Stacey are basically a Fraternity and a sorority
OMG yes perfect analogy 😂
@pixie...I don't get what you mean. Sororities focus on academic achievement, excellence in intermural sports, philanthropic generosity, involvement in campus clubs, social events, friendship, holding offices including President, Vice President, Historian, and Pledged Member Educator. The sisters are on numerous committees from panhelenic council to planning new member rush. Most campus orientation leaders are members of sororities and fraternities.
@@marniebirger4907😂
@@marniebirger4907 so you've never heard of hazing, abuse or bullying within those communities?
Mean guy and mean girl combo
I give Taylor props for getting out of the situation with the trumper early and not staying on for more camera time.
The young lady with or without makeup is stunning
Who is who to make a woman feel bad for wearing makeup
I’m glad she ended it with his awkward self
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The only person who should feel bad about their makeup… is Stacy 😭 sorry y’all. It’s just so bad.
@@WilliamsPinch OMG the blush. WTH? She actually looks nice without makeup.
The insecurity was pouring out of him. She’s absolutely gorgeous with and without makeup agreed!
I agree! He was so weird about women with makeup
I think Lydia just wanted to get engaged at all cost. She practically begged the guy until he proposed. I’m not sold on that “ love story” at all
that story is super trash….
She seems like a bully she is so derogitive she has nothing positive to say to him .
I'm positive she went on the show with the sole intention of getting back with Uche lol
The whole time it felt like toxic relationship LITE edition.
She needed a ticket to enhance her position
Good Lord I know Uche is a walking red flag, but Lydia is a walking red flag factory. Those two are a match made in Hell 😬
🤣yess!
Yes!🤣
Aaliyah is a walking red bedsheet. 😂
@@AdaezesSpace I think Aaliyah was young and confused and listening to too many opinions from people. That was a lot to process. And I also think the producers manipulated her to leave the way she did. Lydia is a little cray but Uche is that sneaky narcissist the sneaks up on you and drives you freaking crazy when they are the actual back guy. SMH
@@sb.788yes for real, Uche could've EASILY put out the fire by reassuring Aaliyah and making it abundantly clear that he doesn't like Lydia. Instead he was being so vague and sketchy about it and it made her anxiety worse. And the whole time it seemed he was speaking in riddles to keep the drama alive. Clearly he has zero communication skills bc that drama could've been entirely avoided.
-Lydia is a psycho stalker
-Uche a bit of a narcissist
-Aaliyah is a confused person
-JP acts like Raj in Big Bang theory
-Milton is a child 👩🏾🍼
-Izzy is slowly discovering he can’t financially afford to be with Stacey 💸
-Stacey is starting to come off as a bit of a spoiled brat
…That’s sums it up
My impression was:
- Lydia is a bit of a stalker
- Uche is a psycho narcissist
Other than that: agreed. :-)
I think Lydia is a wounded little girl desperate to be loved. I think Uche is painting her as worse than she is. He sucks!
I like uche, hard working man trying to find a decent girl but he only get psycho and drama Queen.
How is Stacey a spoiled brat? There’s nothing wrong with her wanting a nice lifestyle. Izzy is the one moving in her house not the other way around. Izzy is no more than a fuck boy and is not a provider
Stacey's a gold digger, and her dad is enabling her
Imagine being Milton, where his ONLY problem is that he’s a **little** nerdy, and a little young. Which aren’t even real problems lol
I was so surprised on his character after the pods. He is bold, knows what he wants and is just more manly than he came off as. He was not letting Lydia bully or trick her way into getting what he wanted from him. I was like 😮 oh Lydia you met your match lol.
@@G0dismabestfrenyes, I commented him for holding his own but I personally don’t see them as compatible. That’s just me though.
Fr like he may be young but he's not emotionally immature and he has a really great career and has good humor and great intellect. He's a catch!
As long as he doesn't wake up paralyzed like before which would suck.
I feel like he’s gonna get tired of her after a while
Taylor is actually quite the stunner without makeup, but she has every right to wear it whenever she wants because SHE feels good in it. JP can get bent, having such a strong opinion of your partner wearing makeup and thus supposedly presenting themselves as “fake” is some forever alone ass shit.
I feel like it’s fine for him to have that opinion - but using it as an excuse for why he was so quiet and awkward was such a lie
He will just have to date girls who wear very little makeup. It's a preference and he is entitled to that.
@@LivingInSimcoeCountyOntariohe should have mentioned this in the pods and should not be on a show that tests that looks don't matter
@@LivingInSimcoeCountyOntariodunno…if your deal breaker is a woman wearing makeup to formal events that’s pathetic.
Let’s not act like some preferences are not unreasonable and can’t be called out
Izzy and Stacy are NOT compatible. Izzy barely has a job, he literally started his insurance job a few days before the show. Finances are the number 1 reason couples divorce so Stacy's concerns are valid. Izzy needs a few more years to stabilize his finances before he commits to a marriage. He also gets very uncomfortable when talking about money and it gives the feeling that he is hiding a lot of information. The conversation between Stacy's dad and Izzy was hilarious but also valid. The man wants the best for his daughter.
he's got bad credit, remember? lol
@@0103harleyq lmao that too... but he hasn't mentioned it to Stacy, has he?
