You share all the items an average person carries and you shared the other items a gentleman carries but where do you carry all of these items without having bulky pockets? Bulky pockets aren't very attractive. Please make a video showing how a gentleman carries these items and please include sunglasses.
I had a friend who had his name and phone number embroidered on a bunch of handkerchiefs. He'd give them out to the ladies when they needed one, either crying or spilled her drink, or whatever. Brilliant.
@@peaceonearth8693 My uncle use to carry three handkerchiefs. One cheap handkerchief for himself. The second handkerchief was for a friend, family member, et cetera. The third handkerchief had my uncle's initials and very small amounts of lavender and eucalyptus oil, which he offered to an attractive lady. One of those ladies who received one of his handkerchief, became my aunt. After marriage, my uncle always carried three handkerchiefs; yet, he only offered the handkerchief with his initials, eucalyptus oil, and lavender oil to his wife.
@@peaceonearth8693 I guess it depends on who you ask. It’s a bit rakish, at a minimum. And he didn’t give them out at funerals or anything, but things like weddings, movies, bars…it was effective, I have to say.
The Pen is a must along with a small notepad. While i am retired now, i still carry both, and i end up using them almost every day. I also recommend chosing a pen with a cap, it helps with getting it back should someone borrow it. An old friend taught me that. I like Waterman roller balls. If someone asks to use your pen, take it out, un-cap it, and hand it over. Keeping the cap reminds you to ask for the pen back, and should they swipe your nice pen, the liquid ink will bleed out into their shirt or jacket. Also always carry a small pocket knife. It is invaluable.
@@RustyZipper I don’t have a slim knife, my edc is a pretty bulky knife but it conceals perfectly when I wear it on the inside of my belt, I can wear just a thin t-shirt and you would notice it’s there, I do have a somewhat slimmer knife but about 50% of the blade is serrated and I don’t find that very useful for edc, if I’m out in the forest doing photography it’s very useful to cut through branches instead of breaking them to make a blind, breaking makes more noise and than it would be useless to hide on a spot where you just chased away all animals lol 😂
A multi tool is a great EDC carry for a gentleman! For example, a swiss army knife from Victorinox or the Leatherman multi tool would raise the appeal of a gentleman to a whole new level of class. You never know when you might need one!
A small SAK would be good and a toothpick can be useful when out and eating, to remove stuff from your teeth. A multi tool is definitely NOT what a gent should carry. He could employ someone who does have one though!
The Leatherman is too heavy to carry in your pocket and will wear a hole in your pants. That's why they come with a carrying case. And swiss army knife is a bit bulky. A small Old Timer is good enough for most tasks and will not harm clothing. Leave the Leatherman in the car with your self defence equipment and other tools...
Rolex GMT Master, or Omega Speedmaster, a Seiko automatic, Casio or Timex when going to the gym or other places. One has to be careful these days when wearing a high line brand watch. Too many incidents in Beverly Hills, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or even here in Las Vegas - Summrelin with watch snatching. Flashlights are on the phone these days.
I don’t know how anyone gets through the day without a small multifunction swiss knife or leatherman as appropriate, letter opening, cutting food trimming a thread filing a nail tightning a screw ……And also some kind of light
I carry a multitool but rarely need it. There was a time when most men carried some kind of knife. That isn't the case as much anymore. As far as a lighter, not everyone smokes.
I'm 55 and I'm stunned and also "stun" people that cash is becoming such a "rarity." When I go out and expecting some kind of "service", I always feel obligated to leave a cash tip, since I had past jobs that I appreciated it myself.😊❤🎉💯 .
Two things that i carry everyday are a pocket comb and mouth spray. Ever since i saw Don Draper comb his hair with one i realized how handy they are. Whether it’s readjusting your hair before a date or a presentation at work, a pocket comb is a handy tool. The mouth spray is great when you’re in close proximity to people and don’t want to chew gum. Great video - cheers!
Not every gentleman (or cultured barbarian) uses a comb. It depends on hair style. For we long-haired gents, I recommend carrying one or more hair bands that are understated and kind to the hair.
Excellent comment! I would respectfully and humbly suggest remaining vigilant around seniors, who are retired; not technically savvy, and want to waste your time with idle conversation. I would humbly and respectfully suggest carrying earbuds.
Handkerchiefs are much more classy than tissues. I keep two or three just in case. I have bad sinuses but keep one separate just in case a clean one is needed. A discreet pocket knife is good too. Also a budiness card or personal card is great.
I have always carried two freshly pressed handkerchiefs in my pockets. One for use and one for emergencies. When I walk in, they get tossed into the clothes hamper immediately, both of them. When wearing a suit jacket I use also a monogramed pocket square. First and last initials only. J.S., for John Smith I still carry and use my Cross pen & pencil set which I got back in college. Who doesn't carry that ubiquitous dollar sign money clip? I have always carried my Zippo ever since High School. It's been engraved from my military service. I also still carry my old Boy Scout Pocketknife. My grandchildren wouldn't recognize me without it. And, yes, I do use it for hundreds of tasks daily. Besides a pocketknife from the 1950s is a great conversation starter. Ever since I was a child, I was told, "A gentlemen always wears an undershirt." I'd get smacked in the. back of the head if I didn't wear one. It also provides an additional layer of clothing on chilly nights so that I can afford to be gallant using my jacket to cover a lady's shoulders. I still carry my forever ago bill fold with my "papers" inside.
The one thing I carry every day and use is a small flashlight. After an evening out, this is very handy to use when walking through a parking lot so my wife or myself don't trip over anything.
I did pretty well on this actually. My daily carry is: Slim profile wallet (genuine leather) Phone Single car key fob with nothing attached (2021 Alfa Romeo quadrifolio) Chrome Waterman ball point Chrome business card holder (for business contacts, but I also carry around a QR/NFC business card with my personal information for more personal interactions - Plus, you can program these to automatically download the other person's information) Travel fragrance (Dior eau savage in spring and summer and mont blanc legend Spirit in Fall and Winter) Chrome Walther PPK .380 Wristwatch (of some kind) I don't mess around with girls who smoke so a lighter is irrelevant
I've stopped smoking for a year but still carry a lighter. Every woman I've met has at least one single good looking friend who's a non smoker and it automatically sets you up with a good first impression. The lighter can be a good conversation starter as well. When I was younger and interested in going to bars and clubs, I was always the one sent out to soften the group of women. Any guy knows the stress of going up to groups of 4 or 5 women and I enjoyed it.
Your story about the handkerchief at the funeral mirrors mine exactly. I always carry a silk handkerchief in my suit and happily give it to someone who needs it, mainly ladies, and I never get it back. Last time it was my own brother (age 70) who when giving a speech about our deceased aunt (and his Godmother age 101) suddenly and unexpectedly, burst into a flood of tears - very touching. So I handed him my hanky and went up to complete his speech.
WhenI was still working I used to carry a Victorinox Swiss Army knife in my pocket. The last version didn't have scissors, but did have a corkscrew, which was handy when traveling if I wanted to have a bottle of wine after the business of the day was concluded. Now I have a small (58 mm) silver Victorinox Alox on my keychain that is very useful: two blades, a nail file (very handy) a screwdriver, a can/ bottle opener, small scissors, and more. No tweezers, toothpick or corkscrew, but still a very handy multitool that I use all the time.
Excellent presentation. My EDC for decades has been a Walther PPK., folding knife, Dunhill Gemline and a pack of Camel Wides, Waterman pen. Keys, Money clip credit card 3K USD. I plan to carry a handkerchief again once my banker's dozen arrives.
This may be a bit obvious.....but a high quality manual analog watch. The hands-on nature of manual winding watches are for the gentlemen who relishes a sense of control (when every second counts) and its the ideal companion for intimate dinners, formal gatherings and moments of reflection.
For a lighter I prefer a butane instead of the standard fuel type, less spillage. The one item I also carry is a pen knife or equivalent small blade as you never know when you need cut a thread etc.
I always carry a small inexpensive Swiss army knife. When my girlfriend, a master accordion player, got one of her accordion bass buttons sadly stuck, I immediately offered her the Swiss army precision crafted tweezers to un-stick her accordion button. She was impressed. Gentlemanly Mission Accomplished.
People might not know that when you pay a business by card, the business has to pay a transaction fee of 1.5% to 3.5% on the amount. That can really eat into the business's profit margin. It is really helpful to small local businesses to pay them in cash.
Absolutely 👍 I despise using a card except for online purchases. And it keeps the government/ bank out of my business. I do despise when the person behind me sees that I’m paying in cash and rolls their eyes because they think it takes longer. I always want to say that I don’t need to borrow money to pay for my groceries and I don’t overspend trying to get “cash back / points”
Additionally, when you put the tip on the credit card, the full amount is reported on the server's tax filings and thus they pay tax on the full amount of the tip. When you tip in cash, its like providing tax-free income to them (yes, technically they should be reporting all of it to big brother like good little serfs, and most restaurants will assume un-tipped tickets paid a cash tip, but they usually only report a fraction of what you would actually leave). This is especially important if you have recieved exceptional service and wish to truly reward the server.
