as a genderfluid, the point of it for me is to not have to think about what gender i’m doing, i just gender whenever i’m gendering and don’t gender when i’m not
As a genderfluid person, yeah it’s literally so messy and it drives you crazy sometimes - but to me it feels like sometimes waking up and feeling crippling gender dysphoria and wanting to rip my chest off and craving for people to call me a gender affirming name and pronouns, and then waking up the next day and those feelings being partially or fully gone and wanting quite the opposite, to be called and dress like my birth gender. It’s also being very stuck when making long-term or permanent decisions like cutting your hair or going on hormones, you never know what to decide since you KNOW that your feelings will most likely change. You can get what you feel is a gender affirming hair cut at the moment and wake up the next day and absolutely hate it. It comes with a lot of confusion and also denial, since it’s not a very recognized gender identity, you try to conform to one even knowing that you just aren’t that. so yeah, lots of love to my genderfluid friends out there ❤ Also literally how are we in the same row as pupgender -
I'm agender genderfluid myself, and yes, it can be frustrating, especially since I don't have the resources to change my gender expression as I see fit. For the most part I've gone about my business as my AGAB, presenting in a very bland and nondescript way, like a blank slate. For clothing I go for practicality, since I work outdoors a lot. Is it durable, washable, and does it have good pockets? This typically means men's clothing. I never bothered to style my hair or grow it out, so for years I've been shaving my head like a renunciate. I have started HRT, figuring I owe it to myself if there's a chance it helps, and I'm leaving all options on the table. I don't know my exact transition goals because that's like trying to hit a moving target, and there is no preexisting model for nonbinary genders. Therefore it's up to me to rediscover and reinvent what that means for myself.
Yeah I feel you. I'm Genderfluid and I've been talking to my therapist about HRT and it's tough, I never really know if the decision I make is going to be the correct one or not. But we Genderfluid people always seem to find a way, we are liquid after all. 💖🤍💜🖤💙
As a genderfluid person I appreciate the fear Its (for me) feeling some days (or weeks or even months the time frame is random) wanting to be seen or grouped into a specific group of gender or in some cases just NOT wanting to be grouped into a specific group of gender The strange part is (for me at least) when the gender changes you can’t imagine being anything else
My genderfluid cousin went through a really long period of time where they felt nonbinary, and were like doubting everything for 2 months straight, and then they felt all at once
Literally this- I have to remind myself that I'm genderfluid everytime I'm certain that I'm just a girl or just a boy because I know it'll eventually shift, and it always does
Gender is like Metal sub-genres. There are tons them, some overlap, and sometimes there are “genders” that aren’t really genders in the sense that they are types of queer people like catboys and twinks.
I'm genderfluid, and the way I perceive my gender is, usually, never binary. I usually just feel a stronger connection towards a gender at a specific time, but the intensity also may vary. I may feel like a completely binary girl half a day, then a demigirl, bigender, agender... Tbh I just go with the flow and don't try to label what gender I'm feeling like. It's more practical to just dress however I wanna dress and use whatever pronouns feel best at that point, without questioning wether that means I'm a boy, a girl or what. Saying I'm genderfluid feels the best
Honestly, I relate. I flow between being a demiboy, non-binary, and a trans dude. I’m a demiboy most of the time though. But I call myself nb, and use he/him pronouns to not confuse people.
so much this. there's no distinct change, just sometimes realizing that i'm different than what my memories say. memory says i enjoyed looking and being called a certain way, but now i hate it. and sometimes being called a certain thing feels good, but it's hit or miss what will work and i won't know until it's even said. took me a while to realize i can just dress and present and act however i feel comfortable at the time. so much better that way. honestly when it comes to labels, things like "weird thing" are more reliable than "girl" or anything like that (though somehow i consistently like "slimegirl" more than "slime" or "girl" individually lol, maybe because slimes are inherently a bit fluid anyways)
The fact that you put the genderfluid flag in fear and then in nice gender bud and called the gender a disaster is so funny to me because that’s genuinely what it feels like edit: and now it is in the womp section xD
i had no idea what libra masc or agender was before this video, but now i think that i identify with these more than nonbinary or trans masc ( i was identifying as those before) thank you noah for this video! youve really helped me with my trans journey, i just recently came out to my mom and you were a huge inspiration! thank you man
the “what do non-binary people do? crochet stuff?” KILLED me because i wanted to laugh but actually yes. yes i do. so does my partner. we can’t fight the stereotypes anymore
I'm genderflor, which is what you get when you water your agender seeds with genderfluid. You never know which seeds will germinate first, how long you'll have to wait for them to grow, what they'll look like when they mature, or how much of a harvest you'll get from them. The most you can do is keep a close watch on them every day and hope for the best. It's difficult to set long term transition goals due to everything being in constant flux, and the fact that there is no one way to be genderfluid, or any nonbinary gender. I'm the first nonbinary patient my endocrinologist has worked with, so I'm figuring it out as I go. I know that some nonbinary people take exception to being referred to as "the best of both worlds" because this has not been their lived experience, and it hasn't for me either. However, that might be how I choose to describe my own goals. I want to be adaptable, and capable of fulfilling any role where I'm needed. I want to get to a point in my transition where I can freely switch up my gender expression day by day. I suppose there's a reason I've always been fascinated by shapeshifters in fiction, because that's the way I see myself.