Agreed!
Ik someone else in the comments called her spoiled but how is she spoiled when Izzy is the one moving in her house… like the fact that this guy doesn’t have real plates and acts like having that stuff is materialistic is so ridiculous. Izzy is not out of his fat boy/ fuck boy era which is the reason why he’s holding onto that lost in found of other women’s stuff. Stacey shouldn’t be quick to marry him
@@destinyschild5768 totally agree! He is still quite immature. Izzy is not even ready for a relationship much less marriage.
I do think Johnnie's made mistakes but I don't like how she's getting pig-piled on so harshly like from Izzy.
I agree. She definitely made mistakes and deserves to be called out. But she also sat down with Chris and told him exactly what Izzy said and reflected on it. That gives me hope that she can be better. Maybe she doesn't deserve Chris currently, but man do I want someone in this show to not be as horrible as they appear
she owned up to her mistakes! and she's dating chris off screen which is respectful
@@rubysaltzman6942they broke up after this show
It’s giving Zanab and Cole
Izzy: You messed up bad and were a horrible person to Chris! Be better!
Johnie: I agree, and now I'm making up for that with Chris.
Izzy: No not like that!
What's interesting is that he made it seem like he wasn't going to talk to Jhonie when he saw her but then he goes and asks her to talk. It was bizarre..he should have followed Stacey's lead and not say anything.
@@G0dismabestfrenexactly. It’s another indicator why Stacy and Izzy aren’t compatible. Stacy is way more mature than he is.
@@ajh.4131 his ego wanted her to think he's hot in person and still be attracted to him as he did with Lydia. He's a f*ck boy with an identity crisis.
@@ajh.4131is she tho? She almost broke up with him over paper plates…
@@mandyyyy1255it wasn’t just paper plates. It was also the drawer issue too.
I learned a lot about love from these episodes. I learned that love sometimes needs to fly first class. And sometimes love needs more room in the overhead compartment, because love can't be expected to check ALL their bags at the gate. Because you know, sometimes love just needs to skip the baggage carousel and get right to the taxi. And of course love thought ahead for a late check-in time at the hotel. And if Izzy forgets any of this stuff, love will make fun of him to their family.
😂😂😂.... Well said....
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I like how you put it. Tthe bar is set so high for him and i only hope he keeps up. I learn a lot form these shows too
Izzy is not financially ready for a woman like Stacey. Sorry, not sorry
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Taylor is hella gorgeous with and without makeup. JP on the otherhand looks like a troll holding a USA flag lol
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😂😂😂😂😂😂somebody had to say it
Agreed. She is way too pretty for him. So happy she left him. ✌🏻
Was so happy she had the confidence to leave him ..😊
I literally choked 😂😂😂 ☠️
Izzy just needs constant validation from women, he keeps the womens things so it can boost his confidence. Man ho
I did not know that they were calling him a player in the pods. 😮 welp I guess everything came be greener.
Lost all respect for Izzy when he attacked Johnie. So unnecessary - just wanted to make her feel awful. He knew he messed up and ran to Stacy for validation after.
Chris is the ONLY mature adult there……
Oh boy
Nobody leaves Uche! 😂,,, he will have the last word!
😂😂😂😂 LMAO that's exactly what I thought
Taylor was waaaayyyyy out of JP's league and he choked😂😂
That’s what I think, I think he saw her and was frozen w fear and instead of stepping up he chickened out 😂
This show needs Marie Kondo to clean up everyone’s mess.
Even Marie Kondo said that she's basically given up after having 3 kids. They are overgrown ones. She would be like "not my circus, not my monkeys" and would get out faster than Jackie.
Lol "NONE OF YOU SPARK JOY! GET OUT!"
@@kohlinoorI’m crying off this comment 🤣
It is tough cleaning up a mess that is also a garbage fire
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The way ucue speaks to women is gross. He is a perpetual gaslighter and puts people down. Also finding out he cheated on Lydia (and tries tociver by saying he was honest when she asked him about it) after lying to Aaliyah saying he only cheated when he was 18 is disgusting. I was so disappointed in Aaliyah beggin uche for another chance, I hope production paid her for that foolishness. Stacey and Izzy are not compatible. Stacey wants a stereotypical guy but also wants to wear the pants. She is materialistic and wants a guy that’s financially stable which are valid things (I want them too) but her and Izzy are not equally yoked. The plastic silverware argument was ridiculous.
He must have been a pastor in a past life because he gives sermons every time he opens his mouth 😑
Yes yes yes!!
You put all of my thoughts into words so eloquently thank you.
No marriages this season. They literally only have two engaged couples and I can't see either of them getting married. I used this season will be show casing Jhonie and Chris and an angry Uche.
I can’t believe she cried over plastic cutlery 😂
OMG! Yessssss!!!!! Stacey crying over plastic cutlery was so silly and superficial. Izzy is uncomfortable around Stacey, is a little low on self confidence and took out all of his frustrations on Johnnie. I am telling you, he hates the fact that she and Chris worked it out 😂 Uche comes across as a narcissistic, Aaliyah dodged a bullet, I am so happy for her!