@@Zundfolge Just to give another side, I pay tax on all my income, so why should others avoid it? In the UK, it pays for schools, roads and healthcare. And we also have an issue with barber shops that only make 2-3 cuts per day, but are used to launder drug money.
Carry everything you mentioned except the lighter. I also carry a pocket knife and have sense I was ten years old. It comes in handy every day. A good Swiss army knife with scissors is very useful. Cheers Ron
After my neighbour’s pit-bull bit me 2 times and police didn’t take necessary action, it was a necessity but the problem is we can’t carry it in a metro, not in a bag in college and so it’s hassle to to travel with.
Tipping in cash is such a class move. I've also started carrying Go Natually cherry hard candy. There's only one better way to part company with a beautiful woman than to hand her one and say "here, have a candy" like Cary Grant in People Will Talk.
@@vinziisaac2889 Yeah, in America, generally, smoking is seen as the opposite of classy. I was just telling someone the other day, one good thing about modern America is that compared to the rest of the world, there are not a lot of people that smoke cigarettes.
@@poolboyinlaIt's great when smoking is considered the opposite of being classy. In my country India, a woman who smokes is thought of as committing a heinous crime against her gender. The very thought of smoking never crosses a woman's mind here. Of course, there are girls from very affluent layers of society who are into the habit. However, such women are very few in number.
The atomizer with cologne is also great for travel. I carry 3-4 in my dopp kit. The handkerchief dates back to the days before tissues. There was no alternative. In those days, men carried two, one for personal use and a second, kept in a separate pocket, for someone else. Keep washed and ironed.
Thank you for your comment. I will respectfully and humbly suggest men always a have dopp kit in their automobile and/or travel luggage. My uncle carried three handkerchiefs.
My work EDC is to try to avoid and or diffuse confrontations, while dressed in a suit. Pistol: Glock 19 + Pocket Magazine Flashlight: Streamlight Micro Fixed blade: Mini Scandi Medical: Tourniquet + H-Gauze Cash: 1x$100, 2x$20’s, 5x$1’s
@@alineharam Not if someone has a tailor to allow the right fit for daily CCW. Sports jacket or suit jacket are actually quite good concealment for a respectable gentleman 😎
@@alwaysbeclosing5797thinking about a good coat liner is something to do depending on your mode of carry. I learned this over 20 years of concealed carrying under a suit or sportcoat. That pistol and holster will wear a lot of ordinary liners out
As a nonsmoker and smoking being a hard no for me, I would not carry a lighter. However, the remainder of your suggestions were quite good. Thank you. I always recommend your channel to young men.
@@peaceonearth8693if you're going into the woods you would bring things like a lighter and other camping equipment but you don't need a lighter everyday.
WRIST WATCH. Yeah, everyone has a phone, but a nice watch is classic. It's more discreet and less rude to glance at one's wrist to get the time than to have to pull a 3x6 inch brick with a screen out of one's pocket to check the time. I also keep a BOTTLE OPENER on my key ring. It comes in handy quite often.
I always carry an ankle tag (terms of my probation), a bottle of metholated spirit (reason for the probation), a stuffed alligator (talking point), and what was sold to me as a gentleman's heavy-duty butt plug but is actually very useful as a door stop
Once (upon a time in Switzerland) at a family reunion the grandfather of my now ex-wife needed a knive, and he said it used to be that every man carried a swiss army knive, and there was I, with my keyring pocket swiss army knive, saving the day. Tears I tell you. Also this video reminds me of when I, a non smoker, carried a lighter at clubs and bars. For like you say, just in case. Mine looks like a zippo, but it‘s matches in a steel box, to spark the conversation farther, ah the good times.
Great list but I would add to the list: a flashlight and a pocket knife. But I presume you’re in the UK where knives aren’t allowed haha. Also some kind of multitool and maybe even a spool of electrical tape. You can also wind some duct tape around a business card and keep it in your wallet for reuse. I also usually carry a bottle opener and some kind of first aid kit, trauma kit or at least a bandaid (plaster lol). Add tissues to the list separately from a hanky cause they serve two purposes.
I'm in the UK, A pocket knife with a folding non locking blade no longer than 3" is legal to carry. I carry mine every day and the markings have worn off the scales. However never never admit you would use it for self defence.
My take on these 5 items: 1) I carry a large bandana. Just find it more useful. You can bleach a white bandana with a black pastel design to be all-white. 2) Classy looking pen, and paper at all times. Mine is an inexpensive Shaeffer that looks much more expensive due to the black lacquer and chrome accents. 3) Mini-atomizer.... Will have to add that to my Everyday carry. 4) Cash, absolutely. _All_ men should be prepared for realistic eventualities. I carry a few different denominations on me. Plus, a $50 bill and a $20 bill in a hidden pocket in my wallet for emergencies. Was once at a well-known Pharmacy when all of their card-readers went down. Long line of people.... I was literally the only one able to pay for his purchases. 5) Lighter, yes; but never a Zippo. That's coming from someone with a nice collection of Zippo lighters. The issue is simple. The standard Zippo insert lets fuel evaporate. Not an issue for smokers. Very real issue for the rest of us. Imagine filling a Zippo full of fuel. Two weeks later encountering a woman who asks if you have a light. You pull out your Zippo, but all you get is a spark of flint. Embarrassing. Thankfully there are elegant, not too expensive lighters out there that you can fill with fuel, and said fuel will not evaporate. _Would also recommend...._ 6) A flashlight. Preferably a single-AAA LED model. Amazing how much power (both lumens and Candela) a very small modern-day light can produce. Very useful, not just outdoors late at night. A bare aluminum model is best for hiding both wear on the finish (no finish with bare aluminum) and for hiding tiny scratches that such a light might pick up over the years. Plus, it looks like something a modern-day gentleman would carry.
I carry a sharp, sturdy folding type pocket knife, ever so useful, and so often needed - you become the man who gets things done - more used than the handkerchief
Before viewing your video I will catalog my own EDC. I am a 63 year old Canadian man. Recently retired after 45 years. Wrist - Apple Smart Watch Pockets - Black Leather Wallet - White Cotton Handkerchief (Clean, ironed, folded.) - Car key - Platinum Faber Castell Pen - Gerber Folding Knife Shoulder Satchel - iPhone - House Keys on a black ring - Black Glasses Case w/Sunglasses - Tungsten 'Tooth Pick' - Small Waterproof Notepad - Change Purse with ~$25 in change - Plain Black Zippo Lighter (I do not smoke.) Belt Pouch - Gerber Anodized Black Multitool - Magnum AA Black Penlight This has served me well and presents me, in this University town, as an academic (Often mistaken for a professor from the local schools.) and seemingly approachable. Now to view the video. I imagine this list will not match up with your own but it will be interesting viewing I'm sure. We each have different requirements in our lives and move in differing social circles. Cheers.
I would suggesf a flashlight. I carry a very bright model that is smaller than a Cap Stick that operates on one AAA battery. Don't forget your small one blade pocket knife. 😊
You cary two handkerchiefs. One for you and an immaculately clean one for a lady in need. I lost an heirloom tortoise shell Shaffer. I don’t carry fine pens any more. I always have a safety pin on the inside of my lapel, in case of need.
If she smokes I'm not interested (period). Still, it's always good to have a fire source readily at hand - but as this would be for practical uses only it does not need to impress. I would add (as others have) a pocket knife; but only if it's actually sharp. (It's amazing how many guys I have met who carry dull ones. For goodness' sake, learn how to take care of your tools - keep your knives sharp. A dull knife neither helps nor impresses.) You probably don't want to hear this but I also carry a concealed handgun with a backup magazine. Additionally, I carry an 'out the front' tactical knife for defense and a 2000 lumen flashlight with an aggressive bezel - both to hopefully prevent my needing to draw the gun. The flashlight has often been useful in everyday life. The gun and tactical knife I hope I never have to draw but will be immensely grateful I had them if I need them. (It is well said, "When seconds count, the police are only minutes away.") I adapt and modify my outfits and my gear selection to suit each day's situation and my desire to carry either open or concealed.
I always carry a small, pocket size flashlight. I like the S1R Baton II by Olight. It is small, bright, rechargeable, fits easily in your pocket and works great to illuminate the path to the car in a dark parking lot, or a dark hallway or doorway.
What I have in the past 20 years is 1. Parker Pen 2.Handkerchief 3.House keys on leather organizer and car fob 4. Wallet 5. Phone. I’m almost 40 now and these hasn’t change. I have a multi-tool but it’s in the car inside my briefcase same as the lighter and compact flashlights for emergencies. I keep the lighter in case I need to light up something to keep warm especially here where I live where we have significant snowfall and deep freezing winters. Keep up the good work!
Great suggestions! Except for the "lighter." I'm such a staunch anti-smoker, I'd more likely carry a fire extinguisher! On a serious note, I love your content❤
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I was gifted a rechargeable lighter as a corporate gift. I keep it in my suit pocket as the number of lovely ladies who ask for a light & then start a conversation with me is amazing. I have always carried a pen with me & again the number of conversations started by some charming ladies has been an eye opener.