4:09 as a genderfluid person, yeah its just constant questioning- with the genderfluid questions, while it’s different for everyone for me it’s usually more of a vibe than a “oh I’m a full dude now”, like I’ll feel dysphoric over things I did not feel dysphoric over like an hour ago and I’m just like “oh alright then I guess I’m more masculine now”. the main reason I say I’m genderfluid is I know that my gender does not stay the same, even if I could not tell you what it was at any moment lmao
"A silly little video that you'll just gobble up" yes Noah we will gobble it up because possibly 80% of your audience is sad trans teens and you are our trans big brother P.s I got your hoodie for Christmas and I refuse to take it off
I also wanted a hoodie from Noah for christmas and sadly haven't got it bc my parents "dont support trans people", and they found out Noah and Cavetown is trans, which means no merch from them *sob*
me confused on whether i’m a cis woman or non-binary (rlly confident it’s the latter lmao) crocheting a cow plush while watching this: 👁️👄👁️ edit: STREAM “3 DAY HEADACHE” TONIGHT AT MIDNIGHT
As a librafluid, which is basically being mostly agender but also kinda switching between male and female, I find it very funny that Noah put librafeminine/libramasculine at FEAR Edit: I just got more into the video, now it's up at nice job
I'm transmasculine and for me, it's more wanting to *physically* transition in a masculine way! Like I want to go on T and get top surgery, but I still really love feminine clothing and big make-up looks. Also, little note on xenogenders such as pupgender! Xenogenders are often used by (but not exclusively) neurodivergent people! They can help to explain a concept that many neurodivergent people struggle to understand or relate to - or they're just the way our brains process gender :D If anyone has any questions, let me know and I'll do my best to answer! (Although I'm by no means a gender expert, haha)
Thats a really good way of describing being transmasc!! Thats really similar to how i feel about transitioning. And xenogenders are super awesome. I identify with a lot of xenogenders as like mini labels that i dont really tell people about, they are more just for me.
@@planetaryg0 I think it depends on the context. I've seen it used as a gender label, an umbrella term (for trans men, demi boys and the like), or in reference to transition. Personally, like OP, I use trans masc (mostly) in reference to my physical transition, but non-binary as my "main" label. I use them somewhat interchangeably, depending on what I want to express. To me, masculine is more about expression than it is about gender identity
As a genderfluid person, I rate it on wether or not I'm crying over having slightly long hair is... or throwing up because my body doesn't match how I'm feeling etc. It's day by day and is exhausting but when I do the things I know can help its gorgeous
4:09 as a former identifier of bigender, yes absolutely had periods of “is it going to be like this forever???” And then I’d wake up the next day and it’d have changed. Eventually for me it did end up sticking forever (kind of). I’m now just genderflux (so one gender that fluctuates in intensity rather than two genders that both fluctuated)
being genderfluid for me is pretty much me just sitting there and thinking "huh... i'm kinda in a *insert pronoun* mood rn" and then just going with it
It's stupid but I often feel dysphoric for having "girls hobbies". So I got happy when you said crochet as an example of typical a non-binary hobby. Is that a thing ?
Why would you ever feel dysphoric about something that you enjoy? I know that dysphoria can't really be controlled, but you shouldn't feel bad about something that you enjoy. Just enjoy what hobbies you like and chill :D
13:40 i feel like David Tennant would be delighted (also i think time lords are like genderless? or at least i dont think they have genders like we do)
8:44 hey noah! thought id just pop in here, give you a little info yk? so this actually exists! its called therianthropy and someone who experiences it is called a therian! a therian is someone who identifies as an animal on a nonphysical level, so basically mentally. thats where you might have seen the thing you mentioned about the guy shifting to a wolf (i cant find the timestamp lmao) thats a part of therianthropy! although not all therians shift. sorry im not the best at explaining things but if you want you can look it up! thats all from me have a nice day ❤
This video gave me the words to describe my identity in a way that felt right. Bigender, the two that describe me are pangender and agender. It doesn’t make much sense, but it feels right. I don’t shift between them i’m both. I am everything and nothing.
'I love things making sense' yeah me too mate, me too, it would be so lovely if every once in a while I actually did make things make sense, but oh well😂😂
For context the new doctor who stuff isn't actually that cringe!! I didn't watch any clips before hand and just enjoyed the 3 episode special and had a great time, it was handled pretty well to me. Though I guess if you saw the stuff out of context it might sound clumsy/cringe. Also Nah the doctor isn't a detransitioner, it's just that they change genders every regeneration- it sort of parallels conditions like DID where different people within the same body are each a unique person, and therefore can have separate genders. The difference is of course that real people with DID exist within the same body, and that the doctor is one person at a time, and the body changes every so often. It's not an exact same thing, it's like the Doctor's regeneration is a SIMILAR thing to DID.
@@Qabim aww thanks,I am now,I'm with my cousins,one of them called me a furry and I said "oh thanks for pointing out the obvious",we both laughed, I'm having a better day
I love that you have David Tennant as a gender 😄 I would be so happy to be him OMG! I love Dr. Who, the concept is phenomenal and the show has lasted decades!
8:04 this is so real and relatable. i saw a tweet that was like "all the trans guys i've met have had this energy" and it was a picture of raccoons climbing on a brick wall captioned "boys being boys" and that is such a specific gender vibe thing i love it
About what he asked about genderfluid folk, it is sometimes like you’re just going around, with say a girl gender, just vibing being a girl and you blink and its like “what the fuck am I doing?” But ofc different for everyone
3:41 hey im one of those people! ive seen you comment on alterhumanity a bit and i know you probably wont see this but most of the people who "Shift into a wolf" experience therianthropy!