The thing with Uche, Aaliyah and Lydia. They shouldn't be blaming each other, they SHOULD be blaming production for not doing research and psych evals at the very least, or traumatizing them on purpose, at the most.
Production for sure manipulated the situation for more drama. They knew this was a weak season for couples and they needed the drrama.
Don’t know for sure of course, but I don’t think any of it is a coincidence. I think the producers ate that shit up for more drama.
I think production knew
Production surely knew they dated and wanted the drama to make this season different & interesting. Especially with so few couples getting engaged it's really the only thing keeping the season interesting
I think production knew. Uche should have not been a factor anymore but for some reason Netflix decided to still give him camera time to cause drama in that last episode with Lydia. I said to myself his presence wasn't needed. Lol they knew what they were doing. What I find even horrible is that maybe Lydia is right and he is a narc because if he cheated and was hammering Aliyah all along knowing he did that he has an extreme high sense of self..
Uche gaslit Aaliyah in every conversation. She dodged a bullet
She doesn't seem to see it smh
@@FtWkCnthat’s how it goes at times! Hindsight is 20/20!!
She dodged a major bullet, too bad she wasn’t confident in her intuition.
How? They're having normal arguments. Every time she's confronted she looks like she just got sent to the principals office. Yall overuse gaslighting for everything
Asking important questions = gaslighting. Got it!
Deadass the first batch of episodes I was like “well it’s not that weird that Uche is concerned about the fact that Aaliyah cheated in a previous relationship” and then this new batch opened with that phone call... and Uche just becomes a bundle of red flags. The shit with Lydia is weird and the way he chooses to handle it is getting progressively worse. You didn’t have a fight or anything?? Dude you told her that her new bestie is your ex and that you intentionally both hid that from her!! She was horrified and she had a right to feel that way!! And now you’re putting it all on her during the phone call? Good grief, my dude. I’m afraid what the rest of these episodes is going to bring 😂😭
Very true!!! I hope Lydia just stays classy and stays out of the drama. (I have not finished the episodes yet)
@@AllieThrifts😮😮😂
yeah it disgusts me that he is the type of guy to not consider how a woman feels about “his very recent past” and then continues to make her feel bad for her reaction, only to tell her
“you don’t love me because you left”
Like ftw!! Aaliyah has a right to feel how she feels- obviously she can’t really process the information- but he completely disregards her feelings over and over. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
He didn't even attempt to reassure Aaliyah that nothing shady was going on with Lydia, instead he communicated in the weirdest/shadiest manner possible. Like DUH she's not gonna trust you after that??? He felt entitled to her trust & devotion despite being a weirdo and giving her no reason to trust him.
The rest of the episodes brought boredom
Half of the cast is nuts this season
JP and Taylor: I haven't been so uncomfortable in my own home for a long time, there were moments when I felt they should send in help and get her out of there, not just because it was awkward but imagine being with someone who would just stare at you and have nothing to say then be expected to sleep in the same bed. I wouldn't want to close my eyes, I keep seeing Jack Nicolson in The Shining, "Here's Johnny". Taylor is a class act and handled the situation with a lot of kindness and grace, and I really liked that JP opened up about his fears, and hugged her both times when she was leaving (the night before and when she left the next day after calling it quits). That whole thing was difficult for both and that was him stepping up in those moments to make a hard situation a little easier.
Yes! She really is a class act. Literally the type of person johnny needs to help him deal his childhood traumas and maladaptive behaviors but that's not the significant other's responsibility so I'm supportive of her leaving. Even when she was hurt she stayed calm, questioned his thinking but still allowed him to talk it out and even then reassured him that speaking was the right thing to do. Johnny still has the qualities his younger self who had to stay silent to not set off his mom. Which to me is what overthinkers do because now everything is filtered to the point where you feel paralyzed to say anything. So ironically both he and Taylor other think except that Taylor speaks her overthinking thoughts and he bottles them in. I think JP is a good guy he just needs some therapy.
They are just not a match. But also, how was JP ever selected???.... no personality whatsoever. Did not enough people apply???
@@a.sydney5036 He seems to be a different person when around non-romantic friends. The fact that the guy in the second part of the season was like "if I had a daughter I would want her to date someone like JP". I thought, he must be more social and charismatic than he appears to be on camera. So I could see why they chose him.
Plus, you can be sure the editing was done in a way to accentuate the awkwardness to emphasize the dramatic element of it
Taylor is awesome. She was nothing but patient and kind with JP and her communication skills are A+
"Love ain't blind, love gouged its eyes out!" ~ Bachelor Fantake 🤣🤣🤣
JP was “negging” her about the makeup. It’s what men who are insecure do to women to take them down a notch. It’s an excuse because Taylor doesn’t want him.
I tried to watch E5 for solid 5 minutes before I gave up and decided to watch your recap instead.
Best decision ever. Thank you for saving my time ✌
Johnny doesn’t deserve what Izzy said and her relationship with Chris none of his business that was horrible to treat her like that
I did not expect that at all. He acted so weird and bizarre. Not sure if he was drunk or something but it weirded me out and felt uncalled for for sure.
