“me proposing to you would be ONE OF THE GREATEST MOMENTS OF YOUR LIFE!!!!” Matthew shows signs of Narcissistic Personality traits, strong!!! The psychologist/psychiatrist did good with casting! Even with therapy, gosh…. Ya!!! The editing!!!! THE EDITING!!!
Yeah never trust a man who is that casually rude and dismissive with other women but super loving with you. How he treats the women he wants nothing from is his true face.
Matthew terrifies me to my core. Love is blind consistently brings on the most abusive personality types I've ever seen. In a way it might be good for an audience to learn that lesson, that these people are out there, and they can seem VERY genuine, and make you question yourself even when you just saw them be awful.
This man is a dangerous calculating sociopath. I just want the women tone smarter. Some men will say anything to WIN. It’s a game. Not a show about love.
Honestly, I used to feel bad for people like him who seem a little too naturally calculating for their own good but I’m just like over it . They need their own society and bubble of narcissists 😂
No seriously - my jaw hit the floor. Not because she isn't gorgeous but because comparing yourself to Megan Fox paints a very specific image in one's mind. The woman legit looks like she was generated by AI 😂
@@Mamatia22please, what are you talking about ???? Look at Megan pic before the surgery. Chelsea doesn’t look like her at all not even in her dreams . She just catfish him so now she have to paid the consequences
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his Sweet heartbroken girl while gaslighting the other girl.
So lemme get this straight: Trevor gets Chelsea flowers, doesn't care she's divorced, and was dating no one but her and only her...and she chose JIMMY???
Exactly, I was like girl what are you doing. On top of that, Trevor is actually her ideal type physically. She says she likes muscular men with dark hair and mullets.
I heard someone say she just wanted to "snag the guy that the hot girl wanted."Chelsea gives me feelings of high school insecurity and low self-esteem. Like she always wanted to be the popular girl that all the guys wanted.
I also thought that was a huge red flag... And AD ain't seeing any of them. She seems like a very sweet girl, but she's clearly still playing into the "I can fix him, and make him a better man" role
i am extremely pissed about how AD was treated. she's so sweet, understanding, and nurturing. And she was treated like garbage by both clay and matthew. then she got sexualized by jimmy at the couples party. she has been consistently disrespected by everyone and it makes me so mad.
@@bloom4096 so getting told if you’re not physically attractive im not going to want to be with you, and if you don’t keep your body right even after you bear my children, im going to tell you to go to the gym every day. that’s respectful? that’s how you want to be talked to by your husband? he has obvious anger issues from how he talked to her in the pods too. he kept it in for cameras sake, that was the light version. but ok pop off
And how about the men telling clay “AD is sweet but seems like she can pop off” like what? She seems almost the most even tempered out of a lot of the contestants…
The producers leaving in Jimmy's slip up saying "Jess" instead of his fiancees name right before the face reveal was soooo messy, I bet they had field day with this
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his sweet heartbroken girl while gaslighting the other girl.
As a neurodivergent person, I thought Matthew was just a neurodivergent person on a neurotypical dating show and having a hard time. Until I realized OH NO HE'S A MONSTER!
I def got ND vibes as well. And the only thing that could explain the double talk (other than him being a manipulative jerk) is that it could be masking? Like he’s learned what makes a girl happy to hear so he repeats it (to his demise) and maybe doesn’t quite get in the moment what he’s doing until he’s caught in it? That all being said the comments towards the end about “America watching” and all that are super suspect and I reckon it was all an act and not innocent masking. I’m glad you made this comment here tho because it is important to recognize someone possibly being ND and terms like “psycho” and “crazy” are definitely terms us ND folks get branded with when we are truly just struggling to understand social cues and rules and we do get it wrong a lot. 🤷
Exactly what my thoughts were it went from "maybe he's autistic?" To " omg he actually doesn't know how to be a human because he's a monster"he was literally faking being close with two people in an identical way. He memorized how to behave and said some really creepy things trying to get then to quit the show and leave?
Same I feel so stupid I have been fooled again lol. He played a game, the way he thought about how he would be perceived by the viewers of the show, and how he treated the girls. Everything was an act, nothing genuine there. I felt so stupid because him and AD were such a cute story, like how she seemingly get him out of his "shell". I can't imagine how she felt discovering the truth
AD seems like a sweet girl and she said on the show that she's been in therapy for a year because she's pursuing a father's love in these toxic men she keeps picking. I wish she had waited a bit longer and kept working with the therapist. If she's looking for unconditional love from the likes of Matthew and Clay I think she still has some issues to resolve. I say that as someone who had similar issues. It takes longer than one year to learn to love yourself to the point where you DON'T come back for seconds after you figure out the game someone like Matthew is playing
I got a really bad feeling about him and am questioning the production company's ethics in casting him. He made me extremely uncomfortable and really happy he didn't couple up so we don't have to watch him
For real. He is husband material: made Chelsea comfortable, laugh is open, listens and reassures etc. Chelsea has a lot of insecurities and asks Jimmy all the time for reassurance, I don't think she would feel like she had to ask Trevor because he was so outspoken that he is sure she is the one.
Exactly, and it's sad that people just gave him grace for no reason other than he's white and doesn't fit the stereotypical creepy serial killer look, and just assumed he was autistic in order to assuage their own fears.
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his Amber while gaslighting the other girl.
That was such a red flag! I was starting to come around by this point in Fantake's description thinking maybe the guy was on the spectrum and thus the written questions and lack of communication. But the "finding you" answer was the most manipulative, contrived answer.
Matthew gives me absolute psycho vibes. Like he sits in a corner, rocking back-and-forth practising his lines. I’m literally scared of that man. Whatever he’s in therapy for must be serious because chile, it’s not for meeeee
I think he only goes to therapy because a judge made him. Like some terrible tragedy occurred, they found out he was a legit psychopath, and the judge was like "Ok you get your freedom but you have to see a therapist for the rest of your life."
I dont think jessica was going to find love on this show no matter if they knew she had a kid up front or later. This type of dating show isnt for singles parents it moves way too fast already, and u want to add a kid to the mix??
I side eye single parents on dating shows like this and the Bachelor/Bachelorette. How can you be okay being separated from your child for weeks and then possibly bring a stranger you have only known for a short time into their lives?
AD has a history of dating losers and getting used for s*x by athletes and then goes on a reality tv show. Not the brightest bulb in the room. She needs to be told to get therapy, rather than to get validated by the sisterhood.
14:44 this bothered me because if anything, it was LAURA who was acting like a small child by telling someone to smack another woman’s boobie. Jeramy throwing her under the bus was not child’s play, she’s just embarrassed about her own behavior and is taking it out on Jeramy
I wonder if Laura said this to Jeremay in private as a test to see his reaction because she’s a little insecure about how AD looks. Now she’s embarrassed it’s all out in the air.
Yeah it was really embarrassing of her to keep saying it was a joke to AD, when AD was clearly uncomfortable. She doesn’t know how to say sorry and admit she’s wrong. I Feel bad 4 her employees 😂😂
Omg I agree, and the crazy thing is (not that Chelsea is ugly by any means) I’d say Trevor would be a lil more out of her league, but he’s such a sweet genuine guy that appearances really didn’t matter. An actual king
Chelsea gave me insecure vibes from the start i knew that jimmy ,and her together would be trouble. Clay looks good but he very immature. I like AD so far ,and i dont really like the way they all sexualized her at the end of episode 6 so uncomfortable 😳.
She did that to herself tbh, she has her tits out in that tight af dress. She knows she gets attention and she likes it. And I think she was flirting with Jimmy too
no fr the way everyone was talking about her body so openly and so much was super fucking weird and idk maybe race isn't relevant but i feel like it's not a coincidence that the only black woman on the cast was being hypersexualized by her white castmates
Clay if you ever read this, AD is not your toy. You don't own her. Can you imagine her TELLING YOU DAILY, GET IN THE GYM ,STOP EATING EVERYTHING YOU LIKE AND WORK OUT ,I WANT YOU THICK IN THESE PLACES, SMALLER HERE. YOU ARE SOOO SHALLOW. A.D YOU ARE GORGEOUS, DESERVING,AND DON'T LET ANY MAN DISRESPECT YOU. I CRIED WHEN YOU TREATED HER LIKE SHI$. STOP CLAY.