Well, I do carry four out of the five. For the fragrance I prefer a "solid cologne" instead of liquid though. I never carry a lighter since I associate it with smoking which I absolutely despise. I just don't have a use for one anyway. Number six should be some kind of pen knife or pocket knife. There are many great gentlemanly options out there.
Great video! Lighter, is always a nice touch. I have a zippo with my initials on it and a Dunhill style lighter though not as expensive. Handmade here in New York.
This guy makes me laugh more than anyone else on you tube. The voice, the high as balls eyes, the button down collars, the too big tie. It's comedy genius. At least i hope he's kidding, otherwise, he is deeply tragic.
I carry a pen with a stiletto that serves as a letter opener, and the pen is the pen, it always comes in handy in situations that you least expect it. A flashlight, which I need for my job. One time use, strong nitryle gloves. Usually if I don't carry my pen and stilletto combo, I tend to carry a separate pocket knife. Then the usual suspects come in such as, a phone and keys. Almost always I have my sunglasses with me and my leather shoe cover which I cannot find a place for, and it's used mostly when I ride my motorcycles with regular shoes.
Regarding a visibly unused pair of gloves and a knife which is hidden, unless you know with what you are dealing with, then it shouldn't be a problem. But I guess that also depends on where you live and what laws in region are that determine the use and carry of such objects. In my place its ok to carry it however you like and need without intent to harm someone. @@peaceonearth8693
I agree entirely with always carrying a fresh handkerchief, and in addition to the five items mentioned, I never go out without my Tiffany sterling silver business card holder, which contains cards, both with just my own details, as well as business cards. it is slim, elegant and fits into my inside pocket without it showing. I always observe a note of intrigue and recognition of refinement whenever I discreetly avail myself of it's use.
I found your channel, and subscribed. I'm an American. I attended a private boys' school on the east coast. Many of your principles of dress and behavior were modeled for us there. We wore suits and ties to class. I well remember being constantly reminded to fasten the upper button on my dress shirt, as per one of your other videos. Now I live in Wyoming, on a property outside Jackson Hole. My EDC varies somewhat: -Cash? Always. -A pocket knife. Very sharp. -A handgun. Small, expensive, reliable, understated. In a quality holster. I have found that, here in my affluent part of the western US, the rules of dress are somewhat flexible. There is a sort of "western casual" dress code that combines jeans (unworn, clean) and cowboy boots (not the ones you wear to feed the horses) with a jacket and tie, even at semi-formal, and formal events. This was common here before the money took over, and has remained a tradition. Oh, and for the fragrance atomizer, I have substituted beard oil.
I sadly don’t live in the us so I only can concealed carry my pocket knife, the stupid thing is: I keep myself to the law so I don’t have a firearm but someone who’s out to do harm to my family or myself doesn’t keep to the law and thus might have a firearm, I’d have no use of a pocket knife in that situation then. One day I hope to live in the us but for now it gets even worse because I’m moving to Belgium for an arborist certification and in Belgium even a pocket knife is illegal 😭
The only item on your list that I don’t carry is a fragrance atomizer. I only apply my Acqua di Parma during the evening. I was a Boy Scout. Our motto was, “Be prepared.” Consequently, I never leave home without a flashlight or a knife, as well. I’m prepared with the right tool options whether I’m going on a hike or out on a date. I especially love the elegant versions of each tool I carry when I dress my best, say, for an evening at the opera or to a wedding. These are some of the cool toys we get to have as men. ❤
Nice to hear. I am a "mature gentleman" and I have carried all of these items with the exception of the atomizer since I was a young man. However, in the past year or so, I have taken to carrying one of the atomizers. I believe these are relatively recent and as they are compact, they are easy to carry. With regard to the lighter, yes, a Zippo is classic. Stay away from the gaudy theme lighters and stick with the very traditional versions. Zippo makes an "Armor" line that is heavy casting and very solid. It looks very established. Now, I know the purists out there would prefer the use of lighter fluid but honestly, the fluid evaporates before you know it. I opted for the butane insert. These look and work great and if you truly want a traditional yellow flame, they make an insert for yellow butane flame, as well. I have never had the butane leak or evaporate. It always works. I don't smoke so carrying the lighter is just a courtesy and, as stated, "being prepared." I recently was at a birthday party and no one smokes and no one could like the candles - except me. This is a good video. I think a gentleman should "be prepared" and discretely so. There is no need to flaunt anything nor should your pockets be bulging with a large Swiss Army knife. I do carry, in addition to the items mentioned, a very small pen know with a nail file, blade, scissors, screwdriver, and tweezers. This is Victorinox's smallest and thinnest pen knife. It is surprising how often I use it. One other item: Keys - Go through your key chain. You don't need 10,000 keys. What do you really need day-to-day? Put those rarely used keys on a separate keychain and put that in your briefcase. Carry around a minimal number of keys, and put them in order so you can reach for the right one without fumbling for them in the dark.
I agree with all those items. The fragrance is maybe not for me but I can see why some might want it. That said, I do not consider myself to be a „gentleman“ as far as style goes. But that is no reason not to be prepared. As a daily motorcycle rider (as in „I ride every day, not just in the summer or when the weather is nice“) I also consider a multitool and a flashlight / leadlamp an absolute necessity. I usually have either a Petzl headlamp or an Olight Baton on me. I also will not be caught dead without either a Leatherman or at least a Swiss Army Knife. I often carry other specialized tools as well which I won’t go into. But they have at some point helped save either my day or that of one of my neighbors. Edit: Oh and one really useful tip for Zippo lighters: get the Zippo butane insert if you do not use your lighter regularly. It is a straight drop in replacement and saves you all the faffing about with refuelling all the time because the fuel keeps evaporating in a week.
Rather than a business card, I Cary a personal card. Name in the center. Phone number and email address in lower left corner. Plus, of course, a nice card holder. Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret)
905 Comments On Handy Items A Gentleman Keeps On Him. Impressive. A Clean White Cotton Handkerchief Stuffed Into My Front Pants Pocket Keeps My Car Key & My House Key From Stabbing Me In My Thigh All Day Long, Plus I Use It To Clean The Lens On My Cell Phone Right Before I Shoot Video. If I Feel A Sneeze Coming On, Well Then I Am Well Prepared! The Handkerchief Is Something A Gentlemen Needs All Day Long. Another Great Video Man!
I was very pleased to see that 4 of the 5 items are already on my "checklist" before going out. I do not have the scent atomiser, but might consider it if the event warranted a refresh of cologne. I also carry 2 handkerchiefs. One is for me, the other is for the lady. I do not like the tissue use, as it is less sustainable. I do carry a lighter, but that is primarily for my cigars. Old married men like me are seldom approached by ladies asking for a light.
If she’s smoking weed it’s more of a turn on. I’m a stoner at heart, I prefer it over drinking. I honestly hate the carts and pods people have been smoking lately. Old school joints will definitely catch my attention .
Excellent video, In the US their are some private school that teach what you just mention, unfortunately they are far and few. I need to add the lighter and spray. An additional item i carried is a small note pad. Thank you for adding the link for the pen.
Carrying cash is a habit I subscribe to religiously. Cash is king with bartenders, restaurant servers, parking attendants, street buskers, hotels concierge, even panhandlers, and those friends who ask “Do you have $5 or $10 for the parking valet?” Additionally, I have had success with my lady friends when they ask “Do you have some money for an ice cream?” Handing them your whole stash of dollar bills says “I trust you with my cash and I support what you feel is important”. What I would recommend additionally to this topic is to get yourself an elegant magnetic or spring money clip. That just steps up the experience when you hand your lady friend your cash when she asks. Again, I’m talking dollar or $5 bills - no more.
I scored 80% on that "test". I shall remedy the omission of the mini fragrance forthwith. Your discussion concerning carrying a lighter reminded me of a scene from the BBC spy series "The Avengers". Actually, I think it was the reboot "The New Avengers", but Steed was felled by a shot to his chest, but his sidekicks continue the pursuit and bring down the miscreants. Rushing to Steed's side they find him just coming 'round, and marvel at the fact that he is all right and there is no blood. To their bafflement he says that he wasn't hurt "because I am a gentleman." Their confused response prompts the further explanation, "I don't smoke, but I carry a cigarette case for those who do." The bullet to his chest had been stopped by his cigarette case.
Excellent channel, video and advice. Possibly one more item to consider; I would suggest using a money clip rather than one's wallet for carrying cash. You can keep the money clip in a handy pocket, then peel off the bills as needed. Tipping in cash is generally appreciated by servers, valets and most others, and I think it looks somewhat elegant (Don't over or under do it). As well, a money clip is a nice accessory. It's something that is a bit out of the ordinary nowadays, and unusual, unexpected things tend to linger in the mind of a potential companion. I would suggest not having an ostentatious wad of cash in the money clip. Carry only as much as you think you might need, in various denominations then, excuse yourself, if possible, to replenish the clip with cash from your wallet as you anticipate the need. I usually "stock" a $50, two $20's, two 10's and two $5's.Try not to carry less than a $5 bill; $1 bills are generally only useful at strip clubs. Also, under the proper circumstances, a cigarette lighter might sometimes do as a makeshift flashlight, or to light a lamp, a candle or a small campfire on the beach.. Treat yourself to a nice one.