It felt unnecessarily mean. What happened to Mr. “I don’t like end on bad terms with anyone “
Izzy confronted her just like Lydia because he wants these women to still care about his ass even though he rejected him. He needs to move on
@@destinyschild5768he was jealous, he likes her and covered it up with being aggressive.. He then told Stacey how happy he is to have choosen her like somehow convincing himself that he made the right decision but this was fake and Stacey was feeling it a little bit because she saw how excited he was..
This is the first commentary where I've seen people defend Jhonnie... interesting.
If JP wanted to argue about makeup… he should be talking to STACY.
Somebody needs to tell her 💔
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This killed me. That blush ain't it!
Umm yeah; Stacy was a whole other person. I guess JP Trump couldn’t handle her.
I think the bronzer/blush is too warm for her skin tone 😅
lmao right
WOWWWW!!! Uche literally just showed up for the sole purpose of sabotaging Lydia’s relationship with Milton. I knew Uche was toxic but this takes the cake! 🤮🤮🤡🤡
Yep, he's a narcissist. I also think he did not like the way Aaliyah looked physically and low key still wanted Lydia to want him. What a turn, I really thought he was a good dude. SMH
@@sb.788: I never, EVER saw a “good dude” in Uche. Ever. 😂
@@sb.788Why do you think he didn’t like her physically when she’s the prettiest there? Also he saw her on instagram before and followed her and waited until she unblocked him, to reach out again. He’s still a narcissist but he was definitely attracted to her.
Yeah they were saying that she’s the crazy one and wants him but she didn’t even bring up being with him she wouldn’t have said anything had it not come out so clearly the villain is Uche he needs to go
@@sb.788 he wanted control all the way. That’s why he waited on her to unblock him then he refused her , then he went back to sabotage Lydia’s relationship. He wants the control over people
A man moving into a woman's house is a recipe for disaster. Izzy cant afford Stacy or her lifestyle. Did you see his face when they mentioned going to France for vacation? This man has never even been to California. Nothing wrong with that, but it doesn't seem to be his lifestyle. He looked tense when she brought up finances and does he even have a stable job? Plus, did you see her family home and her dad casually perched up on his sports car! Izzy I'm praying for you playboy.
Exactly. Her dad asking if Izzy could sustain her lifestyle and him responding "the skys the limit". What are we 18? What's a realistic salary...
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Love is blind until the credit card needs to get paid.
Finally someone said it. Izzy definitely doesn't have enough money 😒
With season 4 getting three marriages as the final result, production decided this is going to be the season of unhinged, chaotic drama where it'll be a miracle to see even one couple get married at the end of the journey. This season is messy...and I love it. XD lol
But the thing is, the more couples the more drama. And now there are no couples!!!! So it seems like barely anything is happening. So much is resting on this (pre planned) Lydia-Uche drama
With only 2 couples now there isn't much to show. This season is disappointing.
You are 100 % spot on about uche im glad you called his behavior out he is a walking red flag ....the worst is that he has zero awareness.
Way too much mess, not enough romance. The only couple I’m kinda interested in is Milton and Lydia and even their relationship is being muddied by the whole Uche drama.
Lydia and Milton are my favorite couple. I'm rooting for their success and happiness!
We’ll see
@@AllieThrifts
The mother and child?? You know damn well that is going to turn into all kinds of dirty diapers
Lydia was just tryna get engaged to anyone to get to the second half of the show so she could see Uche again. Then she found out Milton was actually hot and switched up lol.
Yes they’re the only couple I like
Aaliyah's curls popping!
I was excited for this season. Now I'm dissapointed...... We are down to TWO couples??????? OMG
Yeah and they aren’t really that strong. I feel like they are toxic/problematic.
This just seemed like a much weaker cast than usually. Ofc we don't know about the people who were cut from the show, but it seems like nobody is invested in any of the relationships. Especially compared to last season
How is it disappointing this is the most drama we have ever had from this show 😂 y’all actually wanna watch cute lil love stories ? That end in divorce down the road anyways?
I foresee no succesfull weddings this time
@@Andrea7373_yes, it IS disappointing BECAUSE of all the drama. And yes, I do like the love stories. I mean, isn’t that the point of the show? I would LOVE for all of the relationships to be like Cameron & Lauren or Brett & Tiffany. You know, overall healthy relationships. But I know that’s wishful thinking.
LIB is one of the few reality shows I actually watch for that simple reason. Can’t stand the drama 🤷🏾♀️
Personally i want to know how Milton, and lydia's connection seems the best ,and genuine? When did that happen?! Im actually very pleased for them.
Same!!!
So wild, I felt the same way. I was smiling when they were on screen every time. And I'm like trying to stop myself from liking them. LOL. The crazy thing is, I think they are going to be the only ones that will say "I, do" because Stacey for sure isn't marrying Izzy's plastic cup, no passport having, lost and found ass. LOL.