I'm genderfluid. For me personally, when my gender changes, I just feel entirely about my body and the way I present myself. Some days I am really dysphoric about my body and others I'm not. Some days I don't know what my brain wants.
Genderfluid person here! For me I usually don’t realize I’ve switched genders until someone refers to me as a certain set of pronouns. It’s just sort of an instinct and I wear whatever my body tells me to. It’s different for everyone, but I can also have different genders throughout the day. Hope this helped any confusion/questions!
Doctor who is canonically gender-fluid actually ! and they’re also pan romantic and asexual according to most of the actors :3 (but yeah, david tennant is GENDER)
I love all the comments from genderfluid people here ❤ I feel most comfortable saying i'm nonbinary, but rationally i know i experience my gender in a very fluid way. For me it is liberating in the sense that i don't need to think about it all the time. I'm just genderfluid/nonbinary so i can not pay attention to the shifts and don't fixate too much on it. But sometimes it's hard because i may experience dysphoria for a week quite strongly and think i may want to medically transition and then it goes away. When i'm by myself i mostly feel agender or nonbinary as in the exact middle between boy and girl. The rest of the time i feel mostly transmasc / demiboy. Sometimes i wish i was a cis dude, sometimes i'd hate it. Sometimes i wish my birth language (italian) had a real gender neutral way of speaking. Sometimes i don't care. Sometimes i just mix all the pronouns. It sounds chaotic, and sometimes it is. But in my experience the main problem is when people deliberately misgender me saying things like i'm a woman or a man or use super specific gendered words. Love to all ❤🎉
Is this gender affirming care?...yes, yes it is 😂 NOAH YOUR MUSIC & YOUR VIDS ARE THE REASON I SURVIVED MY FAMILY DINNER TONIGHT SO THANK YOU FROM A TINY CLOSETED TRANSMAC
honestly there is so much overlap in so many genders and so so many specific genders that i could *technically* be that i’ve just given up. my gender is boything and vibes
I indentify as nonbinary for ease, but i do feel more genderfluid and i will say the main moment i can think of from when i was younger to explain the feeling was a friend painted my nails and when i went home i proceeded to have meltdown and scrub my fingers raw because it was wrong and i needed it off
As someone who is genderfluid I gotta say… it’s awful. Basically the dysphoria decides what I am that day. Usually if I’m feeling more confident I’ll swing towards agender/allgenders. If I’m not feeling it that day I’ll default to nonbinary. And when I dread my feminine appearance (which is often) I’ll be more masculine that day. I only feel feminine when I’m around my partner that makes me feel super safe or when the dysphoria takes sick leave (usually lasting 2 hours at most). Managing all of that is Hell.
DEAR NOAH PLEASE READ: to explain the pupgender thing: pupgender falls under the xenogender umbrella and basically xenogenders are genders that corralate to things rather than a traditional gender like a girl or a boy. someone can have multiple xenogenders or a xenogender "stash" as the community calls them and theyre mainly used by neurodivergent people who experience gender a lot differently. xenogenders can basically be anything, like a gender thats of a fictional character, an object, a feeling, a stim, an animal, a rock, you name it. the xenogender community gets a lot of flack from the rest of lgbtq+ or transphobes who use it as a way to say "trans people are crazy" but i think theyre really cool
The Doctor is a Timelord, their main ability is to regenerate everytime they get close to death, they can change basically every attribute they have, some traits of their personality may stand out more in some lives than others, they may change sex / skin color or maybe even species (if you count the 1996 Movie as cannon). The fact they could change sex is hinted at in Matt Smith's run, in Peter Capaldi's it's more present (the master becoming missy, and a member of the gallifreyan high council regenerating from a white guy to a black women). Anyway theres a whole video called "The Doctor being Genderfluid for 5 minutes and 25 seconds" its such a great show. Timelords are basically all nonbinary/genderfuild and pansexual
This was educational. I must admit, I paused to google a couple of those and paused to read the ones that you googled. I tried googling raccoon gender but the results gave me ways to gender a raccoon 🤷♀️ I need to research more.
"and when you're nonbinary you want to crochet stuff" I'm genderfluid. I'm crocheting while watching this. I absolutely love this description. As a genderfluid person, I am honored. I'd say being genderfluid is a weird mix of constant (but minimal) gender confusion and just kind of vibing. If someone asks me what gender I am, I say something along the lines of "i dunno. tired?"
I am gender-fluid, and yes it is a bit confusing, it might have something to do with my adhd because it just feels like when you are obsessed and hyper fixated on being a fantastic lady to the point where you don’t know why you identified as anything else because this is clearly the one. Then you wake up the next day with no sense of gender and you just feel like you. Like gender has nothing to do with you and you none with it. For me, one gender lasts from a day to about a week. And large overall fazes of gender like being much more masculine and more on the boy side for almost a year sometimes. And then getting dysphoric when someone sees you as a guy because you just became more feminine again. Idk wtf I have just said or if anyone would even read it. Also this is just my experience I don’t know if this is a common one for gender-fluid people. But, to answer your question, it is a bit confusing sometimes, but I wouldn’t have it any other way🤙
I used to identify as genderfluid but im now on a solid like, year of identifying strictly as a guy, so I'm not using that label anymore. sometimes I get kind of freaked out that after I transition medically, I'll switch back to being fem and feel horrible 😭 but yeah it takes ages to make decisions about medical transition when you're genderfluid. I came out 3 years ago and I'm only now on a waiting list for T because I had to think about it for so long.