I do carry with me a parker pen sometimes and, since I smoke cigars, I always carry a zippo (mine is silver, since most my accessories are, like the details of the pen and my watches). I would like to carry an handkerchief but I don't really know were to get one, and a small atomizer is on my list. Great video as always 👍🏻
A small Victorinox pocket knife with scissors. The one I use also has a small eye glasses screw driver which I lent to a fellow at a sporting event when his lens fell out. Countless times I have lent the scissors to trim broken finger nails
I was in a swamp for 6 weeks on an Army Exercise a few years ago. On return to base, after a long shower, I found an aftershave sampler in my wash bag I had forgotten about. Best feeling ever knowing that not only was I clean and dry, I also smelled good. Thanks for bringing back a good memory.
BEST COMMENT HERE…READ MORE… Clever Vid. FYI My EDC… 1/7: Tiny utility knife on my keychain . (Folds and looks like a key) 2/7: Handkerchief AND a fine disposable napkin. 3/7: Bic lighter (for many practical reasons I choose this over a Zippo lighter) *Also I wrap a bit of black gorilla tape around it for quick repairs and emergency fire kindling 4/7: A tiny folded plastic bag (produce bag or baggie) 5/7: A nice but inexpensive retractable pen. ( no worries when I lose it) 6/7: Cash. Large and small demonstrations. *I love to tip the Un expecting often forgotten staff or clerk who serves me. SO Many Smiles! 7/7: Good attitude and a few positive words at the ready. And of course wallet, phone, keys, etc. Pocket fragrance is a great idea… I carry a tiny scented hand sanitizer bottle, does double duty.
Zippo lighters are cool but you had better make sure it stays fueled because it can evaporate pretty quickly. You don’t want to click it and not be able to flick it. A disposable Bic lighter is more reliable and still pretty iconic. Same thing with the handkerchief. I opt for a little pack of disposable tissues. Not as elegant but it works and would be just as appreciated in the situations you described. And of course always have a little cash 👍🏼
Yes, they do run out pretty quickly. It's not the coolest moment when you can't light it up 😂 At least it gives you an excuse to borrow someone else's lighter. Preferably a woman's.
You have reminded me of my dear, now departed husband, who always had these things, except for the lighter. Instead, his #5 was a pocket knife. Another substitute is business cards (blank on the back, of course) instead of a small tablet of paper. I've used them in a pinch.
Plenty of other similar responses, but I endorse having a pocket knife, specifically a Victorinox SD. This has a small but very sharp blade, a nailfile/screwdriver and a tiny but surprisingly useful scissors, as well as a tweezer for splinters and a toothpick. Or a couple bucks more gets you their Rambler model which adds a Phillips head screwdriver/bottle opener blade. Both are very small, less than 3" /7cm long and very unobtrusive in your pocket or on a keychain.
I would suggest a small pocket multi tool such as a Schrade dime or a leatherman. Just make sure you leave it in the car if you are going to an event or flying where it would be confiscated.
Let me suggest the Lamy Multifunctional Pen. It has a blue pen, pencil, and red pen in a single body. I have found this to be invaluable as I often want a pencil (erasable) for notes on a 3x5 note card i carry leather note card holder, but also may want to use it to sign something more permanent! The pen goes for around $55 at Amazon and has a suggested retail price of around $80. Great vid. Keep at it!
In addition to keys, wallet, phone and spectacles, I typically carry a multifunction camping knife, a small bottle of sanitiser, two handkerchiefs and, if it's not too warm for a jacket, at least one pen. Admittedly I used to blow my nose on a handkerchief, but since Covid I blow my nose on toilet paper and flush it away, because what better way to stop the spread? And I've only ever given other people clean hankies.
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You share all the items an average person carries and you shared the other items a gentleman carries but where do you carry all of these items without having bulky pockets? Bulky pockets aren't very attractive. Please make a video showing how a gentleman carries these items and please include sunglasses.
@@kennethbates8349 you just wear a blazer
@@kennethbates8349 That is why I like to were a blazer wherever I go.
The fact that dueling pistols didn't make it into this list...
Yeah…Doc Holiday’s rolling in his grave right now 😝
I have my duelling pistols carried by my second.
😂 Gold!
Glock 26 or 19, at least 1 spare magazine.
Not to mention a pocketknife.
I had a friend who had his name and phone number embroidered on a bunch of handkerchiefs. He'd give them out to the ladies when they needed one, either crying or spilled her drink, or whatever. Brilliant.
That’s quite the touch 😅
Phone number on a handkerchief? Is that not tacky?
Awesome 😂❤
@@peaceonearth8693
My uncle use to carry three handkerchiefs. One cheap handkerchief for himself. The second handkerchief was for a friend, family member, et cetera. The third handkerchief had my uncle's initials and very small amounts of lavender and eucalyptus oil, which he offered to an attractive lady. One of those ladies who received one of his handkerchief, became my aunt. After marriage, my uncle always carried three handkerchiefs; yet, he only offered the handkerchief with his initials, eucalyptus oil, and lavender oil to his wife.
@@peaceonearth8693 I guess it depends on who you ask. It’s a bit rakish, at a minimum. And he didn’t give them out at funerals or anything, but things like weddings, movies, bars…it was effective, I have to say.
The Pen is a must along with a small notepad. While i am retired now, i still carry both, and i end up using them almost every day.
I also recommend chosing a pen with a cap, it helps with getting it back should someone borrow it. An old friend taught me that. I like Waterman roller balls. If someone asks to use your pen, take it out, un-cap it, and hand it over. Keeping the cap reminds you to ask for the pen back, and should they swipe your nice pen, the liquid ink will bleed out into their shirt or jacket.
Also always carry a small pocket knife. It is invaluable.
The knife so when the woman steals your pen you can track her down like the thief she is.
Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret)
Every Gentleman Should Carry a Pocket Knife
I carry a pocket knife (sometimes 2)
And a box cutter (because I work in construction so I have that stuff on me daily lol)
@@Wannabearborist- I like the slim WorkPro folding utility knives. Very thin, and easy to swap blades and can be used in an emergency ….
@@RustyZipper I don’t have a slim knife, my edc is a pretty bulky knife but it conceals perfectly when I wear it on the inside of my belt, I can wear just a thin t-shirt and you would notice it’s there, I do have a somewhat slimmer knife but about 50% of the blade is serrated and I don’t find that very useful for edc, if I’m out in the forest doing photography it’s very useful to cut through branches instead of breaking them to make a blind, breaking makes more noise and than it would be useless to hide on a spot where you just chased away all animals lol 😂
I thought you arrested with a knife?
Why?
A multi tool is a great EDC carry for a gentleman! For example, a swiss army knife from Victorinox or the Leatherman multi tool would raise the appeal of a gentleman to a whole new level of class. You never know when you might need one!
Gentleman...not construction worker.
A small SAK would be good and a toothpick can be useful when out and eating, to remove stuff from your teeth. A multi tool is definitely NOT what a gent should carry. He could employ someone who does have one though!
Are you going on a fishing expedition or needing to rewire something?
The Leatherman is too heavy to carry in your pocket and will wear a hole in your pants. That's why they come with a carrying case. And swiss army knife is a bit bulky. A small Old Timer is good enough for most tasks and will not harm clothing. Leave the Leatherman in the car with your self defence equipment and other tools...
@@sitbone3Exactly.
I try to avoid women who smoke, so I’ll swap the lighter for a high-quality pocket knife or multitool.
Or a pack of condoms.
Maybe her hot friend doesn’t smoke. Think outside the box.
And BTW, women who smoke will put anything in their mouth. 😄
@@nunyabitnezz2802 Excellent points.
@@nunyabitnezz2802 Excellent points.
I have zero interest of putting mine in an ashtray. No lighter for me.
Omega Seamaster, gold Victorinox pocket knife, brass Olite micro flashlight, Walther CCP. Arise, gentlemen.
AWESOME!
Rolex GMT Master, or Omega Speedmaster, a Seiko automatic, Casio or Timex when going to the gym or other places. One has to be careful these days when wearing a high line brand watch. Too many incidents in Beverly Hills, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or even here in Las Vegas - Summrelin with watch snatching. Flashlights are on the phone these days.
@@kennixox262 phone lights don't compare to Olites
And a partridge in a pear tree.
Seiko Sbdc051, victorinox huntsman with black scales, taurus 82s steel, fisher bullet pen
I don’t know how anyone gets through the day without a small multifunction swiss knife or leatherman as appropriate, letter opening, cutting food trimming a thread filing a nail tightning a screw
……And also some kind of light
I agree. I thought a small pocket knife was also important, just in case.
