What I'm NOT Buying For Baby #2 || Minimalist Motherhood

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  • @marykaystoll9587
    @marykaystoll9587 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dip your elbow in. If it’s right for elbow it’s perfect for baby. Temperature of heated milk on wrist is a good gauge for that, too!!

  • @dvo1060
    @dvo1060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Im with you on the button sleepers.
    I hate zippered sleepers for babies under 3 months. The zipper bunches up and looks so weird and uncomfortable. I’ve tried many brands. They all do it.

    • @baileyrado4041
      @baileyrado4041 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same! We were the same way, I never understood why people hate the button sleepers so much

  • @amandalozano1360
    @amandalozano1360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree on most things! I will say IKEA does have large hooded towels that are great for our toddler!

  • @Enoughinternet556
    @Enoughinternet556 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My son hated pacifiers and im so glad he did because the weaning process seems rough 😭

    • @yarazard
      @yarazard 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know what’s harder than pacifier weaning. Thumb sucking weaning, can’t throw those away 😂

  • @elliegauvin5520
    @elliegauvin5520 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yes same!!!! I'm also not upgrading to a double stroller- just adding a glider board on my thule spring. Thankfully our carseat is compatible so just makes sense to go that route instead of buying a whole new system. We will be buying Bio Gaia probiotic for health products (cheaper at Costco) and doing zippered sleepers (bonds!!) but everything else totally relatable! #2 isn't even getting a bedroom until 6 months old 😂

  • @nicola6234
    @nicola6234 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We have a baby bath tub that was gifted to us that just lives in our regular tub. It saves us a lot of water and my 2yo still uses it. Also, yes on the baby towels! So useless. In terms of health products, we only have panadol on hand at all times, really handy for teething, fussing after vaccinations and if they have a cold.

  • @Kate-mp3du
    @Kate-mp3du 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm so surprised at your reason for the bath towel! My 16 month old still fits hers and probably will for a long time

    • @robyn3083
      @robyn3083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine too! I have the Burt's Bees ones and they are huge

    • @allywhitacre4119
      @allywhitacre4119 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I came to say the same thing. 12 months over here and still using the same hooded towels and love it.

  • @tnbsp
    @tnbsp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I would still get a snot sucker. If your baby wakes up choking on his spit or super clogged in his nose, it’s a lifesaver. If we hadn’t had one I’m not sure how I could’ve helped him those times. A wipe wouldnt have cut it for us

  • @katebrown5777
    @katebrown5777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love the hooded bath towels. You must have got a small one cause i got one for my son when he was a newborn and he still uses it now and he is over 3.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow! Maybe mine was just small 😄

  • @yarazard
    @yarazard 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pacifiers can prevent sids but you do you. My daughter liked them for the first 3 months. And only one brand, Philips lol

  • @naorivas
    @naorivas 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'll be interested to see how the pacifier thing works out. We tried to not use pacis but it didn't work out with our baby. Every baby is different. I've heard stories of siblings being complete opposites personality-wise.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Totally. I’m completely basing this off of rook haha

  • @jasmineduffy2810
    @jasmineduffy2810 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cannot stand the Velcro swaddles personally. Had them with my first and yes they worked but undoing them for middle of the night diapers just resulted in a wide awake baby

    • @sewamazing4498
      @sewamazing4498 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate, my mom has those they don't seem practical

  • @camilleschryve9649
    @camilleschryve9649 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    About the health products. I would suggest getting baby tylenol in advance if you don't have a pharmacy/store that sells it that's open 24/7 near you just because sometimes a fever will get them out of nowhere and you really want to have it on hand if it happens at night. Especially after vaccines and stuff.
    This advice was given to me by a nurse after my baby's 2 month vaccines and she didn't need them then but definitely needed them for the 4 month ones. Just a thought!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s a really good point!

  • @dvo1060
    @dvo1060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    For bath water temperature: test on your wrist. NOT hand. WRIST. If it’s too hot on your wrist then it’s too hot for baby

    • @Luna-fy3in
      @Luna-fy3in 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Okay I need to try that. I do have a little starfish that has the digital temp which works perfect for bath. We just throw it in and adjust the water as it goes. Was like $11 bucks. Been using it since her first bath.