4:03 "Do you ever have like 3 girl days in a row and youre like oh god like what if this is gonna be like this forever?" Oh im not even trigender and i can tell you that its definitely a common experience lmao. I used to identify as genderfluid and even tho i dont use that lable on myself anymore i still have some fluidity element in it, and in every single gender fluid (not the gender) community ive been so many people have talked about getting a few days in a row with the same gender and second guessing themselves 💀
Honestly I wish David tenant was a gender, I would be all over it I’m obsessed with doctor who and the one that David is in is definitely my favourite! Ps.pre-ordered vinyl and I got your hoodie 4my b-day as well as the ‘chronically online’ shirt because my parents would walk into my room and ask what you doing? The awnser was always’wAtChInG nOaHfInNcE wHaT dId YoU tHiNk’
i use transmasc for myself and overall the experience for me has been “man it would be so much easier to be a guy… wait am i a guy?… EW fuck no” but feeling largely really masculine
STREAM MY NEW SONG AT MIDNIGHT:
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SORRY FOR THE LACK OF VIDEOS, BEEN BUSY TRYNA ESCAPE BURNOUT AND GIVE MYSELF A REST
OMG I FORGOT THE NEW SONG IS GETTING RELEASED TOMORROW, YASSSSSSS IM SO EXCITED
Ive been up till 2: 45 on average it’ll be on loop until i fall asleep 😃
THE SONG IS RELEASED FOR ME ITS AMAZING PROBABLY MY NEW FAVORITE
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Ohh, looking forward to that
as a genderfluid, the point of it for me is to not have to think about what gender i’m doing, i just gender whenever i’m gendering and don’t gender when i’m not
I absolutely love that ! Good for you!!
Yesss that's amazing!!!
This is the realest thing ive ever read
as a fellow genderfluid, I’ve never read something so true :)))
You worded it perfectly
As a genderfluid person, yeah it’s literally so messy and it drives you crazy sometimes - but to me it feels like sometimes waking up and feeling crippling gender dysphoria and wanting to rip my chest off and craving for people to call me a gender affirming name and pronouns, and then waking up the next day and those feelings being partially or fully gone and wanting quite the opposite, to be called and dress like my birth gender. It’s also being very stuck when making long-term or permanent decisions like cutting your hair or going on hormones, you never know what to decide since you KNOW that your feelings will most likely change. You can get what you feel is a gender affirming hair cut at the moment and wake up the next day and absolutely hate it.
It comes with a lot of confusion and also denial, since it’s not a very recognized gender identity, you try to conform to one even knowing that you just aren’t that.
so yeah, lots of love to my genderfluid friends out there ❤
Also literally how are we in the same row as pupgender -
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
I'm agender genderfluid myself, and yes, it can be frustrating, especially since I don't have the resources to change my gender expression as I see fit. For the most part I've gone about my business as my AGAB, presenting in a very bland and nondescript way, like a blank slate. For clothing I go for practicality, since I work outdoors a lot. Is it durable, washable, and does it have good pockets? This typically means men's clothing. I never bothered to style my hair or grow it out, so for years I've been shaving my head like a renunciate. I have started HRT, figuring I owe it to myself if there's a chance it helps, and I'm leaving all options on the table.
I don't know my exact transition goals because that's like trying to hit a moving target, and there is no preexisting model for nonbinary genders. Therefore it's up to me to rediscover and reinvent what that means for myself.
Fellow Genderfluid
FRRRR (noah pin THIS person NOW!! please?)
Yeah I feel you. I'm Genderfluid and I've been talking to my therapist about HRT and it's tough, I never really know if the decision I make is going to be the correct one or not. But we Genderfluid people always seem to find a way, we are liquid after all. 💖🤍💜🖤💙
As a genderfluid person I appreciate the fear
Its (for me) feeling some days (or weeks or even months the time frame is random) wanting to be seen or grouped into a specific group of gender or in some cases just NOT wanting to be grouped into a specific group of gender
The strange part is (for me at least) when the gender changes you can’t imagine being anything else
My genderfluid cousin went through a really long period of time where they felt nonbinary, and were like doubting everything for 2 months straight, and then they felt all at once
Yes this is definitely how it feels like and it's often to painful and confusing at the same time
literally same
Literally this- I have to remind myself that I'm genderfluid everytime I'm certain that I'm just a girl or just a boy because I know it'll eventually shift, and it always does
so what do your friends call you(pronouns)?
David Tennant in Doctor Who is not a gender, but David Tennant in Good Omens is a gender
YESSS FRR
@shark_zzz and whatever it is I want it 😭😭😭
@@SingSongThePegasus same 😭 he’s gotta leave some for the rest of us
If you are brave enough every single david tennant character is gender
I need Crowley‘s gender so bad
Gender is like Metal sub-genres. There are tons them, some overlap, and sometimes there are “genders” that aren’t really genders in the sense that they are types of queer people like catboys and twinks.