I carry a multitool but rarely need it. There was a time when most men carried some kind of knife. That isn't the case as much anymore.
As far as a lighter, not everyone smokes.
Or removing a stone from a horse's hoof
This is not advice for escape and evasion. It's for a gentleman to carry when dressed for dinner. Some of you must be real hicks.
A pocket knife including a leatherman in a pocket is considered a canceled weapon. This can get you arrested in many US states and Mexico.
1. Handkerchief
2. (Quality) Pen
3. Travel Fragrance Atomizer
4. Cash
5. Lighter
AK47
Good start on your list. Don't forget a comb (small black) and some mints.
@@paulromsky9527 Also, as you suggested, a notebook.
Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret
Who the hell wears fragrances any more? Kinda cheesy.
@@jimmason8502 I wear fragrance when going out, but not too much. If a lady catches a subtle whiff while greeting you she will be impressed….
I'm 55 and I'm stunned and also "stun" people that cash is becoming such a "rarity." When I go out and expecting some kind of "service", I always feel obligated to leave a cash tip, since I had past jobs that I appreciated it myself.😊❤🎉💯 .
Also, cash tips leave no records for the IRS...
Two things that i carry everyday are a pocket comb and mouth spray. Ever since i saw Don Draper comb his hair with one i realized how handy they are. Whether it’s readjusting your hair before a date or a presentation at work, a pocket comb is a handy tool. The mouth spray is great when you’re in close proximity to people and don’t want to chew gum. Great video - cheers!
Excellent comment! As an alternative, I will respectfully and humbly suggest Altoids or natural tablet breath freshener.
Not every gentleman (or cultured barbarian) uses a comb. It depends on hair style. For we long-haired gents, I recommend carrying one or more hair bands that are understated and kind to the hair.
Afraid it's long since been unfashionable to comb one's hair. Both women and men now deliberately opt for the messy look.
Glad I have very short hair. Mouth spray is nice or a sugarless mint of some sort. Anything with sugar will cause your breath to go nasty faster.
Mouthspray, fantastic. I gotta start carrying one too, thanks for sharing
I carry a small Swiss army knife that has a nail file and nail clipper. This keeps the snag at bay.
I always carry a book with me in case I'm stuck waiting. It's way more productive than scrolling on my phone.
Excellent comment! I would respectfully and humbly suggest remaining vigilant around seniors, who are retired; not technically savvy, and want to waste your time with idle conversation. I would humbly and respectfully suggest carrying earbuds.
An e-book right
I carry a kindle. absolutely invaluable. Especially during commutes.
yes I carry "emergency" books in my car for traffic jams - helps take away the stress
I have books on my devices that sync with my iPhone. Unless the book is worth keeping long term, I only read e-books. Save a tree.
Handkerchiefs are much more classy than tissues. I keep two or three just in case. I have bad sinuses but keep one separate just in case a clean one is needed. A discreet pocket knife is good too. Also a budiness card or personal card is great.
Business card! Good one. I do that do. And keep a few in your breast or inside coat pocket in easy reach
Shrimpin' budiness, of course 😉
I have always carried two freshly pressed handkerchiefs in my pockets. One for use and one for emergencies. When I walk in, they get tossed into the clothes hamper immediately, both of them.
When wearing a suit jacket I use also a monogramed pocket square. First and last initials only. J.S., for John Smith
I still carry and use my Cross pen & pencil set which I got back in college.
Who doesn't carry that ubiquitous dollar sign money clip?
I have always carried my Zippo ever since High School. It's been engraved from my military service.
I also still carry my old Boy Scout Pocketknife. My grandchildren wouldn't recognize me without it. And, yes, I do use it for hundreds of tasks daily. Besides a pocketknife from the 1950s is a great conversation starter.
Ever since I was a child, I was told, "A gentlemen always wears an undershirt." I'd get smacked in the. back of the head if I didn't wear one. It also provides an additional layer of clothing on chilly nights so that I can afford to be gallant using my jacket to cover a lady's shoulders.
I still carry my forever ago bill fold with my "papers" inside.
I always carry 2 freshly pressed hamsters in case a lady needs them as handwarmers.
I totally agree about the undershirt. It makes the outer shirt look better and prevents sweat stains from showing.
The one thing I carry every day and use is a small flashlight. After an evening out, this is very handy to use when walking through a parking lot so my wife or myself don't trip over anything.
Agree - especially during the dark months of the winter ( I live in Scandinavia 😉)
So if a lady asks you: "got a light?" - here you go!
@@slaffkas 🤣
Things you might trip in the dark over include bodies dropped by the gentleman with the Walther CCP in his pocket!
I did pretty well on this actually. My daily carry is:
Slim profile wallet (genuine leather)
Phone
Single car key fob with nothing attached (2021 Alfa Romeo quadrifolio)
Chrome Waterman ball point
Chrome business card holder (for business contacts, but I also carry around a QR/NFC business card with my personal information for more personal interactions - Plus, you can program these to automatically download the other person's information)
Travel fragrance (Dior eau savage in spring and summer and mont blanc legend Spirit in Fall and Winter)
Chrome Walther PPK .380
Wristwatch (of some kind)
I don't mess around with girls who smoke so a lighter is irrelevant
Nice car!
I've stopped smoking for a year but still carry a lighter. Every woman I've met has at least one single good looking friend who's a non smoker and it automatically sets you up with a good first impression. The lighter can be a good conversation starter as well.
When I was younger and interested in going to bars and clubs, I was always the one sent out to soften the group of women. Any guy knows the stress of going up to groups of 4 or 5 women and I enjoyed it.
Your story about the handkerchief at the funeral mirrors mine exactly. I always carry a silk handkerchief in my suit and happily give it to someone who needs it, mainly ladies, and I never get it back. Last time it was my own brother (age 70) who when giving a speech about our deceased aunt (and his Godmother age 101) suddenly and unexpectedly, burst into a flood of tears - very touching. So I handed him my hanky and went up to complete his speech.
What a smooth, sophisticated gentleman you are! I’m glad that you’re passing on your knowledge to other men!
WhenI was still working I used to carry a Victorinox Swiss Army knife in my pocket. The last version didn't have scissors, but did have a corkscrew, which was handy when traveling if I wanted to have a bottle of wine after the business of the day was concluded. Now I have a small (58 mm) silver Victorinox Alox on my keychain that is very useful: two blades, a nail file (very handy) a screwdriver, a can/ bottle opener, small scissors, and more. No tweezers, toothpick or corkscrew, but still a very handy multitool that I use all the time.
Excellent presentation. My EDC for decades has been a Walther PPK., folding knife, Dunhill Gemline and a pack of Camel Wides, Waterman pen. Keys, Money clip credit card
3K USD. I plan to carry a handkerchief again once my banker's dozen arrives.
Confirmed American.
🇺🇸 I like the $3k in cash, that’s always handy.
@@RustyZipper It can definitely keep life off your head.
Just bought a Waterman pen right now. I only trust Waterman since 2008! Kudos for that!
What the heck is the cash for? Are you a drug dealer or something?
This may be a bit obvious.....but a high quality manual analog watch. The hands-on nature of manual winding watches are for the gentlemen who relishes a sense of control (when every second counts) and its the ideal companion for intimate dinners, formal gatherings and moments of reflection.
a high quality, expensive watch is a must if you want to impress people. Somehow it means something to them.
THIS! It doesn't need to be a watch that has a comma in the price. A $200 Citizen still looks nice.
For a lighter I prefer a butane instead of the standard fuel type, less spillage. The one item I also carry is a pen knife or equivalent small blade as you never know when you need cut a thread etc.
I always carry a small inexpensive Swiss army knife.
When my girlfriend, a master accordion player, got one of her accordion bass buttons sadly stuck, I immediately offered her the Swiss army precision crafted tweezers to un-stick her accordion button. She was impressed. Gentlemanly Mission Accomplished.
People might not know that when you pay a business by card, the business has to pay a transaction fee of 1.5% to 3.5% on the amount. That can really eat into the business's profit margin. It is really helpful to small local businesses to pay them in cash.
Absolutely 👍 I despise using a card except for online purchases. And it keeps the government/ bank out of my business. I do despise when the person behind me sees that I’m paying in cash and rolls their eyes because they think it takes longer. I always want to say that I don’t need to borrow money to pay for my groceries and I don’t overspend trying to get “cash back / points”
Paying with cash is classy imo.
Additionally, when you put the tip on the credit card, the full amount is reported on the server's tax filings and thus they pay tax on the full amount of the tip. When you tip in cash, its like providing tax-free income to them (yes, technically they should be reporting all of it to big brother like good little serfs, and most restaurants will assume un-tipped tickets paid a cash tip, but they usually only report a fraction of what you would actually leave). This is especially important if you have recieved exceptional service and wish to truly reward the server.
@@Zundfolge Just to give another side, I pay tax on all my income, so why should others avoid it? In the UK, it pays for schools, roads and healthcare.