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428that’s definitely also a sign of insecurity. Insecurity is not just “I hate myself”, but also an inflated ego “I’m better than everyone”. When you’re a secure individual you don’t need to do all that.
@@Lillyswords Some people have huge egos and have a lot to back it up. I don't necessarily agree with it but thinking everyone with an inflated ego is insecure is just not true.
I love that the editors took us along the ride with AD. Like they could have showed us the dates with Amber, but they let us falling for Matthew too! What a psycho though.
Didn't really care for Jess in the beginning but I love her villain arc, this woman wants to watch the world burn at this point and I'm so here for it.
I absolutely love her. Her story about her childhood really got me in the feels and the way she talks about her daughter. She's an absolute warrior of a woman who has had to fight through hell her whole life, and she needs a good genuine honest and loving man, not someone who only dates her based on her exceptional beauty.
@xoxsilentrealmxox agree. I only wish she would have just walked away. He didn't deserve a second more of her time. Throwing on his face that he will drop when he sees her is petty and opposite to what the show is supposed to be about. Maybe I am too proud but I've would been like bye.
@@xoxsilentrealmxox at the beginning i thought that she is just plain regular boeing valley girl no personality i didint like her at all but she got interesting story so now i kind a like her but well see
@@xoxsilentrealmxoxshe's pretty but with her diva bitch attitude, no one is gonna stick around for that , there are way too many nice girls that know how to care about others and not just what's in it for them. Literally all Jessica cared about is how he made her feel, what he put her through, etc. like everyone else on the show is going through the same issues girl not just you
@@cam23417 I think it was more of a comment about him not knowing what he wanted than saying “I look good so you should’ve picked me”. Because she’s literally right. She called him out before it even happened
Chelsea may not look like Megan Fox, but she's still miles out of Jimmy's league. It's shocking to me that he thinks he could, or should, 'do better' than that gorgeous woman. Insane.
Huh?? No way this is real. She is the one who is divorced or the one who has a kid. She is no way near his level even on looks. She seems overweight and compares herself to Meghan fox lmao
Why on God's green earth would she tell that man that she looked like Megan Fox?? There's nothing wrong with how she looks, but obviously he’s gonna have these crazy high expectations that she cannot clear. Maybe it wouldn't have made a difference and he still would've been disappointed, but that Megan Fox comment did not help.
it didn't but it was funny as hell to hear him admit that that is why he chose her lol. dude went on a show about NOT choosing for looks, thought he would do it anyway and come out on top, and showed everyone his ass
I kept yelling ' hes a psychopath like on YOU!' Like... He is trying to get someone to leave the show with him. They need to do WAY better at assessing people to be FIT for this experience
my bet is, they intentionally screen for having at least on absolute weirdo in the show … there is no way he could have hidden his anti-social behavior during the screening - i‘m sure they have psychologists partaking the selection process
@@djamilawilschke7259 true which is super irresponsible of the show producers in terms of someone marrying them if they actually trust they'll do proper screening
Poland here too.I was like he's an introvert first,but then saw his awful approach to women and gave me an ick on my lower back😮another weirdo is that IT guy with glasses on.Hes simply autistic and doesn't give a f.. about others ppl feelings and emotions 😢
Trevor deserves so much better. She’s way too insecure, manipulative & overly emotional. Seems like her biggest motivation so far was “winning” against Jessica, & the whole thing is just yucky.
She literally said she didn’t see it herself and thinks it’s only bc of hair and eyes. She never claimed she thought she thinks she looks like Megan Fox. I’m assuming since she’s a FA, when masking was required, passengers may have thought she looked like Megan Fox.
I think she kinda looks like Megan circa transformers 1, not a copy but maybe like a cousin or half sister. I see it. But yeah she screwed herself with that one.
My boyfriend and I watched this together, and Matthew reminded him of someone else he knew and perfectly predicted what this guy was gonna say as the episodes progressed. He was so manipulative and sadly, had this happened to teenagers, it probably would've worked. I'm so glad AD saw through it and I also feel bad for Amber. Amber felt like a villain, when in reality, she was the biggest hero.
Trevor and Chelsea were definitely a better match. These two have no chemistry. But i think Chelsea needs more therapy and I need someone like Trevor.😅😅
Chelsea clearly has low self esteem, and I think she got off of getting chosen over Jessica. She said she’s used to being treated bad by men. Many people seek what’s comfortable and not what’s good for them.
@@calikeisha365 yes. She also mentioned that. She just needs to deal with them better and that guy Jimmy ..his reactions are not genuine at all which comes across. He is not attracted to her possibly and I think they won't get married..aren't married as in
I was thinking Zack & Irina. They went after people who aren’t attracted to them. But opposite. It’s Jimmy in this case who’s not attracted to Chelsea.
@@ajh.4131 true, but Bartise wasn’t attracted to Nancy and it seems Jimmy isn’t attracted to Chelsea. Regardless of attraction their interaction and him talking about the other women when they all met for the first time reminded me of Bartise that same night towards Nancy
The other woman did him dirty when she said: " wait till I see what u missed" As shallow as it sounds, it left a curiosity in him, especially after Chelsea wasn't Megan Fox as she purported.
One thing to mention is that this seems to be the season with the most variety of body shapes among men and women, not everyone looks like a model. Matthew was definitely in this show to play a game and get noticed. He wanted to play the villain but got too weird for anyone to want to stay with him
He was by FAR the most mature and kind hearted of all of the men. He walked away with grace and only wanted Chelsea to be happy even though she clearly picked the wrong man. And how he said he touched his bracelet so many times! I got choked up when he said he just needed to sit in the room for a little while because he didn’t want to leave crying. Just a genuinely nice guy. Very rare to find.
Matthew is a creep and both women are lucky to have escaped him. If America is talking about him it's not because they are on his side but how awful he is.
Matthew was the biggest shock that he could land one girl, much less 2!! He is probably on a few watch lists and I hope he's not allowed to own firearms.
thanks to you I haven't watched a single episode of LIB since season 2 and yet I still know every messy details about this show. love you bachelor fantake!!
This wasn't really featured here, but I liked how Jess dropped the "Catering to the man and being agreeable" bullshit as soon as she felt it might concern her kid. She rose from almost pick-me-ish to absolutely savage in a blink. Like. "NO ONE brings unsteadyness or half assedness around my daughter". I respect her so much for this.
Matthew's "greatest accomplishment" line didn't trip my alarm bells so much as it set off my air raid sirens. It was one of the most brazen LINES I've ever heard on one of these shows, and when combined with how aloof and callous he was during the first dates...I actually guessed that twist before it happened. And then when he was defending himself, my God, the shameless, gaslighting manipulation of all of it. Some of the BS he spouted was eerily familiar. Took me right back to my own unfortunate time being in love with a dark triad type. Good on AD for being smarter than I was back in the day, and I hope Amber does just what you suggest.
def not the type of guy I'd want around me in any capacity, but I think it is very dangerous to diagnose people from afar. I've known people like Matthew. None of them sociopaths, but rather very very hurt and insecure individuals. That doesn't mean anyone should EVER tolerate their antics. They can and do hurt a lot of people around them. That being said, real sociopathy is very rare; people like Mathew are more than likely coming from a very traumatized childhood and are desperate to show how great they are, because if they're perfect and always right that means they must be worthy of love. It's a very sad and self-sabotaging existence :(
@@95luannaableyeah...she was petty, and he deserved it. Both he and Chelsea were hanging the ring over the heads of their potentials....and it cost them other potential connections 😢
@@Tee-Star exactly. He probably chose Chelsea because she said she look like “Megan fox” and didn’t have a child (which is completely okay). Chelsea chose him instead of Trevor because she saw that Jess was pretty and probably wanted to take her “man”. I think it give Chelsea an ego boost and validation.
@@anneshirley95 Sure, she can tell. But it seems like she has a lot of past trauma from previous relationships that she needs to work through. It would help her value herself rather than the validation she needs from a partner. With Jessica, you can see how she values herself, and even when she wants validation from a partner, has made it clear she's not willing to settle just to get it. Personally, I don't think Jimmy deserves either of these women.