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
that makes so much sense holy shit
And no one really knows all of them 😭
Yes its like it's a load of made up rubbish no one should waste time on
@ayeright320 Fuck you all metal music is great
I'm genderfluid, and the way I perceive my gender is, usually, never binary. I usually just feel a stronger connection towards a gender at a specific time, but the intensity also may vary. I may feel like a completely binary girl half a day, then a demigirl, bigender, agender... Tbh I just go with the flow and don't try to label what gender I'm feeling like. It's more practical to just dress however I wanna dress and use whatever pronouns feel best at that point, without questioning wether that means I'm a boy, a girl or what. Saying I'm genderfluid feels the best
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Honestly, I relate. I flow between being a demiboy, non-binary, and a trans dude. I’m a demiboy most of the time though. But I call myself nb, and use he/him pronouns to not confuse people.
so much this. there's no distinct change, just sometimes realizing that i'm different than what my memories say. memory says i enjoyed looking and being called a certain way, but now i hate it. and sometimes being called a certain thing feels good, but it's hit or miss what will work and i won't know until it's even said. took me a while to realize i can just dress and present and act however i feel comfortable at the time. so much better that way. honestly when it comes to labels, things like "weird thing" are more reliable than "girl" or anything like that (though somehow i consistently like "slimegirl" more than "slime" or "girl" individually lol, maybe because slimes are inherently a bit fluid anyways)
The fact that you put the genderfluid flag in fear and then in nice gender bud and called the gender a disaster is so funny to me because that’s genuinely what it feels like edit: and now it is in the womp section xD
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Literally 😂
noah’s back at it again with the tier lists guys 😍😭😭
i had no idea what libra masc or agender was before this video, but now i think that i identify with these more than nonbinary or trans masc ( i was identifying as those before) thank you noah for this video! youve really helped me with my trans journey, i just recently came out to my mom and you were a huge inspiration! thank you man
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
Agender is non-binary, just a microlabel.
same.
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HAVENT WATCHED THIS VID YET BUT I KNOW ITLL BE GREAT SINCE ITS OUR KING NOAH THATS POSTED
Totally agree Noah our King
Totally agree Noah our King
@@LucieTalks101 We should make Noah the new king of the whole world tbh
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
@@p-__ excuse me what😭
Gotta say ‘NICE GENDER BUD’ is very affirming, thanks🙂
Also, can’t wait to see your show in April!
In case no one has told you today yet... You have a very good gender.
😊👍
the “what do non-binary people do? crochet stuff?” KILLED me because i wanted to laugh but actually yes. yes i do. so does my partner. we can’t fight the stereotypes anymore
I'm genderflor, which is what you get when you water your agender seeds with genderfluid. You never know which seeds will germinate first, how long you'll have to wait for them to grow, what they'll look like when they mature, or how much of a harvest you'll get from them. The most you can do is keep a close watch on them every day and hope for the best.
It's difficult to set long term transition goals due to everything being in constant flux, and the fact that there is no one way to be genderfluid, or any nonbinary gender. I'm the first nonbinary patient my endocrinologist has worked with, so I'm figuring it out as I go. I know that some nonbinary people take exception to being referred to as "the best of both worlds" because this has not been their lived experience, and it hasn't for me either. However, that might be how I choose to describe my own goals. I want to be adaptable, and capable of fulfilling any role where I'm needed. I want to get to a point in my transition where I can freely switch up my gender expression day by day. I suppose there's a reason I've always been fascinated by shapeshifters in fiction, because that's the way I see myself.
I’m genderflor too!
4:09 as a genderfluid person, yeah its just constant questioning-
with the genderfluid questions, while it’s different for everyone for me it’s usually more of a vibe than a “oh I’m a full dude now”, like I’ll feel dysphoric over things I did not feel dysphoric over like an hour ago and I’m just like “oh alright then I guess I’m more masculine now”. the main reason I say I’m genderfluid is I know that my gender does not stay the same, even if I could not tell you what it was at any moment lmao
Ikr lmao
Ikr this is so relatable!!! It's so painful to be genderfluid, but sometimes, you'll feel comfortable with yourself for once and it will feel amazing
Are you gonna rate your songs on a tier list at some point? I’d love to see that!
ABSOLUTELY
@@NOAHFINNCEcan you rate the songs that haven't been released yet so that we know which ones to especially look forward to.
That is a great idea
"A silly little video that you'll just gobble up" yes Noah we will gobble it up because possibly 80% of your audience is sad trans teens and you are our trans big brother
P.s I got your hoodie for Christmas and I refuse to take it off
As a sad trans teen I can confirm that I did in fact gobble this silly video up
I also wanted a hoodie from Noah for christmas and sadly haven't got it bc my parents "dont support trans people", and they found out Noah and Cavetown is trans, which means no merch from them *sob*
As another sad trans teen, I can confirm Noah is our big brother
@@VENOMNB1TEZZ I sadly didn't get Noah's merch for Christmas but I DID get some cavetown merch and !!!!!!!! that's amazing!!
@@amokiwithmarshclamsoup Glad to hear!! :)
me confused on whether i’m a cis woman or non-binary (rlly confident it’s the latter lmao) crocheting a cow plush while watching this: 👁️👄👁️
edit: STREAM “3 DAY HEADACHE” TONIGHT AT MIDNIGHT
You could also be demigirl. I can find vidoes that I watch when I first realised I'm demigirl if that helps
Crochet is very queer specifically non-binary lesbian vibes
I love that Noah immediately mentions Frank Iero before his dad and his boyfriend when listing cis men he loves
because same
As a librafluid, which is basically being mostly agender but also kinda switching between male and female, I find it very funny that Noah put librafeminine/libramasculine at FEAR
Edit: I just got more into the video, now it's up at nice job
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
I'm transmasculine and for me, it's more wanting to *physically* transition in a masculine way! Like I want to go on T and get top surgery, but I still really love feminine clothing and big make-up looks.