Lydia is just trying to do her best to get to the altar because she feels insecure about Uche and she is desperate
Lydia is an evil dictator towards him. It will grow old really quickly
I feel like Lydia will be controlling over milton because of his age.... just a vibe I'm feeling
I was literally thinking shouldn’t JP’s behaviour be the complete opposite since he now sees Taylor with “no makeup”??? Like that whole situation had my mind racing. I’m glad that’s done
Look Lydia is a piece of work, but all this slander she’s receiving based on what Uche is saying disturbs me. He is full of shit in my opinion and Aaliyah rubs me the wrong was as well. All over the place, Lydia’s gonna be the godmother to my children to she’s smothering me, to she’s amazing to the back and forth blocking and unfollowing and now she’s wants to be with him, I’m confused… does she know what she wants at all? And Izzy is attracted to Johnnie and his need for closer is creepy. She’s your ex? Your engaged! Why do you need closure? He’s still feeling her I think that’s all. And Uche Lydia convo was going nowhere… both of them are messy and Uche needs someone to blame. Making her out to be a stalker … okay! Its like no one wants to take accountability this season
Dude it was kinda clear in the pods that Lydia was excited to hear Uche and suggested they start from zero and rebuild a relationship again. Uche was the one who shut that idea down. Uche is just such a narcissist & horrible communicator that he got mad at Aaliyah for not being ok with his stalker hanging around her.. Aaliyah is the only real victim here. Both Lydia & Uche seem very emotionally manipulative and they both enjoy creating drama a bit too much.
There was no reason for Izzy to talk down to Johnnie that way. He is just mad because he knows Stacy isn't going to marry him
For all these "dating" shows I feel like you have to fail the psych eval to be cast lol
JP is insecure and has some deeper issues, I felt bad for Taylor. Izzy is an egomaniac and wanted both Lydia and Johnie to still want him. Uche is a low-key villain, poor Aaliyah dodged a bullet. I was suprised how much I liked Lydia and Milton together. I think they are the only couple that will get married.
Uche creeps me the fvkk out 🙅♀️. I'd like to see their entire cut, Uche and Aaliyah, i don't get what they have going on between them 😂
ugh since he really held up with that cheating conversation stint its giving insecure
He's a hypocrite. I called it.
I knew without a doubt he was misrepresenting himself and the Lydia situation. Whenever I see a woman being a bit 'bunny boiler' because of a man, there's usually a reason. @@pixiestxNyomouf
Izzy is acting like a loser. He has lots of muscles but not enough character and maturity as a man.
Johnie and chris looks lovely together.
Chris is a fool. That girl come to the side, and then it when it didn't work out and her favor she came back spewing lies. Not only did she lied to Chris to try to manipulate the situation. But then she talked about Stacy and the pods when Stacey did nothing to her. Johnny is fake as hell.
I feel like JP is one of those guys who sees makeup only as the heavy eyeshadow looks and something on the cheeks. Like, Stacy's makeup is makeup. Johnie or Lydia's makeup looks would probably go unnoticed for him 😂
This Uche is a problem…the kind that makes you seem crazy and lets everyone around you think the same!!
Lydia and Milton seem happy and they’ve been fun to watch.
Izzy is insecure and using poor Johnnie to deflect the real issues he’s dealing with. He’s just realised that he’s not the babe-magnet he thought he was and he’s financially unstable.
JP & Taylor - eish! Think that JP guy has some traumas that he hasn’t dealt with and didn’t get a chance to air. I’m glad Taylor called it off though.
Aaliyah…and then MoGhel? Uche didn’t love this lady. He dropped her too many times to count - making her feel unworthy. This beautiful woman deserves better! Hope she finds her peace and her Kingdom Husband 🥰
So happy for johnie & chris honestly. They feel like the most genuine couple to come out of this season
If I liked her then I’d be happy for them. If he wasn’t a simp I’d be be happy for him.
I agree!! I love them together and I feel like I saw a whole diff side to johnnie on this ep. I wish them the best
Well this didn’t age well 😭
Aaliyah was really focused on the wrong thing in her reason for leaving. All that stuff she said Lydia said was minor to the fact that Uche to reveal the information at all. Uche would have never said a thing even knowing she would find out. Then he wants to blame Aalyiah like she's the bad person. He's the Ahole
I didn’t expect to feel so tender toward Johnie but I actually felt so bad for her when Izzy went after her. It was so wildly unnecessary and the fact that she got with Chris off camera speaks well of her imo.
wow sooo funny how people fall soo easily for cute innocent looking girls CRYING every time she manipulates. lol... she lied the whole time to both guys, begged both of them to married her then talked badly of Stacy out of jealousy...!! She has very low self esteem, needy, and desperate for love but do NOT know how to give love back. She is a broken soul and I now know why her mom told her maybe she is meant to be alone. A mother knows her own kid.
@@sabrinavang8024Izzy has no reason to go off on her tho, she did absolutely nothing to him he's just on a power trip bc he chose another girl to marry and wants to rub it in her face
Maybe he heard what she said about his credit score
@@cc-gx8hr I understand your point.. but to me he didn't go off on her... to me he just called her out on her bs. Chris is a friend to him now too. people like her needs to be called out sometimes. but as u can see they deny everything and act like they walk on water still. I know alot of women like Johnnie, even family members. I see them manipulate people all the time like Chris. But quick google looks like Chris isnt even with her anymore. Probably after he actually watched the show and saw the TRUTH of what Izzy was calling her out on. Sometimes seeing and hearing it as it happens can reveal truths. She was out of luck it was all caught on camera. If it was the real world she would have been able to manipulate him into marriage and a few kids before he got out..! He is lucky to be able to get out now. And I dont buy the "they ran into the airport" i believe she followed him, knews exactly where he was going to be and made sure her presence was known due to her unique tone voice she knew he would know. Women like her ive met 1000 times... nothing new
@@cc-gx8hr Also Izzy has a right to call her out because she did it to HIM and Chris. It wasnt like she did it to his brother, friend, etc. She did it to HIM. So he had a right to speak for himself. If it was the OTHER way around, everyone would root and cheer her on. Imagine if it was Izzy who did that to her and stacy and Johnnie called Izzy out. Everyone would be like "girl power" Im a woman and even i think women are given too much grace sometimes just cause they are a woman. Thats why women learn to be so manipulative and cry at the drop of a hat to get their way.