@@anneshirley95can you blame him?? It’s a global sensation dating show and he got the monster of the show. One of the most watched shows in the world and he ended up with a fat 3??? What a dupe. But with that said he’s a dork with baby teeth and tiny dick energy (no matter what she said it’s about what you give off).
When AD confronted Matthew about saying the same exact thing,he immediately said “Amber”,then had the gall to deny he ever said that to her,what he told Amber was different and not as deep. Yet Amber repeated exactly what he had told her and AD. He also dropped himself in it by saying Amber when AD confronted him.
I actually do think Chelsea favours Megan Fox, I could see why she says that. And the blonde mum out of Hero’s. But as soon as she chose Jimmy over Trevor I was gasped. And I skipped a lot of content cause it was boring. But that man wanted you. And she’s going to self sabotage this entire thing because of her past trauma and insecurities. That argument was wild, not cause of the reason but how it played out. He fully acknowledged her feelings and validated her and she just kept going, ignoring his feelings and it was baffling to me. And she FULLY lied about not telling people about the L word. Just say you don’t remember. Jessica tearing Jimmy apart was annoying because how did he ruin your time there? Y’all dated. That’s it. He didn’t choose you and I know that hurt but to rip into him like that was weird and felt extremely bitter. Like a guy who calls a girl ugly because she declines. Finally, what the fuck is up with Laura’s blaccent and why does the entire cast think it’s okay to talk about AD’s body the way they do. She’s a person. With a great personality. The way they hypersexualise her as if she’s not a real person is disgusting.
I think Chelsea favors Megan too! Chelsea just heavier & maybe taller than he expected. What a big & foolish mistake she made though. He’s not into her & is lying his ass off about how he feels about her. 😬😬 Totally agree about Jessica. She did too much. It wasn’t a graceful exit. & AD sexualized herself as soon as she met Clay & continues to do it. It’s cringe. He’s not into her, just her ass but that won’t last very long.
She does look like her, but a much larger version. When men think of Megan they think eyes, lips and BODY! She should’ve known she was setting herself up for failure.
I thought Jessica and Jimmy would be perfect for each other but the way Jessica reacted to not getting the response she wanted and then expressing how much better she looks than Chelsea really showed ger true colors. She turned mean real fast... 😬
I LITERALLY TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT THE HANK HILL JIMMY CONNECTION AND HE SAID “I don’t see it” SO THANKYOU FOR SEEING IT. Everything about him screams Hank Hill!!!
Matthew was terrifying but Jimmy was such a dud he was so superficial! Which defeats the purpose of this ridiculous show! Oh my god I just realized Jimmy full on picked Chelsea because he wanted to avoid the kid! And Jess said what she said because she knows he was being a coward!
Same! What pissed jess off was that he was basically on the fence and didn't want to commit one way or the other. She said I should never have to wonder how you feel about me and that's exactly what he's doing to Chelsea. I think he came to play! He was talking to everyone excerpt the person he is engaged too, Trevor would have been 100% attentive. @@ughmina
Like I told my husband, I believe Chelsea chose Jimmy because of 2 reasons. 1) She felt Jess was hotter than her and 2)Jimmy was always on the fence and she yearns for the drama of chasing a man who is less interested in her. Trevor was about her 100% and she turned towards someone who was not. She got 2 birds with 1 stone: she "won" the man from the hotter Jess AND she got to replay her attachment trauma with men. I swear the producers choose the people with the most trauma so they can get ratings.
She looks like every nipped and tucked overfilled botoxed housewife mommy vlogger on instagram with too much lash tryin to catch a rich man to support her kids.
10:41 I say this with no irony, I can see the resemblance to Megan Fox! Her eyes, lips, especially from that angle. She isn’t Megan Fox, but I don’t think it’s wrong to say. Maybe in that moment it set some high expectations, but it wasn’t a full-on lie.
@@zazubombay this part! most people are acting like she talked herself up with that comparison but she blatantly told him that she didn't see the resemblance. (I agree that she probably shouldn't have brought it up in the first place, though)
I loved how Clay freaked out when AD told him Matthew was the other guy. I think AD understood what she was dealing with in Matthew from that reaction and I’m glad she ran from him.
Matthew started out on the spectrum, like Asperger's perhaps, and quickly transformed into a master communicator of sorts. Bizarre experience watching this guy.
From some angles Chelsea does look like Megan Fox to me so she didn't lie per se, but she did stretch a bit lol. But they clearly cast people for drama and lunatics, the fact that there are successful couples at all is actually wild.
I saw that his notebook had his name on it and he was reading it while sat away from the other guys and I was immediately 'psychopath'. Then I saw that other notebooks had their names on them and I was like 'oh 😂 maybe not'. Turns out I was right the first time.
Matthew reminds me of this quote I saw on Twitter. Something along the lines of, “Tell any white girl “I’m sorry about the way Matt treated you” and she’ll cry and feel understood”
i full heartedly believe that matthew and amber were hired just for the triangle plot becuase they only are shown when it is related to AD and we never get to see Ambers other conversations and there is no way amber only had a connection with Matthew and left because he was talking to another person, it all seems very intentional especially after Matthew left because 'he was so worried" for amber although he said hes more wanting AD it just does not make sense that he would leave because amber left and it wouldn't make sense why Amber left so something fishy was going on behind scenes
AD is legendary. Top Tier. The body is serving. This season is worse than last season. So messy!!! Clay is horrible. Chelsea is desperate. He is telling her everything she wants to hear but Jimmy had me laughing he said Megan Fox where?? He ain’t attracted to that woman. But Jimmy said ooh AD is attractive. Why would she scream that? Then she mad that they talk for less than 3 mins. I would see is AD is single but she their with her man. Why you mad???
Exactly, they were supposed to mingle and get to know each other! What was that about he “being alone” at the bar? Go mingle! She presented herself to him as an easy uncomplicated woman -her words- and she is clingy and insecure and needy as heck. He chose her because she was meant to be easy going and fun but she is quite the opposite. Also she looks super creepy to me, she looks like Pennywise, and I cannot unsee it!!
I don't get why they didn't show anything from his dates with Amber, makes me wonder if they were trying to make him look bad. Edit: I'm not trying to defend his behavior, but I was expecting to see him telling those things to Amer with my own eyes, instead I had to just believe her. Why would they do this? Did they forget to record it? Makes no sense to me. In every season they always show the scenes when there's some misunderstanding, for the sake of the public, you know?
The editing needs to have twists in the show like in scripted TV. By withholding the Amber dates it allows for the big reveal. The editors could have chosen AD as the big reveal and only shown Amber's dates up until then. For whatever reasons they thought AD would play better for audiences than Amber.
@@pigpjs Yeah... that's just bad editing. What would play better was a scene of him saying those things to Amber right after she accused him of doing so. AND the scene where he tells AD the same thing.
Nah he’s probably a sociopath. This show is a great way for introverts who would otherwise offput people to advertise themselves. He’s physically attractive, if only he didn’t open his mouth.
I wonder if the producers paired the two women and prompted them to talk about their date with Matthew to save them from him. I am probably giving reality show producers too much credit.
At this point I'm only confident in Johnny and Amy and maybe Kenneth and Brittany.
Only one of them will last.
Do I watch this show? No. Do I enjoy the recaps anyway? Yes.
“me proposing to you would be ONE OF THE GREATEST MOMENTS OF YOUR LIFE!!!!” Matthew shows signs of Narcissistic Personality traits, strong!!! The psychologist/psychiatrist did good with casting! Even with therapy, gosh….
Ya!!! The editing!!!! THE EDITING!!!
@@ThatGmoney The editing was good!!!
This season is by far my favorite. I'm loving this one.
Yeah never trust a man who is that casually rude and dismissive with other women but super loving with you. How he treats the women he wants nothing from is his true face.
Exactly! That’s an instant red flag/turn off for me. One guy started shit talking his child’s mom and I was instantly no longer interested.
True Red Flag!
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The dude is autistic ffs. Give him a break.