Also, little note on xenogenders such as pupgender! Xenogenders are often used by (but not exclusively) neurodivergent people! They can help to explain a concept that many neurodivergent people struggle to understand or relate to - or they're just the way our brains process gender :D
If anyone has any questions, let me know and I'll do my best to answer! (Although I'm by no means a gender expert, haha)
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Thats a really good way of describing being transmasc!! Thats really similar to how i feel about transitioning. And xenogenders are super awesome. I identify with a lot of xenogenders as like mini labels that i dont really tell people about, they are more just for me.
I like that description of xenogenders; I hadn't learned how it was connected to neurodivergence
my understanding of transmasc is plainly just someone who's trans (afab) and masc? feel free to correct if i'm wrong
@@planetaryg0 I think it depends on the context. I've seen it used as a gender label, an umbrella term (for trans men, demi boys and the like), or in reference to transition.
Personally, like OP, I use trans masc (mostly) in reference to my physical transition, but non-binary as my "main" label. I use them somewhat interchangeably, depending on what I want to express. To me, masculine is more about expression than it is about gender identity
As a genderfluid person, I rate it on wether or not I'm crying over having slightly long hair is... or throwing up because my body doesn't match how I'm feeling etc. It's day by day and is exhausting but when I do the things I know can help its gorgeous
IKR THIS IS SO RELATABLE
4:09 as a former identifier of bigender, yes absolutely had periods of “is it going to be like this forever???” And then I’d wake up the next day and it’d have changed. Eventually for me it did end up sticking forever (kind of). I’m now just genderflux (so one gender that fluctuates in intensity rather than two genders that both fluctuated)
being genderfluid for me is pretty much me just sitting there and thinking "huh... i'm kinda in a *insert pronoun* mood rn" and then just going with it
It's stupid but I often feel dysphoric for having "girls hobbies". So I got happy when you said crochet as an example of typical a non-binary hobby. Is that a thing ?
Why would you ever feel dysphoric about something that you enjoy? I know that dysphoria can't really be controlled, but you shouldn't feel bad about something that you enjoy. Just enjoy what hobbies you like and chill :D
@@imatiredpotato i felt dysphoric over my elbows one time, dysphoria doesn’t make sense and you literally can’t control it
I’m a form of nonbinairy and crochet is a hobby for everyone!
in my experience, yes haha
One time I painted my nails and my mum was like "Hey.. Is that something boys are supposed to do?"
Did not expect a Twilight joke from Noah😁😆
SOOO EXCITED FOR THE SONG SOOOOOOOOO EXCITED FOR THE ALBUM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED FOR THE TOUR SPOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO
WOWWW
13:40 i feel like David Tennant would be delighted (also i think time lords are like genderless? or at least i dont think they have genders like we do)
I think technically they’re gender fluid
@@Athyxer ohhhh yeah that makes sense
Hey noah, you inspire me so much and i love your music. I just wanted to tell you how happy i am to watch your videos!
IM SO EXCITED FOR 3 DAY HEADACHE AND I CANNOT WAIT 2 MONTHS FOR THE ALBUM
the doctor is actually canonically genderfluid and pansexual :D
8:44 hey noah! thought id just pop in here, give you a little info yk?
so this actually exists! its called therianthropy and someone who experiences it is called a therian! a therian is someone who identifies as an animal on a nonphysical level,
so basically mentally. thats where you might have seen the thing you mentioned about the guy shifting to a wolf (i cant find the timestamp lmao) thats a part of therianthropy! although not all therians shift. sorry im
not the best at explaining things but if you want you can look it up! thats all from me have a nice day ❤
This video gave me the words to describe my identity in a way that felt right. Bigender, the two that describe me are pangender and agender. It doesn’t make much sense, but it feels right. I don’t shift between them i’m both. I am everything and nothing.
David Tennant has to be one of my favourite genders.
YAYYY NEW NOAH VIDDDD. WE LOVE YOU NOAH I CANT WAIT FOR YOUR SONG TO COME OUT TOMORROW
:)
We all know it’s gonna be a good day when Noah posts :DD
:0 another Lilac!
@@LilacTheRainWing :O
Fellow therian hello!
@@GayPeopleAreGayfr Hello!! :D
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This video just helped me learn there is a very high possibility I’m trigender. This is new to me, thank you Noah
'I love things making sense' yeah me too mate, me too, it would be so lovely if every once in a while I actually did make things make sense, but oh well😂😂
Finally a video I have been waiting for for ages smiling so big thank you noah
Omg I recognise you from Noah's Discord
For context the new doctor who stuff isn't actually that cringe!! I didn't watch any clips before hand and just enjoyed the 3 episode special and had a great time, it was handled pretty well to me. Though I guess if you saw the stuff out of context it might sound clumsy/cringe.
Also Nah the doctor isn't a detransitioner, it's just that they change genders every regeneration- it sort of parallels conditions like DID where different people within the same body are each a unique person, and therefore can have separate genders. The difference is of course that real people with DID exist within the same body, and that the doctor is one person at a time, and the body changes every so often. It's not an exact same thing, it's like the Doctor's regeneration is a SIMILAR thing to DID.