"Speaking of moving on....WE CAN'T " 😂😂😂😂
I love the Arrested Development references! And the pic of Lydia in the video thumbnail is hilarious
That Joker edit was the MVP of this recap😂.
literally replayed that part 10 times🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg! I love this so much. You literally saved me from having to watch this. I’ll just watch Queen Charlotte for the 10th time to get my romance fix. Also BIP for mess with a side of hope. 😂
BIP? whats that?
Bachelor in paradise. 😀
This season is perfect example of everything wrong/broken with modern dating and single people. It shows basically every red flag there is. Love is not blind but desperate and damaged people are. I'm sure they will blame it on producers, editing and whatnot.
I only blame producers for letting both Uche and Lydia on the show knowing damn well they knew each other. Other than that, I think you’re right.
@@ajh.4131 Producers knew it would create drama and it would get views. It is also why they select people with red flags. They are just doing their job.
The show is actually very educational if viewers can separate emotions out of it.
Uche was embarrassed that Aaliyah never showed up in the pods so he took it on himself to embarrass her back by dumping her in person and gaslighting her at every chance. He’s narcissistic and now has a bruised ego
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She followed him and sent him voice notes and arranged the meeting 😂😂😂😂😂
...but he's the problem in this equation
@@sufi8903 uche said he never wanted to speak with her after the phone call... but he kept on waiting for her to unblock him so he can reject her on air. He could have ignored her and not give her his time of day. It was obvious, he didn't like Aaliyah enough. His condescending words said it all. He cant take the rejection when A left him hanging in the pods. Alliyah was childish leaving the pods, but she was going back and forth on her actions and words, which showed that she liked Uche. She was just torn. And Uche used that opportunity just to show the world that HE rejected her in the end.
@@TinayMWELL SAID! 🎉
Well… I think there will be ZERO marriages this year
The Uche stuff... Jessie Woo called it 😂😂
U mean to tell me i could've just come on here instead of wasting all my nights watching the show while they fill it with b.s to make it long ..thank you for the review ❤
Uche has to be one of the creepiest dudes ever. Something about him freaks me out so bad.
Agreed
Disagree.
I think he is too on the facts and the girls just can't face the truth.
Every word that came out of his mouth was legit and made sense. 1. Walking away from the relationship is an immature thing to do. Especially when you are trying to find your other half. Clearly can foresee how this woman will act when she faces problems.
2. With all the evidence been laid out that lydia may have stalked him (assumption), he was trying to clarify with her intentions which she refused to talk about?
3. Having Milton being so young and naive (to some extent) wanted to give him heads up and share his thoughts on Lydia because he doesnt want him to go through the similar path which he went. Ofcourse the decision is up to Milton, but he has his own right to share his opinion.
Everyone nowadays calls disagreement as gaslighting.
I say it's an over use of the actual word it intends to deliver.
@@kangminko81456uh oh Uche logged into his alt account
@@cc-gx8hr PRECISELY, that's what I thought too.
@@kangminko81456 Yeah I'm not talking about any other cast mate, it's the way he talks, the cadence in which he flips the conversation. Hes manipulative and his emotionless eyes scream nutter butters.
• Uche is a narcissist and it explains why he was crying when talking about Lydia to aliyah saying he wants her to be happy. He was crying because he felt guilty for cheating on her.
•Aaliyah is battling between her mind and heart and is super confused. She seems to have a good heart but its best she staya away from Uche.
• Lydia is extremely desperate, she would have said yes to anyone who proposed to her. Whatever is going on between her and Milton will not last.
• Milton still has a lot of growing up to do.
• Stacey is very materialstic and I dont think Izzy likes that type of pressure. What they have is just a physical connection, but will eventually fizzle out.
• JP has ALOT of issues and some type of trauma. He was awkward from the beginning until the end and then wanted to blame Taylor for it. He is a walking RED FLAG and im so glad Taylor got out of that situation as quickly as she did.
• Taylor is a queen. She carried herself with so much grace and kindness. She truly did try to work things out but she knew it was time to walk away
She 100% did the right thing and hopefully she never looks back!
Am I the only one sick of the sex scenes in tv shows ESPECIALLY reality TV. It just feels creepy and uncomfortable.
Since these last three episodes were so boring, I felt like they filled 50% of it with people kissing. That got to me.
Dont watch the show but love the recaps!
Same!
wise, very wise
Uche freaks out on aaliyah for suggesting that maby lydia came on the show on purpose....than comes to the same conclusion later
I think she may have acknowledged it in the first place.