Matthew terrifies me to my core. Love is blind consistently brings on the most abusive personality types I've ever seen. In a way it might be good for an audience to learn that lesson, that these people are out there, and they can seem VERY genuine, and make you question yourself even when you just saw them be awful.
Control, narcissistic traits, love bombing, gas lighting
He terrifies me as well! Why would he be like that. Just WOW!!
He has legit psychopath vibes. Like American psycho to the core. I'm just waiting for him to say "let's see Paul Allen's card"
This man is a dangerous calculating sociopath. I just want the women tone smarter. Some men will say anything to WIN. It’s a game. Not a show about love.
Honestly, I used to feel bad for people like him who seem a little too naturally calculating for their own good but I’m just like over it . They need their own society and bubble of narcissists 😂
Telling a man you’ve never seen in person that you look like Megan Fox is a set up for failure. Unless you are Megan Fox.
I was thinking the same thing. The expectations are high after saying that! She looks great but he was expecting a Megan fox doppelgänger😅
No seriously - my jaw hit the floor. Not because she isn't gorgeous but because comparing yourself to Megan Fox paints a very specific image in one's mind. The woman legit looks like she was generated by AI 😂
Well she said she doesn’t see it. But I do! She looks like Megan fox before she got so much plastic surgery
@@Mamatia22please, what are you talking about ???? Look at Megan pic before the surgery. Chelsea doesn’t look like her at all not even in her dreams . She just catfish him so now she have to paid the consequences
Chelsea looks nothing like Megan Fox lmao, I'd be pissed to see her after hearing that, too.
“America loves an underdog”
sweetie, you’re not an underdog, you’re a sociopath 💕
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his Sweet heartbroken girl while gaslighting the other girl.
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hahaha 😂😂😂
Chelsea: “what’s the first thing you’ve noticed about me?”
Jimmy’s real thought: “that you’re not Megan Fox”
Literally his exact thought. I thought he was going to tell her he wanted to go home at the reveal because he wasn’t attracted to her.
Your square hhhea.. your square teeth
But she doesn’t look like Megan Fox !!! Who told her that ?? 😂😂😂 it’s like when a guys says he’s 6” and then he’s 5.2”
@@moroto250I think she does from certain angles. People are taking it way too seriously and I have no idea why
The hell you say 😅😅😅
So lemme get this straight: Trevor gets Chelsea flowers, doesn't care she's divorced, and was dating no one but her and only her...and she chose JIMMY???
Exactly, I was like girl what are you doing. On top of that, Trevor is actually her ideal type physically. She says she likes muscular men with dark hair and mullets.
That made me super sad 😢 I don’t think this is the last we will hear from Trevor & Chelsea.
I heard someone say she just wanted to "snag the guy that the hot girl wanted."Chelsea gives me feelings of high school insecurity and low self-esteem. Like she always wanted to be the popular girl that all the guys wanted.
Good for him. He deserves better
@@marisortiz273I wouldn’t have believed that but seeing how insecure she is I think you’re right :/
As a mom, I was appalled that Clay said he’d get AD to the gym after she had a baby/was pregnant to deal with the tummy. WHO SAYS THAT.
I'm pretty sure the majority of sane viewers were like "Bro, what are you doing?" Clay is just young and immature. He's got a lot of growing to do.
He's so immature..he has no clue
“We’ll get you right” WHAT?!(!?!!?!
I also thought that was a huge red flag... And AD ain't seeing any of them. She seems like a very sweet girl, but she's clearly still playing into the "I can fix him, and make him a better man" role
@@mattwho42is 30 still acting immature he needs to grow up.
i am extremely pissed about how AD was treated. she's so sweet, understanding, and nurturing. And she was treated like garbage by both clay and matthew. then she got sexualized by jimmy at the couples party. she has been consistently disrespected by everyone and it makes me so mad.
Yes I think she has the best personality from the way she talks to Matthew and clay
Clay didn't treat her like garbage though. But add that twerp Chelsea to the list.
@@bloom4096 so getting told if you’re not physically attractive im not going to want to be with you, and if you don’t keep your body right even after you bear my children, im going to tell you to go to the gym every day. that’s respectful? that’s how you want to be talked to by your husband? he has obvious anger issues from how he talked to her in the pods too. he kept it in for cameras sake, that was the light version. but ok pop off
And how about the men telling clay “AD is sweet but seems like she can pop off” like what? She seems almost the most even tempered out of a lot of the contestants…
@@salarisby8933 it’s because she’s a dark skinned black woman im telling you. she’s the sweetest one on the show
The producers leaving in Jimmy's slip up saying "Jess" instead of his fiancees name right before the face reveal was soooo messy, I bet they had field day with this
It’s giving Ross and Rachel lol
even the way they changed up the music for that part 😂
At the end of the day...Jimmy did that shit 😭
Omg I had to pause and told my dog “they did him soooooo dirty with that one” 😂
😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
My husband thinks Matthew is a serial killer. When he said that out loud, my dog barked.
Hahahahahah
Yesss, I was hopping on TH-cam to see if a body language expert was gonna bring up serial killer behaviour with this guy!! But dog’s know better!!
I believe the doggo 😂
Yep , I trust the doggy too 😊
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his sweet heartbroken girl while gaslighting the other girl.
As a neurodivergent person, I thought Matthew was just a neurodivergent person on a neurotypical dating show and having a hard time. Until I realized OH NO HE'S A MONSTER!
I def got ND vibes as well. And the only thing that could explain the double talk (other than him being a manipulative jerk) is that it could be masking? Like he’s learned what makes a girl happy to hear so he repeats it (to his demise) and maybe doesn’t quite get in the moment what he’s doing until he’s caught in it?
That all being said the comments towards the end about “America watching” and all that are super suspect and I reckon it was all an act and not innocent masking.
I’m glad you made this comment here tho because it is important to recognize someone possibly being ND and terms like “psycho” and “crazy” are definitely terms us ND folks get branded with when we are truly just struggling to understand social cues and rules and we do get it wrong a lot.
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Exactly what my thoughts were it went from "maybe he's autistic?" To " omg he actually doesn't know how to be a human because he's a monster"he was literally faking being close with two people in an identical way. He memorized how to behave and said some really creepy things trying to get then to quit the show and leave?
I thought exactly the same thing!
As a neurodivergent person as well, I agree with you 100% 😂
Same I feel so stupid I have been fooled again lol. He played a game, the way he thought about how he would be perceived by the viewers of the show, and how he treated the girls. Everything was an act, nothing genuine there. I felt so stupid because him and AD were such a cute story, like how she seemingly get him out of his "shell". I can't imagine how she felt discovering the truth
Ugh, matthew seems like a madman and clay seems like the kinda guy who wants his girl to be a 10 at all hours to show off to his bros.
AD seems like a sweet girl and she said on the show that she's been in therapy for a year because she's pursuing a father's love in these toxic men she keeps picking. I wish she had waited a bit longer and kept working with the therapist. If she's looking for unconditional love from the likes of Matthew and Clay I think she still has some issues to resolve. I say that as someone who had similar issues. It takes longer than one year to learn to love yourself to the point where you DON'T come back for seconds after you figure out the game someone like Matthew is playing
Typical American guy that’s a 5 but expects a 10.
@@ashley.taylor174A lot of guys are like that all over the girl tbh
Ugh clay.
Frustrates me. Needs some growing up
Ugh, the gossip is strong with you.
Matthew's serial killer vibes are off the chart.
!!!!!!!!! Serial killer fs! I need the FBI to look into him IMMEDIATELY
Factssssssss
I got a really bad feeling about him and am questioning the production company's ethics in casting him. He made me extremely uncomfortable and really happy he didn't couple up so we don't have to watch him
He could still be an actor... I hope.😅
His vibe reminded me of that dating show serial killer.
I say Trevor was the real catch no girl wanted. Tall, dark, funny, generous, open minded, kind and down to earth.
For real. He is husband material: made Chelsea comfortable, laugh is open, listens and reassures etc. Chelsea has a lot of insecurities and asks Jimmy all the time for reassurance, I don't think she would feel like she had to ask Trevor because he was so outspoken that he is sure she is the one.