And we also have an issue with barber shops that only make 2-3 cuts per day, but are used to launder drug money.
@@uglukthemedicineman5933 Other than the pocket of change that wears away the lining and rattles when you walk.
Carry everything you mentioned except the lighter. I also carry a pocket knife and have sense I was ten years old. It comes in handy every day. A good Swiss army knife with scissors is very useful. Cheers Ron
A swiss army knife can be a lifesaver. Often more so than a lighter.
A pocket knife including a leatherman in a pocket is considered a canceled weapon. This can get you arrested in many US states and Mexico.
After my neighbour’s pit-bull bit me 2 times and police didn’t take necessary action, it was a necessity but the problem is we can’t carry it in a metro, not in a bag in college and so it’s hassle to to travel with.
Tipping in cash is such a class move. I've also started carrying Go Natually cherry hard candy. There's only one better way to part company with a beautiful woman than to hand her one and say "here, have a candy" like Cary Grant in People Will Talk.
I would not be interested in a woman that smokes.
Neither would I be interested.
@@vinziisaac2889 Yeah, in America, generally, smoking is seen as the opposite of classy. I was just telling someone the other day, one good thing about modern America is that compared to the rest of the world, there are not a lot of people that smoke cigarettes.
@@poolboyinlaIt's great when smoking is considered the opposite of being classy. In my country India, a woman who smokes is thought of as committing a heinous crime against her gender. The very thought of smoking never crosses a woman's mind here. Of course, there are girls from very affluent layers of society who are into the habit. However, such women are very few in number.
@@vinziisaac2889 Wow. That is great.
no one asked you
The atomizer with cologne is also great for travel. I carry 3-4 in my dopp kit.
The handkerchief dates back to the days before tissues. There was no alternative. In those days, men carried two, one for personal use and a second, kept in a separate pocket, for someone else. Keep washed and ironed.
Thank you for your comment. I will respectfully and humbly suggest men always a have dopp kit in their automobile and/or travel luggage. My uncle carried three handkerchiefs.
My work EDC is to try to avoid and or diffuse confrontations, while dressed in a suit.
Pistol: Glock 19
+ Pocket Magazine
Flashlight: Streamlight Micro
Fixed blade: Mini Scandi
Medical: Tourniquet + H-Gauze
Cash: 1x$100, 2x$20’s, 5x$1’s
Isn't the glock a little 'showy'?
@@alineharam
Not if someone has a tailor to allow the right fit for daily CCW.
Sports jacket or suit jacket are actually quite good concealment for a respectable gentleman 😎
@@alwaysbeclosing5797thinking about a good coat liner is something to do depending on your mode of carry. I learned this over 20 years of concealed carrying under a suit or sportcoat. That pistol and holster will wear a lot of ordinary liners out
As a nonsmoker and smoking being a hard no for me, I would not carry a lighter. However, the remainder of your suggestions were quite good. Thank you. I always recommend your channel to young men.
I completely agree with you, regarding smoking; however, I respectfully and humbly suggest carrying a quality lighter.
Haven't you ever wanted to be a man of the forest? Perhaps as a lumberjack? Those guys must at least carry wooden matches if not a lighter.
Agreed. If she smokes, she's disqualified. It has always been a disgusting habit.
@@peaceonearth8693if you're going into the woods you would bring things like a lighter and other camping equipment but you don't need a lighter everyday.
ONS is just fine if she smokes. Anything more than that, definitely not.
The editing, with the plain title prior to the next point, is appreciated.
> nauseating jump cut every sentence
> "the editing is appreciated"
Yeah, nah.
WRIST WATCH. Yeah, everyone has a phone, but a nice watch is classic. It's more discreet and less rude to glance at one's wrist to get the time than to have to pull a 3x6 inch brick with a screen out of one's pocket to check the time. I also keep a BOTTLE OPENER on my key ring. It comes in handy quite often.
Everything you said plus a small gentleman's knife, and my 1911. : )
Good comment
-remember to have your jacket tailored to conceal the bulge.
I have a pen that attaches to my keychain. I am amazed at how many times it has come in handy and made me look prepared.
I always carry an ankle tag (terms of my probation), a bottle of metholated spirit (reason for the probation), a stuffed alligator (talking point), and what was sold to me as a gentleman's heavy-duty butt plug but is actually very useful as a door stop
Once (upon a time in Switzerland) at a family reunion the grandfather of my now ex-wife needed a knive, and he said it used to be that every man carried a swiss army knive, and there was I, with my keyring pocket swiss army knive, saving the day. Tears I tell you. Also this video reminds me of when I, a non smoker, carried a lighter at clubs and bars. For like you say, just in case. Mine looks like a zippo, but it‘s matches in a steel box, to spark the conversation farther, ah the good times.
Great list but I would add to the list: a flashlight and a pocket knife. But I presume you’re in the UK where knives aren’t allowed haha. Also some kind of multitool and maybe even a spool of electrical tape. You can also wind some duct tape around a business card and keep it in your wallet for reuse. I also usually carry a bottle opener and some kind of first aid kit, trauma kit or at least a bandaid (plaster lol). Add tissues to the list separately from a hanky cause they serve two purposes.
I'm in the UK, A pocket knife with a folding non locking blade no longer than 3" is legal to carry. I carry mine every day and the markings have worn off the scales. However never never admit you would use it for self defence.
My take on these 5 items:
1) I carry a large bandana. Just find it more useful. You can bleach a white bandana with a black pastel design to be all-white.
2) Classy looking pen, and paper at all times. Mine is an inexpensive Shaeffer that looks much more expensive due to the black lacquer and chrome accents.
3) Mini-atomizer.... Will have to add that to my Everyday carry.
4) Cash, absolutely. _All_ men should be prepared for realistic eventualities. I carry a few different denominations on me. Plus, a $50 bill and a $20 bill in a hidden pocket in my wallet for emergencies. Was once at a well-known Pharmacy when all of their card-readers went down. Long line of people.... I was literally the only one able to pay for his purchases.
5) Lighter, yes; but never a Zippo. That's coming from someone with a nice collection of Zippo lighters. The issue is simple. The standard Zippo insert lets fuel evaporate. Not an issue for smokers. Very real issue for the rest of us. Imagine filling a Zippo full of fuel. Two weeks later encountering a woman who asks if you have a light. You pull out your Zippo, but all you get is a spark of flint. Embarrassing. Thankfully there are elegant, not too expensive lighters out there that you can fill with fuel, and said fuel will not evaporate.
_Would also recommend...._
6) A flashlight. Preferably a single-AAA LED model. Amazing how much power (both lumens and Candela) a very small modern-day light can produce. Very useful, not just outdoors late at night. A bare aluminum model is best for hiding both wear on the finish (no finish with bare aluminum) and for hiding tiny scratches that such a light might pick up over the years. Plus, it looks like something a modern-day gentleman would carry.
Pack of durex :)
And seriously pen and Zippo are great ideas, thank you for that
What no love for Rameses Extra?
Wouldn't recommend durex
Too fragile
I carry a sharp, sturdy folding type pocket knife, ever so useful, and so often needed - you become the man who gets things done - more used than the handkerchief
Cash and pens are good and I just started carrying a handkerchief. Very rarely do I meet people who do that, but it is useful.
Before viewing your video I will catalog my own EDC. I am a 63 year old Canadian man. Recently retired after 45 years.
Wrist
- Apple Smart Watch
Pockets
- Black Leather Wallet
- White Cotton Handkerchief (Clean, ironed, folded.)
- Car key
- Platinum Faber Castell Pen
- Gerber Folding Knife
Shoulder Satchel
- iPhone
- House Keys on a black ring
- Black Glasses Case w/Sunglasses
- Tungsten 'Tooth Pick'
- Small Waterproof Notepad
- Change Purse with ~$25 in change
- Plain Black Zippo Lighter (I do not smoke.)
Belt Pouch
- Gerber Anodized Black Multitool
- Magnum AA Black Penlight
This has served me well and presents me, in this University town, as an academic (Often mistaken for a professor from the local schools.) and seemingly approachable.
Now to view the video. I imagine this list will not match up with your own but it will be interesting viewing I'm sure. We each have different requirements in our lives and move in differing social circles.
Cheers.
I would suggesf a flashlight. I carry a very bright model that is smaller than a Cap Stick that operates on one AAA battery. Don't forget your small one blade pocket knife. 😊
You cary two handkerchiefs. One for you and an immaculately clean one for a lady in need. I lost an heirloom tortoise shell Shaffer. I don’t carry fine pens any more. I always have a safety pin on the inside of my lapel, in case of need.