Uche didnt realize her voice, because he had no idea whatsoever about his ex being on the show. What are the chances?! Lydia however, mentioned she noticed him the moment she heard his voice? And Uche mentions he has had a history of Lydia stalking him.
So it is assumable that he thinks she got on a show to see him.
This is all for drama by Netflix. They made sure he showed up again to stir up the pot
He’s such a disappointment.
I like Lydia. I find her genuine, honest, loud, open. What you see is what you get. And i like her even more out of the pods. She knows Uche well enough to not accept his bullshit and manipulations. Only she can unmask him. You go girl. Stay true to yourself. Even if nobody likes it.
yesss!
Yes. Team Lydia
Lydia was being sketchy af about Uche towards Aaliyah tho, he's awful but she clearly had lingering feelings for him. It was wrong to attach herself to the ONE girl Uche was seriously dating in the pods, knowing there's a big secret that's gonna drop on her. She should've kept her distance and kept to herself. But she wanted the drama.
Agreed
Lydia is Uches Karma in this show and i like it how karma plays here 😁
izzy and stacy shittalking johnie and being so mean to her was so unnecessary. like yeah she didnt act the greatest but izzy especially cant seem to let it go. i kinda understand stacys feelings because johnie did talk shit behind her back in the pods. but now its time to move on. izzy boasting to stacy about being mean to johnie was terrible. hope johnie and chris do well. uche is a manipulative aggressive person who seems to be kinda obsessed with lydia. i dont like lydia but uche is taking the cake as the worst one for sure 😂 milton is too young for all of this. taylor dodged a bullet with jp, hope she find someone better.
Sometimes love wants to fly first class SENT ME. Like….
Taylor asks do you think you could sleep with me for the rest of your life and the response wasn’t a CLEAR YES… She should’ve left… lol😂 or had as much fun in Mexico and then headed home!
Izzy just mad Chris is getting some honey 😂 . I don't understand why he rolled up on her like that. He better worry about his shallow pockets going up against Stacy's deep needs. Me thinks Chris is sitting in the better seat right now😂
Yeah I didn’t understand why he went so hard on Jonnie either. Do you think Stacy hates Jonnie so bad that salesman Izzy thought he’d score some bonus points with her? Kind of like Stacy made a pit bull out of Izzy in that moment. 🤔
@@arielstarr8524 Don't forget that it's Johnnie who started badmouthing Stacy and then Izzy when he dumped her. She's weird.
@@Miranda-gi9fx I forgot, what did she say about Stacy? I kind of don’t like her vibe. - but I agree I saw some unstableness in Jonnie while in the pods. Yeah she kind of does have some red flags. But for me is still more likeable than Stacy.
And I didn’t think those kind of words were warranted from Izzy. He was too harsh in that moment which was supposed to be a conversation.
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I will say its nice to see izzy is trying but in the long run i think their financial differences might break them .
The way I saw it, Johnie was pretty honest with the guys and showed self awareness. She was going for her usual with Izzy, but then realized it was ok to have a steady, loving relationship with Chris. They are not the first couple to change their minds and quite frankly it is better for them to really date and get to know each other.
Milton being romantic is so gross. It’s like seeing kids in middle school making out 🤢
Fr and I'm the same age as him lol, he seems like a child
They’re such an odd pairing, very awkward and inauthentic 😅
That is so rude..
The only couple I am looking forward too is johnie and Chris! they’re relationship seemed the most genuine out of the pods when we saw them together with everyone else. Johnie didn’t deserve that from Izzy (I feel like we’re seeing another side of him(Izzy) like chris is over it and Izzy is still being pushy about the whole thing) wishing both J and C the best!!
Yes!!
Izzy is a messy drunk. I think he was clearing drunk in that scene and also that first beach 1:1 with Lydia.
I dont think the Johnie is genuine. If you are genuine, and true to what you say, you don't go out and say two diff words, then start bad mouthing Izzy just beacuse he didnt choose her. And having been her rebound, so called second choice, she commented Chris as "not exciting" and "a safe choice" is a bit of hurtful, insulting word to comment on someone that you say you love. So how is Izzy calling her out and so called giving advice a wrongful thing to do? It is sketchy, and what she did WAS SKETCHY!!
Johnnie is the "innocent" face manipulator that cries every time she gets caught in her lies. Izzy called her out on it and she stuttered to point she walked away out of embarassment. Chris is those sweet guys that love emotionally damage manipulative women...! If you give him a normal girl level headed woman he will NOT be attracted to her. Met many women like Johnnie and many men like Chris. Same story every time. Only people who are soft hearted falls for women like Johnnies manipulations.
I said since episode 4 last week that Lydia KNEW Uche was going on love is blind.
I crackled at your recaps they are hilarious the pickachu meme will always be iconic 😂.
*Uche The Lying Lawyer* !!!!
lol
Back on it with the quick uploads holy CRAP youre good
Dude, your summaries are always the best.
Izzy was so activated because he still has feelings for Jonnie. And yes they were all as bad as eachother in that moment - Izzy, Stacey and Jonnie.
What did Stacey do?