He needs a second chance
Seriously this 100%
Facts
Agree. he dodged a bullet with Chelsea. he's gonna be on that dumb show perfect match but I think he should be the next bachelor!
The way Matthew switched up was scary. Like psychopath level deflection and manipulation tactics
Exactly, and it's sad that people just gave him grace for no reason other than he's white and doesn't fit the stereotypical creepy serial killer look, and just assumed he was autistic in order to assuage their own fears.
Yes and after trying and failing to convince AD he wasn't full of sh*t he says he's going to "go get Amber"! WTF
So true ....he is sociopath or psychopath whatever.......but i think for sure he has planned all this scenario before coming to show.....took all the notes from rom coms.....".presenting himself as shy ,underdog taking the best girl who understands him and bring out the best in him.....and then leaving together the show ......and whole america will be watching.".......Fortunately he got caught and still trying to play the game of a really sweet guy who has to get his Amber while gaslighting the other girl.
“What is my greatest accomplishment? Finding you.”
THE WAY I SIGHED SO LOUDLY MY PARTNER THOUGHT SOMETHING WAS WRONG.
That was such a red flag! I was starting to come around by this point in Fantake's description thinking maybe the guy was on the spectrum and thus the written questions and lack of communication. But the "finding you" answer was the most manipulative, contrived answer.
@@ellicel Also the whole "America is watching" was him trying to use peer pressure to override her own intuition
this had me wheezing 🤣
@@Aaron-kj8dvThe “America is watching “ is triangulation. It’s a classic manipulation that narcissists do to Shane their victims.
@@Aaron-kj8dvAs soon as he started talkinh with awareness of the cameras and this being a show, red flag city.
Matthew gives me absolute psycho vibes. Like he sits in a corner, rocking back-and-forth practising his lines. I’m literally scared of that man. Whatever he’s in therapy for must be serious because chile, it’s not for meeeee
somebody is definitely in his basement freezer
Thank You! My gf & I were watching this & we were both like, Dude is Nuts! Amber better run & A.D. dodged a bullet.
He definitely gives serial killer vibes
I think he only goes to therapy because a judge made him. Like some terrible tragedy occurred, they found out he was a legit psychopath, and the judge was like "Ok you get your freedom but you have to see a therapist for the rest of your life."
@@MadreCoconutsthe way i was searching for a comment like this 🎉
I dont think jessica was going to find love on this show no matter if they knew she had a kid up front or later. This type of dating show isnt for singles parents it moves way too fast already, and u want to add a kid to the mix??
Exactly, how she can get engaged, if not married to a man her daughter doesn't even know is beyond irresponsible.
Underrated comment
I think a few of the Brazil cast had children & are still married.
@@TheKrysteeBrazilians are usually crazy. 😅 Different culture and values.
I side eye single parents on dating shows like this and the Bachelor/Bachelorette. How can you be okay being separated from your child for weeks and then possibly bring a stranger you have only known for a short time into their lives?
AD is super sweet and I feel like she tries to see the best in everyone and sadly at times it means it's at her expense
AD has a history of dating losers and getting used for s*x by athletes and then goes on a reality tv show. Not the brightest bulb in the room. She needs to be told to get therapy, rather than to get validated by the sisterhood.
14:44 this bothered me because if anything, it was LAURA who was acting like a small child by telling someone to smack another woman’s boobie. Jeramy throwing her under the bus was not child’s play, she’s just embarrassed about her own behavior and is taking it out on Jeramy
Thank you! She was trying to shift the blame for her own actions the whole time it was super icky.
Riight bc "she has employees" & whatnot 🙄
I wonder if Laura said this to Jeremay in private as a test to see his reaction because she’s a little insecure about how AD looks. Now she’s embarrassed it’s all out in the air.
Yeah it was really embarrassing of her to keep saying it was a joke to AD, when AD was clearly uncomfortable. She doesn’t know how to say sorry and admit she’s wrong. I Feel bad 4 her employees 😂😂
She wasn't actually telling him to do that, it was a joke. She was just telling him about an inside joke the girls had lol
Trevor would have treated Chelsea wayyy better......
NEVERMIND
Omg I agree, and the crazy thing is (not that Chelsea is ugly by any means) I’d say Trevor would be a lil more out of her league, but he’s such a sweet genuine guy that appearances really didn’t matter. An actual king
@@spideysim3892she isn't ready for true love.
She fumbled big time
he better stand on business when they all meet 😹
@@lithiumsoupon goddd🙏🏻🤣
Chelsea gave me insecure vibes from the start i knew that jimmy ,and her together would be trouble. Clay looks good but he very immature. I like AD so far ,and i dont really like the way they all sexualized her at the end of episode 6 so uncomfortable 😳.
She did that to herself tbh, she has her tits out in that tight af dress. She knows she gets attention and she likes it. And I think she was flirting with Jimmy too
Was she kinda causing trouble
Same thoughts on how they did AD on episode 6z
no fr the way everyone was talking about her body so openly and so much was super fucking weird and idk maybe race isn't relevant but i feel like it's not a coincidence that the only black woman on the cast was being hypersexualized by her white castmates
@@lex7384She has a banging natural body. That’s good people can admire her curves. I was doing the same and I’m black.
Clay if you ever read this, AD is not your toy. You don't own her. Can you imagine her TELLING YOU DAILY, GET IN THE GYM ,STOP EATING EVERYTHING YOU LIKE AND WORK OUT ,I WANT YOU THICK IN THESE PLACES, SMALLER HERE. YOU ARE SOOO SHALLOW. A.D YOU ARE GORGEOUS, DESERVING,AND DON'T LET ANY MAN DISRESPECT YOU. I CRIED WHEN YOU TREATED HER LIKE SHI$. STOP CLAY.
He is insecure. Thatswhy he told her all of that. She is drop dead gorgeous. Too good for him.
@@bambi274i doubt that that man is insecure about anything 😂 like the wat he acts is because he thinks so highly of himself
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428that’s definitely also a sign of insecurity. Insecurity is not just “I hate myself”, but also an inflated ego “I’m better than everyone”. When you’re a secure individual you don’t need to do all that.
@@Lillyswords Some people have huge egos and have a lot to back it up. I don't necessarily agree with it but thinking everyone with an inflated ego is insecure is just not true.
What does Clay do for a living again?
Both Clay and AD still need therapy. Great couple, though. 🎉
I love that the editors took us along the ride with AD. Like they could have showed us the dates with Amber, but they let us falling for Matthew too! What a psycho though.
It was chef’s kiss 💋
I was so entertained by this.😊
Didn't really care for Jess in the beginning but I love her villain arc, this woman wants to watch the world burn at this point and I'm so here for it.
I absolutely love her. Her story about her childhood really got me in the feels and the way she talks about her daughter. She's an absolute warrior of a woman who has had to fight through hell her whole life, and she needs a good genuine honest and loving man, not someone who only dates her based on her exceptional beauty.
@xoxsilentrealmxox agree. I only wish she would have just walked away. He didn't deserve a second more of her time. Throwing on his face that he will drop when he sees her is petty and opposite to what the show is supposed to be about. Maybe I am too proud but I've would been like bye.
@@xoxsilentrealmxox at the beginning i thought that she is just plain regular boeing valley girl no personality i didint like her at all but she got interesting story so now i kind a like her but well see
@@xoxsilentrealmxoxshe's pretty but with her diva bitch attitude, no one is gonna stick around for that , there are way too many nice girls that know how to care about others and not just what's in it for them. Literally all Jessica cared about is how he made her feel, what he put her through, etc. like everyone else on the show is going through the same issues girl not just you
@@cam23417 I think it was more of a comment about him not knowing what he wanted than saying “I look good so you should’ve picked me”. Because she’s literally right. She called him out before it even happened
Chelsea may not look like Megan Fox, but she's still miles out of Jimmy's league. It's shocking to me that he thinks he could, or should, 'do better' than that gorgeous woman. Insane.
sadly a lot of young, pretty girls who are severely insecure would date men like jimmy
Right! It’s the culture of American men nowadays. They’re superficial but have mediocre looks.
Does he say this? He just mention she said she looks like Meghan fox
She kind of looks like Megan fox. I b think she shouldn't have said that to be honest. It swayed his vote.