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the worm in the back is STARING INTO MY SOUL
Literally made my day so much better,my parents were fighting as soon as I woke up and I literally sobbed,thank you
I relate to this comment on a spiritual level...
@@DDD2323-z5i now you're making me 😢
*hug* hope you have a great day :3
@@Qabim aww thanks,I am now,I'm with my cousins,one of them called me a furry and I said "oh thanks for pointing out the obvious",we both laughed, I'm having a better day
I love that you have David Tennant as a gender 😄 I would be so happy to be him OMG! I love Dr. Who, the concept is phenomenal and the show has lasted decades!
8:04 this is so real and relatable. i saw a tweet that was like "all the trans guys i've met have had this energy" and it was a picture of raccoons climbing on a brick wall captioned "boys being boys" and that is such a specific gender vibe thing i love it
About what he asked about genderfluid folk, it is sometimes like you’re just going around, with say a girl gender, just vibing being a girl and you blink and its like “what the fuck am I doing?” But ofc different for everyone
you know its a good day when noah posts🤩
Reallll, also I absolutely LOVE your pfp and username :P
thank youu
@@sk3lli3b0i
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@@p-__ real
3:41 hey im one of those people! ive seen you comment on alterhumanity a bit and i know you probably wont see this but most of the people who "Shift into a wolf" experience therianthropy!
I'm genderfluid. For me personally, when my gender changes, I just feel entirely about my body and the way I present myself. Some days I am really dysphoric about my body and others I'm not. Some days I don't know what my brain wants.
You really made me laugh. I love you.
yay snl reference
"MY DADS NOT A CELL PHONEE?!?!?"
i threw it on the ground >:3
12:12 legiterally
Genderfluid person here! For me I usually don’t realize I’ve switched genders until someone refers to me as a certain set of pronouns. It’s just sort of an instinct and I wear whatever my body tells me to. It’s different for everyone, but I can also have different genders throughout the day. Hope this helped any confusion/questions!
Doctor who is canonically gender-fluid actually ! and they’re also pan romantic and asexual according to most of the actors :3
(but yeah, david tennant is GENDER)
I love all the comments from genderfluid people here ❤
I feel most comfortable saying i'm nonbinary, but rationally i know i experience my gender in a very fluid way.
For me it is liberating in the sense that i don't need to think about it all the time. I'm just genderfluid/nonbinary so i can not pay attention to the shifts and don't fixate too much on it.
But sometimes it's hard because i may experience dysphoria for a week quite strongly and think i may want to medically transition and then it goes away. When i'm by myself i mostly feel agender or nonbinary as in the exact middle between boy and girl.
The rest of the time i feel mostly transmasc / demiboy.
Sometimes i wish i was a cis dude, sometimes i'd hate it. Sometimes i wish my birth language (italian) had a real gender neutral way of speaking. Sometimes i don't care. Sometimes i just mix all the pronouns.
It sounds chaotic, and sometimes it is. But in my experience the main problem is when people deliberately misgender me saying things like i'm a woman or a man or use super specific gendered words.
Love to all ❤🎉
im so early wtf?!?!? hi noah! im so exited for the new song. :3
Is this gender affirming care?...yes, yes it is 😂
NOAH YOUR MUSIC & YOUR VIDS ARE THE REASON I SURVIVED MY FAMILY DINNER TONIGHT SO THANK YOU FROM A TINY CLOSETED TRANSMAC
honestly there is so much overlap in so many genders and so so many specific genders that i could *technically* be that i’ve just given up. my gender is boything and vibes
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@@p-__ wow i’m so glad for you
I indentify as nonbinary for ease, but i do feel more genderfluid and i will say the main moment i can think of from when i was younger to explain the feeling was a friend painted my nails and when i went home i proceeded to have meltdown and scrub my fingers raw because it was wrong and i needed it off
IM SEEING U IN MARCH AND IM SO EXCITED‼️‼️
As someone who is genderfluid I gotta say… it’s awful. Basically the dysphoria decides what I am that day. Usually if I’m feeling more confident I’ll swing towards agender/allgenders. If I’m not feeling it that day I’ll default to nonbinary. And when I dread my feminine appearance (which is often) I’ll be more masculine that day. I only feel feminine when I’m around my partner that makes me feel super safe or when the dysphoria takes sick leave (usually lasting 2 hours at most). Managing all of that is Hell.
I'M SO EXCITED FOR 3 DAY HEADACHE TONIGHT ❤
as a nonbinary genderfluid person your description for trigender was literally my exact lived experience down to wanting the name Kit lmao
DEAR NOAH PLEASE READ: to explain the pupgender thing: pupgender falls under the xenogender umbrella and basically xenogenders are genders that corralate to things rather than a traditional gender like a girl or a boy. someone can have multiple xenogenders or a xenogender "stash" as the community calls them and theyre mainly used by neurodivergent people who experience gender a lot differently. xenogenders can basically be anything, like a gender thats of a fictional character, an object, a feeling, a stim, an animal, a rock, you name it.
the xenogender community gets a lot of flack from the rest of lgbtq+ or transphobes who use it as a way to say "trans people are crazy" but i think theyre really cool
i love that when you listed cis men you said frank iero first and your boyfriend was 3rd lmao
The Doctor is a Timelord, their main ability is to regenerate everytime they get close to death, they can change basically every attribute they have, some traits of their personality may stand out more in some lives than others, they may change sex / skin color or maybe even species (if you count the 1996 Movie as cannon). The fact they could change sex is hinted at in Matt Smith's run, in Peter Capaldi's it's more present (the master becoming missy, and a member of the gallifreyan high council regenerating from a white guy to a black women). Anyway theres a whole video called "The Doctor being Genderfluid for 5 minutes and 25 seconds" its such a great show. Timelords are basically all nonbinary/genderfuild and pansexual
YIPPEE NOAH POSTEDDDD
btw i got a worms shirt for christmas and i’m gonna wear it when i meet you in april
This was educational. I must admit, I paused to google a couple of those and paused to read the ones that you googled.