If she smokes I'm not interested (period). Still, it's always good to have a fire source readily at hand - but as this would be for practical uses only it does not need to impress. I would add (as others have) a pocket knife; but only if it's actually sharp. (It's amazing how many guys I have met who carry dull ones. For goodness' sake, learn how to take care of your tools - keep your knives sharp. A dull knife neither helps nor impresses.) You probably don't want to hear this but I also carry a concealed handgun with a backup magazine. Additionally, I carry an 'out the front' tactical knife for defense and a 2000 lumen flashlight with an aggressive bezel - both to hopefully prevent my needing to draw the gun. The flashlight has often been useful in everyday life. The gun and tactical knife I hope I never have to draw but will be immensely grateful I had them if I need them. (It is well said, "When seconds count, the police are only minutes away.") I adapt and modify my outfits and my gear selection to suit each day's situation and my desire to carry either open or concealed.
My father always said, about many things, "Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it".
I always carry a small, pocket size flashlight. I like the S1R Baton II by Olight. It is small, bright, rechargeable, fits easily in your pocket and works great to illuminate the path to the car in a dark parking lot, or a dark hallway or doorway.
A gentleman without a knife or cutting instrument is simply not fully dressed.
What I have in the past 20 years is 1. Parker Pen 2.Handkerchief 3.House keys on leather organizer and car fob 4. Wallet 5. Phone. I’m almost 40 now and these hasn’t change. I have a multi-tool but it’s in the car inside my briefcase same as the lighter and compact flashlights for emergencies. I keep the lighter in case I need to light up something to keep warm especially here where I live where we have significant snowfall and deep freezing winters. Keep up the good work!
As an American,EDC is something completely different
Yep, I'd leave the "fragrance" and take a pocket 9 and a folding knife. 😉
@@johndelagarza361 hallelujah!
@@johndelagarza361A five shot.44 special for me.
@@spocko2181what are you, a 1920s private detective? lol
380. Like James Bond
Great suggestions! Except for the "lighter." I'm such a staunch anti-smoker, I'd more likely carry a fire extinguisher!
On a serious note, I love your content❤
Greetings sir ,
I really do appreciate your work
Your content is crucial
For today’s times
where men have almost lost
The art of carrying themselves
Elegantly.
I do want to humbly suggest you
That you make a video on
“ How to build a unique linen outfit collection”
for upcoming summers
If it’s possible
I would really appreciate it.
Best wishes for you.
Thank you
I will definitely do more videos on linen as we approach summer. Glad you’re enjoying the channel
I love your content, people seem to have forgotten about the importance of elegance.
Excellent advice. I learnt these tips years ago as an International traveller. Met Antonio Centeno in London , UK at meetup. He’s a class act.
I was gifted a rechargeable lighter as a corporate gift. I keep it in my suit pocket as the number of lovely ladies who ask for a light & then start a conversation with me is amazing. I have always carried a pen with me & again the number of conversations started by some charming ladies has been an eye opener.
Well, I do carry four out of the five. For the fragrance I prefer a "solid cologne" instead of liquid though. I never carry a lighter since I associate it with smoking which I absolutely despise. I just don't have a use for one anyway.
Number six should be some kind of pen knife or pocket knife. There are many great gentlemanly options out there.
Great video! Lighter, is always a nice touch. I have a zippo with my initials on it and a Dunhill style lighter though not as expensive. Handmade here in New York.
A gentleman never sends a signal that he'd like to interact with someone when he doesn't, so no lighter under any circumstances.
It's not like you're waving it around. You wait for the opportunity, then take advantage.
This guy makes me laugh more than anyone else on you tube. The voice, the high as balls eyes, the button down collars, the too big tie. It's comedy genius. At least i hope he's kidding, otherwise, he is deeply tragic.
I carry a pen with a stiletto that serves as a letter opener, and the pen is the pen, it always comes in handy in situations that you least expect it. A flashlight, which I need for my job. One time use, strong nitryle gloves. Usually if I don't carry my pen and stilletto combo, I tend to carry a separate pocket knife. Then the usual suspects come in such as, a phone and keys. Almost always I have my sunglasses with me and my leather shoe cover which I cannot find a place for, and it's used mostly when I ride my motorcycles with regular shoes.
That’s a great idea about gloves 👏
If you ever encounter the police. Won't a dagger blade (letter opener) and nitrile gloves be a bit awkward to explain?
Regarding a visibly unused pair of gloves and a knife which is hidden, unless you know with what you are dealing with, then it shouldn't be a problem. But I guess that also depends on where you live and what laws in region are that determine the use and carry of such objects. In my place its ok to carry it however you like and need without intent to harm someone. @@peaceonearth8693
Wallet/cash, OTF Marfione knife, keys, pistol /extra magazine, tourniquet. Done. Savage gentleman 🤣🤣🤣
tip with the hankerchief, spray a vanilla scent or lavender scent on it. its more comforting when being used.
I agree entirely with always carrying a fresh handkerchief, and in addition to the five items mentioned, I never go out without my Tiffany sterling silver business card holder, which contains cards, both with just my own details, as well as business cards. it is slim, elegant and fits into my inside pocket without it showing. I always observe a note of intrigue and recognition of refinement whenever I discreetly avail myself of it's use.
Every gentleman should have a Rapier, a horse, a servant, a squire, and a dragon to fight.
You forgot wolfhound.
@@antinancy well definitely some sort of pet. For me I want a donkey
I found your channel, and subscribed.
I'm an American. I attended a private boys' school on the east coast. Many of your principles of dress and behavior were modeled for us there.
We wore suits and ties to class. I well remember being constantly reminded to fasten the upper button on my dress shirt, as per one of your other videos.
Now I live in Wyoming, on a property outside Jackson Hole.
My EDC varies somewhat:
-Cash? Always.
-A pocket knife. Very sharp.
-A handgun. Small, expensive, reliable, understated. In a quality holster.
I have found that, here in my affluent part of the western US, the rules of dress are somewhat flexible. There is a sort of "western casual" dress code that combines jeans (unworn, clean) and cowboy boots (not the ones you wear to feed the horses) with a jacket and tie, even at semi-formal, and formal events. This was common here before the money took over, and has remained a tradition.
Oh, and for the fragrance atomizer, I have substituted beard oil.
I never leave home without my concealed carry weapon.
I sadly don’t live in the us so I only can concealed carry my pocket knife, the stupid thing is: I keep myself to the law so I don’t have a firearm but someone who’s out to do harm to my family or myself doesn’t keep to the law and thus might have a firearm, I’d have no use of a pocket knife in that situation then.
One day I hope to live in the us but for now it gets even worse because I’m moving to Belgium for an arborist certification and in Belgium even a pocket knife is illegal 😭
Me either! Be safe and be free, friend.
The only item on your list that I don’t carry is a fragrance atomizer. I only apply my Acqua di Parma during the evening. I was a Boy Scout. Our motto was, “Be prepared.” Consequently, I never leave home without a flashlight or a knife, as well. I’m prepared with the right tool options whether I’m going on a hike or out on a date. I especially love the elegant versions of each tool I carry when I dress my best, say, for an evening at the opera or to a wedding. These are some of the cool toys we get to have as men. ❤
What do you think about a comb? Incase you're on your way and want to look clean a comb could help, dont you think so?
Nice to hear. I am a "mature gentleman" and I have carried all of these items with the exception of the atomizer since I was a young man. However, in the past year or so, I have taken to carrying one of the atomizers. I believe these are relatively recent and as they are compact, they are easy to carry.
With regard to the lighter, yes, a Zippo is classic. Stay away from the gaudy theme lighters and stick with the very traditional versions. Zippo makes an "Armor" line that is heavy casting and very solid. It looks very established. Now, I know the purists out there would prefer the use of lighter fluid but honestly, the fluid evaporates before you know it. I opted for the butane insert. These look and work great and if you truly want a traditional yellow flame, they make an insert for yellow butane flame, as well. I have never had the butane leak or evaporate. It always works.
I don't smoke so carrying the lighter is just a courtesy and, as stated, "being prepared." I recently was at a birthday party and no one smokes and no one could like the candles - except me.
This is a good video. I think a gentleman should "be prepared" and discretely so. There is no need to flaunt anything nor should your pockets be bulging with a large Swiss Army knife. I do carry, in addition to the items mentioned, a very small pen know with a nail file, blade, scissors, screwdriver, and tweezers. This is Victorinox's smallest and thinnest pen knife. It is surprising how often I use it.
One other item: Keys - Go through your key chain. You don't need 10,000 keys. What do you really need day-to-day? Put those rarely used keys on a separate keychain and put that in your briefcase. Carry around a minimal number of keys, and put them in order so you can reach for the right one without fumbling for them in the dark.
Great that you take the risk of mentioning a lighther 😂
I agree with all those items. The fragrance is maybe not for me but I can see why some might want it.
That said, I do not consider myself to be a „gentleman“ as far as style goes. But that is no reason not to be prepared.
As a daily motorcycle rider (as in „I ride every day, not just in the summer or when the weather is nice“) I also consider a multitool and a flashlight / leadlamp an absolute necessity. I usually have either a Petzl headlamp or an Olight Baton on me.
I also will not be caught dead without either a Leatherman or at least a Swiss Army Knife. I often carry other specialized tools as well which I won’t go into. But they have at some point helped save either my day or that of one of my neighbors.