Huh?? No way this is real. She is the one who is divorced or the one who has a kid. She is no way near his level even on looks. She seems overweight and compares herself to Meghan fox lmao
Why on God's green earth would she tell that man that she looked like Megan Fox?? There's nothing wrong with how she looks, but obviously he’s gonna have these crazy high expectations that she cannot clear. Maybe it wouldn't have made a difference and he still would've been disappointed, but that Megan Fox comment did not help.
it didn't but it was funny as hell to hear him admit that that is why he chose her lol. dude went on a show about NOT choosing for looks, thought he would do it anyway and come out on top, and showed everyone his ass
She said only her eyes and hair but nothing else.
Exactly she’s manipulated the process to get on the show
@@MH-uh3hw That man only heard Megan Fox 🤣
@@lecio7017 😂😂💀true
Jimmy looks like if you drew eyes on a slice of packaged deli meat
I fuckin DIED reading this!😂😂😂😭😭
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I hollered 😂😂
Omg I’m screaming 😂😂😂
I kept yelling ' hes a psychopath like on YOU!' Like... He is trying to get someone to leave the show with him. They need to do WAY better at assessing people to be FIT for this experience
my bet is, they intentionally screen for having at least on absolute weirdo in the show … there is no way he could have hidden his anti-social behavior during the screening - i‘m sure they have psychologists partaking the selection process
@@djamilawilschke7259 true which is super irresponsible of the show producers in terms of someone marrying them if they actually trust they'll do proper screening
Matthew said "America will be watching" does he know Netflix is a global streaming platform? Anyways, regards from Poland 😂
I'm here in South Africa calling him a creep.
Poland here too.I was like he's an introvert first,but then saw his awful approach to women and gave me an ick on my lower back😮another weirdo is that IT guy with glasses on.Hes simply autistic and doesn't give a f.. about others ppl feelings and emotions 😢
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Trevor & Chelsea would have been so much better together😭
In the previews, it looks like they might get their chance
Trevor deserves so much better. She’s way too insecure, manipulative & overly emotional. Seems like her biggest motivation so far was “winning” against Jessica, & the whole thing is just yucky.
Trevor like Jess deserved better
Agreed
I think so toooooo😫
Who is out here lying to this girl telling her she looks like Megan Fox? 😂😂 I died
People trying to go from economy to first class lol 😂 just a joke.
Honestly her eyes and cheekbones do resemble Megan Fox, she just doesn't have the total Megan Fox look that Jimmy was expecting
She literally said she didn’t see it herself and thinks it’s only bc of hair and eyes. She never claimed she thought she thinks she looks like Megan Fox. I’m assuming since she’s a FA, when masking was required, passengers may have thought she looked like Megan Fox.
I think she kinda looks like Megan circa transformers 1, not a copy but maybe like a cousin or half sister. I see it. But yeah she screwed herself with that one.
She said people tell her see looks like Megan but doesn't see it herself. Selective Hearing!
Episodes 1-6??? Wow! Major props for editing this so quickly
@mocla1900-xn1oghe gets earlier access
Definitely props to him for getting it up so early. I have heard though that some podcasters got the episodes early.
I was thinking the same thing
Yea I have no idea how he does that every time it’s insane
other content creator get to see the eps early. p sure he did as well 💀😹
Clay was like "love may be blind, but I'm not" 😂
My boyfriend and I watched this together, and Matthew reminded him of someone else he knew and perfectly predicted what this guy was gonna say as the episodes progressed. He was so manipulative and sadly, had this happened to teenagers, it probably would've worked. I'm so glad AD saw through it and I also feel bad for Amber. Amber felt like a villain, when in reality, she was the biggest hero.
Trevor and Chelsea were definitely a better match. These two have no chemistry. But i think Chelsea needs more therapy and I need someone like Trevor.😅😅
I did the same thing 😂
Chelsea clearly has low self esteem, and I think she got off of getting chosen over Jessica. She said she’s used to being treated bad by men. Many people seek what’s comfortable and not what’s good for them.
Trevor definitely deserved better than Chelsea. Do you watch what she did to Jeremy on the 6th episode.
@@ramleehamdin1847 yes I completely agree. Trevor definitely will find someone better. Though I didn't see what happened between Chelsea and jeramey
@@calikeisha365 yes. She also mentioned that. She just needs to deal with them better and that guy Jimmy ..his reactions are not genuine at all which comes across. He is not attracted to her possibly and I think they won't get married..aren't married as in
Chelsea and Jimmy are giving slight Bartise and Nancy vibes
I was thinking Zack & Irina. They went after people who aren’t attracted to them. But opposite. It’s Jimmy in this case who’s not attracted to Chelsea.
@@ajh.4131 true, but Bartise wasn’t attracted to Nancy and it seems Jimmy isn’t attracted to Chelsea. Regardless of attraction their interaction and him talking about the other women when they all met for the first time reminded me of Bartise that same night towards Nancy
The other woman did him dirty when she said: " wait till I see what u missed"
As shallow as it sounds, it left a curiosity in him, especially after Chelsea wasn't Megan Fox as she purported.
If you watched the Sweden version. Emilia and Lucas all over again.
@emileiygh6524 yep, them too. Cringy
One thing to mention is that this seems to be the season with the most variety of body shapes among men and women, not everyone looks like a model. Matthew was definitely in this show to play a game and get noticed. He wanted to play the villain but got too weird for anyone to want to stay with him
He wanted to be the underdog and have America love him. He literally said it.
The "You made me feel umcomfy" completely took me out 🤣
Gave me the ICK!!!🤢
me too😂😂
I would take Trevor anyday... like damn. He was so precious and sweet.
I know right, maybe its for his best, that he wasn't matched with none of them.
He was by FAR the most mature and kind hearted of all of the men. He walked away with grace and only wanted Chelsea to be happy even though she clearly picked the wrong man. And how he said he touched his bracelet so many times! I got choked up when he said he just needed to sit in the room for a little while because he didn’t want to leave crying. Just a genuinely nice guy. Very rare to find.
@@jmarie723 I worry for those genuinely nice guys who often get the short end of the stick.
@AngM-lu7cb And I worry for all you women who are so blinded by fake stories and muscles. Dude was so transparently fake, I can't-
wasn’t trevor the one who had a girlfriend during the entire show? idk that doesn’t seem precious or sweet
Matthew is a creep and both women are lucky to have escaped him. If America is talking about him it's not because they are on his side but how awful he is.
Matthew is definitely a psycho. He's one bad day away for becoming a female serial killer
Matthew was the biggest shock that he could land one girl, much less 2!! He is probably on a few watch lists and I hope he's not allowed to own firearms.
The guy deffo sits in his cold room with the lights off and recites all the lies he's going to spew
thanks to you I haven't watched a single episode of LIB since season 2 and yet I still know every messy details about this show. love you bachelor fantake!!
He really has been the GOAT
oooh but u should watch it, its a circus hahah@@houseofbonnets
This wasn't really featured here, but I liked how Jess dropped the "Catering to the man and being agreeable" bullshit as soon as she felt it might concern her kid. She rose from almost pick-me-ish to absolutely savage in a blink. Like. "NO ONE brings unsteadyness or half assedness around my daughter". I respect her so much for this.
She's single for a reason.
All the hairstylist looking at A.Ds hair literally thinking why didn’t the stylist on set fix her hair……
The more I feel like this show can’t surprise me, the more they go the extra mile to show, that they can always provide worse
😂😂
That Jessica insert was hilarious 😅
“I luuuuuv thaaahhhht” 😂 she was hilarious.
You know this season is gonna be a good season when there's a Messica in it!
Matthew's "greatest accomplishment" line didn't trip my alarm bells so much as it set off my air raid sirens. It was one of the most brazen LINES I've ever heard on one of these shows, and when combined with how aloof and callous he was during the first dates...I actually guessed that twist before it happened. And then when he was defending himself, my God, the shameless, gaslighting manipulation of all of it. Some of the BS he spouted was eerily familiar. Took me right back to my own unfortunate time being in love with a dark triad type. Good on AD for being smarter than I was back in the day, and I hope Amber does just what you suggest.