I tried googling raccoon gender but the results gave me ways to gender a raccoon 🤷♀️ I need to research more.
"and when you're nonbinary you want to crochet stuff"
I'm genderfluid. I'm crocheting while watching this. I absolutely love this description. As a genderfluid person, I am honored.
I'd say being genderfluid is a weird mix of constant (but minimal) gender confusion and just kind of vibing. If someone asks me what gender I am, I say something along the lines of "i dunno. tired?"
11:31 actually I’m thinking about the character from PJ Masks.
Same lmao
i’m so excited that you posted noah!!!! can’t wait to watch 🖤 (also can’t wait for the song to drop!)
Ah yes the raccoon gender…
“Hey mom yknow how I told you I was trans, yeah nvm I am actually a raccoon”
“Hey mom yknow that other thing I said earlier well I am actually a sewer rat sry”
11:20 i’d describe my switching as not super sudden and usually isn’t just a day to day thing. i view as just drifting along the spectrum of gender.
i identify as pi-gender: switching between exactly 3.14159 genders
this is a joke, i'm sorry
It’s a good joke
I am gender-fluid, and yes it is a bit confusing, it might have something to do with my adhd because it just feels like when you are obsessed and hyper fixated on being a fantastic lady to the point where you don’t know why you identified as anything else because this is clearly the one. Then you wake up the next day with no sense of gender and you just feel like you. Like gender has nothing to do with you and you none with it. For me, one gender lasts from a day to about a week. And large overall fazes of gender like being much more masculine and more on the boy side for almost a year sometimes. And then getting dysphoric when someone sees you as a guy because you just became more feminine again. Idk wtf I have just said or if anyone would even read it. Also this is just my experience I don’t know if this is a common one for gender-fluid people. But, to answer your question, it is a bit confusing sometimes, but I wouldn’t have it any other way🤙
That was in fact a very silly video. It was great!
I used to identify as genderfluid but im now on a solid like, year of identifying strictly as a guy, so I'm not using that label anymore. sometimes I get kind of freaked out that after I transition medically, I'll switch back to being fem and feel horrible 😭 but yeah it takes ages to make decisions about medical transition when you're genderfluid. I came out 3 years ago and I'm only now on a waiting list for T because I had to think about it for so long.
11:22 caught me off guard because I’m crocheting while watching this! But I mean you’re not wrong 😅
David tennant is everything
My partner started calling me a bunny so I was like 'yeah ig that's my gender now'
I AM SO EXCITED FOR THE ALBUM!!! I'm always looking to expand my record collection so I will be scooping that up. I wish you could come to Australia 😭
In my opinion, gender is just something to help describe people, that some people care about, and some people couldn’t give less of a shit
OMG NEW SONG TOMORROW ON MY BIRTHDAY??? IM SO EXITED :))
David Tennant in Good Omens, tho-
Man gives me so much jealousy.
4:03
"Do you ever have like 3 girl days in a row and youre like oh god like what if this is gonna be like this forever?" Oh im not even trigender and i can tell you that its definitely a common experience lmao.
I used to identify as genderfluid and even tho i dont use that lable on myself anymore i still have some fluidity element in it, and in every single gender fluid (not the gender) community ive been so many people have talked about getting a few days in a row with the same gender and second guessing themselves 💀
HEY NOAHHH MY DAD GOT ME AND MY BROTHER VIP PASSES FOR UR TORONTO SHOW
IM GOING TO THAT SHOW
same here see you on saturday!!!!
3 day headache is reaaalllyyyy good !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I GOT A BIRD!!!!!
What kind?
AWWWW
YAY
david tennant is my favourite gender
Unrelated but 3 day headache is wonderful
Hi!!! I've just started watching this and it's already hilarious. 😭 Im going to your concert with my dad and im so excited ❤️❤️
CANT WAIT FOR THE NEW SONGGGGG
"good job with your gender girl!" the pep talk we all needed (i am not a girl but i appreciate this nonetheless)
Honestly I wish David tenant was a gender, I would be all over it I’m obsessed with doctor who and the one that David is in is definitely my favourite!
Ps.pre-ordered vinyl and I got your hoodie 4my b-day as well as the ‘chronically online’ shirt because my parents would walk into my room and ask what you doing? The awnser was always’wAtChInG nOaHfInNcE wHaT dId YoU tHiNk’
Can't wait for the new music stuff : ) Love your music, keep up the good work
"and when you're non-binary you wanna crochet stuff" I'M CRYING every person who crochets on my fyp is nb 😭
noah is a top tier comfort youtuber
'dyou know what isnt hard' and then the smirk had me wheezing
0:24
3 day headache is incredible 💪💪
i identifie as david tennent
My farts are better than Noah’s farts 💨
i use transmasc for myself and overall the experience for me has been “man it would be so much easier to be a guy… wait am i a guy?… EW fuck no” but feeling largely really masculine
Noah just solved my friends identity crisis