Edit:
Oh and one really useful tip for Zippo lighters: get the Zippo butane insert if you do not use your lighter regularly. It is a straight drop in replacement and saves you all the faffing about with refuelling all the time because the fuel keeps evaporating in a week.
For me, I always make sure I have business cards on me. Never know when a networking opportunity may arise.
Rather than a business card, I Cary a personal card. Name in the center. Phone number and email address in lower left corner. Plus, of course, a nice card holder.
Mask On Nurse Marty (Ret)
905 Comments On Handy Items A Gentleman Keeps On Him. Impressive. A Clean White Cotton Handkerchief Stuffed Into My Front Pants Pocket Keeps My Car Key & My House Key From Stabbing Me In My Thigh All Day Long, Plus I Use It To Clean The Lens On My Cell Phone Right Before I Shoot Video. If I Feel A Sneeze Coming On, Well Then I Am Well Prepared! The Handkerchief Is Something A Gentlemen Needs All Day Long. Another Great Video Man!
I carry Hot Wheels.
I was very pleased to see that 4 of the 5 items are already on my "checklist" before going out. I do not have the scent atomiser, but might consider it if the event warranted a refresh of cologne. I also carry 2 handkerchiefs. One is for me, the other is for the lady. I do not like the tissue use, as it is less sustainable. I do carry a lighter, but that is primarily for my cigars. Old married men like me are seldom approached by ladies asking for a light.
If a woman I was interested in walks up and asks me for a light, I am no longer interested. What are you talking about? It's 2024!
“It’s 2024!” Blech, no need to remind me.
@@spocko2181 what?
What difference does the year make?
If she’s smoking weed it’s more of a turn on. I’m a stoner at heart, I prefer it over drinking. I honestly hate the carts and pods people have been smoking lately. Old school joints will definitely catch my attention .
@@olbradleyyears ago people believed cigarets where healthy but today we know how unhealthy they are, that’s why he said “it’s 2024”
Excellent video, In the US their are some private school that teach what you just mention, unfortunately they are far and few. I need to add the lighter and spray. An additional item i carried is a small note pad. Thank you for adding the link for the pen.
Great video James! Great job!
Thank you, sir
Chapstick.
Mini composition notebook - 60 pages (Dollar General). Perfect if you’re unfamiliar. Fits in the palm of your hand.
Uniball 207+ 0.7mm pen (black)
AirPods
Phone / keys / wallet
Carry all but the lighter, not for me though ! ... as a non-smoker why would I be interested in a woman whose breath and clothes smell of stale ash?
Carrying cash is a habit I subscribe to religiously. Cash is king with bartenders, restaurant servers, parking attendants, street buskers, hotels concierge, even panhandlers, and those friends who ask “Do you have $5 or $10 for the parking valet?”
Additionally, I have had success with my lady friends when they ask “Do you have some money for an ice cream?” Handing them your whole stash of dollar bills says “I trust you with my cash and I support what you feel is important”.
What I would recommend additionally to this topic is to get yourself an elegant magnetic or spring money clip. That just steps up the experience when you hand your lady friend your cash when she asks. Again, I’m talking dollar or $5 bills - no more.
This guy would like to live in a Charles Dickens novel
Gentlemen were common up to 1964 or so.
I scored 80% on that "test". I shall remedy the omission of the mini fragrance forthwith.
Your discussion concerning carrying a lighter reminded me of a scene from the BBC spy series "The Avengers". Actually, I think it was the reboot "The New Avengers", but Steed was felled by a shot to his chest, but his sidekicks continue the pursuit and bring down the miscreants. Rushing to Steed's side they find him just coming 'round, and marvel at the fact that he is all right and there is no blood. To their bafflement he says that he wasn't hurt "because I am a gentleman." Their confused response prompts the further explanation, "I don't smoke, but I carry a cigarette case for those who do." The bullet to his chest had been stopped by his cigarette case.
Excellent channel, video and advice. Possibly one more item to consider; I would suggest using a money clip rather than one's wallet for carrying cash. You can keep the money clip in a handy pocket, then peel off the bills as needed. Tipping in cash is generally appreciated by servers, valets and most others, and I think it looks somewhat elegant (Don't over or under do it). As well, a money clip is a nice accessory. It's something that is a bit out of the ordinary nowadays, and unusual, unexpected things tend to linger in the mind of a potential companion. I would suggest not having an ostentatious wad of cash in the money clip. Carry only as much as you think you might need, in various denominations then, excuse yourself, if possible, to replenish the clip with cash from your wallet as you anticipate the need. I usually "stock" a $50, two $20's, two 10's and two $5's.Try not to carry less than a $5 bill; $1 bills are generally only useful at strip clubs. Also, under the proper circumstances, a cigarette lighter might sometimes do as a makeshift flashlight, or to light a lamp, a candle or a small campfire on the beach.. Treat yourself to a nice one.
I do carry with me a parker pen sometimes and, since I smoke cigars, I always carry a zippo (mine is silver, since most my accessories are, like the details of the pen and my watches). I would like to carry an handkerchief but I don't really know were to get one, and a small atomizer is on my list. Great video as always 👍🏻
A small Victorinox pocket knife with scissors. The one I use also has a small eye glasses screw driver which I lent to a fellow at a sporting event when his lens fell out. Countless times I have lent the scissors to trim broken finger nails
You asked about comments in your first video. Hey, you're cool, likeable and I like your style. So a fan!
I was in a swamp for 6 weeks on an Army Exercise a few years ago. On return to base, after a long shower, I found an aftershave sampler in my wash bag I had forgotten about. Best feeling ever knowing that not only was I clean and dry, I also smelled good.
Thanks for bringing back a good memory.
I hope your buddies appreciated your fragrance.
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The proper etiquette for a handkerchief is when you give it to someone to use they keep hold of it, launder it, and then return it to you.
I've been carrying one since age 12 and yes I do use it as a snot rag. Only old ladies carry packs of tissues.
@@jimmason8502 classy *snot rag* lol
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Clever Vid. FYI My EDC…
1/7: Tiny utility knife on my keychain . (Folds and looks like a key)
2/7: Handkerchief AND a fine disposable napkin.
3/7: Bic lighter (for many practical reasons I choose this over a Zippo lighter)
*Also I wrap a bit of black gorilla tape around it for quick repairs and emergency fire kindling
4/7: A tiny folded plastic bag (produce bag or baggie)
5/7: A nice but inexpensive retractable pen. ( no worries when I lose it)
6/7: Cash. Large and small demonstrations. *I love to tip the Un expecting often forgotten staff or clerk who serves me. SO Many Smiles!
7/7: Good attitude and a few positive words at the ready.
And of course wallet, phone, keys, etc.
Pocket fragrance is a great idea… I carry a tiny scented hand sanitizer bottle, does double duty.
Zippo lighters are cool but you had better make sure it stays fueled because it can evaporate pretty quickly. You don’t want to click it and not be able to flick it. A disposable Bic lighter is more reliable and still pretty iconic. Same thing with the handkerchief. I opt for a little pack of disposable tissues. Not as elegant but it works and would be just as appreciated in the situations you described. And of course always have a little cash 👍🏼
Yes, they do run out pretty quickly. It's not the coolest moment when you can't light it up 😂 At least it gives you an excuse to borrow someone else's lighter. Preferably a woman's.
You have reminded me of my dear, now departed husband, who always had these things, except for the lighter. Instead, his #5 was a pocket knife. Another substitute is business cards (blank on the back, of course) instead of a small tablet of paper. I've used them in a pinch.
Plenty of other similar responses, but I endorse having a pocket knife, specifically a Victorinox SD. This has a small but very sharp blade, a nailfile/screwdriver and a tiny but surprisingly useful scissors, as well as a tweezer for splinters and a toothpick. Or a couple bucks more gets you their Rambler model which adds a Phillips head screwdriver/bottle opener blade. Both are very small, less than 3" /7cm long and very unobtrusive in your pocket or on a keychain.
I would suggest a small pocket multi tool such as a Schrade dime or a leatherman. Just make sure you leave it in the car if you are going to an event or flying where it would be confiscated.
Let me suggest the Lamy Multifunctional Pen. It has a blue pen, pencil, and red pen in a single body. I have found this to be invaluable as I often want a pencil (erasable) for notes on a 3x5 note card i carry leather note card holder, but also may want to use it to sign something more permanent! The pen goes for around $55 at Amazon and has a suggested retail price of around $80. Great vid. Keep at it!
What a cool list you have compiled here. I've just ordered some atomisers from eBay as I like to smell fresh all day long.
In addition to keys, wallet, phone and spectacles, I typically carry a multifunction camping knife, a small bottle of sanitiser, two handkerchiefs and, if it's not too warm for a jacket, at least one pen.
Admittedly I used to blow my nose on a handkerchief, but since Covid I blow my nose on toilet paper and flush it away, because what better way to stop the spread? And I've only ever given other people clean hankies.
The handkerchief is a good one. I would add a pocket knife. Not a survival knife but a classy small one with a blade, scissors and tweezers.