Meh. It was not that surprising or jaw dropping. Everyone says “i love you” in the pod…just as fake
He needs to be on a watch list. Something about him screams "check this basement!"
How did Matthew passed the show’s psychological tests?😂
Everyone is saying he has serial killer vibes, maybe he’s just different?
@@iitachi5 So are serial killers 😁
What a twist with that dude! I gasped. M. Night Shyamalan shit there.
Mathew's definitely not a bigot he's worse in just being a general sociopath ⚠️.
Interestingly enough… sociopaths/psychopaths will get worse after going through therapy because they learn how to play people even better than before.
def not the type of guy I'd want around me in any capacity, but I think it is very dangerous to diagnose people from afar. I've known people like Matthew. None of them sociopaths, but rather very very hurt and insecure individuals. That doesn't mean anyone should EVER tolerate their antics. They can and do hurt a lot of people around them. That being said, real sociopathy is very rare; people like Mathew are more than likely coming from a very traumatized childhood and are desperate to show how great they are, because if they're perfect and always right that means they must be worthy of love. It's a very sad and self-sabotaging existence :(
@@anamakesthings Yup. This 💯
I don’t know if he’s not a bigot, but he’s definitely a compulsive liar.
@@anamakesthingssociopaths are often traumatized from childhood, so he very well may be a sociopath 🤷♀️
Jimmy is gonna shit a brick when he sees who ACTUALLY looked like megan fox 👀
That’s why Jess was petty in the end speech to him and said he will regret that decision 🤣 I would’ve done the same
@@95luannaableyeah...she was petty, and he deserved it.
Both he and Chelsea were hanging the ring over the heads of their potentials....and it cost them other potential connections 😢
@@Tee-Star exactly. He probably chose Chelsea because she said she look like “Megan fox” and didn’t have a child (which is completely okay). Chelsea chose him instead of Trevor because she saw that Jess was pretty and probably wanted to take her “man”. I think it give Chelsea an ego boost and validation.
@95luannaable exactly...bc of these reasons, I prayed that they should choose each other.
@@95luannaablespot on! She missed out big time on Trevor!
For someone who isn’t good with words he’s very calculated and says all the right things
The irony of him asking all the women to choose from a set of standard questions, then telling a lady she needs to be original 😅
Chelsea needs a good therapist. She is a mess.
I feel bad for her though, because I think she can tell that he's disappointed. So can we really blame her?
@@anneshirley95 Sure, she can tell. But it seems like she has a lot of past trauma from previous relationships that she needs to work through. It would help her value herself rather than the validation she needs from a partner. With Jessica, you can see how she values herself, and even when she wants validation from a partner, has made it clear she's not willing to settle just to get it. Personally, I don't think Jimmy deserves either of these women.
@@anneshirley95I don’t feel bad because she’s making her insecurities his problem
@@anneshirley95can you blame him?? It’s a global sensation dating show and he got the monster of the show. One of the most watched shows in the world and he ended up with a fat 3???
What a dupe.
But with that said he’s a dork with baby teeth and tiny dick energy (no matter what she said it’s about what you give off).
I just wanna know if America is behind Matthew
We are! With a bat.
@@casper_z1259lmao
He shocked me, I was so rooting for him and AD. Wtf 😅🤬
Yeah, we’re behind him calling the authorities from a safe distance
@@casper_z1259🤣🤣
@@casper_z1259 you’re funny Hehehe 😂
Absolutely CACKLING at all the Hank hill inserts
When AD confronted Matthew about saying the same exact thing,he immediately said “Amber”,then had the gall to deny he ever said that to her,what he told Amber was different and not as deep. Yet Amber repeated exactly what he had told her and AD. He also dropped himself in it by saying Amber when AD confronted him.
This video has me laughing so hard 😂 the deadpan "someone tell amber to start running"
I actually do think Chelsea favours Megan Fox, I could see why she says that. And the blonde mum out of Hero’s. But as soon as she chose Jimmy over Trevor I was gasped. And I skipped a lot of content cause it was boring. But that man wanted you. And she’s going to self sabotage this entire thing because of her past trauma and insecurities. That argument was wild, not cause of the reason but how it played out. He fully acknowledged her feelings and validated her and she just kept going, ignoring his feelings and it was baffling to me. And she FULLY lied about not telling people about the L word. Just say you don’t remember.
Jessica tearing Jimmy apart was annoying because how did he ruin your time there? Y’all dated. That’s it. He didn’t choose you and I know that hurt but to rip into him like that was weird and felt extremely bitter. Like a guy who calls a girl ugly because she declines.
Finally, what the fuck is up with Laura’s blaccent and why does the entire cast think it’s okay to talk about AD’s body the way they do. She’s a person. With a great personality. The way they hypersexualise her as if she’s not a real person is disgusting.
Dude should have walked out on Jessica's little rant. Anytime a toddler throws a fit, you treat them as such.
I think Chelsea favors Megan too! Chelsea just heavier & maybe taller than he expected. What a big & foolish mistake she made though. He’s not into her & is lying his ass off about how he feels about her. 😬😬
Totally agree about Jessica. She did too much. It wasn’t a graceful exit.
& AD sexualized herself as soon as she met Clay & continues to do it. It’s cringe. He’s not into her, just her ass but that won’t last very long.
True, i can see the resemblance
She does look like her, but a much larger version. When men think of Megan they think eyes, lips and BODY! She should’ve known she was setting herself up for failure.
@@WilliamsPinch i agree unless you can beat a top model naked do NOT compare yourself to an attractive actress!
Matthew gave me the accountant vibe but evil, his build, his demeanor. Would recommend not messing with him, he gives me the chills
He gave me 'evil psychiatrist' vibes when he was psychoanalysing AD
Matthew scared the sh*t out of me 😳 I don’t think I’ve seen a scarier contestant on a reality tv show than that man.
Me too !!!
I thought Jessica and Jimmy would be perfect for each other but the way Jessica reacted to not getting the response she wanted and then expressing how much better she looks than Chelsea really showed ger true colors. She turned mean real fast... 😬
She was upset - sometimes people say things when they are angry
@@breannegeorge9924Reminder that if a dude did THAT, he would have gotten flamed. Women don't get a free pass for it.
The fact that Trevor asked her if she would’ve said yes if he went first and she stayed silent 😭😭😭😭😭 poor guy
"The Hank Hill of Love is Blind"😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dying
I think Ttrevor looks like Ralph ,'' Wreck-It Ralph'' , big and cute!
That’s exactly what me and my friends were saying 😂
I see it.
Yes omg watching Chelsea reject him made me so sad, he seems like such a big teddy bear 😢❤
I didn’t think it was possible to be worse than Shake but somehow Matthew limbo‘d under the bar.
Whata wrong with Shake. I liked how real he was. You people just jumoed in bandwagon. Try more critical thinking not follow the masses
@@merah989literally people on the show who knew him disliked him some of the guys too.
@@merah989lmao he literally told people he wasn't attracted to Deepti and that she reminded him of his aunt and still didn't break it off
@@merah989 He was a shitty human being, don't defend him
Shake was disgraceful lol wym @@merah989
Matthew is the S6 version of the guy in S5 who pretended to cry and then whipped out Visine.
I LITERALLY TOLD MY BOYFRIEND ABOUT THE HANK HILL JIMMY CONNECTION AND HE SAID “I don’t see it” SO THANKYOU FOR SEEING IT. Everything about him screams Hank Hill!!!
propane
Matthew was terrifying but Jimmy was such a dud he was so superficial! Which defeats the purpose of this ridiculous show! Oh my god I just realized Jimmy full on picked Chelsea because he wanted to avoid the kid! And Jess said what she said because she knows he was being a coward!
I really don't see what they found appealing about him. He's so boring and sucks at communicating his emotions
Same! What pissed jess off was that he was basically on the fence and didn't want to commit one way or the other. She said I should never have to wonder how you feel about me and that's exactly what he's doing to Chelsea. I think he came to play! He was talking to everyone excerpt the person he is engaged too, Trevor would have been 100% attentive. @@ughmina
also because he thought she was a Megan Fox look-a-like 🤭
@@lelesli yeah se I like Megan fox but thats not enough of a reason to marry someone!