    • @Thelilmissbz
      @Thelilmissbz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always have done the wrist bc that’s what my mom did 😂 it works

    • @Honeybeemeadow618
      @Honeybeemeadow618 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can also dip your elbow in the water. If it is the same temp as your elbow then you're good!

    • @kamyllem4867
      @kamyllem4867 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve heard elbow is better. Haven’t gotten to try it myself though. Inner arm worked for my first baby though.

  • @meaghanchasse3845
    @meaghanchasse3845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally someone else who doesn’t buy zipper sleepers for little babies. Anytime I share that opinion people come for me 😂

    • @27sweetpea27
      @27sweetpea27 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hate zippers for tiny babies!!! Once they are squirming and mobile yes zippers are easier but buttons all the way for littles

  • @Ellesflowers
    @Ellesflowers 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think I’m gonna have a baby around the same time hehe and I’m still confused about what to get this time around… this gave me some perspective. Thank you!

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So fun! Stay tuned for my video on what I’m buying for this baby!

  • @RCP511
    @RCP511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with the paci. Next baby I’ll hold out on using one.

  • @Luna-fy3in
    @Luna-fy3in 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My baby hated being swaddled and could get out of every type and material. Literally since she was born. We did the arms up and that worked during the newborn phase. Also she never took a pacifier.. maybe a handful of times. Now we just use them as toys 😂

    • @ellen9018
      @ellen9018 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      She sounds like my baby. Never ever wanted to be swaddled. Only tolerated the Love2Dream at the very beginning, then hated that (wish I hadn’t bought so many). Never took a dummy/pacifier… just my nips 😵‍💫

  • @buzzi2k
    @buzzi2k 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pacifiers can be useful for babies with reflux too, but otherwise it seems like a faff!

    • @eirdoula
      @eirdoula 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      They also reduce the risk of SIDS

  • @ellec2582
    @ellec2582 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Use a laundry basket :) for bathing

  • @shammah4374
    @shammah4374 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The best health product is colic calm (it's natural, and for gas and hiccups ect) it is AMAZING

  • @caitlinstewart4283
    @caitlinstewart4283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great video. I really appreciated the comment on the baby bath, that happened to be something that I was convinced I needed but now I'm going to return it and I feel a weight off of me! Those things are so big and cumbersome. Same things with the pacifiers, if I can avoid creating problems for myself I will! 33 weeks with baby #1 this week 🥰

  • @danellamacasaet4196
    @danellamacasaet4196 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Could you make a vid of what you have bought for baby number 2?!

  • @hannahg9653
    @hannahg9653 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    For my first child I was gifted some hooded towels, but they were full sized towels with a nice big hood. My 1.5 year still uses them and they fit perfectly. But I think the person actually custom made the towels as well. I have 2 so I will just use the other one with my next child.

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow that’s sounds perfect!

  • @Kristina-vf4mv
    @Kristina-vf4mv 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree that baby hooded towels are a waste of money. I liked the adult towels we already had better anyway.
    I think you’ve mentioned before you don’t find out the gender until birth. Can you do a video about the pros and cons and what the experience of finding out gender at birth is like? Trying to convince my spouse we should not to find out for baby #2.

  • @satije
    @satije 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m fine with baby mucus but when I used the frida snot sucker on my son it was gag inducing for sure lol

  • @princesspinkie1661
    @princesspinkie1661 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Zippers are bad when you have a pudgy wiggler: zipping skin makes you feel like a bad mom.

    • @magdalenaparadowska4833
      @magdalenaparadowska4833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You just need to keep one finger underneath the zipper while zipping :)

  • @RCP511
    @RCP511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I just found out I’m pregnant this morning! I have a 9 month old. 😆

    • @AshleyEmbers
      @AshleyEmbers  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amazing, congrats!!!!!

    • @RCP511
      @RCP511 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AshleyEmbers thank you!

  • @KP-bq7yc
    @KP-bq7yc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pediatric dentist told me pacifiers are bad for development. I've read from other sources that support that claim. We CHOSE not to use them, and other than some family thinking we're weird, it's great not having one more item to manage and keep track of.

  • @taylorswf23
    @taylorswf23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wanted the gowns to work for us but just couldn’t… we’re zipper and snap fans over here.