This review is so funny, I have laughed so hard😂😂😂
Izzy acting like wanting to have plates in your kitchen is materialistic okaaayyy 🤨
I have never been so disappointed. The first four episodes were riveting and fun and these last three I literally fell asleep. I think what happened is we only have two couples to follow who I don’t like, and the fake drama with all the cast who aren’t even on the show anymore come on?
I'm not even sure what show i'm watching after these last episodes . JP ! where did that come from. Eww! just Eww! i feel his insecurity from the screen. Trying to knock her down coz you feels not good enough was terrible to watch. Uche and Lydia both of yall are crazy. Aliyah needs to really watch these episodes, how does she not see the red flags with Uche? The way he talks to her is demeaning . Johnie i don't think she is a villian just a girl who really needs to go for therapy.
Agree with everything you've said. I also feel Lydia is probably a little less crazy than what is being portrayed, and Uche a bit more. I suspect there is a reason Lydia went a bit bonkers after their breakup. I think he was stringing her along, lying to her, and using her.
I agree with you to. I feel she was in a bad place in her life, Uche made it worse. It seems to me he likes playing jump rope with her emotions. One min he has a lot of love for her the next she's a crazy stalker ex girlfriend. He's version of the story keeps changing yet with her's she keeps revealing new information. And notice how he didn't deny cheating on her? he didn't even react to it. So weird.@@a.r.8954
I am absolutely loving all this content, you have me cackling out loud 😂😂😂
the lucille bluth clip has me dead everytime
thank you for this video! you are quick!!😂❤️
Izzy’s “normal job” sounded a lot like an MLM 😬
Ohhh shit
Thank you for the recap! Between Golden Bachelor, Bachelor in Paradise, other shows I watch, watching LIB is out of my tv rotation
I can’t stand Izzy. So glad Johnnie escaped that sh*t show
Just when I started to like Izzy after the chat with Stacey’s parents, I remembered why I couldn’t stand him the way he treated johnnie.
@@bt2598 yes exactly
How is Lydia the crazy one for looking at public profiles on Instagram, especially after she's been cheated on? Honestly, watching Instagram stories that are made to be watched-really? Looking in a couple of drawers isn't that crazy either in that situation. I thought the "invasion of privacy" was going to be breaking into his phone or email or something actually real...but all of this is just drama he's creating for TV. What's the point of even bringing this up?
That’s what I was thinking too! Last time I checked, it’s not illegal to watch instagram stories of “some girls” that Uche happens to follow. Dude has narcissistic tendencies and I don’t blame Lydia for fuming out of that conversation. She was happy with Milton and Uche wanted her night to revolve around him. 😡
That was my first thought, too. Omg, Lydia is looking at people's public stories? 😱 Especially when she knows or suspects cheating? What was weird to me is that supposedly these people were DMing Uche to tell him. Like isn't that what Instagram stories are for? Why is that strange?
I do think something is off with Lydia, but the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle of her and Uche's version of what happened between them. When Uche fist told Aaliyah about her behavior I was like 😮, but Lydia's explanation of events makes sense, especially if she thought Uche was cheating.
And, most interesting, when Uche first told Aaliyah about his prior relationship with Lydia, one of the first tnings he said was that Lydia was trustworthy. So which is it? Good, trustworthy person who deserves to find love or psycho ex-girlfriend?
Love needs to fly first class! 😅
Honestly uche is really mature and knows how to communicate correctly. He handled all the conflict great honestly.
He went hard on ayliaha’s cheating, so no he did. It communicate correctly on the show.
Yet, he cheated too lol😂
I'm all kinds of petty and would have worn a full face of makeup the next morning 🤷🏽♀️💅🏾💁🏽♀️
I’m gonna be all the way Foreal rn .. I don’t believe Uche at all anymore .. Lydia has diarrhea of the mouth she ain’t lying
That’s so true. Here’s this super calculated guy who has a superiority complex vs a girl that can’t keep her mouth shut… who are we believing
Totally the "I see you" text was taken out of context to make Lydia look crazy.
What about what Aaliya said about Lydia??? Is that Uche too
@@sufi8903 go defend Uche somewhere else, Aaliyah’s pick me ass should’ve checked Lydia, she didn’t. Uche is a fuck boy, it’s that simple.
I’m not going Dutch on a dinner date with my husband. That’s crazy. She paid for the house (he seems pretty excited to move in to) it’s the least he can do if by your logic he’d pay for a $20,000 ac unit
I agree that men should always pay for dates when you’re married. And to be honest it’s not like he’s really paying anyway lol once you’re married it is both your money, so yes you have your own separate accounts and a joint account but when stuff hits the fan, it’s all a united front. So the act of you pulling up your card to pay for dinner doesn’t mean Much it’s just symbolic.
I don’t get what’s so crazy about it
Izzy and Stacey are definitely bullies. “Omg she was saying nice things to multiple people on a blind dating show” SHOCKER. Izzy was exactly the same only he won’t own it. Stacey is going to turn him worse with her money hungry ways. Messy. I also think Lydia is unstable but Uche probably gaslit it out 2000% more.
I'm surprised no one else has called Izzy out! He WAS doing the same thing...hypocrite
Dang that was fast, caught between just watch the recap or watch the show and then the recap cause I’m watching the recap regardless
Imagine if JP got Stacy instead Taylor 😅😅😅 the suprise
Omg😂