It was that "people say I look like Meghan Fox" comment. Look where it got him lol.
Matthew gives me murderer vibes.
Fantake, you are doing the lord's work! That's 6 hours Netflix isn't taking away from my life😁
Like I told my husband, I believe Chelsea chose Jimmy because of 2 reasons. 1) She felt Jess was hotter than her and 2)Jimmy was always on the fence and she yearns for the drama of chasing a man who is less interested in her. Trevor was about her 100% and she turned towards someone who was not. She got 2 birds with 1 stone: she "won" the man from the hotter Jess AND she got to replay her attachment trauma with men. I swear the producers choose the people with the most trauma so they can get ratings.
“America’s going to be watching.” “Okay, Matthew… okay, bro 🙄” 😭😭😭
The pookie couple reference is actually sending me🤣🤣😭
The irony is that Jess actually looks like Megan Fox, 😅
Yeah, I thought so, too!
She looks like every nipped and tucked overfilled botoxed housewife mommy vlogger on instagram with too much lash tryin to catch a rich man to support her kids.
Exactly
Lmaooo for real!
No, she doesn't at all.
10:41 I say this with no irony, I can see the resemblance to Megan Fox! Her eyes, lips, especially from that angle. She isn’t Megan Fox, but I don’t think it’s wrong to say. Maybe in that moment it set some high expectations, but it wasn’t a full-on lie.
Y'all r gaslighting urselves. She looks nothing like her
Yes her eyes, maybe lips, but she’s not in the same stratosphere. And men will happily let you know you’re delusional if you say she wasn’t lying 😂
Remember she was just reporting what others have said about her. She couldn't even come up with Megan Fox's name. He said that.
@@zazubombay this part! most people are acting like she talked herself up with that comparison but she blatantly told him that she didn't see the resemblance. (I agree that she probably shouldn't have brought it up in the first place, though)
I can see the resemblance jimmy just got too excited thinking he was speaking to actual Megan fox
I loved how Clay freaked out when AD told him Matthew was the other guy. I think AD understood what she was dealing with in Matthew from that reaction and I’m glad she ran from him.
Matthew started out on the spectrum, like Asperger's perhaps, and quickly transformed into a master communicator of sorts. Bizarre experience watching this guy.
He cares so much about how he is being perceived by the viewers. He didn’t even care about HER.
From some angles Chelsea does look like Megan Fox to me so she didn't lie per se, but she did stretch a bit lol. But they clearly cast people for drama and lunatics, the fact that there are successful couples at all is actually wild.
It’s a stretch, especially at her size. She set an impossible bar for herself.
@@WilliamsPinchshe wasn’t referring to her body tho…she said just because of her hair and smile on the show..he’s the one who ran with it
@@AJslime115she knew what she was doing when she said that
She looks like Megan fox if Megan fox was ugly 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m sorry I’m going to hell but I’m just saying what I see
Yeah I can kinda see it. She has her eyes.
These episodes were like heroin for messy reality tv. Season is about to get wild.
10/10 so far
😂😂😂😂😂😂 so accurate
Honestly, Chelsea looks identical to Adele 😂 idk where she got Megan fox ☹️😂
Adele before.
Nothing like Megan Fox.
16 year old Adele
people are comparing her to jay leno
@@cholehill8638😂😂😂 spot on
Why does Matthew literally sit on a quarter of an inch of the sofa
LMFAO i didn’t realize i paused at that part reading your comment 😂😂
My dad xits like that 😂
So he can sigh and get up fast and leave without saying anything. He so weird
It’s a survival tactic to run away fast. If he was further back, it would signal comfort.
I saw that his notebook had his name on it and he was reading it while sat away from the other guys and I was immediately 'psychopath'. Then I saw that other notebooks had their names on them and I was like 'oh 😂 maybe not'. Turns out I was right the first time.
ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!!
Reading his own manifesto.
I noticed that too! And even when he was sitting with the other men or was around them in general, he never engaged with them.
Matthew reminds me of this quote I saw on Twitter. Something along the lines of, “Tell any white girl “I’m sorry about the way Matt treated you” and she’ll cry and feel understood”
I've always said I've never met a good Matthew. They've all been absolute douche bags.
lol
Omg
😂 And they don't see a problem with that.
i full heartedly believe that matthew and amber were hired just for the triangle plot becuase they only are shown when it is related to AD and we never get to see Ambers other conversations and there is no way amber only had a connection with Matthew and left because he was talking to another person, it all seems very intentional especially after Matthew left because 'he was so worried" for amber although he said hes more wanting AD it just does not make sense that he would leave because amber left and it wouldn't make sense why Amber left so something fishy was going on behind scenes
Jimmy should've chosen Jessica..They are both shallow individuals
Can already tell this season is going to get somewhat ugly
I'd be willing to bet it's the kid that did him in
@@CrowdFavemost definitely….
matthew is giving off very non-exadurated vibes of patrick bateman and that sends chills down my spine
AD is legendary. Top Tier. The body is serving. This season is worse than last season. So messy!!! Clay is horrible. Chelsea is desperate. He is telling her everything she wants to hear but Jimmy had me laughing he said Megan Fox where?? He ain’t attracted to that woman. But Jimmy said ooh AD is attractive. Why would she scream that? Then she mad that they talk for less than 3 mins. I would see is AD is single but she their with her man. Why you mad???
Tbf, he was clearly buzzed cause there's no other explanation on why he thought that was appropriate to say lol
Exactly, they were supposed to mingle and get to know each other! What was that about he “being alone” at the bar? Go mingle! She presented herself to him as an easy uncomplicated woman -her words- and she is clingy and insecure and needy as heck. He chose her because she was meant to be easy going and fun but she is quite the opposite. Also she looks super creepy to me, she looks like Pennywise, and I cannot unsee it!!
AD actually seemed very interested in Jimmy tbh and we all know she loves them red flags
I literally passed away !! When he left the girl talking in the pods alone didn't even say "See ya later, I'm not feeling this" LMAOOOOOO
I don’t think Clay is genuine, there are so many red flags from him, asking about her looks to him being angry and jealous. Girl you need to run.
I don't get why they didn't show anything from his dates with Amber, makes me wonder if they were trying to make him look bad.
Edit: I'm not trying to defend his behavior, but I was expecting to see him telling those things to Amer with my own eyes, instead I had to just believe her. Why would they do this? Did they forget to record it? Makes no sense to me. In every season they always show the scenes when there's some misunderstanding, for the sake of the public, you know?
It’s probably all scripted, that’s why.
The editing needs to have twists in the show like in scripted TV. By withholding the Amber dates it allows for the big reveal. The editors could have chosen AD as the big reveal and only shown Amber's dates up until then. For whatever reasons they thought AD would play better for audiences than Amber.
@@pigpjs Yeah... that's just bad editing. What would play better was a scene of him saying those things to Amber right after she accused him of doing so. AND the scene where he tells AD the same thing.
I think they cut out Amber because she left the show. Reality TV doesn't like quitters. They left Matthew in because he provided some needed drama.
@@zazubombay I thought about that. It's the only thing that makes sense to me.
WHAT KIND OF MONSTER ORDERS RED WITH FISH 😂😂😂😂😂 i immediately thought the same thing DRY WHITE WINES ONLY
I was like the f. We shoulda known he was nuts right then and there.
On this show, the right wine with dinner, is the least of their problems.
I like red wine and I will drink it whenever I please, regardless of what the food police say. 😊
I swear Matt is just punking us all…or it’s an experiment for him and he is going to use it to write a university thesis on it, lol
Nah he’s probably a sociopath. This show is a great way for introverts who would otherwise offput people to advertise themselves. He’s physically attractive, if only he didn’t open his mouth.
I don't know about anyone else but,
THE NARRATION IS EVERYTHING!
Matthew reminds me of a reel: "Saluting all the girls who chose personality over looks just to be played by a goblin."
... but his personality is way worse than his looks??!
I wonder if the producers paired the two women and prompted them to talk about their date with Matthew to save them from him.
I am probably giving reality show producers too much credit.
Yeahhh with everything that's come out about the show, I don't think the producers cared about anything but the potential for drama.